I'm a Polish and Slovakian woman, living in Miami. I LOVE Mexican men. So romantic! According to what the man at the end stated, perhaps I should consider moving to Mexico City after all. Hm...
I live in Switzerland and i work for an international company. There are so many mexians in the company all married to Europeans! Definitely see a pattern here.
The first mexican guy already said how direct the people from Europe usually are , well , seems like the way people say "i love you" can be different from each perspective , but i like people who normally are like that
1) One of the girls sounded extremely contradicting. First you want interdependence, then you want to be taken care of. I can't exactly understand what she wants. 2) when I first dated a Mexican girl it was heavy, I never really got used to the constant I love you being North American, you never really say you love them unless you actually mean it.
@@el_equidistante okay maybe I exaggerated on the second one lol. In my own experience I never tell a woman I loved them unless I meant it. I'm married now, but my wife told me she loved me a month in...and I was like..erm...thanks 😂
As a central asian with quite and modest character I was always interested in latin people for relationship but I have never met a single mexican or latin american people in my area. I would love to chat about everything with them. It could boost my motivation to become more sociable which I lack.
Toxicity and bad behavior exist everywhere, it is not about nationalities, but it is true that some cultures are warmer than others. The situation is to find a good partner, local or foreign, with the right compatibility. Do not close yourself only to nationality. And, sure, human beings like the exotic, so in many countries they will respond that they prefer foreigners, but that is a focus mainly on the physical aspect.
But some cultures are definitely more toxic/ narcissistic Like in the Uk, where the worship of Satan is a norm and Narcassim is the country’s hidden constitution
"warmer" cultures also tend to blow more hot air/bullshit. and only idiots appreciate that. what most people dont get (because most live more with stereotypes instead of using their brain) is that there are not just the cultures you know, there is also a meta culture of individuals for which all this bullshit is NOT RELEVANT! just in case you didnt notice. all of that is only for ordinary people. other ones adapt superfast and have also none of the usual problems ordinary people have. stuff like "warm/cold' etc also are irrelevant on this higher level, because its then about individuals.
I’ve noticed some of the women in this video want to pick and choose when they want a man to be traditional… this simply cannot work, especially if you want all the benefits of a traditional relationship without being traditional yourself. It’s a two way street, and both partners need to know their roles in a functional relationship. If you want a non traditional relationship then get a man who is somewhat feminine, passive, and submissive. That way both your energies balance out. This isn’t to say there isn’t a machismo problem in MX, but I think 3rd wave feminism has misdirected women in modern relationships. Just my 2 cents. Love.
mexican here, and i agree with you, there is a lot of girl lately here who think that way. i think its partly because of their age, they are young and they dont give much importance to thinking about what they want, they are just going with the flow and basically acting out of self interest. there are basically 2 sets of standards: the old traditional way, and the new individualistic way. in my own opinion, both have good things and bad things, but my point is that there are 2 sets of standards. a lot of younger people are flowing in between these 2 sets and not just women, everyone does it, they flow in between the two sets and specially if they dont think deeply about who they want to be , they end up just choosing whatever is best for their own selft interest at the moment, even if it creates a double stnadard. look up "liquid modernity" and "liquid love" by sygmund bauman, its a great way to look at all these same ideas.
This is what feminism has done to women. They want the best of both worlds but none of the responsibilities that come with it. It's destroying relationships.
@javierGonzalaz: you are wrong, because you have a wrong projection. You think mistakenly that a male who is not traditional is feminine, passive and submissive. But thats only true for males who are either traditional (they are weak/limited) OR who are left wing feminist (also weak/limited). Both are not emancipated = intellectual limited, limited ability to act, helpless! Both are collectivist and this means depending on others and cultures and stereotypes. Dependencies is what makes you weaker, more limit. Thats why real alphas are always the ones who are more independent and think and do what they want. Just in case you did not notice. This means a traditional one acts stereotypic (= for smart females like dead, boring) as well as a anti-traditional left wing (= also collectivist, stereotypic). A real liberal emancipated person is individual and can select context by context which fits best. Sometimes acting classic and gentlemen like IF IT FITS and sometimes acting in a different way IF IT FITS. Collectivists cannot do that, because they are as said limited - a limited ability to act.
The argument that Mexican men can be too traditional is valid, and true for most of LatAm I'd say. But Mexican and other Latin-American women should ask themselves if the same isn't true for them too. Women raised in patriarchal cultures internalise patriarchal notions of masculinity too, and if a guy is nice and kind to them, they automatically see him as "not man enough", or even think he's homosexual. Foreign men may not fall into what patriarchal culture defines as "real, manly men", but they have the benefit of being white and (on the average) financially well off, two traits that "make up" for their lack of "traditional Latin-American manliness". Bottom line is: yeah, Mexican and other LatAm men must be better, but Mexican and other LatAm women should do some soul-searching too and reconsider their expectations of men.
The fact that many people here say white = good and white = money astounds me. I'm from Uruguay and I've been to Mexico and lived there for about 6 months. I'm slightly tall and have blondish hair with grayish green eyes, I'm standard in my country and can also seem like a normal dude in Argentina. I caught all sorts of attention there, and I was specifically told about this weird internalized racism a lot of Mexicans have. The machismo culture and just the American wat of differentiating "races" was weird as all get out. What's more, is how other people from Latin American countries think this and other very old-fashioned things are "common". They are not, some countries just seem very backwards.
I've lived all over the world, (Including UK, France, Ukraine, Germany, Austria, Switzerland, Italy, Czech, Dubai, South Africa, California,Greece and now Mexico) and I've dated a lot of women from all over the world. I always expect to create a wonderful experience and of course pay for it (even if it's just friendly, or business and not romantic)... I have yet to find a culture where the man is NOT expected to pay. I don't believe this exists.
I´m from Holland and live in Barcelona. I think men in these cultures expect women to split the bill with them. The women for sure do not expect him to pay.
(from US living in Mexico) I've had several dates tell me they love me on the first or second date....or even when we were still just texting before meeting!!! (However, there are two degrees of "I love you" in Spanish.) In fact, I was just told yesterday and he was aware of this cultural difference, so we talked about it a bit. I told him, for me, I just want to say I like you, which translates to "Me gustas". He told me that is more for if you see someone on the street and you're intesrested in him, so you tell your friend, "Me gusta" (I like him). I've also had someone have my meet his entire family the day I met him, trying to be touchy in front of them as if we were actually a couple. The main struggle I'm having is people not knowing how to make plans. I'll tell them I'm interested in going on a date and throw out some days I'm free. One would expect that they would then return some days and times he is free, but instead he'll make some sort of not quite related comment like, "Oh nice, are you usually off on the weekends?" instead of ever answering directly.
He may be respectful so as not to be perceived as "pushy". On the other hand, he is "thinking", he has to look at some details before proposing alternatives. Doesn't want to be misunderstood, he is careful.
Hi Jenny. I know what you mean. My husband was the same when I met him. The time thing takes time to adapt to. In Mexican culture it’s important not to push. You’ve let him know your availability, if he is interested he’ll make plans with you, be busy with your own life. I have learned so much about myself from dating and now being married to a Mexican, I’ve learned to go with the flow and make time and space for life to happen. There is so much freedom in that.
@@Becoming_Mexican Absolutely RIGHT : In Latin America it is important NOT TO PUSH, otherwise it may be perceived as rude, impolite: a person (especially a lady) has to be respected. That's a gentleman's attitude. Good luck.
In Spanish there's a difference with "Te quiero" and "Te amo" normally when you're dating someone they will tell you Te quiero, but Te amo, Is reserve tofor when you really feel you love the person. I remember when I dated a German guy and I told him Te quiero, he literally thought I was telling him I love you😂 and I wasn't the case, I just said that I fancy him 🤣 So if someone tells you "Te quiero" don't worry, they don't mean they want to settle with you, they just appreciate spending some time with you 😉
This is fascinating to me. I was a adopted from Peru, and I grew up in white culture. I have never dated a latina woman, i have mostly dated white women. Recently I've been wanting to date Latina woman, but after watching this I must say. At this point in my life I'm over the extra drama in relationship. That goes with all woman. Hate to say but these Mexican women almost come across as American women. It turns out not really knowing what they really want in a relationship.
Great video! So many things to be said... There’s both toxicity and great things in every culture. Most people aren’t balanced and aren’t trying to heal their life wounds. Though there are some great women out there that are fun, loving, educated, creative, and wholesome we just have to filter them out. Clear and upfront communication is key. Good luck to everyone out there looking for love!
there is reason why so many foreigners go to mexico city, and as someone from jalisco. im sorry this annoys me. these chilangos are more americanized. sorry even people from tijuana is more mexican than ones in mexico city ones who are atttractive mexicans are in campos, and they are very tradtiional
Dating an incredibly conservative Mexican man as an American with a British parent. There are exceptions. I think it also depends on how traditional your values are. We work because we're both religious (Catholic), have good family ties, and have the same views on parenting (once it's time to have kids). It varies.
I have dated gorgeous Mexican women, sexy Hondurans, exotic Brazilians, German ladies, Indian and American and you know what I have learned the most? I'm still learning 😂😂
I could date a modern woman or a traditional woman. But I refuse to date a modern traditional. That's just a woman who wants to take the best parts of both while ignoring the accountability and responsibility. So if she wants me to think that she is independent and empowered, she'll have to prove it by going 50-50. If a woman is relying on a man to take care of her, she is neither of those things.
I’m French, my wife is Mexican from Monterrey , and yes if I’m not jealous enough it’s because I don’t love her enough , if I don’t say I love you it’s because I don’t love her anymore etc etc 😅😅😅
I kinda get the comment about some toxic behaviour in courtship being glamorized or misappropriated as desirable trait. As a Korean Canadian I know that in Korea alcohol consumption - which is I think the highest in the world - is encouraged and glamorized everywhere from TV drama to SM and such. It's crazy that they treat cannabis on par with heroin and cocaine, but alcohol which destroys more people than all drugs combined is a wonderful thing that brings people together and "lubricates" social relationships. Likewise, to think that overt jealousy and physical and emotional abuse are ok as long as they are for the reason of passion, is loco. No behaviour that overtly tries to control someone else is anything good.
Argh! It's so hard to adapt. As someone who grow up with a german father and a romanian mother in Germany I often struggle which act of kindness or action is more appropriate. Everyone pays his own stuff (german way) or the lady is invited (romanian way). Altough I must confess that I prefer the romanian approach. It's also easier to meet Romanians than Germans since they're more open like the Latinos and Latinas. That's why I think I felt more comfortable in Colombia amongst people than in Germany.
@@Becoming_Mexican If it was up to me, I'd pay for the date. At least for the 1st ones. Because I'm the one who asked her out, so she's invited. Not that I don't see her as an equal partner, but by this I want to show that I'm really interested. Later she can pay if she insists, but for me small acts of love /kindness are sth. I'm okay with also. E.g. buying a new perfume for me with a smell she likes.
In a cross cultural relationship you need too meet your beloved half way. Be flexible, learn and understand an important part of his identity. It’s more than just ll earning the language to communicate. Cook the food, learn the slang, sing the songs embrace all of it for a truly magnetic connection
You know what's funny is how everyone thinks deportation is the worst thing for you , but honestly Mexico city and the people there feels better than America, deportation is like a prize in my opinion
6:14 "Spend money on MeMeMeME! I simply cannot sit down with a coffee and talk to get to know you as I only care about you buying me an expensive dinner. Cause you know I washed my hear before the date"
😂my brother just came back from Mexico 🇲🇽 on Tuesday, the Mexican women are very friendly and passionate. I think most women in Mexico 🇲🇽 prefer foreigners. They called my brother “Papi”.
He was probably in the red light district. It is legal in Mexico and Asia, and this is why foreign men go there. Red light district in other worlds does not necessarily mean drug addicted woman like in the US. You actually find good looking women who are looking for foreign currency.
🙁I remember when I wanted to marry a Mexican men but years passed and things changed. Marrying them for being my own kind. years later they were not real Mexican.
I live close to the American/Mexican border, and I see many attractive Mexican women on dating apps ... but they rarely speak English to me, and they don't want to cross the border ... so I am not able to date them.
Middle-age man, I had a young lesbian best friend for several years and we always greeted each other with an informal "Luv Ya!" During that time I started dating a girl and said it without thinking, same way, but she took it a romantic "Love You." That was awkward.
these are people from mexico city, they are very americanized, due to massive influx of gringos aka foreigners. because mexico city is basically design to replica of western nation outside of mexico city, alot of mexicans dont like them at all
It's almost as if men have pushed for centuries to be the "providers" and want their women to be in the home raising children therefore not able to gain any wealth on her own. Yall complain women want guys with money when you want women at home. Pick a lane
I had a German friend and she had only dated Mexican 3 men, apparently she can't find one with her desirable shade of passion, they were either spoiled Mama's boys or one pure a**holes with extreme mommy and daddy issues. But she's got her own issues:) I would love to date a latin woman though. I've met a number of them randomly, and culturally saying, should be super affectionate. But I also heard a lot of broken families exist in Mexico
The pretty fun girl sitting during the interview with the white dress hit the nail on the head: if she’s going to spend a long time getting dolled up for the date, he definitely should pay. I suspect she will end up married to a good guy 😇
I'm a Polish and Slovakian woman, living in Miami. I LOVE Mexican men. So romantic! According to what the man at the end stated, perhaps I should consider moving to Mexico City after all. Hm...
I live in Switzerland and i work for an international company. There are so many mexians in the company all married to Europeans! Definitely see a pattern here.
Becoming fluent in Spanish will help you however becoming culturally fluent is equally important.
Exactly. I speak Spanish and love culture. All my relationship's have been with mexicans😊
Love mexican people (especially mexican women). Greeting from Indonesia ❤❤❤
You are very inocent my friend 😂
As Mexican man I love Asian women
Have a wonderful Thursday, Marina and great video today. Sending love from Miami, Florida, USA 🇺🇲
The first mexican guy already said how direct the people from Europe usually are , well , seems like the way people say "i love you" can be different from each perspective , but i like people who normally are like that
1) One of the girls sounded extremely contradicting. First you want interdependence, then you want to be taken care of. I can't exactly understand what she wants.
2) when I first dated a Mexican girl it was heavy, I never really got used to the constant I love you being North American, you never really say you love them unless you actually mean it.
1) You just described a woman.
1) Female illogic. They mean they want special privilege & to not put in any work themselves.
first of all Mexico IS North America, second that's a complete lie, in the US they don't "say you love them unless you actually mean it".
@@el_equidistante okay maybe I exaggerated on the second one lol.
In my own experience I never tell a woman I loved them unless I meant it.
I'm married now, but my wife told me she loved me a month in...and I was like..erm...thanks 😂
@@xpmedia8660she probably meant “te quiero” which is a lower degree of I love you. Or did she say “te amo”?
As a central asian with quite and modest character I was always interested in latin people for relationship but I have never met a single mexican or latin american people in my area. I would love to chat about everything with them. It could boost my motivation to become more sociable which I lack.
Toxicity and bad behavior exist everywhere, it is not about nationalities, but it is true that some cultures are warmer than others. The situation is to find a good partner, local or foreign, with the right compatibility. Do not close yourself only to nationality.
And, sure, human beings like the exotic, so in many countries they will respond that they prefer foreigners, but that is a focus mainly on the physical aspect.
But some cultures are definitely more toxic/ narcissistic
Like in the Uk, where the worship of Satan is a norm and Narcassim is the country’s hidden constitution
"warmer" cultures also tend to blow more hot air/bullshit. and only idiots appreciate that. what most people dont get (because most live more with stereotypes instead of using their brain) is that there are not just the cultures you know, there is also a meta culture of individuals for which all this bullshit is NOT RELEVANT! just in case you didnt notice. all of that is only for ordinary people. other ones adapt superfast and have also none of the usual problems ordinary people have. stuff like "warm/cold' etc also are irrelevant on this higher level, because its then about individuals.
great video! Much love to Mexicans, especially to Karla, she seems such a fun person lol.
I’ve noticed some of the women in this video want to pick and choose when they want a man to be traditional… this simply cannot work, especially if you want all the benefits of a traditional relationship without being traditional yourself. It’s a two way street, and both partners need to know their roles in a functional relationship.
If you want a non traditional relationship then get a man who is somewhat feminine, passive, and submissive. That way both your energies balance out.
This isn’t to say there isn’t a machismo problem in MX, but I think 3rd wave feminism has misdirected women in modern relationships.
Just my 2 cents. Love.
mexican here, and i agree with you, there is a lot of girl lately here who think that way. i think its partly because of their age, they are young and they dont give much importance to thinking about what they want, they are just going with the flow and basically acting out of self interest.
there are basically 2 sets of standards: the old traditional way, and the new individualistic way.
in my own opinion, both have good things and bad things, but my point is that there are 2 sets of standards.
a lot of younger people are flowing in between these 2 sets and not just women, everyone does it, they flow in between the two sets and specially if they dont think deeply about who they want to be , they end up just choosing whatever is best for their own selft interest at the moment, even if it creates a double stnadard.
look up "liquid modernity" and "liquid love" by sygmund bauman, its a great way to look at all these same ideas.
This is what feminism has done to women. They want the best of both worlds but none of the responsibilities that come with it. It's destroying relationships.
@javierGonzalaz: you are wrong, because you have a wrong projection. You think mistakenly that a male who is not traditional is feminine, passive and submissive. But thats only true for males who are either traditional (they are weak/limited) OR who are left wing feminist (also weak/limited). Both are not emancipated = intellectual limited, limited ability to act, helpless! Both are collectivist and this means depending on others and cultures and stereotypes. Dependencies is what makes you weaker, more limit. Thats why real alphas are always the ones who are more independent and think and do what they want. Just in case you did not notice. This means a traditional one acts stereotypic (= for smart females like dead, boring) as well as a anti-traditional left wing (= also collectivist, stereotypic). A real liberal emancipated person is individual and can select context by context which fits best. Sometimes acting classic and gentlemen like IF IT FITS and sometimes acting in a different way IF IT FITS. Collectivists cannot do that, because they are as said limited - a limited ability to act.
The argument that Mexican men can be too traditional is valid, and true for most of LatAm I'd say. But Mexican and other Latin-American women should ask themselves if the same isn't true for them too. Women raised in patriarchal cultures internalise patriarchal notions of masculinity too, and if a guy is nice and kind to them, they automatically see him as "not man enough", or even think he's homosexual. Foreign men may not fall into what patriarchal culture defines as "real, manly men", but they have the benefit of being white and (on the average) financially well off, two traits that "make up" for their lack of "traditional Latin-American manliness".
Bottom line is: yeah, Mexican and other LatAm men must be better, but Mexican and other LatAm women should do some soul-searching too and reconsider their expectations of men.
This
We like their money and passport
Wow wow are you holding women accountable for their actions mate!? That’s a no-no around here bro.
The fact that many people here say white = good and white = money astounds me.
I'm from Uruguay and I've been to Mexico and lived there for about 6 months. I'm slightly tall and have blondish hair with grayish green eyes, I'm standard in my country and can also seem like a normal dude in Argentina.
I caught all sorts of attention there, and I was specifically told about this weird internalized racism a lot of Mexicans have. The machismo culture and just the American wat of differentiating "races" was weird as all get out. What's more, is how other people from Latin American countries think this and other very old-fashioned things are "common". They are not, some countries just seem very backwards.
@@MoonOvIce what part of Mexico did you live in?
I've lived all over the world, (Including UK, France, Ukraine, Germany, Austria, Switzerland, Italy, Czech, Dubai, South Africa, California,Greece and now Mexico) and I've dated a lot of women from all over the world. I always expect to create a wonderful experience and of course pay for it (even if it's just friendly, or business and not romantic)... I have yet to find a culture where the man is NOT expected to pay. I don't believe this exists.
I´m from Holland and live in Barcelona. I think men in these cultures expect women to split the bill with them. The women for sure do not expect him to pay.
(from US living in Mexico) I've had several dates tell me they love me on the first or second date....or even when we were still just texting before meeting!!! (However, there are two degrees of "I love you" in Spanish.) In fact, I was just told yesterday and he was aware of this cultural difference, so we talked about it a bit. I told him, for me, I just want to say I like you, which translates to "Me gustas". He told me that is more for if you see someone on the street and you're intesrested in him, so you tell your friend, "Me gusta" (I like him). I've also had someone have my meet his entire family the day I met him, trying to be touchy in front of them as if we were actually a couple. The main struggle I'm having is people not knowing how to make plans. I'll tell them I'm interested in going on a date and throw out some days I'm free. One would expect that they would then return some days and times he is free, but instead he'll make some sort of not quite related comment like, "Oh nice, are you usually off on the weekends?" instead of ever answering directly.
He may be respectful so as not to be perceived as "pushy". On the other hand, he is "thinking", he has to look at some details before proposing alternatives. Doesn't want to be misunderstood, he is careful.
Hi Jenny. I know what you mean. My husband was the same when I met him. The time thing takes time to adapt to. In Mexican culture it’s important not to push. You’ve let him know your availability, if he is interested he’ll make plans with you, be busy with your own life. I have learned so much about myself from dating and now being married to a Mexican, I’ve learned to go with the flow and make time and space for life to happen. There is so much freedom in that.
@@Becoming_Mexican Absolutely RIGHT : In Latin America it is important NOT TO PUSH, otherwise it may be perceived as rude, impolite: a person (especially a lady) has to be respected. That's a gentleman's attitude. Good luck.
muchas gracias 🤩
In Spanish there's a difference with "Te quiero" and "Te amo" normally when you're dating someone they will tell you Te quiero, but Te amo, Is reserve tofor when you really feel you love the person.
I remember when I dated a German guy and I told him Te quiero, he literally thought I was telling him I love you😂 and I wasn't the case, I just said that I fancy him 🤣
So if someone tells you "Te quiero" don't worry, they don't mean they want to settle with you, they just appreciate spending some time with you 😉
Muy bueno! Me gusta mucho Mexico!
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Happy you liked!
This is fascinating to me. I was a adopted from Peru, and I grew up in white culture. I have never dated a latina woman, i have mostly dated white women. Recently I've been wanting to date Latina woman, but after watching this I must say. At this point in my life I'm over the extra drama in relationship. That goes with all woman. Hate to say but these Mexican women almost come across as American women. It turns out not really knowing what they really want in a relationship.
Are you American by any chance?
@@daniellarkins3849he's Peruvian adopted by white family, so he's pretty much Americanized
U won't know until you tried....
There is white and black latina woman . I don’t understand your phrase
Latinas and white americans are very different, they want macho men period and chilvary and to also be respected as a partber and decision maker
Great video! So many things to be said... There’s both toxicity and great things in every culture. Most people aren’t balanced and aren’t trying to heal their life wounds. Though there are some great women out there that are fun, loving, educated, creative, and wholesome we just have to filter them out. Clear and upfront communication is key.
Good luck to everyone out there looking for love!
Liberal Mexicans will tend to date outside their race/nationality. Conservative Mexicans will not.
there is reason why so many foreigners go to mexico city, and as someone from jalisco. im sorry this annoys me. these chilangos are more americanized. sorry
even people from tijuana is more mexican than ones in mexico city
ones who are atttractive mexicans are in campos, and they are very tradtiional
Dating an incredibly conservative Mexican man as an American with a British parent. There are exceptions. I think it also depends on how traditional your values are. We work because we're both religious (Catholic), have good family ties, and have the same views on parenting (once it's time to have kids). It varies.
@@ambermccurry5674 I wish you well in your marriage.
Not true 😅
@@Hardawayfits why not?
I have dated gorgeous Mexican women, sexy Hondurans, exotic Brazilians, German ladies, Indian and American and you know what I have learned the most? I'm still learning 😂😂
I could date a modern woman or a traditional woman. But I refuse to date a modern traditional. That's just a woman who wants to take the best parts of both while ignoring the accountability and responsibility. So if she wants me to think that she is independent and empowered, she'll have to prove it by going 50-50. If a woman is relying on a man to take care of her, she is neither of those things.
Well said
I’m a woman and I agree with this statement 100%
So he’ll go 50/50 too? Will he get his period? Will he birth half the baby? Will he do half the house chores and daily meal prep?
@@AnabethalightASMR No one is talking about getting married here. I said dating.
If marina isn't already married, something tells me she's about to be, being in mexico lol
I’m French, my wife is Mexican from Monterrey , and yes if I’m not jealous enough it’s because I don’t love her enough , if I don’t say I love you it’s because I don’t love her anymore etc etc 😅😅😅
I kinda get the comment about some toxic behaviour in courtship being glamorized or misappropriated as desirable trait.
As a Korean Canadian I know that in Korea alcohol consumption - which is I think the highest in the world - is encouraged and glamorized everywhere from TV drama to SM and such. It's crazy that they treat cannabis on par with heroin and cocaine, but alcohol which destroys more people than all drugs combined is a wonderful thing that brings people together and "lubricates" social relationships.
Likewise, to think that overt jealousy and physical and emotional abuse are ok as long as they are for the reason of passion, is loco. No behaviour that overtly tries to control someone else is anything good.
Argh! It's so hard to adapt. As someone who grow up with a german father and a romanian mother in Germany I often struggle which act of kindness or action is more appropriate. Everyone pays his own stuff (german way) or the lady is invited (romanian way).
Altough I must confess that I prefer the romanian approach. It's also easier to meet Romanians than Germans since they're more open like the Latinos and Latinas.
That's why I think I felt more comfortable in Colombia amongst people than in Germany.
I understand how you feel. It’s what ever you’re comfortable with and aligns with your values.
@@Becoming_Mexican
If it was up to me, I'd pay for the date. At least for the 1st ones. Because I'm the one who asked her out, so she's invited. Not that I don't see her as an equal partner, but by this I want to show that I'm really interested. Later she can pay if she insists, but for me small acts of love /kindness are sth. I'm okay with also. E.g. buying a new perfume for me with a smell she likes.
5:45 to 6:45 is basically mexican women in a nutshell
Did anyone else catch what the canadian modern woman was saying? I found it humorous she was surprised that her western woman ideas were not welcomed.
In a cross cultural relationship you need too meet your beloved half way. Be flexible, learn and understand an important part of his identity. It’s more than just ll earning the language to communicate. Cook the food, learn the slang, sing the songs embrace all of it for a truly magnetic connection
She's a walking red flag.
You know what's funny is how everyone thinks deportation is the worst thing for you , but honestly Mexico city and the people there feels better than America, deportation is like a prize in my opinion
Deportation to Mexico city would be hell for me. Other parts of the country are great tho.
mexico city is basically gringoville now, so many expats n foreigners want to go there, because mexico city is very very americanized
Generalizing is wrong
6:14 "Spend money on MeMeMeME! I simply cannot sit down with a coffee and talk to get to know you as I only care about you buying me an expensive dinner. Cause you know I washed my hear before the date"
Date in ur price range, sweetie
I like the latin american videos!
When a woman says happy life happy wife, I run like forest gump! What she really is saying is “Hey, it’s all about me or else”. No thanks
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Hence why I prefer the saying “happy spouse, happy house.”
I want a Mexican man 😭😭
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😂my brother just came back from Mexico 🇲🇽 on Tuesday, the Mexican women are very friendly and passionate. I think most women in Mexico 🇲🇽 prefer foreigners. They called my brother “Papi”.
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Passionate? Mexican girls are the most boring girls to date, well at least in my case
He was probably in the red light district. It is legal in Mexico and Asia, and this is why foreign men go there. Red light district in other worlds does not necessarily mean drug addicted woman like in the US. You actually find good looking women who are looking for foreign currency.
Well, surely your brother was in areas where there are prostitutes.
Most Mexican women do not say “papi”, that’s not common in Mexican Spanish. Mexicans aren’t really that passionate.
🙁I remember when I wanted to marry a Mexican men but years passed and things changed. Marrying them for being my own kind. years later they were not real Mexican.
What's considered real, are we talking cultural traditions or?
Being A traditional Mexican male is like being and thinking like a Pancho Villa or Zapata without all the violence if not needed.
Well, gotta pass on .Mexico. They're American women that speak Spanish. "I'm eendeepaindaint." A la verga.
Dating in Mexico City suck too much femist energy 😅
I live close to the American/Mexican border, and I see many attractive Mexican women on dating apps ... but they rarely speak English to me, and they don't want to cross the border ... so I am not able to date them.
5:45 Feminism ends when the bills comes :)
What if im not white 😭😭
3:42 a Canadian can be easily spotted by being sorry 😅
😂😂😂😂we do say sorry too much.
I am sorry for saying sorry , so sorry.
They make it harder than it has to be.
Black is your color, Marina!
That Karla wants sugardaddy😂😂😂
Middle-age man, I had a young lesbian best friend for several years and we always greeted each other with an informal "Luv Ya!" During that time I started dating a girl and said it without thinking, same way, but she took it a romantic "Love You." That was awkward.
Awesome video
What El Compa said at the end is true
It’s interesting that Mexican people interview like to date foreigners 😂
these are people from mexico city, they are very americanized, due to massive influx of gringos aka foreigners. because mexico city is basically design to replica of western nation
outside of mexico city, alot of mexicans dont like them at all
Its all money that matters in the end for women
What a sad life you live to generalize 50% of the population
Hahaha have you seen the way MALES act around other MALES with money?!? It’s like a mini-circle jerk 😂😂😂😂
That’s fine by me, nothings worse than women cares about other superficial things like height looks and six pack
It's almost as if men have pushed for centuries to be the "providers" and want their women to be in the home raising children therefore not able to gain any wealth on her own. Yall complain women want guys with money when you want women at home. Pick a lane
Rightfully so Mother Nature made it the way
Happy King, Happy Kingdom. None of this "happy wife, happy life" bullshit.
I have yet to meet a Mexican girl with a non-Mexican boyfriend/husband
I’ve met dozens of them.
There's a lot in the US
I am one.
There are a lot of those but most of them are gold diggers whom see their partners as their Visa to wealth and 1st world life.
right, because americans are not stubborn nor jealous nor controlling
You sound jealous 😂😂😂
[09:20] Welcome to OUR world, sweetheart.
if she speaks english, no gracias
I had a German friend and she had only dated Mexican 3 men, apparently she can't find one with her desirable shade of passion, they were either spoiled Mama's boys or one pure a**holes with extreme mommy and daddy issues. But she's got her own issues:)
I would love to date a latin woman though. I've met a number of them randomly, and culturally saying, should be super affectionate. But I also heard a lot of broken families exist in Mexico
They were probably not her type. It's fine. However, you can't make it seem like they're all like that.
RedPill is the answer
True😂😂😂
The pretty fun girl sitting during the interview with the white dress hit the nail on the head: if she’s going to spend a long time getting dolled up for the date, he definitely should pay. I suspect she will end up married to a good guy 😇
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Mex
🤦♂️If you want to be loved, never ever pay for a female. If you want to be used, go on and pay.
How hopeless you are
Doesn’t sound like you can afford to be dating rn. Maybe you should stick to ur day job? The advice track isn’t working out for you.
And for those of us who dont date the opposite gender? ..... Do we matter ?
One or more of the people we interviewed was gay actually. But it's tough to talk about gender roles and machismo when it comes to LGBTQ relationships
@@DatingBeyondBorders I agree, that would be a different conversation