The aftermath of Paul's death [Part 2]

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  • Опубліковано 25 сер 2016
  • Ben is so evidently struggling to cope without the love of his life/soulmate there to support & guide him.
    The death of his beloved boyfriend Paul Coker, haunts him everyday. He's so lost and simply can't handle life at the moment.
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  • @GlaswegianBR
    @GlaswegianBR 5 років тому +119

    His acting makes it very evident he's playing Phil Mitchells son.

    • @jamesswann6576
      @jamesswann6576 5 років тому +6

      Glaswegian BR he channels Steve McFaddens acting very well

  • @Mythologoumenon
    @Mythologoumenon 4 роки тому +40

    Watching the aftermath videos has made me realize how the trauma of paul's death shaped ben in all his glory and his malice, down to the present day. Made him. and broke him.

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah sadly true

    • @pendafen7405
      @pendafen7405 10 місяців тому

      Yes, No matter how you cut it, Paul really is the centrepoint of Ben's life beginning--and by that, I mean, living. Before Ben met and loved Paul, he wasn't living, only existing as a hollow shell or a puppet controlled by his family's wishes. That's why sadly Callum, or any other man who comes after, can never completely supplant Paul as the first real big love in Ben's heart and soul and Being (though arguably there's a little corner that's Johnny's, too, if only because he was Ben's closet key and he came before Paul).

  • @ssian5678
    @ssian5678 4 роки тому +34

    It was so upsetting watching Ben shout at Johnny. Ben was out of order slinging mud at him like that, but to be fair he wasn't thinking clearly and was too blinded by his hurt and fear and rage to realise he was needlessly trashing someone who loves him. Thankfully they made up a few months later, and even became lovers and close friends which was heartwarming.

  • @adamclark8994
    @adamclark8994 7 років тому +170

    Ben showed his best acting with this storyline. 'Bail?!' haha

    • @adamclark8994
      @adamclark8994 3 роки тому +1

      @Stoneryoda 937 You mean Harry Reid? Yeah maybe so.

    • @Rapha2587
      @Rapha2587 3 роки тому +2

      @@adamclark8994 No, it wasn't. He didn't want to leave, his character left the show (another stupid decision of the new producer at the time) and when they brought him back, they simply recast the role without saying a thing to Harry Reid about it.

    • @adamclark8994
      @adamclark8994 3 роки тому +1

      @@Rapha2587 Oh right.

    • @xxwhispersxx2856
      @xxwhispersxx2856 Рік тому

      @@Rapha2587 Wasn't that the same producer who killed off Ronnie and Roxie too? Didn't Harry leave a few months later?

  • @karlsmith4168
    @karlsmith4168 4 роки тому +47

    I'm new to the EastEnders party, only started paying attention because of #ballum.
    The young Ben featured here did very well. It feels like watching a younger Ben. He fits nicely with the current Ben. And his rage and raw sorrow matches up with the current version as well

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah harry reid did a great job as ben and max Bowden definitely is brilliant as the older version of ben

    • @F4keFelipx
      @F4keFelipx Рік тому +1

      Same! I started watching because of Ballum too, but he mentions Paul a lot so I came back to watch old scenes

    • @pendafen7405
      @pendafen7405 10 місяців тому

      @@F4keFelipx it's a relief to hear that Paul still gets mentioned and plays a part in Ben's psyche, because he's massively important to the Ben character as an adult. Rare good continuity from EE.

  • @colorlessrainbow8269
    @colorlessrainbow8269 4 роки тому +15

    Ben dropping the wrench and his anger disappearing when he saw Jay bleeding is the reason I am in love with his character. He cares about people so much, yet he rarely shows it due to the way he has been brought up. It was really heartbreaking seeing him push everyone away, knowing how badly he really just needed someone to hold him through this whole tragedy.

  • @mollymacdonald999
    @mollymacdonald999 7 років тому +80

    RIP Paul ❤️

  • @transportenthusiasticman26
    @transportenthusiasticman26 6 років тому +37

    I love ben's reaction "I ain't a kid"

  • @limitlesssoul2882
    @limitlesssoul2882 4 роки тому +6

    I love coming here after #ballum and seeing familiarities between Max and Harry in regards to physical acting, dialogue and delivery.

  • @Charlotte-wx4jz
    @Charlotte-wx4jz 4 роки тому +17

    Such a shame they didn’t bring Harry Reid back. He did so well with this story.

    • @pendafen7405
      @pendafen7405 10 місяців тому

      Yes, he worked so hard on this s/l. It looks emotionally exhausting, draining and depressing to act through this.

    • @peterwilliamskelhorn6675
      @peterwilliamskelhorn6675 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@pendafen7405if i had a boyfriend like the 2nd Johnny i wouldn't cheat on someone that good looking

  • @tw9977
    @tw9977 6 років тому +43

    Poor Ben :(

  • @emjaysmile
    @emjaysmile 4 роки тому +8

    Current Ben is the best and I'm happy he's with Callum..

  • @suzawilo
    @suzawilo 4 роки тому +3

    Who's watching these older ones before venturing onto the new Ben's storyline?

  • @LunaMinuna
    @LunaMinuna 3 роки тому +6

    I think this is the only series to actually make me cry and feel dead inside.
    This is the results of homophobia. He died due to homophobic assholes. I feel for Ben. Everything he’s feeling I feel right now

  • @danotoriouskc
    @danotoriouskc 5 років тому +15

    Hmmm...some powerful acting from the actor that plays Ben!

  • @Keibro
    @Keibro 5 років тому +15

    Kate Oates needs to bring Ben back

  • @PeterShieldsukcatstripey
    @PeterShieldsukcatstripey 4 роки тому +7

    so powerful

  • @dannni17x
    @dannni17x Рік тому +2

    I know this storyline Harry Reid did was truly moving😢 did anyone else laugh though when he shouted at Phil? Even Phil was like omg….😮

    • @pendafen7405
      @pendafen7405 10 місяців тому +1

      During this arc, Phil for the first time began to wake up to the monster he created in Ben.

  • @rikkijones5384
    @rikkijones5384 7 років тому +60

    After Ben sees Paul's body I laughed not at Ben crying, but when they showed those blank looks on Billy and Jay's face like ben was crazy I laughed hard.

  • @upsykimsy
    @upsykimsy Рік тому +3

    I'd love to see Johnny come back one day. Would love to see him and Ben reconcile

    • @pendafen7405
      @pendafen7405 10 місяців тому +2

      Yes! They had such a sweet caring strong connection, both as friends and as lovers. They weren't the grand swooning teen romance of Ben/Paul, no, but they had something special all of their own. I think in future they deserve a shot at a mature relationship, perhaps in their 30s or 40s when they've both settled more in life and calmed down.

  • @celtictarotreadings333
    @celtictarotreadings333 2 місяці тому

    The actor who played Ben here is phenomenal

  • @dylanakani_play8018
    @dylanakani_play8018 3 роки тому +2

    Jay : Maybe it was the Wrong House
    Ben : Richie Wouldn't Do that

  • @paulawilson5612
    @paulawilson5612 6 років тому +10

    Amazing acotor Ben

  • @astrogay220
    @astrogay220 5 років тому +6

    well i hope for part 3

  • @foren1951
    @foren1951 7 років тому +10

    After Ben sees Paul.s body laughed not Ben crying,but when they showed those blank
    looks on Billly and Jay,s face like ben was crazy laughed hard.

  • @ziadahlutale1760
    @ziadahlutale1760 6 років тому +17

    How did Jay's nose bleed

    • @thomasorourke2865
      @thomasorourke2865 6 років тому +12

      Ziadah Lutale cocaine abuse

    • @donnakawana
      @donnakawana 5 років тому +1

      Thanks Thomas O'Rourke I couldn't find the next episode.... Thanks!

  • @jecka1982
    @jecka1982 4 роки тому +8

    Why was Jay's nose bleeding at the end? Was he ill?

    • @kylie9687
      @kylie9687 4 роки тому +2

      jecka1982 on drugs

    • @criminallyautistic8372
      @criminallyautistic8372 2 роки тому

      @@kylie9687 I would've thought it was from stress. That's happened to me. Mom and I was taking my cat to the vet for a checkup but I got so panicked that I had to go sit in the car and have a good cry and suddenly my nose began bleeding

  • @pendafen7405
    @pendafen7405 10 місяців тому

    Paul is the centrepoint of Ben's life beginning. Before Ben met and loved Paul, he wasn't living, only existing as a hollow puppet controlled by his family's wishes. That's why sadly Callum, or any man who comes after, can never supplant Paul as the first real big love in Ben's heart and soul and Being. Though arguably, there's a little piece of Ben that's Johnny's, too, if only because he was Ben's closet key and he came before Paul (and later helped Ben come to terms over Paul's passing).

  • @eyeruschannel5064
    @eyeruschannel5064 5 років тому +6

    What happened to Ben after this though? Did he date another one or not? Couldn't find anything about that.

    • @jamesswann6576
      @jamesswann6576 5 років тому +8

      He dated his mothers rapists son Luke and then he got beaten up by him and Phil got Luke killed then.

    • @controversyqueen8951
      @controversyqueen8951 5 років тому +2

      And God knows if he dated anyone while he was missing. The new Ben is good looking.

    • @zxcbyyyy
      @zxcbyyyy 5 років тому +3

      @@controversyqueen8951 Actually the new story looks pretty good now but should start at part 23.

    • @rosieposie0426
      @rosieposie0426 5 років тому +1

      @@jamesswann6576 I forgot about that!

  • @dasmoumitadas2770
    @dasmoumitadas2770 5 років тому +7

    8:25😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @vickyprice6958
      @vickyprice6958 4 роки тому

      😂😂😭😭😭😢😢😭🙁🙁🙁

  • @josephcollins6033
    @josephcollins6033 Місяць тому

    How old is Ben when with Paul? Thanks. I'm stunned, only know about Callum!

  • @liana3008
    @liana3008 4 роки тому +2

    This Ben and Callum would've been great to be honest

    • @xxwhispersxx2856
      @xxwhispersxx2856 Рік тому

      I always wondered how it would have been like to see Harry as Ben with Tony as Callum - or Max as Ben with Jonny as Paul.

  • @sbaker8787
    @sbaker8787 2 роки тому +1

    They should have got Jay!

  • @nicolepoppy9230
    @nicolepoppy9230 3 роки тому +1

    I always thought he hit Jay but he didn't that's not why his nose bled

    • @CharlieShrig18x
      @CharlieShrig18x Рік тому

      Why was his nose bleeding? I'm scrolling the comments to find out 😅

  • @maryjoysanderson
    @maryjoysanderson 5 років тому +3

    BAIL

  • @nephthysnoir3870
    @nephthysnoir3870 5 років тому +11

    I prefer this Ben ( harry Reid) I really can't get used to this new Ben. And as a gay guy he ain't even that nice looking not like this ben in the video

    • @faith6833
      @faith6833 4 роки тому +12

      So all gay men must ne "nice looking"? How stereotypical of you.

    • @beccacostelloe04
      @beccacostelloe04 2 роки тому

      Max Bowden is way more gorgeous in my opinion. 😍

    • @sbaker8787
      @sbaker8787 2 роки тому +2

      I much preferred this Ben he and Jay had such fabulous chemistry they really played off one another well. Yes Harry Reid was much nicer on the eye.

    • @pendafen7405
      @pendafen7405 10 місяців тому

      Both actors have their charms and strong points, and both work well and work hard playing Ben. My personal preference is Reid, as I think he's a more credible Cockney and has more emotional depth and breadth to show onscreen (useful for soap acting), but I understand those who prefer Bowden.

  • @jonathanbarron8311
    @jonathanbarron8311 2 роки тому

    I really hated this Ben, he annoyed me, awful acting, the Ben we have now, is wayyyy better