Necessary Attitudes in Recovery - Part 1/9 - Courage
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30 years of searching for what is wrong with me .. therapy. Medication... All to no avail. .. ONE WEEK of listening to this great man and already I'm understanding my issues and feel hope for once in my life.... GOD BLESS YOU SIR
Same
Same
That is so kool !
I feel the same.🎉🎉🎉
What therapists have you seen? 😂
I know! What is so different about his way of teaching?
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God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.....❤
Another gem from the legend of CPTSD recovery 👏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻 It's surprising how rare this knowledge and content are despite the prevalence of CPTSD. It's such a sneaky disorder and by its nature it makes the person who is affected by it less likely to seek help and understand what is going on with their lives until they reach rock bottom!
These videos are life-changing!! 🕊💕🕊 Thank you, Tim! 🙏🙏
I love this. I’m addicted to fear, I’m shocked addicts are as well.
I can see how anything so tender could resonate, Im actually surprised that I’ve been put on blast and my fear is in real-time and not a hoax
You are a blessing to so many!!!! Thank you for your UA-cam channel.
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Thank you Tim!!!
Life-saving perspectives and words of solace and truth.
You are a blessing.
The amount of terror I’ve faced on my road back to myself has been indescribable.
And yet you highlight precisely why it’s necessary, purposeful and ultimately for my highest good.
Thank you so much!
Fear had me suicidal and wanting to end my life as an extreme response of flight and freeze.
I LOvE you sharing that courage is a choice.
That’s a game-changer.
CHOOSING to get out of bed. To do the things I know are in integrity but my wounded parts may be terrified of.
Reparenting the petrified traumatized little boy inside.
Showing him I have his back.
Thank you so much.
I’m in tears of wonder and gratitude.
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Good talk, I stopped hiding and medicines...why?..because I wanna stop surviving (of 50 years) and start connecting and start living ❤
Wow, what a reframe! 🙌🏾😱🌀 Loved the chordal analogy🎹🙏🏾♥️🌈
Thank you for sharing this, very helpful. Blessings to You and your family
Thank you Tim. You helped me understand myself better.
Great video thank you for sharing.. .
🙌🏼 Tim explains it like I need to hear it, thank you 🙏🏽
I’ve let fear destroy my life
Thank you Tim. ❤
Thanks
BRILLIANT! 👏👏
SHERI you say that Everytime!
@@myoldfarmhouse4316 He's BRILLIANT every time.
Thanks to Tim, I have the tools.
l WISH l had a fear of talking...l have no mouth monitor it seems! l dont know what triggered that or why but it's been that way since l was small! l would just blab to anybody and sometimes l just can't shut up! l have a fear of rejection after l say stuff that l'm sure has shocked, offended or just left me vulnerable and raw!!! help!!!
I'm the same I really try not to but before I know it I'm giving my whole life story
Perhaps a response to anxiety?
It's a trauma response. Talking too much is usually from a childhood of not being heard. I have changed this by reparenting and listening to myself and having compassion on what I went through as a child. People don't like it when people talk too much and don't have interest in what other peoples stories are. You can change it.
Yes, trauma response...there is hope to calm your anxiety and you won't feel the need to fill all the empty spaces with words. I was shamed for talking too much
Im recovering, anyone can get through this especially with this teacher
That thing about the limbic brain taking over is helpful - calm it down with rhythm (tapping, stroking, pacing, drumming, breathing - anythjng that works) notice the rhythm and realise its ok to stop! But thats just the start - because then you can get curious about what set you off, why did it feel compulsive, the feelings around it. Eventually (my experience) is that suddenly you get that its EXACTLY what happened when you were xxx years old at yyyyy and talking got you out of a situation. THEN you get to tell yourself: Im a big person now, I have google and can research trauma and triggers and support and free online counselling and its going to be ok👍👍
🌸💜💙Awesome !!💙💜🌸
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Removing his blanket was a sexual and hopefully marital proposition. Trying to soften and homogenize it is calling it a "marriage" proposal.
The bible story also says that a woman's choices and freedom hinge on a man. It's a hugely dated & disempowering story as the courage today is to run away from any old man proposing and actually be fine if a husband dies because now there are multiple jobs for women other than gleaning & prostitution for those of us who have managed to secure equal rights... Courage now is as Tim said earlier on ' to be dischordant with sick people' and for women most of history has been a sick culture and a lot of the present too. Yes to courage for survival but please pick another story next time. The 'crazy men' picking on the gleaners is still too common by far.
Thank you....
You have to tk the culture into account when reading bible stories
I’m amazed at what generations prior endured, f that, I’ve yet to meet my equal. Equal but different or alone is sweet spot for me. I refuse any disorder. Maybe it’s hard to beat solitude, I sure hope not.
Yeah i wish a different story had been picked.
Another telling of Ruth is that Naomi was the Mother to Ruth that she had never had, the unconditional love she had never had before, that is why she followed Naomi. Naomi was the wise one, the loving one who gave Ruth the support to be anything she could desire to be. NO FREAKIN WAY Naomi didnt know and understand that Ruth was pretty and Boaz was single AND that Boaz had a family connection to her😂🤦😂😂
Accepting responsibility for me and stop being a shape shifter
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