Why divorce if you’re both good people?

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  • Опубліковано 23 гру 2024

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  • @HalalFitLife
    @HalalFitLife 6 днів тому +12

    One of the things that we learn from Iman and from Islam is that we don't concern ourselves which are none of our concern or business. I'm sorry if that's harsh but it's none of our business. Just because someone goes online and shares their experiences doesn't give us the right to question their experiences or scrutinize and tear apart their lives. That's just filthy and it's unnecessary. Jazak Allaah Khairan for the videos sister. This is good work ur doing and it's necessary for the Ummah I believe (especially in English).

  • @roushanyass7516
    @roushanyass7516 6 днів тому +17

    Salam Amirah, Forget the negative comments, your knack for staying calm and keeping your husband's dignity intact during tough times is really impressive. You are absolutely a real treasure...

  • @TheMuslimMarriagePodcast
    @TheMuslimMarriagePodcast 6 днів тому +3

    ASalaam Alaykom dearest Sister. I am a Relationship Coach for Muslim women, and I have been previously divorced. Alhamdulilah. Your grace and wisdom in this moment is absolutely beautiful, TabarakAllah. I don't think you are in need of any advice or input from myself or anyone else. But in case it is helpful, I wanted to let you know that you are not alone. And that whatever negativity comes your way from people online is not representative of the incredible community you have built. Your Qadr is between you and Allah and for any human being to interject and say "But" or "What if" to what was already Written before any of us existed is a state of mind that I will never understand. We learn our lessons wherever they present themselves, and accept our Qadr because Allah Knows that which we do not. And Alhamdulilah. Jazaa K'Allah Khayr for the incredible work that you do, and May Allah Subhaana Wa Ta'Alaa Reward you in this world and the next for being such an asset to our Ummah. Ameen.

  • @meganlebon5891
    @meganlebon5891 6 днів тому +4

    I am a Christian, but I respect anyone’s religious views. I recently came across your videos and I appreciate the instruction on Vaginismus as I have a dear friend who is working on this. I share your videos with her. Additionally the insights that you give on marriage are useful as I am unmarried. Christian Muslim principles are similar in many ways. I appreciate your candor regarding your divorce and how you and the ex partner have placed the children at the forefront. I wish blessings upon you, the ex and your children/extended family. Thank you for sharing wisdom :)

  • @shamimab83
    @shamimab83 6 днів тому +3

    Firstly, social media has spoilt people into thinking that we can have access to a person’s personal life completely, we need to leave what does not concern us.
    Secondly, people are so used to hearing of bad divorces that it doesn’t seem possible that 2 previously married people can have an amicable relationship post divorce, it is possible and can work, it shouldn’t be so shocking.

  • @Criticalthinker1912
    @Criticalthinker1912 6 днів тому +9

    Salaam sister.
    Please ignore people and you don’t need to reveal anything to anyone.
    May Allah SWT make things easy for you and your ex husband, Aameen.

  • @aliyualhajirabiu58
    @aliyualhajirabiu58 6 днів тому +5

    Things are not always as people assume. Keep moving and may Allah give a better replacement to live together in peace, love, tranquility and rahma till jannatul firdaus. I will advice you close such chapter and forge ahead! Barakallahu fik

  • @ibrahimquadri4782
    @ibrahimquadri4782 6 днів тому

    Ma Shaa Allah, you have demonstrated a lot of wisdom and maturity.
    May Allah increase you in wisdom

  • @hirasheikh6201
    @hirasheikh6201 6 днів тому +3

    Zaid (R) and Zainab (R) got divorced. They were both extremely righteous. Incompatibility is a thing.

  • @fayazahamed8663
    @fayazahamed8663 6 днів тому

    Thanks for being honest about this. I really appreciate this!

  • @mariaawad1956
    @mariaawad1956 5 днів тому +1

    Asslam alaikum wa Rahmatullah wa barakatuhu. Sister Amira. You don’t have to justify yourself to no one except Allah swt. Whatever anyone says or does is quite frankly none of their business. You carry on with the good work that you are doing and that is serving the Muslim ummah with guidance and advice. Your private life is your own and for no body to judge. You’ve done a great job. Keep doing what you are doing. May Allah swt bless you and grant you the very best in this life and the hereafter. Ameen.

  • @Daybreakhasme
    @Daybreakhasme 6 днів тому

    It happens to the best of us. People's actions reveals in due time.

  • @Boss-gk8kc
    @Boss-gk8kc 6 днів тому

    May Allah make it easy for all of you. It’s a sad story but it’s in the best interest of everyone involved.

  • @Khadijah_time
    @Khadijah_time 6 днів тому +8

    As salaamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh my dear sister.
    Habibti. I’m so saddened that you had to explain any parts of your private life that you weren’t prepared to do so. Keep steadfast in your faith. The shaytan will whisper to you and through others in an attempt to make it harder. He has NO power.
    Unfortunately, the type of platform that is great for helping others, is also full of challenges and people that are at different levels of imaan.
    I wish you well in your journey. May Allah give you ease, comfort, peace, and happiness.

  • @m9801893
    @m9801893 6 днів тому

    I think 🤔 your soo cool, seriously, the way you speak and say it how it is and should be said, it’s non of anyone business, it’s between, you and your lord and him, people don’t seem to recognise, when the time comes each grave has room for one ☝️ not anyone else, you can create a room in the grave for 2, 3, but no one not a single person will jump in with you neither parents, husbands and wife or kids, that where the bucket stops, keep up the fantastic work but ultimately you take time out to look after number 1, mental health is very important, mostly overlooked in our cultures but it’s crucial for survival, may Allah bless you and give you patience, peace ✌️ and success Ameen, remember you one seriously cool chick, don’t forget those words from me, great wisdom and intellectual knowledge you given to many

  • @luluwachedjari3299
    @luluwachedjari3299 2 дні тому

    Salam elikom sisters and brothers I am not into all this I don’t wanna marry and I am already in love with someone who I can only be together with in firdaouss, please help me! Please make duaa for me! I don’t want to harm anyone by getting married to them and I deeply despise anything that comes with marriage, the children, the responsibility, being the only one left to my mother I don’t and can’t leave her on her own, to make it clear I have all reasons to not get married and I ask Allah for this daily and from you to pray for me that my duaa becomes reality, the love of my life is not in this world possible but in firdaouss it is! Thank you! Thank you tremendously for your douaas and be rewarded by Allah sobhenou with joy health and all the best of both worlds!

  • @berkamp9832
    @berkamp9832 6 днів тому

    The answer is Mahdi Tajani

  • @khanmufassir9115
    @khanmufassir9115 6 днів тому +1

    Insha Allah may you be blessed with a loving, kind husband who brings joy and peace to your life. May your marriage be filled with happiness, understanding, and mutual respect.

  • @ironwillie7666
    @ironwillie7666 6 днів тому

    How can one make a promise, invite god as your witness, and then just break your promise your husband and god then still look people in the eye and pretend that your next promise to god will be real?