How Teen Became Human Trafficking Survivor

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  • @MegaJman909
    @MegaJman909 Місяць тому +1228

    The particular story he told where the married guy assaulted him then commented “ you remind me so much of my son” was bone chilling & vile ! I hope the wife finds out & protects the children

    • @deborahbaker4770
      @deborahbaker4770 Місяць тому +102

      It was triggering for me even though I’m a female my father sexually abused me before I was ( 2 until I was 4) that man’s comment was disgusting is he also abusing his son and how old is his son if he’s being abused or was being abused hopefully he received counseling I didn’t I’m ( 66 ) now and I still remember everything he did and now that’s all you hear about it’s happening more then ever including babies I just don’t understand why 😢

    • @MEMEusc
      @MEMEusc Місяць тому +28

      I hope so too! Wishing you all the best

    • @beauuby
      @beauuby Місяць тому +18

      @@deborahbaker4770 I’m so sorry to hear this :( the world is cruel

    • @heisendaddy4737
      @heisendaddy4737 Місяць тому +15

      I got sick hearing that.

    • @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307
      @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 27 днів тому

      How is that supposed to be scary?

  • @wowzatrishiebunz
    @wowzatrishiebunz 26 днів тому +452

    People cannot blame this man for these events because he was alone, a child, scared, abused. He is lucky to be alive. What a strong young man.

    • @Gee-xb7rt
      @Gee-xb7rt 25 днів тому +14

      I don't think people realize how much of this goes on. I have always looked very young for my age, and when I was out on my own I probably looked 14-15 and would get a lot of older adult attention.

    • @Chancel388
      @Chancel388 25 днів тому +1

      ​@@Gee-xb7rtthat's so weird..

    • @Gee-xb7rt
      @Gee-xb7rt 24 дні тому +3

      @@Chancel388 Yeah, a couple specifics I remember -- couple that told me they have a place in NYC and modeling agency connections, a guy stopped me in Walmart offered me a job, gave me a card and told me to go to the address. If I were 14 I think I might have processed it differently. .

    • @dontgive1115
      @dontgive1115 23 дні тому +2

      ​@@Gee-xb7rtStill happens to me, I'm 24 and sometimes still have to ID myself to enter bars etc

    • @Chiko4579
      @Chiko4579 19 днів тому +2

      @@Gee-xb7rt I’m 31 and older men still call me little boy and such things when hitting on me. It’s so creepy

  • @juliemurry7611
    @juliemurry7611 Місяць тому +831

    Important part of this story, parents don't abandon your child because of them coming out.I hope he finds peace and happiness.

    • @rondaallen7211
      @rondaallen7211 Місяць тому +62

      don't abandon them for any reason.

    • @AfraidMonsters
      @AfraidMonsters Місяць тому +31

      The fact that his own family did this to him, caused all of this, just because of him being gay, which is natural, is just dsgsting. They did all this just because of the chlt they're in.

    • @rondaallen7211
      @rondaallen7211 Місяць тому +14

      @@AfraidMonsters no no no. his family did not do that. let's put the blame on the pervs where it belongs.

    • @aurora6920
      @aurora6920 Місяць тому

      yes and the goverment need to do something about trafficking, they hunt down and kidnap vulnerable people of all ages. Always keep an open communication with your child and be supportive of their choices.

    • @mcpeewee68
      @mcpeewee68 Місяць тому +6

      Did it ever say his parents abandoned him? He doesn't really say that. I don't think he even mentions if he told them he was gay

  • @dorothyleedlee
    @dorothyleedlee Місяць тому +402

    This young man is so brave. Im so proud of him for stepping up and telling his story.

  • @a.l.y.a.m.e.d486
    @a.l.y.a.m.e.d486 Місяць тому +442

    My kid is gay and i would never abandon him ever.

    • @LAPULGADE956
      @LAPULGADE956 28 днів тому +22

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @josesalas8261
      @josesalas8261 28 днів тому +25

      ​@@LAPULGADE956Te as 😂visto en un espejo 🪞😂😂

    • @Kaylanii-vzq
      @Kaylanii-vzq 28 днів тому +18

      ​@@josesalas8261 ay pobrecito kieres yorar😢😢😂😂😂😂

    • @lonew872
      @lonew872 27 днів тому

      Deportation 😂​@@Kaylanii-vzq

    • @wahaywgr
      @wahaywgr 26 днів тому +6

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @weightsinfish
    @weightsinfish Місяць тому +345

    I was almost human trafficked by a man in Seattle. I thankfully escaped a week in. It's so much more common than we think.

    • @gianfrancojoseramirez1189
      @gianfrancojoseramirez1189 27 днів тому +1

      Lucky

    • @Gee-xb7rt
      @Gee-xb7rt 25 днів тому +6

      I have always looked really young for my age, so when I was a young adult I looked 14,15, I subbed for a bit and teachers would come into the room and think I was a student in middle school/high school classes, even tried to dress more adult. I also got a lot of attention from older adults, and never really connected it.

    • @weightsinfish
      @weightsinfish 25 днів тому +3

      @Gee-xb7rt 😔 Ugh it must be terrible looking soooo young & having creeps be attracted to you because you look under 18. I am SO sorry you have to experience that. I hope it doesn't impact your self confidence & that your beauty shines despite the idiots in this world. You deserve to feel comfortable. 🩷

    • @patlaffey4687
      @patlaffey4687 21 день тому

      care n

  • @mysteryoneminute
    @mysteryoneminute Місяць тому +545

    His family not accepting him is why this happened smfh! Poor baby! I hope he heals from this trauma and is happier and safe now around people who actually care about him

  • @MegaJman909
    @MegaJman909 Місяць тому +199

    This experience is a parent’s worst nightmare! At least he made it out to tell his story & warn other!

    • @Trund27
      @Trund27 Місяць тому +20

      Jose’s parents threw him away. They created the nightmare. They rejected him. Terrible, evil parents.

    • @wut2404
      @wut2404 23 дні тому

      Not every parent's... what do they expect to happen when they throw their child away :< And many parents do this or worse :L

  • @aracelymeza340
    @aracelymeza340 23 дні тому +64

    “You remind me like my son” send chills down my spine

  • @teej143
    @teej143 26 днів тому +44

    You can tell with his adult eyes the heartbreak and suffering he’s gone/going through 😢

  • @ajt8967
    @ajt8967 Місяць тому +261

    Parents need to do a better job of protecting their children even if the child is "different".

    • @casstitudy
      @casstitudy Місяць тому +12

      exactly

    • @dontreldontrel416
      @dontreldontrel416 Місяць тому +10

      True

    • @Kuroko-Dono
      @Kuroko-Dono Місяць тому +14

      Exactly, even if the child is different and you don’t like that difference in them. Raised them until they’re old enough to leave and live their own lives. It’s not that hard.

    • @bostonb4kedbeans
      @bostonb4kedbeans Місяць тому +9

      Dont tell Republicans this. I know many that will "love" their children but draw the line when their gay, and make them grow up into miseeable adults

  • @mcherryr
    @mcherryr Місяць тому +117

    Thank you so much! I am really proud of you! Wish you nothing but the best, jose!

  • @SergioMolan
    @SergioMolan 17 днів тому +15

    If this was a woman everyone would be feeling sorry. But this is a man, a survivor, and people don't seem to care. He deserved better, he was just a child.

  • @microbios8586
    @microbios8586 Місяць тому +270

    Low self-esteem leads people to these things. I totally understand it

    • @chelseaxjaye
      @chelseaxjaye Місяць тому +54

      paired with an unstable family unit that only offers conditional love.. poor kid was set up for failure 😔

    • @louniece1650
      @louniece1650 Місяць тому +30

      ​@chelseaxjaye Hyper religious family that had no space for loving this precious lamb because he was 'different'. He was failed 100%.

    • @ashleywatkins1380
      @ashleywatkins1380 Місяць тому +23

      I feel if he was accepted where he lived none of this would have happened.

    • @logenesis3108
      @logenesis3108 Місяць тому +6

      @@ashleywatkins1380 yes which is the case many times. If only the person had an unconditional loving family to turn to during times of uncertainty or questions

    • @jtw.9410
      @jtw.9410 Місяць тому +4

      Low self-esteem leads to awkward moments in high school. That young man was failed in various ways.

  • @adamagnus
    @adamagnus Місяць тому +164

    We have to do better at looking out for our children! 😢💙💔

  • @MercuryBubble
    @MercuryBubble 24 дні тому +93

    If you can’t accept your child possibly being gay, just do not have kids. Get a dog or something

    • @ke83984
      @ke83984 24 дні тому +12

      So true

    • @umm3766
      @umm3766 16 днів тому +2

      my kids will be raised correctly not to be gay

    • @themoshpit8341
      @themoshpit8341 16 днів тому +7

      My dog is gay as hell

    • @plantyyy
      @plantyyy 16 днів тому +10

      @@umm3766that isnt something you have any control over

    • @geewizwiz3
      @geewizwiz3 15 днів тому +2

      ​@@umm3766Did you not hear the part of the story where he said his family was deeply religious and sent him away once they found out he was gay.

  • @mrs.germain4911
    @mrs.germain4911 Місяць тому +47

    I’m so proud of you for sharing your story. Give yourself grace. You were a child and they took advantage of you. Praying for your continued healing ❤

  • @leggs4113
    @leggs4113 Місяць тому +40

    If only his family had accepted him. You don’t have to agree with it but don’t turn your back on your child.
    Good job Jose. Thank you for using your voice.

    • @iihh517
      @iihh517 Місяць тому

      This is what Latinos do.

  • @mitchelherreraquiane2661
    @mitchelherreraquiane2661 17 днів тому +8

    This is so common and happens to a lot of us unfortunately. I’m so glad he made it out and is using his platform for change. 💚

  • @jeremifrancisco1
    @jeremifrancisco1 25 днів тому +30

    I wish you peace, thank you for the courage to share your story.

  • @jizzlordthecat
    @jizzlordthecat Місяць тому +39

    This is heartbreaking.

  • @fantais1e
    @fantais1e Місяць тому +98

    holy, that’s awful. even in our developed world, problems like this still occur, and such hate still exists. stay safe everyone, and don’t be afraid to love who you love ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @WilliamsPinch
      @WilliamsPinch Місяць тому +6

      It’s more prevalent because the web has allowed trafficking rings to expand and operate efficiently.

    • @franky_2024
      @franky_2024 26 днів тому

      @@WilliamsPinchUgh and to think that someone i was friends with in high school for a very short time just got arrested for having child pornography…you can’t trust anyone these days. Mind you i just graduated high school in May. We’re literally living amongst these monsters.

    • @solochica81
      @solochica81 13 днів тому

      Love who you q? He was raped and sexual assaulted by grown ass white men who manipulated and groomed him. What love exists in this situation. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @debh3404
    @debh3404 Місяць тому +64

    I'm so glad that his experience didn't completely RUIN him. I'm sure that it did ruin his life for quite a while. But I'm so happy that he is able to educate others so hopefully it prevents some from ending up in the same situation.

  • @Raiden_X99
    @Raiden_X99 Місяць тому +53

    Sad but I can understand his vulnerability. I hope he can find a relationship which doesn't end up in violence and manipulation

  • @eangelful
    @eangelful Місяць тому +54

    It’s so sad that this kid didn’t think that he could talk to his parents.

    • @tiger_844
      @tiger_844 26 днів тому +13

      It isn't that he didn't think he could, it's because he actually could not. They kicked him out. Obviously there was no support or love from them

    • @DeerDoe
      @DeerDoe 25 днів тому +1

      I am straight & have felt the same my whole childhood about mine.

    • @essbee1641
      @essbee1641 24 дні тому +4

      The same parents that kicked him out for being gay?

  • @TruRacer
    @TruRacer Місяць тому +130

    As a straight man my entire life my entire childhood i was bullied abused etc always alone for me to get by i choose drugs and alcohol im 41 now still here still alone cuz i trust no one cuz everytime i did trust all i got was stabbed in the back so ill ride alone until god finally takes me home

    • @Noneofyourbizniz1
      @Noneofyourbizniz1 Місяць тому +29

      Sorry to hear that man. Hope you find your peace and healing

    • @TruRacer
      @TruRacer Місяць тому +4

      @Noneofyourbizniz1 I have its called never being sober

    • @user-fc2xk3uv8y
      @user-fc2xk3uv8y Місяць тому +4

      youre too grown for all that

    • @terencesmith3853
      @terencesmith3853 Місяць тому +2

      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️

    • @locopollo2042
      @locopollo2042 Місяць тому +20

      You can still turn around it’s not too late man

  • @RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea
    @RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea 23 дні тому +19

    I am so disgusted by the married man saying that to him. What a brave young man. It always breaks my heart when parents turn their children away because more likely than not they end up being horribly abused or in dangerous situations

  • @IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink
    @IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink Місяць тому +56

    The amount of lgbt members whose family abandons them is why they commonly end up in these horrific situations. Every time I see stories like this the family let the kid down big time. Why have kids to abandon them for their sexual orientation??….. but the amount of parents defending their rapist/murder children with no issue is just insane. MIMS. I’m happy he is free.

  • @RuthieDipalma
    @RuthieDipalma 23 дні тому +14

    Your awesome Jose! To the parents, protect your children and have a great and close relationship with your children!

  • @shellyg8617
    @shellyg8617 Місяць тому +19

    Nothing you did caused what happened to you. The adults around you failed you. You're such a strong person. Stay strong and love yourself. I hope you find peace and happiness.

  • @brittaneydortch4358
    @brittaneydortch4358 Місяць тому +43

    My God...y'all be careful.... Every time I see stuff like this.. Just Makes me think of how all these kids/ adults just go missing ....so sad 😢😢😢

  • @DulceisAwesome333
    @DulceisAwesome333 Місяць тому +38

    You go boy !! Continue to keep standing strong !!! May life prosper you with infinite blessings 🙌

  • @Melanie.onFIRE
    @Melanie.onFIRE Місяць тому +26

    😢 Horrific! I’m happy you survived, but sad you went through that.

  • @zaydae6394
    @zaydae6394 14 днів тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your story and raising awareness to this issue. It’s more common than most people believe. I’m sorry you went through those struggles. I can relate. ❤ hope the rest of your life is filled with happiness!

  • @Livelovelaugh-2024
    @Livelovelaugh-2024 Місяць тому +15

    My heart just aches for him. Sending healing vibes.

  • @InterestingKnowledgePursuit
    @InterestingKnowledgePursuit 17 днів тому +5

    Glad he's in a better place. My god, this is very heartbreaking. Families have to support their kids or find the support.

  • @mcpeewee68
    @mcpeewee68 Місяць тому +14

    Good for him. Turning something so negative into a positive by helping others & educating

  • @SharonMcwilliams78
    @SharonMcwilliams78 Місяць тому +14

    Very brave & courageous to share this experience. God bless 🕊️

  • @alisyntateduets
    @alisyntateduets Місяць тому +50

    Can’t believe I am sharing this but I almost got abused /raped by two men that were at my school and luckily I told my dad before it happened and my teacher but all they got was slapped in the wrist no expelled nothing just cause I was in a special needs class the staff just did nothing for me and I was very very disappointed in them

    • @PleiadesStarChild
      @PleiadesStarChild Місяць тому +4

      I’m so sorry that happened to you. It’s very upsetting to see that nothing more was done. I’m proud of you for speaking up and telling someone

    • @alisyntateduets
      @alisyntateduets Місяць тому

      @@PleiadesStarChild thanks not a lot people know about it cause I feel weird when I share it

    • @PleiadesStarChild
      @PleiadesStarChild Місяць тому +1

      @@alisyntateduets don’t worry I feel the same. I had something similar happen. But it was with an ex gf of mine. But it’s good now. She’s out of my life now

    • @alisyntateduets
      @alisyntateduets Місяць тому

      @@PleiadesStarChild that's true it's like been there done that you know

    • @PleiadesStarChild
      @PleiadesStarChild Місяць тому

      @@alisyntateduets yeah. I’m just happy I told someone. Actually I did comment my story on here somewhere

  • @a.l.y.a.m.e.d486
    @a.l.y.a.m.e.d486 Місяць тому +24

    They have a place i forgot what's its called and its for teens to go to if they been abandoned or kicked out and they help the teens stay off the streets. I wish they had more places like that out there. They said the high rate of teens that were there were apart of the LGBTQ and Trans community. I hope this guy finds happiness with a guy that can treat him the way he deserves to be treated and that is with love and care and no more hurt.
    Update I just found the name of the place it's called Covenant House , helps youth in need of overcome homelessness. They have helped over 2,200.00 youth in the past year with a safe place to sleep. We definitely need more places like this out here

  • @uniquelyevie
    @uniquelyevie 24 дні тому +8

    What a brave and strong young man Jose is for sharing his story. ❤

  • @joselbazcom4221
    @joselbazcom4221 18 днів тому +10

    Even if parents do not agree with their son or daughter being gay, they should still live them and care for them. Abandoning them only puts them at risks that end up in tragedy. Those who claim to be Christian or any other faith in God group, most especially should love and care for their children. They don’t have to accept their child’s sexuality orientation, but at least in any Christian group, religion, institution, etc. the commandment is to love.

    • @joselbazcom4221
      @joselbazcom4221 18 днів тому +2

      I meant to say “they should still love them.”

  • @pinkysunshine2423
    @pinkysunshine2423 19 днів тому +5

    Tell baby Jose thank you for being such a strong man for all the boys and men that can't speak

  • @deannademerritt3488
    @deannademerritt3488 27 днів тому +9

    He truly seems like such a nice young man, it breaks my heart that people aren’t accepted in their own family, because of who they love. I’m terrified of sex trafficking, it seems like it happens so fast and they find any way to manipulate you. Thank you for sharing this story, and I’m so glad he made it out alive ❤️

  • @silviaortiz6271
    @silviaortiz6271 Місяць тому +16

    I am so sorry you have gone through this. I wish you the best ❤ thank you for sharing your story.

  • @Maliceless100
    @Maliceless100 25 днів тому +6

    Jose's still young, and with the help of a good therapist, he can have all life's happiness and contentment.

  • @sheilaannsanders2619
    @sheilaannsanders2619 Місяць тому +16

    Inspiration is what many of us need even decades later. Thank you ❤

  • @caterra-
    @caterra- Місяць тому +48

    1:16 bruh the fire effects, we get it 😭

    • @Daniel28567
      @Daniel28567 Місяць тому +12

      😭

    • @Sarahcash-q2q
      @Sarahcash-q2q 26 днів тому +9

      LMFAO FR i was dead asf🤣🤣

    • @izmio
      @izmio 26 днів тому +5

      LMFASOOO😭

    • @alfamejeu7237
      @alfamejeu7237 25 днів тому +5

      BAHAHAHA I NEVER NEW INSIDE EDITION WOULD EDIT LIKE THIS 😂

  • @nimbly1693
    @nimbly1693 Місяць тому +126

    My best friend in middle school and high school was a gay kid named Bryce. In the 8th grade him and I were throwing a frisbee around and a football jock kid threw it out in the street. I told him to go get it, and he shoved me. I rocked back and nailed him in the mouth. He had braces..... yeah, there was a lot of blood and I was suspended for a number of days. When my mom came and got me and asked what had happened, and I told her, she took me to Thrifty and bought me ice cream, and told me I did a good job, not letting people screw with me and my friend.

    • @harp_for_mayor
      @harp_for_mayor Місяць тому +5

      Yea ok ….

    • @bostonb4kedbeans
      @bostonb4kedbeans Місяць тому

      Did that comment of yours scratch an itch or something?​@@harp_for_mayor

    • @ghostnervee
      @ghostnervee Місяць тому +4

      @@harp_for_mayornah fr like what this gotta do wit this video😭😭

    • @nimbly1693
      @nimbly1693 Місяць тому +13

      @@ghostnervee If you watched it, he was talking about being picked on because he was gay. Which when I was a kid, actually happened. In fact there was a kid probably twice my size that was gay and they picked on him. Luke. One time they were messing with him and I told them unless they wanted a fight they should go find something else to go do with themselves. Then I asked Luke why he didn't stand up for himself. He just wasn't inclined to.

    • @stanbily9416
      @stanbily9416 Місяць тому +12

      @@nimbly1693 I love this. Thank you for being a true friend to your high school gay friend. Much appreciated as a bisexual man 👍🏽

  • @amaldrew3830
    @amaldrew3830 Місяць тому +31

    It's heartbreaking 😢

  • @JamesBrownDuh
    @JamesBrownDuh 25 днів тому +6

    So sad this happened to him. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @maximillion8442
    @maximillion8442 14 днів тому +3

    "Will I ever be that [carefree] person again? The answer is 'no.'" This is so true. It doesn't get better. You DO gain skills that help you cope better! And eventually happiness can shine through at times. But, for better or worse, you'll never return to being the person you were before. When your innocence is exploited, experience is your lot. There's good and bad and grief in that.

  • @deborahbaker4770
    @deborahbaker4770 Місяць тому +51

    What about his first abuser was he arrested also ?

    • @singingme415
      @singingme415 24 дні тому +9

      No. At the age of 18 after the trafficking, I had enough of him sleeping with other people and I got into a confrontation with him and he called the cops on me. When the cop asked if I had shoved him I said of course and told them about the sexual abuse I had been experiencing since I was a teenager. The officer put me into handcuffs and I went to jail.

    • @olimpio69
      @olimpio69 18 днів тому

      @@singingme415so basically you choose an easy path instead of hard work, sacrifices! You went online looking for an easy life, a rich man !Not victim blaming at all, but life always puts us in a position where we have to make choices, even with low self esteem!!

    • @singingme415
      @singingme415 18 днів тому +1

      @@olimpio69you mean at 16 when my parents kicked me out of the house? Or do you think this video told my whole life story? But either way if you think that 16 year olds just know how to survive then I hope you don’t have children yourself.

  • @sharpgirlsSerious
    @sharpgirlsSerious Місяць тому +36

    I Never Trust People Online. ! Hell !
    You Can't Trust !
    People in Person !

    • @harp_for_mayor
      @harp_for_mayor Місяць тому +1

      You just said a mouf full then!!

    • @franky_2024
      @franky_2024 26 днів тому

      REAL! Read what i posted on the main comment section. tell me if you can’t find it.

    • @OphanielH
      @OphanielH 25 днів тому

      ​@@franky_2024 can't find it

    • @jaypremium9605
      @jaypremium9605 24 дні тому

      Can’t even trust his parents.

    • @franky_2024
      @franky_2024 24 дні тому +1

      @@OphanielH Ok so this boy i went to to high school with and we were kinda friends but not really but i found out last month that he got arrested for explicit child material. I just graduated hs in May. I would've never guessed that he would have those sick intentions to do those things. He literally seemed like a normal friendly talkative person. So you may not know someone’s true colors even if you think you know them.

  • @bambooblue74
    @bambooblue74 27 днів тому +7

    Thank you for sharing your stogy. It’s helped heal victims and educate those with no or little knowledge of trafficking.

  • @unlistedandtwisted
    @unlistedandtwisted 18 днів тому +4

    Thank you so much for sharing your story and advocating for others, Jose. ❤ you!!!

  • @Lovecookies01
    @Lovecookies01 28 днів тому +9

    Prayers for you, I can not imagine what you had to go through. I will never throw my child out...

  • @oson3061
    @oson3061 24 дні тому +6

    So sad that he was failed by his family. Fortunately, it's nice to see that he learned from his challenges and became a strong leader in the community🙏🌈❤️

  • @rhondawebb1993
    @rhondawebb1993 22 дні тому +7

    Jose God bless you young man I am a grandmother of a 17 year old that I have been raising since his birth I wish I could have been there for you to bring you home to show you what unconditional love was Jose I pray that the good Lord gives you the very very best of everything this whole world has to offer Jesus loves you Jesus loves you so much God bless you young man

  • @yoliisacq
    @yoliisacq Місяць тому +15

    They should make me movie from his story. I’m glad he’s healing and okay now ❤ so strong may god bless his heart

  • @EvonneLindiwe
    @EvonneLindiwe Місяць тому +14

    I’m so sorry this happened to you.. 💔

  • @maris6414
    @maris6414 22 дні тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your story, I hope many teenagers will see this and know what is not ok.

  • @Chrizmooo
    @Chrizmooo 19 днів тому +3

    Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻❤️ your strength, light and resilience is immense ❤

  • @tomlidot4871
    @tomlidot4871 26 днів тому +4

    So proud that you share your experience. Thank you.

  • @geeurq
    @geeurq Місяць тому +9

    So sorry you went thru this experience!!! 😢

  • @mextrouble
    @mextrouble 19 днів тому +5

    Mind boggles me how an older person can brainwash an underage into believing it's his fault all this abuse from adults is his fault . Smh

  • @stevennichols4682
    @stevennichols4682 20 днів тому +4

    This happened to me, but I escaped . God bless you for your strength, bravery , and wisdom 🙏

  • @franky_2024
    @franky_2024 26 днів тому +10

    someone I was friends with in high school for less than a month just got arrested for explicit child material. I just graduated hs in May. I would’ve never guessed that he would have those sick intentions to do those things. He literally seemed like a normal friendly talkative person.

  • @PleiadesStarChild
    @PleiadesStarChild Місяць тому +18

    Even though it feels weird to be sharing this to a bunch of strangers (trigger warning). But an ex gf of mine did some unwanted things. In our relationship that lasted 8 months. I thought everything was fine and I thought we were happy. All seemed perfectly fine when she brought up the topic of s*x in April. I was shocked to be honest and I didn’t know what to think because she’s never brought up that topic before and we were only 6 months into our relationship. I just felt like I wasn’t ready. But she promised she would be gentle with me because she knew I never done anything like that before. But I felt uncomfortable but I felt like if I didn’t agree with her she would get mad. Before when she would ask to have a sleepover or to hang out and my parents would tell me that we couldn’t and I would tell her that she would say “I wish we could have a sleepover.” Or “I wish we could hang out” so… that weekend we had a sleepover and she waited until my parents fell asleep. And she put a blindfold on herself. She would tell me that I could do anything I wanted to her but I felt so uncomfortable in that moment.. because my ex bf used to touch me without my consent but he never got that far. At the end of what happened we would talk like normal but I couldn’t help but shake the feeling of what she did was wrong. She has a past of getting r@ped and I thought that since that happened she wouldn’t ever want to do that to anyone else. But at every sleepover after that she always wanted to do that. I remember just getting bad stomach pain and I would always tremble when it came to it but she told me “it’s okay it’s just your anxiety. It’ll go away over time.” Or her telling me to breathe and all that. I remember her telling me that we would have to do it at my place because she would get in trouble for doing it there. She called it experimenting. After we broke up I found out from a mutual friend of ours that my ex gf was trash talking me and saying how inexperienced I was and just other things. I didn’t want to hold back anymore and I told her everything that my ex gf did. My friend encouraged me to tell someone but I was too scared…. Until one day after school my mom and dad sat me down after sending my siblings to their rooms. My dad told me what happened and I just remember crying and telling everything. My mom was crying because she had experienced the same thing but never spoke up about it. It makes me emotional talking about this but my parents were proud of me for saying something and telling someone and they’re grateful for the friend that spoke up.

    • @EvonneLindiwe
      @EvonneLindiwe Місяць тому +5

      I’m so sorry this happened to you… I’ve been there 💐 I hope you get counselling

    • @PleiadesStarChild
      @PleiadesStarChild Місяць тому +2

      @@EvonneLindiwe even though it’s been awhile since it happened and my parents spoke with me last month about it. It still makes me sick and I’m honestly scared of dating again.

  • @MrNorthwestern2013
    @MrNorthwestern2013 23 дні тому +7

    It’s ironic all the people claiming they’d never abandon their child, yet vote for people who want to take away their rights. The hypocrisy is staggering. You might as well just have thrown your kid to the wolves. It’s the same outcome.

  • @raffylallu4409
    @raffylallu4409 25 днів тому +4

    So proud of Him, what a strong and kind man ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Slimrick310
    @Slimrick310 25 днів тому +6

    So sad. This is why you love your child till death and always give them a home even if they mess up. No judgment. Bless this man whos childhood was robbed

  • @normagoff1916
    @normagoff1916 25 днів тому +9

    It’s not necessarily a gender-base problem. Thousands of young people with low self-esteem go through this. Online dating is normal and high-risk behavior is overall too common. Young people often don’t know how bad it is out there.

  • @RndmMcRndmnss
    @RndmMcRndmnss Місяць тому +15

    30yrs, which isn't even 30yrs, isn't nearly enough time!!!

  • @jaypremium9605
    @jaypremium9605 24 дні тому +12

    Don’t have kids if you can’t love them UNCONDITIONALLY.

  • @jayvelasco3344
    @jayvelasco3344 27 днів тому +7

    Ventura County needs this man to come speak.

  • @julieunderwood525
    @julieunderwood525 Місяць тому +17

    God Bless you young Man 🙏

  • @jayjay-iu3wc
    @jayjay-iu3wc 27 днів тому +8

    Will there you go parents....you just destroyed your own son's life way to go parents way to go.. ..SMH 👏👏

  • @lenamayduzen1408
    @lenamayduzen1408 28 днів тому +3

    Poor sweet soul. I'm sorry for all you had to endure. How horrific. I hope you can live your truth safely from now on ❤

  • @dewantoroo
    @dewantoroo 26 днів тому +17

    If your kid is gay and you're homophobic.... At least let them stay at your care until they're an adult and independent enough to take care of themselves. Kicking out your underage gay kid is basically just giving out easy food for predators. Don't be complicit to "supporting" predators.

  • @Chancel388
    @Chancel388 25 днів тому +4

    What a strong man. It couldve easily been me when i was younger

  • @asha8443
    @asha8443 Місяць тому +7

    So proud of you!!

  • @skinco3203
    @skinco3203 Місяць тому +5

    I am so sorry this happened to you 😢

  • @Only1free.
    @Only1free. Місяць тому +25

    His parents should be charged as well.

  • @carismaperez2
    @carismaperez2 26 днів тому +5

    How can a parent ever do this 💔 I would accept my son no matter what, I would never put him out for his sexuality I will accept my son in whatever his journey is.

  • @SpecialBlanket
    @SpecialBlanket 23 дні тому +4

    "I can't believe you let him do that to you"-- that's what I was told too!!!

  • @RuthieDipalma
    @RuthieDipalma 23 дні тому +2

    Parents, don't let this happen to your child no matter what!

  • @joshuabates7424
    @joshuabates7424 24 дні тому +4

    Oh I am so so so very sorry this happened to you!

  • @steviecharley7108
    @steviecharley7108 26 днів тому +4

    What a sad experience. Hope he is mentally well

  • @xash06
    @xash06 Місяць тому +5

    Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🫶🥰 your brave 💯

  • @knux5796
    @knux5796 Місяць тому +10

    im sorry but his family is horrible, he didnt deserve to go thru all that

  • @louniece1650
    @louniece1650 Місяць тому +53

    His family failed him 100%. He was just a precious, innocent lamb sent to slaughter. There is no hate quite like 'Christian' love.😢

    • @SundaysHealing
      @SundaysHealing Місяць тому +4

      So TRUE

    • @MeadeFatLoss
      @MeadeFatLoss Місяць тому +6

      What ? What a ridiculous take. If you love someone you tell them the truth

    • @laurac9857
      @laurac9857 Місяць тому +3

      That's not christian love. There is no much thing as "hate "in God's perfect love. His family just used religion. Please don't confused religion with Jesus christ and God's love. Please Jesus even spoke on this. People just twist God's words around smh

    • @wardenwilkes4510
      @wardenwilkes4510 Місяць тому +4

      I am a Christian and I believe Jesus is the answer. My daughter came out as a lesbian and it didn't change my love for her. You don't have to agree with everything your kid does. But I would never abandon my daughter. I would fight for her and die for her if necessary.

    • @MeadeFatLoss
      @MeadeFatLoss Місяць тому +3

      @@wardenwilkes4510 you still love them but that doesn't mean you support the lifestyle choice.

  • @so4real
    @so4real 21 день тому +2

    Always educate your children and support them.

  • @journeymansmitty8283
    @journeymansmitty8283 Місяць тому +12

    Well I got to hand it to homeboy he got a story to tell😮

  • @kimsherbinin4305
    @kimsherbinin4305 23 дні тому +1

    Sending so much love and prayers to him and the other victims of trafficking. This is just awful. Thank you for covering this topic.

  • @anaalonso8485
    @anaalonso8485 24 дні тому +4

    Blessing to Jose very proud of him

  • @kennedyreid2504
    @kennedyreid2504 25 днів тому +6

    You were just a teen .. no red flag would have given off

  • @AfraidMonsters
    @AfraidMonsters Місяць тому +23

    The fact that his own family did this to him, caused all of this, just because of him being gay, which is natural, is just dsgsting. They did all this just because of the chlt they're in.

    • @laurac9857
      @laurac9857 Місяць тому

      Sadly it might look that way. But satan does this. Thats what the devil does. He comes to lie steal and destroy. We must be aware of the devils schemes

    • @laurac9857
      @laurac9857 Місяць тому +1

      The devil comes to kill, steal and destroy.

    • @NessaGee-hx1et
      @NessaGee-hx1et Місяць тому +2

      His family was not the cause of this. Yes they should have accepted him and no moved him away but social media caused this to happen, a kid being naive caused this.

  • @laurac9857
    @laurac9857 Місяць тому +60

    Parents please love your children through sin. Not isoalte them.

    • @XXgamemaster
      @XXgamemaster 24 дні тому +12

      You don’t get it. The fact that YOU believe it is a sin in the first place is the problem. It’s highly unlikely someone would love something they consider to be an abomination. Change your beliefs. It’s causing immense harm and suffering.

    • @DST.73
      @DST.73 24 дні тому +2

      @@XXgamemaster /\ This! Cheers!

    • @jasondowney4873
      @jasondowney4873 10 днів тому +1

      How about you stop believing love, in a world so full of hatred, is somehow an abomination or sin. How anyone could join a cult that calls people sinners for loving someone is so far beyond me. If you want to live like Jesus in your cult book, act like him!

  • @lindah.2678
    @lindah.2678 23 дні тому +2

    Such a sad story I'm so happy he is doing better now