WHY AM I SO LONELY? Childhood Trauma and Loneliness. PLUS Spiritual Loneliness

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  • @peripherialvision3287
    @peripherialvision3287 2 роки тому +15

    38 years on this planet and I'm barely figuring out my identity. I appreciate you and your existence.

  • @thescienceofwellbeinguk
    @thescienceofwellbeinguk 6 місяців тому +1

    All this makes absolute sense to me. I am living through them all. The one I never considered was the spiritual loneliness. I'm going through that right now, and I seem to be in an anger phase. I literally journaled today, 'this modern world stinks. I hate it'. I'm angry at the world and what humankind has become, and there is loneliness in that 😢

  • @kurtwuerfele6760
    @kurtwuerfele6760 2 роки тому +15

    I recently got diagnosed with C-PTSD by my rock star therapist after years of never knowing what was wrong with me. Your videos have been the spiritual mortar between the bricks of wisdom that my therapist has helped me lay through my healing journey. Karuna, you’re a treasure and a gift. Thank you for what you’ve done for me and so many others. Blessings on you. 🙏🏻

    • @HubfortheHeart
      @HubfortheHeart  2 роки тому +5

      I'm so very pleased to learn of your journey, Kurt. You are courageous and I am so pleased that you found this framework called CPTSD which further points to authentic self; where, at long last, we come home and rest from the chaos of psychology memory/trauma. The "seeing/experiencing" of authentic self/presence is vital and clarifying. Thank you for your perseverance-and for your heartfelt sharing. Greatest respect. Karuna

  • @gio_ser5120
    @gio_ser5120 3 роки тому +12

    Everything u described is what i went through being a child, now im a 46 yrs old adult and i have no contact w my family & hope stays this way. A friend was telling me i should forgive them to heal, even if they never asked for forgiveness. But nope. I don’t forget it & I don’t forgive them. They way they treated me has been very traumatic & I don’t think i need to forgive to move through. I am loved finally, by myself, thats good enough

    • @StainedTenko
      @StainedTenko 2 роки тому +1

      Very relatable and im sorry you have to go through the same. It really does suck feeling alone

    • @ekozoidmajiker6186
      @ekozoidmajiker6186 Рік тому

      why is it that I keep crying listening to this?

  • @malikyoung4190
    @malikyoung4190 2 роки тому +4

    I have experienced so much trauma I dont even know who I truly am. Thank you once again.

  • @Pugglefish420
    @Pugglefish420 3 роки тому +11

    Thank you so much for this. I am in crisis and had a very very bad day of other peoples hostility and threats and being triggered and you are so calming and wise. Thank you for sharing this and understanding

  • @dotdashdotdash
    @dotdashdotdash 3 роки тому +11

    your videos are always so comforting

  • @1kaesavan
    @1kaesavan Рік тому +1

    Wow - you've articulated my post "dark night of the soul" journey really well. I will continue to love - time and time after again. Thank you for your work and guidance.

  • @tee3835
    @tee3835 2 роки тому +2

    Identity, this word has come up for me so much since 2022 started.

  • @michaelkolbecksriseagain1474
    @michaelkolbecksriseagain1474 4 місяці тому +1

    Your videos are really great!!! Thank you!

  • @malikyoung4190
    @malikyoung4190 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much for this video. This message resonated 100000%.

  • @Saritabanana
    @Saritabanana 2 роки тому +4

    I feel so lonely today. Thank you so much

    • @HubfortheHeart
      @HubfortheHeart  2 роки тому +3

      Dear Sarah: So many here deeply relate to your sharing. In our world, many treat people, animals and insects as separate, different and "better or worse." It certainly can be draining and disheartening!!
      In truth, we recognize we are connected, in seamless union, as life. Our assignment is to continue to question "beliefs" and thought forms and, in doing so, further melt within depth of authentic self. We each have authentic self and, therein, innerconnectivity of life is recognized. This heals psychological memory/traumas and shines clarity within this fog of separation/loneliness. You are an icebreaker, breaking the thickness of separation, joined with others on this channel.
      It takes much continued effort to continually prop up our coping mechanisms and our persona! Whew, how exhausting.
      Authentic Self.
      Is.
      Free of effort.
      Ease.
      Such warmth, Karuna

  • @SusanReeves-ft1sg
    @SusanReeves-ft1sg Рік тому

    Thank You so much. I really find this helpful. Through my Childhood Trauma I feel lonely a lot.
    Susan UK.

  • @Contessa998
    @Contessa998 3 роки тому +5

    I found this incredibly helpful. 🙏 thank you. I found a big piece of my puzzle

  • @juanas1989
    @juanas1989 3 роки тому +3

    This is the moment, let's make it happend!

  • @emmacowles50
    @emmacowles50 2 роки тому +3

    So helpful, thankyou x

  • @saulius381
    @saulius381 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you so much for this video, I have hard time in my life and it made me understand more about my self! You are the best!

  • @monikarichtsfeld4953
    @monikarichtsfeld4953 Рік тому

    Thank you so mich, deeply thankful to find you and the Trauma work , I am touched by this and it brings me in an deeper understanding and feeling♡

  • @amyp4977
    @amyp4977 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you Karuna. Much needed wisdom and validation for my hurting ❤️💜💝

    • @HubfortheHeart
      @HubfortheHeart  2 роки тому +4

      I'm so glad this channel is a resource, Amy. And I'm so very sorry you've been hurting. I apologize for humanity, Amy, for we have largely normalized toxicity and dysfunction. Today, we remember that this is not our river! We stand true with Heart, with Empathy, with Inner Wisdom. Will be posting again soon. With respect, Karuna

    • @amyp4977
      @amyp4977 2 роки тому +2

      @@HubfortheHeart thank you Karuna. So easy to forget that so much has become normalised that has no business being normalised!! Collectively and in our own smaller worlds. I have been looking out for your videos.. they’ve brought me so much comfort and solidarity at some of my lowest points. Thank you 🙏💖💞

  • @caracasey6405
    @caracasey6405 3 роки тому +6

    Hi Karuna, I always seem to find the perfect video for what is happening in my life situation. This speaks to me in so may ways and brought tears to my eyes because I know you understand and that alone means so much. Thank you for inspiring me to stay hopeful and follow my yearning xx love always, Cara

    • @HubfortheHeart
      @HubfortheHeart  3 роки тому +4

      Dear Cara, My heart is so warmed to connect with you here again. You are the dearest of hearts, Cara........Our world needs more Caras!!! You, Cara, contribute more here than you can ever know.....you are a conduit, a transmission of kindness and love and care for our dear world. Yes, follow your inner yearning, desire and deep intuition. It offers the pathway in a confused world. So much love to you. Karuna

    • @caracasey6405
      @caracasey6405 3 роки тому +2

      @@HubfortheHeart well your reply (which I’m only seeing now) has brightened my day sooo much! Hope to connect with you again on my journey of learning and healing. You are amazing and bring such light 🤍 We need more Karuna’s!!!! :) x

  • @aNnAkt1qw
    @aNnAkt1qw Рік тому +1

    So grateful i was guided to your channel. Thank you from my heart 💗 for all that you are doing, bringing us together and forward on our journey.

  • @Maria_9789
    @Maria_9789 3 роки тому +3

    Very comforting .Thank you !

  • @jacrowe3477
    @jacrowe3477 2 роки тому +2

    This is the best explanation i've heard thank you!!! yes after doing alot of emotional purging, i'm now going through the spiritual loneliness, but I feel empowered. I still get triggered by the outer world, but the triggers show me where i need to heal. sending love to you all.

    • @HubfortheHeart
      @HubfortheHeart  2 роки тому +2

      What an insightful, real and, ultimately, hopeful response. Thank you for encouraging all here. x Karuna

  • @littlebirdling238
    @littlebirdling238 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much

  • @dalhousieDream
    @dalhousieDream 3 роки тому +4

    Wow - what you shared was me to a T. I wish you were my counselor. How much are your online sessions? Great video and thank you.

    • @HubfortheHeart
      @HubfortheHeart  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you for viewing. I'm glad my approach resonates with you. Here's more information about my sessions: www.hubfortheheart.com/services/
      To book, kindly send an email to info@hubfortheheart.com. Please include your time zone for scheduling purposes and brief intro, if you are so inspired. I look forward to hearing from you and providing support! Again, thank you for viewing. With warmth and massive respect for your journey, Karuna

  • @KaterrinaChicago
    @KaterrinaChicago Рік тому

    Thank you.

  • @AylalikeKaylawithouttheK
    @AylalikeKaylawithouttheK 2 роки тому +1

    I love you so much, Karuna!

  • @brandonthetford452
    @brandonthetford452 2 роки тому +1

    Does CPTSD typically lead to sexual deviance or sexual addiction?

    • @HubfortheHeart
      @HubfortheHeart  2 роки тому +5

      Thank you for your relevant question. CPTSD often includes various coping mechanisms including addictions. When a child is not nourished fully, loved fully and whole-y, an ingrained sense of lack is imprinted upon the child. Therein, the lack, this imprint itself, constantly seeks relief, fullness, a return to wholeness. Addictions, including sexual addiction, alleviate the intense pain, this sense of lack, for a *brief* time. But the *relief* of pain within this imprinted contraction, in its fleeting moments of freedom, feels so good that we find ourselves drawn back again and again.
      Since those with CPSTD generally did not have a foundation established in fullness, safety and love, we constantly-and sometimes frenetically-seek the (brief) moments of wholeness through these coping mechanism of drugs, sex, alcohol, food, shopping, etc.
      Once we turn around and start to question and authentically educate ourselves, as we do on this channel, the addiction begins to slowly lessen its grasp: We see how dysfunction and toxicity are "normalized" within families and, indeed, within our culture.
      As deeper understanding, seeing and inner wisdom shine through this fog or normalized dysfunction, our coping mechanisms start to fade. I hope, very much, this is helpful and to all reading here: Please know you are *not* your addiction. This coping mechanism was placed upon you, fueled by a sense of lack. As we steadily remove that which we are not, we also discover all that we already are. *At our essence, we are well.* Full, whole, safe and *well.* May the world become more trauma informed. With respect, Karuna

  • @sarahphillips8884
    @sarahphillips8884 3 роки тому +2

  • @alexjonees9787
    @alexjonees9787 2 роки тому +4

    I’m always lonely and feel disconnected from people