exactly. this is what makes it so bewildering when people say games can't be art. its a trivial fact that they can CONTAIN art from every existing art modality. so apparently putting the multiple modalities together and adding an interactive element spoils the end result..? I just can't accept that kind of logic.
Video Games; the Avengers of the entertainment industry! When all art forms band together they can create something far bigger than any one of them could on their own. Avengers Assemble!!
I'll stick to casinos in my ps2 games. Where it doesn't require an internet connection, and I can reload a save before I lost my in-game money and try again
50-year-old woman here. I've been gaming since I was a toddler. Don't worry about people who think gaming is unattractive. You don't want to be with them anyway. If you do something you enjoy, it's quality time. Do what makes you happy. If someone think it's weird or doesn't repect that, they're not a good fit in your life.
An entire generation is between us and I think just the same as you. If they don't respect your choices and tastes, they probably don't deserve your time. Gaming and metal music are my passions and I'll keep "wasting my time" doing what I love.
@@CatGrindle;-; I wish you were part of my family😢 the growing up I coulda been like bye mom! I’m going to grandma’s. Then she’d be concerned and be like why do you always go to grandmas. Just so I can respond. 😂 Grandm’as one hell of a carry and plays dps like a beast! She 2v4’s them guys and always clutches. That woulda been amazing!!!
I'm a 50yr old guy and have been gaming since I was 5 or 6. Now that I have the financed I have a beast mode machine and can play pretty much anything on ultra settings and not even hiccup. I love gaming and always have. Anyone who doesn't like it can either agree to disagree or find arguments that they can't beat. I have a wonderful wife who supports my gaming and has no problem with it. I'm also educated and successful not to mention a marine corps veteran. I think that debunks pretty much every stereotype myth of gamers there is. Keep on playing and keep on living.
Video games is the reason I've never had a sip of alcohol, never did drugs, never went to a party or concert, never hung out with the "wrong crowd". Video games is also the reason why I pick up so many random skills, knowledge, or interests, where I can escape when times are rough, where I've met so many great people, and built so much social experience. Video games is just another form of literature, art, and story-telling. Same thing to books and movies.
@@temtem9255 Curious to know why you think so? If you mean friend gatherings or dinners, that's one thing. But if you mean dancing and DJs, then I strongly disagree. Girls in skimpy clothing, loads of booze, inappropriate behavior, etc. that's just not my lifestyle. I also don't think it's a healthy one in general. There's better ways to spend your time.
My wife is a gamer too and when she saw this list she was angry about it. It’s clearly not taken everyone’s opinions into account. I think no matter the hobby, if some people want to rank “attractiveness” based on someone’s hobby, it sounds like a person best avoided lol
@@AVVGaming1 isn’t a bad thing but it can be a good thing but gaming isn’t productive it’s good to take a brake from gaming and enjoy little things in life and do healthy things like you know deep sea diving, visiting nature, surfing, camping, socializing with people, sports, fishing kayaking, going to the gym and hiking. Gaming can be a good when it comes too escapism as long if you don’t make it your personality also gaming isn’t productive.
It was a video game that stopped me from killing myself 20 years ago. And I'm sure I can't be the only one here. For some people, video game is more than just an escapism. It's a safe place.
Which game was it? I have seen a lot say this about Bloodborne. Something about trying again and again and again moulded them into people capable of fighting to take control of their lives.
I suffered from really bad anxiety when I was in college and playing oblivion was the only thing that helped me calm down and chill even for a little bit
Yeah. Games were a good distraction for me in highschool. While it didn't prevent me from having anxiety attacks and depressive episodes, it at least gave me a feeling of peace and control through the constant chaos of highschool. Yes, I know how bad the Sims 4 is and how Skyrim can be crazy, but I like getting new DLC for those games. They give me that well needed dopamine that I enjoy. Have a great day, stranger ✨✨✨✨
Gaming isn’t a bad thing but it can be a good thing but gaming isn’t productive it’s good to take a brake from gaming and enjoy life like you know deep sea diving, visiting nature, surfing, camping, socializing with people, sports, fishing kayaking, going to the gym and hiking. Gaming can be a good when it comes too escapism as long if you don’t make it your personality also gaming isn’t productive.
Gaming is just the new kid on the block, something to blame for all our problems. So politicians and older people don't have to take accountability for the problems they created. In the late 1400 people burnt books because it was poison to the mind, for a short time in the 1800 opera music was banned because it was poison to the mind, in the 1960s rock music was poison to the mind, in the 70s and 80s TV and D&D was poison to the mind, and in the 90s video games joined a long and ever growing list of things that are poison to the mind. Something that can be used as an easy scapegoat for the worlds problems. If history teaches humanity anything it's that humanity doesn't learn from history.
Don't get me wrong I love gaming but it isn't exactly seen as something attractive for anyone on the outside, and it will never be. People picture themselves a sweaty nerd drinking Coca cola. Similarly, for me at least, girls that are overly active on social media and put up a bunch of edited images on themselves is seen as very unattractive and tacky for me.
@@TheMysterieRPGguy what a comment! It’s 100% spot on as you always are! It is crazy how humans have never learned from humans. How we repeat the same cycles again and again hoping things will change but it doesn’t. And they think we’re crazy for playing video games lol I’d rather explore Skyrim for a bit then switch on the news and deal with the never ending cycle lol
@@AVVGaming1 I know right it's a depressing thing these never ending cycles. When you think about it it makes sense that some people develop a video game addiction, video games are an escape from reality and some people need that escape more and more as they deal with the cycles of the world.
Reminds me of the Joke about the father who is going into the room of his son: "What are you doing, son?" "I'm watching a twitch stream." "What does that mean?" "That means, I'm watching a let's play." "What does that mean?" "That means I watch other people play video games." Then the father is shaking his head and leaves the room. He says to himself: "Watching other people playing video games. ... That's just so ... absurd." And then he sits down on a couch, switches on the television and watches a football game. Maybe watching the best of the best doing e-sports may not be so different after all from watching the best of the best doing sports. I know, it's a full letter difference. That's just too much for some people.
Haha yes that’s exactly what it reminds me of too! I’m going to do a part 2 to this video hopefully up by Wednesday we’re I’m gonna discuss basically what you’ve said and explain why video games are more immersive than other arts, why it’s the same as sports and I think I’ll also discuss why people look down on it.
I guarantee you pro gamers are magnitudes more intelligent than the blokes slamming their heads into each other at great speed over and over again in an attempt to move a small ball over a short distance.
I'd probably take it a step further and say something like "that's what I wanna do" for the esports Dad might still be disappointed, but at least it's relatable. Some kids wanted to grow up to be Tom Brady. I want to grow up to be Knee.
Spot on! I know people say you’ve gotta be doing x or hustling or whatever, but it’s a persons own life. If they want to spend every minute watching paint dry and they’re happy then let them I say! There has to be a balance. You can be productive but you need time to relax and reward yourself for working
It really reminds me of the movie „momo“ where guys with cigarettes show up to convince people that they are wasting their time and should be more productive. Turns out people become more stressed and less happy. the cigarettes these guys are smoking are actually the time they’ve stolen from the people they convinced to don’t waste time.
I’d disagree with that, because where’s the discipline and hard work? Not saying you shouldn’t do the things you love, but there is a line you shouldn’t cross.
@@aggus4261 Obviously you shouldn’t spend every minute gaming, because a unbalanced life isn’t enjoyable and probably relatively short. But games train you in many aspects. Strategy games train your rational thinking and planning skills. Historical games can teach you historical facts and geography. Competitive games train your reflexes and intuition and cognitive abilities. Phantasy-games improve your imagination. Role-play games often give you different perspectives and broaden your understanding of people, so it gives you an important part of social competence. Of course people also should do sports and other physical stuff and people should always keep learning new things and work hard, but enjoyment is also a big part of recharging your energy.
@@K.R.98 That may be right, but is completely besides the point. You training yourself with videogames doesn't benefit a relationship. That's the whole point. You are sharing your life with someone else. You being shut off from the world, I can imagine that isn't really appealing to most women.
"Playing video games is a waste of time". For me, personally, going to club, getting so drunk that you will have a hangover for whole next day and not be able to function is a waste of time. Hell, even going to club to dance and "party" is a waste of time for me
And it does damage to your body. Your liver is taking a bartering and can lead to financial issues, drinking and driving and other things. It’ll set you back hundreds of dollars and you just get a hangover in return. A game will run you $60, give you months of fun and an experience you’ll not forget. Gaming is one of The safest and most rewarding hobbies ever!
@@AVVGaming1 I'm all for enjoying video games but this is quite a poor argument. The "alchohol always bad, drinking and driving and blackout drunk" argument gamers like to use is just as much of a hyperbole as the "videogames will ruin your life" argument. I've always had some "loner" tendencies, still do to some extent. I never did well in tight crowds and will never be nor have the desire to be the life of the party. But i made a conscious effort in my late teens/early twenties to step out of my comfort zone and tag along with my group of friends. It did wonders for my social skills. I used to be the stereotypical "quiet kid", i very well might have been the "hardcore gamer type" (otherwise known as full-blown crippling gaming addict shut-in) were it not for that. And while a great night of playing games with friends is priceless. Those (albeit somewhat rare) nights of drunken shenanigans where you didn't want the sun to rise were pure bliss, and they'll still be brought up occasionally decades later when you've all calmed down and an exiting evening consists of playing jenga on a saturday.
@@ric84 I had my fair share of those nights too. We still talk about those nights. They bring back great memories. I think it’s all about the balance. Some of my closest friends I met through those activities and they still chat with me today. I also have great memories playing games with friends. RE5 split screen with my mate in 2009, what a summer that was! You’re making me nostalgic now lol
You know what women would find even more unattractive? A man that's willing to give up something he enjoys to please others. Be unapologetic about what you enjoy and don't let people dictate what you should and shouldn't be doing with your free time. Anyone who gets hung up on such things isn't worth having in your life to begin with.
100% agree! It’s so sad to see these type of lists published and it grinds my gears. Each person is different and hobbies don’t say everything about a person. And you’re spot on in that if someone makes you give up something you love, then that person is not someone you want in your life anyway. Love this comment! Great for it to be the first one!
@@DominatorLegend Assuming you're straight, please stop assuming the worst in half the population, also the half of the population you want in your life, I guarantee you women are not evil.
@@AVVGaming1 Gaming isn’t a bad thing but it can be a good thing but gaming isn’t productive it’s good to take a brake from gaming and enjoy life like you know deep sea diving, visiting nature, surfing, camping, socializing with people, sports, fishing kayaking, going to the gym and hiking. Gaming can be a good when it comes too escapism as long if you don’t make it your personality also gaming isn’t productive. Gaming isn’t always a healthy thing.
So noted: Gambling, Alcoholism, Drugs, Smoking, Theiving, Kidnapping, Vandalism, Terrorism, Fraud, Raping and Murdering are far better hobbies than videogames.
Welllll….as someone whose engaged with all those activities, except fraud, I wouldn’t say they’re “better hobbies”….equally challenging I think would be a fairer take. 😜
Women be saying gaming is an unattractive hobby and then spend hours painting themselves with chemicals to hide their insecurity, read extremely laughably unrealistic romance novels and binge watch tv shows where women tear down each other. Thanks. I have hobbies for myself, not for other people.
I’ve seen some people watch those shows and they’re called “reality tv” and honestly it’s not for me. It’s drama but so fake and pretend it’s not even funny lol. I will never discuss a reality tv show on the channel lol I’m going to do a part 2 we’re im gonna talk less about the money and more about the people gaming has positively impacted
@@loftus4453they are saying some Hobbies women partake in are very Vain and full of vanity, whereas a Videogame is just a fun waste of time. Primarily how Makeup is arguably a means to an end, that being hiding or concealing insecurities or feelings of inadequacy via arguably unhealthy cosmetic products(not to say it can’t be expressive or done in a healthy manner), or how partaking in the enjoyment or cheerleading of Drama and social toxicity by watching certain types of TV or online content comparatively is more harmful than even the worst type of person to play video-games. I think the point is Videogames are Escapism, whereas Makeup is fundamentally an act of Vanity, and reality tv or other content are inherently exploitation of peoples lives, reputations and emotions. While I don’t personally condone making hyper autistic comparisons of what people do for enjoyment, I understand the commenters sentiment.
Love that! In reality there’s no such thing as wasted time. You only live one life. Your life. And you determine what is considered the right way to spend it. No one else can tell you how to spend it.
Enjoying the life is the whole point. Like what's the alternative - do something productive, right? But what makes it count as productive? Surely, it must be something that will either make your own future life or that of others more enjoyable. Therefore, this enjoyment is always the end goal.
@@HanakoSeishin Doing something productive often means doing something that favours long term gain over short term enjoyment. I'm not gonna be here acting like video games are the devil or something, nor am I gonna bash on them, cause, like I said in a previous reply, my passion for games has grown so much so that I make them. Hell, the reason why I even got into music and programming in the first place is due to my love of games. But simultaneously, I won't lie to myself and say that video games are the most productive hobby one can do. The fact of the matter is, we just gotta quit the cope and admit thag video games aren't as productive as we make them out to be, whilst also realising that there are many, MANY worse "hobbies" (like doomscrolling or binge-watching tv or smoking), and thar we shouldn't feel bad for playing games as long as we can balance that out with important stuff, something which a lot of the people criticising people who play video games rightfully point out is something people who do play games have quite a bit of trouble with (even me!).
@@oghene2778 I'm not saying videogames are productive, I'm saying the goal of productivity is to make life enjoyable. Therefore if you're only doing productive things and never enjoy yourself you're defeating the point of doing the productive things.
It’s funny because the people who shit on video games be the same people who sit on their asses watching tv all day or are on their phone doom scrolling
@@AVVGaming1 if you ask me gamins is more productive/better than doom scrolling or watching TV, in *most* games you have to use your brain at least a little bit, so you are effectively learning things when gaming, yeah TV and social media has similar effects but imo its much more present and active in gaming
Both still artificially release dopamine and are based around consuming content instead of creating 🤷🏾♂️. Both don’t really have much tangible ROI either. I love games though but I’m honest with myself
@@wbymyka it’s crazy how much is available nowadays and how they’ve mastered the art of dopamine release. I saw a video this morning saying they’ve mastered it in kids cartoons now too! It’s crazy times we live in!
Exactly! And I know which one I would pick to learn something! Video games can teach you skills like problem solving, history, languages etc. love island teaches you….ill let you figure something to put in there cuz I can’t think of anything lol
@@AVVGaming1 I watched love island just to make fun of it in the background whilst slaying some pirates on far cry and it surprisingly did teach me something, how people act like snakes nowadays and that their actions don't follow their words even ON LIVE TELEVISION. Imagine what these psychos do without cameras on them 24/7. Talking behind other contestant's backs but are too much of a pussy to confront them face to face despite their charade "Look how hard of an Alpha male I am ladies / bad queen I'm going to scoop you away from Joe/Jolene" intros, Unfortunately, the women (and men) who waste their time to watch this junk do not learn any lessons and are more interested in the petty drama and shirtless guys. Braindead show.
@@Reset2150676 exactly! Why do you work? Why do people sign up for get rich quick schemes? Why do they want to retire early and save up? So that they can spend their days doing what they want eg their hobbies like video games lol the irony eh?
The "video games are a waste of time" argument is pure cope. With that logic, anything people do for fun is a waste of time. People cannot function without time for leisure.
@@baconshreds1772 exactly! I don’t know who created the rule that we have to spend 100% of our life “hustling” or working. We need a balance. Some of the posts just on this video show how valuable gaming has been to some people as well!
@@suspicioussand I know…honestly what’s the point? lol I did a part 2 to this where I discuss that in a bit more detail and get a little philosophical lol
Long ago, books were getting just as much fire as gaming by popular opinion. I believe that one day we will romanticize playing videogames on a rainy day just like we do books.
I agree! Someone made a comment similar explaining how over time every media of art gets attacked at some point in history from books, tv to movies etc. video games are just the go to at the moment. I honestly think anyone who writes this list hasn’t had a proper gaming moment yet. Need to get some Skyrim or Witcher 3 on for them lol
This was done because with books you gain knowledge and a wider world view. This is not good for the ruling class where it is optimal to keep the masses sedated and stupid.
"Reading books again? Just go outside for once and play with your friends" Honestly insane to think about, nowadays you can just pretend to read a book and people think you are intelligent
I treat games and books as almost one in the same in terms of hobbies. Then again, I’ve been reading and playing games for most of my life. Admittedly though, I play much less than I read as I get older.
The best is when sports fanatics try to talk down about video games/gamers. Like dude, you act like you not only play on the football(American) team but that you’ve just lost or gained a million dollars each game. As such after each win they go around almost acting as though they contributed. Or upon loss mope around treating everyone like crap.
Video games are the pinnacle of storytelling, instead of watching a story unfold (like reading a book or watching a movie) you, yourself get to experience the story from the perspective of the character, building your own story along with it, games can make you scared, they can make you happy, they can make you cry. Video games are incredible, and the sheer amount of skills one must have to create one is insane. The same people who think playing games are unattractive, bad for you, or a waste of time, spend the same amount of time scrolling through social media or watching Netflix, but little do they know that we’re actually experiencing storys instead of just watching them happen
Yes I love this! I’m doing a part 2 to this video tomorrow! Do you mind if I take that line from your comment to use? I just think you summarized it perfectly!
My girlfriend told me that she wanted to learn how to play video games because she thinks it is cool and fun. She also wants a PS4 or PS5. Don't forget that people also get paid for playing games.
@@Silent-Pride4-wt9iy exactly! My wife got into video games after meeting me. Now she plays them more than me! lol but she’s part of massive groups online who share gaming stories and lists like these don’t take their opinion into account. Those who game together stay together! What’s her favourite game?
Video games are an ultimative source of entertainment. Which absorbs and connects things like art, music, books and films into a whole It's one of the first hobbies I've ever had that I'm still into, and I don't regret wasting my time one bit Video games have shaped me as a person, taught me many simple and complex things, and pushed me on a creative path, to making art and try other things *Be proud to be a gamer* , because we're one of those people who don't look at the story from the side, but are part of the story ourselves
Yes! That’s why I made the video! Video games are the most successful art in the world at this current time. There is nothing for people to feel bad about. Nobody should feel bad about having any hobby. Life is about enjoying the ride and games have really helped me do that. Your right about the stories too. We shape the story and create the adventure, that’s creativity at its peak in entertainment
I think gaming doesn't get the credit it deserves as a form of art. I like to think of gaming as an evolution of media, like film is somewhat of an upgrade to books due to the added visuals and gaming is somewhat of an upgrade to film because the consumer can actively take part in the medium. When people tell me that gaming is a waste of time, I usually say, they haven't played the right game yet.
I didn't play any computer games (apart from things like Battlezone in arcades) till Doom came out for PC in 1993, and I was already 38 years old, so I didn't have all Mario/Zelda stuff back in my childhood. I'm almost 70 now, and I love games as much as I did when I discovered them - Fallout London is a work of art! I never feared retirement, because I knew I wouldn't be bored (got plenty of other hobbies - not just games). I wish my 94 year old mother was a gamer, instead of watching TV all day - it would keep her brain active. My nephew is 29, and he's just lost his leg in an industrial accident. But he's kept his spirits up - one reason for that? He's a gamer, who can continue his hobby even without a leg! While he was in hospital, his dad put a big TV in his room, and nurses used to sit on the bed playing video games with him - they preferred that to tending all the older patients, and he was a good-looking young man!
Thank you for sharing this story! It’s stories like this that explain why gaming is more important than people realise. They see it just as a “pong “ type game but the games we have nowadays are so in depth and rich in story and content. And those arts create Stories like the one you’ve shared here. Gaming is beautiful. Thank you for the kind words about the channel as well! It really means a lot!
“Video games are a waste of life. Go get a job”. I can’t say how many times I’ve heard that phrase. But as someone who has been working 40-65 hours a week for decades for what has ultimately turned out to be peanuts, I can easily say that the greatest waste of my life’s time has been working a job. My job would literally suck my soul out of my eyes if the company could see a 1% bump to their bottom line.
You know what? I’ve been doing a lot of thinking on this subject. I mainly do video game content so I’m not sure if it’s my place To make content on this, but it’s true that they push people to work long and hard. And then get a side hustle. Basically work 24/7, no fun. Then, none of these people make money except those that sell courses on how to make money. I’m thinking of maybe discussing this type of content but not sure yet. I work full time too and it seems like people who beat down on games is because it’s something that makes you happy…and that seems to upset some people
So I’m a woman who has been gaming since I was 4 years old. It has been a huge part of my life ever since. I’ve talked to women who aren’t gamers and most of the time, their issue with gaming isn’t necessarily gaming itself. It’s the fact that a lot of women have experienced being with men who put gaming above adult responsibilities and put games above their own partner. Sadly, it is far more common than you think, which has caused negative stigma to surround the hobby in general. If that issue was far less common, I doubt the stigma would be as bad. Communication is key. Unless an emergency is happening, I would be fine if my future partner tells me “give me roughly X minutes, I’m in the middle of an online match and can’t pause.” However, if I need them after the game and I find out they just started another one, that’s a problem. The overall stigma of gaming is decreasing, which is a good thing. The ratio of male:female gamers is almost 1:1. Let’s just all be responsible and put time with our partner first. Again, communication is key.
Love this and I think you’ve identified it perfectly. It’s not just games. Any hobby that interferes with time with partner and adult’s responsibilities is always going to cause issues. I think any hobby is fine in any relationship as long as a balance is achieved and agreed! Compromise is the word. The exact thing you said. Thank you so much for sharing this comment, it’s a perfect summary!
People who like to dog on your hobbies usually feel more miserable than you at the time of saying it and typically won’t admit it (based on my experience). There’s also this weird notion from older people that if you are doing something stationary like playing a game, they will dumb it down to “just pushing buttons” or “staring at a screen like a zombie” even though depending on the game it requires much more critical thinking and mental energy than for example: watchin TV. Something older people have done for thousands of hours. Neither does gaming suffer as much from isolation like watching TV. You can actually make friends and socialize and bond with people through video games. Older people should play video games, because it can stimulate their brain in more useful ways than ACTUALLY STARING AT A SCREEN AND JUST WATCHING IT FOR HOURS without any other additional mental tasking. Awesome essay sir!👍
Thank you for the kind words! I think it is the gap in games released. Like, older people tend to think we’re still sat here playing for pong lol. That we spend hours every day playing Pac-Man lol. They don’t understand how far gaming has come and continues to grow! There’s some good tv shows, movies etc but gaming has entered the next level. It’s unreal the games we are playing now compared to just even 10 years ago. They may think it’s just a basic hobby but it’s actually the most diverse hobby ever. You can play such a wide range of games that require different approaches. You can play online. You can become immersed in a story better than what’s in the cinema and you can be more creative than you can in other media’s. Gaming despite being the most successful media is still actually underrated by some lol
Same man, I do a lot of sim racing, and even though it's completely virtual, fake cars, you have to use your brain a lot in it(I mainly play iRacing). Similarly with Hades, another game that I'm playing a lot of right now, you have to think a lot too! There's quite a bit of strategy per run, even with the rooms being randomized, and each death is something you learn from; it's like: "Okay, that didn't work. Let's try it this way this time", and it goes like that every time.
I dont get the argument that its a waste of time to watch other play video games, mainly because most people who say that watch other people play sports like Football
It is exactly the same! People who are watching the guy saying “watching other people is a waste of time” are wasting their time watching him by his logic ool
@@AVVGaming1 Though real life hobbies can never incorporate so many things such as music, cinematography, storytelling, and long distance fun with friends like gaming can. People who talk about video games this way have never given them a chance and are imagining that every game is a loner experience of jumping on mushrooms for 14 hours straight
Also, people just hate when you enjoy other things more than their miserable and pitiful life, such hatred for such a beautiful pass time, don't let em get to you.
As a gamer all I can say is I don't care about what other people think about gaming. I'd rather be a social outcast and play video games because it's what I enjoy over being everybody's friend by not playing.
I am a woman and a casual gamer, meaning I like video games but I don't play every day, not even necessarily every week. I used to have a toxic relationship with gaming where I would spend all my free time on a competitive game and have no social life outside of gaming. When I meet a man who says he's a gamer I'm a little bit wary because a lot of the male gamers I know are hardcore gamers, meaning they play all the time, they neglect real life (studying for college for example), they prioritize gaming over doing anything else so if I call them they don't answer, they don't cook or clean so I have to do it all, some shout at their computer very agressively when they're losing, and they never want to do anything else with me than playing video games (I love being in nature for example, but I would always have to always go alone). They also often live at night, eat unhealthy and don't like any type of physical activity. So I love video games, but when a man tells me he's a gamer I'm instantly worried that he'll have an unhealthy relationship with gaming and I will be the one who has to keep his life together for him. This is not specific to men, there are a lot of women who are also like this, I wouldn't date them either. I certainly will still consider dating someone if they're a gamer, I would just be more careful to check that our lifestyles are compatible.
Most guys don’t cook or clean gamer or not, it’s a hard pill to swallow but guys just aren’t wired for that, we prefer to minimize the amount of time spent preparing or getting meals, we just want to eat and be done with it, no fan fair or extravagance. We often don’t clean cause we aren’t ever really expected to do it growing up and aren’t taught it, that and our thresholds for being grossed out or bothered by uncleanliness tends to be higher than women, not saying that’s good(I am a lot More easily bothered by uncleanliness myself), just that most guys only wanna focus on things that have immediate benefactory results, hence why most wealthy men just pay for maids. It’s not surprising when 90% history men needed mothers or maids to handle house work, we just suck at it.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with people living at night, not partaking in lots of physical activity or even spending long periods doing something they enjoy. But I do agree being too aggressive over a game, ignoring too many calls (uncommunicative), and eating super unhealthy is understandably a problem.
I'm a recovering addict and honestly the video means a lot to me. I've gone back to playing minecraft, which I started playing in 2012-2013. Because of all the stressful shit in my life, playing MC again has been a huge relief. The creativity from it is even encouraging me to make art and write again. I couldn't cope before and now, I'm starting to have real fun again. But because of how many times I've heard gaming is pointless or bad for you, I've been beating myself up a lot. This video's relieved some of that guilt. So. Yeah, thank you man.
Thank you! I’m glad it made you feel better. Honestly, don’t ever beat yourself up. Some things make people happy and I don’t know why some people are intent are ruining that for people. This constant guilt of if you’re enjoying yourself you’re wasting your time? It’s all a lot of hogwash. I’m doing a new video in the future called “how much gaming is too much?” Where I’ll get into more details. And I’m so glad it’s helping you write and make art again! If you write some good stuff and make good art, let me know and we can show it on the channel in the future!
I was indifferent to gaming prior getting married. My wife wanted an original Xbox and our first game was Splinter Cell. We've had soooooooooo many wonderful experiences playing together or watching the other in a single player game. We don't watch tv/movies together at all. One of the secrets of a happy life.. Love what you love. Find someone who loves you. Find someone who you love. Do what you both love to do together, whatever that may be.
@@AVVGaming1 we looked at the game, but couldn't do it. The couple was heading to divorce and not respectful to each other. That isn't us and we felt bad for the characters. Though we did enjoy " a way out". Except for the shity ending.
@@jasonwojcik the ending was really tough on that how it turned you against the other lol. The story of it takes two is that they turn it around and rekindle their love for one another so that one was a much happier ending. It’s kind of a good story that helps couples remember to stick together through the hard times. A way out was great but yeah that ending is tough lol
@@kylesuds00we really enjoyed playing the Tomb Raider games from the 360 to now together. She used to hand me the controller when she couldn't get the timing right. She has mad gaming skills now 😂❤
The ones who complain about gaming the loudest will also be the ones on the couch consuming hours and hours of television a week while they doomscroll their feeds. That 'poll' don't mean anything, who did it ask, how many did they ask, how old were they? People put way too much stock into the endless polls being reported. I am over 50 and never once in my entire life was I ever 'polled'. For anything. Hard to take them serious, as I also know no one who was polled. They're all BS for 💩heads who can't make their own decisions.
You are absolutely right in being sceptical about these polls. I have studied statistics several years at uni and know that you have to consider not just the size of the sample but also what the sample is and if it actually is a random sample or not. If it's not a random sample, it's pretty useless. It's like only asking tall people in a survey and then claiming that the average human height is 190 cm. Doesn't matter if you avsked 100 tall people or 1 000 000 tall people, the result is still biased since it's not a random sample and does not represent the average human.
I have seen the poll a few times, I have heard it being discredited as a synthesized meme. Dunno for sure, but anything convenient I see online I assume it is fake or mostly fake But this is very classic post-modern analysis, how media is so prevalent in society that people will reference a fake scenario in media rather than a real life example. treating media as though it is more true than reality, known as simulacra An example may be like complaining about how horrible men are and referencing Peter Griffin to demonstrate your point. This has been extended to treating meme polls as real, or creating fake short form videos to distill a complaint (ex. Cheese cake factory girl)
@@AVVGaming1 I bet it’s fake cuz I don’t see how so many real women would consider gambling worse than video games or figurine collecting (and say bird watching of all things is the 10th worst hobby a guy can have)
@@fnaf1983-RWQFSFASXCbecause to women gambling is a huge risk, but at least there’s the possibility of a payday. gaming to them seems like a fruitless endeavor
Met two great friends from Switzerland and Australia respectively. Two years ago we all went to Switzerland to finally meet after years of playing and it’s turned into a lifelong friendship
Gaming has been capable of producing extraordinary storytelling as early as the 80s, and it has also lent significant success to graphic artists, writers, and musicians/sound engineers who might have otherwise struggled to create their art outside of video games. Not only that, but video games are still wholly capable of doing everything other mediums do -- games often include entire novels worth of reading (sometimes even as in-game books!), tear-jerking, infectious game soundtracks are sold and streamed every day, and between visual novels, cinematic-heavy games, and telltale-esque games, movies hardly stand a chance. And of course, the biggest advantage is, video games can tell a story in ways other mediums can never do. World-building is no longer bound to the appendix, immersion drips off every wall, and character development and roleplaying advancement either places YOU directly in the action or puts you in the shoes of someone who is. While this might not apply to some multiplayer, puzzle, or simulator games, those too have their place as being better wastes of an afternoon than expensive nights out damaging your health/reputation/criminal history or poisoning your brain with doomscrolling. Many people in my life have been saved from depression, crime, financial ruin, and apathy by video games. Not recognizing your self-worth because someone thinks your hobby is unattractive? That's never saved anyone.
Normally not many people read long comments but this is important: I noticed that the gaming community is always stuck on this point. There is this strange desire to be "accepted" by the wider public, like children pining for their parent's attention. You can probably also bring the connection to high school where liking video games was associated with being a "nerd" which automatically means you cannot be cool i.e. accepted by your peers. But this feeling of exclusion is made up. Gaming is one of the most popular hobbies in the world and there is no need to get accepted by the majority. It already is the majority. Accept your hobbies as part of you and reject people who look down on you for it.
Spot on! I think we’re past the point of caring about being accepted. We’ve seen the industry grow so much now that it’s more common place and well known than a lot of things. I wanted to make this video just to basically say “we’re happy leave us alone” lol they hated gamers for a while but it looks like we won. We don’t like to shout from the rooftops or brag about it, but every now and then just want to let people know, we know lol
You can't really say that when they created a derogatory slang term "opposite of out cell". to specifically target individuals and shame them. no different then the N word.
Being a metalhead and a gamer is pretty much just fighting for an acceptence in this society. Dont wanna cry about it, im doing pretty fine. But it should not be like that. Hearing most of my life about women problems and lgbt ppl complaining about how society treats them and never ever I heard a glance about gamers or metalheads having hard time does not make me feel better either.
whenever I called a nerd I say this "The definition of nerd is somebody who is extremely knowledge about a certain subject if your not a nerd d you enjoy nothing do you know nothing if s then why do you even exist if you going to live such a stale life?"
Well, YOU don’t. And that’s awesome - I hope there are a decent number of women like you out there! But it seems you are in the minority, not the majority, unfortunately.
internet trolling is called humor, it's peak satire, if you don't like it? too bad, welcome to earth. the fact that women have lists at all is just misandry becuz guys never would. we genuinely think all their interests are awful. if guys would rather gamble over spending time with women doesn't that just mean women are worse to men then gambling?
yeah I think that list was just what people said, they probably didn’t put them on a list and told them to rank it. Most probably didn’t even think of gambling and other things
@@Anotherhumanbean12345i think you missed the point. Trolling is fine when its funny or in good spirits. But people who go out of their way to be weird, and make people miserable is what they were talking about here. Think of it like taking a prank too far, not knowing when to draw the line. It might be easier to put into perspective that way
One of the fun things about being in a relationship with someone who also enjoys video games is we've been able to share games with each other. I introduced my gf to the Halo series & Skyrim. She introduced me to Stardew Valley, which we've currently been playing a ton together cause I'm hooked. I wouldn't trade the time I've spent playing games with her for the world.
I’m in a relationship the same as well. We play games together as well as separately. We’re going to play thst new super massive game The Casting of Frank Stone tonight together! Might do a video on that. Those who game together stay together!
Thank you! I hope people see it and appreciate games a bit more. I did a part 2 as well Id like to put next to it as it covers almost everything great about games
I'm a gaming grandmother and gaming IS a beautiful hobby. I got my first game, to play on TV in my teens, just a few years after color television. I have been gaming on and off ever since. With my husband, with kids and with grandkids. Gaming can bring people of all ages together. I was playing online games 20+ years ago and enjoyed getting to know people from all over the world. Today the games are so beautiful, but not always better. Anyway, the good thing is that I can continue gaming as long as I have a few reflexes left and remember what I am doing. I will! Hopefully my husband will continue to enjoy games with me for 20+ more years. .... So all you young people.... continue gaming - just don't forget that there is a world outside as well. :-D
That's really nice. The problem is that most guys are really competitive, so they naturally want to be the best. They want to be the alpha male so to speak. That often means spending a lot of time practicing and grinding.
I remember someone telling me they thought video games were a waste of time and money. Then I proceeded to inform then that actually you can buy games second-hand and then resell them to get some of your money back. They still believed it was a waste of money and time. Some people are honestly stupid.
Haha I know! I love buying games. I’m not a fan of the digital marketing games because I like having the physical copy because they can fluctuate in value. Some older games that were worth $20 back in the day are now worth $100s! I think some people just decide they’re gonna hate something and that’s that. At that point, nothing will sway them, even actual proof that contradicts their beliefs.
Not to mention all the great games that came out on the 360. If people are dead broke they can still pick up a console with a whole haul of stuff for under £100.
@@bowenjudd1028 the pick-me's, the popular, the tiktok/ig addicted, the gossipers, the backstabbers etc... they get to vote cuz thats what society sees how women is like, they did not see the rest of the women who actually made up 48% of the gaming community, the women who are timid, 'nerdy', wear hoodies, doesnt like makeups etc... theyre women also, but their opinion did not get recorded
@@NajHelmi I never felt more represented in my life! :o Thank you. Not the former, by the way, F them. But, the latter. Normal women without a mean-girl personality exists.
Haha apparently according this list! There is nothing more unattractive than gaming apparently! Can you see how ridiculous this list is lol. It’s clearly designed to provoke but yes it’s better to be single than date whichever people wrote these lists imo. Who writes this list anyway? lol
Ehh, Call of Duty has lost its touch. Try playing some indie games, they really slap and have much higher skill ceilings with much less toxicity. Been playing Ultrakill lately, I really recommend it
Those who say video games are a waste of time should ask themselves what they spend their time on. Many watch TV or listen to music. Others read books. Yet others do gardening. All hobbies can be considered a complete waste of time, depending on who you ask.
Yes and I was sure hobby meant that. Something done purely for fun. Not particularly needing to result in income or something like that. I work, do what I need to do, but when I’m not doing that, it me time. I use video games then. I don’t want to spend every minute of my life not doing what I love
That moment when you realize that women just fundamentally dislike men is a hard pill for lots of dudes to swallow. In fact some never do,.and they spend their lives chasing something that doesn't exist. To the young men out there: you can safely ignore about 90% of what women say. Just do your thing.
This guy speaks truth, women will absolutely break every standard they say they have for "the right man". If she wants to be with you, she will make excuses and exceptions to be with you. If she doesn't want to be with you, no amount of listening or conforming to her will change that.
the only difference between video games and a game is that one is on a computer screen yet one is badly viewed and the other one is a "normal thing to do"
Exactly! I think maybe in 20 years time they will be held in the same respect as other medians. Heck, they might even see movies as the odd thing to do in the future, especially after the recent films we’ve seen coming out lol
I am a woman and a gamer so this is wild to me. Also I remember a family member quoting an ACTRESS on how playing video games is a waste of time. Because watching her shows on Netflix is what? They were not even educational programmes. Also the gaming industry employs a lot of very talented actors. The double standards in that statement are crazy.
Yes but that is outdated now. Video games have gotten to the point where more actors will be working in games. Would be funny if the example she used, the actress, one day appeared in a video game! lol that’d be the ultimate “I told you so!” Moment lol
Wonderful video, dude ! I am 34 yo, medical doctor in Romania. I cannot tell you how hard it is to battle the mentality of "video games are a waste of time/for children" here in East Europe. Most of my family and friends just tolerate it but other people are straight up repulsed when I say that I play video games. But that hasn't discouraged me. For me it's just a filter to see who's open minded.
When my dad went to Iraq all those years ago, all I had back then was my mom and my GameCube. I spent many nights trying to convince my mom to let me stay up past my curfew for just a little while longer so I could play some more Double Dash and Sunshine. I was a pretty lonely kid back then, but the games I had brought me a level of joy and excitement that I really needed at that time. Then my brother was born, and we grew up playing games together. My best friend from high school moved to another state years ago, and although we can’t spend physical time together anymore, we still regularly play video games together, as we have for many years. It’s an activity that helps keep us connected-a fun thing to do together despite the distance that keeps us apart. I know people have their opinions about video games, but I can’t deny the positive impact they’ve had on my life. Some may call it a waste of time, but I honestly don’t care in the slightest since I am having so much fun!
What a lovely story! I’m going to do a part 2 on this subject and just discuss all the great thing’s gaming provided and this story is an example! By the way double dash was awesome and I spent so many hours on sunshine! So so many! Super smash melee, Luigi’s mansions, Zelda wind waker, man the GameCube was such a good console!
Very important to remember about the argument that playing/watching video games is a waste of time, is that you could use your time way more constructive and productive by watching reality TV shows, sitcoms and ofcours sports. Nothing is more fullfilling and beneficial to your life than watching a 3h snooker turnament.
Hahahaa love this comment! Great advice and makes the point! The world is filled with hypocrites and it’s so annoying that gaming is the one they pick on!
It's more than a hobby for me to be honest. In one hand, it's just a fun hobby depending on the genre or specific game. But on the other, it's a medium to understand the world we live in, both physical and metaphysical. I equate it to learning, play, and an amalmagation of so many mediums of art be it literature, music, and cinematography. It's interactive philosophy. All of which has the same purpose. I also love how varied they are. There are games where you can just "turn your brain off." Then there are games so thought-provoking that I never forget them. I never even saw games as a form of escapism but rather a side-effect of it.
Completely agree with you and that’s the thing they don’t take into account when they make those lists. They don’t understand how varied the gaming world is. It’s not just one type of game. It’s such a variation and I have had video games inspire me, comfort me, educate me, they really are a form of art that offers so much. These type of lists can only be made with the thought of video games being one type of game. Has to be.
Absolutely love this perspective! Gaming is more than just a pastime-it's a beautiful hobby that brings people together, fosters creativity, and offers endless adventures. Thanks for highlighting the positive side of gaming!
Video games not only help to improve your mental abilities, but also maybe very helpful for coping stress, increasing creativity, ability of cooperating.
As soon as you realize "Wasting your life" is code for "You're not doing something that benefits me or others" you can comfortably tell all those people that want things from you you'll be busy "wasting your life."
See I’m starting to think you’ve got a strong point here. Why do they push the whole “work harder” and you should be working every minute thing? And yet…what % of people live pay check to pay check..makes you wonder who’s pushing that agenda. Just thinking out loud
@@AVVGaming1 Whats funny is you're the exception to what I said. You took the content consumption of gaming and turned it into content creation through this channel.
@@DarkSpartan343 haha after many years of not doing anything but playing. I think I started the channel just as a passion project but honestly, the people I’ve met and talked with in the comments etc. I think I’m incredibly lucky because they’re some of the best, most intelligent people I’ve met. They give good opinions and I know my videos are far from perfect, audios dodgy at times and sometimes I ramble, but they support me every video and that’s my main reason for pushing on!
I live in Poland. In middle school my Polish Language teacher went on a tantrum, screaming angrily at the kids saying "You would rather collect your stupid little coins in a VIDEO GAME then read the obligatory books". I'm sure I wasn't the only one thinking: Yes, I would rather play witcher 3 than read a XIX century books.
If you had a list of things “I could do” versus Witcher 3, I don’t think anything will beat it lol Witcher 3 is my favourite video game of all time! CDPR one of the best game developers too!
Hypocrite. So games should be tolerated but not books? This is why you are so hated. You gamers believe your hobby is superior and everything else is automatically boring
@@sskuk1095 yes and honestly being addicted to gaming is not such a bad thing. That’s why when publishers sneak gambling in there it’s so annoying! It’s taking advantage of them.
The fact video games are an interactive experience instantly puts it above 90% of all other entertainment mediums. Video games cover such a broad spectrum of enjoyment and of different experiences that in many cases you simply cannot get anywhere else. Furthermore, because it's not passive entertainment like movies or books, you are engaging more parts of your brain, meaning you are more likely to absorb your experiences and learn from them, and consequentially committing these lessons to memory. There is a reason you remember every inch of that one level in Halo you played 16 years ago, while you can barely remember the plot of the first alien movie. Marrying the psychological mechanisms behind video games and incorporating them into learning is an active field of research that shows huge promise. Video games are not just a waste of time: Video games are everything.
Great, positive video and I love it BUT 6:24 I think it's pretty simple, a lot of women just play tiny browser or mobile games to pass time, they aren't actually gaming for hours for the most part or ever take the medium seriously at all. That and even the few women who are actual hardcore gamer I'm sure would still be much into a man who spend all his time "provinding" for them while they sit at home playing the games.
Yes I think that’s correct. I’m going to do a part 2 and address the “attractiveness” thing more and in that video I’m gonna find the stats of what % of women play video games of mobile games are excluded. It’ll be really interesting to see I think! Thanks for the kind words about the video by the way!
@@AVVGaming1 Blimey! I'm a 67 year old woman and a hardcore gamer. I've been playing games since that table-tennis game came out in the 70's. I was playing RPGs right from the start with the likes of Daggerfall (First of the ES games). None of my partners have ever had a problem with it, though, because they've been gamers themselves!! At the age I am now, I'm thankful because gaming keeps me sharp, I have excellent reaction times (like when I'm driving), and sometimes gaming has been a life-saver when I've been depressed or suffering with an anxiety disorder. I'm semi-retired now, which is ace cause I have even more time for gaming! I should add that I know quite a few female gamers of various ages.
I claim a lot of my best attributes to gaming. I started at an early age I was born in 91 and was gaming by 94. I have a really good memory, good motor skills, problem solving skills, creativity and a bunch of other things. I'm not one of those people that just sits around and plays games, I work, I go to the gym, I hang out with my friends, and in my free time I'll game for an hour or two. If that makes someone not like me, that's totally fine I'll continue not giving a shit what they think and being happy
Haha love this comment! That’s exactly it. Most UA-camrs are gamers of old which shows the creativity it inspires. If you can fit gaming into your life and do everything you need to, why would you stop? Besides whoever wrote this list is someone I’d avoid like the plague lol
I am looking forward to becoming a gamedev. My parents look at games skeptically, but as I grew older, I could express my opinion better. I started doing analogies to movie industry, as well as writing (because if you think about it, games are indeed just movies, series or books, where you are the main character, unless it’s a competitive game, but that’s a whole different story). Now, gladly, my parents became somewhat interested in my hobby (gamedev, not gaming yet), even started asking things about it sometimes. I think making similar analogies as I did for them might actually help understand games more for people that are detached from gaming.
That’s the thing, I wanted to get into game development as a kid but my parents said it was for children and to do something else. Now you see how much money you can earn in gaming, it’s the best industry to get into! Follow your dreams and make it happen!
I started writing stories because of games. You're absolutely right: games are just highly interactive stories. You don't just get to imagine the location the characters visit: you can explore it yourself. You can get so much extra information about the world because you're not confined to what's important to carry a plot or develop character.
I love video games but I think the point you made at about 13:10 is crucially important and a valid reason why many people have the disposition towards video games that they do. I’ve met many people who are miserable losers because they won’t do anything to improve their life and just want to game all day. I’ve also felt this pull to play video games myself when I have other goals and responsibilities that should have priority. Yea tv and other forms of entertainment can have this effect too but for many people games are by far the most addictive
Yes I’m going to do a part 2 on this and cover this part in more detail. Because, I think in this video I mainly discussed finances but I want to discuss this side of things. More about the balance and the “guilt”. That’s what I want to discuss that voice in the back of your head. Got the title now “how much it too much gaming?” Thank you! You’ve inspired my next video!
I met my girlfriend (who i live with and weve been together for over 5 years) and all my closest friends through gaming. Im so passionate about gaming that i study 3D enviroment art specifically for game dev in no small part due to a desire to give back to the art form i love so much. When i talk to people about it its very rare that i get negative reactions with people usually being really interested in hearing about it. But of everyone ive spoken to the few who have negative attitudes towards gaming are more often than not, awful, miserable people. Never let people look down on you for gaming. Even if it where JUST affordable entertainment it would be worth doing but id argue that gaming is also more than that. Weather its the experiences you can have, people you can meet, or art and stories to learn from and be inspired by, gaming can enrich your life in many ways. If someone can't see that then thats their problem not yours
Lovely story and a great example of how gaming is more than just the actual game. It’s the people we meet, the creativity it inspires and the love it bloomed in your case! Thank you for sharing your story and I also am obsessed with 3d environments in gaming lol
Actually dark souls games and KCD actually taught me a lot of perseverance. I didn’t think I could do those games but I Learned that sticking to something and not giving up rewards you in the end. You can do anything you put your mind to! Gaming has lots of little lessons and motivations hidden within
@@AVVGaming1 100% agree! It's just so much that can be explored through games, and since you play alongside the characters, you feel it deeper than ever
Want to know something interesting? I’ve done it for two videos on my channel so far and they’ve both done really well! Maybe it’s the music that’s the secret! Skyrim and Oblivion alongside Witcher 3 have some of the most beautiful ambient music I’ve ever heard in a game!
I also find it crazy when (usually men) say video games or whatever are lame or a waste of time, but then enjoy watching football/ playing fantasy football. It always seemed so hypocritical to me
I've been gaming since the 70's. I am almost 70 yrs old and I still game to this day. I will never stop. For the past 3 yrs I've been playing 7D2D. And from that I've actually learned to code XML. I live alone, retired. This is how I choose to live out the rest of my life. Thank You for making this video. You expressed every single thought I have on the subject. 20 years ago or so I would have been you. Shouting from the mount and soapboxing injustice. But I find I'm not so good at raving anymore. Sometimes the words don't come. So Thank You for running with the torch. Gamers forever! They can't game or don't like it because they are jealous of our problem solving and intellect.
The fact that video games placed above gambling tells me everything I need to know. The survey is wrong. That and online trolling. Those should be above video games. Either the women surveyed weren't random people and had heavy biases or the numbers were straight up fabricated. Something is going on. Maybe they're old women, but even then, Candy Crush should be pulling through there. Video games are honestly one of the most varied, diverse, and adaptable forms of media I can think of. It can mimic TV shows and movies, teach skills, allow you to interact with other people and build relationships (as a U.S. citizen, my older sister found her husband in Scotland over a shared interest in livestreaming horror games), and provide endless entertainment with countless genres. What CAN'T video games interact with? Eating and drinking, as much as it comes up, is never comparable from video games to real life. What else? I dunno, scented candles? Anything with just sight and sound can, with enough time, be implemented into a video game in some form that you can interact with.
Love this! I honestly think the list was made by a certain group of people who probably spend all day on social media but somehow see a video games as a waste of time. Its a list mean to shock. It may be signed by “all women” but it’s certainly not got all their votes. You can already see in the comments section a lot of females would place video games either not on the list at all,but definitely below where it is. It’s meant to shock and go viral (which it did) but if they took video games off the list, and left the rat as it is, would anyone have seen that? Probably not. So the irony is, they actually benefit from the popularity of video games lol. Also, my wife is American and she met some Scottish people online too as well. Gaming truly is beautiful
I think a lot of women don't even make the connection that mobile games ARE video games. Some really do think everyone who games is some fat, pimply guy that sits in front of WoW for 14 hours a day.
A game on sale for $5 to $30 gives me more enjoyment than a $100÷ dinner. Why spend thousands to travel the depressing real world when i can explore beautiful fantasy worlds for a fraction of the price.
Exactly! And we can visit places we may never get to see. A lot of us don’t have the budgets to travel across the whole globe. Some of the worlds you can visit in games live with you forever. What’s your favourite game world?
@AVVGaming1 my most nostalgia is towards Final Fantasy and Kingdom Hearts games. Im replying the kingdom hearts games now that its on steam. I need to buy more final fantasy games in the next sale.
@@ziljin favourite final fantasy? And what did you think of ff7 remake and rebirth if you’ve been able to play them? I am doing videos on ff15, ff16 and 7 and rebirth sometime soon. Kingdom hearts as well. Just a magic game. What did you think of the newest edition of that?
@AVVGaming1 FFX for sure and i want to get FF7 remake next sale. FFXV a little boring with all the driving though. Kingdom Hearts is a lot harder than I remember.
@@ziljin I’ve not played x yet but I know it’s got a mass following. I’m thinking of getting it for the vita as that console never gets any love lol actually it might be my next game to get. Kingdom hearts is a lot harder than we remember for sure. Games were harder in the past because it was more about the challenge than the experience
I’ve been a gamer since the Atari and NES. Seeing those old game clips gave me some strong nostalgia. I remember and played every game you showed in that portion of the video. If only you had shown the Superman game I played on the Commodore 64.
Okay, Boomer gamer here... in my opinion video games are a LOT better at fostering cognitive development than the 1000's of hours my generation spent watching Gilligan's Island and The Munsters. So there's that.
Gen X-er. I loved Gilligan’s Island as a kid. It inspired my early sense of humor and encouraged me to do well in school because the professor made science seem like a super power. Sad but true, but for better or for worse, the show had a profound influence on the person I’d become. But I still like computer games too. 🙂
Thanks for sharing your side of things. I think it’s maybe a lack of understanding of the depth of video games as well as there are so many different types of games and I think a lot of people will group them all in together. E.g they assume everybody plays Fortnite and COD and are not aware of the amazing games available nowadays. Really great to get your perspective on the subject! Thanks for sharing.
I absolutely agree, the media is only there to make any problem your problem, the side effects of playing games is so much tolerable than the things that people do and don't judge, how come you judge a man play video games in his free time but not judge a man who always scrolls on instagram or tiktok. Just be yourself and don't feel pressured by what others say, they probably gaslight themselves more than you do.
Spot on! Video games just seem to get the most attention and quite frankly I’ve been on tik tok, I’ve been to the movies and I’ve watched Netflix and gaming offers way more than all of those. It is the ultimate level of entertainment and keeps most of us sane in this world. I’ve been working non stop recently and the after work I play a couple of hours…for no cost. Keeps me disciplined in some ways!
I paid $350 for a console, $180 for 5 games, $100 for controllers. In total, $630 for at least 11000 hours of entertainment stretched over 12 years. I paid $0.05 per hour for that entertainment. I do my homework before I buy a game insuring I'll be interested in playing it. I choose my purchases wisely and makes for a cheap hobby. The titles I chose have a "stat" page and one stat is hours/days played. Made it easier to do the math.
That’s exactly right! and that’s math is based off you quitting gaming rihht this second when in reality you could arguably get another 12+ years on top with the same games! Gaming is the most financially valuable hobby in that you get such bang for your buck! Very lucky to be a gamer!
As a gamer myself, I can imagine why that poll turned out how it did. I have never seen such a multitude of people show so many toxic traits within the span of 15 minutes in any other hobby than gaming - and usually it's guys showing them. The only mainstream movie I ever saw a sizeable amount of people show red flags was the relatively recent barbie movie. I have never heard of any non-celeb music star be a hassle to deal with - literally every musician I ever met was super chill and nice to be around. And artists? While movie-clichees exist, I doubt anyone is taking the frustrated-artist-throwing-fits-while-creating trope seriously. And that's why I think gaming gets so much more negative attention than other mediums. Gaming may be a beautiful art form, and an amazing kind of entertainment, but there are so many games in the mainstream that just bring out the worst in people - FIFA, CoD, Battlefield, literally any battle royal game, LoL, just to name a few. I wouldn't want to date someone who I can't be sure to talk to safely while they're "relaxing in front of the screen". Like it or not, that seems to be the picture prevalent in women - perhaps even women who happen to be gamers.
Yes and I think I missed those kind of points when making this video. I’m going to do a part 2 and discuss more about the art of gaming and sort of address exactly what you’re talking about. The art of gaming, the bad side of gaming and everything you’ve mentioned. It’ll be up in 2 weeks and hopefully it’ll be a better video. Thank you for your feedback!
Since I have memory, gaming has been part of my life with Age of Empires I in Windows 98, so honestly, I can't imagine my life without videogames. Thanks to the endless genres: Arcade, Racing, RTS, Shmups, Airplane games, Space, Story-based games, Visual Novels, Metroidvanias, Musical games, etc. I have enjoyed infinities of worlds and entertainment that isn't comparable to TV or Movies, and I still enjoy them as an adult. So no, playing videogames is never a waste of time if all those memories which you forged with them are happy and enjoyable.
Far as I can tell this chart has no real source and seemed to just made up for a tik tok video. But yeah the size of gaming being basically the most common hobby in the world based on revenue but social stigma of still being like it's the 90s is very odd in my opinion. I guess it's just something that Gen X and boomers refuse to change their opinions on and those are the people who have these opinions. They grew up with movies and TV and basically no one has a social sigma around that anymore so seems to be very generational. Gaming probably won't have a stigma in 30 years time
To be honest it's so common that it's kinda not interesting anymore. If 15 years ago I met someone that was into gaming I would be happy, we would talk a lot about games etc. Now, playing candy crush on your phone is considered gaming, everyone does play from time to time, which is egotistically kinda of a shame. I liked when it was a niche thing, now it's kinda watered down. My opinion ofx
This sort of poll is why Cobbler's Law is important to keep in mind while on social media: _If you see something stupid on the internet and it pisses you off, it's probably not real and just some jerkoff farming rage clicks_
Yes and there’s so much of that online nowadays. I made this video for those who would believe this type of list and feel they have to change who they are to attract someone which isn’t the case
Thank you for this! Not only will gaming become a bigger industry on its own merit, but with weather climate cycles getting more extreme, more people are going to stay inside and need entertainment. I believe the reason gaming is out-pacing everything else is it's interactive. E.g.: I recently beat the Dead Space 2023 remake twice and it was amazing, but then went to see Alien Romulus, and didn't feel shit. Playing survival horror actually helped me overcome a lot of anxiety and rebuild confidence. The level of interactive experience just wasn't the same just watching a movie (plus, yes, the writing and constant remakes have been lack-luster for a long time). Gaming combines the audio/visual element with the interactive; just another level to experience/enjoy a story in. And yes, totally agree about moderation, and really, HOW you use gaming. I've actually gotten MORE creative with arts, crafts, writing, and other hobbies BECAUSE of gaming. And yet, I STILL get outside for hikes and scenic drives, and the semi-regular night out with delicious food. I think a lot of people do feel neglected when their partners game and ignore them, but that's just a negative stereotype. Like you said, if it makes you happy and isn't hurting anyone or yourself, and doesn't get in the way of holding a solid self-sustaining life, then there's no issue.
Hear hear! Exactly how I feel! Hate those type of games and did a video on that not long after this video! They ruin gaming for a lot of people. They change a fun game into a casino where people literally ruin their life if not careful
The female gamer statistic is incredibly misleading. It includes women who exclusively play mobile games, even if that’s only a few minutes a day. Now regardless of whether you consider that “real gaming” or not, I think we can all agree that a person playing only mobile games, and people spending hours on a console or pc are two very different audiences, and I’m sure most of the female gamers who only play mobile games see it that way as well.
Okay, so your logic is : it is NOT hypocritical for women that spend hours on games on their phones to consider men spending hours on games on a computer to be unattractive? Plus, it is about women that consider themselves gamers, so they consider themselves gamers BUT think gamers are unattractive?
@@danax6653 No, I’m not saying anything remotely close to any of that and I have no idea where you’re getting it from. What I am saying is the reason why there is a disconnect between the number of women saying gaming is unattractive and the number of women who are counted as playing games is probably because women spending time playing mobile games don’t actually consider themselves gamers and that the actual number of women who we would define as gamers is much smaller than we are being led to believe. In other words a lot of the women being counted as “gamers” may also be a part of the group calling gaming unattractive because they don’t consider what they do gaming, nor do most gamers for that matter.
Completely agree! I’ve just dropped part 2 to this video and explained all the skills that can be learned from video games…there’s a lot when you actually put them all out
I never really cared about any of that. I got myself a woman who knows the joys of gaming, and I've living happier than I thought possible. I do play games a lot less due to the responsibilities of life, but whenever I can, Im here.
Thank you for making this. I'm an indie game dev, and I LOVE making games. The first game I ever played was PONG, and I was hooked at age 7. I honestly think games are about to (in the process of now...) replace movies, music, books, and every other form of entertainment. And, sure, women think games are for losers. But those women LOVE a rich game dev. Funny how that works...
Haha thanks for the kind words and awesome comment! That’s awesome that you make video games, I bet it’s such an addictive process that feeling on making progress on it each day. Games are a collection of all media’s past part and combined into one. Some people just haven’t experienced them so can’t understand what it means.
@@AVVGaming1 Thank you so much, and you're entirely correct. It's addictive. Sometimes I forget to eat while I'm working on a game. I love making games much more than playing them, but playing them is the B-Side of the process. That's what makes it addictive. And you're right about the nature of the medium. It's music, it's animation, it's voice acting, it's writing, it's programming, it's physics. You have to be a well-rounded artist and an engineer and computer scientist at the same time. But, the best part, it's that people LOVE games so much. Everyone does. It's an incredibly human thing. But my cat plays KittyBall with me with pingpong balls, so I can't say it's unique to humans. I encourage you and everyone else who adores playing games to learn how to MAKE GAMES. You can learn on Fortnite, Fortnite makes it VERY easy to make a game.
When I was in my early 60s I became fascinated watching my husband play Skyrim. He got me my own copy of the game and the rest is history. It's a great hobby when you're older and going out every night has lost its appeal, and a lot more fun than watching TV. I've put several thousand hours into video games, the good ones are fantastic. I'm playing Mass Effect Trilogy right now, unbelievably good!
Part two is now available: ua-cam.com/video/6li9urExpHI/v-deo.html
Cool
“Idk why u play video games. They’re a waste of time.” *goes and sits on a couch and binge watches an entire series on Netflix*
Exactly! And you see it so much! You can’t just pick on gaming without mentioning the others
Everything is a waste of time sadly
*spends hours every day scrolling on tiktok or insta*
Life is a waste of time if you don't enjoy it. Society is a mess anyway so why bother?
or lose over 4 hours A DAY on make ups and clothing choosing alone
Video games are where all art forms collide: visual art both 2D and 3D, music, writing, environment design, etc. to create an experience.
exactly. this is what makes it so bewildering when people say games can't be art. its a trivial fact that they can CONTAIN art from every existing art modality. so apparently putting the multiple modalities together and adding an interactive element spoils the end result..? I just can't accept that kind of logic.
@@LCTesla There is no logic behind that. Its ignorance.
Video games are the ultimate level of art in my opinion. It is incredibly underrated
Video Games; the Avengers of the entertainment industry! When all art forms band together they can create something far bigger than any one of them could on their own. Avengers Assemble!!
Exactly
"Gambling is ok as long as he doesn't play videogames" 😂😂😂
now we have games that do both💀
I like how that idea proves that people who buy lootboxes in video games (combining video games and gambling) are truly the worst.
I'll stick to casinos in my ps2 games. Where it doesn't require an internet connection, and I can reload a save before I lost my in-game money and try again
"What is he like? I mean he likes to collect the faces of girls that rejected him, but I guess it could be worse, he could have been into video games"
@@IcoKirov lmfaoo
50-year-old woman here. I've been gaming since I was a toddler. Don't worry about people who think gaming is unattractive. You don't want to be with them anyway. If you do something you enjoy, it's quality time. Do what makes you happy. If someone think it's weird or doesn't repect that, they're not a good fit in your life.
Absolutely agree with everything you said! I'm a 67 yo female, and have been gaming since the dawn of gaming!
An entire generation is between us and I think just the same as you. If they don't respect your choices and tastes, they probably don't deserve your time. Gaming and metal music are my passions and I'll keep "wasting my time" doing what I love.
@@CatGrindle;-; I wish you were part of my family😢 the growing up I coulda been like bye mom! I’m going to grandma’s. Then she’d be concerned and be like why do you always go to grandmas.
Just so I can respond. 😂 Grandm’as one hell of a carry and plays dps like a beast! She 2v4’s them guys and always clutches. That woulda been amazing!!!
@@WutherWave-qc3ud Thank you so much for your kind words :)
I'm a 50yr old guy and have been gaming since I was 5 or 6. Now that I have the financed I have a beast mode machine and can play pretty much anything on ultra settings and not even hiccup. I love gaming and always have. Anyone who doesn't like it can either agree to disagree or find arguments that they can't beat. I have a wonderful wife who supports my gaming and has no problem with it. I'm also educated and successful not to mention a marine corps veteran. I think that debunks pretty much every stereotype myth of gamers there is. Keep on playing and keep on living.
Video games is the reason I've never had a sip of alcohol, never did drugs, never went to a party or concert, never hung out with the "wrong crowd". Video games is also the reason why I pick up so many random skills, knowledge, or interests, where I can escape when times are rough, where I've met so many great people, and built so much social experience.
Video games is just another form of literature, art, and story-telling. Same thing to books and movies.
Not going to parties isn't a good thing.
@@temtem9255 Curious to know why you think so? If you mean friend gatherings or dinners, that's one thing. But if you mean dancing and DJs, then I strongly disagree.
Girls in skimpy clothing, loads of booze, inappropriate behavior, etc. that's just not my lifestyle. I also don't think it's a healthy one in general. There's better ways to spend your time.
@@jpkral I did mean friend gatherings and dinners, I didn't think you were talking about clubbing.
@@temtem9255 oh lol, yeah I meant clubbing. Outings and gatherings are cool.
It's the same for me, man
i'm a woman and i've been gaming since i was about 3 years old.
i'm 29 and still love gaming. I wish more woman were accepting of video games.
My wife is a gamer too and when she saw this list she was angry about it. It’s clearly not taken everyone’s opinions into account. I think no matter the hobby, if some people want to rank “attractiveness” based on someone’s hobby, it sounds like a person best avoided lol
@@AVVGaming1 toatally agree.
@@AVVGaming1 isn’t a bad thing but it can be a good thing but gaming isn’t productive it’s good to take a brake from gaming and enjoy little things in life and do healthy things like you know deep sea diving, visiting nature, surfing, camping, socializing with people, sports, fishing kayaking, going to the gym and hiking.
Gaming can be a good when it comes too escapism as long if you don’t make it your personality also gaming isn’t productive.
I’m a woman and I’m 50 years old, I have been playing since the 80’s, never gonna stop ❤
My daughters both play video games. And so does my mother, who's 70+ years old.
It was a video game that stopped me from killing myself 20 years ago. And I'm sure I can't be the only one here. For some people, video game is more than just an escapism. It's a safe place.
Which game was it?
I have seen a lot say this about Bloodborne. Something about trying again and again and again moulded them into people capable of fighting to take control of their lives.
Silent Hill 2.
Nier Automata.
Ico/Shadow of the Colossus.
I suffered from really bad anxiety when I was in college and playing oblivion was the only thing that helped me calm down and chill even for a little bit
Yeah. Games were a good distraction for me in highschool. While it didn't prevent me from having anxiety attacks and depressive episodes, it at least gave me a feeling of peace and control through the constant chaos of highschool. Yes, I know how bad the Sims 4 is and how Skyrim can be crazy, but I like getting new DLC for those games. They give me that well needed dopamine that I enjoy. Have a great day, stranger ✨✨✨✨
Gaming isn’t a bad thing but it can be a good thing but gaming isn’t productive it’s good to take a brake from gaming and enjoy life like you know deep sea diving, visiting nature, surfing, camping, socializing with people, sports, fishing kayaking, going to the gym and hiking.
Gaming can be a good when it comes too escapism as long if you don’t make it your personality also gaming isn’t productive.
Gaming is just the new kid on the block, something to blame for all our problems. So politicians and older people don't have to take accountability for the problems they created. In the late 1400 people burnt books because it was poison to the mind, for a short time in the 1800 opera music was banned because it was poison to the mind, in the 1960s rock music was poison to the mind, in the 70s and 80s TV and D&D was poison to the mind, and in the 90s video games joined a long and ever growing list of things that are poison to the mind. Something that can be used as an easy scapegoat for the worlds problems.
If history teaches humanity anything it's that humanity doesn't learn from history.
Don't get me wrong I love gaming but it isn't exactly seen as something attractive for anyone on the outside, and it will never be. People picture themselves a sweaty nerd drinking Coca cola.
Similarly, for me at least, girls that are overly active on social media and put up a bunch of edited images on themselves is seen as very unattractive and tacky for me.
Your last line man; that's so true. Now, we're obligated to read books in school, LOL. :D
@@TheMysterieRPGguy what a comment! It’s 100% spot on as you always are! It is crazy how humans have never learned from humans. How we repeat the same cycles again and again hoping things will change but it doesn’t. And they think we’re crazy for playing video games lol I’d rather explore Skyrim for a bit then switch on the news and deal with the never ending cycle lol
@@AVVGaming1 I know right it's a depressing thing these never ending cycles. When you think about it it makes sense that some people develop a video game addiction, video games are an escape from reality and some people need that escape more and more as they deal with the cycles of the world.
"New kid"? It's older than two-thirds of mankind. O_O
Reminds me of the Joke about the father who is going into the room of his son: "What are you doing, son?" "I'm watching a twitch stream." "What does that mean?" "That means, I'm watching a let's play." "What does that mean?" "That means I watch other people play video games." Then the father is shaking his head and leaves the room. He says to himself: "Watching other people playing video games. ... That's just so ... absurd." And then he sits down on a couch, switches on the television and watches a football game.
Maybe watching the best of the best doing e-sports may not be so different after all from watching the best of the best doing sports. I know, it's a full letter difference. That's just too much for some people.
Haha yes that’s exactly what it reminds me of too! I’m going to do a part 2 to this video hopefully up by Wednesday we’re I’m gonna discuss basically what you’ve said and explain why video games are more immersive than other arts, why it’s the same as sports and I think I’ll also discuss why people look down on it.
Also a stream is more interactive especially with smaller streamers so you can say something. Tho backseating is kind of annyoing.
I guarantee you pro gamers are magnitudes more intelligent than the blokes slamming their heads into each other at great speed over and over again in an attempt to move a small ball over a short distance.
I'd probably take it a step further and say something like "that's what I wanna do" for the esports
Dad might still be disappointed, but at least it's relatable. Some kids wanted to grow up to be Tom Brady. I want to grow up to be Knee.
@@Loctoraklol brother you know nothing about football clearly. It is the most complex sport on the planet 😂
Existing is a waste of time, but we keep on doing whatever for whatever.
Haha still trying to figure that out! If you ever figure it out let me know and I’ll be sure to let you know if I find out! lol
This comment is so based I love it
@@Loctorak 🙃
Waste of time is subjective.
“Life is about wasting your time doing things you enjoy.”
Spot on! I know people say you’ve gotta be doing x or hustling or whatever, but it’s a persons own life. If they want to spend every minute watching paint dry and they’re happy then let them I say! There has to be a balance. You can be productive but you need time to relax and reward yourself for working
It really reminds me of the movie „momo“ where guys with cigarettes show up to convince people that they are wasting their time and should be more productive.
Turns out people become more stressed and less happy.
the cigarettes these guys are smoking are actually the time they’ve stolen from the people they convinced to don’t waste time.
I’d disagree with that, because where’s the discipline and hard work? Not saying you shouldn’t do the things you love, but there is a line you shouldn’t cross.
@@aggus4261
Obviously you shouldn’t spend every minute gaming, because a unbalanced life isn’t enjoyable and probably relatively short.
But games train you in many aspects. Strategy games train your rational thinking and planning skills. Historical games can teach you historical facts and geography. Competitive games train your reflexes and intuition and cognitive abilities.
Phantasy-games improve your imagination. Role-play games often give you different perspectives and broaden your understanding of people, so it gives you an important part of social competence.
Of course people also should do sports and other physical stuff and people should always keep learning new things and work hard, but enjoyment is also a big part of recharging your energy.
@@K.R.98 That may be right, but is completely besides the point. You training yourself with videogames doesn't benefit a relationship. That's the whole point. You are sharing your life with someone else. You being shut off from the world, I can imagine that isn't really appealing to most women.
"Playing video games is a waste of time". For me, personally, going to club, getting so drunk that you will have a hangover for whole next day and not be able to function is a waste of time. Hell, even going to club to dance and "party" is a waste of time for me
And it does damage to your body. Your liver is taking a bartering and can lead to financial issues, drinking and driving and other things. It’ll set you back hundreds of dollars and you just get a hangover in return. A game will run you $60, give you months of fun and an experience you’ll not forget. Gaming is one of
The safest and most rewarding hobbies ever!
@@AVVGaming1 I'm all for enjoying video games but this is quite a poor argument.
The "alchohol always bad, drinking and driving and blackout drunk" argument gamers like to use is just as much of a hyperbole as the "videogames will ruin your life" argument.
I've always had some "loner" tendencies, still do to some extent. I never did well in tight crowds and will never be nor have the desire to be the life of the party. But i made a conscious effort in my late teens/early twenties to step out of my comfort zone and tag along with my group of friends. It did wonders for my social skills. I used to be the stereotypical "quiet kid", i very well might have been the "hardcore gamer type" (otherwise known as full-blown crippling gaming addict shut-in) were it not for that.
And while a great night of playing games with friends is priceless. Those (albeit somewhat rare) nights of drunken shenanigans where you didn't want the sun to rise were pure bliss, and they'll still be brought up occasionally decades later when you've all calmed down and an exiting evening consists of playing jenga on a saturday.
@@ric84 I had my fair share of those nights too. We still talk about those nights. They bring back great memories. I think it’s all about the balance. Some of my closest friends I met through those activities and they still chat with me today. I also have great memories playing games with friends. RE5 split screen with my mate in 2009, what a summer that was! You’re making me nostalgic now lol
Bro, same
to me basically going outside is waste of time
You know what women would find even more unattractive? A man that's willing to give up something he enjoys to please others. Be unapologetic about what you enjoy and don't let people dictate what you should and shouldn't be doing with your free time. Anyone who gets hung up on such things isn't worth having in your life to begin with.
100% agree! It’s so sad to see these type of lists published and it grinds my gears. Each person is different and hobbies don’t say everything about a person. And you’re spot on in that if someone makes you give up something you love, then that person is not someone you want in your life anyway. Love this comment! Great for it to be the first one!
I agree, but sadly women would actually find that attractive.
@@DominatorLegend Assuming you're straight, please stop assuming the worst in half the population, also the half of the population you want in your life, I guarantee you women are not evil.
It's also attractive to let your lovuh have a hobby that isn't harmfull
@@AVVGaming1 Gaming isn’t a bad thing but it can be a good thing but gaming isn’t productive it’s good to take a brake from gaming and enjoy life like you know deep sea diving, visiting nature, surfing, camping, socializing with people, sports, fishing kayaking, going to the gym and hiking.
Gaming can be a good when it comes too escapism as long if you don’t make it your personality also gaming isn’t productive. Gaming isn’t always a healthy thing.
So noted:
Gambling, Alcoholism, Drugs, Smoking, Theiving, Kidnapping, Vandalism, Terrorism, Fraud, Raping and Murdering are far better hobbies than videogames.
besically my mom says this all the time
Welllll….as someone whose engaged with all those activities, except fraud, I wouldn’t say they’re “better hobbies”….equally challenging I think would be a fairer take. 😜
Women be saying gaming is an unattractive hobby and then spend hours painting themselves with chemicals to hide their insecurity, read extremely laughably unrealistic romance novels and binge watch tv shows where women tear down each other. Thanks. I have hobbies for myself, not for other people.
I’ve seen some people watch those shows and they’re called “reality tv” and honestly it’s not for me. It’s drama but so fake and pretend it’s not even funny lol. I will never discuss a reality tv show on the channel lol I’m going to do a part 2 we’re im gonna talk less about the money and more about the people gaming has positively impacted
Or starting drama online because they never matured past high school.
@@loftus4453they are saying some Hobbies women partake in are very Vain and full of vanity, whereas a Videogame is just a fun waste of time.
Primarily how Makeup is arguably a means to an end, that being hiding or concealing insecurities or feelings of inadequacy via arguably unhealthy cosmetic products(not to say it can’t be expressive or done in a healthy manner), or how partaking in the enjoyment or cheerleading of Drama and social toxicity by watching certain types of TV or online content comparatively is more harmful than even the worst type of person to play video-games.
I think the point is Videogames are Escapism, whereas Makeup is fundamentally an act of Vanity, and reality tv or other content are inherently exploitation of peoples lives, reputations and emotions.
While I don’t personally condone making hyper autistic comparisons of what people do for enjoyment, I understand the commenters sentiment.
"Us vs themmm reeeeeeeeee"
Bro, not all men, not all women. Stop generalizing, makes you sound like you can't get laid.
@@loftus4453Way to make the dude's topic about yourself and not actually address the core part of his message.
Typical.
A fitting place for the quote "your boos mean nothing, i've seen what makes you cheer". Let them hate you while they are doom scrolling instagram.
A lot of women date and have children with absolute deadbeat losers, as you said it's best to ignore their opinions
Rick and Morty!
Your boos 👻
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What a great quote, I must remember this one.
Truth is yes we are all wasting our lives playing video games. But are you truly wasting your life if you’re enjoying the time wasted?
Love that! In reality there’s no such thing as wasted time. You only live one life. Your life. And you determine what is considered the right way to spend it. No one else can tell you how to spend it.
Enjoying the life is the whole point. Like what's the alternative - do something productive, right? But what makes it count as productive? Surely, it must be something that will either make your own future life or that of others more enjoyable. Therefore, this enjoyment is always the end goal.
@@HanakoSeishin exactly! Have you heard the Mexican fisherman story? It illustrates this point perfectly
@@HanakoSeishin
Doing something productive often means doing something that favours long term gain over short term enjoyment. I'm not gonna be here acting like video games are the devil or something, nor am I gonna bash on them, cause, like I said in a previous reply, my passion for games has grown so much so that I make them. Hell, the reason why I even got into music and programming in the first place is due to my love of games. But simultaneously, I won't lie to myself and say that video games are the most productive hobby one can do. The fact of the matter is, we just gotta quit the cope and admit thag video games aren't as productive as we make them out to be, whilst also realising that there are many, MANY worse "hobbies" (like doomscrolling or binge-watching tv or smoking), and thar we shouldn't feel bad for playing games as long as we can balance that out with important stuff, something which a lot of the people criticising people who play video games rightfully point out is something people who do play games have quite a bit of trouble with (even me!).
@@oghene2778 I'm not saying videogames are productive, I'm saying the goal of productivity is to make life enjoyable. Therefore if you're only doing productive things and never enjoy yourself you're defeating the point of doing the productive things.
It’s funny because the people who shit on video games be the same people who sit on their asses watching tv all day or are on their phone doom scrolling
Exactly! It’s the same thing but they don’t judge us the same for some reason. I’d rather game then scroll through social media all day or Tik Tok
@@AVVGaming1 if you ask me gamins is more productive/better than doom scrolling or watching TV, in *most* games you have to use your brain at least a little bit, so you are effectively learning things when gaming, yeah TV and social media has similar effects but imo its much more present and active in gaming
Or even worse ... in the pub
Both still artificially release dopamine and are based around consuming content instead of creating 🤷🏾♂️. Both don’t really have much tangible ROI either. I love games though but I’m honest with myself
@@wbymyka it’s crazy how much is available nowadays and how they’ve mastered the art of dopamine release. I saw a video this morning saying they’ve mastered it in kids cartoons now too! It’s crazy times we live in!
The kind of women who say video games are unattractive are the same women who binge watch Love Island and scroll tiktok
Exactly! And I know which one I would pick to learn something! Video games can teach you skills like problem solving, history, languages etc. love island teaches you….ill let you figure something to put in there cuz I can’t think of anything lol
and Kardashians lol so true
@@AVVGaming1 I watched love island just to make fun of it in the background whilst slaying some pirates on far cry and it surprisingly did teach me something, how people act like snakes nowadays and that their actions don't follow their words even ON LIVE TELEVISION. Imagine what these psychos do without cameras on them 24/7. Talking behind other contestant's backs but are too much of a pussy to confront them face to face despite their charade "Look how hard of an Alpha male I am ladies / bad queen I'm going to scoop you away from Joe/Jolene" intros, Unfortunately, the women (and men) who waste their time to watch this junk do not learn any lessons and are more interested in the petty drama and shirtless guys. Braindead show.
Bro my mom watches love island and somfies watches tiktok and still plays games with or without me
"video games are waste of time" implies anything fun you do is a waste and you should only be working a 9/5
@@Reset2150676 exactly! Why do you work? Why do people sign up for get rich quick schemes? Why do they want to retire early and save up? So that they can spend their days doing what they want eg their hobbies like video games lol the irony eh?
The "video games are a waste of time" argument is pure cope. With that logic, anything people do for fun is a waste of time. People cannot function without time for leisure.
@@baconshreds1772 exactly! I don’t know who created the rule that we have to spend 100% of our life “hustling” or working. We need a balance. Some of the posts just on this video show how valuable gaming has been to some people as well!
Wdym? You don't spend all of your time studying, working and thinking about your future? What a waste of life
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@@suspicioussand I know…honestly what’s the point? lol I did a part 2 to this where I discuss that in a bit more detail and get a little philosophical lol
Long ago, books were getting just as much fire as gaming by popular opinion. I believe that one day we will romanticize playing videogames on a rainy day just like we do books.
I agree! Someone made a comment similar explaining how over time every media of art gets attacked at some point in history from books, tv to movies etc. video games are just the go to at the moment. I honestly think anyone who writes this list hasn’t had a proper gaming moment yet. Need to get some Skyrim or Witcher 3 on for them lol
This was done because with books you gain knowledge and a wider world view. This is not good for the ruling class where it is optimal to keep the masses sedated and stupid.
"Reading books again? Just go outside for once and play with your friends"
Honestly insane to think about, nowadays you can just pretend to read a book and people think you are intelligent
@@vectorsahel5420 I agree with this! Some people buy books just to tell you they bought a book. Especially the self help books.
I treat games and books as almost one in the same in terms of hobbies. Then again, I’ve been reading and playing games for most of my life. Admittedly though, I play much less than I read as I get older.
The best is when sports fanatics try to talk down about video games/gamers. Like dude, you act like you not only play on the football(American) team but that you’ve just lost or gained a million dollars each game. As such after each win they go around almost acting as though they contributed. Or upon loss mope around treating everyone like crap.
bro some of the wilder sport fans go around vandalising everything cus their team didnt win. and mos of them are out of shape lol
@@drago_6812or vandalizing because their team DID win
Spot on!
Adult children
@@jabur81 oh that too
Video games are the pinnacle of storytelling, instead of watching a story unfold (like reading a book or watching a movie) you, yourself get to experience the story from the perspective of the character, building your own story along with it, games can make you scared, they can make you happy, they can make you cry. Video games are incredible, and the sheer amount of skills one must have to create one is insane. The same people who think playing games are unattractive, bad for you, or a waste of time, spend the same amount of time scrolling through social media or watching Netflix, but little do they know that we’re actually experiencing storys instead of just watching them happen
Yes I love this! I’m doing a part 2 to this video tomorrow! Do you mind if I take that line from your comment to use? I just think you summarized it perfectly!
@@AVVGaming1 sure dude
If someone’s gonna hate on something you love, you don’t need that person in your life
💯 this is the best and most important thing! If you try to force that relationship it will always end in tears!
My girlfriend told me that she wanted to learn how to play video games because she thinks it is cool and fun. She also wants a PS4 or PS5. Don't forget that people also get paid for playing games.
@@Silent-Pride4-wt9iy exactly! My wife got into video games after meeting me. Now she plays them more than me! lol but she’s part of massive groups online who share gaming stories and lists like these don’t take their opinion into account. Those who game together stay together! What’s her favourite game?
*Money For Nothing slowly fades in* /s
We did it. We won. And now they’re salty. Pay it no mind, folks. Just live your lives and enjoy gaming in a healthy manner.
Where im from we call it a unicorn
@@Bleilock1 Where are you from?
Video games are an ultimative source of entertainment. Which absorbs and connects things like art, music, books and films into a whole
It's one of the first hobbies I've ever had that I'm still into, and I don't regret wasting my time one bit
Video games have shaped me as a person, taught me many simple and complex things, and pushed me on a creative path, to making art and try other things
*Be proud to be a gamer* , because we're one of those people who don't look at the story from the side, but are part of the story ourselves
Yes! That’s why I made the video! Video games are the most successful art in the world at this current time. There is nothing for people to feel bad about. Nobody should feel bad about having any hobby. Life is about enjoying the ride and games have really helped me do that. Your right about the stories too. We shape the story and create the adventure, that’s creativity at its peak in entertainment
I think gaming doesn't get the credit it deserves as a form of art. I like to think of gaming as an evolution of media, like film is somewhat of an upgrade to books due to the added visuals and gaming is somewhat of an upgrade to film because the consumer can actively take part in the medium. When people tell me that gaming is a waste of time, I usually say, they haven't played the right game yet.
I am proud to be a gamer!!! Other people don't understand :(
I didn't play any computer games (apart from things like Battlezone in arcades) till Doom came out for PC in 1993, and I was already 38 years old, so I didn't have all Mario/Zelda stuff back in my childhood. I'm almost 70 now, and I love games as much as I did when I discovered them - Fallout London is a work of art!
I never feared retirement, because I knew I wouldn't be bored (got plenty of other hobbies - not just games). I wish my 94 year old mother was a gamer, instead of watching TV all day - it would keep her brain active.
My nephew is 29, and he's just lost his leg in an industrial accident. But he's kept his spirits up - one reason for that? He's a gamer, who can continue his hobby even without a leg! While he was in hospital, his dad put a big TV in his room, and nurses used to sit on the bed playing video games with him - they preferred that to tending all the older patients, and he was a good-looking young man!
That's a wonderful and positive mindset. Thank you for sharing with us.
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Well, I'm also commenting for the algo, because AVV is an under-rated channel!
@@prosetheus I tried to think of something to write, but you stole the words right from my mouth!
Thank you for sharing this story! It’s stories like this that explain why gaming is more important than people realise. They see it just as a “pong “ type game but the games we have nowadays are so in depth and rich in story and content. And those arts create
Stories like the one you’ve shared here. Gaming is beautiful. Thank you for the kind words about the channel as well! It really means a lot!
True. Even brainless shooters require much more neural activity then most TV.
“Video games are a waste of life. Go get a job”. I can’t say how many times I’ve heard that phrase. But as someone who has been working 40-65 hours a week for decades for what has ultimately turned out to be peanuts, I can easily say that the greatest waste of my life’s time has been working a job. My job would literally suck my soul out of my eyes if the company could see a 1% bump to their bottom line.
You know what? I’ve been doing a lot of thinking on this subject. I mainly do video game content so I’m not sure if it’s my place
To make content on this, but it’s true that they push people to work long and hard. And then get a side hustle. Basically work 24/7, no fun. Then, none of these people make money except those that sell courses on how to make money. I’m thinking of maybe discussing this type of content but not sure yet. I work full time too and it seems like people who beat down on games is because it’s something that makes you happy…and that seems to upset some people
Speak the truth!!
So I’m a woman who has been gaming since I was 4 years old. It has been a huge part of my life ever since. I’ve talked to women who aren’t gamers and most of the time, their issue with gaming isn’t necessarily gaming itself. It’s the fact that a lot of women have experienced being with men who put gaming above adult responsibilities and put games above their own partner. Sadly, it is far more common than you think, which has caused negative stigma to surround the hobby in general. If that issue was far less common, I doubt the stigma would be as bad. Communication is key. Unless an emergency is happening, I would be fine if my future partner tells me “give me roughly X minutes, I’m in the middle of an online match and can’t pause.” However, if I need them after the game and I find out they just started another one, that’s a problem.
The overall stigma of gaming is decreasing, which is a good thing. The ratio of male:female gamers is almost 1:1. Let’s just all be responsible and put time with our partner first. Again, communication is key.
Love this and I think you’ve identified it perfectly. It’s not just games. Any hobby that interferes with time with partner and adult’s responsibilities is always going to cause issues. I think any hobby is fine in any relationship as long as a balance is achieved and agreed! Compromise is the word. The exact thing you said. Thank you so much for sharing this comment, it’s a perfect summary!
i agree! i had this experience and was afraid of starting to play games because i didn't want to get addicted like my brother
@@julam936 and only you know if you can do that or not. (Be disciplined). I’ve had to learn over time what I can and can’t do.
I 110% agree, unfortunately my dad fell into one of those types.
Iam scared of women and iam scared of that 1:1 ratio
People who like to dog on your hobbies usually feel more miserable than you at the time of saying it and typically won’t admit it (based on my experience). There’s also this weird notion from older people that if you are doing something stationary like playing a game, they will dumb it down to “just pushing buttons” or “staring at a screen like a zombie” even though depending on the game it requires much more critical thinking and mental energy than for example: watchin TV. Something older people have done for thousands of hours. Neither does gaming suffer as much from isolation like watching TV. You can actually make friends and socialize and bond with people through video games. Older people should play video games, because it can stimulate their brain in more useful ways than ACTUALLY STARING AT A SCREEN AND JUST WATCHING IT FOR HOURS without any other additional mental tasking. Awesome essay sir!👍
Thank you for the kind words! I think it is the gap in games released. Like, older people tend to think we’re still sat here playing for pong lol. That we spend hours every day playing Pac-Man lol. They don’t understand how far gaming has come and continues to grow! There’s some good tv shows, movies etc but gaming has entered the next level. It’s unreal the games we are playing now compared to just even 10 years ago. They may think it’s just a basic hobby but it’s actually the most diverse hobby ever. You can play such a wide range of games that require different approaches. You can play online. You can become immersed in a story better than what’s in the cinema and you can be more creative than you can in other media’s. Gaming despite being the most successful media is still actually underrated by some lol
"stop having fun!"
Same man, I do a lot of sim racing, and even though it's completely virtual, fake cars, you have to use your brain a lot in it(I mainly play iRacing). Similarly with Hades, another game that I'm playing a lot of right now, you have to think a lot too! There's quite a bit of strategy per run, even with the rooms being randomized, and each death is something you learn from; it's like:
"Okay, that didn't work. Let's try it this way this time", and it goes like that every time.
anti hobbyists when people:
Yes and a certain amount of residence for old peoples they have a wii in here I don’t think the employees would do that if that was bad for them
I dont get the argument that its a waste of time to watch other play video games, mainly because most people who say that watch other people play sports like Football
It is exactly the same! People who are watching the guy saying “watching other people is a waste of time” are wasting their time watching him by his logic ool
@@AVVGaming1 Though real life hobbies can never incorporate so many things such as music, cinematography, storytelling, and long distance fun with friends like gaming can. People who talk about video games this way have never given them a chance and are imagining that every game is a loner experience of jumping on mushrooms for 14 hours straight
Also, people just hate when you enjoy other things more than their miserable and pitiful life, such hatred for such a beautiful pass time, don't let em get to you.
Sports>>>>> games
@mineralwater6736 get out of here child
As a gamer all I can say is I don't care about what other people think about gaming. I'd rather be a social outcast and play video games because it's what I enjoy over being everybody's friend by not playing.
I am a woman and a casual gamer, meaning I like video games but I don't play every day, not even necessarily every week. I used to have a toxic relationship with gaming where I would spend all my free time on a competitive game and have no social life outside of gaming. When I meet a man who says he's a gamer I'm a little bit wary because a lot of the male gamers I know are hardcore gamers, meaning they play all the time, they neglect real life (studying for college for example), they prioritize gaming over doing anything else so if I call them they don't answer, they don't cook or clean so I have to do it all, some shout at their computer very agressively when they're losing, and they never want to do anything else with me than playing video games (I love being in nature for example, but I would always have to always go alone). They also often live at night, eat unhealthy and don't like any type of physical activity.
So I love video games, but when a man tells me he's a gamer I'm instantly worried that he'll have an unhealthy relationship with gaming and I will be the one who has to keep his life together for him. This is not specific to men, there are a lot of women who are also like this, I wouldn't date them either.
I certainly will still consider dating someone if they're a gamer, I would just be more careful to check that our lifestyles are compatible.
Most guys don’t cook or clean gamer or not, it’s a hard pill to swallow but guys just aren’t wired for that, we prefer to minimize the amount of time spent preparing or getting meals, we just want to eat and be done with it, no fan fair or extravagance.
We often don’t clean cause we aren’t ever really expected to do it growing up and aren’t taught it, that and our thresholds for being grossed out or bothered by uncleanliness tends to be higher than women, not saying that’s good(I am a lot More easily bothered by uncleanliness myself), just that most guys only wanna focus on things that have immediate benefactory results, hence why most wealthy men just pay for maids. It’s not surprising when 90% history men needed mothers or maids to handle house work, we just suck at it.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with people living at night, not partaking in lots of physical activity or even spending long periods doing something they enjoy.
But I do agree being too aggressive over a game, ignoring too many calls (uncommunicative), and eating super unhealthy is understandably a problem.
I'm a recovering addict and honestly the video means a lot to me. I've gone back to playing minecraft, which I started playing in 2012-2013. Because of all the stressful shit in my life, playing MC again has been a huge relief. The creativity from it is even encouraging me to make art and write again. I couldn't cope before and now, I'm starting to have real fun again. But because of how many times I've heard gaming is pointless or bad for you, I've been beating myself up a lot. This video's relieved some of that guilt. So. Yeah, thank you man.
Thank you! I’m glad it made you feel better. Honestly, don’t ever beat yourself up. Some things make people happy and I don’t know why some people are intent are ruining that for people. This constant guilt of if you’re enjoying yourself you’re wasting your time? It’s all a lot of hogwash. I’m doing a new video in the future called “how much gaming is too much?” Where I’ll get into more details. And I’m so glad it’s helping you write and make art again! If you write some good stuff and make good art, let me know and we can show it on the channel in the future!
I was indifferent to gaming prior getting married. My wife wanted an original Xbox and our first game was Splinter Cell. We've had soooooooooo many wonderful experiences playing together or watching the other in a single player game. We don't watch tv/movies together at all.
One of the secrets of a happy life..
Love what you love.
Find someone who loves you.
Find someone who you love.
Do what you both love to do together, whatever that may be.
Have you played in takes two with your wife? That is the ultimate peak of relationship gaming! It’s such a bonding game!
Made my girlfriend, now wife, play the Uncharted series early on and now I have a backseat gamer for life
@@AVVGaming1 we looked at the game, but couldn't do it. The couple was heading to divorce and not respectful to each other. That isn't us and we felt bad for the characters. Though we did enjoy " a way out". Except for the shity ending.
@@jasonwojcik the ending was really tough on that how it turned you against the other lol. The story of it takes two is that they turn it around and rekindle their love for one another so that one was a much happier ending. It’s kind of a good story that helps couples remember to stick together through the hard times. A way out was great but yeah that ending is tough lol
@@kylesuds00we really enjoyed playing the Tomb Raider games from the 360 to now together. She used to hand me the controller when she couldn't get the timing right. She has mad gaming skills now 😂❤
The ones who complain about gaming the loudest will also be the ones on the couch consuming hours and hours of television a week while they doomscroll their feeds.
That 'poll' don't mean anything, who did it ask, how many did they ask, how old were they? People put way too much stock into the endless polls being reported.
I am over 50 and never once in my entire life was I ever 'polled'. For anything. Hard to take them serious, as I also know no one who was polled.
They're all BS for 💩heads who can't make their own decisions.
You are absolutely right in being sceptical about these polls. I have studied statistics several years at uni and know that you have to consider not just the size of the sample but also what the sample is and if it actually is a random sample or not. If it's not a random sample, it's pretty useless.
It's like only asking tall people in a survey and then claiming that the average human height is 190 cm. Doesn't matter if you avsked 100 tall people or 1 000 000 tall people, the result is still biased since it's not a random sample and does not represent the average human.
I have seen the poll a few times, I have heard it being discredited as a synthesized meme. Dunno for sure, but anything convenient I see online I assume it is fake or mostly fake
But this is very classic post-modern analysis, how media is so prevalent in society that people will reference a fake scenario in media rather than a real life example. treating media as though it is more true than reality, known as simulacra
An example may be like complaining about how horrible men are and referencing Peter Griffin to demonstrate your point. This has been extended to treating meme polls as real, or creating fake short form videos to distill a complaint (ex. Cheese cake factory girl)
Spot on! I’d argue gaming gives more than doom scrolling! I am not sure the poll took real people’s votes and is more there to create reaction.
@@AVVGaming1 I bet it’s fake cuz I don’t see how so many real women would consider gambling worse than video games or figurine collecting (and say bird watching of all things is the 10th worst hobby a guy can have)
@@fnaf1983-RWQFSFASXCbecause to women gambling is a huge risk, but at least there’s the possibility of a payday. gaming to them seems like a fruitless endeavor
Met two great friends from Switzerland and Australia respectively. Two years ago we all went to Switzerland to finally meet after years of playing and it’s turned into a lifelong friendship
Gaming has been capable of producing extraordinary storytelling as early as the 80s, and it has also lent significant success to graphic artists, writers, and musicians/sound engineers who might have otherwise struggled to create their art outside of video games.
Not only that, but video games are still wholly capable of doing everything other mediums do -- games often include entire novels worth of reading (sometimes even as in-game books!), tear-jerking, infectious game soundtracks are sold and streamed every day, and between visual novels, cinematic-heavy games, and telltale-esque games, movies hardly stand a chance.
And of course, the biggest advantage is, video games can tell a story in ways other mediums can never do. World-building is no longer bound to the appendix, immersion drips off every wall, and character development and roleplaying advancement either places YOU directly in the action or puts you in the shoes of someone who is. While this might not apply to some multiplayer, puzzle, or simulator games, those too have their place as being better wastes of an afternoon than expensive nights out damaging your health/reputation/criminal history or poisoning your brain with doomscrolling. Many people in my life have been saved from depression, crime, financial ruin, and apathy by video games. Not recognizing your self-worth because someone thinks your hobby is unattractive? That's never saved anyone.
Normally not many people read long comments but this is important:
I noticed that the gaming community is always stuck on this point. There is this strange desire to be "accepted" by the wider public, like children pining for their parent's attention.
You can probably also bring the connection to high school where liking video games was associated with being a "nerd" which automatically means you cannot be cool i.e. accepted by your peers.
But this feeling of exclusion is made up. Gaming is one of the most popular hobbies in the world and there is no need to get accepted by the majority. It already is the majority. Accept your hobbies as part of you and reject people who look down on you for it.
Spot on! I think we’re past the point of caring about being accepted. We’ve seen the industry grow so much now that it’s more common place and well known than a lot of things. I wanted to make this video just to basically say “we’re happy leave us alone” lol they hated gamers for a while but it looks like we won. We don’t like to shout from the rooftops or brag about it, but every now and then just want to let people know, we know lol
You can't really say that when they created a derogatory slang term "opposite of out cell". to specifically target individuals and shame them. no different then the N word.
it definitely isn’t the majority, at least not games that go deeper than brawl stars
Being a metalhead and a gamer is pretty much just fighting for an acceptence in this society. Dont wanna cry about it, im doing pretty fine. But it should not be like that. Hearing most of my life about women problems and lgbt ppl complaining about how society treats them and never ever I heard a glance about gamers or metalheads having hard time does not make me feel better either.
whenever I called a nerd I say this "The definition of nerd is somebody who is extremely knowledge about a certain subject if your not a nerd d you enjoy nothing do you know nothing if s then why do you even exist if you going to live such a stale life?"
As a woman, I can say that we do not think playing video games is a worse hobby than internet trolling or gambling.
Thank you! Internet trolling has to be near the top. Making other people’s lives miserable for no reason, it’s a nasty person who does that.
Well, YOU don’t. And that’s awesome - I hope there are a decent number of women like you out there! But it seems you are in the minority, not the majority, unfortunately.
internet trolling is called humor, it's peak satire, if you don't like it? too bad, welcome to earth. the fact that women have lists at all is just misandry becuz guys never would. we genuinely think all their interests are awful. if guys would rather gamble over spending time with women doesn't that just mean women are worse to men then gambling?
yeah I think that list was just what people said, they probably didn’t put them on a list and told them to rank it. Most probably didn’t even think of gambling and other things
@@Anotherhumanbean12345i think you missed the point. Trolling is fine when its funny or in good spirits. But people who go out of their way to be weird, and make people miserable is what they were talking about here. Think of it like taking a prank too far, not knowing when to draw the line. It might be easier to put into perspective that way
One of the fun things about being in a relationship with someone who also enjoys video games is we've been able to share games with each other. I introduced my gf to the Halo series & Skyrim. She introduced me to Stardew Valley, which we've currently been playing a ton together cause I'm hooked. I wouldn't trade the time I've spent playing games with her for the world.
I’m in a relationship the same as well. We play games together as well as separately. We’re going to play thst new super massive game The Casting of Frank Stone tonight together! Might do a video on that. Those who game together stay together!
This should be a must watch for the entire world where video games exist
Thank you! I hope people see it and appreciate games a bit more. I did a part 2 as well Id like to put next to it as it covers almost everything great about games
I'm a gaming grandmother and gaming IS a beautiful hobby. I got my first game, to play on TV in my teens, just a few years after color television. I have been gaming on and off ever since. With my husband, with kids and with grandkids. Gaming can bring people of all ages together. I was playing online games 20+ years ago and enjoyed getting to know people from all over the world. Today the games are so beautiful, but not always better. Anyway, the good thing is that I can continue gaming as long as I have a few reflexes left and remember what I am doing. I will! Hopefully my husband will continue to enjoy games with me for 20+ more years. .... So all you young people.... continue gaming - just don't forget that there is a world outside as well. :-D
That's really nice. The problem is that most guys are really competitive, so they naturally want to be the best. They want to be the alpha male so to speak. That often means spending a lot of time practicing and grinding.
My gf loves video games. And I couldn't be more grateful.
@@as7river have you play it takes two together? It’s the best co op game for couples I’ve ever played. It’s hilarious and a great experience
I remember someone telling me they thought video games were a waste of time and money. Then I proceeded to inform then that actually you can buy games second-hand and then resell them to get some of your money back. They still believed it was a waste of money and time. Some people are honestly stupid.
Haha I know! I love buying games. I’m not a fan of the digital marketing games because I like having the physical copy because they can fluctuate in value. Some older games that were worth $20 back in the day are now worth $100s! I think some people just decide they’re gonna hate something and that’s that. At that point, nothing will sway them, even actual proof that contradicts their beliefs.
Not to mention all the great games that came out on the 360. If people are dead broke they can still pick up a console with a whole haul of stuff for under £100.
I’m a woman and I know the type of woman they canvassed for this list. They made high school a living hell for many people
Exactly! It’s the fact that they signed the list “by women” almost saying it’s representative of every woman’s opinion. Which is definitely not true.
What types of women are they?
@@bowenjudd1028 the pick-me's, the popular, the tiktok/ig addicted, the gossipers, the backstabbers etc...
they get to vote cuz thats what society sees how women is like, they did not see the rest of the women who actually made up 48% of the gaming community, the women who are timid, 'nerdy', wear hoodies, doesnt like makeups etc... theyre women also, but their opinion did not get recorded
@@NajHelmi I never felt more represented in my life! :o Thank you. Not the former, by the way, F them. But, the latter. Normal women without a mean-girl personality exists.
I rather watch people play a video game, than watching people play a sport.
the fact that online trolling is ranked as more attractive(or at least less repulsive) than gaming is genuinely outrageous.
The fact it’s considered a hobby is just as outrageous lol who honestly enjoys that? But yeah it really makes the list look ridiculous
I would take a gamer over a sports fan any day to be honest
And they didn’t even put sport fans on the list! Sports are okay but I have seen some people take it way too seriously.
Most men are a bit of both lol
May I ask why? I am curious.
thing is most gamers are also sport fans 🤣
@@user-ki4xw2rb8q huh?
So women would rather date men who are problem gamblers than men who play call of duty? Yeah I think I’ll stay single thanks😂
Haha apparently according this list! There is nothing more unattractive than gaming apparently! Can you see how ridiculous this list is lol. It’s clearly designed to provoke but yes it’s better to be single than date whichever people wrote these lists imo. Who writes this list anyway? lol
Probably if the problem gambler is Chad, then yes.
its because most gamblers tend to be chads while most gamers tend to be bit of nerd
Ehh, Call of Duty has lost its touch. Try playing some indie games, they really slap and have much higher skill ceilings with much less toxicity. Been playing Ultrakill lately, I really recommend it
Too be fair some modern cod players are horrendous 😂
Those who say video games are a waste of time should ask themselves what they spend their time on. Many watch TV or listen to music. Others read books. Yet others do gardening. All hobbies can be considered a complete waste of time, depending on who you ask.
Yes and I was sure hobby meant that. Something done purely for fun. Not particularly needing to result in income or something like that. I work, do what I need to do, but when I’m not doing that, it me time. I use video games then. I don’t want to spend every minute of my life not doing what I love
Basically if a hobby competes for attention, resources or status, it's seen as a threat.
Exactly! That’s the long and short of it! If a hobby is a hobby I think lol
That moment when you realize that women just fundamentally dislike men is a hard pill for lots of dudes to swallow. In fact some never do,.and they spend their lives chasing something that doesn't exist. To the young men out there: you can safely ignore about 90% of what women say. Just do your thing.
This guy speaks truth, women will absolutely break every standard they say they have for "the right man". If she wants to be with you, she will make excuses and exceptions to be with you. If she doesn't want to be with you, no amount of listening or conforming to her will change that.
the only difference between video games and a game is that one is on a computer screen yet one is badly viewed and the other one is a "normal thing to do"
Exactly! I think maybe in 20 years time they will be held in the same respect as other medians. Heck, they might even see movies as the odd thing to do in the future, especially after the recent films we’ve seen coming out lol
This is probably generational, as many younger women are gamers themselves these days.
Yes exactly! So obviously they didn’t get to have a vote on this list and yet it’s been signed “by women” which is what is messed up.
I need to pick up gaming! Anything for women to leave me the fuck alone
Hahahaha that honestly just made me burst out loud laughing
I am a woman and a gamer so this is wild to me.
Also I remember a family member quoting an ACTRESS on how playing video games is a waste of time. Because watching her shows on Netflix is what? They were not even educational programmes.
Also the gaming industry employs a lot of very talented actors.
The double standards in that statement are crazy.
Yes but that is outdated now. Video games have gotten to the point where more actors will be working in games. Would be funny if the example she used, the actress, one day appeared in a video game! lol that’d be the ultimate “I told you so!” Moment lol
Wonderful video, dude ! I am 34 yo, medical doctor in Romania. I cannot tell you how hard it is to battle the mentality of "video games are a waste of time/for children" here in East Europe. Most of my family and friends just tolerate it but other people are straight up repulsed when I say that I play video games. But that hasn't discouraged me. For me it's just a filter to see who's open minded.
When my dad went to Iraq all those years ago, all I had back then was my mom and my GameCube. I spent many nights trying to convince my mom to let me stay up past my curfew for just a little while longer so I could play some more Double Dash and Sunshine. I was a pretty lonely kid back then, but the games I had brought me a level of joy and excitement that I really needed at that time. Then my brother was born, and we grew up playing games together. My best friend from high school moved to another state years ago, and although we can’t spend physical time together anymore, we still regularly play video games together, as we have for many years. It’s an activity that helps keep us connected-a fun thing to do together despite the distance that keeps us apart. I know people have their opinions about video games, but I can’t deny the positive impact they’ve had on my life. Some may call it a waste of time, but I honestly don’t care in the slightest since I am having so much fun!
What a lovely story! I’m going to do a part 2 on this subject and just discuss all the great thing’s gaming provided and this story is an example! By the way double dash was awesome and I spent so many hours on sunshine! So so many! Super smash melee, Luigi’s mansions, Zelda wind waker, man the GameCube was such a good console!
Very important to remember about the argument that playing/watching video games is a waste of time, is that you could use your time way more constructive and productive by watching reality TV shows, sitcoms and ofcours sports. Nothing is more fullfilling and beneficial to your life than watching a 3h snooker turnament.
Hahahaa love this comment! Great advice and makes the point! The world is filled with hypocrites and it’s so annoying that gaming is the one they pick on!
It's more than a hobby for me to be honest. In one hand, it's just a fun hobby depending on the genre or specific game. But on the other, it's a medium to understand the world we live in, both physical and metaphysical. I equate it to learning, play, and an amalmagation of so many mediums of art be it literature, music, and cinematography. It's interactive philosophy. All of which has the same purpose.
I also love how varied they are. There are games where you can just "turn your brain off." Then there are games so thought-provoking that I never forget them.
I never even saw games as a form of escapism but rather a side-effect of it.
Completely agree with you and that’s the thing they don’t take into account when they make those lists. They don’t understand how varied the gaming world is. It’s not just one type of game. It’s such a variation and I have had video games inspire me, comfort me, educate me, they really are a form of art that offers so much. These type of lists can only be made with the thought of video games being one type of game. Has to be.
Absolutely love this perspective! Gaming is more than just a pastime-it's a beautiful hobby that brings people together, fosters creativity, and offers endless adventures. Thanks for highlighting the positive side of gaming!
Video games not only help to improve your mental abilities, but also maybe very helpful for coping stress, increasing creativity, ability of cooperating.
"Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time."
- Bertrand Russell
What a great quote! I wish I’d put that in the video at some point!
It's part of your comments now. :)
@@Cyan37 thank you mate! If you have any other gems that suited any other videos please pop them in!
As soon as you realize "Wasting your life" is code for "You're not doing something that benefits me or others" you can comfortably tell all those people that want things from you you'll be busy "wasting your life."
See I’m starting to think you’ve got a strong point here. Why do they push the whole “work harder” and you should be working every minute thing? And yet…what % of people live pay check to pay check..makes you wonder who’s pushing that agenda. Just thinking out loud
@@AVVGaming1 Whats funny is you're the exception to what I said. You took the content consumption of gaming and turned it into content creation through this channel.
@@DarkSpartan343 haha after many years of not doing anything but playing. I think I started the channel just as a passion project but honestly, the people I’ve met and talked with in the comments etc. I think I’m incredibly lucky because they’re some of the best, most intelligent people I’ve met. They give good opinions and I know my videos are far from perfect, audios dodgy at times and sometimes I ramble, but they support me every video and that’s my main reason for pushing on!
I live in Poland. In middle school my Polish Language teacher went on a tantrum, screaming angrily at the kids saying "You would rather collect your stupid little coins in a VIDEO GAME then read the obligatory books". I'm sure I wasn't the only one thinking: Yes, I would rather play witcher 3 than read a XIX century books.
If you had a list of things “I could do” versus Witcher 3, I don’t think anything will beat it lol Witcher 3 is my favourite video game of all time! CDPR one of the best game developers too!
Hypocrite. So games should be tolerated but not books?
This is why you are so hated. You gamers believe your hobby is superior and everything else is automatically boring
The fact that video gaming is less popular than gambling is mind boggling to me!
Gambled the family’s life saving away? That’s okay. Played Zelda for an hour? Panic mode! lol
@@AVVGaming1
Exactly! Gambling is DESIGNED to make you lose!
Gaming is designed to make you win!
@@sskuk1095 yes and honestly being addicted to gaming is not such a bad thing. That’s why when publishers sneak gambling in there it’s so annoying! It’s taking advantage of them.
The fact video games are an interactive experience instantly puts it above 90% of all other entertainment mediums.
Video games cover such a broad spectrum of enjoyment and of different experiences that in many cases you simply cannot get anywhere else. Furthermore, because it's not passive entertainment like movies or books, you are engaging more parts of your brain, meaning you are more likely to absorb your experiences and learn from them, and consequentially committing these lessons to memory. There is a reason you remember every inch of that one level in Halo you played 16 years ago, while you can barely remember the plot of the first alien movie.
Marrying the psychological mechanisms behind video games and incorporating them into learning is an active field of research that shows huge promise. Video games are not just a waste of time: Video games are everything.
Great, positive video and I love it BUT 6:24 I think it's pretty simple, a lot of women just play tiny browser or mobile games to pass time, they aren't actually gaming for hours for the most part or ever take the medium seriously at all. That and even the few women who are actual hardcore gamer I'm sure would still be much into a man who spend all his time "provinding" for them while they sit at home playing the games.
Yes I think that’s correct. I’m going to do a part 2 and address the “attractiveness” thing more and in that video I’m gonna find the stats of what % of women play video games of mobile games are excluded. It’ll be really interesting to see I think! Thanks for the kind words about the video by the way!
@@AVVGaming1 Blimey! I'm a 67 year old woman and a hardcore gamer. I've been playing games since that table-tennis game came out in the 70's. I was playing RPGs right from the start with the likes of Daggerfall (First of the ES games). None of my partners have ever had a problem with it, though, because they've been gamers themselves!! At the age I am now, I'm thankful because gaming keeps me sharp, I have excellent reaction times (like when I'm driving), and sometimes gaming has been a life-saver when I've been depressed or suffering with an anxiety disorder. I'm semi-retired now, which is ace cause I have even more time for gaming! I should add that I know quite a few female gamers of various ages.
Ooh, what are the latest games you've been playing?
I claim a lot of my best attributes to gaming. I started at an early age I was born in 91 and was gaming by 94. I have a really good memory, good motor skills, problem solving skills, creativity and a bunch of other things. I'm not one of those people that just sits around and plays games, I work, I go to the gym, I hang out with my friends, and in my free time I'll game for an hour or two. If that makes someone not like me, that's totally fine I'll continue not giving a shit what they think and being happy
Haha love this comment! That’s exactly it. Most UA-camrs are gamers of old which shows the creativity it inspires. If you can fit gaming into your life and do everything you need to, why would you stop? Besides whoever wrote this list is someone I’d avoid like the plague lol
@@AVVGaming1 seriously if women have an issue with what makes you happy then they are the issue
@@Danosauruscrecks 100%!
I am looking forward to becoming a gamedev. My parents look at games skeptically, but as I grew older, I could express my opinion better. I started doing analogies to movie industry, as well as writing (because if you think about it, games are indeed just movies, series or books, where you are the main character, unless it’s a competitive game, but that’s a whole different story). Now, gladly, my parents became somewhat interested in my hobby (gamedev, not gaming yet), even started asking things about it sometimes. I think making similar analogies as I did for them might actually help understand games more for people that are detached from gaming.
That’s the thing, I wanted to get into game development as a kid but my parents said it was for children and to do something else. Now you see how much money you can earn in gaming, it’s the best industry to get into! Follow your dreams and make it happen!
I started writing stories because of games. You're absolutely right: games are just highly interactive stories. You don't just get to imagine the location the characters visit: you can explore it yourself. You can get so much extra information about the world because you're not confined to what's important to carry a plot or develop character.
I love video games but I think the point you made at about 13:10 is crucially important and a valid reason why many people have the disposition towards video games that they do. I’ve met many people who are miserable losers because they won’t do anything to improve their life and just want to game all day. I’ve also felt this pull to play video games myself when I have other goals and responsibilities that should have priority. Yea tv and other forms of entertainment can have this effect too but for many people games are by far the most addictive
Yes I’m going to do a part 2 on this and cover this part in more detail. Because, I think in this video I mainly discussed finances but I want to discuss this side of things. More about the balance and the “guilt”. That’s what I want to discuss that voice in the back of your head. Got the title now “how much it too much gaming?” Thank you! You’ve inspired my next video!
Well said friend... been gaming since ATARI, now im 43, married and have a kid and never quitted my favorite hobby. Keep gaming!!!
@@CPT_Solid_Snake absolutely! Awesome to hear you are doing well and able to still enjoy gaming!
I met my girlfriend (who i live with and weve been together for over 5 years) and all my closest friends through gaming.
Im so passionate about gaming that i study 3D enviroment art specifically for game dev in no small part due to a desire to give back to the art form i love so much.
When i talk to people about it its very rare that i get negative reactions with people usually being really interested in hearing about it. But of everyone ive spoken to the few who have negative attitudes towards gaming are more often than not, awful, miserable people.
Never let people look down on you for gaming. Even if it where JUST affordable entertainment it would be worth doing but id argue that gaming is also more than that. Weather its the experiences you can have, people you can meet, or art and stories to learn from and be inspired by, gaming can enrich your life in many ways. If someone can't see that then thats their problem not yours
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Lovely story and a great example of how gaming is more than just the actual game. It’s the people we meet, the creativity it inspires and the love it bloomed in your case! Thank you for sharing your story and I also am obsessed with 3d environments in gaming lol
If one of my daily motivations to persevere in this world is "I've beaten Consort Radahn", then I think games do their job pretty well
Actually dark souls games and KCD actually taught me a lot of perseverance. I didn’t think I could do those games but I Learned that sticking to something and not giving up rewards you in the end. You can do anything you put your mind to! Gaming has lots of little lessons and motivations hidden within
@@AVVGaming1 100% agree! It's just so much that can be explored through games, and since you play alongside the characters, you feel it deeper than ever
No way, man put Skyrim ambiance music as a background music of the video.
This made the video more enjoyable ngl!
Want to know something interesting? I’ve done it for two videos on my channel so far and they’ve both done really well! Maybe it’s the music that’s the secret! Skyrim and Oblivion alongside Witcher 3 have some of the most beautiful ambient music I’ve ever heard in a game!
I also find it crazy when (usually men) say video games or whatever are lame or a waste of time, but then enjoy watching football/ playing fantasy football. It always seemed so hypocritical to me
I've been gaming since the 70's. I am almost 70 yrs old and I still game to this day. I will never stop. For the past 3 yrs I've been playing 7D2D. And from that I've actually learned to code XML. I live alone, retired. This is how I choose to live out the rest of my life. Thank You for making this video. You expressed every single thought I have on the subject. 20 years ago or so I would have been you. Shouting from the mount and soapboxing injustice. But I find I'm not so good at raving anymore. Sometimes the words don't come. So Thank You for running with the torch. Gamers forever! They can't game or don't like it because they are jealous of our problem solving and intellect.
The fact that video games placed above gambling tells me everything I need to know. The survey is wrong. That and online trolling. Those should be above video games. Either the women surveyed weren't random people and had heavy biases or the numbers were straight up fabricated. Something is going on. Maybe they're old women, but even then, Candy Crush should be pulling through there. Video games are honestly one of the most varied, diverse, and adaptable forms of media I can think of. It can mimic TV shows and movies, teach skills, allow you to interact with other people and build relationships (as a U.S. citizen, my older sister found her husband in Scotland over a shared interest in livestreaming horror games), and provide endless entertainment with countless genres. What CAN'T video games interact with? Eating and drinking, as much as it comes up, is never comparable from video games to real life. What else? I dunno, scented candles? Anything with just sight and sound can, with enough time, be implemented into a video game in some form that you can interact with.
Love this! I honestly think the list was made by a certain group of people who probably spend all day on social media but somehow see a video games as a waste of time. Its a list mean to shock. It may be signed by “all women” but it’s certainly not got all their votes. You can already see in the comments section a lot of females would place video games either not on the list at all,but definitely below where it is. It’s meant to shock and go viral (which it did) but if they took video games off the list, and left the rat as it is, would anyone have seen that? Probably not. So the irony is, they actually benefit from the popularity of video games lol. Also, my wife is American and she met some Scottish people online too as well. Gaming truly is beautiful
I think a lot of women don't even make the connection that mobile games ARE video games. Some really do think everyone who games is some fat, pimply guy that sits in front of WoW for 14 hours a day.
A game on sale for $5 to $30 gives me more enjoyment than a $100÷ dinner. Why spend thousands to travel the depressing real world when i can explore beautiful fantasy worlds for a fraction of the price.
Exactly! And we can visit places we may never get to see. A lot of us don’t have the budgets to travel across the whole globe. Some of the worlds you can visit in games live with you forever. What’s your favourite game world?
@AVVGaming1 my most nostalgia is towards Final Fantasy and Kingdom Hearts games. Im replying the kingdom hearts games now that its on steam. I need to buy more final fantasy games in the next sale.
@@ziljin favourite final fantasy? And what did you think of ff7 remake and rebirth if you’ve been able to play them? I am doing videos on ff15, ff16 and 7 and rebirth sometime soon. Kingdom hearts as well. Just a magic game. What did you think of the newest edition of that?
@AVVGaming1 FFX for sure and i want to get FF7 remake next sale. FFXV a little boring with all the driving though. Kingdom Hearts is a lot harder than I remember.
@@ziljin I’ve not played x yet but I know it’s got a mass following. I’m thinking of getting it for the vita as that console never gets any love lol actually it might be my next game to get. Kingdom hearts is a lot harder than we remember for sure. Games were harder in the past because it was more about the challenge than the experience
I’ve been a gamer since the Atari and NES. Seeing those old game clips gave me some strong nostalgia. I remember and played every game you showed in that portion of the video. If only you had shown the Superman game I played on the Commodore 64.
Okay, Boomer gamer here... in my opinion video games are a LOT better at fostering cognitive development than the 1000's of hours my generation spent watching Gilligan's Island and The Munsters. So there's that.
Gen X-er. I loved Gilligan’s Island as a kid. It inspired my early sense of humor and encouraged me to do well in school because the professor made science seem like a super power. Sad but true, but for better or for worse, the show had a profound influence on the person I’d become. But I still like computer games too. 🙂
Thanks for sharing your side of things. I think it’s maybe a lack of understanding of the depth of video games as well as there are so many different types of games and I think a lot of people will group them all in together. E.g they assume everybody plays Fortnite and COD and are not aware of the amazing games available nowadays. Really great to get your perspective on the subject! Thanks for sharing.
I absolutely agree, the media is only there to make any problem your problem, the side effects of playing games is so much tolerable than the things that people do and don't judge, how come you judge a man play video games in his free time but not judge a man who always scrolls on instagram or tiktok. Just be yourself and don't feel pressured by what others say, they probably gaslight themselves more than you do.
Spot on! Video games just seem to get the most attention and quite frankly I’ve been on tik tok, I’ve been to the movies and I’ve watched Netflix and gaming offers way more than all of those. It is the ultimate level of entertainment and keeps most of us sane in this world. I’ve been working non stop recently and the after work I play a couple of hours…for no cost. Keeps me disciplined in some ways!
I paid $350 for a console, $180 for 5 games, $100 for controllers. In total, $630 for at least 11000 hours of entertainment stretched over 12 years. I paid $0.05 per hour for that entertainment. I do my homework before I buy a game insuring I'll be interested in playing it. I choose my purchases wisely and makes for a cheap hobby. The titles I chose have a "stat" page and one stat is hours/days played. Made it easier to do the math.
That’s exactly right! and that’s math is based off you quitting gaming rihht this second when in reality you could arguably get another 12+ years on top with the same games! Gaming is the most financially valuable hobby in that you get such bang for your buck! Very lucky to be a gamer!
As a gamer myself, I can imagine why that poll turned out how it did.
I have never seen such a multitude of people show so many toxic traits within the span of 15 minutes in any other hobby than gaming - and usually it's guys showing them.
The only mainstream movie I ever saw a sizeable amount of people show red flags was the relatively recent barbie movie. I have never heard of any non-celeb music star be a hassle to deal with - literally every musician I ever met was super chill and nice to be around. And artists? While movie-clichees exist, I doubt anyone is taking the frustrated-artist-throwing-fits-while-creating trope seriously.
And that's why I think gaming gets so much more negative attention than other mediums. Gaming may be a beautiful art form, and an amazing kind of entertainment, but there are so many games in the mainstream that just bring out the worst in people - FIFA, CoD, Battlefield, literally any battle royal game, LoL, just to name a few. I wouldn't want to date someone who I can't be sure to talk to safely while they're "relaxing in front of the screen". Like it or not, that seems to be the picture prevalent in women - perhaps even women who happen to be gamers.
Yes and I think I missed those kind of points when making this video. I’m going to do a part 2 and discuss more about the art of gaming and sort of address exactly what you’re talking about. The art of gaming, the bad side of gaming and everything you’ve mentioned. It’ll be up in 2 weeks and hopefully it’ll be a better video. Thank you for your feedback!
Since I have memory, gaming has been part of my life with Age of Empires I in Windows 98, so honestly, I can't imagine my life without videogames. Thanks to the endless genres: Arcade, Racing, RTS, Shmups, Airplane games, Space, Story-based games, Visual Novels, Metroidvanias, Musical games, etc. I have enjoyed infinities of worlds and entertainment that isn't comparable to TV or Movies, and I still enjoy them as an adult.
So no, playing videogames is never a waste of time if all those memories which you forged with them are happy and enjoyable.
Women's logic:
Spend $60 on a game, get 1000 hours of content=bad
Spend $60 on slots, $1000's in debt hours later=good
"playing or watching video games are wasting time" they are right, instead of playing video games we can split the atom like them 🙃
Hhahaha spot on! I’m sure they’re all changing the world lol
Far as I can tell this chart has no real source and seemed to just made up for a tik tok video. But yeah the size of gaming being basically the most common hobby in the world based on revenue but social stigma of still being like it's the 90s is very odd in my opinion. I guess it's just something that Gen X and boomers refuse to change their opinions on and those are the people who have these opinions. They grew up with movies and TV and basically no one has a social sigma around that anymore so seems to be very generational. Gaming probably won't have a stigma in 30 years time
1) The chart has no source. 2) No number of people questioned.
Charts generally have both if your intentions are about being truthful.
Spot on! It’s be the same cycle through history and shall continue to be the same.
To be honest it's so common that it's kinda not interesting anymore. If 15 years ago I met someone that was into gaming I would be happy, we would talk a lot about games etc.
Now, playing candy crush on your phone is considered gaming, everyone does play from time to time, which is egotistically kinda of a shame. I liked when it was a niche thing, now it's kinda watered down. My opinion ofx
This sort of poll is why Cobbler's Law is important to keep in mind while on social media:
_If you see something stupid on the internet and it pisses you off, it's probably not real and just some jerkoff farming rage clicks_
Yes and there’s so much of that online nowadays. I made this video for those who would believe this type of list and feel they have to change who they are to attract someone which isn’t the case
Thank you for this! Not only will gaming become a bigger industry on its own merit, but with weather climate cycles getting more extreme, more people are going to stay inside and need entertainment. I believe the reason gaming is out-pacing everything else is it's interactive. E.g.: I recently beat the Dead Space 2023 remake twice and it was amazing, but then went to see Alien Romulus, and didn't feel shit. Playing survival horror actually helped me overcome a lot of anxiety and rebuild confidence. The level of interactive experience just wasn't the same just watching a movie (plus, yes, the writing and constant remakes have been lack-luster for a long time). Gaming combines the audio/visual element with the interactive; just another level to experience/enjoy a story in. And yes, totally agree about moderation, and really, HOW you use gaming. I've actually gotten MORE creative with arts, crafts, writing, and other hobbies BECAUSE of gaming. And yet, I STILL get outside for hikes and scenic drives, and the semi-regular night out with delicious food. I think a lot of people do feel neglected when their partners game and ignore them, but that's just a negative stereotype. Like you said, if it makes you happy and isn't hurting anyone or yourself, and doesn't get in the way of holding a solid self-sustaining life, then there's no issue.
Addictive, toxic, microtransactions = Waste of life
Storytelling, fun, art, competition, sandbox, community = Lifetime experiences
Hear hear! Exactly how I feel! Hate those type of games and did a video on that not long after this video! They ruin gaming for a lot of people. They change a fun game into a casino where people literally ruin their life if not careful
The female gamer statistic is incredibly misleading. It includes women who exclusively play mobile games, even if that’s only a few minutes a day. Now regardless of whether you consider that “real gaming” or not, I think we can all agree that a person playing only mobile games, and people spending hours on a console or pc are two very different audiences, and I’m sure most of the female gamers who only play mobile games see it that way as well.
Okay, so your logic is : it is NOT hypocritical for women that spend hours on games on their phones to consider men spending hours on games on a computer to be unattractive?
Plus, it is about women that consider themselves gamers, so they consider themselves gamers BUT think gamers are unattractive?
@@danax6653 No, I’m not saying anything remotely close to any of that and I have no idea where you’re getting it from.
What I am saying is the reason why there is a disconnect between the number of women saying gaming is unattractive and the number of women who are counted as playing games is probably because women spending time playing mobile games don’t actually consider themselves gamers and that the actual number of women who we would define as gamers is much smaller than we are being led to believe. In other words a lot of the women being counted as “gamers” may also be a part of the group calling gaming unattractive because they don’t consider what they do gaming, nor do most gamers for that matter.
Learned more skills in game then most people do in generations. Gamers rise up
Completely agree! I’ve just dropped part 2 to this video and explained all the skills that can be learned from video games…there’s a lot when you actually put them all out
I never really cared about any of that. I got myself a woman who knows the joys of gaming, and I've living happier than I thought possible. I do play games a lot less due to the responsibilities of life, but whenever I can, Im here.
Thank you for making this. I'm an indie game dev, and I LOVE making games. The first game I ever played was PONG, and I was hooked at age 7. I honestly think games are about to (in the process of now...) replace movies, music, books, and every other form of entertainment. And, sure, women think games are for losers. But those women LOVE a rich game dev. Funny how that works...
Haha thanks for the kind words and awesome comment! That’s awesome that you make video games, I bet it’s such an addictive process that feeling on making progress on it each day. Games are a collection of all media’s past part and combined into one. Some people just haven’t experienced them so can’t understand what it means.
@@AVVGaming1 Thank you so much, and you're entirely correct. It's addictive. Sometimes I forget to eat while I'm working on a game. I love making games much more than playing them, but playing them is the B-Side of the process. That's what makes it addictive. And you're right about the nature of the medium. It's music, it's animation, it's voice acting, it's writing, it's programming, it's physics. You have to be a well-rounded artist and an engineer and computer scientist at the same time. But, the best part, it's that people LOVE games so much. Everyone does. It's an incredibly human thing. But my cat plays KittyBall with me with pingpong balls, so I can't say it's unique to humans. I encourage you and everyone else who adores playing games to learn how to MAKE GAMES. You can learn on Fortnite, Fortnite makes it VERY easy to make a game.
When I was in my early 60s I became fascinated watching my husband play Skyrim. He got me my own copy of the game and the rest is history. It's a great hobby when you're older and going out every night has lost its appeal, and a lot more fun than watching TV. I've put several thousand hours into video games, the good ones are fantastic. I'm playing Mass Effect Trilogy right now, unbelievably good!
Great! I’m in my 60s as well and love my games, though I’m into sports and racing titles mostly.
And now i need to replay Andromeda again...thanks for that!
Just wish games like Skyrim would have integrated coop in the original version.
@BFG-hv2ml I would hate that. If I could I would make ESO single player.
"i hate this new generation, they're always playing their damn games, its a waste of time" *starts gambling retirement money away*