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    Successful communication is at the heart of great teamwork, but words can mean different things to different people. We all tend to project our own biases onto commonly used words.
    Mary and David Sherwin - experts in team dynamics - have devised Teamwords, a collaborative card-based team-building system that cuts through differences to create consensus.
    If we can agree on the meaning of words at the start of projects, we will understand each other much better as we work together.
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    About Mary Paynter Sherwin:
    Mary Paynter Sherwin is a seasoned writer, educator, and public speaking coach with expertise in helping individuals and schools develop rigorous curricula and activities for their learning needs. She has worked on multiple successful training programs and product innovation toolkits, such as Kaiser Permanente’s i60 Innovation Toolkit with Propelland and frog’s Collective Action Toolkit. Along with David, she is on the faculty of PNCA’s MFA in Collaborative Design, and was formerly an adjunct professor at St. Mary’s College of California.
    About David Sherwin:
    David is a design leader, teacher, and strategist with deep expertise in creating new products, services, and training solutions. At companies such as frog, Lynda.com, and LinkedIn, he has led and coached dozens of large-scale product and service design teams, as well as helped to create training workshops and events for clients such as UNICEF, DARPA, and the World Economic Forum. Along with Mary, David is co-author of design bestseller Creative Workshop and Turning People into Teams.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 73

  • @shyamsubramoniam8895
    @shyamsubramoniam8895 Рік тому +19

    Teamwork's intensity can increase if you see your teammate as a friend or companion rather than a player.

  • @roxiechristie8809
    @roxiechristie8809 Рік тому +4

    Understanding one another job position is something I always try to stress at work. But someone can’t see pass their own job position and that’s why things won’t change.

  • @goodshiplollipop
    @goodshiplollipop Рік тому +11

    All talk no action. Typical middle management.

  • @Typical.Anomaly
    @Typical.Anomaly Рік тому +11

    Slip some "Cards Against Humanity" in the decks...

  • @connie0613
    @connie0613 Рік тому

    I love this sooo much. Ty!!

  • @reddrose9197
    @reddrose9197 Рік тому +10

    Brilliant idea 💡 I would also like this game in a Relationship version 👩🏽‍🤝‍👨🏾...

  • @pablolicata
    @pablolicata Рік тому

    Is there a link to buy the deck?

  • @SonjaDawn
    @SonjaDawn Рік тому +2

    Open communication is the key to unlocking everything, but people don't use it that way for a number of reasons, fear being a big one.

  • @changmark
    @changmark 4 місяці тому

    Could u please tell me the list of words used in the pack of cards?

  • @chuckmaddison2924
    @chuckmaddison2924 Рік тому

    The word professional usually/ normally refers to doctors, lawyers, engineers and the like.
    But there seems to be a trend to apply it to low skill, non - qualification type jobs.
    I believe it's because they can't say they are qualified but still take payment.

  • @idontknowanypotatochips3849
    @idontknowanypotatochips3849 Рік тому +1

    Wow... Impressed

  • @mvexler
    @mvexler Рік тому +2

    Is the word team generally understood?

  • @dame5179
    @dame5179 9 місяців тому

    Teamwork is mentioned as important but companies tend to fail to cultivate. If we can better communicate at work and if we can understand each other better as people, we’ll be on our way to building something even more beautiful. Need to rmb that

  • @shelbieayala
    @shelbieayala Місяць тому

    How do you buy this card game?

  • @raghugrinus4779
    @raghugrinus4779 Рік тому +4

    I don’t have any cards to play.

  • @CoryMckinnonHandle
    @CoryMckinnonHandle Рік тому

    Design thinking belongs in every facet of a business.

  • @RP-nc6et
    @RP-nc6et Рік тому +1

    SHARE THE BOOK NAMES

  • @MrFrak0207
    @MrFrak0207 Рік тому +43

    I think using "professional" was the worst example to use...who thinks about lunch and clothes when this word appears?! 🤣 competence, wise in a specific field etc. suits better..

    • @Prodigious1One
      @Prodigious1One Рік тому +5

      Yeah, you're right in terms of work skills, but I think she was mentioning the outside appearance that some people expect.

    • @wispybell
      @wispybell Рік тому +19

      Isn't. THat differemce in perspective the point?

    • @fabischn90
      @fabischn90 Рік тому +13

      Proving the point of the video. What professional means, is highly cultural. Coming from someome working internationally

    • @bloom4096
      @bloom4096 Рік тому +5

      It was actually an excellent example and you’re kinda proving it with your comment.

    • @vishnub6543
      @vishnub6543 Рік тому +2

      They didn't ask for the definition. So you can just say what comes to your mind when you hear the word "professional". And for different people,they think different things. Like for example if you ask me 'What do you think when you hear the word "lawyer"?',I would say Saul Goodman

  • @raghugrinus4779
    @raghugrinus4779 Рік тому +3

    I am sick and tired of being hacked all the time

  • @rwfeller
    @rwfeller Рік тому +2

    Try the game “Who You Are Matters”… builds on this and much more depth…

  • @DK-ic5uc
    @DK-ic5uc Рік тому

    what are these 44 words?

  • @importantname
    @importantname Рік тому +1

    does it improve profit margins ?

    • @RP-nc6et
      @RP-nc6et Рік тому

      Are you human and monkey?

  • @raghugrinus4779
    @raghugrinus4779 Рік тому +1

    My wifi can be accessed by only the surrounding to it that’s my understanding

  • @bradytimmons8921
    @bradytimmons8921 Рік тому

    where could I buy it??

  • @minbh7965
    @minbh7965 Рік тому

    You spiked it ALL over!!!!!!
    But the bear thing is - you both were collecting it together as well!!
    Now that’s a teamwork!?!!

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 Рік тому +1

    We appreciate your effort and dedication on this channel. God bless you.

  • @BPBomber
    @BPBomber Рік тому +1

    🤨

  • @TheSkystrider
    @TheSkystrider Рік тому +5

    I don't think going over a handful of words is sufficient. I think it takes a ton of time and effort to build team cohesion and agreed commitments.

  • @haveaniceday23
    @haveaniceday23 Рік тому

    Professional is someone who works in a profession that requires skills and knowledge

  • @sebbiefn8205
    @sebbiefn8205 Рік тому +1

    U just gotta pursue a state of flow/mindfulness/critical point/, where u experience the moment for what it is, and when you feel that there is a disconnect in the group's experience/understanding of the moment/idea, then you clarify the intention/wording to get everybody back on the same page so that you can work as a team effectively. Being in the same moment (common understanding of the facts). And understanding ideas in the same way is vital for good teamwork.

    • @sebbiefn8205
      @sebbiefn8205 Рік тому

      To understand/know ur teammates is imperative to resolve issues in communication

  • @Ron.xionzre
    @Ron.xionzre Рік тому +10

    This is what happens when teamwork becomes a metric instead of genuine collaboration effort to achieve a goal.

  • @erickouhai9818
    @erickouhai9818 Рік тому +1

    That is a great idea. Each of the team members should first define the meaning of "a team" or "team work". And then, they will have to agree to a single definition so that they set boundaries as to what they should and shouldn't do. It's give structure to the team. It's somewhat obvious when you really think about it, but it's the key in having a good communication.

  • @DownwindFrother
    @DownwindFrother Рік тому

    That's the way to downwind. Mad props. What gear is he on?

  • @craigmerkey8518
    @craigmerkey8518 Рік тому

    Interesting, this just reinforces my decisions to not work in corporate America! No chop chop chop thx

  • @love-wisdom
    @love-wisdom Рік тому

    This is awesome.

  • @ErinWeblover
    @ErinWeblover Рік тому +5

    Interesting that something as simple as adjectives unrelated to the project the group is focused on can foster the beginnings of better communication. I seems to me the idea here is to provide a central starting point for individuals to learn how each communicates best. Not only are they learning individual preferences, but also how each group member expresses themselves and communicates these preferences. I'm guessing both aspects help improve efficiency in the group. Excellent suggestion.

  • @gemeinschaftsgeful
    @gemeinschaftsgeful Рік тому +38

    Funny that the bosses are not on the team. Makes the team concept seem like a manipulation.

    • @BigHenFor
      @BigHenFor Рік тому +4

      Not really. I don't think you're experienced delegated teams, where there is no bosses involved in the work. In fact, a lot of the bosses wouldn't know where to start doing the work. Most organisations have also eviscerated their middle management and supervisory roles to save costs, even in processing work. So the team doing the might be all operational staff at the same grade. So, no bosses are required for team work.

    • @BornAgainstAll
      @BornAgainstAll Рік тому

      This really depends on the role the boss has to take. If your boss has a delegation role rather than a leadership role it's fair and expected for them not to be involved with your team. However, it would still be productive for both of you to participate in this game with each other as it will help them learn how to better delegate your team; hopefully improving your relationship.

    • @chuckmaddison2924
      @chuckmaddison2924 Рік тому

      Management do team building exercises.
      The difference is that at the lower end of the workers, they don't show them how to lead the team.

    • @tiroles
      @tiroles Рік тому +1

      @@BigHenFor I don't know about that. What I see more and more is more micromanagement and people who actually do the job being fired and all the bosses staying right where they were.

    • @MrAbstractj
      @MrAbstractj Рік тому

      If bosses or execs were to play this game, you can bet on a few Wild Draw 4 Card from a Uno deck. The only thing is, the bosses are the ones that are holding those Wild +4 cards.

  • @francescos7361
    @francescos7361 Рік тому

    Thanks , I appreciate but I prefer to invest in data science , statistic observation , industrial economy .

  • @United_Wings
    @United_Wings Рік тому

    👌🏼👌🏼

  • @josee1984
    @josee1984 Рік тому +11

    Corporate America...

  • @skrnjacul
    @skrnjacul Рік тому

    The fact this shit has so many positive reactions is everything you need to know why corporations can fuck with workers

  • @sewmika
    @sewmika Рік тому

    💪💪

  • @darenalleyne466
    @darenalleyne466 Рік тому

    🙏

  • @6_nikki_9
    @6_nikki_9 Рік тому

    KEKW

  • @quangdungpham4289
    @quangdungpham4289 Рік тому

    Your content recently are really touching. I am really enjoy what your channel doing. Thank you

  • @r8chlletters
    @r8chlletters Рік тому +1

    I’d absolutely hate a job that asked me to dive into my “feelings” in the workplace. Just give me my job and let me work. I’m not showing up for a therapy session! If we are all being honest, the issue with work harmony and flow isn’t with our language, it’s that a class of managers justifying their jobs needs to get out of the way so people can actually do the job they were hired for.

  • @buymyrv6517
    @buymyrv6517 Рік тому

    I only want you guys to do it if you’re actually helping me not hurting me

  • @2d271
    @2d271 Рік тому

    Looks useless to me