She may be looking for a normal guy, but after seeing what's out here, a lot of normal guys have checked out. Dating other races, or trying to be a Passport Bro with no time for dating games that lead to nowhere.
Damn right. Plus she's making videos constantly and clearly this method isn't working. Why not try some other way? Why not try to make yourself attractive for the men you seek? I guess this takes discipline and commitment that most young (mainly Black women) don't want to engage.
EXACTLY. Which means, even for me, I don't date women who even try that.... If that's the type of men you like, I'm definitely NOT a man for you. Have a good one
She’s a pretty woman, so it’s definitely her attitude and personality that must be making dudes run. I can tell she only dates ones who make 200k+, drive an Audi or BMW, and are 6+ feet tall.
Are these women slow? Every week I see a story about black women on TikTok crying about black men not approaching them, let alone date them and they ask why as if they don’t know the answer.
1:03 maybe just maybe, that’s part of the problem? Making negative videos for 2 years and wondering why you’ve been single for 2 years. The lack of self-awareness is amazing.
The High Maintenance attitude is usually associated with extreme selfishness.... All of the expensive things she buys herself she can afford to take herself out to these high-end restaurants. She has actually priced herself out.... and of course the selfish attitude doesn't make it any better.
Men didnt make that theory up. Women formulated that in their own minds and tried to push it as fact. It all boils down to "it must be him because it certainly isnt me". Women hardly want to face reality that they are the problem so "he must be intimidated, he cant handle a strong independent woman, hes insecure, narcissistic" etc.
@@thumbsaloft Never understood why so many dudes say that. If men weren't intimidated by certain women, there wouldn't be such a thing as a simp or approach anxiety. Lot of rationalizing going on
I remember her, she made a video few months ago saying that she is a 10 and she is tired of dusty men approaching her. She is beautiful but anytime she opens her mouth she comes across arrogant especially in her previous video
Anyone a woman says that that makes her less than Average regardless of looks. That’s a very ugly thing to say. Lol and she wonder La why nobody taking her out.
Men don’t want to have to spend $300 on a date for a Woman who isn’t his. Also, the way you use certain tones to seemingly talk down to certain groups of men.
Come on bruh, everybody knows the black woman is perfect and should be worshipped like God almighty. Something must be wrong with men if women don’t get the results they desire. Hence this video.
Whereas men do self reflect and we are more introspective than women. If we say the wrong sentence a woman will dump you, if you open a door for a woman or don't open a door for a woman she will dump you, if you are "too nice" she will dump you. So we go into dates knowing we have to act a certain way to stand a chance. Whereas women go into dates like they are all 10s and they do not give a damn how we perceive them. Also, have you ever tried to give a modern woman constructive criticism? They will respond with rage and call you sexist. They are incapable of improving because they lack accountability.
I’ve never ever ever ever heard a man of any race or ethnicity say they’re intimidated by any woman. I really wish people would stop saying that. Maybe they’re just not attracted to you and your personality.
Also for us “local brothers”; she said she previously went out with brothers that were incarcerated w/ 10 kids, in other words Tyrone’s. You lay down with dogs, you get up with flees. Local HV men will judge you based on who you use to date . Just saying
Because the only black men they date are Pookies. When they get an Urkel or Carlton they lead him on to finese him while giving it away to Pookies for free. So now Urkel and Carlton have takfn their talents to other races of women.
Seems like a her problem but she trying to generalize it. It's you love. You see the shade she threw at black men too talking about 10 kids .... That's why no one taking you out on dates. It's just you sweetheart
Got 'em! She told on herself with that one. Instead of being able to attract middle class earners without children she can't seem to stop attracting Ray & Pook. The disconnect is she's complaining as if she's in the running for a slot at a prestigious IVY League college despite her G.P.A. only qualifying her for Junior College. KS would say, "Ma'am, for what you bring into the dating market your asking price is too high."
Why don't y'all ask the bears out on a date?. Don't y'all always say y'all are "strong and independent and don't need no man"? Take yourself out on dates. They take others out on dates. Just not a lot of y'all. 😂
@@sbolden123 I think you are confusing average and median. One person can earn $1,000,000 and 24 people can earn $0 and the average would be $40,000. The median income (50th percentile) is usually lower than the average income.
I considered myself broke making 75 annually in SWFL, while working on obtaining my Master’s & I wouldn’t even take some of these women at a Popeyes drive-thru due to most of them being eff up in the head.
How is 75k broke? Maybe in Cali or NY that’s considered broke but not every county/state is expensive to live in like the internet wants us to believe.
@@Agentunderfire I mentioned broke cause somewhere along the line a BW would've “Called me out. & you are right 75 isn't broke if you live within your means depending on the area my monthly bills are just under 3K.
@@Kevmora93 Right, and if you single with no kids, you’re definitely not broke. I wish I made 75k. Gotta stop letting women dictate what’s enough and what’s not enough. If they don’t like it, let them date each other 🤷🏽
In this case, speaking as a single black woman, I’m on the side of the guys on this one. Just too freaking much of everything going on with this lady.😅
Dating should be 50/50 ! That protects the man and the woman! Every man has the fear of being used, every woman has the fear of " expectations "! Since the true purpose of the date is to talk and get to know one another, going 50/50 removes all fears and expectations and gets down to connecting!
In America, the only men who take women on dates are the guys who have no other choice. Let's be real, no one would willingly spend $100 on an entitled stranger at Ruth Chris for usually nothing in return. She doesn't want the guys who resort to that.
Men are starting to get its not worth it. If you are a man with an athletic or buff build you already know you can get most women for free without trying.
Same reason I've been single a Lil over 20 years. I'm happier single and no woman has shown me otherwise. I sacrifice my happiness, peace and quiet for no one.
We are in our soft guys era. So please we tryna stay the heck away from y’all dramas. Take yourself on a date…We good cause you just seeking for attention for your PLATFORM.
Phil man listening is a skill although we tell them what we want the still don’t listen. It’s sad because they’re our #1 choice and will forever be, but we need love too and fortunately or unfortunately we look the other way.
She seems to live her life on her phone. Who wants to be around that. The moment you do something she doesn’t like she’s putting your whole information on the internet.
We finally tapped into "there's more fish in the sea" concept and quickly realized that it's true. Only this catch is softer, nicer, more feminine, more willing to help with less attitude.
women, please consider not flipping out at Walmart or Mcdonalds, you know, don't tear up the place because you are offended for some reason, and quite throwing blows!
Everything else is true but talking about "attractive", black women in this country are some of the most beautiful and attractive in the world. The attitude is the problem!
Phil is right. Impression = high maintenance Being highly active on social media, indicating that you won't keep interaction amongst the two of you to yourself. (Talk/tell too much). No offense.... The way you speak may not match the presentation. "They be doing..." "Tho" Polish the way you speak to match the presentation and feminity.
When she said, “who’s not a convict or who have 10 kids”, she basically said a whole lot without saying it. She wants a strait laced guy with no kids that’s papered up, but the market showed her what she qualifies for lol
I thought we was dusty?
Do not forget we’re crony, creepy, weird as they say 😮😮😮😮😮
@jdcaldwell5088 Only when you're smart enough to not be manipulated into her foot soldier and/or genie
Exactly
Yo mama black. That is all your honor. 🤣🤣
And broke.
She's lying. She's waiting for Superman to ask her out on a date. Any other guy in her mind is out of her league.
Well I got news for her.superman is not showing up.
She may be looking for a normal guy, but after seeing what's out here, a lot of normal guys have checked out. Dating other races, or trying to be a Passport Bro with no time for dating games that lead to nowhere.
😅😅😅😅 out of her league
@@patrickmccane3708 🤣🤣🤣 superman don't even exist, she's crazy
She seems a bit childish too for her age.
Once again…
She KNOWS WHY
exactly, I'm not sure why he bothers explaining any of this, she does these videos for views, because it's triggering for people
This chick has an OF account and she's also a former concubine of Akon. Definitely a hard pass
🤐same script:
good men= do dates
pookie =smash with no requirements
She's annoying that's why...🤷🏾♂️
💯 💯💯
no, she's not. you just hate black women and love becky is all
And I bet her breathe smells really bad.
Damn right. Plus she's making videos constantly and clearly this method isn't working. Why not try some other way? Why not try to make yourself attractive for the men you seek? I guess this takes discipline and commitment that most young (mainly Black women) don't want to engage.
@@KrimsonKannon1969I'm surprised some simp hasnt played along 😂😆😆....There are plenty in the U.S....That says something about her
She told on herself when she said she dates convicts. 😊
EXACTLY. Which means, even for me, I don't date women who even try that.... If that's the type of men you like, I'm definitely NOT a man for you. Have a good one
She's a carousel veteran.
I heard that part too 😲
She sounds like a constant headache.
Booooommmmmm!!!!
😂😂😂
😂🤣🤣
And she can’t stop making stop face 😳 with those creepy cat eyes
Some women are just tiresome. Not a moments peace. Can you imagine coming home from work and dealing with that?
Phil, the men are leaving and 63% of men have checked out.✈️
💯💯
She didn't date in 2 years, but she hasn't been celibate for two years...let that sink in.
That part!
Very underrated comment 💪🏽🙏🏽
Bingo! 😂
Like nobody really mentioned t of that. Yep
Your point 🖤🌹🖤🌹🖤🌹🖤🌹
She’s a pretty woman, so it’s definitely her attitude and personality that must be making dudes run. I can tell she only dates ones who make 200k+, drive an Audi or BMW, and are 6+ feet tall.
Lol probably true
She mid...
@@rong8889 That part in the middle tells me she is baldheaded.
facts
She also has a OF page
Are these women slow? Every week I see a story about black women on TikTok crying about black men not approaching them, let alone date them and they ask why as if they don’t know the answer.
Exactly, they know why, but want to tell men to “go be with each other then ”, when they get told the truth.
yeah. That's why we call them bird brains
She’s a side chick or jump off at best
Their not slow, their simple.
Kindly tell me, what's the reason? I'm not American, so I don't know what y'all are dealing with.
Women think they supposed to date strangers til age 100
Productive black men have been taking notes and finally waking up from the bs
1:03 maybe just maybe, that’s part of the problem? Making negative videos for 2 years and wondering why you’ve been single for 2 years. The lack of self-awareness is amazing.
Exactly!
I agree, lack of self-awareness
More Men Are Blocking & Ignoring Women These Days! 😂
Fr the prices are going up and tolerance is going down
Real talk 💯!! @@TheOneTrueNoName
Damn ,I thought I was special
@@TheOneTrueNoName 2024: ZERO TOLERANCE 💯
Men are totally becoming more and more and more risk ADVERSE
Her mentality answers her question.
Definitely, she seems very silly and childish. No real dude with options is dealing with her foolishness……
@@ChocolateAfterDark - 👍🏾
Taking women out on dates in 2024😂 they only make you take them on dates if they arent attracted to you & wanna waste your time.
Or get a free lunch
Exactly 😂😂😂😂
That's where we are at now. If you have to take her on dates, you already lost.
Fellas protect your sanity and your wallet in these current times
Everything is so expensive nowadays like what 🤣 I'm not entertaining any chick who's a high maintenance.
The High Maintenance attitude is usually associated with extreme selfishness.... All of the expensive things she buys herself she can afford to take herself out to these high-end restaurants. She has actually priced herself out.... and of course the selfish attitude doesn't make it any better.
Fact.
The way she keep bucking her eyes........nah
Army veteran 😢
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Right I can’t get over that it’s creepy like cat eyes “”😳””
Get your Passport bros and leave matrix women Drizzle Drizzle 😂😂😂✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️
DRIZZLE DRIZZLE!!
Oh yeah.. I just got mine last week. I’m out of here. Y’all can have them !!
Salute drizzle drizzle
I don't agree with the whole "men are intiminated by women " because its false
At all.
Indeed
No; it's not there are plenty of men that are actually intimidated by women, especially beautiful women!
Men didnt make that theory up. Women formulated that in their own minds and tried to push it as fact. It all boils down to "it must be him because it certainly isnt me". Women hardly want to face reality that they are the problem so "he must be intimidated, he cant handle a strong independent woman, hes insecure, narcissistic" etc.
@@thumbsaloft Never understood why so many dudes say that. If men weren't intimidated by certain women, there wouldn't be such a thing as a simp or approach anxiety. Lot of rationalizing going on
We ain't sh** remember? You don't need or want us remember.
She is physically beautiful. I can see it, bad attitude. Just telling it like it is.
She is fine though
Beautiful?!!! Naaaaa. With their attitude you can never see their beauty. And she ain't all that
She's very average- but even that's tossed once she starts speaking.
She also has a onlyfans
They think thats all that matters.
I remember her, she made a video few months ago saying that she is a 10 and she is tired of dusty men approaching her. She is beautiful but anytime she opens her mouth she comes across arrogant especially in her previous video
And sounds like a high school girl, ain't no Man taking her out talking like that.
10 exterior... 2 interior??? Nein Nein...
@@davido3109You need glasses if that looks like a 10 exterior to you. Silly ninja
Anyone a woman says that that makes her less than Average regardless of looks. That’s a very ugly thing to say. Lol and she wonder La why nobody taking her out.
She is not a ten!
All women on Earth has officially received the inflation memo; and some has chosen to purposely ignore it 🤷🏿♂️
Men don’t want to have to spend $300 on a date for a Woman who isn’t his. Also, the way you use certain tones to seemingly talk down to certain groups of men.
Woman have to self reflect...what is it about ME that does not give ME the results I want
They heard you say ME and fell into a fantasy about how great they are
Come on bruh, everybody knows the black woman is perfect and should be worshipped like God almighty. Something must be wrong with men if women don’t get the results they desire. Hence this video.
Whereas men do self reflect and we are more introspective than women. If we say the wrong sentence a woman will dump you, if you open a door for a woman or don't open a door for a woman she will dump you, if you are "too nice" she will dump you. So we go into dates knowing we have to act a certain way to stand a chance. Whereas women go into dates like they are all 10s and they do not give a damn how we perceive them. Also, have you ever tried to give a modern woman constructive criticism? They will respond with rage and call you sexist. They are incapable of improving because they lack accountability.
She talk to much. That's why brothas ghost her.
She's the prize to the men she doesn't want, but the man she does want is the prize!
I’ve never ever ever ever heard a man of any race or ethnicity say they’re intimidated by any woman. I really wish people would stop saying that. Maybe they’re just not attracted to you and your personality.
REAL MEN ARE NOT STUPID
Nope
Also for us “local brothers”; she said she previously went out with brothers that were incarcerated w/ 10 kids, in other words Tyrone’s.
You lay down with dogs, you get up with flees. Local HV men will judge you based on who you use to date . Just saying
She's "STRONG", "INDEPENDENT" and She don't "NEED" a "MAN" That's why this Modern Woman Don't have any Dates.
Because the only black men they date are Pookies. When they get an Urkel or Carlton they lead him on to finese him while giving it away to Pookies for free. So now Urkel and Carlton have takfn their talents to other races of women.
Urkel? ....I go by "Steffon" now 😎
@@NoMoneyOut Drizzle Drizzle ✊🏿💯
I haven’t dated for 4 years but my Bank account can finally breathe
Same here fam, the bank account filling up the right way, matter of fact I started doing way before the high inflation.
@alphabarre9096 yeah that’s the right way to do it . I’m taking my time no rush in let my financials build at the same time too
Sisters are beautiful., but they're dangerous., can't trust em. Men just want peace.
The ultimate dilemma with black women
Am I the only one who noticed her Hairline? Or am I imagining this.
No, she’s bald headed under that hair hat 😂😂Lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I noticed 😂😂😂😂 it's it's high as hell 😂😂
She’s not bald. She has long hair. She’s a UA-camr
Mannn it's hella bald headed female UA-camrs.......@@biancalord488
I peeped it, too 😅
Seems like a her problem but she trying to generalize it. It's you love. You see the shade she threw at black men too talking about 10 kids .... That's why no one taking you out on dates. It's just you sweetheart
Got 'em! She told on herself with that one. Instead of being able to attract middle class earners without children she can't seem to stop attracting Ray & Pook. The disconnect is she's complaining as if she's in the running for a slot at a prestigious IVY League college despite her G.P.A. only qualifying her for Junior College. KS would say, "Ma'am, for what you bring into the dating market your asking price is too high."
Why don't y'all ask the bears out on a date?.
Don't y'all always say y'all are "strong and independent and don't need no man"? Take yourself out on dates. They take others out on dates. Just not a lot of y'all. 😂
I Thought We Were Dusty.
I Thought We Weren’t Needed.
she isn't trying to be in a relationship she talking about gifts. showing off purses.
😂 black men don't have it like that. Our average salary is $42,000 and inflation has hindered that ❌👎💯
I am a black male and I made 210k+ in each 2022 and 2023.
@@christansdad I said the average black man's salary is 45k. Obviously you're an exception
@@sbolden123 You sound weird asf bruh lol … Was this suppose to be a joke
@@sbolden123 I think you are confusing average and median.
One person can earn $1,000,000 and 24 people can earn $0 and the average would be $40,000.
The median income (50th percentile) is usually lower than the average income.
@@christansdad tomato 🍅 tomahto
Feminism, csncel culture, Me TOO and Times Up has ruined the dating game.
I considered myself broke making 75 annually in SWFL, while working on obtaining my Master’s & I wouldn’t even take some of these women at a Popeyes drive-thru due to most of them being eff up in the head.
How is 75k broke? Maybe in Cali or NY that’s considered broke but not every county/state is expensive to live in like the internet wants us to believe.
@@Agentunderfire I mentioned broke cause somewhere along the line a BW would've “Called me out. & you are right 75 isn't broke if you live within your means depending on the area my monthly bills are just under 3K.
@@Kevmora93 Right, and if you single with no kids, you’re definitely not broke. I wish I made 75k. Gotta stop letting women dictate what’s enough and what’s not enough. If they don’t like it, let them date each other 🤷🏽
Bro you ain’t broke you in the top 15 to 12 percent of men in earnings. Your on a good path
I make 83 k AND feel broker as hell living in Toronto
In this case, speaking as a single black woman, I’m on the side of the guys on this one. Just too freaking much of everything going on with this lady.😅
Im stacking up for oversees
You too. I’m saving up and will retire in the next three years and I’m headed to South Africa.
Same here🛫
Please go, nobody needs ya 😂
ME TOO...!!!!
@@princychickricin9437shut up chicken head
The word of the day is ignore not intimidation!😮
If women get out of there own head living in LA-LA-LAND and start living in reality then they would understand.
And they wonder why the passport is gold!
Passport Life ✈️✈️✈️
She got a whole wig on her head and wondering why men don't want to take her on a date
Dating should be 50/50 ! That protects the man and the woman! Every man has the fear of being used, every woman has the fear of " expectations "! Since the true purpose of the date is to talk and get to know one another, going 50/50 removes all fears and expectations and gets down to connecting!
In America, the only men who take women on dates are the guys who have no other choice. Let's be real, no one would willingly spend $100 on an entitled stranger at Ruth Chris for usually nothing in return. She doesn't want the guys who resort to that.
No it isn’t the men on her level may not want her for certain reasons it’s not an intimidation factor
Sounds like someone is jealous. But you're independent and can take yourself out on a date.
😂😂 dont forget Strong
She’s a beautiful black sister 🤎 but shes a lot toooo handle I’m sure
Beautiful is a stretch
Crazy eyes.
Men are starting to get its not worth it. If you are a man with an athletic or buff build you already know you can get most women for free without trying.
She's also a nightmare customer to deal with. Creates problems for no reason at all. She's purchased from me before on Amazon.
She needs to take herself on that date 😂😂😂😂 Drizzle Drizzle
😂🤣🤣🤣
I haven’t been on a date since 2021 🤷🏽, focus on yourself fellas
🧢guarantee she’s leaving most of those dm’s on read. most men don’t meet their shallow standards.
BINGO!
Same reason I've been single a Lil over 20 years. I'm happier single and no woman has shown me otherwise. I sacrifice my happiness, peace and quiet for no one.
Another woman who is a legend in her own mind! Maybe she needs to do more introspection to find the answer of her question.
Let a woman talk for two minutes and you quickly understand what the problem is..... .
Maybe we want a coffee date and we already know how that goes with certain women
We are in our soft guys era.
So please we tryna stay the heck away from y’all dramas. Take yourself on a date…We good cause you just seeking for attention for your PLATFORM.
drizzle drizzle
I wouldn't step up because she puts all her business out there. When she doesn't run an actual business. Simple 🤣😂
Fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, childless and no silly weaves, nails, lashes, tattoos. Not much for productive BM to ask for, IMO.
Phil man listening is a skill although we tell them what we want the still don’t listen. It’s sad because they’re our #1 choice and will forever be, but we need love too and fortunately or unfortunately we look the other way.
She seems to live her life on her phone. Who wants to be around that. The moment you do something she doesn’t like she’s putting your whole information on the internet.
Barkays said it the best " it's your attitude "!
We finally tapped into "there's more fish in the sea" concept and quickly realized that it's true. Only this catch is softer, nicer, more feminine, more willing to help with less attitude.
women, please consider not flipping out at Walmart or Mcdonalds, you know, don't tear up the place because you are offended for some reason, and quite throwing blows!
Black men should consider dating abroad. It's cheaper and ladies are more traditional. Also more attractive..
Be careful out there, passport bros have been getting set up and killed in some cases
Exactly! And they are FAR more genuine.
Some already have. # passport bros.
@sirblack1619 because they playing the long game and you taking care of her whole family.
Everything else is true but talking about "attractive", black women in this country are some of the most beautiful and attractive in the world. The attitude is the problem!
maybe she's on that eboni k. williams 'I don't date bus drivers' vibe and men can sense it
"When the problem ask, What's the problem"
I guarantee she passed up the bus and truck driver's, Mechanics and teachers she want a specific 6 figure guy.
I'm pretty sure nobody gave her a present in the last two years but SHE sure as shooting is giving at least one man her.. gift. Just saying.
My thoughts exactly but I'd raise the at least number a bit more
She was on Kedra G. She's also on OF. So she know why she hasn't been on a date two years.
YOUNG LADY THIS VIDEO SAYS MORE ABOUT YOU THEN IT SAYS ABOUT MEN! PEACE!!! 💜✌🏾🙏🏾
It will never work, for spiritual reasons. Period
She's not serious!😏
We don’t want that headache
Janquavious...😂
Drizzle-Drizzle!🤣😂🤣😂🤣
A grown woman wondering, "Why???"
Amazing!
I’m a black woman and have no problem getting black men or ANY man to take me out. She’s choosing wrong
Social media was the worst thing that happened to women.
It’s too expensive to date now, just to SEE if someone will take you seriously
Cook dinner with or for me 😂 ladies
Phil is right.
Impression = high maintenance
Being highly active on social media, indicating that you won't keep interaction amongst the two of you to yourself. (Talk/tell too much).
No offense.... The way you speak may not match the presentation.
"They be doing..."
"Tho"
Polish the way you speak to match the presentation and feminity.
LMAO...but theyve rolled thru to BEAT DA BUNZ!!
Men have awaken.
👋🏾👉🏾✈️🌴
Because they really trying to get to know us. Coffee dates are cool. Walking and talking really means something
Oh yeah she knows exactly why guys don't ask her out.....look at the way she talks, its definitely her attitude.
Notice the type of BM she attracts. That tells me everything about her.
So they dedicated their time to being unreasonable to us and then ask questions like this? She's not serious.
When she said, “who’s not a convict or who have 10 kids”, she basically said a whole lot without saying it. She wants a strait laced guy with no kids that’s papered up, but the market showed her what she qualifies for lol
It's funny how they think we are supposed to take them somewhere.
She is definitely the stereotype 😂