WHY IM MARRYING A CAPTAIN 👰 🤵

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  • @dougfitch3649
    @dougfitch3649 3 роки тому +5

    This is terrific because, whether or not they are aware of it, they are outlining the strongest structures that make for a successful marriage! Bravo/Brava! Well played! I applaud you both for the maturity, the awareness, the commitment, and the love!

  • @d14551
    @d14551 3 роки тому +74

    I enjoyed this! Now, when do we get "Why I'm Marrying a Chief Stew"?

  • @Zarih67
    @Zarih67 3 роки тому +88

    Why you are marrying a Captain? You are not. You are marrying Tristan because you love him. And congratulations to you both!

    • @kastonproductions
      @kastonproductions 3 роки тому +1

      Captain on the boat abd in the sheets 😂 no but they are great

    • @mocskillshi8150
      @mocskillshi8150 3 роки тому

      It’s all for the clickbate

    • @Dolencd
      @Dolencd 3 роки тому

      Gave the 70th like, changed my mind. Let's keep up the traditions and leave it at 69 :)

  • @fw1421
    @fw1421 3 роки тому +67

    The real question should be,Why did you wait so long? She’s a sweetie!

  • @kastonproductions
    @kastonproductions 3 роки тому +5

    We truly do love you Tris! Could not have asked for a better partner for our golden goddess Givie ♥️ Love you both so much and can’t wait for the wedding!!!

  • @Kaii_679
    @Kaii_679 3 роки тому +6

    Many Congratulations to you both on your new adventure. Having known each other for 10 years and working together on board is a plus and it shows on your reactions when been filmed.

  • @glenpeters955
    @glenpeters955 3 роки тому +2

    I have perhaps 20 sarcastic comments I could make but I think it is best to simply say you are both lovely people who care love and respect each other, congratulations on your engagement and all the best for your future together.

  • @vickyb5935
    @vickyb5935 3 роки тому +19

    Ok Tristan!!!! You`ve sat there now and listened, listened, listened as Giv has praised you....but now it`s only fair that you turn the tables and talk about your fantastic partner!!!!

  • @jefferyholland
    @jefferyholland 3 роки тому +12

    Being a couple and working together can be a challenge. My mom and Dad worked together for 30 years and were happily married for 65 years. I wish the same for you both.

  • @TheSuprahuman
    @TheSuprahuman 3 роки тому +15

    Congrats guys, about time too. All the best!!

  • @mpccenturion
    @mpccenturion 3 роки тому +1

    I am truly sending you love. People may not get that being a co-worker and one being the gent on deck. There is always the A game. I am with my sweetie for 22 yrs. Be safe and well! Cheers!

  • @ricksnyder4338
    @ricksnyder4338 3 роки тому +7

    OMG! You two are adorable together and this is from a hard core biker dude. Ive loved this channel forever. I wish you both the best. Looking forward to more episodes.

  • @Buddy869-z9x
    @Buddy869-z9x 2 місяці тому

    I totally get Tristan’s need for solitude. I’ve always had a fairly crowded, extroverted-type life (went from a big, active family to boarding school/college, then on to hectic jobs that were never bound by 40/hr weeks or much separation between friends and colleagues. Having time alone is the only way to get my energy back. Anyway, it’s awesome that you two understand each other so well and appreciate your differences ❤️

  • @nigelha3699
    @nigelha3699 3 роки тому +4

    Congrats to you both, a genuine pair with much respect for each other. Nothing wrong with being on your own Captain, no need to justify. Wife and I have worked together for nearly 20 years now and its great!

  • @mikeludwikowski7050
    @mikeludwikowski7050 3 роки тому +6

    Awesome!! Fair winds and following seas friend!! I married my best mate over 20 years ago and never looked back! We love having adventures together but also with that, we love working together !

  • @pamyh.37
    @pamyh.37 3 роки тому +5

    "there is still wiggle room".... Genius line Giv!

  • @pemman
    @pemman 2 роки тому +1

    It's me again...8 months later, watched this video again, smiling and laughing lots, enjoying it even more so than the first time! Are you two married now as I've been out of touch with your channel for several months now?

  • @malcolmalexander5246
    @malcolmalexander5246 3 роки тому +3

    Congratulations. You do seem so very suited to each other. Having lived and worked together for so long, you already understand each other and should be very happy. Best wishes to you both.

  • @Donald_Shaw
    @Donald_Shaw 3 роки тому +2

    The two of our are perfect for each other. I'm so happy you each found your soulmate. Great personal video and much happiness to you both.

  • @poppops62
    @poppops62 3 роки тому +2

    I’ve been married 34 years. Giv summed it up within the first few seconds, “ I’ve agreed to engagement” Tristan, get used to being kept on your toes. Congratulations to you both! 🥂

  • @Mr1jimmer
    @Mr1jimmer 3 роки тому +1

    Knowing now that Giv will be off the "market", I don't think I will be able to watch this channel only to get a glimpse of the South African beauty, because it would be ungentlemanly to think of a married women..But I'll keep watching, because I like to watch Hank work ..
    So I say this with a genuine smile, and maybe a jealous tear..
    May The Miracle Of Love Continue To Bless You Both With An Endless Romance....
    Keep Doing What Your Doing..Because What Your Doing Is Amazing

    • @JCrook1028
      @JCrook1028 3 роки тому +1

      She's been off the market for 10 years since they've been dating and a year since they were engaged...

    • @joecitizen9506
      @joecitizen9506 3 роки тому

      Both so right

  • @capicolaspicy
    @capicolaspicy 3 роки тому +1

    The two of you are just disgustingly cute LOL! Seriously, there is just an amazing energy that seems to flow between the two of you. Wishing both of you very long lives together!

  • @markkolenc4833
    @markkolenc4833 3 роки тому +1

    Congratulations 👏 We were all waiting for you to ask. We all knew this would happen. Beautiful couple. Enjoy your lives together.

  • @andygirke846
    @andygirke846 3 роки тому

    I Have been married to my best friend for 20 years this January, We also work together. Can't explain why it's worked but it's worked and I am so grateful for her, and her shared respect for our love. Congratulations to you both.

  • @kenwatson3437
    @kenwatson3437 3 роки тому +1

    I agree Tristan you must now do a video as to why you are Marrying a Super Yacht Chief Stew

    • @joecitizen9506
      @joecitizen9506 3 роки тому

      Better yet help have channel life of chief stew of superyachts etc idea of channel

  • @stephenorr20
    @stephenorr20 3 роки тому +1

    Lovely to see a bit of the personal side of you both. as others have commented, can't wait to see the reverse question. 2nd thing I would be interested in, how do you manage the different dynamic of Captain v chief stew (I.e. boss v. subordinate) and the personal dynamic of partners / lovers. How do you maintain the discipline of separating the two between work and personal life. I can also relate to Giv's comment re the VRO (Very rich Owner) allowing you to work together on his vessel, as I know in my early career my employer didn't allow partners to work together in the same office and we didn't spend as much time together as you guys do on board. I know when it came out that one of my colleagues was dating one of the other staff one of the two had to agree to transfer to a different office!

    • @joecitizen9506
      @joecitizen9506 3 роки тому

      I wish folks didn't force that unless the problem way work place works

  • @jeffs6002
    @jeffs6002 3 роки тому +1

    Perfect example of an introvert, one who recharges when alone, and an extrovert, who recharges in the company of others.

  • @mmsmits2868
    @mmsmits2868 3 роки тому

    I had seen a few of your videos - this one made me subscribe. You guys are awesome! Thanks for sharing!

  • @superyachtchef.5373
    @superyachtchef.5373 3 роки тому +6

    Congratulations and don't forget we also host wedding parties onboard our yacht 🏆🏆🏆

    • @ritmos2380
      @ritmos2380 3 роки тому +1

      Lololololoplllol good touch.

  • @BK-dv1hh
    @BK-dv1hh 3 роки тому

    Ahhh, differences are good…as long as you remember that, and that it’s not right or wrong, just differences….if you were exactly the same…one of you wouldn’t be necessary! Great to follow you guys and wish you the absolutely the best life has to offer.

  • @civilizeddelinquent563
    @civilizeddelinquent563 3 роки тому +32

    I would NEVER tell a woman to “shush”....That’s like pulling a pin on a grenade

    • @alistairkeppler2225
      @alistairkeppler2225 3 роки тому

      Shush..LOL. Just kidding. She is from RSA\CPT, she will not take his kak.

  • @typashley5394
    @typashley5394 3 роки тому +18

    Congratulations to you both, you have finally got round to pop the question, now the Lambo will be sold to pay for the wedding. All the best for the future both of you. Thanks for the videos cheers Ty.

    • @JCrook1028
      @JCrook1028 3 роки тому

      They've been engaged for almost a year...

  • @ColinHarvey78
    @ColinHarvey78 3 роки тому +2

    Lovely to see you together, such a nice dynamic between you both. Wish you every happiness together.
    Although I think you should do an episode on “Why I’m marrying a Chief Stewardess” 😄😄

  • @petercurtis-brown2789
    @petercurtis-brown2789 3 роки тому +1

    as an addendum to the previous.... It was really neat to be invited to your engagement coffee party.

  • @melissalentz32
    @melissalentz32 3 роки тому

    You two are like the young Carson & Mrs. Hughes from Downton Abbey, but on the sea! I love this. Much, much happiness to you both.

  • @petercurtis-brown2789
    @petercurtis-brown2789 3 роки тому +1

    Congratulations you two! I hope to congratulate you both in person when i win the cruse.

  • @bruceroaf5750
    @bruceroaf5750 3 роки тому +1

    What a great. Couple merry Christmas and all the very best for 2021 and your wedding

  • @bobuncle8704
    @bobuncle8704 3 роки тому +1

    I think you need to do a turn around episode. Why are you marrying a chief stewardess. So happy for you guys. Merry Christmas.

  • @gregorycorley8610
    @gregorycorley8610 3 роки тому +2

    Good luck you two. You make such a lovely couple. In my experience Tristan, there is only one captain in my marriage, it's not me.

  • @ginocolaccino5847
    @ginocolaccino5847 3 роки тому

    Congratulations you two. I've been following your UA-cam channel for a few years. I don't own my own boat but I've been interested in sailing since I've been watching SV Delos videos and that's when your channel showed up. The only thing is I haven't been on the water for a very long time because I get seasick. One thing I can say is don't get to my age (57) and have any regrets in life. From watching the two of you over the years you both really seem to compliment each other. I'm very happy for you both. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you both...

  • @alistairkeppler2225
    @alistairkeppler2225 3 роки тому +1

    Captain, you are going to marry a Saffa and not just any Saffa, A Saffa from CPT. @5:30 did you refer to a Goose? @6:05 is how we are in CPT, we must socialize and make friends. @16:08....Best you meet her parents in person . It is tradition to ask the dad for her hand in marriage. Having said all that....Congrats guys.

  • @ThomasR119
    @ThomasR119 3 роки тому

    Love it when you have Giv on the videos! Congratulations you two.

  • @robdunford6023
    @robdunford6023 3 роки тому +11

    Look mate, two things about marriage, remember the phrase “Yes Dear” and also remember, “Anything for a peaceful life”. It works, I’ve been married for 40 years now and still mad about the ole girl. 🤓🤪

    • @shanevillis4079
      @shanevillis4079 3 роки тому +2

      Also have to remember ALL the anniversary dates as well

    • @nemo227
      @nemo227 3 роки тому +2

      Fifty four years (June 12, 1966) and it's important to BE the right person, man or woman. Full faith and allegiance are the essential qualities for a partnership.

  • @lynnedecision9867
    @lynnedecision9867 3 роки тому

    Congrats you two. Such happy news in an otherwise year. All best wishes and looking forward to lots more detailed content. 💕

  • @stevenseagull1938
    @stevenseagull1938 3 роки тому

    I agree with you mate, Halloween is a bit odd. Also don't get me started on own space. While I love seeing people and socialising I also love locking myself away with just myself :) :)
    Great video :)

  • @remraf72
    @remraf72 3 роки тому +1

    SO... WHAT'S THE DATE AND WHERE ARE YOU REGISTERED?
    Oh, last question Tristan, what is the proper spelling and pronunciation of Giv's first name only ?
    Congratulations !
    Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy SAFE Prosperous New Year !
    Warmest Regards from your SYC Fans in Arizona.

  • @petercawley8444
    @petercawley8444 3 роки тому

    10 years dating. Well it's about time you put a ring on that finger Tristan. Well done and congratulations to you both.

    • @JCrook1028
      @JCrook1028 3 роки тому

      He "put a ring on" a year ago.

  • @afpwebworks
    @afpwebworks 3 роки тому +3

    You’re punching well above your weight class there, Bucko! Count yourself lucky she said ‘yes’! CONGRATULATIONS!!!

  • @trentonpaul598
    @trentonpaul598 2 роки тому

    Finally some great news on our feeds !

  • @patrickpepper4587
    @patrickpepper4587 3 роки тому

    Congratulations to both of you ... Captain, your Bride-to-be is not only smart and down to earth, but she’s gorgeous and that makes you one very lucky man.
    Enjoy the remainder of your years together as soulmates.

  • @DavidBruner_NJ
    @DavidBruner_NJ 3 роки тому

    Congratulations and have very nice holidays!

  • @zimbakin
    @zimbakin 3 роки тому

    CONGRATULATIONS! You look great together 👏 Wish you all the very best together.

  • @Mark-pm9nh
    @Mark-pm9nh 3 роки тому

    Hi Tristan, Congratulations on your engagement ! Love your vlogs . You are an inspiration to me . God bless & Merry Christmas . Mark (Toronto)

  • @AchimDrescher
    @AchimDrescher 3 роки тому +2

    What a weird question? Fishing for complements? Why are you marrying the Chief Steward? And the answer is that 2 people found chemistry and love each other. Congratulations. And yes tea must slurped!

    • @joecitizen9506
      @joecitizen9506 3 роки тому

      Don't tell folks how drink tea. Forgot boston tea party?

  • @timfenton5153
    @timfenton5153 3 роки тому +1

    Nice to see something happy with no mention of covid, thanks

  • @Human2Ai2030
    @Human2Ai2030 3 роки тому

    I totally understand that if you are on duty for so long , you need that quite none interaction, introvert down time away form stranger's and having to deal with the general public. May I wish you both a Very Merry Christmas Best wishes.

  • @Seabee_133
    @Seabee_133 3 роки тому +1

    Congratulations. Hoping for many wonderful memories in the years to come.

  • @InvestmentAngels
    @InvestmentAngels 3 роки тому

    Congrats🍀 - good choice on both sides 👍😊
    You definitely do complement very well.
    Thx for the frank insights.
    Wishing you all the best.
    Maybe we will meet at the Côte d'Azur or on one of the major boat shows someday.

  • @joey_ocampo
    @joey_ocampo 3 роки тому

    Congratulations to you both and thank you for sharing your personal side of life outside your normal vlogs!🎉🍷🍾

  • @CAUSELESSREBEL
    @CAUSELESSREBEL 3 роки тому

    Finally! Congratulations to you both. Tristan, Giv, you two obviously belong together. You prove that opposites do, indeed, attract. I've been watching this channel for some time. I realized early on you two belonged together. Again, congratulations. OOORAKH

    • @JCrook1028
      @JCrook1028 3 роки тому

      Lol finally a year ago you mean right? The engagement is on her channel...

    • @joecitizen9506
      @joecitizen9506 3 роки тому

      What channel?

  • @robertjordan2962
    @robertjordan2962 3 роки тому

    Great video guys! Love the sit down and get to know me stuff. I would appreciate one of these with all of the crew! Absolutely CONGRATULATIONS to you both on your engagement and happy holidays/MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!! CIAO for now in NorCal.

  • @carlylekhan7007
    @carlylekhan7007 3 роки тому

    Huge Congratulations Guys.
    Wishing You Both A Awesome Life Together ❤

  • @shadrackballa6553
    @shadrackballa6553 3 роки тому

    I've learnt many phrases from you Captain and I like to hear your very unique accent and quite clear to understand. A pretty charming partner on board and on___. Please let me know the right phrase.God bless both of you and the OWNER and ur crew.

  • @lykkebjrn7307
    @lykkebjrn7307 3 роки тому

    Congratulations! So nice u are getting married :-) And - yes, - happy wife = happy life ! If I dont see more from you before christmast I would wish u a greate christmas and happy new year. Regards from Norway :-)

  • @stevenzobel4517
    @stevenzobel4517 3 роки тому

    Marry Christmas and a happy new year to you both and congratulations on your engagement

  • @chrisAnAussie
    @chrisAnAussie 3 роки тому

    Great video. Very encouraging to see the strong commitment between the two of you. Congratulations on the up and coming marriage. It will be no doubt very interesting to see the reactions of both parents when they first meet for the first time at the wedding. Be good to capture that on video. Chris in Australia .

  • @zedhead2864
    @zedhead2864 3 роки тому

    You guys are soo good together. Congratulations to you both! May you have many happy years!

  • @MonkPetite
    @MonkPetite 3 роки тому

    A bit late for this viewer, but still .. never late than never.
    Congratulations.. !
    You guy are in love , thats very visible. Keep that feeing , stay in love , appreciate that special feeling.
    Big hug for you two !!!

  • @rogerbarrett8744
    @rogerbarrett8744 3 роки тому

    Found your channel, it's addictive. You are lovely together, best wishes for the future from someone who has been with his wife for 36 years. btw Tristan you are normal and a lucky man.

  • @CheersWarren
    @CheersWarren 3 роки тому

    That was fun to have Gev on screen for an entire video!
    Why would you possibly be worried about the families meeting? There is no way so together people like you could not have cool families?
    Tristian your right though marriage will be great but it will be different, being engaged forever you at least know where you stand and for Gev you can take her for granted !
    Cheers Warren

  • @steve4jays
    @steve4jays 3 роки тому

    Afternoon and first of all Merry Christmas, I'd like to say you make a great couple and as Giv said you are different but you complement each other and am sure you will get stronger as your friendship/marriage grows, congratulations, enjoying the vlogs.

  • @barrylambert8572
    @barrylambert8572 3 роки тому

    I agree with Triston. I is weird opening the door for kids at Halloween. I too hide and feel you're pain.

  • @IronManHoddy
    @IronManHoddy 3 роки тому

    Great congratulations to you both. May you have a fabulous wedding and life together. All best wishes and fair weather

  • @seantwomey396
    @seantwomey396 3 роки тому

    It is nice to see that you have found a beautiful women who complements you. You are fortunate.

  • @johnarrowhawkfeather
    @johnarrowhawkfeather 2 роки тому

    i love your channel and i love your content but sometimes i can barely hear your audio but thank you captain for all you do

  • @kenbryant2570
    @kenbryant2570 3 роки тому

    Congratulations to you both. Triston you are getting a better deal. She is awesome.

  • @diverbob8
    @diverbob8 3 роки тому

    That was fun...it seems that you both have an immense capacity for respect for one another, in my experience that is not so common. Thanks for sharing!

  • @simoncousin3241
    @simoncousin3241 3 роки тому +1

    Congratulations ,I am the same I dont like people my time is my time i also see people all the time so I can agree with you just pleased none of my clients see this being written :):).Why are you filling up the water tanks now as its Nov /Dec ?????

  • @GTIracerr
    @GTIracerr 3 роки тому

    Congratulations, Tristan and Giv!

  • @jamesturbyfill6281
    @jamesturbyfill6281 3 роки тому

    absolutely one of the most adorable couples on Facebook

  • @ryanb6361
    @ryanb6361 3 роки тому +1

    Congrats you 2!!!! Love your VIDS!!!!!!

  • @steveharrington6718
    @steveharrington6718 3 роки тому +3

    How about one on why you are marrying a chief stew?

  • @simonrose8685
    @simonrose8685 3 роки тому

    Congratulations to both of you... I have only started watching your vlog Tristan but I have pretty much binged on them.... I noticed in your holidays you guys didn't mention Oz... Maybe consider here sometimes as I know you would love our many differing coastlines... Take care and enjoy... PS Giv I totally understand you job, I am a qualified sommelier and ran restaurants in Australia for over 20 years, it is hard but very rewarding work... Again congrats to you both

  • @CPcamaro
    @CPcamaro 3 роки тому +1

    Congragulations, but I have a strange question. How does it work having a relationship for someone who is technically your employee as the captain (i.e. you are responsible for hiring and suggesting pay raises etc. based on prior videos). Do you defer all those things regarding your fiancé to the owner?

    • @joecitizen9506
      @joecitizen9506 3 роки тому

      Great question also are regulations that change when become official married?
      Know strange but interesting questions don't feel need answer before the wedding. Know weddings stressful. I am commitment-phobic. Hope spelled correctly. I part of a wedding and it stressful for don't wrong but wish best anyone willing to commit like to another.

  • @jeffstock7819
    @jeffstock7819 3 роки тому

    Congrats, guys!

  • @ritmos2380
    @ritmos2380 3 роки тому +4

    Cheers lads, well done .....98% of arguements are lost time .

  • @pemman
    @pemman 3 роки тому

    So enlightening you two. When is the 'I do' date? :)

  • @moz7677
    @moz7677 3 роки тому

    Glasses on, Clark Kent mode engaged LoL I've not watched to the end... but i'm guessing he drops his glasses into a fire and has to explain why he didn't get burned taking them out LOL.

  • @ramsesv5339
    @ramsesv5339 3 роки тому

    Congratulations to you both. May you both have many happy years together.

  • @edicant1967
    @edicant1967 3 роки тому

    I wish you both all the very best for the future, amazing couple with an amazing job. If you are ever in Switzerland, it would be a great pleasure to meet you both. Stay safe and healthy in these terrible times.

  • @tcoker6616
    @tcoker6616 3 роки тому

    Great video. Congratulations 🎉🎊🍾. Do me a favor...next time turn your audio gain up, it was very difficult to hear.

  • @jaylerman7864
    @jaylerman7864 3 роки тому +1

    Feel as though I know you (both) after many episodes... today's headline - thought you may have 'popped the question' 🤔 Neverthe less, this was a 'Laid back' episode, which I enjoyed with morning coffee. 😉

  • @rudideghelt
    @rudideghelt 3 роки тому +1

    It is very beautiful to see you like that. 😍 Another surprising video, I wish you all the happiness in the world.👍👍

  • @Unitedflyier
    @Unitedflyier 3 роки тому

    You are a lucky man. Finding someone you get on that well with.

  • @Richard-wk9le
    @Richard-wk9le 3 роки тому +1

    Best Wishes to you both -Fare seas, blue Skys....and no leaks

  • @davidallen9526
    @davidallen9526 3 роки тому

    How lovely. She has quite the presents on screen. I won't mention that her hands shown a bit of reluctance or anxiety. Just kidding with you. I've watched many of your videos and on occasion have even shared a few. This one steps just a bit outside the box and perhaps that is the reason I've enjoyed it. I'm truly not sure.
    I would love to see this same scenario on the next video with you trying to explain to us why you have fallen in love and wish to get married to her. Now I foresee much arm waving and exclaiming how truly lovely she is. She is quite beautiful if you forgive my boldness.
    Thanks for another wonderful video and inviting us along for the ride. Even though we are just extra ballast.
    Blue Sky's and Tailwinds

  • @charlesbedingfield9937
    @charlesbedingfield9937 3 роки тому +1

    Congratulations both!

  • @MrJmarkwalton
    @MrJmarkwalton 3 роки тому +4

    Wiggle Room... yup.. until you fully understand the South African phrases of "now now" and just now" nothing is confirmed :) Congrats to both of you.

  • @gedaustin7980
    @gedaustin7980 3 роки тому +1

    Great couple

  • @patrickabas1112
    @patrickabas1112 3 роки тому

    Congratz guys, happy future for the both of you