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Woman Cracked The Code On Why Men Refuse To Marry Women That Receive Too Much Attention

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  • A woman shared with other women that women who attract too much attention will have a hard time becoming a wife for several reasons.

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  • @thesuperdingos
    @thesuperdingos 3 місяці тому +220

    She’s right: the cute modest girl is the one you bring homes

    • @freddy8479
      @freddy8479 3 місяці тому +6

      Whom will be VETTED BY MOMMA!!!

    • @cjjohnson3827
      @cjjohnson3827 3 місяці тому +16

      Them the ones I usually go for. Not them chicks with the ig model start up kit. BBL, weird eye lashes, and lace front hair hats. Give me a natural woman any day of the week.

    • @freddy8479
      @freddy8479 3 місяці тому +4

      @@cjjohnson3827 INDEED AND AGREED 💯

    • @kevingordon8275
      @kevingordon8275 3 місяці тому +3

      Always & 100%

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 3 місяці тому +2

      Then how come those girls are single?

  • @TheMhtsxplz
    @TheMhtsxplz 3 місяці тому +170

    The problem is the good women now and days are standing too close to bad ones and some even dress like bad ones.

    • @johncoleman3576
      @johncoleman3576 3 місяці тому +6

      Facts

    • @TheMhtsxplz
      @TheMhtsxplz 3 місяці тому +8

      @BlackWomenExposedByCrimsonCure
      You can’t speak for what I’ve seen in my lifetime, I’m soon to be 57 and I’ve seen a lot of Tom Foolery from men and women.

    • @Maxx-mw2zt
      @Maxx-mw2zt 3 місяці тому +13

      Good women don't hang out with those types. Their character would clash. It's an internal thing not external. She's attractive from the inside out.

    • @TheMhtsxplz
      @TheMhtsxplz 3 місяці тому +5

      @BlackWomenExposedByCrimsonCure
      And again you can’t speak for what I’ve seen and you can’t give me my opinion on what is good or bad.

    • @TheMhtsxplz
      @TheMhtsxplz 3 місяці тому +2

      @@Maxx-mw2zt
      It’s better to say you don’t hang out with these women, again what I’ve seen suggests that they do.

  • @user-vd8oc1it2h
    @user-vd8oc1it2h 3 місяці тому +154

    Character, class and modesty matters.

  • @JBoomer-pi6ml
    @JBoomer-pi6ml 3 місяці тому +196

    Fit, feminine and friendly- With positive Character.

    • @freddy8479
      @freddy8479 3 місяці тому +9

      DON'T FORGET "QUALITY!!!"

    • @chipstowe2490
      @chipstowe2490 3 місяці тому +7

      How many times we said that n even k.s say it smh they don't care to listen

    • @BlueKidSwag
      @BlueKidSwag 3 місяці тому +2

      RIP to Mr Samuels.

  • @TRC19999
    @TRC19999 3 місяці тому +115

    You don’t bring home 304s to meet your family

  • @Kris-ym2zr
    @Kris-ym2zr 3 місяці тому +125

    Yeah, down to earth, modest and humble wins the day.

  • @theoriginal668
    @theoriginal668 3 місяці тому +141

    She is spot on. Ive always avoided those type of women and went for the low-key woman

    • @mfati9077
      @mfati9077 3 місяці тому +3

      Cos in honesty, you are broke!

    • @PatricioJoseph
      @PatricioJoseph 3 місяці тому

      @@mfati9077 get rich...
      avoid a b--ch

    • @ericlewis450
      @ericlewis450 3 місяці тому

      ​@@mfati9077AND YOU SOUND LIKE A GOLDDIGGER

    • @yayeeva7745
      @yayeeva7745 3 місяці тому +17

      ​@mfati9077 what does that have to do with being broke? 🤔🤔🤔

    • @teelove4443
      @teelove4443 3 місяці тому +23

      ​@@mfati9077You can't get mad at him because men aren't choosing you 😂

  • @walidshabazz5193
    @walidshabazz5193 3 місяці тому +50

    When choosing a woman, consider these three qualities: peace, pleasantness, and truthfulness.

  • @backissue7373
    @backissue7373 3 місяці тому +91

    Who wants an attention seeker raising his children?

    • @mikecarter5631
      @mikecarter5631 3 місяці тому

      Raising his children, collecting child support, and alimony, from him, while living in the house he bought for them. No man wants that.

    • @Army_Brat1980
      @Army_Brat1980 2 місяці тому

      Especially when hes gonna run off anyway? She needs to be focused.

  • @TruthSeeker30_
    @TruthSeeker30_ 3 місяці тому +106

    All that attention growing up from their beauty stunts their mental growth

  • @darnellrhodes6174
    @darnellrhodes6174 3 місяці тому +27

    A woman’s past is a clear indication of who she is as person!!

  • @bcinnamonclark8301
    @bcinnamonclark8301 3 місяці тому +54

    Sundress wearing Down to Earth Beautiful women are always on the top of the list.

  • @oneperson1138
    @oneperson1138 3 місяці тому +43

    Finally, a woman who is absolutely correct. She gets it, cause that's exactly what I look for in a woman.

  • @ammonioussaccas
    @ammonioussaccas 3 місяці тому +80

    She’s not lying.

  • @marshallallied
    @marshallallied 3 місяці тому +17

    Basically, a sensible man knows: Beauty fades; Ugly stays.

  • @Cahluvca
    @Cahluvca 3 місяці тому +21

    My elders said this regardless of gender....a princess ISNT a helpmeet!

  • @gotti400082
    @gotti400082 3 місяці тому +33

    That woman knows the real💯
    I remember this one feminine down to earth lady I tried to holla at turned me down gently but she was so sweet about it she even hooked me up with her homegirl
    Notice I said ONE
    because they are hard to find these days
    I have never been so happy after being rejected on that day😂

  • @KopJustin
    @KopJustin 3 місяці тому +62

    Ecclesiasticus 26:23 - “A wicked woman is giuen as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is giuen to him that feareth the Lord.”

    • @xavierdorsey2160
      @xavierdorsey2160 3 місяці тому +3

      No disrespect but I don't believe that happened like that always, there are good women out there who were in a relationship with a man who turned into monsters and vice versa. I watched documentaries about things like that. So I don't believe that's always true.

    • @KopJustin
      @KopJustin 3 місяці тому +4

      @@xavierdorsey2160 Just quoting scripture ..not my opinion

    • @Payday-ky7mb
      @Payday-ky7mb 3 місяці тому +13

      Proverbs 5:3-8 son stay away from that adulterous woman. Her lips drip honey but her heart is bitter. She chooses death over life. Her foot steps lead to the grave.

    • @xavierdorsey2160
      @xavierdorsey2160 3 місяці тому +2

      @@KopJustin I'm not hating on you for that. Nothing wrong in quoting scriptures from the Bible I'm just saying.

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 3 місяці тому

      "27For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit. 28She also lieth in wait as for a prey, and increaseth the transgressors among men."
      (PROVERBS 23:27-28)

  • @bert891
    @bert891 3 місяці тому +55

    They typically don’t become down to earth until they become a baby mama. Now they’re all friendly and ish 😂😂😂😂

    • @lyricistdestroyerqueensbor8782
      @lyricistdestroyerqueensbor8782 3 місяці тому +16

      Exactly... after they go to prenatal appointments by themselves is when they become down to earth 😂

    • @IAMCONCEITED
      @IAMCONCEITED 3 місяці тому

      They dumb ass got humbled that’s why 😂

    • @SSNRadi0
      @SSNRadi0 3 місяці тому +1

      Oooo wee wee 🤣🤣🤣

    • @kennethsmith1897
      @kennethsmith1897 3 місяці тому +3

      😂😂😂😂

  • @charlesbeatty888
    @charlesbeatty888 3 місяці тому +25

    Unconsciously. I've never approached a woman who wore makeup or a wig. It's the natural hair, Down to earth, no make up...the smile.

  • @afronational2340
    @afronational2340 3 місяці тому +17

    Even as a kid I always said "sexy" has the word sex in it. It's that simple.

  • @Reignsupreme76
    @Reignsupreme76 3 місяці тому +5

    This sister is absolutely right. Men, like myself, goes for a woman that is attractive and down to earth.

  • @blackhawk6695
    @blackhawk6695 3 місяці тому +15

    Men will date down for peace! & a win!

  • @hundreds2696
    @hundreds2696 3 місяці тому +29

    Girls like that after you had them 4 or 5
    Times you not even pressed about her anymore.

    • @user-bh6pq9oj9l
      @user-bh6pq9oj9l 3 місяці тому

      Facts..the baddies usually are boring, the s3x is typically average, and they are not good people at heart!

    • @MyNameIsUnavailable
      @MyNameIsUnavailable 3 місяці тому

      Bingo

  • @Zoloft77
    @Zoloft77 3 місяці тому +19

    One of the main reasons I avoided the popular girls. To me, popular means tainted and drama.
    Ironically, ignoring them somewhat makes them approach you. At least in my experience. 😅

  • @jeffreyscorner123
    @jeffreyscorner123 3 місяці тому +18

    She's right i go for the quiet modest cute women. I love humble beauty

  • @jmatt7804
    @jmatt7804 3 місяці тому +11

    Spot on !! She completely understands how men works !!

  • @MyNameIsUnavailable
    @MyNameIsUnavailable 3 місяці тому +11

    *The Rolls Royce Theory:*
    I'll look at it, _but I will _*_NEVER_*_ take over the payments._

  • @stephenfoster1257
    @stephenfoster1257 3 місяці тому +15

    The song "Roses" by Outkast sums it up perfectly.

  • @OnyxTiger
    @OnyxTiger 3 місяці тому +8

    You also gotta be careful, some of these 304's act like they are ladies just to trick a man.

  • @Payday-ky7mb
    @Payday-ky7mb 3 місяці тому +11

    The 304 mafia is everywhere and becoming harder to spot.

  • @markf.5551
    @markf.5551 3 місяці тому +20

    That's why it's best to explore the world before you chose a modern women!!!

    • @ammonioussaccas
      @ammonioussaccas 3 місяці тому +3

      If they have the internet they’re modern. Good luck.

    • @yayeeva7745
      @yayeeva7745 3 місяці тому

      ​@@ammonioussaccas😂😂😂 so simple?

    • @jahbless4ever
      @jahbless4ever 3 місяці тому

      Exactly

  • @alexnevermind2764
    @alexnevermind2764 3 місяці тому +12

    She has developed an attitude plus she can’t be trusted when you’re not around and she shows no interest in covering up and dressing tasteful conservative.

  • @poeticwisdom3
    @poeticwisdom3 3 місяці тому +10

    I absolutely agree with this woman's statement.

  • @user-vk6qs7wn9d
    @user-vk6qs7wn9d 2 місяці тому +4

    I always loved a woman that’s very god fearing, good heart, beautiful, and naturally nurturing low key divia

  • @Ob_BarberStylez
    @Ob_BarberStylez 3 місяці тому +8

    Unc is speaking true facts. Sleeping with and wifing are completely different. Many times women radiate beauty but the heart/mind/soul do not match the exterior. Shadow work/inner work and character and value development will bind a man to a woman even after the natural beauty departs.

  • @shamashwanyasharahla
    @shamashwanyasharahla 3 місяці тому +9

    Broke the sister code lol

  • @CoolGent87
    @CoolGent87 3 місяці тому +7

    Proverbs 31:11-12,30-31
    [11]The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
    [12]She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
    [30]Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
    [31]Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

  • @curtisalleyne3710
    @curtisalleyne3710 3 місяці тому +2

    Humble women get the prize 🏆

  • @rons3634
    @rons3634 2 місяці тому +2

    Better off with a woman who is a 6 and knows she's a 6, rather than a 10 who knows she's a 10. Even worse is the 6 that thinks she's a 10.

  • @jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71
    @jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71 3 місяці тому +9

    Well one day God Almighty Yah put this quote on my mind and I will not forget it.
    "A none virtuous woman has about as much value as a wooden penny at best and detrimental at worst."
    When I ask women are they truly virtuous women they could not honestly say yes.

  • @Sapphire-w9m
    @Sapphire-w9m 3 місяці тому +2

    Wow, this video hits home! As a woman, I've always wondered about this 'attention' factor in relationships. I want to hear this woman's insights and gain some clarity on what really goes on in our heads when it comes to commitment. Let's dive in

  • @sbolden123
    @sbolden123 3 місяці тому +13

    Good Valid points 😊

    • @kazi1
      @kazi1 3 місяці тому +4

      Fr

  • @doretteolivera2963
    @doretteolivera2963 3 місяці тому +2

    Too much contradictions.Some wants a hottie,some wants a modest woman and t them they complains that she let herself go.

  • @freddy8479
    @freddy8479 3 місяці тому +7

    Besides the attributes that she mentioned, it's all about THE QUALITY for us!!!!

  • @Yahshe
    @Yahshe 3 місяці тому +11

    But it's not fair. Those men like Wild 'n out with the 304s. Then after they've got it all in, now they wanna nice clean decent girl. No. Stay there. Leave the decent girl for a decent man. You can't have your cake and eat it too. No. It's no different to a man that won't wanna be with a woman even though she WAS a 304 but changed her life. He gets no passes either.

    • @Floridabound561
      @Floridabound561 3 місяці тому +4

      Yesss this is so truee

    • @jsimeonf9141
      @jsimeonf9141 3 місяці тому +3

      The problem is that you think men and women are the same , you start off by saying it's not fair

    • @Yahshe
      @Yahshe 2 місяці тому

      @@jsimeonf9141 It's not. Women don't get a pass and neither do men.

    • @user-jy2tt9gc9b
      @user-jy2tt9gc9b 2 місяці тому

      Life ain’t fair . You haven’t realized that yet ?

  • @armandoperez7967
    @armandoperez7967 3 місяці тому +6

    The drop dead gorgeous woman have as much traffic as the Lincoln and Holland Tunnels, for the most part. Not all, but most of them.

  • @Bigfish1day
    @Bigfish1day 3 місяці тому +5

    Plain Jane for me. But be careful some of them are rotten apples too.

  • @j.smoov7220
    @j.smoov7220 3 місяці тому +2

    I get what she's saying but it's not that we don't want a sexy woman because the cute modest lady is still sexy. We just don't want an over sexualized look/vibe that draws the wrong attention.

  • @deeolusanya9325
    @deeolusanya9325 3 місяці тому +2

    It’s called class.

  • @nicolasjones3378
    @nicolasjones3378 3 місяці тому +1

    She is 100% right.

  • @stayhard2796
    @stayhard2796 3 місяці тому +6

    10000%Facts

  • @househeadspeakz
    @househeadspeakz 3 місяці тому +1

    She's correct. I prefer the cute, humble girl next door type. A woman I can bring around and family and close friends.

  • @joycewatt8289
    @joycewatt8289 3 місяці тому +1

    4:55 As a woman
    No lies found here ☝🏽
    He said it…..
    “Get a therapist”
    Internal authentic beauty is better than the exterior facade that many women focus on.

  • @Reignsupreme76
    @Reignsupreme76 3 місяці тому +2

    It's funny how things are the opposite when it comes to the genders.
    Women love popular guys, but men do not like women that alot of people know.

  • @mannysantana
    @mannysantana 2 місяці тому +1

    She’s right but the problem is: 1, there aren’t enough cute and feminine woman to begin with, 2, the ones that do exist are taken by the time they’re 25 years old, and 3, the ones who aren’t taken have too many walls up and emotional expectations (opposite of the materialistic expectations the party girls have.)

  • @Affiliate067
    @Affiliate067 3 місяці тому +1

    Personable and friendly plus beautiful is top tier.

  • @seangarvey3875
    @seangarvey3875 3 місяці тому +2

    Like seriously? This is news. We don’t bring home 304s. This is as old as time.

  • @GMacII
    @GMacII 3 місяці тому +1

    I didn't fully grasp this until I matured. My mentor's advice when I was younger was, "Enjoy yourself, but when you're ready to commit, aim for a solid 7." It's remarkably accurate. A perfect 10 might not be so easy to work with-they often think they know it all. A 6 or 7, however, is receptive to coaching and stunning when dressed up. The allure of the girl next door is what most men truly desire.

  • @uncannytheos2454
    @uncannytheos2454 3 місяці тому +2

    We tell them this all the time but they always ignore what we men say. Welp there bitter old an alone now. Shouldn't have been prideful an foolish wasting your years

  • @bryanmcgee7522
    @bryanmcgee7522 3 місяці тому +7

    Yep "THE GIRL NEXT DOOR TYPE"

  • @Kiki-ko1cr
    @Kiki-ko1cr 3 місяці тому +2

    I think she’s right cuz I still consider myself a cute tomboy that can definitely scale it up when necessary! I don’t like people gawking at me!

  • @willmallory9085
    @willmallory9085 3 місяці тому +3

    3:55 Facts, looks attract, but character KEEPS!!! 😊❤

  • @toddmays4065
    @toddmays4065 3 місяці тому +6

    Pretty ones that get all the attention don't have nothing to think with majority of them are short term thinker don't think about the road ahead a lot of them just think for the moment

  • @StNixdaIV
    @StNixdaIV 2 місяці тому +1

    Who can FIND a VIRTUOUS woman in a bbl, augmented, narcissistic, opportunistic virtual world 😂

  • @rturnersr1853
    @rturnersr1853 3 місяці тому +1

    Winner winner!!! She cracked the code.

  • @user-abdulalimuhammad
    @user-abdulalimuhammad 3 місяці тому +5

    The song by The Temptations Beauty only skin deep 🎉 the song by Chaka Khan Fool's Paradise🎉 the song by Earth Wind & Fire It's All About Love🎉

  • @user-df1kb8cv9j
    @user-df1kb8cv9j 3 місяці тому +6

    People are too superficial. All they want to do is surgery to beautify the flesh. But that demon is still within. Get rid of your demon and become more modest. It will suit you better in life, in your spiritual faith, and in partnerships.

  • @allmuscle839
    @allmuscle839 3 місяці тому +1

    Spot on unc! Spot on!

  • @bohemians0ul180
    @bohemians0ul180 3 місяці тому +8

    Nah, you finding a partner has more to do with what life has in store for you. You finding a GOOD partner depends on your karma. All this other ish is insecurities. Because you can dress plain as hell and still attract attention. You can be sexy and have a great personality to go with it at well. This is just perception.

    • @FC-xc3zy
      @FC-xc3zy 3 місяці тому +1

      You have learnt nothing. You are not interested in learning

    • @bohemians0ul180
      @bohemians0ul180 3 місяці тому

      @@FC-xc3zy thank you for letting me know that...

  • @blindpanthervlogs
    @blindpanthervlogs 3 місяці тому

    As a blind man who can’t see the outer façade, most of the women that I try to talk to are taken because my interest in them stems from them as a person.

  • @iamceino
    @iamceino 3 місяці тому +1

    Looking to settle down after they’ve been ran through.

  • @koolshaker7615
    @koolshaker7615 3 місяці тому +2

    Yesss on that SUNDRESS.......😊🤜🏽🤛🏽🥂

  • @little95
    @little95 2 місяці тому +1

    Cute, feminine, sun dress always win, brings out the chivalry in us 🔥

  • @BrotherB1ackHeartSavage
    @BrotherB1ackHeartSavage Місяць тому

    It’s sad that women have to tell other women things that are just common sense as if it’s a major epiphany. Small children know this instinctually😂🤣😂

  • @derekjwilliams007
    @derekjwilliams007 2 місяці тому

    Talk to men you respect and you will know 💯

  • @edwardheard8000
    @edwardheard8000 3 місяці тому

    She's spot on! We'll ride ya hard, but means nothing to us🤨

  • @anon3118
    @anon3118 3 місяці тому

    Funny how she just talked to men and got the correct answer

  • @Drax-ct3mt
    @Drax-ct3mt 2 місяці тому

    "The kind you don't take home to mother"--Rick James

  • @lavonnealexander6936
    @lavonnealexander6936 3 місяці тому

    I know women who do this to men. They don’t want the hot cheating bad guy but the fearless assertive dominant guy. Not the nice guy either, nobody wants a pushover.

  • @CoolGent87
    @CoolGent87 3 місяці тому +2

    Stay far away from the proverbs 5/7 Immoral women. I'm all for the proverbs 31 Virtuous women

  • @jazzman9103
    @jazzman9103 3 місяці тому +1

    Simple, a Lamborghini looks good but that's it, a pickup looks good but can do more than look good!!

  • @heymisswest
    @heymisswest 3 місяці тому

    This is so true!!!!!!! They love the pretty feminine ladies

  • @miguelwilliams6876
    @miguelwilliams6876 3 місяці тому +1

    Facts over Feelings 😢

  •  3 місяці тому

    I believe Chaka Demus and Pliers already addressed this.

  • @ebonicody1595
    @ebonicody1595 3 місяці тому

    Also , if a man if self aware and understands his own worth, will fall back and observe how his lady handles that. Try stay on his build but it will open a void for another woman. Let the other woman keep the attention of others and step out of that spot. We call it ghosting now. Like what’s understood, don’t need to be explained.

  • @duaneninjaray
    @duaneninjaray 3 місяці тому

    So basically she listened to a man or men, telling NO yelling loudly, what they literally want..instead of ignoring what men want 😂

  • @rodgaray1
    @rodgaray1 3 місяці тому +1

    Great points Uncle Phil ;Jamie Dimon CEO of JP Morgan Chase just wrote a response to a 25 year old woman who was asking how she can get a rich man his response was awesome

    • @stripedrajang3571
      @stripedrajang3571 3 місяці тому

      What was his response?

    • @rodgaray1
      @rodgaray1 3 місяці тому

      It was a three/four paragraph response you can Google it

  • @kabbaaurora168
    @kabbaaurora168 3 місяці тому

    😂 Shes Right! In most cases

  • @djsharpshoota
    @djsharpshoota 3 місяці тому

    She is a genius,❤simple she got the ring!

  • @msgt777
    @msgt777 Місяць тому

    I agree with her 100%

  • @BeenRich492
    @BeenRich492 3 місяці тому +5

    She is dead on why nobody talks about this

  • @blackstar90
    @blackstar90 3 місяці тому +1

    100% correct

  • @sammysam486
    @sammysam486 3 місяці тому +1

    Nailed it!!🎉

  • @SAMack-xd2fn
    @SAMack-xd2fn 3 місяці тому +2

    She has a feminine voice. 😊

  • @RayRockDrummer
    @RayRockDrummer 3 місяці тому

    I want a ( I Call You Killer Because You Slay Me) Woman 😂🤣

  • @DerellRutherford
    @DerellRutherford 3 місяці тому

    Your not single if you have a rotation.

  • @isai6742
    @isai6742 3 місяці тому

    A woman being single doesn't mean she's celibate

  • @lavellhall7650
    @lavellhall7650 3 місяці тому +1

    Of course, if you're looking like the lovely miss CecilyTyson, or Lena Horne type. Then i'm growing oldTogether is not bad

  • @williamtorres4820
    @williamtorres4820 2 місяці тому

    Instead of them fillers, get yourself a therapist. 💀