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I love Mexican girls. I want las q son Amable y no enteresadas. Ay unas bien sangronas enteresadas que vienen a vivir a Illinois oh nueva york que andan con todos. Esas no valen las pena. A mi me gustan las Mexicanas chidas independiente s y bien guapas q sepan bailar q son Amable s y romanticas y q sepan Cocinar algo.
The culture shock is real. I work with my girlfriend, she is from guatemala. We work with many spanish speaking men. I'm often bothered by the way these men stare at and annoy my girlfriend. She and her spanish speaking girlfriends seem to be fine with this behavior. I find it very disrespectful yet I know my Irish culture is much different and more reserved.
I'm a white guy married to a Mexican woman for over 30 years now. Other than the fact that this video is very accurate, I have to say this... Mexican people are very passionate and will sacrifice their own life in order to protect one of their family members or even their friends. Just imagine what it takes for a woman like that to respect her man. It's all or nothing because that's exactly what she'll give you. Just saying. ✌️
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I watched this video and my Mexican-anerican husband was listening in. When you shared all the loving phrases he goes "oh yes, Imma cry now" 😂😂😂 guess he needs some extra love
I live in a very Hispanic town and most of my cliental and friends are Hispanic. I'm learning a great deal of Spanish by listening and not afraid to speak as much as I can. I've dated three Mexicans, two live in Mexico.. I love the culture and certainly want to marry a Mexican. It didn't work out so far but I'll keep trying
I'm a white British guy and I have a HUGE crush on a Mexican girl in work. She's absolutely beautiful and she's cool too. She looks like Catherine Zeta-Jones.
Be a gentleman with her, make her laugh and show some chivery also show her that you have a good heart and she will be yours, unless she's married or has a boyfriend.
@@u.smarines1649 I agree with you. I am a Mexican American girl and I think that she will be yours if you do show her you are interested in her as well as what @U.S Marines suggest.
I have a 50 year relationship with a large family in Yucatan. I now live among them and of course eat most of my meals with them, besides getting close with a real beauty. I suffered a mild heart attack a year ago and of course I regrettably had to change my diet a bit. These days I can easily attach humor with my passing on manteca y mondongo at the table! Me encanta tus lesiones! Muchas gracias.
I'm a white guy with a Mexican woman. She's very protective over me and I love it. Plus she loves public displays of affection. Plus what I love about her she doesn't ask me to change she lets me be myself and honestly I've never had that in any relationship and she's very understanding. She doesn't try to stuff me in a box that I will never fit in. But the only thing that her and I have one problem in the relationship is the language barrier cuz my Spanish is very minimum and the way her and I talk is either through Google translate or her son or daughter translates for me
Vale la pena to learn some castillano! If you are bilingual in English/Spanish you've got the two most spoken languages on the planet, and they ARE related, maybe only something like Swahili is easier to speak a little bit. The feeling you get when you hear a song you've known all your life and for the first time you hear what the words mean- it's just too cool.
Good decent Mexicanas don't die their hair purple, they don't need pronouns or tatts,, they know all lives matter, they don't kill babies, they like their men to be men, they're not poisoned with hatred towards men, body count is a source of shame not pride, their moral book is based on Judeo-Christian values not the Cult of Latter Day Woke...
I love the sense of humour she has and if I do get a Mexican soulmate in the future. I would be open to learning about her culture and customs. I like the sound of the Spanish language as well. Gracias Paulisima, please keep up the great awesome videos. I like the positive energy. I have subbed and I hope to make some Mexican friends too this year. Gracias Amigos. I want to learn Spanish, so I can enjoy the culture better.
As a Mexican guy born in the USA. I gave up on dating Mexican women after dating a decent amount (25) of them and being told I'm "too american, not Mexican enough, and too nice for a Mexican man." So I dated everyone else black, white, vietnamese, Chinese, Brazilian, Haitian, and German now. I'm happier sharing my culture with others. No hate to Mexican women but, be ready for anything to go wrong and be like MacGyver and fix it. I would have if I saw potential in any of those dates. My mom really wanted me to be with a Mexican women so got as many girls to go on a date with me as possible.
This was so good. Growing up American in a Mexican family, I'm fully in touch with my femininity while also fighting a weird instinct to be macho, which doesn't fit the rest of my personality.
Gracias AJ! The macho thing right? It's so unfair! It puts unnecessary and ridiculous pressure on man even since they are of a tender age. Brutal. btw ... I'm fascinated by the Mexican American culture :) I love its endurance, its adaptability, I love mis hermanos mexico-estadunidenses de todo corazón!
@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish Yeah it's definitely a balancing act. I certainly have never taken offense to being called a pocho or a chicano. This is a wonderful channel that has inspired me to start speaking Spanish more to my wife and kids.
@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish you can't know because you're not one. It didn't matter how many brothers you have. Yeah sure it can be difficult but we can handle it.
I have only one request to mexican girls , Dont be silent :) but speak slowly till my spanish improves . At 100 words per minute i can only understand some words in spoken spanish . Por favor . disculpe , gracias :) Nice video
This is so so true for my experiences. I mean I had to be in charge and lead everything but only when I was doing it the “right” if not she wanted to chime in on everything. Lol your in charge yeah right. Lol. The family thing was so much to handle. Not only that she has 3 sisters. So I was the go to for all guy advice. So I become a therapist. Then the hardest part was being super polite to the father but also showing him that I handle things in my home. The aunt told me. “You see those rams 🐏 on tv in the wild when they head butt? Just go with that attitude. But don’t disrespect him” lol 😂 then with her also never saying what she means. Always being quiet 🤫 and expecting me to know what’s wrong. It was honestly the most difficult and the most rewarding time of my life. I learned so much about myself also.
and I dont care about your families drama of who does and dont like who. If you got that bullsh-t going on and you all dont keep separated, then dont drag me into your soap opera!
Thank god for Mexico's old fashioned values! That's a benefit not a problem. Sexual liberation has done little for North America with tons of single moms & a very high divorce rate!
Paulisima i have a question. I have over 80 classes on italki with mexican tutors, most are good looking women and they ALL tell me they would have no problem packing up and moving to the U.S. and leaving their family behind, which kinda confuses me if they are so family oriented, but i don't wanna ask too many nosy questions of them, lol. And i notice that you did the same und du lebst jetzt en deutschland. (my wife is from Germany, so i spoke decent German until i gave it all up to learn Spanish, lol)
Idk if it just me but I live in a neighborhood with a heavy Mexican population and I handle claim for California, 90% of my customers only speak Spanish. The men seem really nice but this is only a phone conversation of coarse. Just made me courteous.
you are awesome! thank you for the video. I was so surprised to get a message from him after the first date with the question how are you feeling now? I have never been asked this question by a man.. he is like a sudden sunrise during a long dark night
I have no problem with public displays of affection. I can handle somebody being late. If we have a restaurant booking for 8pm. I would tell her it's a 7.30pm booking, or even 7pm. However, I have realised/experienced that dating somebody with a child means I am very low down in her list of priorities, this is universal not just Mexico. Great video
So... this is gonna be long... fair warning: From my POV as a Mexican single mother with a Christian/Traditional upbringing, yes her children are going to come first while you are DATING. However, I was raised with the idea that the husband is the head of house and he comes before the children. So, what men have to understand is that while dating, you are not her priority because you are just a boyfriend, which can mean very little depending on the amount of time you have been dating. The longer you can last in the relationship and the more committed you both get to each other, the higher you get on her list of priorities. Once you become HUSBAND, however, then you are someone important. Boyfriend, not so much. There is no reliability or guarantee of commitment with a boyfriend. Also, there is no shared responsibilities with a boyfriend. As a single mother, we are not only responsible for ourselves, but also another human being (which is a pretty big responsibility). Therefore, how can you expect to be #1 in her list of priorities? Once married, she can feel some relief because she will share those responsibilities with you and that will give her more freedom to place YOU (the man) higher. I cannot understand why men feel like single mothers should not prioritize their children over someone they are dating. They are wholly responsible for the life of their child(ren). They are not responsible for you (men). However, this does not mean that she doesn't WANT to place you higher in her list of priorities or that she doesn't want to be everything for you. It simply means that her hands are tied to her obligations to her children because they are her FAMILY. Now, if you completely fall in love with a single mother and think she'd make a great partner, then have patience with her and her situation. Have an honest conversation about how she prioritizes her children over you. It's very possible that she's unaware that you feel this way. If you or any man is not marriage minded, however, then I suggest avoiding single mothers altogether. Single mothers are looking for partners to share family/life obligations with. For the most part, they are looking for husbands and, in some cases, father figures for their children (in cases of absentee fathers). This is just my point of view, but I'm confident that I'm not the only single mother who thinks this way.
@@moscaonthewall Thank you for your thorough and comprehensive reply. I am very encouraged by your viewpoint, as it's nice to hear Mexican ladies' POV. Also from someone who has Christian values. I am originally from England, and let's just say things are very different there with regards to Christianity and marriage. It's why many Westerners look to date from other traditional cultures as divorce rates are so high, and 80% are instigated by women. Personally, I don't want to be the top priority in a relationship with a single mother, I have my own things I want to take care of. The lady I am getting to know is still waiting for her divorce to come through and she is in no hurry to get married again. The father of their 8-year-old daughter is present, which is great for their daughter, but he does not want another man living under the same roof as his daughter, and being a Father myself I get that. The lady in question says she needs to obtain closure, and we recognise the possibility she may never be ready to date again, aside from time constraints, ( she is spinning many plates ) her ex-husband may be the one great love of her life, and their soul-tie is very strong. You know some people only ever have that one soul mate. We shall see. I should be in Mexico in May, and I hope to finally get to meet her, and as we say "one step at a time" Gracias.
Wow that's a great video, and I learned a lot of things.So thank you very much,and it was very helpful.And I believe that Mexican women are the most beautiful women in the world, and I enjoy dating them.So keep up the good work, and may God bless you and your family!
Hola Paulisma. I'm a Mexican-American born and raised in the U.S. . Can you point me in the correct direction so that I can better my spanish. According to my co-workers, who are 100% paisanos de Mexico, I am 80% to 90% fluent in spanish. I really want to be 100%. Any advice?
I'm an American white guy trying to win the affections of a beautiful modern Mexican American woman. I wish I had found this channel last year because ive already made plenty of mistakes. I believe there's still hope and this channel is definitely helping me a lot!
Same deal with many people in The Philippines 🇵🇭. I live in San Francisco 🌉 I meet many Filipinos and Latinos. I visit The Philippines 🇵🇭 for many years including 2022, when I was recently there.
I'm in a relationship with a Mexican girl but I'm interested in her i love her so much but i hate when other guys talk to her and the most guys that bother her because they low down people
So sorry about that dear I wonder the joy most pple derive from drinking alcohol too much it's really annoying dear but believe me all men are not the same dear... Believe.
I’m glad you posted this! I’m Puerto Rican but all these rules are so true! Especially the men being hoes. Lmaoooo my grandpa and my dad were like that. And thank you for saying it’s hard to trust it’s not my fault. That helps a lot you have no idea.
I honestly i love mexicans i have never meet much sincere and kindly people i am proud of were i am from but i am also in love with how you'll view life in general
Not to compare but dating a Philippino was the hardest thing for me in the beginning..dated 4 years an it took me 3 years to understand her an her language...words do not meen what they sound like..most do but lots dont...but the similarities between Spanish an Philippinos are super close...family...actions..family..devotion to boyfriend..or husband...religion ( both catholic)... for me dating a Mexican would be a walk in the park..planning on moving to Mexico soon...find me a Hot Tamales...start life over....
My wife is Mexican. Her family migrated to Ca Ans mainly speak Spanish. Love them like my actual family and to be honest maybe more. Loving and good people with some killer food
I’m a black guy and the only thing I’m being more aware of is when my girlfriend starts yelling at me in Spanish and sadly i learned so much Spanish just to know what she’s saying 😭
I have travelled to Mexico many times, and you are right. Mexico is huge with distinct variations in behaviour of the natives. I am still wondering why no one ever told me it is important to learn Salsa dancing if dating a girl from Veracruz, and why in that region the girls say "eh ,eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh" as they are dancing. Which I have not heard in Chiapas or Sonora for instance, where they also love to dance.
I am a U.S. born Puerto Rican living in Los Angeles. I speak Spanish. For some reason I was never in a serious relationship with Mexican women although I dated such. Most were not attracted to me. I never understood why. In the end I married a Spanish woman. She was U.S. born of Spaniard parents. I think there are subtle cultural differences among Hispanic cultures which can influence relationships. Such may not be overtly apparent.
I'm a Latino, Spanish speaker, but raised in Canada. I currently started dating a Mexican girl (I'm living in Mexico now), and these type of videos help with the cultural difference. Please make more of these.... Gracias!
I would never reject tamales. You're very pretty. I just met a Mexican American man and couldn't stay away from him. We watched the stars for four hours and talked. He lives far away and I hope to see him again. He didn't seem different than other men but I'm crushing so looking these sorts of things up. Thanks! 🌺
Lol , mostly fear of what happened before me happening again. For me was holding on too much. I learned a lot about myself and what I needed to change. I am very grateful. Her honesty and being very straightforward was fantastic.
Awesome sounds Great and Love it... Spanish was my first Language because my Grandparents only speak Spanish to me they never Learn English... I miss them so much I called them Mami y Papi never Grandma or Grandpa...
I agree, as my fiancé is A True Mexican. Not a Mexican American. As a Mexican American is different from the True Mexican culture and not the same as a 100% Mexican. Also my fiancé did say Mexican Women are very tóxica and they need to calm down. Yet he always respect still his people and never really bad mouth them. Just telling facts..As he dated Mexicans women before me.
I love Mexican people and culture and want to have one that we can do somethings or spent life time together forever... but so far I still can not find one I'am not young and I am ready to relocated if I lucky to find one 50 to 60 years old only the problem is the Languate
After experiencing them 15 years I don’t want a man at all I’ll just totally either be alone are Ill be with a woman because I feel so damaged I have never been in love with a guy before and he was the Second guy I have been with and I am 36 years old I feel like he just wanted to marry me to become legal but thank God I never once married him after the mind games and him miss treating me I did not do it this was definitely a big lesson for me to never be with another one
you thought things would be greener with a latina ... Great video on many levels! so ironic to see mexican women shifting ideals from the traditional so many westerners claim to covet when wanting women of other nationalities. i had a modern latina bite my head off (feminist toxic masculinity rant) when complimenting her pretty modest dress.
I am a white woman age 41 from France and my longtime boyfriend who I have been for 13 years who is 31 he is a Mexican from La Mixteca Poblana Puebla Mexico. Yes I been to his small town that has a population of 1000. I have no complains about him just one thing tho. His family you can say they are modernized and have no convsertive mind his mom is a bit but open minded. He does not have a macho attitude or anything like that. The thing is I don't like is that Mexicans want to have a ton of kids. Hey I am 41 and I don't plan to have any children not today or in 10 years. I simply don't have time to raise a child I love babies but to have one 24/7 its not for me. Hes been pushing me the last 3 years or so to have a kid he says its time already and for me its not I say. Despite this his family is very modern. I mean modern in total its 5 children he is the only male and youngest. All his sisters are over 5'9 and they dress with fashion he is the only one that dresses normally and he only went to high school compared to his sisters who went to college and have careers. Honestly his sisters walk like models. All his sisters have foreign boyfriends none are latinos or Mexicans. You could easily mistake any of his sisters for white females. My father in law is 5'11 and my mother in law is 5'6 while my man is 6'3. His sisters are 5'9, 5'10 and 5'11 of them
Break up with him, please. You have different visions of the future. Any person that really wants kids but doesnt get to have them, will likely be bitter and blame the spouse for not having kids, or he will leave you once he meets a woman who will give him the family. I know this isnt happy advice, but its better you consider it and plan accordingly than to find out the hard way. Bonne chance!
As a Mexican, I can tell you that not all Mexicans want to have a ton of kids. That completely depends on the person. At least the people I know all have a different idea of how many kids they want or if they want any. Also, you mention his sisters can be mistaken for white girls when being Mexican is not a race. Most of us are mestizos a mix of white (mostly Spanish) and indigenous. I am 5’9, light skin with green eyes is not that I look like a white girl is that I am descendent of white people, It is probably the same for the family of your partner and a lot of other Mexicans.
I agree with Inconnu 49. You are not well matched. If you haven't already, you need to have an honest conversation with him about the fact that you NEVER want kids. He might think he can persuade you at some point. You need to make it clear to him so that he knows what choices to make. He seems to really want children and being the only son, it's kind of up to him to continue the family name. It might be old fashioned thinking, but making sure a family name doesn't die is kind of a thing for Mexicans (maybe not as widespread anymore though).
@@jackielopez269 so much for this short Mexican stereotype, lol! In Cancun I find this to be true plus in Cancun and other regions of southern Mexico as well as in these countries of Central America not only are a majority of Latinos and Latinas short they are usually very thin. But my experience in Chihuahua and Monterrey was the opposite on average for Latinos and Latinas because tall Latinos and Latinas are very common no matter if looking more European or more native. White Americans in the mid 19th century described the natives in northern Mexico and in the great Plains of the USA as tall and big boned people so this everything is bigger in Texas might have more to do with the native tribes of this region then with being European.
Ok, "White woman, age 41 from France .... Lol. First of all, you stalled long enough in the relationship to not even worry about having kids anyway .... Your door to that possibility closed a year ago at 40. This is "My personal opinion" but even a woman who is a "Career Woman" will set a small window aside to have a child because creating life, then to teach, nurture, and watch something so amazing grow into this productive person that you created is so self rewarding .... it's truly amazing. But to not have ANY CHILDREN AT ALL for the sake of They're there 24/7 is a little selfish to me. Yeah, it's "PARENTING". Lol .... Didn't know where you were going when you literally gave a height, weight and skin tone of ALL OF HIS SISTERS but I said to myself, "Ehhh, cut her some slack, she's French". Lol ... Oh, and BTW .... Don't know who said it, but they're right .... You're 13 years of selfishness and not wanting to give him A CHILD ..... Sealed your fate. It's only a matter of time before you get your walking papers ...
It's a Mexican woman at my gym OMG I don't give AF I'll make a door an open it for her. She smiles at me I still haven't made a move her English is ok. Damn I trying to work up courage to say something to her.
the macho thing is every woman in probably almost every race... why so many women end up divorced they are attracted to mister macho, and often get mister nacho narcissist
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I love Mexican girls. I want las q son Amable y no enteresadas. Ay unas bien sangronas enteresadas que vienen a vivir a Illinois oh nueva york que andan con todos. Esas no valen las pena. A mi me gustan las Mexicanas chidas independiente s y bien guapas q sepan bailar q son Amable s y romanticas y q sepan Cocinar algo.
Hablo español con fluidez. No me cuesta adaptarme a nuevas circunstancias. Gracias por explicarnos porque las cosas son como son.
The culture shock is real. I work with my girlfriend, she is from guatemala. We work with many spanish speaking men. I'm often bothered by the way these men stare at and annoy my girlfriend. She and her spanish speaking girlfriends seem to be fine with this behavior. I find it very disrespectful yet I know my Irish culture is much different and more reserved.
I have a Mexican American cousin. She’s lives in Los vagas and I love her to death 😊
I'm a white guy married to a Mexican woman for over 30 years now. Other than the fact that this video is very accurate, I have to say this... Mexican people are very passionate and will sacrifice their own life in order to protect one of their family members or even their friends. Just imagine what it takes for a woman like that to respect her man. It's all or nothing because that's exactly what she'll give you. Just saying. ✌️
Well in my experiences with Mexican women, they're not keepers, it seems like they play too many games, are the biggest liars, mean, etc.
This is good info. Now to find it from a Man’s point of view.
Good idea! I'm going to pitch it :D Thank you KJ
@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish wow, thank you for considering it! I'm impressed!
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jeje you are correct, latinas highlight the best of them to get picked by an European or American(gueros)
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They are also touchy feely accepting hugs from everyone. Some cultures don't have as much touch and comes off as to " friendly "
Not in Tlaxcala.
I watched this video and my Mexican-anerican husband was listening in. When you shared all the loving phrases he goes "oh yes, Imma cry now" 😂😂😂 guess he needs some extra love
Aww!!! Thanks for watching Lydia :D Don't we all need the extra love? hehhehe
LMAO! Poor guey!
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All of this sounds perfect for me honestly. Especially the pda and loud talking
I live in a very Hispanic town and most of my cliental and friends are Hispanic. I'm learning a great deal of Spanish by listening and not afraid to speak as much as I can. I've dated three Mexicans, two live in Mexico.. I love the culture and certainly want to marry a Mexican. It didn't work out so far but I'll keep trying
Good luck! I dated a few Mexican women and I'm in love. The worst of them treat me better than any American woman I've known.
If someone tells me that "Calladita te ves más bonita" Ohh man you will be in trouble 😅🤭
This was some advice given to me.
@@vanessamadridmartinez7144 and me too ugghhhh :/ but we are the change that our ancestors were longing for :D
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I'm a white British guy and I have a HUGE crush on a Mexican girl in work. She's absolutely beautiful and she's cool too. She looks like Catherine Zeta-Jones.
funny cuz shes welsh but yea any luck?
Be a gentleman with her, make her laugh and show some chivery also show her that you have a good heart and she will be yours, unless she's married or has a boyfriend.
@@u.smarines1649 I agree with you. I am a Mexican American girl and I think that she will be yours if you do show her you are interested in her as well as what @U.S Marines suggest.
@@stephanygemagomezflores7378 stephany,you're very pretty 😍,I'd definitely wine and dine you.
Did you get with her
Her personality is magnetic haha, fun video
I have a 50 year relationship with a large family in Yucatan. I now live among them and of course eat most of my meals with them, besides getting close with a real beauty. I suffered a mild heart attack a year ago and of course I regrettably had to change my diet a bit. These days I can easily attach humor with my passing on manteca y mondongo at the table! Me encanta tus lesiones! Muchas gracias.
Loved this video. You are a beautiful ball of Mexican energy. Also very funny and natural. W O W !!!
I'm a white guy with a Mexican woman. She's very protective over me and I love it. Plus she loves public displays of affection. Plus what I love about her she doesn't ask me to change she lets me be myself and honestly I've never had that in any relationship and she's very understanding. She doesn't try to stuff me in a box that I will never fit in. But the only thing that her and I have one problem in the relationship is the language barrier cuz my Spanish is very minimum and the way her and I talk is either through Google translate or her son or daughter translates for me
Dude... Learn Spanish. Is not that difficult. And is the second most useful language in the Americas... Or the first.
Vale la pena to learn some castillano! If you are bilingual in English/Spanish you've got the two most spoken languages on the planet, and they ARE related, maybe only something like Swahili is easier to speak a little bit. The feeling you get when you hear a song you've known all your life and for the first time you hear what the words mean- it's just too cool.
Good decent Mexicanas don't die their hair purple, they don't need pronouns or tatts,, they know all lives matter, they don't kill babies, they like their men to be men, they're not poisoned with hatred towards men, body count is a source of shame not pride, their moral book is based on Judeo-Christian values not the Cult of Latter Day Woke...
@@jrlast5051 why not she learn english
That's So AWESOME.
I wish I could speak Spanish the way you speak English. You are far more than a pretty face. Kudos.
I'm dating a woman from Toluca... You may have saved our prospects of being life partners! Bless you, and thanks!
Love this Lady's Energy! ...thank you for the information!
Perfect timing! haha!
Hola, guapa. Lol I came here for the affirmations and learnt so much more.
Hola try :D these affirmations are muy importante :D
I love the sense of humour she has and if I do get a Mexican soulmate in the future. I would be open to learning about her culture and customs. I like the sound of the Spanish language as well. Gracias Paulisima, please keep up the great awesome videos. I like the positive energy. I have subbed and I hope to make some Mexican friends too this year. Gracias Amigos. I want to learn Spanish, so I can enjoy the culture better.
Gracias por tu comentario :D
As a Mexican guy born in the USA. I gave up on dating Mexican women after dating a decent amount (25) of them and being told I'm "too american, not Mexican enough, and too nice for a Mexican man." So I dated everyone else black, white, vietnamese, Chinese, Brazilian, Haitian, and German now. I'm happier sharing my culture with others. No hate to Mexican women but, be ready for anything to go wrong and be like MacGyver and fix it. I would have if I saw potential in any of those dates. My mom really wanted me to be with a Mexican women so got as many girls to go on a date with me as possible.
I’m a US Mexican. I too have had this issue. I’m about to quit dating Mexican men altogether.
@@MonaLisasApple or I've had some try to marry me to become USA citizen
ufff I hated when people try to tell me I'm not something "enough". I'm like.. b..... Of course I'm enough. I'm me and that's enough.
@@MonaLisasApple heheh I'm about to quit dating.. ALTOGETHER jaajaja!!! :D
@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish I would give up but take it as a learning curve and put your best foot forward.
Great video! You're very funny.
This was so good. Growing up American in a Mexican family, I'm fully in touch with my femininity while also fighting a weird instinct to be macho, which doesn't fit the rest of my personality.
Gracias AJ! The macho thing right? It's so unfair! It puts unnecessary and ridiculous pressure on man even since they are of a tender age. Brutal. btw ... I'm fascinated by the Mexican American culture :) I love its endurance, its adaptability, I love mis hermanos mexico-estadunidenses de todo corazón!
@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish Yeah it's definitely a balancing act. I certainly have never taken offense to being called a pocho or a chicano. This is a wonderful channel that has inspired me to start speaking Spanish more to my wife and kids.
@@AJontheguitar Me da mucho gusto que te estemos ayudando :D
@@PaulisimaSpringSpanish you can't know because you're not one. It didn't matter how many brothers you have.
Yeah sure it can be difficult but we can handle it.
That's fair PC nonsense. What's you feminine side?
I have only one request to mexican girls , Dont be silent :) but speak slowly till my spanish improves . At 100 words per minute i can only understand some words in spoken spanish . Por favor . disculpe , gracias :) Nice video
This is so so true for my experiences. I mean I had to be in charge and lead everything but only when I was doing it the “right” if not she wanted to chime in on everything. Lol your in charge yeah right. Lol. The family thing was so much to handle. Not only that she has 3 sisters. So I was the go to for all guy advice. So I become a therapist. Then the hardest part was being super polite to the father but also showing him that I handle things in my home. The aunt told me. “You see those rams 🐏 on tv in the wild when they head butt? Just go with that attitude. But don’t disrespect him” lol 😂 then with her also never saying what she means. Always being quiet 🤫 and expecting me to know what’s wrong. It was honestly the most difficult and the most rewarding time of my life. I learned so much about myself also.
😂 Where was your video 6 years ago? Needed this. You had me laughing the whole way... Thank you so much.
Glad it was helpful!
Great video
Thank you very much 💖 Greetings from Germany 😍
You're welcome Frank :D Oh! Germany is in the top of my list of places to visit when travel is easy again :D
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I'll learn her immediate family's names. Anymore than that, then she'll need to memorize the names of my tools!
and I dont care about your families drama of who does and dont like who. If you got that bullsh-t going on and you all dont keep separated, then dont drag me into your soap opera!
Thank god for Mexico's old fashioned values! That's a benefit not a problem.
Sexual liberation has done little for North America with tons of single moms & a very high divorce rate!
Paulisima i have a question. I have over 80 classes on italki with mexican tutors, most are good looking women and they ALL tell me they would have no problem packing up and moving to the U.S. and leaving their family behind, which kinda confuses me if they are so family oriented, but i don't wanna ask too many nosy questions of them, lol. And i notice that you did the same und du lebst jetzt en deutschland. (my wife is from Germany, so i spoke decent German until i gave it all up to learn Spanish, lol)
Idk if it just me but I live in a neighborhood with a heavy Mexican population and I handle claim for California, 90% of my customers only speak Spanish. The men seem really nice but this is only a phone conversation of coarse. Just made me courteous.
So.... You speak Spanish to them?
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What's a physical conversation?
Interesting!!!!
Interesting!
Lol thank you. Just started dating a woman from Mexico
you are awesome! thank you for the video. I was so surprised to get a message from him after the first date with the question how are you feeling now? I have never been asked this question by a man.. he is like a sudden sunrise during a long dark night
LMAO! Too bad your opinion of him will change!
I have no problem with public displays of affection. I can handle somebody being late. If we have a restaurant booking for 8pm. I would tell her it's a 7.30pm booking, or even 7pm. However, I have realised/experienced that dating somebody with a child means I am very low down in her list of priorities, this is universal not just Mexico. Great video
Date no one with kids. It's that simple.
So... this is gonna be long... fair warning:
From my POV as a Mexican single mother with a Christian/Traditional upbringing, yes her children are going to come first while you are DATING. However, I was raised with the idea that the husband is the head of house and he comes before the children. So, what men have to understand is that while dating, you are not her priority because you are just a boyfriend, which can mean very little depending on the amount of time you have been dating. The longer you can last in the relationship and the more committed you both get to each other, the higher you get on her list of priorities. Once you become HUSBAND, however, then you are someone important. Boyfriend, not so much. There is no reliability or guarantee of commitment with a boyfriend. Also, there is no shared responsibilities with a boyfriend. As a single mother, we are not only responsible for ourselves, but also another human being (which is a pretty big responsibility). Therefore, how can you expect to be #1 in her list of priorities? Once married, she can feel some relief because she will share those responsibilities with you and that will give her more freedom to place YOU (the man) higher.
I cannot understand why men feel like single mothers should not prioritize their children over someone they are dating. They are wholly responsible for the life of their child(ren). They are not responsible for you (men). However, this does not mean that she doesn't WANT to place you higher in her list of priorities or that she doesn't want to be everything for you. It simply means that her hands are tied to her obligations to her children because they are her FAMILY.
Now, if you completely fall in love with a single mother and think she'd make a great partner, then have patience with her and her situation. Have an honest conversation about how she prioritizes her children over you. It's very possible that she's unaware that you feel this way.
If you or any man is not marriage minded, however, then I suggest avoiding single mothers altogether. Single mothers are looking for partners to share family/life obligations with. For the most part, they are looking for husbands and, in some cases, father figures for their children (in cases of absentee fathers).
This is just my point of view, but I'm confident that I'm not the only single mother who thinks this way.
@@moscaonthewall Thank you for your thorough and comprehensive reply. I am very encouraged by your viewpoint, as it's nice to hear Mexican ladies' POV. Also from someone who has Christian values. I am originally from England, and let's just say things are very different there with regards to Christianity and marriage. It's why many Westerners look to date from other traditional cultures as divorce rates are so high, and 80% are instigated by women. Personally, I don't want to be the top priority in a relationship with a single mother, I have my own things I want to take care of. The lady I am getting to know is still waiting for her divorce to come through and she is in no hurry to get married again. The father of their 8-year-old daughter is present, which is great for their daughter, but he does not want another man living under the same roof as his daughter, and being a Father myself I get that. The lady in question says she needs to obtain closure, and we recognise the possibility she may never be ready to date again, aside from time constraints, ( she is spinning many plates ) her ex-husband may be the one great love of her life, and their soul-tie is very strong. You know some people only ever have that one soul mate. We shall see. I should be in Mexico in May, and I hope to finally get to meet her, and as we say "one step at a time" Gracias.
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Wow that's a great video, and I learned a lot of things.So thank you very much,and it was very helpful.And I believe that Mexican women are the most beautiful women in the world, and I enjoy dating them.So keep up the good work, and may God bless you and your family!
Hola Paulisma. I'm a Mexican-American born and raised in the U.S. . Can you point me in the correct direction so that I can better my spanish. According to my co-workers, who are 100% paisanos de Mexico, I am 80% to 90% fluent in spanish. I really want to be 100%. Any advice?
I'm an American white guy trying to win the affections of a beautiful modern Mexican American woman. I wish I had found this channel last year because ive already made plenty of mistakes. I believe there's still hope and this channel is definitely helping me a lot!
Paulina
No estoy de acuerdo con todo pero eres !un refresco!
Same deal with many people in The Philippines 🇵🇭. I live in San Francisco 🌉 I meet many Filipinos and Latinos. I visit The Philippines 🇵🇭 for many years including 2022, when I was recently there.
So if i go to mexico for a vacation i cant score?
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#5 this may cost you your life,
remember Myans cut hearts out,
these are them.
when you break up, run for your life
A good comeback for the "calladita" comment would be "igualmente"
I'm in a relationship with a Mexican girl but I'm interested in her i love her so much but i hate when other guys talk to her and the most guys that bother her because they low down people
Great video .. if I am ever so lucky one day to have a Mexican girlfriend/wife.
Love you ya nerd,
Thank you
Me gustaría contar con su ayuda con algo que me está molestando, por favor
My experience dating several and marrying two mexicans...most are alcoholics or ex alcoholics
Women or men?
So sorry about that dear I wonder the joy most pple derive from drinking alcohol too much it's really annoying dear but believe me all men are not the same dear... Believe.
There is still a me right out there my dear
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I’m glad you posted this! I’m Puerto Rican but all these rules are so true! Especially the men being hoes. Lmaoooo my grandpa and my dad were like that. And thank you for saying it’s hard to trust it’s not my fault. That helps a lot you have no idea.
I find filipina women and Mexicans share the same values
I think so too lol
But mostly about family values.
As a Filipina, I'm starting to like their culture.
Traditional Catholic values.
Me encanta su sentido de humor.
I honestly i love mexicans i have never meet much sincere and kindly people i am proud of were i am from but i am also in love with how you'll view life in general
So what's the benefits?
Not to compare but dating a Philippino was the hardest thing for me in the beginning..dated 4 years an it took me 3 years to understand her an her language...words do not meen what they sound like..most do but lots dont...but the similarities between Spanish an Philippinos are super close...family...actions..family..devotion to boyfriend..or husband...religion ( both catholic)... for me dating a Mexican would be a walk in the park..planning on moving to Mexico soon...find me a Hot Tamales...start life over....
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It was very informative.keep it up.
Could you do a video on Citas con una bruja Mexicanna
I am struggling 🤣
My wife is Mexican. Her family migrated to Ca Ans mainly speak Spanish. Love them like my actual family and to be honest maybe more. Loving and good people with some killer food
Is this for dating a “Modern Mexican” Woman, for Non Latino Men?
Hugs 🤗 all day! Lol
My Mexican honey fed me Menudo and didn't tell me what is was ..lol 🤣🤣 But she is the most amazing woman ever..I forgive her!!
Lucky you, Tyler.
I am coming to Mexico - beautiful tips :)
I’m a black guy and the only thing I’m being more aware of is when my girlfriend starts yelling at me in Spanish and sadly i learned so much Spanish just to know what she’s saying 😭
I have travelled to Mexico many times, and you are right. Mexico is huge with distinct variations in behaviour of the natives. I am still wondering why no one ever told me it is important to learn Salsa dancing if dating a girl from Veracruz, and why in that region the girls say "eh ,eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh" as they are dancing. Which I have not heard in Chiapas or Sonora for instance, where they also love to dance.
I am a U.S. born Puerto Rican living in Los Angeles. I speak Spanish. For some reason I was never in a serious relationship with Mexican women although I dated such. Most were not attracted to me. I never understood why. In the end I married a Spanish woman. She was U.S. born of Spaniard parents. I think there are subtle cultural differences among Hispanic cultures which can influence relationships. Such may not be overtly apparent.
I'm a Latino, Spanish speaker, but raised in Canada. I currently started dating a Mexican girl (I'm living in Mexico now), and these type of videos help with the cultural difference. Please make more of these.... Gracias!
Already ran into #3.
I would never reject tamales.
You're very pretty. I just met a Mexican American man and couldn't stay away from him. We watched the stars for four hours and talked. He lives far away and I hope to see him again. He didn't seem different than other men but I'm crushing so looking these sorts of things up. Thanks! 🌺
How did it go? Did you ever see him again? I hope you two ended up together 🥹
Mexican ladies are the sweetest. My mama is Mexican.
And Mexican mothers are the best :D
No es verdad mi mamá me pega con el huarache saludos desde México
I wish I saw this before I did , lol . Would do it again in a heart beat ; I ❤️
Oh man sorry I'm late for you! We've had it in the works for a while, wanted to created something actually useful. But I'm glad you'd do it again :D
Best relationship I’ve ever been in 🙏
@@todddean3145 awwwwwww ...now I'm like in gossip mode..I want to know what hapenned?!?! ahahah cheers
Lol , mostly fear of what happened before me happening again. For me was holding on too much. I learned a lot about myself and what I needed to change. I am very grateful. Her honesty and being very straightforward was fantastic.
@@todddean3145 :.( I feel you brother
Thank u very much for u Video u are very beautiful
Gracias por el cumplido :D
I'm married to a woman who is part Mexican, lots of pots and pans LOL
On GOD 😂😂
Hola I’m a beginner in learning Spanish, can anyone help me practice?? Please comment
Or know any good website to practice
Awesome sounds Great and Love it... Spanish was my first Language because my Grandparents only speak Spanish to me they never Learn English... I miss them so much I called them Mami y Papi never Grandma or Grandpa...
That’s why I had to cross from Michigan to Mexico Chetumal just to get a wife and I’m very happy.
ChetuYork! jejej AWW entonces conoces Bacalar? Felicidades por tu matrimonio :D
Oh, yeah I know Bacalar, in fact, I'm about to go to Mexico this month.
My Spanish is a little bit messed up lol 😆.
Ela é tão legal, eu já a amo......vídeo maravilhoso: Yes it's exactly like that for women in my country South Africa as well.
Que significa "Spicy Latina"?
Are so perfect their shapes soy perfecta
I agree, as my fiancé is A True Mexican. Not a Mexican American. As a Mexican American is different from the True Mexican culture and not the same as a 100% Mexican. Also my fiancé did say Mexican Women are very tóxica and they need to calm down. Yet he always respect still his people and never really bad mouth them. Just telling facts..As he dated Mexicans women before me.
I think im ready for when I get older 😅
I'll get back to you ,going to try some of these haha had a little rough patch the other day. Mi novia vive en Tabasco.
In Mexico now and this is all so true!
I love Mexican people and culture and want to have one that we can do somethings or spent life time together forever... but so far I still can not find one I'am not young and I am ready to relocated if I lucky to find one 50 to 60 years old only the problem is the Languate
We are 130 million now!
I thought yall were 180 million strong according to CIA data?
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Mi esposa es Venezolana. Pasa lo mismo.
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After experiencing them 15 years I don’t want a man at all I’ll just totally either be alone are Ill be with a woman because I feel so damaged I have never been in love with a guy before and he was the Second guy I have been with and I am 36 years old I feel like he just wanted to marry me to become legal but thank God I never once married him after the mind games and him miss treating me I did not do it this was definitely a big lesson for me to never be with another one
you thought things would be greener with a latina ...
Great video on many levels!
so ironic to see mexican women shifting ideals from the traditional so many westerners claim to covet when wanting women of other nationalities.
i had a modern latina bite my head off (feminist toxic masculinity rant) when complimenting her pretty modest dress.
Oh yea. I would definitely stay away from a feminist. They just want to compete against men.
# 5 OMG Cierto
Let’s go get tacos! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
How much fun
I am a white woman age 41 from France and my longtime boyfriend who I have been for 13 years who is 31 he is a Mexican from La Mixteca Poblana Puebla Mexico. Yes I been to his small town that has a population of 1000. I have no complains about him just one thing tho. His family you can say they are modernized and have no convsertive mind his mom is a bit but open minded. He does not have a macho attitude or anything like that. The thing is I don't like is that Mexicans want to have a ton of kids. Hey I am 41 and I don't plan to have any children not today or in 10 years. I simply don't have time to raise a child I love babies but to have one 24/7 its not for me. Hes been pushing me the last 3 years or so to have a kid he says its time already and for me its not I say.
Despite this his family is very modern. I mean modern in total its 5 children he is the only male and youngest. All his sisters are over 5'9 and they dress with fashion he is the only one that dresses normally and he only went to high school compared to his sisters who went to college and have careers. Honestly his sisters walk like models. All his sisters have foreign boyfriends none are latinos or Mexicans. You could easily mistake any of his sisters for white females.
My father in law is 5'11 and my mother in law is 5'6 while my man is 6'3. His sisters are 5'9, 5'10 and 5'11 of them
Break up with him, please. You have different visions of the future. Any person that really wants kids but doesnt get to have them, will likely be bitter and blame the spouse for not having kids, or he will leave you once he meets a woman who will give him the family. I know this isnt happy advice, but its better you consider it and plan accordingly than to find out the hard way. Bonne chance!
As a Mexican, I can tell you that not all Mexicans want to have a ton of kids. That completely depends on the person. At least the people I know all have a different idea of how many kids they want or if they want any. Also, you mention his sisters can be mistaken for white girls when being Mexican is not a race. Most of us are mestizos a mix of white (mostly Spanish) and indigenous. I am 5’9, light skin with green eyes is not that I look like a white girl is that I am descendent of white people, It is probably the same for the family of your partner and a lot of other Mexicans.
I agree with Inconnu 49. You are not well matched. If you haven't already, you need to have an honest conversation with him about the fact that you NEVER want kids. He might think he can persuade you at some point. You need to make it clear to him so that he knows what choices to make.
He seems to really want children and being the only son, it's kind of up to him to continue the family name. It might be old fashioned thinking, but making sure a family name doesn't die is kind of a thing for Mexicans (maybe not as widespread anymore though).
@@jackielopez269 so much for this short Mexican stereotype, lol! In Cancun I find this to be true plus in Cancun and other regions of southern Mexico as well as in these countries of Central America not only are a majority of Latinos and Latinas short they are usually very thin. But my experience in Chihuahua and Monterrey was the opposite on average for Latinos and Latinas because tall Latinos and Latinas are very common no matter if looking more European or more native. White Americans in the mid 19th century described the natives in northern Mexico and in the great Plains of the USA as tall and big boned people so this everything is bigger in Texas might have more to do with the native tribes of this region then with being European.
Ok, "White woman, age 41 from France .... Lol. First of all, you stalled long enough in the relationship to not even worry about having kids anyway .... Your door to that possibility closed a year ago at 40. This is "My personal opinion" but even a woman who is a "Career Woman" will set a small window aside to have a child because creating life, then to teach, nurture, and watch something so amazing grow into this productive person that you created is so self rewarding .... it's truly amazing. But to not have ANY CHILDREN AT ALL for the sake of They're there 24/7 is a little selfish to me. Yeah, it's "PARENTING". Lol .... Didn't know where you were going when you literally gave a height, weight and skin tone of ALL OF HIS SISTERS but I said to myself, "Ehhh, cut her some slack, she's French". Lol ...
Oh, and BTW .... Don't know who said it, but they're right ....
You're 13 years of selfishness and not wanting to give him A CHILD ..... Sealed your fate. It's only a matter of time before you get your walking papers ...
Depending on what kind of Mexican men because the cowboy guys are way different from a city boy
One word solosa!
It's a Mexican woman at my gym OMG I don't give AF I'll make a door an open it for her. She smiles at me I still haven't made a move her English is ok. Damn I trying to work up courage to say something to her.
Did you go for it?
the macho thing is every woman in probably almost every race... why so many women end up divorced they are attracted to mister macho, and often get mister nacho narcissist
I like to start off with
Hola Preciosa.