Shia LaBeouf on REAL ONES with Jon Bernthal

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  • @KarlRock
    @KarlRock Рік тому +5646

    That was heavy. Incredible interview. Thank you 🙏

  • @LexFitness
    @LexFitness Рік тому +2820

    RESPECT EARNED! The guy is doing more than just owning his shit he's actively trying to FIX what he has done in himself and others by speaking out. To consistently criticise someones failings and shortcomings which they have owned is to eternally hope they never heal and in turn you are hoping that NO-ONE will ever have the chance to heal ... INCLUDING YOU!!! Respect is EARNED when someone who has screwed up does all they can to BE BETTER & improve the lives of those they hurt or damaged. We will all at some time in life need the ability to heal and I hope we get the support and NOT permanent condemnation that some people would wish .... until it's happening to them of course ⚡

    • @ryanblack2154
      @ryanblack2154 Рік тому +14

      Ummmmmmm….. well said

    • @iamcasihart
      @iamcasihart Рік тому +8

      I take it you’ve never been abused, battered, raped, given an incurable STD, and watched as stray dogs are killed for no reason. Cool.

    • @gamerjamson
      @gamerjamson Рік тому +61

      @@iamcasihart we take it you're perfect and have never done any wrongdoing in your entire life?

    • @taxidriver2146
      @taxidriver2146 Рік тому +10

      @@iamcasihart have you

    • @joshytorres6881
      @joshytorres6881 Рік тому +11

      @@iamcasihart karen

  • @marnieleask5627
    @marnieleask5627 3 місяці тому +785

    THIS is how a person makes things right. He's human. He's flawed. He's learning, and he's real. Thank you Shia. (And Jon)

    • @CapDanAddams
      @CapDanAddams Місяць тому +3

      Hell yeah

    • @NotASnowflake
      @NotASnowflake 2 дні тому +1

      Absolutely and it baffles me how people told Jon not to do this interview because of _"guilt by association."_ I'm so glad that he did this because so many men and women need to hear the raw truth.

    • @marnieleask5627
      @marnieleask5627 2 дні тому +1

      @@NotASnowflake totally agree. Although it is super painful for all parties, the only way people can start healing is by talking about this with honesty. Love how Jon was courageous enough to do this!

  • @Roudy_Riggs
    @Roudy_Riggs 26 днів тому +135

    My father is a Recovering Alcoholic...he's definatly put us through some shit. I sent him this video and my father broke down into tears, and IMMEDIATLY put himself in rehab. Today marks the first year he's been sober doing the AA Meetings, and found God. Thank you both for being real ones and saving my father

    • @user-gq8qj6jc2p
      @user-gq8qj6jc2p 15 днів тому +6

      Thank you for sharing

    • @colingoofy69
      @colingoofy69 14 днів тому +5

      Tell him I said congratulations

    • @hannahannzq1183
      @hannahannzq1183 14 днів тому +3

      Praise God.. Congratz.. God always thinks about you n dad.. He alwas works in pir life

    • @nataliearlene1
      @nataliearlene1 13 днів тому +2

      Amaizing ❤

    • @olbricky6824
      @olbricky6824 13 днів тому +1

      Your father saved your father

  • @adamrie3484
    @adamrie3484 Рік тому +15225

    “Rock bottom isn’t when you experience the worst moment of your life, rock bottom is when you change” - Shia, those are some words my man.

    • @kevin5573
      @kevin5573 Рік тому +476

      im no english professor but yes those are indeed words

    • @MichaelPCarr10
      @MichaelPCarr10 Рік тому +1

      Well quoted, and those words are profound. If you’ve never been there, STFU

    • @360.Tapestry
      @360.Tapestry Рік тому +108

      let's see how many more rock bottoms he's got in him

    • @adamrie3484
      @adamrie3484 Рік тому +66

      @@kevin5573 Well im happy you got it bud.

    • @Wilddoggz
      @Wilddoggz Рік тому +90

      Or Jon saying "pain is an adhesive" Powerful

  • @kwalombo_ta
    @kwalombo_ta Рік тому +12539

    Shia spoke 99% of the time. He needed this, big ups to Jon for giving him this platform. Seems like a solid good dude too

    • @chuckvandy9963
      @chuckvandy9963 Рік тому +137

      Jon’s a good dude, but Shia just doesn’t sound genuine at all.

    • @kwalombo_ta
      @kwalombo_ta Рік тому +868

      @@chuckvandy9963 I disagree. He's never sounded this genuine before

    • @martblart9884
      @martblart9884 Рік тому +289

      @@chuckvandy9963 Out of curiosity, what about this came across un-genuine?

    • @charlesahweyevu
      @charlesahweyevu Рік тому +308

      @@chuckvandy9963 whatever you got going on. I hope you make it.

    • @Hehawtyragu
      @Hehawtyragu Рік тому +183

      @@chuckvandy9963 you totally misread that one, or you’re just lying because you’re hurting too

  • @jesseb5447
    @jesseb5447 Місяць тому +221

    I'm almost speechless with how raw & inspirational this was. Shia's a real one.

    • @gerardorodriguezgarcia881
      @gerardorodriguezgarcia881 27 днів тому +1

      It’s not that deep. These guys are acting.

    • @godxxofxxwar22
      @godxxofxxwar22 25 днів тому +11

      @@gerardorodriguezgarcia881I disagree, you walk that wretched path like both of us did and then come talk to me. That was real, having the world, pissing it away, and then finding the one true God is powerful.

    • @StevenPGonzalez626
      @StevenPGonzalez626 15 днів тому

      LA foo

    • @ruthslater6364
      @ruthslater6364 9 днів тому

      Shia hood the movie was a flop. Most of the movie was pretty socialistic itsly. VERY LITTKE PADRE PIO. AND PIO WAS A GREAT MAN AND PRIEST . THERE WAS so much more to concentrate on and the film just let it slip away. 😮☹️😴

    • @ruthslater6364
      @ruthslater6364 9 днів тому

      ​@@godxxofxxwar22that was suppose to be the story didn't happen in this movie only in the real life of PIO.

  • @debarpanmajumdar4203
    @debarpanmajumdar4203 Місяць тому +126

    Can we just take a moment to appreciate Jon Bernthal for being such an amazing listener. Everyone says they are a good listener but actually most of them aren't but Jon here remembers every small details about Shia's stories. God bless Jon & Shia too ❤

  • @dtsanluis
    @dtsanluis Рік тому +13681

    Being a genuine listener is much harder than to be an elegant speaker. Jon's listening skills should be in a textbook for How to Listen.

    • @SleepingSheep95
      @SleepingSheep95 Рік тому +151

      Uh huh, uh huh, yea, for sure..

    • @mrfewe
      @mrfewe Рік тому +335

      His deliberate effort to refer back to what he Shio says earlier in the conversation is a way to demonstrate his listening. Anyone can pretend to listen however being able to regurgitate what you heard proves it to the other person and allows them to go deeper and share more by being more comfortable. Top notch communication skills.

    • @JustinMacMMA
      @JustinMacMMA Рік тому +27

      Why I subscribed.

    • @oscarortiz4154
      @oscarortiz4154 Рік тому +16

      @Skynet1 people just say anything

    • @a1fromday117
      @a1fromday117 Рік тому

      @Skynet1 for real tho u come on here just to talk shit about the next mama comment? For what? Does it make u feel better about urself?

  • @kirstyanne_
    @kirstyanne_ Рік тому +22001

    I saw Jon posted this on his Instagram and it was interesting to see how triggered people were in the comments section, outraged that an abuser was being given a platform. I highly doubt these people watched the interview. Personally, as a woman who experienced physical and emotional abuse at the hands of a man I found this conversation healing, and I’m incredibly grateful you shared this. THIS is masculinity, THIS is how we heal masculinity. When men are given safe spaces to be radically authentic,raw and vulnerable they heal, and we all heal. I don’t wish for the demise of the man who abused me, I wish for his redemption, I wish for him to heal, so that he can be a better man and treat women with the love and respect that they deserve. Can’t wait to see more open and raw conversations likes these.

    • @soniaapodaca9324
      @soniaapodaca9324 Рік тому +629

      You are a beautiful person ❤️

    • @robwoodring9437
      @robwoodring9437 Рік тому +4

      Would that all who we could accurately dub a POS find "rock bottom" and a reason to turn their minds and lives around.

    • @serenamoore1358
      @serenamoore1358 Рік тому +296

      Such wise words!

    • @Hmfirestormz
      @Hmfirestormz Рік тому +464

      I saw the same thing on insta. It’s interesting how many people don’t want redemption just punishment.

    • @YungBeezer
      @YungBeezer Рік тому

      The internet is full of people who are incapable of thinking for themselves. It’s why the world is a disaster right now.

  • @nathanpatton4019
    @nathanpatton4019 8 днів тому +24

    "My purpose now is to be patient." That shit hit

  • @orionpax45
    @orionpax45 4 місяці тому +176

    Seeing two man having such a deep and profound conversation, sharing some serious parts of life. This was an amazing conversation. Thank you Jon and Shia for this.

  • @lewisgilbert5455
    @lewisgilbert5455 6 місяців тому +1947

    Saw Shia last week outside Erewhon (grocery story) hand over a big bag of groceries to a family with a sign asking for help. It was in a back lane away from everyone. Didn't want anyone to see and he walked off quickly. Just a random act of kindness and compassion. Sounds and looks like this dude is on a good path and is helping people. Respect!

    • @WaterWarriorFishing
      @WaterWarriorFishing 6 місяців тому +13

      😭 ❤

    • @stevenhuston1622
      @stevenhuston1622 5 місяців тому +4

      what store location?

    • @BlackDalhia7
      @BlackDalhia7 5 місяців тому +20

      And everyone clapped

    • @tehlite1
      @tehlite1 5 місяців тому +21

      No, you didn't.

    • @rjskum688
      @rjskum688 5 місяців тому +9

      Then he got shot out of a catapult, into the mouth of a dragon!

  • @BattleHog
    @BattleHog Рік тому +7121

    I’m not watching this as a Shia fan or a John fan. I’m watching this as human being trying to learn and listen from other people’s experiences and I’m getting a lot from this.

    • @blu_h4ck3r
      @blu_h4ck3r Рік тому +23

      truth

    • @gaberojas7748
      @gaberojas7748 Рік тому +19

      Exactly 💯👊🏾👏🏽👏🏽

    • @proz33builds
      @proz33builds Рік тому +15

      Amen fam

    • @cbpapp9204
      @cbpapp9204 Рік тому +40

      We have all made mistakes and have hurt or harmed someone. But we can change our behavior. We can stop and be present. Before you speak listen to your intuition? Is what you are about to say true, is it kind, is it necessary and is it helpful? If the answer to ANY question is no, it should be left unsaid. Much love to all my brothers and sisters on this journey! 🙏🏻❤️🕊

    • @AmericanArgonaut
      @AmericanArgonaut Рік тому +12

      Same here.. this was a profound conversation to those who really listen to it.

  • @christinahardin6591
    @christinahardin6591 Місяць тому +35

    As a survivor of DV from a spouse with addiction, I’m so thankful this exists and the Shia exists. That people who have struggled in these areas know that there’s a light at the end of the tunnel and there’s help out there. His past being sketchy makes him an incredible mouthpiece for recovery and healing. I’ve always loved Shia on the professional front but absolutely adore him speaking transparently and taking accountability. Thank you for this interview. ❤

  • @YSiggy13
    @YSiggy13 27 днів тому +24

    This was the best interview I have EVER watched in my entire existence. Ever. As a survivor of DV it is healing to see him do better. Bad choices don't make you a bad person. Mistakes are human. Change is a choice. Who are we to deny this man the opportunity to make changes for his life. We aren't Masters of this Universe. Worry about your own path. Change is an opportunity for EVERYONE. Rich or Poor. Sending love and light to Shia LaBeouf. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️

    • @skr6511
      @skr6511 26 днів тому +1

      I know that this may sound hollow considering I am a random internet guy. ( jk. I'm actually chat gpt)
      I just wanted to say that I am glad you made it out in one piece.
      stay safe.
      stay golden.

  • @burp1361
    @burp1361 8 місяців тому +1991

    I like how Jon never interrupts him. I think Shia has more wisdom than people give him credit for

    • @briankennedy1313
      @briankennedy1313 8 місяців тому +55

      That’s EXACTLY why he is hated. Just can’t stand what they can’t figure out.

    • @nate2748
      @nate2748 8 місяців тому +21

      He has more wisdom than the half of Hollywood. So much to learn from his experience.

    • @donttrickimtricky.8567
      @donttrickimtricky.8567 8 місяців тому +9

      @@briankennedy1313 He is a method actor, no explanation needed. They read a few books about philosophy or spirituality and repeat exactly what you want to hear, if he really felt like a piece of crap human being, he would stay in hiding forever in shame. He is testing out a few scripts and will grift to what sticks.

    • @briankennedy1313
      @briankennedy1313 8 місяців тому +61

      @@donttrickimtricky.8567 you would think such an intellectual, that apparently has everyone and everything figured out, would know not to put a comma at the end of the first five sentences in your comment. Stop projecting your own weak tendencies. Reading basic children novels might benefit you personally than philosophy, though.

    • @donttrickimtricky.8567
      @donttrickimtricky.8567 8 місяців тому +3

      @@briankennedy1313 projecting my own weak tendencies? Re-watch the part where he calls himself a [piece of crap] then says he has to create a bond with his daughter that's stronger than what the media will say he is. But at the same time saying he was a bad person/is and is working on himself.
      It's all predictable b. S from someone trying to put a spin on their abuse. Because on one hand media is going to lie on him on the other he is a different person and he was saved by the victim, she is his" Saint " lol.
      He method acted on the tank movie, it's a different level of narcissistic behavior. You are rewarded for how well you emulate the character that's written.

  • @oliverclytus7559
    @oliverclytus7559 Рік тому +1900

    No interruptions, no audience no live band, Just a pure honest one on one conversation between grown ass men

    • @therealmvp1024
      @therealmvp1024 Рік тому +6

      Couple interruptions, I just came to the comments to see if anyone mentioned Shia cutting Jon off 🤣🤣🤣
      Shit, and vice versa

    • @therealmvp1024
      @therealmvp1024 Рік тому +3

      But yeah it’s a great interview. Incredibly honest discussion

    • @Franciskev2
      @Franciskev2 Рік тому +4

      What we’re watching here is far from “honest.”

    • @bluperalta9879
      @bluperalta9879 Рік тому

      @@Franciskev2 but it still inspirational for others

    • @JordanFreshour
      @JordanFreshour 11 місяців тому

      That Weedwhacker, though

  • @jennameese8738
    @jennameese8738 3 місяці тому +142

    I saw an excerpt of this interview on another social media platform, and was so mesmerized that I had to seek out the entirety of the episode.
    I think this is one of the most profound, redemptive, enlightening pieces of work.
    I think it all reached us for a reason and that everyone has a different message to take away from this, and I think that’s really beautiful.

    • @tigreytigrey8537
      @tigreytigrey8537 21 день тому

      It's cause he's still god. He's a god in denial of his godness. Even when he's in denial. it art. He cry. He god. He art.

    • @gpw_ap2832
      @gpw_ap2832 День тому

      I saw a reel on Instagram. And I came to look for the interview. Listened to the entire thing and I am thankful for it, only god knows how much I really needed to hear this at this point in my life. It’s. Just crazy.

  • @maryellenbarratt6515
    @maryellenbarratt6515 2 місяці тому +36

    DEAR SHIA ! Im a 63 yr old Gramma brought down by alcohol and drug addiction,my whole life .. Like you , ran and ran . I watched Honey Boy ,and Prime suggested Peanut Butter Falcon .I watched both movies in the same day .I was like Why Shia ? I’ve never followed you or been a fan .GOD WANTED ME TO WATCH YOU ! I also watched REAL ONES on UTUBE and for the first time in my freakin life I SEE PURPOSE IN MY LIFE !!! A you brought w to the. MOUNTAIN !!! GOD HAS BLESSED US BOTH ! THANK YOU FOR YOUR TRUTH !!!!!!!!❤God Bless your Marriage,wife and baby gir and YOU !!!!! THANK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS!AND a the ability to RECEIVE IT !!!!!!!

    • @gpw_ap2832
      @gpw_ap2832 День тому

      Hey. I saw a clip of this on Instagram. Came to UA-cam for the whole interview.
      I’m 28 and have messed up BAD with the people who love me.
      Only god knows just how bad I needed his message at this point in my life.
      I hope one day Shia and Jon realize this. Thank you

  • @tiana8456
    @tiana8456 8 місяців тому +1314

    "I know it's gonna be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end."
    Thank you guys so much for such an incredible conversation.

    • @davemaltese
      @davemaltese 8 місяців тому +14

      in the words of John Lennon "there's always a happy ending, if you're not happy, it's not the end"

    • @tiana8456
      @tiana8456 8 місяців тому +2

      @davemaltese on the other hand, actually, it sounds strange... cause when we die, we can't be unhappy, too.

    • @robertoflores3485
      @robertoflores3485 8 місяців тому +1

      😊

    • @ashtinnichole
      @ashtinnichole 7 місяців тому +1

      This 💯💯💯💯

    • @sebxstixnrojxs
      @sebxstixnrojxs 7 місяців тому +1

      pelusa caligari bars

  • @boonevalenta798
    @boonevalenta798 Рік тому +519

    I am just coming back from an 8 year relapse. I saw this in treatment. Changed my life. Thank you for 30 days sober today.

  • @brandonlong09
    @brandonlong09 13 днів тому +8

    I love how Jon Bernthal shuts tf up and lets his guests speak their piece. He interjects when necessary (to keep the interview on track and structured) but… he lets his interviewee’s speak. What a GREAT production…

  • @emlinc229
    @emlinc229 4 місяці тому +40

    Mind blowing interview...made me tear up when he was talking about his wife and just how her presence and showing up saved his life... Shia God bless you and your family always. 🙏🙌

  • @davidcenac3679
    @davidcenac3679 Рік тому +3266

    What makes Jon a remarkable interviewer is his ability to know when to be quiet and when to speak. Awesome interview!

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 Рік тому +23

      Yeah great interview

    • @gregrobinson4178
      @gregrobinson4178 Рік тому +44

      Yes he doesnt overtalk.. almost to the point where your like jon chim in more. But this is gold. Perfect. Dont change

    • @codaboggs8430
      @codaboggs8430 Рік тому +21

      Yeah when he started getting into his own kids about them being able to read now, he recognized he slightly interrupted and dropped it immediately. Kinda wanna know what he was gonna say

    • @kayleelove4815
      @kayleelove4815 Рік тому +5

      Right i loved how he listened

    • @boopsnootandboogie
      @boopsnootandboogie Рік тому +13

      Yep, he can read the conversation/atmosphere really well.

  • @SirPaxson
    @SirPaxson 5 місяців тому +54

    i really respect the way jon is showing him he has his full attention

    • @alchemY.420
      @alchemY.420 2 місяці тому +1

      I feel like he was doing too much lol

    • @SA-io6es
      @SA-io6es Місяць тому +1

      ​@@alchemY.420 I feel you, seems like he was trying getting a reaction out of Shia, looking for that Viral clip or episode

    • @alchemY.420
      @alchemY.420 Місяць тому +1

      @@SA-io6es yeah you can tell he was waiting for anything controversial to be said

  • @cdr861532
    @cdr861532 Місяць тому +13

    This is one of the best conversations I have ever listened to. This is the 2-3 time that I have listened to it, and I find myself coming back to it from time to time. A lot of honesty.....a lot of self inflection.....a lot of openness. We need more of this, especially as men.

  • @user-os6mf8rf8v
    @user-os6mf8rf8v 5 місяців тому +1317

    I’ve watched this video almost everyday since I decided to try and get sober again. I relate to it all and honestly it’s saved my life. I’m so grateful.

    • @oheigertaigh
      @oheigertaigh 5 місяців тому +19

      Keep up the work. It sucks to do, but every aspect of your life will be better for it

    • @nesetvega7800
      @nesetvega7800 5 місяців тому +13

      You can recover! Work it cause your worth it!

    • @chitgoansiau4678
      @chitgoansiau4678 5 місяців тому +6

      wish u the best

    • @livanyvaldivia3820
      @livanyvaldivia3820 5 місяців тому +2

      Keep pushing! You got this 🤗

    • @ArchangelMW
      @ArchangelMW 4 місяці тому +8

      We are strangers but we all are cheering for you!!! You got this 🔥🤙🏻

  • @akshatpurohit957
    @akshatpurohit957 Рік тому +880

    That Shia's line ''You become a man when you become responsible for other people'' this got me he is on a path to self redemption.

    • @desert_saint
      @desert_saint Рік тому +9

      I’ve heard a real man once say, you truly become a real man when nothing upsets you. Let that settle in.

    • @777devine777
      @777devine777 Рік тому +12

      @@desert_saint no you didn’t 😭🔥💀 real men don’t talk irrational. Let THAT settle in

    • @rickvasquez6677
      @rickvasquez6677 Рік тому +16

      @@777devine777 Yeah no man said that bro 😂

    • @eligonzalez1669
      @eligonzalez1669 Рік тому +2

      And the purest form of that is found in your kids. A family! Helps a man control his selfishness and pride.

    • @stasm4964
      @stasm4964 Рік тому

      what minute? thanks

  • @weresmurf5731
    @weresmurf5731 3 місяці тому +38

    This is one of the greatest, most meaningful interviews I've ever experienced. As a Dad, as a man as a human in general, this cut to my core deeply. Thank you Jon and especially Shia for their cutting honesty.

  • @user-ft9po9fz2n
    @user-ft9po9fz2n 3 місяці тому +40

    being accountable for the rest of your life whilst being acceptive of what you have done is truly special and I'm happy for him

  • @delroyodelroyo8329
    @delroyodelroyo8329 Рік тому +1567

    I am at a complete loss for words. This interview was so incredibly moving. As a woman, not once - not ONCE - have I thought about the lack of societal support and resources men have when they’re in search of any type of rehabilitation, whether it’s drugs, alcohol, anger management, emotional/physical abuse, etc. Listening to this raw, untethered interview brought me to tears so many times because I am quick to judge men like Shia. I am quick to point fingers and write them off completely. But all people deserve second chances. Men like Shia deserve the opportunity to get to the root cause of their issues and do everything in their power to make amends. Shia - if you’re reading this, I want to thank you for sharing your truth with the world. It was the most profound interview I have ever listened to. To Jon - I am so grateful that you chose to give Shia this opportunity and be a true friend. You did not just talk the talk - you walked the walk. The world needs more people like you.

    • @janekocorek3313
      @janekocorek3313 Рік тому +23

      Delroyo, I could not have put it better. Everything you said is what I am thinking. Still watching and blown away.

    • @maiawaive9566
      @maiawaive9566 Рік тому +27

      Yes! Thank you for pointing this out because that’s so profoundly important to realize. The problems men face are valid & resources need to be there so they’ll have the tools to gain an understanding on the root cause & gain the self awareness to change. I watched this documentary about people who facilitate the rehabilitation of domestic violence offenders & the utter vitriol & hate they get is shocking.
      People want to just write these offenders off. Almost wanting to euthanise them. I understand that it’s difficult to separate the sin from the sinner but there should be room to actually offer support to those who want to change.
      The most influential of people are usually the ones that were the biggest sinners. The most inspiring to those that struggle are the ones who also struggled but came out victorious. Imagine if we just wrote everyone of them off & subsequently also writing off the lives they were able to save when they did change.

    • @Mammasitta
      @Mammasitta Рік тому +14

      I hear and feel you!!!!!! I feel this man ❤

    • @DrMurdercock
      @DrMurdercock Рік тому +45

      Want to see a truly broken man? Talk to the guy at the bar, who sits alone staring at his drink which he pounds back to back every night. Waiting for some stranger to say something so he can get his pictures out of his kids who he no longer see's because his wife left him, took the kids, took half of everything he had, takes half his paycheck now. The only purpose the man ever had is now gone. Taken from him. And people don't think about that, they only think about the woman.

    • @jjwalker2011
      @jjwalker2011 Рік тому +7

      💯

  • @EffinWarVet
    @EffinWarVet Рік тому +1465

    I saw this because of an interview Jon did on Joe Rogan and looked this up. Wasn’t even tracking what Shia did or was goin through. Shit still had me captivated and in tears. No words can capture how much I love this. The pain and forgiveness, the shame and humility, the seeking of redemption, all of it. Thank you

    • @snieves4
      @snieves4 Рік тому +10

      Ive seen excerpts.
      I feel the whole video needs to be viewed.

    • @oblivionzzzmike
      @oblivionzzzmike Рік тому +26

      Interview on Rogan brought me here too. This is raw, powerful stuff

    • @dh66
      @dh66 Рік тому +5

      Same here man. The ego gets you to a destination but the journey always hurts and shits on the people around you.

    • @emeewel
      @emeewel Рік тому +3

      I found this through a Rogan clip as well. So glad I did.

    • @frankcoley1537
      @frankcoley1537 Рік тому +4

      Him and John are a lot alike

  • @chasityschon4917
    @chasityschon4917 4 місяці тому +42

    2nd chances are given not when someone apologies profusely, but when you see the action, they took to change and get better. This man deserves a 2nd chance. Spiritual Awakening and Humility is the road he trudges. Much respect for both men.

    • @WickedIndigo
      @WickedIndigo Місяць тому +1

      Exactly. If we can’t have a shot at redemption than what’s the point of all of this?

  • @mcradical6283
    @mcradical6283 2 місяці тому +31

    "It's the first time I understood love, cos i had nothing to give" - that's a profound way to describe love, thank-you Shia and Jon

  • @kylengn
    @kylengn 8 місяців тому +521

    "Freedom without guidelines and limitations is a f*cking madness". That hit hard

  • @manuelobster
    @manuelobster Рік тому +955

    If only he knew that not only he saved himself, but also helped thousands of people with this interview

    • @kcjean9883
      @kcjean9883 Рік тому +14

      Thousands now, hopefully millions in due time. 🙏💜

    • @TherealBigJohnSt33l
      @TherealBigJohnSt33l Рік тому +33

      I’ve seen this several times. But I choked up when he describes how his wife’s voice saved him. Went through a divorce, got therapy, and everything. A friends voice who will soon be my wife. Saved mine.....

    • @yg1141
      @yg1141 Рік тому +12

      He saved me.

    • @ammodaanimal689
      @ammodaanimal689 Рік тому +7

      I wouldn’t say he saved me but a lot out of it. Listening to him tell his story hit me because I have those exact same problems, I grew up on chaos, I’ve battled addiction for 25 years and the vicious violent, soul tearing BS that goes with it. I’m part of the Fuck Up Tribe too homie!!

    • @EPHZAM
      @EPHZAM Рік тому +2

      @@TherealBigJohnSt33l I love how Jon is calm and uninterrupting. Also that scene in Fury where Jon's character is told by Shia that 'You shouldnt', meaning he shouldn't shut up(Sarcasm).

  • @bryanthenderson9419
    @bryanthenderson9419 День тому +1

    Watching this for the second time. As a man recovering from addiction and finding faith again, this has been eye opening and encouraging in a way I can not describe

  • @stephenmccusker352
    @stephenmccusker352 16 днів тому +4

    This interview! First off i'm seeing this a year late and I simply clicked on it to watch this first 5min, then suddenly it was over. I couldn't stop watching, mad respect to both gentlemen here, Shia laid it all out and in a very genuine and articulate way that was impactful. Thanks to Jon for providing a safe place for people to open up. Great platform, I'm now subscribed!

  • @rafaelchico-lugo4019
    @rafaelchico-lugo4019 Рік тому +676

    Probably the most genuine display of vulnerability I've seen. One of a handful of broken men that are actually taking accountability. A raw and valuable podcast.

    • @helen9289
      @helen9289 Рік тому +9

      if not for Jon wanting these conversations out there we never would have seen or heard this....... to know that you can be so broken as Shia was or is as a man & to put the effort into becoming a better person is inspiring

    • @yajuteknologic
      @yajuteknologic Рік тому +1

      Sorry to write this, but I do not see that. I see a still broken human being that hasn’t done the most simple: accept himself, love himself and deserve himself first and foremost before attempting to do that to anyone. Because it’s been a pretty minute for me, it’s about accepting you and being as balanced as possible. It’s your responsibility to deal with your issues. To still want a space daddy to please help me because I can’t? Sorry… this kid still has a couple of miles to go.

  • @erikahunter652
    @erikahunter652 Рік тому +861

    “it’s difficult to accept love when you dont think you deserve it” always true ❤

    • @klaudiaarriera9989
      @klaudiaarriera9989 Рік тому +14

      Reminds of the perks of being a wallflower quote “we accept the love we think we deserve”

    • @thoticcusprime9309
      @thoticcusprime9309 Рік тому +2

      I dont care about love or believe in it

    • @smokey8076
      @smokey8076 Рік тому +1

      @@thoticcusprime9309 Love exists. If you can give Love without expecting anything in return, that's proof for you

    • @defunddemocrats2470
      @defunddemocrats2470 Рік тому +2

      @ thoticcus prime what do you mean you don’t believe in love or care about it. Humans need love look up good race bad rice

    • @geeked-outturtlesfan4288
      @geeked-outturtlesfan4288 Рік тому

      I'm there

  • @rowleyedits6545
    @rowleyedits6545 2 місяці тому +18

    Who would of thought that Shia would be so relatable considering is success. Truly genuine and real. This podcast inspired me to change and I’m sure it did the same for many other, as well as save lives.

  • @itssosweet12411
    @itssosweet12411 2 дні тому +1

    Not sure if either of you will ever read this but I am a survivor from an abusive relationship that lasted just over 11 years. Finally got away. Amen. I have watched this 4 times now and it really makes my heart happy. Shia thank you for your humility and willingness to be vulnerable. Keep up the journey, you are appreciated. Thank you Jon for opening an Avenue for him to do this. Well done brothers. See you both when we all get home. God Bless!

  • @JeremySnel24
    @JeremySnel24 Рік тому +792

    Jon is the dictionary of active listening… he is just so engaged and just listens, just let’s them speak their mind and story

    • @thesnailiscoming..5736
      @thesnailiscoming..5736 Рік тому +2

      I don't like that way he looks at shia . Something is off with him. He seems like he's hiding hate .

    • @LeroyDogg
      @LeroyDogg Рік тому

      Dude… They’re friends…

    • @mynamesdillan
      @mynamesdillan Рік тому +10

      @@thesnailiscoming..5736 i dont think hes hiding hate but i agree with you that he is looking at him in some odd way

    • @mikemyon3570
      @mikemyon3570 Рік тому +20

      Interesting you guys see it that way. To me it came across totally different. From my perspective I saw what he also said to Shia:
      He loves him, he wants to help & support him and he did with having him on his show. To me, actions speak much louder than words or looks he might give.
      I could also sense that in his whole behavior while listening, he was totally empathic and felt with Shia.
      So now that you saw something he might have hid from Shia or some hate, is it maybe that deep in yourself, there is something feeling like this? So you believe to see it in someone else?
      Since this is only text and no voice, be aware I say this with the intention of support for you, since in my own experience I have many times seen & maybe disliked things in other people that actually where things in myself I needed to fix. So for this could be a hint for you where to look for further self-development. Where are all on our own way of development, but also we're in this together.
      I hope my intention comes across the way it was meant.

    • @Gingersnaappp
      @Gingersnaappp Рік тому +12

      I think he genuinely interested in hearing what Shia was saying…& it was an intense conversation.

  • @austonreeves3048
    @austonreeves3048 Рік тому +804

    The intensity in Jon’s eyes as he listens to Shia is enough to make me tear up. THAT is a fucking friend right there! That’s hard to find. This is one of the realist interviews I’ve ever seen

    • @unboundstorm8639
      @unboundstorm8639 Рік тому +12

      This comment made me tear up too

    • @LLynneM
      @LLynneM Рік тому +3

      @@unboundstorm8639 me too.

    • @oneroad7072
      @oneroad7072 Рік тому +5

      Kickin it with these monks

    • @DTJ2024
      @DTJ2024 Рік тому +3

      They’re both acting - they can’t help but be fake while pretending to be real

    • @angelvigilante82
      @angelvigilante82 Рік тому

      Mehh ..it's called acting . I'm sure he feels things but both are cocky assholes . This likely best behaved I seen in a minute from both .

  • @thisismaribethe
    @thisismaribethe 2 місяці тому +22

    Dude I’ve seen clips from this interview but this was truly fantastic. Raw. Real. Relatable and most of all accountable. It takes a profound sense of humility to own up to unsavory parts of your life - and not just own up, but to take it a step further and name them. Damn. I applaud him on the journey! I pray more men will follow.

  • @joannamisiek6613
    @joannamisiek6613 4 дні тому +1

    I come from Poland, the first movie I saw with you was Disturbia. I always knew there was something in you, not only as an actor but simply as a person. Thank you for your sincerity and openness. I send my blessings. I am grateful to the presenter for such an uplifting message

  • @benlemoi3515
    @benlemoi3515 Рік тому +346

    The amount of happiness on Jon’s face when Shia starts talking about his child is priceless. Pure joy in that smile

    • @mynamejacob8678
      @mynamejacob8678 Рік тому +12

      It seemed to me that he was proud of him, and wanted to see something good in his life that may have inspired him for the best.

    • @gabby3406
      @gabby3406 Рік тому +12

      I could tell that he as a dad to relate to those feelings. He seems genuinely happy that Shia now understands what it's like to unconditionally love someone in such a pure way.

  • @kassiefurgason4143
    @kassiefurgason4143 Рік тому +1012

    As a woman who suffered abuse at the hands of a man, I can honestly say that this conversation made me believe that even a man who puts his hands on a woman can, if given the chance, become a better person. I hope that he, like Shia, can become a better person and love people the way you should love people.

    • @roamingnomad3054
      @roamingnomad3054 Рік тому +56

      As a man at 18 I made this mistake I'm now 42 with a daughter of 13 we all can change for the better I'm sorry you experienced what you did I hope life is good for you now x

    • @chetjump5744
      @chetjump5744 Рік тому +25

      @@roamingnomad3054 thanks for being a reminder that we can do better. Good man, I respect your enlightenment✊

    • @roamingnomad3054
      @roamingnomad3054 Рік тому +10

      @@chetjump5744 appreciated brother 👍

    • @johnkim7701
      @johnkim7701 Рік тому

      Men don’t just put their hands on a women for no reason. We only do that if you push us there.

    • @vincenzo773
      @vincenzo773 Рік тому +5

      If a woman deserves then she deserves to get handled

  • @ccaputa
    @ccaputa Рік тому +1007

    I'm 58 years old and I don't know ONE man that would have bared his soul, expressed his sins, admitted his faults and cried in front of everyone, including myself. It was a beautiful thing to witness, brought many tears, and was a harsh look in the mirror. Shia is on a righteous path, I wish him nothing but the best.

    • @leonornelas9950
      @leonornelas9950 Рік тому +20

      Shia LaBeouf started off young and now that I'm a grown man I see how growing up like that can affect you as a man I'ma 40 years old man and I've had my share of wrongdoings some worse than others but I've learned from them and I'm a better person from them but I wish men had the outlets women do when they are battered... Society always wants to bash men for being men having a man nature but I pray that God put his healing hand over him and lead him into a victorious path and be a inspiration to other people who felt like him... God bless everyone reading this and their family may 2023 be the best year for you yet!

    • @shane9287
      @shane9287 Рік тому +1

      You should assess what you're doing wrong to not be around good men.

    • @tarrm19ify
      @tarrm19ify Рік тому

      I think this kid is a chameleon just adapting to his situation and surroundings

    • @ScottyDoesntKnow69
      @ScottyDoesntKnow69 Рік тому

      I’m glad Shia found his way and hopefully one day he can find it in himself to ask for forgiveness for how he acted and treated Prez Trump😊

    • @susanthejew6351
      @susanthejew6351 Рік тому +2

      he sure is a good actor...
      and you sure are easily fooled

  • @patrickevans9604
    @patrickevans9604 11 днів тому +2

    I love how much Shia truly shared all of himself that he could in this session. Dude had me tearing up a couple times because of how he was able to let himself feel the emotion of some of those situations while talking about them. I respect the fact that he's trying to stay on this journey of bettering himself in order to make right the things that he can. That's living life on life's terms

  • @ulysesslee1848
    @ulysesslee1848 9 днів тому +2

    AWESOM!!!! LOVED THIS SO MUCH!!! WE NEED THESE EXAMPLES OF COMING BACK, ACCOUNTABILITY AND HEALING FOR OUR YOUNG MEN!! THEY DO NOT GET ENOUGH OF THIS!! THANK YOU!!

  • @Apol-los
    @Apol-los Рік тому +1144

    Shia’s brutal honesty is very refreshing in a society that is terrified to say the wrong thing. To confess wrongdoing while admitting to still being on the journey is a realistic encouragement.
    His testimony is no “movie moment” but it’s a slight nudge that gets you one step closer to transformation.
    Confession & apologies aren’t enough.
    Thank you Shia for emphasizing we have to actually change in the areas where we fall short 🙏🏻

  • @LukeD91
    @LukeD91 Рік тому +512

    As a father, husband, recovering alcoholic and drug addict, I appreciate the platform you gave this man. Thank you both.

    • @michaelbasinger6533
      @michaelbasinger6533 10 місяців тому +1

      What did you do for your recovery? I was an addict and I changed that with alcohol. 1/2 gallon a day for two years. I have 2 beautiful kids and a woman with a foot out the door.

    • @edreiproducedit9028
      @edreiproducedit9028 10 місяців тому +2

      @@michaelbasinger6533take shrooms

    • @antonioanchondo8488
      @antonioanchondo8488 10 місяців тому +1

      And still active gang member

    • @michaelbasinger6533
      @michaelbasinger6533 10 місяців тому

      @@antonioanchondo8488 EAD

    • @michaelbasinger6533
      @michaelbasinger6533 10 місяців тому

      @@edreiproducedit9028 got any???!!!

  • @deadtrees1279
    @deadtrees1279 3 місяці тому +15

    I have come back to this interview 5 times. I need to hear this every few months. I could never really relate to anyone. In regular life or online etc until Shia in this.
    It's helped me drop the act and make sure I had no wiggle room.
    This was my introduction to being honest and learning to work every day to let go of ego.

  • @TheWolfricChannel
    @TheWolfricChannel 4 місяці тому +12

    Shia's performance of Pio was amazing. Glad he picked up & kept the faith. I like how Jon just let him talk & explain himself

  • @TheVolunteerCorps
    @TheVolunteerCorps Рік тому +428

    This interview has actually made me realise how toxic some of my behaviours are and highlighted a lot of things I need to work within myself.

    • @Ohsnaapz31
      @Ohsnaapz31 Рік тому +18

      Our Evil side will always live within us, we don't learn to anguish them but to live above them. It's all about choices and the consequences. Everyone's running a race and fighting battles.
      Let's do our best!

    • @RoBbIeOrR1998
      @RoBbIeOrR1998 Рік тому +7

      Me too brother

    • @TheRealMikeSchell
      @TheRealMikeSchell Рік тому +6

      Same here brother

    • @kevheeley83
      @kevheeley83 11 місяців тому +4

      Same here brother

    • @shotgun111180
      @shotgun111180 11 місяців тому +3

      great comment, couldn't have said it better

  • @02Macon
    @02Macon Рік тому +2662

    Thank you for posting the whole interview!!!

    • @justinjacob508
      @justinjacob508 Рік тому +23

      I was guna say the same thing ! Lol

    • @anything_x
      @anything_x Рік тому +16

      Same

    • @drindy5166
      @drindy5166 Рік тому +15

      Just have to find where I left off at, although watching again is not out of the question. Both guys are truly amazing, gifted individuals. Nothing but love for these 2 and super stoked thst this full episode has been posted. Thx Jon and everyone involved with REAL ONES 👊🧡👍

    • @sodapop9775
      @sodapop9775 Рік тому +9

      I just want to say I love you

    • @domskii_0
      @domskii_0 Рік тому +6

      Thank the lord

  • @garrettspradling4005
    @garrettspradling4005 4 місяці тому +8

    Man I keep coming back to this over the past year. Third time going over this and I treated people I love most wrong. All I want is compassion and to be better, this gives me hope.

  • @Gielio5971
    @Gielio5971 Місяць тому +7

    Damn this hits hard like a sledgehammer. I can feel him, like i'm talking through him. The lack of selfcompasion is so sad but so resonating with myself.. thanks for being vulnerable man.. ❤

  • @carolinemulenga2697
    @carolinemulenga2697 Рік тому +911

    As a woman who was in an abusive marriage for 20 years, I applaud the courage, honesty and integrity of both these men. Bravo! They have both done more in this one interview to not only speak out against abuse of women, they are showing how to change it. Thank you Jon and Shia! I cannot tell you just how much I admire you both for this interview. Shia, you are making the world a safer place for your daughter to grow up in and I am sure she will be immensely proud that you are your father.

    • @katnip198
      @katnip198 Рік тому +7

      A BIG AMEN TO THIS.

    • @magichobbiest3425
      @magichobbiest3425 Рік тому +1

      Do these problems actually have solutions to completely get rid of? It's like prejudices. Everyone has a prejudice. How do you get rid of prejudices? How do you change every single individual in the world? I don't think it can be done. Maybe I'm naive but it seems incredibly impossible to do something like that. We can't even keep peace with each other as groups. Theres still wars everywhere.

    • @Liltike135
      @Liltike135 Рік тому +8

      @@magichobbiest3425 You're talking about a completely different issue.

    • @zachsimpson2895
      @zachsimpson2895 Рік тому +5

      @@magichobbiest3425 the bigger point is if you don’t try you’re doomed to fail and invite chaos into your world

    • @jamesferry5119
      @jamesferry5119 Рік тому +7

      Although some of his actions can't be excused I agree that it is so important to allow people to improve and change otherwise we all lose, I hope all of the people he has Hurt are doing well and I hope he is doing well also

  • @markvalentino8422
    @markvalentino8422 9 місяців тому +840

    Hearing Shia talk about his wife roughly 90 minutes in made me realize how much my own wife has done for me and how she pulled me up when I was in the lowest place in my life and built me up into the man I am today...And hearing him made me realize I need to be a better man and husband...

    • @janetwhite7786
      @janetwhite7786 9 місяців тому +27

      Wow. What a tribute! I wd be honored to have someone say that about me. You are a good man.

    • @danieladelcastillolocatell5839
      @danieladelcastillolocatell5839 8 місяців тому +4

      thats true love my friend, having self love and the love of others who care for us, are our rock, our person, our support system,part of our happiness a.ka happy ending, our love and our family who is there for you in the good , in the bad, in the crazy and in greatest no matter what, who are our guiding light, give us a purpose on this planet, give us some tough love when we're wrong so we can find redemption , hope and good in this life, thats what Mia Goth and his daughter is for Shia, mad respect and admiration for this man and wish him nothing but the best, we must all learn from his story cuz who knows what we can learn and how it will help us change some part of us thats broken or lost so we can find ourself, find redemption , be our best selfs and thats its never too late set things right no matter how hard it us , if we just try and have hope in ourselves and those who truly care and love us

    • @tinydancer7343
      @tinydancer7343 8 місяців тому +5

      And you’ve said it out loud and are already on the path. So proud and honored to read your comment. I hope you had the conversation with your wife about your realization. But more importantly, I hope you show her moving forward. Huge hugs to you. ❤❤

    • @PallazzoPodcast
      @PallazzoPodcast 8 місяців тому +1

      Same here. Maybe I would have pulled through, but my wife is a fallible human being who taught me what love really is at a time when I thought living was a curse.

    • @BallisticSheriff
      @BallisticSheriff 8 місяців тому +4

      I wish I saw this when it first came out, my situation could be much different. Thanks Jon and Shia, I've made my mistakes and hearing this helped me realise more about stuff.

  • @user-fv5fh6ie3q
    @user-fv5fh6ie3q Місяць тому +3

    This is the best interview ever. I cried. Still crying 💜🪽

  • @ninapollock5267
    @ninapollock5267 3 місяці тому +11

    This is what life's about. Damn. Take accountability, commit yourself to understanding your actions and righting what has been wronged. Nothing more than that. Thank you for sharing this journey. If more men sat down like this, we'd live in a much more peaceful world.

  • @aaronandvicky7652
    @aaronandvicky7652 Рік тому +718

    Damn this shit was deep af. Because I been through it all. Detox and rehab over and over. Jail, jail, jail. A terrible cycle. And my wife stayed for all of it. Never once said “it’s over” just always saying “we gotta fix this” “we” “we” “we” always. We’re both 5 years sober, own a pretty big company, looking to buy a house, bought her a brand new car. And still together. Damn.

    • @Rynik05
      @Rynik05 Рік тому +23

      Congrats on 5 years sober that’s a huge feat! I’m 12 years clean and it just keeps getting easier! ❤

    • @kcjean9883
      @kcjean9883 Рік тому +4

      So beautiful to hear this. Love just doing what love does best. Thank you for sharing. 🙏💜

    • @krotchlickmeugh627
      @krotchlickmeugh627 Рік тому +3

      Dont trust too much. 10 years together. Through thick and thin. Being best friends. Never really arguing. She cheated on me and moved out of state. Like i was nothing.

    • @kcjean9883
      @kcjean9883 Рік тому +2

      @@krotchlickmeugh627 same here except different semesters. I still trust because that wasn't on them

    • @Blacbat189
      @Blacbat189 Рік тому +1

      🫡💪🏼❤️

  • @randydiaz1880
    @randydiaz1880 3 місяці тому +6

    Homie has had a spiritual awakening as a result of these steps and is continuing to carry this message. Love all the hard work and hope you continue on this path. Blessed

  • @chadroggeman7012
    @chadroggeman7012 3 місяці тому +6

    Jon Bernthal is such a great listener while Shia talks. This is how interviews should be run.

  • @RealMattKiefer
    @RealMattKiefer Рік тому +287

    “I know it will all be ok in the end & if it’s not ok, then it’s not the end.”
    That is powerful & a great way to end this interview

    • @jegerbest89
      @jegerbest89 Рік тому

      Its the most used and such a cliché quote everybody uses all the f time.

    • @aromagemarvie2228
      @aromagemarvie2228 Рік тому +4

      @@jegerbest89 it's true and there's nothing wrong with that.

  • @amyhuxford6290
    @amyhuxford6290 Рік тому +808

    I'm a woman who has been in abusive situations, and I promise you this is one of the most healing things I've ever been blessed to hear. I hope this podcast is shared far and wide. It WILL help many, I'm certain of it. Thanks Jon, and thank you Shia! Blessings to you both 💓

    • @jcarvalho_7
      @jcarvalho_7 Рік тому +10

      Glad a woman agrees. Theres not many places where men that do these horrible things can talk about it and why it's wrong and why others shouldnt do what they did. We have to learn to be better.

    • @Matticulous-Media
      @Matticulous-Media Рік тому +1

      Absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!

    • @robertrinaldi8748
      @robertrinaldi8748 Рік тому +3

      I'm a man who was in an abusive marriage with a woman and I understand how terrifying it would be for a woman being abused by a man.

    • @MiscellaneousYou
      @MiscellaneousYou Рік тому +1

      That's really cool to hear

    • @justin-md4xm
      @justin-md4xm Рік тому +3

      We can't just shun abusers. there's too many. they need to heal too.

  • @jussdoughjustin3893
    @jussdoughjustin3893 13 днів тому +2

    for real Jon's such a good listener. his humble energy is pure and resonates with me. I think we can all see ourselves in him💖👏🏾

  • @paulogorris18
    @paulogorris18 2 місяці тому +4

    This is the best interview I've ever seen. I feel like I shouldn't be watching this. Feels personal af. Thank you for beeing so vulnerable, Shia.

  • @sabrinagaytan5699
    @sabrinagaytan5699 Рік тому +495

    “People may not forgive me but I know I’ve been forgiven, I know that I am loved” That’s powerful, forgiveness of one’s self and others provides peace. Great sit down. Prayers for Shia and his journey with faith.

    • @360.Tapestry
      @360.Tapestry Рік тому +2

      gaytan ha

    • @elderrusty541
      @elderrusty541 Рік тому +7

      Yup, I struggle with personal guilt and honestly, even if the person I’ve wronged forgives me, I rarely forgive myself and that’s what hurts

    • @sabrinagaytan5699
      @sabrinagaytan5699 Рік тому +3

      @@elderrusty541 You’re worthy of forgiveness . It seems not true but you are.Everyone is

    • @rileyjamesmusic9333
      @rileyjamesmusic9333 Рік тому

      You buy this new age shite ?

    • @a.r.4093
      @a.r.4093 Рік тому +6

      You should check out Shia's interview with Bishop Barron that released a couple days ago. Amazing.

  • @farwilindarys5950
    @farwilindarys5950 Рік тому +554

    One of the greatest interviews of all time. The vulnerability of Shia, the avid attentiveness of Jon, really something to behold. The moment of pure emotion when Shia talked about his wife was incredible.

    • @KeyBoard-io8nl
      @KeyBoard-io8nl Рік тому +1

      yeah that got me teared up bigtime, an incredible woman for sure.

  • @snail-dome
    @snail-dome 4 місяці тому +28

    Currently going through my own rehab, I watched this video 2 years ago after I crashed my car drinking and driving and it kinda saved me but I had to hit my new rock bottom to get me back here to rewatch this video. The AA community is such a beautiful blessing that I finally had the courage to go to. Thank you Shia

    • @rgutierrez595
      @rgutierrez595 4 місяці тому +1

      Keep fighting the good fight brother. You can make it. I believe in you

    • @snail-dome
      @snail-dome 4 місяці тому +3

      @@rgutierrez595thank you brotha, taking this program as serious as I can. Finally starting to be proud of myself as a man.

    • @rgutierrez595
      @rgutierrez595 4 місяці тому +2

      @@snail-dome keep me updated brother. We all go through shit. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Get healthy and live life the best you can

    • @snail-dome
      @snail-dome 4 місяці тому

      @@rgutierrez595todays my 23rd day of sobriety, can’t believe the world of difference and I’ve yet to hit my first 30 days. Excited for this long road ahead! Appreciate you for the support, it means more than you know

    • @024gumby
      @024gumby 18 днів тому

      But this was made not even two years ago??

  • @dandilion8567
    @dandilion8567 4 місяці тому +5

    i am tearing up listening to this, recognizing how much i have hurt those around me, thank you for this, i want to really change

  • @AM-ru5lh
    @AM-ru5lh Рік тому +661

    I am totally blown away by this interview. I really don't have two hours to do anything but I couldn't stop listening to this. I literally just hear humility. As a Mom of two boys. I just learned so so much. I truly wish Shia peace and grace for himself. He's on his way.

    • @kylekennedy9212
      @kylekennedy9212 Рік тому +11

      I’ve always loved Shia like an estranged older brother. Seeing him go through this period of growth these last couple years has made me cry in joy and hope he would continue on the right path and he has.

    • @ghostlyworld101
      @ghostlyworld101 Рік тому +2

      amen 🙏

  • @thestopdrinkingcoach
    @thestopdrinkingcoach Рік тому +781

    Jon is a very good listener. There are few people who listen the way he is. The way he stays engaged, maintains eye contact. He's invested. Very powerful. Holding space like this is a skill. It's what allows people to feel safe enough to open up. Very few people do it well.

    • @tamgsmith8077
      @tamgsmith8077 Рік тому +6

      True. Shawn Ryan is like that as well.

    • @troymacarthur
      @troymacarthur Рік тому

      LeBeof talks a lot though. He doesn't listen well in this instance either. He doesn't see the fundamental wrong headedness as referencing females as Pussy! You love your daughter but even she's still 'pussy' thats sick. This Monk shit has been done by so many. LaB won't listen a bit to Jon. LaB should listen more and learn to hear them and honestly reciprocate. When He's talking about being a G why does he always talk about shit being 'sexy'. How does Shia Figure he's a G?

    • @fountainofyouthisawayoflif5560
      @fountainofyouthisawayoflif5560 Рік тому +1

      Saw him on the Joe Rogan Experience and it was an hour of silence; both just listening 🤣😂🤣

    • @victoriaguinn9024
      @victoriaguinn9024 Рік тому

      Thank you for this. Wow. 26 years dry. That you Shia. You will never know how this helped me. Maybe now I can truly live.. what a beautiful man.

  • @reflectionOfLyf
    @reflectionOfLyf 4 місяці тому +3

    The way he is articulating the wisdom and sharing on this platform is amazing. One of the best videos on YT hands down!

  • @MegaDeath22
    @MegaDeath22 2 місяці тому +8

    Gosh Shia. Ive grown up with you, have had my own bouts of substance abuse and horrible relationships. Growing with you and seeing how you've entered this spiritual journey the same time as me. You're talented and may God bless you and your beautiful family. Mia has become one of my all time favorite actors of all time, next to you. Jon you are a gem! I absolutely love you.

  • @mypursuitofhappiness2703
    @mypursuitofhappiness2703 Рік тому +230

    “One way or another you will be humbled in this life, and there’s nothing you can do about it” -Shia

  • @parkerjohnson6869
    @parkerjohnson6869 Рік тому +277

    im in shock because I've never heard a person express exactly how I've been feeling for years. im 22 and this is a huge moment of motivation and change for me. im inspired to be better. thank you.

    • @ObscureTech
      @ObscureTech Рік тому +7

      Thats amazing

    • @georgelvteam
      @georgelvteam Рік тому +4

      God bless you Parker. In my prayers 🙏

    • @360.Tapestry
      @360.Tapestry Рік тому +1

      just look up narcissism

    • @jokesick
      @jokesick Рік тому

      Same here man. Myself and many others are with you.

    • @superbadisfunmy
      @superbadisfunmy Рік тому

      Your inspired by an abuser lmfao

  • @wargamerwilly8756
    @wargamerwilly8756 3 місяці тому +7

    I'm SO glad this show exists. It's incredible, powerful, inspiring. I just wish I had found it sooner!!! Thank you so much.

  • @user-bs2ih4mk3w
    @user-bs2ih4mk3w 4 місяці тому +5

    I didn’t know how badly I needed to hear this. His genuine feelings and perspectives actually helped me understand myself more than ever before.

  • @craigortiz8816
    @craigortiz8816 7 місяців тому +699

    This interview is a true inspiration. I can't remember the last time I had the patience to listen to someone talk for 2hrs. I hope Shia reads these comments periodically, to know that he inspires people.

    • @Takhii
      @Takhii 6 місяців тому +3

      facts m8

    • @Gentlemansmind
      @Gentlemansmind 6 місяців тому +3

      i can agree but i have probably just issues to focus on talks. even in real life interaction when someone telling me something i cant be present i have already something to say in my head and cant even listen what a person wants to tell me . dont know why i got this i never been like that before.

    • @Tay_there
      @Tay_there 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Gentlemansmind get rid of your smartphone

    • @alvinsheczlek5243
      @alvinsheczlek5243 4 місяці тому +3

      I have a feeling a majority of American men relate at a core level to what Shia says here. What’s even more inspiring is Shia was placed/given the literal modern American dream for men today of fame and money, and the insight and rawness, seeing his purpose and content in walking away from it and serving other people from literally the most humble position he could find (by all American standards). I wish I had this type of enlightenment to know my path to that kind of love

    • @PaulGoss-vh1of
      @PaulGoss-vh1of 4 місяці тому +1

      Me as we'll

  • @ericmorra1168
    @ericmorra1168 Рік тому +317

    I run a men's mental health coaching program, this interview is the best thing I've seen online. It's exactly what men need more of, Jon, Shia absolutely love this!!

  • @bopaduffy84
    @bopaduffy84 Місяць тому +6

    Thats one of the best podcasts ive ever seen. I resonated with every word and feeling Shia has spoke about.
    And Jon, you listened so intensly. Im Currently going through a very similar situation, as a sufferer of PTSD (veteran) depression, alcoholism... today i start my journey of sobriety.
    I cant tell you how much i needed to see this podcast!
    Thankyou

    • @tomjenkins1989
      @tomjenkins1989 Місяць тому

      How you getting on mate?

    • @bopaduffy84
      @bopaduffy84 Місяць тому

      @tomjenkins1989 well mate, I've decided to drink in moderation. Only if I am at a function, or something like that. This weekend I have had 2 pints of lager with my lunch.
      In time, I plan to stop... its just not realistic stopping immediately. But even in moderation, is a triumphant goal.
      I've been so lonely, no social life, but in all honesty, I enjoyed having 2 beers... where as I haven't enjoyed drinking at all recently.
      I was drinking for the wrong reasons

    • @tomjenkins1989
      @tomjenkins1989 Місяць тому

      I’ve been round alcohol addiction all my life, luckily my mum is now 25 years sober, and she learnt she could not under any circumstances have 1 or 2. I don’t know the extent of your issue and I truly hope you can overcome it and manage purely social events with 1 or 2 beers.
      Just stay in the day mate and keep focused. You will do what you put your mind to!

  • @patrykdelklok4133
    @patrykdelklok4133 26 днів тому +1

    This is the conversation every man should listen, but only so little should go through. I'm coming back every time I feel down and...it's just so motivational. Thank you for this interview and the honesty in it .

  • @nadiabazinga
    @nadiabazinga Рік тому +650

    I couldn’t stop watching. Seeing someone own up to his mistakes is truly inspiring. Such a great interview.

    • @tentoezdownmovement4914
      @tentoezdownmovement4914 Рік тому +4

      100% facts #TenToezDowN

    • @pepegrillo8286
      @pepegrillo8286 Рік тому +1

      A lot actor live with fear now! they are in dangerous in 5 continents

    • @louieo.blevinsmusic4197
      @louieo.blevinsmusic4197 Рік тому +5

      It can be somewhat rough when it hits a bit too close to home. Definitely has been great to listen so far.

    • @rhys8860
      @rhys8860 Рік тому

      Rhys
      1 second ago
      All this talk of finding the true meaning of life. Here's an idea, if you MUST advertise, do it for small not for profit company that dedicates itself to supporting others through hard times. Not the company that pays less tax in the UK than I did last year and treat staff like s**t.

  • @randalhollis5966
    @randalhollis5966 Рік тому +1657

    This isn't just a Shia thing. This is a whole generation and then some of broken people. The ego, the self-centeredness, putting career and craft above all, finding validation in shallow pursuits, lack of delayed gratification, victim mentality, nihilism. The list goes on.
    It's a cultural thing. It's systemic. It's engineered and applauded. These are the ideas and behaviors that have been sold to us as "progress" and "empowering" when in reality they are LITERALLY the opposite of those things, and lead you down the opposite path that you intended to go down. There are no mistakes or coincidences. When so many people are led down this path there is an intention behind it.
    You've been sold a shit playbook for life.
    Realizing that, and the roots of how and why that happens should be enough to make you want to change your habits.
    Tomorrow's a new day.

    • @StillTheVoid
      @StillTheVoid Рік тому +36

      ☝️☝️☝️☝️ this

    • @breal1250
      @breal1250 Рік тому +24

      Very well said .

    • @alexc08
      @alexc08 Рік тому +5

      Yes

    • @thephilosopher7173
      @thephilosopher7173 Рік тому +24

      @Carlos Fenoll I guess it all starts with 'you' the individual. Being at peace with what you have and appreciating whats given, while not allowing negativity to drag you into a mud pit with it. If someone is being negative towards you can you brush it off with a smile or at least not feed them with that same energy? I'm working on that myself so by no means am I preaching.

    • @jovelard
      @jovelard Рік тому +27

      Find God and the rest takes care of itself✝️God bless🙏

  • @maddmisshadder
    @maddmisshadder 22 дні тому +2

    I watched this interview many times, im watching it again a year later. It's powerful, i take something from it everytime I watch it. Thank you Jon Bernthal.

  • @rspigner8705
    @rspigner8705 5 місяців тому +3

    Just watched this interview and probably the best, honest, open, and eye opening interview I have ever seen. I have chills going up my spine as I type this. Thank you both for such an amazing piece of documentary and sharing it with the world.

  • @carlaskillings4312
    @carlaskillings4312 Рік тому +515

    Hi Jon, I’m 73 yrs old and this interview made me tear up and sob. This young man and you opened my eyes to what a man should really be and how to get there, thanks, Wayne from Windsor Ontario Canada

    • @metafication
      @metafication 10 місяців тому +2

      I am glad you got so much from it Wayne. I am a young man with eerily similar experiences. I always thrive under accountability. Best wishes.

    • @LindseyMoon13
      @LindseyMoon13 10 місяців тому +3

      Remember, it's never too late to become who you're meant to be. Sometimes the biggest changes we make start with humbly saying, "I'm sorry, I was wrong, and I love you." Every day we're given is another chance to become. Hope you're well.

    • @TheMasterHeater
      @TheMasterHeater 10 місяців тому

      Fellow Windsorite!!!! You’re the man Wayne!!

    • @michaelatkin9649
      @michaelatkin9649 10 місяців тому +2

      If it took 73 years and a podcast to get you there is quite sad

    • @mollywynegar3091
      @mollywynegar3091 9 місяців тому +1

      Protect Wayne at all costs 😅

  • @philevans6010
    @philevans6010 Рік тому +527

    I watched this start to finish, and have never been more engaged. This was raw, vulnerable, open, honest and amazing. Motivational doesn't do it justice. Thanks both.

    • @josephbartholomew
      @josephbartholomew Рік тому

      Very raw to be an admitting that he's an unhinged sociopath.

    • @Dreadprime
      @Dreadprime Рік тому +5

      So... much of this... is soooo fucking true, if you've been through it. You know.

  • @mohammadmajid9716
    @mohammadmajid9716 26 днів тому +1

    I love humanity. Hearing genuine convos like this restores a persons faith. Props to you Shia for being a role model for people that are recovering.

  • @isabelarrieta6296
    @isabelarrieta6296 5 днів тому

    I cried through this whole segment. Shia looks like he made it to the other side. I’m so proud of him because it took tremendous courage and strength. His beautiful heart is finally healing.

  • @Shatsbeard
    @Shatsbeard Рік тому +347

    Most impactful thing I’ve watched this year. As a Christian, a father, a husband, a man… thank you for making this available. I feel Shia, deeply. Thanks again.

    • @geraldgeraldy-gerry-gerry-8856
      @geraldgeraldy-gerry-gerry-8856 Рік тому +2

      Dude you need to keep your Christianity a secret bc it can easily endanger you and your adult film preferences.

    • @TheMrClever
      @TheMrClever Рік тому +1

      @@geraldgeraldy-gerry-gerry-8856 bro😂😂

  • @shaundragt6870
    @shaundragt6870 Рік тому +525

    To have such big personalities be openly vulnerable, I guarantee these types of interviews will hit home with alot of people. I was totally invested for the full 2 hours. Thank you

    • @humanise.
      @humanise. Рік тому +3

      🔥🔥 fr. more people need this

    • @nicolasrichard7199
      @nicolasrichard7199 Рік тому +1

      oh yeah you're right bro!

    • @BELONGS2MEE
      @BELONGS2MEE Рік тому +1

      this hit me

    • @div8698
      @div8698 Рік тому

      @@intelbro3097 Интересный никнейм и ава xD
      Неожиданно как то
      Hey, man, how is mobilization going on? You ve talked about it since the start of SMO xD

    • @hannathebrave2200
      @hannathebrave2200 Рік тому +3

      @@intelbro3097
      So millionaires/famous people
      don't have any struggles, inner conflicts, things to overcome?
      Are you really that simple or what? 🙄

  • @roshaunneil3663
    @roshaunneil3663 4 місяці тому +13

    I come back to this interview from time to time to remind myself that 'everything will be okay in the end and if it isn't then it isn't the end.'

  • @laurenelliott799
    @laurenelliott799 2 місяці тому +4

    Its amazing how self aware he has become ...this video felt as human as one can be he was literally naked this whole interview fully clothed. I can work to get to this level of honesty but have fear of going throug what he did to get there. I have always know he had a deeper story not like a the basic hollywood kids lives but one very deep rooted in something deep. I really respect this man as a man .I hope he is trully seen as genuine in his words bc i felt every last one of them !!! 🤝

  • @ElGuapo4000
    @ElGuapo4000 Рік тому +652

    This is the most aggressively positive and supportive conversation I’ve ever seen. 😂 God bless them both.