The Soft Guy Era Started Because Of A Woman Like This

Many have asked, What sparked The Soft Guy Era? Take exhibit A in the video.

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

Statistically speaking, it's less BW at the financial top but more debt for BW.

[@alimctaven7417]

And they be deep in debt. 100,000 dollars deep in debt.

[@MikeJones-py3ty]

That's the part nobody wants to talk about.

[@christianboyd2124]

Bingo! Media doesn’t talk about that part

[@jamilphillips9056]

I am a locomotive engineer who makes $100,000 yearly and I still wouldn’t deal with her.

[@loothak]

hey thats me

[@kriswilldoo6042]

Facts!! Why would a successful masculine man want a woman who thinks like her?? He has to be either a hustling pimp

[@jasean21]

I'm a Trainmaster, you at a Class 1 or you work passenger service?

[@Koolaid35]

Railroad gang in the build 😎

[@jamilphillips9056]

@@jasean21 class 1 UNION PACIFIC RR in HOUSTON!!

[@Validkris]

This energy she has automatically disqualifies her

[@myklallen7184]

Like my father told me many, many years ago, "if everyone was rich, nothing would get done"... Let that sink in and marinate for awhile!!!

[@jakeblank311]

exactly. not to mention everything would just be more expensive

[@myklallen7184]

@@jakeblank311 What everything? Nothing would be created or invented to obtain wealth or a comfortable living.. No nothing...

[@johnlawful2272]

​@@myklallen7184trash would be stacking up outside

[@myklallen7184]

@@johnlawful2272 Exactly.. You can't pay someone to take it away.. We All Are Rich...

[@El_Fonzo]

Your father lied to you then

[@mikemob82]

They're watching too many Tyler Perry and Housewives shows. Their judging men off a farce reality.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Been saying this, the social media and house wives tv shows have destroyed these women’s brains

[@kaze7521]

Thank you!💯💯💯💯💯

[@daveblackman816]

The entitlement of this lady is off the charts!

[@commonsense3921]

Because men continue to flood their DM’s.

[@TheStrategos392]

The question for me is why those dudes at the top ain’t checking for her?

[@willmallory9085]

Because she doesn't qualify for the man she wants! She's most likely unwilling to put in the work to KEEP the man either. Looks attract, character keeps!

[@Buckshott_54]

Zaddy probably is checking for Miss Bed Wench….in the Heat of the night….never in the light of day..

[@nataliewebb9613]

And then so many times the men at the higher financial levels ALREADY have a woman and have been with them for many years...

[@jakeblank311]

🎯 and those guys out number the women.

[@RTA6226]

​@@nataliewebb9613VERY TRUE!!!

[@demetriusevans4139]

Ever BW on a platform and in the comments is making 6-7 figures, owns multiple businesses, has a PhD and has rich WM fawning over them.
Then you step outside...

[@RTA6226]

Rich Zaddys fawning over them? Oh how sad. If they're telling the truth, they have my sympathy.

[@michaelsmith8947]

Every last one………, 😂

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

Selling magnets on Etsy and leggings from Lularoe are their "businesses"

[@Mr.Edwards233]

@@MyNameIsUnavailable 😮😆😆 So wrong for that

[@joimonae4090]

Facts

[@illacook3636]

It's not even the financial with her. Her whole vibe is off, other than saying hi and bye. I wouldn't waste my air speaking to this woman

[@malcolminthemiddle8777]

Many times I don't speak.

[@b14m23]

She spent all those years getting educated sitting in class right next to the future top men of society, doctors, engineers, business leaders but she never found a long term relationship. Maybe just maybe a degree does not automatically make you smart but women think it does.

[@justthinking4421]

EXACTLY!!! GrandM said: BW go to school to get B.A., others go to school to get M.R.S. 🤔 Y'all better learn how to multi-tasks!!!🤣

[@quarterwatertv]

A lot of these women be lying about how much they make on this internet …. They all say they make over 100k a year 😂

[@kharyvines6971]

RIGHT BUT IN THE D.C. METRO AREA THERE'S A LOT. AND DON'T ACT LIKE HER

[@TheNatedoggva]

@@kharyvines6971 I'm right here in the DC metro area if you look it up there are a couple of cities in the DMV that have the highest number of single women in the whole U.S. this is a FACT

[@Cancerian816]

The jokes continue to write themselves... These finish line heauxs will hit the 🧱 hard.
Drizzle Drizzle
👇🏾

[@TopNotch2real]

MEN RULE
MEN LEAD
MEN PROTECT
MEN CREATE

[@dabeast9000]

Not anymore we free, feminism freed us all with the exception of ruling. As a man in todays world your no longer held to patriarchal gender roles especially when it comes to women, no need to protect, provide or have a family anymore women can do all that themselves. If they want companionship and protection tell em to go in the woods and find a bear I hear their safer than being around men these days.

[@africaisking7817]

✊🏿

[@joemomma3208]

People with high requirements & expectations often have the least to offer other than just that high requirements & expectations!

[@macjoseph2375]

Facts 💯

[@AphrooneRichardson]

I'm age 73 in June 2024! I am an OG with great DATING OPTIONS and my U. S. Passport and I'm Drizzle Drizzling in Central and South America with beautiful Black Caribbeans and Afro-Latinas! Viva mi amigas! DRIZZLE DRIZZLE Western Women of the Matrix! ASE!

[@RTA6226]

Ok. You are actually older than I. Interesting. You mean women your age are acting like men?

[@mikehill584]

The bottom line is, they are reaping what they have sowed and they can't stand it. Sad, but true.

[@sbolden123]

😂 soft guy era is a reaction to the actions of many women....unfortunately 🤷‍♂️😏💯

[@automatic_systematic]

We're holding a mirror in front of these delusional modern women, forcing them to look at how utterly ridiculous their demands are and they hate that

[@michaelevans402]

A lot of these women lie about what they make and how they live. I live in Dallas and made 70k last year ! Cost of living is getting out of hand ! I'm a plumber.

[@joelbreezy3116]

BINGO ! It can't be true that ALL of these women are making what they say they are when the statistics prove that they don't. That's part of this issue... We starting the conversation off of a lie... And then when the logic is applied...it ends up not in her favor

[@b14m23]

MOST women lie about their income. BM still make more than BW women. Electricians make more that teachers, etc.

[@jakeblank311]

true 👍

[@danjjice]

& I agree I've seen loads of them . Even when it comes to dating 🤣 . They choose broke a*SS version of BLM from other races 😅 they nag about.

[@bert891]

They’re not Keke Palmer…… they’re going to be the golden girls without any gold 😂😂😂

[@frogbox4184]

Remove the g of golden and there you go!

[@mateaukalua4426]

Truck drivers mechanics bus drivers and tradesmen are making 70K 80K 90K a year. They don't want blue collar men.

[@Realyst]

If all men madi $80k a year, they would want someone that makes $150k a year. The greed wouldn't end. It would only increase.

[@t.p.m.414]

Bingo... There's a children's book called "When You Give A Mouse A Cookie" that explains this concept very well...

[@Armyvet55]

😂😂😂😂😂facts

[@user-ei4tl7qd2s]

This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@RoyJ.Tillison-tq5ed]

I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back

[@user-ei4tl7qd2s]

Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?

[@RoyJ.Tillison-tq5ed]

Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being

[@user-ei4tl7qd2s]

Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.

[@TheLegend-uq1gz]

I’m sorry about that. However, you can’t make someone love you. Not possible. Take a break to work on yourself and good things will happen to you.

[@Judahzchosen144]

Soft Guy Era......
Medusa was destroyed by her own reflection
DRIZZLE DRIZZLE

[@demetriusevans4139]

Ladies, try looking back at your rhetoric and the guys you rejected before blaming us for ANYTHING

[@rattales58]

So she can afford to pay the bills. Drizzle drizzle 🌧️

[@skyking3210]

she's giving broke with this add to hers talk

[@Cory-zn5mq]

You better have had paid those loans off ms educated 😂

[@househeadspeakz]

That's true but women like the one in the video will not listen and refuse to change their mindset until they age themselves out of the dating market.

[@samuelmahmud1909]

Great video coverage Phillip 💯 as you stated, no one put a ring on it

[@macjoseph2375]

Never lead with your wallet! It usually doesn't end well.

[@Beksization]

It's not what you make that counts. It's how much can you keep after tax and living expenses are taken off.

[@Nightrain349]

Can't lie she can't afford me. Drizzle Drizzle

[@africaisking7817]

Know your worth King 👑 you are the prize 🙌🏾

[@skyking3210]

yassssss King she's giving broke

[@sunsoza8320]

Keke Palmer's bd was/is a successful man tho not as rich as her but he still had his own wealth separate from her.

[@BlackAmerican-et5zj]

She just wanted a light skin baby🙄

[@blackwellbrooklyn6142]

​@BlackAmerican-et5zj they envy light skins the procreate with light skins then envy their babies

[@Realbigprizzle]

Drizzle Drizzle baby

[@tommies3772]

As usual they can't take what they dish out.

[@TChalla007]

They don't get it. A man on her level doesn't need her. He'll take a nice, pleasant and attractive women working at a grocery store. So, he has the options and the leverage. Her expectations will keep her on the top floor of the husband store with all the other successful women single women that passed up lower floors with good men.

[@worldboss9927]

She soon say no man want to be with her,im sure she's getting older and miserable and lonely its coming.

[@AVG336]

For the record, black men on average, outearn black women don't believe the hype.

[@joybrooks564]

Never compete for a man/woman.. who's meant for you, will be for you

[@gurukid08]

She's delusional 😂

[@djairalert422]

She might as well buy a dog or a cat now, because she’s dieing alone with that mouth.

[@LisaS483]

Women will always want wealth, status and resources. It will never change.

[@OGFitzRoy]

It's like an episode of bridgerton 😅

[@DievestorsNeverLearn]

@LisaS483 Women can want what they want, but what they want has to want them.

[@DievestorsNeverLearn]

@LisaS483 It doesn't matter how many high-earning men there are.
More high earning men still won't be attracted to them.

[@Armyvet55]

😂😂😂😂facts

[@teeb1980]

This why she dont have one 😂😂😂😂

[@ubongambrose4066]

She is selfish, just like most of them!

[@kharyvines6971]

EQUALS EVIL

[@gregkareem9824]

She's a low quality woman so it makes sense

[@user-vk6qs7wn9d]

And also there have been men with standards for themselves if that make them soft then count me in.

[@Mankind-ik4ie]

These 304 are delusional 😂😂😂

[@jcurry3school]

What is being "put on us?"
Sounds like a loaded question.

[@delmontegreenbeans]

The women needs to ask why she can and men can't? Did these women forget who we are and comes with living in this body?

[@abrafovictory7193]

Brothers get a Passport start Traveling and you will start to age backwards.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

I heard Japan giving 75k for black men 😅😂

[@Mankind-ik4ie]

Drizzle Drizzle baby😂

[@etuitivemillionaire]

No lies detected.

[@steveyj3002]

She can date whoever she wants and most men won’t care 😂

[@ArletteMaotieBomahou]

She is going to end up alone. She will pass on more than a half of good black men who could be a match but don't earn 100K and above yearly. better be with an average earner who loves you protect you, respect you and knows how to handle a budget. There is too much competition for men making above 6 figures.

[@49ers_red_and_gold2]

I just smh.

[@user-vk6qs7wn9d]

Unless you been living under rock 🪨 the soft guy era has been going on for years. There been women whom dated men whom made less than them for better or for worse

[@Ctown-lp6bq]

Im so tired of these conversations

[@kelvinbirch5641]

Drizzle drizzle

[@GodSon-1980]

This Masculine makeup wearing woman, is a 3 at best.

[@kevinmaden5572]

I talk to women in Africa 🌍 that looks like her and you don't need $100,000 a year to be with them !

[@closeredge5198]

Prototypical 49er

[@uncannytheos2454]

Shes not even listening.

[@sbolden123]

😂 🪃 boomerang !

[@Cahluvca]

Failure of out of hand feminism...its just that simple. Effecting many countries, its broken social contract

[@LordofLaughs]

I do not think there is a lineup outside her door.

[@SmokeytheBear9399]

I don’t care about these women anymore y’all can date a penguin for all I care 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

Men, stop dating down. Do not allow her to be your stepping stone.

[@thesaint5183]

Uncle Phils sounds just like my parents. They advised on the meeting the man in the middle if we love him enough to do so. Why can't she get one who makes at least 50 or 60k and help him build to her level? It's a partnership and both can't always be on the same level at different stages of life. It's our calling as women to "advise and comfort" our men when it requires anyway. My parents have been together for over 50years and they weren't always on equal stages every time. Even if you make the same amount of $, life is still going to smack you down when it's your turn. Choose your battles wisely!

[@williamsullivan4614]

Maybe someone should tell her that most men that are making 100k+ a year, works 6-7days a week 8-12 hrs. So that would leave little time for you my dear.

[@rupertjones4354]

She sounds like a decent guy, idk what the problem could be...

[@DelicatelySinfulCrochets]

Serious question, but why do we have to dumb down because someone makes less? I’m not gonna be with someone who is struggling, because I’m way past that stage.

[@darrelljohnson9769]

Simp Anonymous back again.

[@gtoexpress8111]

Amen Amen Amen

[@faves2012]

She’s already out the game. Single for ever. And that’s okay. Single doesn’t mean abstinent obviously. It does mean her partner will be varied and many. Best of luck to the sister.

[@Nam3less2U]

“Keke Palmer yourself” didn’t she break up with her dude because he disagreed with her revealing outfits or am I missing something

[@HollywoodNow-360]

Most Black men don't start really hitting their success and stride until around their 50' and 60's. It wasn't until I turned 50 that are starting making in the high 6 figures. Most good men are a work in progress. If a woman doesn't see value in a hard working man while he is going through whatever career process he is going through, then a real dude wouldn't want her no matter how successful she is. Black men well men period don't put value in how much a woman makes, we put value in her ability to be fit, good attitude and cooperative. Real talk.

[@airanthony3]

Now u understand Phil

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

As of 2022, 50k is the average for black men.

[@JamesJones-mn1ld]

I agree with her. And its her choice.

[@dariushines306]

I disagree, most women do talk like her, and it's because of one word; hypergamy. Most women, no matter how much they make, are looking for a guy to make her come-up.

[@33690]

Wow

[@infamouseli92]

Definitely Keke Palmer themselves 😂😂

[@joimonae4090]

Give me a plumber anyday 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@thatguybill34]

*Why aren't the Men making over $100,000 trying to date her or women like her if they are so special?*

[@JoshuaCarpenter-tx1jz]

Sadly this woman is far from alone in her thinking and as a result women like her will overlook the good men and not be able to get a man at the level she wants. Cooperation and working together or buying a dog and dying alone...u pick the option

[@CoreySmith-gq3po]

So sad

[@anthonybush5123]

She’s not worth 8 dollars.

[@mauricepatterson9558]

How many men have dated broke women.

[@yuNGDeLaPhoNtE]

Why is it only BW talking nonsense about relationshiPs

[@chico7469]

She popped anyway lol… and these are the types of women running they mouth, fellas focus on yourself, not your purpose, just focus on you! Women of today are for recreation.

[@asiatic_black]

How does this conversation come up? Are women straight asking men how much they make?

[@PRWOMENHERE]

She is making such a generalizing men because of her experiences.

[@PortoFellazTV]

Amerikkka is doomed 😅

[@pontiac00]

I'm actually one of the founders of the drizzle drizzle movement that i help started on Deedee show on UA-cam about 2 yrs ago,i started the men getting supported and taken care of by women and men can stay home while the women provide or the women can start paying bills or paying for our dates with them,

[@DJSNAKE5000]

Caution ⚠️ Hyena Zone! Run 🏃‍♀️

[@jdcaldwell5088]

I see lots of lonely nights with her 🐈‍⬛ in her future just saying 😊

[@christophersterling6788]

Both of them are incorrect… if both them look at the statistics for all men and women… a man makes more than a woman on average. Black women who make six figures are few when it comes to black men. The issue with most black women they don’t know how to be feminine. In 2024 men in the United States is $63,960, while the average salary for women is $53,404. The Pew Research Center has the latest report… over 22% of black men are earning 6-figures while less than 10% of black women earns 6-figures. In every category black men are out doing black women except for one and that’s divorce. Black women are out leading everyone in every negative categories…

[@salahud-dinabdur-rahim5657]

Thanks!

[@ThePhillipScottShow]

No problem!

[@doncartier6796]

I got a question. Is soft guy area equivalent to MGTOW?

[@Sinc39]

B

[@juicemane7655]

Soft ahh ninjas

[@joeo8215]

I rather have my mental health and my physical health there’s that saying health as wealth