Couldn’t be happier for all your support throughout the course. I took the course with Amirah and I over came vaginismus because of her. If you suffer from vaginismus I recommend her course!
Thank you for such a caring, compassionate take. There's a real issue of prioritising men's needs while neglecting women's which shows a lack of respect or understanding of women and unfortunately it's so common even in Islamic speeches. It's incredibly sad because people in vulnerable positions suffer unnecessary.
Oh Allah please make this easier for her and give her to strength to overcome this, Ameen. The vaginismus will never get better with a man like that in bed with her! She will never feel relaxed and comfortable with her husband and that is so vital when trying to help the condition - I hope she has the courage to leave him because he is the ONE and ONLY person that should be holding her hand through this and praying for her to overcome vaginismus. The husband is a disgrace!
I believe there should be more Islamic education and all those misconceptions like having 4 wives should be cleared up. The purpose of multiple wives was centric to the era in which Islam was introduced. At the time, during wars many women were left homeless and widows. There was a shortage of men. The only way those women could've been helped was if a man was allowed to have more than one wife. Also, justice is taken into consideration when you decide to marry for the second time. Justice doesn't simply mean giving equal property, care to all the wives. It should also entail emotional justice, so if you ask your first wife if you can marry again and you feel that she may be emotionally hurt and cannot recover at all, then it will not be "justice" to marry again. Just stick to one wife.
@jahongirtoshkent9031 Then men shouldn't. But I've seen plenty of women who are okay with polygamy. If there is equal justice and everyone is happy, nothing is wrong. The reason Qur'an doesn't restrict this option to the old era is because a similar situation may arise in the future eg warfare, more female orphans in a particular society. Hence, doors are open.
There is nothing like toxic masculinity. Please stop this phrases. This guy is not well raised by parents and didn't read seerah and quran to understand how to treat wives. . He need to work on his Iman and do self analysis. Be nice to his wife.
Amirah, I really appreciate your vids. I’m getting to know someone right now and he is serious about getting married- inshallah it will happen if it’s beneficial for us. I was just wondering (I know it’s personal and none of my business) but what is the reason for your divorce? I can help but be curious
I'm so glad you enjoy watching my videos. I won't share the private details of specifically why I got divorced. There simply came a time within the last couple of years in my marriage, where my ex-husband and I realised we were no longer compatible and we had grown apart.
Have to admit you should rename from Your Expertise From Certified Muslim Sex educator therapiest to Islamic Marriage Expert, You Sugguest more about Marraige( When to seek divorce, Who is a redflag and Even just on basis of One side Story Not interested in Listing to Story from other side ) than about the issue for which they reached you,
Couldn’t be happier for all your support throughout the course.
I took the course with Amirah and I over came vaginismus because of her. If you suffer from vaginismus I recommend her course!
I'm so glad you benefitted from my course!
Thank you for such a caring, compassionate take. There's a real issue of prioritising men's needs while neglecting women's which shows a lack of respect or understanding of women and unfortunately it's so common even in Islamic speeches. It's incredibly sad because people in vulnerable positions suffer unnecessary.
Oh Allah please make this easier for her and give her to strength to overcome this, Ameen.
The vaginismus will never get better with a man like that in bed with her! She will never feel relaxed and comfortable with her husband and that is so vital when trying to help the condition - I hope she has the courage to leave him because he is the ONE and ONLY person that should be holding her hand through this and praying for her to overcome vaginismus.
The husband is a disgrace!
Leave that guy; he's abusing you! He's a toxic man, and he doesn't love you. Go, go go
I believe there should be more Islamic education and all those misconceptions like having 4 wives should be cleared up. The purpose of multiple wives was centric to the era in which Islam was introduced. At the time, during wars many women were left homeless and widows. There was a shortage of men. The only way those women could've been helped was if a man was allowed to have more than one wife. Also, justice is taken into consideration when you decide to marry for the second time. Justice doesn't simply mean giving equal property, care to all the wives. It should also entail emotional justice, so if you ask your first wife if you can marry again and you feel that she may be emotionally hurt and cannot recover at all, then it will not be "justice" to marry again. Just stick to one wife.
no woman allows hierhusband to marry to another, in this age..
@jahongirtoshkent9031 Then men shouldn't. But I've seen plenty of women who are okay with polygamy. If there is equal justice and everyone is happy, nothing is wrong. The reason Qur'an doesn't restrict this option to the old era is because a similar situation may arise in the future eg warfare, more female orphans in a particular society. Hence, doors are open.
Why not marry more than one wife if Allah has I Allowed why stick to one.
In Shaa Allah I will have 2 wifes
Why not marry more than one wife if Allah has I Allowed why stick to one.
There is nothing like toxic masculinity. Please stop this phrases. This guy is not well raised by parents and didn't read seerah and quran to understand how to treat wives. . He need to work on his Iman and do self analysis. Be nice to his wife.
The sad part of your work is wearing a hijab.
The sad part of my work is: comments like yours
Amirah, I really appreciate your vids. I’m getting to know someone right now and he is serious about getting married- inshallah it will happen if it’s beneficial for us. I was just wondering (I know it’s personal and none of my business) but what is the reason for your divorce? I can help but be curious
I'm so glad you enjoy watching my videos. I won't share the private details of specifically why I got divorced. There simply came a time within the last couple of years in my marriage, where my ex-husband and I realised we were no longer compatible and we had grown apart.
@ thank you for responding Amirah! Inshallah Allah will replace it with something even better for you (ameen) ❤️
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR
Have to admit you should rename from Your Expertise From Certified Muslim Sex educator therapiest to Islamic Marriage Expert, You Sugguest more about Marraige( When to seek divorce, Who is a redflag and Even just on basis of One side Story Not interested in Listing to Story from other side ) than about the issue for which they reached you,