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  • @charmaineblack4167
    @charmaineblack4167 Рік тому +385

    I am a Christian but I thank you for bringing me so much peace from your teachings. I am not familiar with Buddhism but am so happy I came across your channel. Every aspect of this video speaks to me because I am haunted by past memories. Thank you for your calm demeanor and teachings. 💕

    • @buskingkarma2503
      @buskingkarma2503 Рік тому +10

      I'm half Christian half Buddhist!😂 could never stop believing in the Lord! Have a blessed day sister!🙏❤

    • @Joe-tr2vk
      @Joe-tr2vk Рік тому +8

      ​@@buskingkarma2503 How is 50-50 possible?😂

    • @Joe-tr2vk
      @Joe-tr2vk Рік тому +18

      Budhism looks so scientific,apparently majority of their teachings aren't offensive to any other denomination unless one is against well being of human race which I believe all faiths are/should be about. I subscribed to this channel some time back and no regrets whatsoever. I am christian too. Cheers from East Africa

    • @Motaki666
      @Motaki666 Рік тому +16

      @@Joe-tr2vk Buddhism can be viewed more as a practice and a set of teachings, rather than a hardcore religion if that makes sense?

    • @Joe-tr2vk
      @Joe-tr2vk Рік тому +3

      @@Motaki666 You are right,I concur.

  • @aravindadharsh
    @aravindadharsh Рік тому +141

    Let your tears water the seeds of future success...... Namo Buddhaaya... 🙏🙏🙏

    • @Sidney-q7p
      @Sidney-q7p Рік тому +4

      ❤let your tears water the seeds of your future success ,what a lovely beautiful thing to say xx

    • @Annaksku1989
      @Annaksku1989 Рік тому +4

      Let your tears water the seeds of future success, Namo Buddhaaya🙏

    • @Unknownlll123
      @Unknownlll123 9 місяців тому +1

      I agree what a beautiful way to express your feelings. 🙂.

  • @sdkaluwitharana
    @sdkaluwitharana Рік тому +66

    Thinking about and worrying about the past is like dragging a boat on dry land. Thank you. My humble salutations to the Most Venerable Thero. Namo Buddhaya!

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH Рік тому

      He that is weary of sin, come:
      Through the Holy Spirit, God has put it on me to preach to those lost in the devil's deceit!
      I tell ye, truly, Jesus of Nazareth is the propitiation for the whole world's sins. He is the anointed one, for he is, Jesus Christ. God the Father has raised him from the dead; who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God! Angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him.
      Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life: no one comes to the Father, but by him. They who believe and are baptized with the Holy Spirit shall be saved; but they who believe not shall be damned. For they who believe not on him, shall die in their sins!
      I tell ye now to repent of your sins, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you'll receive the gift of the Holy Spirit upon asking the Father!
      There are *NO* sub-divisions of Christianity. You're either a disciple of Christ or not. A Christian is someone who follows God's word, not a religion. Who obey the Father and follow his will; not man's nor their own heart's. Unless you keep Jesus' commandments, think not the Holy Spirit will dwell within you!
      They who heed this message and did what was stated with an open heart to God...
      Read the Holy Bible (KJV) daily and every time before you read, pray to the Father and ask:
      "Lord I ask that you give me understanding of your word, that I interpret it the way you want me to, and none of my own. I ask you in Jesus' name, amen."
      1 John 2:2 KJV
      2 And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world.
      Acts 13:26-33 KJV
      26 Men and brethren, children of the stock of Abraham, *and whosoever among you feareth God, to you is the word of this salvation sent.*
      27 *For they that dwell at Jerusalem, and their rulers, because they knew him not, nor yet the voices of the prophets which are read every sabbath day, they have fulfilled them in condemning him.*
      28 And though they found no cause of death in him, yet desired they Pilate that he should be slain.
      29 *And when they had fulfilled all that was written of him, they took him down from the tree, and laid him in a sepulchre.*
      30 *But God raised him from the dead:*
      31 And he was seen many days of them which came up with him from Galilee to Jerusalem, who are his witnesses unto the people.
      32 *And we declare unto you glad tidings, how that the promise which was made unto the fathers,*
      33 God hath fulfilled the same unto us their children, in that he hath raised up Jesus again; as it is also written in the second psalm, Thou art my Son, this day have I begotten thee.
      1 Peter 3:22 KJV
      22 Who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God; angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him.
      John 14:6 KJV
      6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
      Mark 16:16 KJV
      16 He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.
      John 8:24 KJV
      24 I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins.
      Acts 2:38 KJV
      38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
      Luke 11:13 KJV
      13 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?
      John 14:21-24 KJV
      21 *He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.*
      22 Judas saith unto him, not Iscariot, Lord, how is it that thou wilt manifest thyself unto us, and not unto the world?
      23 Jesus answered and said unto him, *If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.*
      24 He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings: and *the word which ye hear is not mine, but the Father's which sent me.*

  • @moon_maybe
    @moon_maybe 8 місяців тому +9

    This man got me out of my darkest phase in life.Thank you so much. Namo buddhay 🙏.

  • @Abdulaziz-uj1pc
    @Abdulaziz-uj1pc Рік тому +184

    I am Muslim ☪️ But I find you really astonishing and want to know more from you ❤

    • @Raghu_378
      @Raghu_378 Рік тому +17

      I like u , your respect towards other religions,everyone should know all kinds religion culture . Keep respect each religion ☯️

    • @Abdulaziz-uj1pc
      @Abdulaziz-uj1pc Рік тому +5

      @Raghu_378 yeah you are right.I am learning good from all religions.

    • @sumaliherath
      @sumaliherath Рік тому +12

      Buddhism isnt A religion (although some haVe "made" it a religion including wiki.
      it's a philosophy/waY of life !

    • @Abdulaziz-uj1pc
      @Abdulaziz-uj1pc Рік тому +3

      @@sumaliherath will like to learn it

    • @Abdulaziz-uj1pc
      @Abdulaziz-uj1pc Рік тому +2

      @jeremiahm3026 thanks 😊

  • @suemilner9691
    @suemilner9691 Рік тому +39

    Bad memories haunt me … Child abuse I went through for many years …I’m going to try and do what you said .Buddha is healing me.I am Christian and I thank you x

  • @harithfernando4671
    @harithfernando4671 Рік тому +79

    Before I was an aggressive person but after my mother introduced me to this amazing channel and after hearing your preaches I have became a better son and a better brother thank you sadu❤.

    • @NeeshaFerdy
      @NeeshaFerdy Рік тому +3

      That is exactly what Buddha wanted from us ... for us to change for the better while being kind and compassionate towards themselves first ... like how the moon frees itself from a dark cloud to shine bright as a new and developing person ...🙏
      I wish you the best! 🙏

    • @cherylpa527
      @cherylpa527 Рік тому

    • @Unknownlll123
      @Unknownlll123 9 місяців тому

      Beautiful way of looking forward to the future. 🙏.

  • @MitaliPaul-w4d
    @MitaliPaul-w4d Рік тому +61

    Namo Buddhaya. Venerable Thero I'm always grateful to your precious teachings of Supreme Buddha.Lots of respect from India.

  • @jayavarshini2328
    @jayavarshini2328 Рік тому +56

    I don't remember how I got to know about this utube channel.
    But from the moment I started listening to these videos my life started changing
    Thank you so much sir
    Lots of respect from Andhra Pradesh, India🙏

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH Рік тому

      He with ears, hear:
      Through the Holy Spirit, God has put it on me to preach to those lost in the devil's deceit!
      I tell ye, truly, Jesus of Nazareth is the propitiation for the whole world's sins. He is the anointed one, for he is, Jesus Christ. God the Father has raised him from the dead; who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God! Angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him.
      Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life: no one comes to the Father, but by him. They who believe and are baptized with the Holy Spirit shall be saved; but they who believe not shall be damned. For they who believe not on him, shall die in their sins!
      I tell ye now to repent of your sins, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you'll receive the gift of the Holy Spirit upon asking the Father!
      There are *NO* sub-divisions of Christianity. You're either a disciple of Christ or not. A Christian is someone who follows God's word, not a religion. Who obey the Father and follow his will; not man's nor their own heart's. Unless you keep Jesus' commandments, think not the Holy Spirit will dwell within you!
      They who heed this message and did what was stated with an open heart to God...
      Read the Holy Bible (KJV) daily and every time before you read, pray to the Father and ask:
      "Lord I ask that you give me understanding of your word, that I interpret it the way you want me to, and none of my own. I ask you in Jesus' name, amen."
      1 John 2:2 KJV
      2 And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world.
      Acts 13:26-33 KJV
      26 Men and brethren, children of the stock of Abraham, *and whosoever among you feareth God, to you is the word of this salvation sent.*
      27 *For they that dwell at Jerusalem, and their rulers, because they knew him not, nor yet the voices of the prophets which are read every sabbath day, they have fulfilled them in condemning him.*
      28 And though they found no cause of death in him, yet desired they Pilate that he should be slain.
      29 *And when they had fulfilled all that was written of him, they took him down from the tree, and laid him in a sepulchre.*
      30 *But God raised him from the dead:*
      31 And he was seen many days of them which came up with him from Galilee to Jerusalem, who are his witnesses unto the people.
      32 *And we declare unto you glad tidings, how that the promise which was made unto the fathers,*
      33 God hath fulfilled the same unto us their children, in that he hath raised up Jesus again; as it is also written in the second psalm, Thou art my Son, this day have I begotten thee.
      1 Peter 3:22 KJV
      22 Who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God; angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him.
      John 14:6 KJV
      6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
      Mark 16:16 KJV
      16 He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.
      John 8:24 KJV
      24 I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins.
      Acts 2:38 KJV
      38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
      Luke 11:13 KJV
      13 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?
      John 14:21-24 KJV
      21 *He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.*
      22 Judas saith unto him, not Iscariot, Lord, how is it that thou wilt manifest thyself unto us, and not unto the world?
      23 Jesus answered and said unto him, *If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.*
      24 He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings: and *the word which ye hear is not mine, but the Father's which sent me.*

    • @shivrajnagashree9640
      @shivrajnagashree9640 7 місяців тому

      Hi

    • @jkamala5005
      @jkamala5005 6 місяців тому

      Me too

  • @MuhammadWaseem-n1m
    @MuhammadWaseem-n1m 9 місяців тому +20

    I am muslim but good knowledge is appreciated from anyone.

    • @flav7758
      @flav7758 5 місяців тому +1

      I am a Catholic but I do agree with some of Buddhist beliefs too. It's all different religions but one God.

  • @lettyyeow9389
    @lettyyeow9389 6 місяців тому +9

    I am a Christian too . But I am grateful I can listen to this daily and the teachings help to move on especially on past. memories God bless the teachings

  • @susanpage502
    @susanpage502 Рік тому +8

    I too am a Christian since I was 7yrs of age but I like to join in Buddhism gatherings its so peaceful, kind and caring it really is a learning curve of humanity

  • @miguk
    @miguk Рік тому +40

    I’ve been trying to forget my past memories and trauma, but I feel liked it’s embedded in my brain. It’s almost like an automatic reaction. My life’s been very difficult. But like you said not everything is in my control and I should start practicing how to let go. Thank you for this lovely vid!! ❤❤❤

    • @juratele
      @juratele Рік тому +1

      I wish you to succeed 🙏

    • @priyak1638
      @priyak1638 Рік тому +2

      I wish your past trauma fades away soon. Lots of love ❤️

    • @deeksha9416
      @deeksha9416 Рік тому

      God bless you dear

    • @amon8579
      @amon8579 2 місяці тому

      Welcome the thoughts with an open and warm heart! Welcome it instead of pushing it away and give it lots of kindness

  • @karenstone3625
    @karenstone3625 Рік тому +17

    “Let your tears water the seeds of your future success”…..thank you dear friend…🥰🙏

  • @parthsolanki4141
    @parthsolanki4141 Рік тому +37

    NAMO BUDHHAYA 💙💙💙
    Lots of love from Gujarat 🙏🙏

    • @ranjanikariyawasam4814
      @ranjanikariyawasam4814 Рік тому

      Nammo buddaya 🙏🙏🙏

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH Рік тому

      Blessed are they that hear the word of God, and keep it:
      Through the Holy Spirit, God has put it on me to preach to those lost in the devil's deceit!
      I tell ye, truly, Jesus of Nazareth is the propitiation for the whole world's sins. He is the anointed one, for he is, Jesus Christ. God the Father has raised him from the dead; who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God! Angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him.
      Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life: no one comes to the Father, but by him. They who believe and are baptized with the Holy Spirit shall be saved; but they who believe not shall be damned. For they who believe not on him, shall die in their sins!
      I tell ye now to repent of your sins, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you'll receive the gift of the Holy Spirit upon asking the Father!
      There are *NO* sub-divisions of Christianity. You're either a disciple of Christ or not. A Christian is someone who follows God's word, not a religion. Who obey the Father and follow his will; not man's nor their own heart's. Unless you keep Jesus' commandments, think not the Holy Spirit will dwell within you!
      They who heed this message and did what was stated with an open heart to God...
      Read the Holy Bible (KJV) daily and every time before you read, pray to the Father and ask:
      "Lord I ask that you give me understanding of your word, that I interpret it the way you want me to, and none of my own. I ask you in Jesus' name, amen."
      1 John 2:2 KJV
      2 And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world.
      Acts 13:26-33 KJV
      26 Men and brethren, children of the stock of Abraham, *and whosoever among you feareth God, to you is the word of this salvation sent.*
      27 *For they that dwell at Jerusalem, and their rulers, because they knew him not, nor yet the voices of the prophets which are read every sabbath day, they have fulfilled them in condemning him.*
      28 And though they found no cause of death in him, yet desired they Pilate that he should be slain.
      29 *And when they had fulfilled all that was written of him, they took him down from the tree, and laid him in a sepulchre.*
      30 *But God raised him from the dead:*
      31 And he was seen many days of them which came up with him from Galilee to Jerusalem, who are his witnesses unto the people.
      32 *And we declare unto you glad tidings, how that the promise which was made unto the fathers,*
      33 God hath fulfilled the same unto us their children, in that he hath raised up Jesus again; as it is also written in the second psalm, Thou art my Son, this day have I begotten thee.
      1 Peter 3:22 KJV
      22 Who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God; angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him.
      John 14:6 KJV
      6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
      Mark 16:16 KJV
      16 He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.
      John 8:24 KJV
      24 I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins.
      Acts 2:38 KJV
      38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
      Luke 11:13 KJV
      13 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?
      John 14:21-24 KJV
      21 *He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.*
      22 Judas saith unto him, not Iscariot, Lord, how is it that thou wilt manifest thyself unto us, and not unto the world?
      23 Jesus answered and said unto him, *If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.*
      24 He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings: and *the word which ye hear is not mine, but the Father's which sent me.*

    • @parthsolanki4141
      @parthsolanki4141 Рік тому

      @@ranjanikariyawasam4814 NAMO BUDHHAYA where are you from?

  • @elizabethkoeman1149
    @elizabethkoeman1149 Рік тому +12

    Love your analogy! It made me smile and -no I do not want to drag a boat behind me -. Too exhausting and I will think of that example when I am thinking of the pain I endured and right away I hope I think about dragging this boat . You are so loving and kind and are helping so many people. You are such a blessing ! Thank you sooo much.

  • @nadeeshadilangi9499
    @nadeeshadilangi9499 Рік тому +35

    I listened to this early in the morning and it’s made my day. Your words are healing my mind .Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us 🙏🙏🙏🙏Thruwan saranaii 🌸🌸Namo Buddhaya 🌸🙏

  • @Thisanga246
    @Thisanga246 Рік тому +23

    This is a very useful video for our lives..I am facing such a situation today..Now I am feeling better ..thank you so much..Namo Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏

  • @kalyaniperera6602
    @kalyaniperera6602 10 місяців тому +2

    When I listen to your preachings I am very relaxed. They make me listen continuously .
    Thank you very much venerable monk.
    Namo Buddhaya!
    May Triple Gem bless you to serve the world!

  • @naveenpn4142
    @naveenpn4142 11 місяців тому +2

    I want to study all religion and makes to heal from the major teachings of that from this and thankyou to heal my mind from your beautiful sayings...... ❤

  • @seethap4571
    @seethap4571 14 днів тому

    I am so happy to follow these teachings daily. I am a catholic and find these are exactly what Jesus taught us explained in a much simpler way. God moves in different ways, through You, teaching us peace and calm of mind. Thank you. God bless you.

  • @GabrielLe868
    @GabrielLe868 Рік тому +24

    I lost my pet almost a month ago and I still feel grieving deeply in my heart and I know someday I shall forget him, but it’s not easy until I meet him in the Rainbow Bridge! 😭😭😭 Namo Budhaya🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @limbenglee
      @limbenglee Рік тому +1

      My dear parrot too.

    • @TheSlader321
      @TheSlader321 Рік тому +8

      Don’t worry he’ll probably be reborn in a better realm in the cycle of reincarnation. Maybe as a human.

    • @Himaa2515
      @Himaa2515 Рік тому +3

      Omg I know that pain 😢❤

    • @indaypederivlogs
      @indaypederivlogs Рік тому +1

      I totally agree with you😘

    • @annemarie8493
      @annemarie8493 6 місяців тому +3

      You will never forget your pet. But one day you will remember him without the sad feelings. And think back of all the good times you had together with a little smile on your face. 💕

  • @TKouklaki
    @TKouklaki Рік тому +8

    Thank you again for the light you spread on us ! I would like to add that only if we leave our past memories to fade away we might be reborn to live the life in its fullest, living the present and stay alert . Namo Buddhaya !

  • @annalizapuruganan6319
    @annalizapuruganan6319 Рік тому +11

    Every time I'm watching and listening to your videos it bring calmness in my inner self,you always caught my attention,I love the vibe ,purity of your soul ,a compassionate heart ..thanks for your thoughts..Namo Buddhaya 🙏

  • @riteshpandit1282
    @riteshpandit1282 Рік тому +1

    Lord Buddha teachings are for all human beings to live peaceful life that is main principle of Buddhism 😊🙏
    Namo Budhay 🙏
    Sabee sukhi bhavantu 🙏

  • @sanju0550
    @sanju0550 Рік тому +2

    Whenever i'm mentally stressed without thinking single second I come to this channel and gives me more and more calm to my brain...namo buddhyaya 💗🙏🏻

  • @_A_M_I_T_
    @_A_M_I_T_ Рік тому +7

    Direct that energy to achieve something meaningful in your life, you will get so busy that those bad memories will automatically fade away, and slowly you will feel so light. It worked for me. Tested & proven 💯🙏🏻

  • @TheZenMindfulness
    @TheZenMindfulness Рік тому +3

    I totally agree w you on fading the bad memories out. Because I stopped thinking about it and moved on. Now I can’t really remember how I felt because I started paying attention to my current life’s and tasks. It’s very hard to get over a trauma but I think the best way to get over it is to let it fade out over time like waves in the ocean. Thank you for this wonderful lesson!

  • @mariabrookes9540
    @mariabrookes9540 Рік тому +4

    I am ,still heartbreaking the loss of my eldest and loving daughter 2021.i left the place had a bad memories and moved another place ,but pains still here in my heart and brain .I came across your channel and new subscriber from Uk ❤❤.Thanks

  • @ritashambhu9954
    @ritashambhu9954 Рік тому +8

    You are really the soul of the Gautam Buddha
    Thank you so much sir for this great suggestions
    Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏

  • @labonimim6608
    @labonimim6608 Рік тому +6

    I always find calmness on your face Father.I feel very calm when I listen to you. I want to know more about Karma.Namo buddhaya🙏

  • @norikgevorgyan6787
    @norikgevorgyan6787 Рік тому +2

    Let your tears to water the seeds of your futures success.. great line!

  • @August5676
    @August5676 Рік тому +7

    you have a calming voice, i was guided by one of your videos. thank you

  • @AlrizSusulan
    @AlrizSusulan Рік тому

    yes, it is very hard to forget past memories, its like an identity that you have built and live for. its a compilation of your life stories and journeys with someone that you love, that is for me. sometime i forget but most of the time it passes my toughs living me a smile or a tears in my ayes. but all this life experiences including this past memories, I give thanks for all of this. it put me back to the ground and made me reflect and realize that life should not be perfect nor rich with money or materiel things, just to be true to it. this memories for me will not fade but one day they wont hurt me anymore but a reflection and a lesson for a better being.

  • @Sage555n
    @Sage555n Рік тому +5

    Thank you for sharing wisdom strategies for releasing and removing negative past memories, traumas, all past pain remembrances. I was dealing with this just this week and struggling to overcome how it was adversely effecting my mind. Peace of mind was a struggle. However; as the days pass, I am thinking and feeling better. Please pray for those of us struggling with this and I hope that you will approach this topic again in the near future. Much gratitude for all you do.

  • @finger806
    @finger806 Рік тому +5

    Don't know what to say, but needed the most right now .
    Thank you ❤

  • @wellingtonsboots4074
    @wellingtonsboots4074 Рік тому +1

    Feeling my trauma today and it is scary. I know they are just thoughts. Thank you, this was good to watch

  • @Chamindusirit
    @Chamindusirit 10 місяців тому +1

    thanks mahamewnawa and most venerable kiribathgoda ghnanananda thero.

  • @manjulanaveen5953
    @manjulanaveen5953 10 місяців тому

    I started watcing ur video and now i continuously watching daily it is helping me to ocercome my overthinking

  • @RaghavanM-o4v
    @RaghavanM-o4v Рік тому +2

    "Thinking and worrying about the past is like dragging a boat on the dry land....". thank you Sir for your precious advice.🌹🙏Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @mariehaverty8209
    @mariehaverty8209 Рік тому +2

    Who would I be if I didn’t think I were in control, as soon as I realised this the ego started to shrink. Not fully there yet, still a work in progress. Love these videos, thank you. ❤

  • @BAESZMUSIC
    @BAESZMUSIC 11 місяців тому

    Sir, you don't even know (i think haha), that you're doing such a wonderful job. These teachers are already there, but the way you're explaining it is so beautiful. I was thinking of going to Therapy. Because I didnt really understand why I felt so lost and depressed. I miss old memories and I always felt so stuck. But, just by watching 4 of your videos. It saved me from every mental issue! Thank you sooo much!!!

  • @nina_08xx
    @nina_08xx Рік тому +1

    Your blue aura shines so brightly💙

  • @sripriyaganesh623
    @sripriyaganesh623 10 місяців тому +1

    Your words are so healing....

  • @keobee13
    @keobee13 Рік тому

    I been suffered. From the past memories more than thirty years thank you so much I will work on that.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @flowergirl7260
    @flowergirl7260 Рік тому

    This is so true. I'm witholding and not doing the things that make me happy because i have held on to past mistakes and memories. Acupuncture and walking have been helping, too. Thank you.

  • @nickchandra4890
    @nickchandra4890 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for this valuable sermon. We have to let go of the past demons to reduce our suffering. I read a terrible true story about a man who was taken to a prison together with his older brother and his father by a terrible regime in Asia. There was only one space left in the truck and the prison guard told the father select the son you want to live. His father had no choice but to select him and they killed his father and brother in front of him and took him away and years later he escaped. He couldn't forget the look on his brother's face. He talks about the years of trauma he went through including seeing nightmares when his father appeared in his dreams and told him I made a mistake. I selected the wrong son. Every time I think about past bad memories I think about this man and say to myself your problems are nothing compared to the trauma he went through. This helps me to cope. In life everybody has bad memories. Let them fade away. This man said to himself at the end there are no cosmic blessings or beatings. It is only in your hands. Buddha said the same. Namo Buddhaya!

  • @bincybenny4483
    @bincybenny4483 10 місяців тому +1

    Your words are truly amazing ad and it make me calm and peaceful

  • @CherokeeBird
    @CherokeeBird Рік тому +11

    I needed to hear this today. Thank you ❤

  • @helenai13
    @helenai13 Рік тому +3

    The good thing about the theory is that you suggest on how to let go of certain situations. As hard as the mental exercises you suggest may be, you guide us on how to work them through. Thank you!

  • @anitagangopadhyay9333
    @anitagangopadhyay9333 9 місяців тому +1

    Salutations to you. I will try to follow your guidelines to forget bad memories and also mistakes I have done due to immatuirity which always haunt me .
    Pronam.

  • @Manike-ub2nw
    @Manike-ub2nw Рік тому

    Today after listening to this sermon I understood how to let your thoughts pass without judgement. Thank you so much for clearing that. Theruwan saranai hamuduruwane. Namo buddhaya 🙏

  • @elsie123
    @elsie123 11 місяців тому

    It is so true about what he said... don't try to forget the bad memories... let it fade away... like healing a wound... it takes time to heal a wound. We need to give less attention to it and let it fade away.

  • @chamainjayesekara5387
    @chamainjayesekara5387 Рік тому

    Your teachings have changed me n keep up the preachings I'm a Christian but I love these preachings

  • @growingoaks
    @growingoaks Рік тому +2

    It’s not about forgetting, it’s about accepting and moving in. We need to shed our attachment to the event(s)

  • @cisigaming1370
    @cisigaming1370 7 місяців тому

    Hi I am christian but your wisdom is amazing it's help me a lot to forget and let go the things I I did from the past

  • @Yogaa2.0
    @Yogaa2.0 Рік тому +1

    This channel is my inner peace❤...namo buddhaya🙏

  • @angelachinyere8266
    @angelachinyere8266 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for always feeding our minds with truth and reality

  • @ipsitabehera151
    @ipsitabehera151 5 місяців тому

    The world is not totally under ur control...❣️

  • @ThushariWeerasinghe
    @ThushariWeerasinghe 10 місяців тому

    I am always grateful to your precious teaching patterns.

  • @Unknownlll123
    @Unknownlll123 9 місяців тому +1

    Amazing video, this is just what I needed to hear, life doesn't feel positive at the minute but with all of your advice and teachings I'm sure I'll get there. 😊.

  • @SarahBlaylock-u8g
    @SarahBlaylock-u8g Рік тому

    You have such a strong character and a warm heart. You are truly one of a kind. Disapland and dedicated 😊❤😊

  • @lindavezina6224
    @lindavezina6224 Рік тому +2

    For me I learned to let hurt memories go. And it's true with time it fades away. I'm free of pain. And at 63 I know how fast the time went. I try to stay in the present.. I don't look at old pictures because for me. Some are good but then I can have a bad trigger from the past. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @NORTHEASTFRANCISVLOGS
      @NORTHEASTFRANCISVLOGS Рік тому

      GOD BLESS YOU AUNTY...IM WORKING FAR AWAY IN OTHER COUNTRY THE PERSON I MISS MOST IS MY MOM SHE IS AROUND YOUR AGE ..SHE LIVE FAR AWAY

  • @Terradoc1
    @Terradoc1 3 місяці тому

    With my past there has often been the sense of guilt and regret of my actions... and I find that this method of ignoring/giving less attention is slow, and I'm not learning my lessons from the past by ignoring it.
    For myself, I find it more powerful to do journaling when my mind is strong after doing meditation - to look at the past problem deeply and write down all feelings about it. I then learn my lesson from the past - and then the emotion attached to the past will receede - and the thoughts with it.
    If emotion is strongly attached the past experience, I find that besides journaling, it can help bringing up the memory when the mind is powerful in meditation. I bring up the memory - emotions come - I let go into meditation until emotions fade - then I bring up the memory again. Each time I cycle through this, the emotional charge lessens until there is no more reaction.
    The latter I would only recommended when meditation is deep, tranquil and peaceful.

  • @jackieward3971
    @jackieward3971 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤you have changed my life,i wish i knew all the advice you give us all year's ago, better late than never,thank you ,be safe

  • @yapfah5228
    @yapfah5228 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤Nano Buddha. Thank you, Venerable Monk. A very very fantastic reminder. Thank you. VENERABLE MONK ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @IreshaSanjeewani-g9c
    @IreshaSanjeewani-g9c 10 місяців тому +1

    Let your tears water the seeds of your future success 🙏

  • @Christynmaine
    @Christynmaine Рік тому

    Hard to believe you have had difficulties in your past. You are so at peace. 🙏

  • @waheebaachmat7280
    @waheebaachmat7280 Рік тому

    Thank you For spiritual message. Thank you. This 4years made me just have to release our past it is like it was ment to happened they drove it out of the world to confess over the air because the Devil couldn't see I made it so far in life and that the Almighty gave me more chances to have to move on Thank yoy

  • @Med.Aspire
    @Med.Aspire Рік тому +4

    How many of us never leave the such interesting motivation ⭐🌟
    Let's gather here...❤❤

  • @reneeamarasiri8210
    @reneeamarasiri8210 Рік тому

    What Lord Buddha taught is amazing. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @tiurinaabeygunaratne3677
    @tiurinaabeygunaratne3677 Рік тому

    Thank you, budusaranayi swamin wahansa, namo buddhaya 🙏🙏

  • @nathaniellaja657
    @nathaniellaja657 7 місяців тому

    Although I am a Christian, but I found out that many of the Buddhist teaching and wisdom are great and mind liberating. I just fear that I am commiting blasphemy for saying this, but to be honest, Buddhist teaching is really enlightening ❤ Bible too have many great, good and Godly wisdom❤️🤗

  • @TeresitaChanRivera
    @TeresitaChanRivera Рік тому +1

    I was enlightened with your words,I had sad memories and still clinging to them,you're right,I should let go and be happy,thank you😊

  • @blackberrybunny
    @blackberrybunny Рік тому

    I wish I could be one iota of what you are. I'm struggling, but still staggering and stumbling along the path. Your wisdom pulls me back onto the lane, in the right direction again. I may still be staggering, but I'm trying. Thank you.

  • @victorianakazwe
    @victorianakazwe 8 місяців тому

    Your teaching has brought peace and healing in my life❤

  • @popibarua6469
    @popibarua6469 Рік тому +3

    Nomo Buddhaya. Venerable I am always flowing your lecture,which help me to forget different problem in my previous life.
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @LoganLee-jf7rk
    @LoganLee-jf7rk Рік тому

    Atheist, practicing Buddhism. Thank you friend for for the spiritual healing.

  • @byagarimuthyam5347
    @byagarimuthyam5347 Рік тому

    Not everything our control ,so dont think about others word....u love with happy soul..namo budhaya 🙏🏾

  • @raajeishacharrymaamother9318

    Sir with due respect all your teachings are meaningful and thoughtful but you have now leaving a monk life you have nothing to lose but I am in leaving family life in which is very difficult to apply your thoughts but watching your videos are peaceful and mind relaxing,it seems water in brain settles down and have peaceful effect on my body......Namo buddhay

  • @weil9525
    @weil9525 8 місяців тому +1

    Great teaching. Not everything is under our control. The only control we have is how we think and see things. Past and painful memories should be viewed as just a "thought". Don't give the thought too much attention (ie. try not to think about it, not to discuss about it, and let it die off). Perhaps when the "thought" appears, try counting 20 to 1 to distract thought patterns. Perhaps do deep breathing exercises to distract our minds. Hopefully over time, the bad "thought" would just fade away.

  • @deepikavishwakarma7806
    @deepikavishwakarma7806 Рік тому +1

    Dear thero,
    You are totally right we always see dark side of our past memories , we always see half glass which is empty but why , why we can't see bright side why we can't see our half glass is full.
    We all have bad and good memories but what we do we hold our past bad memories tightly. See the rose plant it has very beautiful flowers and thorns also.
    Good memories like flowers which are beautiful and colourful and bad memories like thorns which are painful.
    It's totally depend on us what we choose
    Flowers or thorns.
    Theruwan saranai🙏.

  • @marylathapriya1705
    @marylathapriya1705 Рік тому

    Thank you soo much for this video. Because I can't forget my past love affair, eventhough I try to forget my past kills me. Bt through ur teaching wil try to practice in my life. Pls give many videos based on how to forget love failure

  • @Mallikashan995
    @Mallikashan995 Рік тому +3

    So beautifully said n explained
    Thank you so much
    I really needed this wake up call
    Namo Buddhaya 🙏

  • @forestgirl7369
    @forestgirl7369 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤ This channel is the only support system for me...Blessed to watch this also. Giving to a heart full of gratitude for Venerable Thero,🙏🙏🙏 Namobuddhya!!!

  • @kavitharani7214
    @kavitharani7214 Рік тому

    Thank you Guruvugaaru 🙏🙏🙏

  • @pappnuvenkatpadma
    @pappnuvenkatpadma Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much guruji. Your preachings have calmed my mind and soothed my pain. 💛✨

  • @kylerdad123
    @kylerdad123 Рік тому +3

    Thank you, Sifu! This lecture helped me a lot this morning. Namo amitofu ☸️!

  • @BodorJozsi-x7k
    @BodorJozsi-x7k Рік тому

    Nem tehettem mást kétfele nem tudtam szakadni. Így meg nyúgszunk mindhárman ez van🤷‍♂️❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @thilakshikamurugeshwaran3996
    @thilakshikamurugeshwaran3996 Рік тому +2

    Every words of you is priceless. Keep doing these kind of videos more for struggling people.🙏😊

  • @CarolynLajet-x5i
    @CarolynLajet-x5i 5 місяців тому

    Hi brother you are cirrect if you hae a oeace of mind or inner oeace you got afeeling of having a light heart and contented no hangups no remose no blames no hurt feeng let the days flows no barrier only smooth sailing if you control not to be obsess with earthly desires.only If you know your delf and you know God you can achieve inner peace Thankyou God bless you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bishnugautam4512
    @bishnugautam4512 Рік тому

    Let your tear water the seeds of your future success. Wow!

  • @Godblessmylove
    @Godblessmylove Рік тому +1

    God told me, be good and be kind and I did but When someone treated me unfairness, I just pray to god and let god take care of it ❤️🌹, Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @KolokaiKalai
    @KolokaiKalai 5 місяців тому

    A great teacher..Thankyou so much for your words of wisdom...💯🌿🙏

  • @lensoprezole5322
    @lensoprezole5322 Рік тому +1

    Hello dear monk, you help me a lot with your videos. Thank you very much. From a french viewer.

  • @sweetdevil686
    @sweetdevil686 Рік тому

    It's very very difficult & this sleepless night is a result of the past memories haunting 😢

  • @SUSAN-ix5uu
    @SUSAN-ix5uu Рік тому

    Thank you young brother...thanks for the advice. ❤.......Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @josephb2689
    @josephb2689 5 місяців тому

    I love this man god bless him

  • @shanikamercia5426
    @shanikamercia5426 Рік тому +1

    Peaceful advice thanks a lot 🙏❤️🙏

  • @IndraRatnayake-y2i
    @IndraRatnayake-y2i Рік тому

    Blessings of the Noble Triple Gem .May u hv good Health