THE UGLY SIDE OF WORKING ABROAD PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO TALK ABOUT FT OVERSEAS NURSE TOSSIN |
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
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In this video my friend , Tossin an overseas nurse from Nigeria currently working as a nurse in the uk shares details of the bullying, discrimination and mental trauma she went through as a new nurse in the uk 🇬🇧.
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I am asian and I'm also a witness of this racism as well, when I was a pre registered nurse the carers were really ordering me around and one even ordered me to say "come here" with their hand signal. They can't believe that I am an experienced nurse and is laughing at every decision that I make like I'm stupid and all. I can't understand them for the first few months and is usually silent when they're talking.
Tips: remember to love yourself, these people who loves to bully us are miserable ones and don't let them get into your system, and yes, have a relationship with the Lord 🙏
Awwww sorry about what you had to go through. Do you want to share on my channel ?
Nanelle dear I’m glad I was able to share a bit of my story with everyone willing to listen. ❤️
You’re a strong woman to have shared this . Much love Tossin ❤️
Great video guys, atleast we are getting prepared mentally. No problem Tosin, i will come for you from Zambia.
Thanks for sharing your experience
The is superb guys...looking forward to seeing more of you Tosin ❤
Thanks Tosin for your story, it will prepare someone and help others to take good decisions regards their mental health. Go girl, love you bunch.
Sorry you felt that way, I have had a different experience in Scotland. I work in a home where my salary is not that much, but I'm so comfortable here. My head of unit, the carers in my team, my deputy Manager, my manager, everybody is so nice. I have had someone carry my bag and walked me out of the train station to where I could find a bus to my destination, people greeting you every now and then, asking about my family, buying me stuffs, etc. I really love my home.
Hello Stella , I just moved to Aberdeen in Scotland. Can we connect?
Wooow …. Some people are just lucky
U are lucky sis
@@benedictaiwuchukwu8449 of course we can, however, I'm in Edinburgh.
@@NanelleGriselda yes o.
Wow, I'm so sorry you had such a bad experience. I came here in November and everyone in my work place has been really nice and supportive. Having a good manager also helps a lot.
I’m happy for you . You’re blessed
Which country are you from??
I can relate very well with your story Tosin. My experience was in a rural village in Leeds. One of them was even bold enough to ask "Are you brainy at all"? This is a carer, probably with no GCSE asking me a master's degree holder if I was brainy. Of course they later realised that I have brains each time we attend training sessions together. I left just about the time they're warming up to me. They actually cried and gave me loads of gifts even for my family that were in Africa then when was leaving. The problem with them (younger ones) especially up north , is that they aren't exposed. Majority have never traveled more than 50 kilometres away from their birthplace. They speak English with their local dialect and think your own English is inferior. If you had settled in the metropolitan Midlands or London the discrimination you'd face would have been different.
Spot on bro!!!
Are u brainy …..??? What the ???? Wow my guy you’ve been through a lot …. Thank God it changed
Thanks for sharing your experience
Alot of ppl have a masters ur not special bro
@@kwameopoku3576 such a disgusting comment.
Thanks for shedding more light into working as a Nurse in the UK. I've passed my IELTS and will be seating for CBT very soon. I need your advice, I'm a quiet lady and things get to me easily, I don't vibe easily but with time I will. So please help me with a piece of advice on how to pull through when I get to the UK.
Join a church community until you find your friends. At work, keep quiet about any religion you might have because there is prejudice against truth tellers ✝️🙏☮️🫂♾️
Because truth tellers are whistleblowers?
The channel where we are baked until we are ready to face the UK 💯😂thank you for the helpful content ❤️ looking gorgeous ladies😍
Baked 😂😂😂😂 thanks Gloria
Thank you Nanelle for inviting Tosin to share her experience with us. I really do appreciate the meaningful advice you gave, about not compromising when it comes to protecting our mental health.
Thank you for sharing Tossin ❤️ very insightful. Really have to be walking on a chalk line with these people but I find that when you speak like them you get a better reception. It’s very sad that people are like that though. Happy to see people talking about the not so good sides of moving overseas.
Topic well addressed. Thanks Tosin, enjoyed it despite being a nurse for 17yrs in the Uk, I enjoyed watching this. Less i forgot many thanks Nanella
17 years 😳 please can i interview you??? 🙏🏽
Wow!
I also relocated to the UK 🇬🇧 in 2018. Thanks for sharing. Bolton is in the North West.
She absolutely does need her own channel. Very engaging and inspiring discussion.
I agree start your own channel with that vibe. It's a must Tossin
Wow, wow, such positive vibe. I also think Tosin should have her channel. You are 2 beautiful Souls. I really enjoyed the gist. God bless both of you.
Thanks darling
Great video, Nanelle. In fact, I initially didn't want to watch this video because I thought it was going to discourage me. However, after watching I think it's worth it. I have learned a lot. Not only did you guys share the problems, you also prescribed the solutions and I think it's better to prepare for the worse than to be surprised by them. Keep up the good work.
Thanks Maxwell
I went through something similar and I was European born. I did my undergrad in England. I’m not a nurse but a registered healthcare professional. My English manager made my work life hell. To date, they’re the worse manager that I’ve ever had. The gaslighting was mad. He called me aggressive, rude, self serving. My colleagues were lovely and that’s what got me through. When I handed in my notice, he was shocked. Started asking my colleagues why I would leave 🤣🤣🤣 it took him a few months to find my replacement. My takeaway: I should’ve reported him because I had evidence. If anyone is going though this, please ask for help from your union rep. They will be able to guide you through the grievance process.
Smart woman
Thanks Nanelle to your guest, she was very open. I agree to maintain your sanity you have to do some fun things 👍🏾.
Tosin is so articulate. You are are smart and confident
I’m shy now thanks sis 🙈
Very very ….lol
Everything she said, word for word is relatable
Nice video Nanelle and thanks Tosin for sharing your story. A lot of overseas nurses go through this a lot. I always say to my colleagues; " when you applied for the job, you did not know anyone ( whoever is giving you a hard time at your job). So be proud of yourself, gird up your loins and refocus if you have to. But most importantly know the primary reason for which you are here". success doesn't come cheap
Mr English man “gird up your loins” boi good point though 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@NanelleGriselda hahahaha
Well said Mani!
I agree with you bro 👍
Thanks Tosin..enlightening.
Nanella i am really enjoying your channel. Thanks
Awwwww
That was a great self- reflection.Nanelle now that you over came those challenges now you are strong and experienced. Please share how can someone handle similar incidents today.Thank you for the video.
Thanks for always watching dear
@@NanelleGriselda You're welcome.
Awwwww dear. I can imagine how that's gonna feel. But it also made you stronger by the end of the period and whatbtonlook out for.
I'm so grateful for sharing your story with us. And Tosin you must definitely start your channel. You're a pro
This was helpful and insightful.. I just moved to Scotland from Nigeria..Thanks for sharing.
Oh Tosin, I resumed work in same care home shortly after you left. I went through same shit but I made up my mind not to leave, I was going to live through it. Opey mentioned you severally.
Awwwwww hope your situation is better
@@NanelleGriselda yeah, much better
Oh my darling! How are you now?
Such a great content and I enjoyed every bit of it, Tosin dear we awaits your youtube channel soonest
Thanks hun….can’t wait for her to start her channel too
Thank you Tosin, I like you already Yes pls start ur channel
New subscriber here I’m a nurse practitioner within the NHS and what you say is so true…I personally never experience any sort of racism while living and working in London back story I move to London 15 years ago when I was 12years old my mother moved first when I was 10 years old then she brought me over, I’m from Jamaica BTW but what have notice in my workplace most of my colleagues from African countries have face a lot of racism within the trust and also from patients I always wonder why is this..
I've had similar experience even back home where I work. Now I understand it came from comparison and jealousy over nothing. Being that I'm someone who has an easy going and carefree spirit I didn't see the effect on me, not until I got disrespected... I slammed that door!!! Never again!!!
Clearly Naija babes no Dey tolerate nonsense!!!
NOBODY IS EVER THEIR BEST SELF IN SUCH TOXIC SPACE DEAR
Nothing prepares you for what you're coming here for 👌. Well done TosTos
Yesss Tossin💯.I always say that What We overseas nurses have done with our lives the “carers who mistreat us can never do .
True that 👍🏾
Thank You Tosin for sharing. Nanelle well done for always doing a great job.
Thanks Lauren
Even in the NHS, some people can be really mean especially all these Nursing assistants. But we know where we’re coming from so more vhim 💪🏼
Ooh my gdness,it reminds me of what I went through too at a home,I felt an outcast, team lead shouting at me, came home shading my tears, never felt lk going back but look,I need money,am a student, lost my self esteem,back home was a clinician, with all the medicine in me, but now a nanny is better than me. Felt like giving, changed to a different home,approached in a way of like testing my naivety, but I learnt the tactics, first impression matters,the difference between us is just the skin, I boldly talked,inquired everything boldly,I know my rights, and found it better the first day, preferring to book shifts in that home now as I work on joining NHS. Never give up guys, don't allow anyone put you down,it's painful esp when you don't want to let ppl back home know what you are going through, and don't have anyone around in u.k to talk to, the available sorrounding ppl ladies are too busy,men are ready to listen to you but take advantage of that opportunity, what a shit,but we are strong ppl with high levels of melanin.
Yess be confident
It’s tough …. You loose your self esteem no matter who you were before. It’s so sad. I’m happy you found a way to deal with it. Go girl 👍🏾
Much love sis! I can relate with you.
Mmmh,girl.is that the reason you went mute!
@@mayreeh8624 sometimes the road becomes rough, but we are not relenting,am gd though swthrt
Thank you Nanelle so much for all the information.Remain blessed🙏🙏
Thanks Tosin for been this open. Keep doing the good work Nanelle
Tosin thank you for sharing, you are strong and amazing. Much love and glad you where able to find joy despite all odds👍🏽
Tosin thanks for the insight. Nanelle, I can't be tired of your infectious smile. Thank you for bringing her to us.
My smile 😊…. Now I’m shy 🙈 ….. thanks for the compliment dear
I experience the same treatment too when I first landed in the Uk but I am glad I blended quick. Thanks to friends
Ikr !!! Thank God you blended quick it takes others years !!!
These pple treats us African in such a bad way and when they come to ours we go out of our way to make them comfortable. I swear it's really painful
It’s sad
@@NanelleGriselda God bless you
This video is so insightful. Thanks to Tosin and Nanelle for sharing 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
You’re welcome dear
Nice one Tosin! Great story. Thanks for sharing!👏🙌
I love Tosin! What an inspiring lady! Keep your Queenly head up 👑, same to you Nanelle x
Thank you Nanelle and Tosin for this,thank God for your life Tosin,is good to always run away from whatever thy doesn’t make you happy
Exactly !!! Ruuunnnnnn 🏃♀️
Having worked in an Arab country and experiencing the worst form of racism and now hearing this. I have concluded that African hospitality is second to none.
True ,we have bad governance, but mehn!! We are good people!!!!!!
I left the Arab country despite all the money they were paying and tax free too.
Mental health is paramount.
Thanks for this lovely show.
This video made me happy, great content by all standards 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Awwwww Tilly ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@NanelleGriselda you naaaaa you are bueeeiii , too much 🙌🙌🙌👩🍳
I have been recommended your videos several times but ihave funally join the family.keep creating this amazing content.
Nannelle you are a whole lots of vibe. I enjoy watching your channel
Great content! She definitely has to start her channel! She's sincere and speaks with soul. As Ghanaians we have to learn from the Nja culture of getting higher education (degrees). In the US, the stats of Nigerians with degree is amazing. #Danzryte passed through
Yhhhh Tosin talks from her heart. Naija 🇳🇬 to the world 🌎
Tosin issaaaa vibeeeee. I like her already😁😁we look alike hahhahaha. Thank you Nanelle
I’ve been in the Uk exactly a year now and I can relate completely. My brain shut down completely. I started having anxiety problems. My memory became shit although I’m naturally a forgetful person. It was hard, but it’s better better. Adapting gradually 😂😂
I feel your pain bro …. Keep your head up 🙏🏽
Sis Nanelle. Wow! You are so so amazing. God bless you immensely. I cried/giggled laughed and felt inclusive as I enjoyed watching this. Having just watched her previous interview with you on why she wants to go back to Care homes and thinking of leaving Nhs. I'm so glad you did this interview with Tosin. It was really rare and very important and absolutely inspiring. I just wanna hug you both. You are both courageous
Tosin should definitely start her own channel and not give a damn what anyone says.she'll do great💯👌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Well-done encouraging her. I have thought long and hard this past few days of declining your interview on parenting issues. I have changed my mind after watching this vlog. Let me know how you'll get in touch please. Many thanx for your amazing educational contents.😃🤗❤️❤️❤️
Awww virtual hugs 🫂
Yes she should have her own channel!
Hahahaaaaa 👍🏾
I’ve been here for 8 years and have consciously tried to blend in while maintaining authenticity. In fact, even Nigerians can’t tell I’m Nigerian until I tell them because I don’t sound like it. Yet and still, in my final placement of my nursing degree I met a mentor that was so insidious in her racism. I tried to stand up for myself and it only caused more problems. People shouldn’t have to go through this. We’re human too
Wooow ….. such a person shouldn’t be called a mentor . I’m still glad you at least tried to stand up for yourself.
Thank you Tosin, for your honest, down to earth story, you covered, what so many of us went through, working in the UK 🇬🇧. God Bless you.
Tosin thanks for sharing your experience.
Waiting for your channel Tosin, proud of you..... ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks sissy
This is so true your entire journey was like mine only thing im from the caribbean. I started uni dropped out n came to the UK. Your journey is mine. I was so depressed . I'm still waiting to move however but I was moved from that ward to another unit where its better. But I need to move from the hospital to have a fresh life. The place is stagnant and lame.
My own home in Belfast is worse..... 😂... One of the nurses even told me I was smelling bad 😔.... What was surprising was that I had just worked 2 days with the nurse and we both were on mask throughout. The same nurse wouldn't tell the incontinent residents with feaces and urine that they were smelling. How was I smelling to the extent that u could perceived it thru the mask... I must be smelling so bad then... 😂 Many things happening in this UK! I look at them and told myself, if u come to the emergency unit where I worked in Nigeria, you would get lost, I should be ur boss.. LoL 😆... Anyways, we have come oo... The search for pounds brought us this far... 😂
Oh Jesus !!!! This is sad but funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Forgive them for they know not what they are doing 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Please come and share the details on the channel
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Well I have a different opinion to this, I was once a fresher in the Uk. I would encourage you to review what the lady said to you, telling you that you smell doesn’t mean that she wanted to be rude to you. I think she is referring your body odour which is normal for everyone but you can control it by using a deodorant. I already have it in mind long time ago to write to Nanelle to make a video about body odour which is one of the problems that new immigrants encountered at work. Many people don’t use a deodorant back home and they continue like that in the Uk until someone finally introduced them to a deodorant. Many of the white people bath only once or twice in a week but they don’t smell because they use a lot of deodorants. meanwhile, I know someone who showered more than three times in a day but her body odour still smells bad because she doesn’t use a deodorant.
@@phunmyjan you are entitled to your opinion, but the issue I'm raising here is not about body odour, it is the manner and politeness of saying things to someone who is just meeting you for first two days. First impression last longer they say. If we all begin to point out each other's bad side, everyone has... Yours might not be body odour.
@@babajideezekieloiuwafemi1533 you are right but I only use that as an opportunity to raise an awareness to the issue of body odour.
I just love you Sweet Nanelle, you are always on point 👍🙌💞
Thank you Tosin for reminding me, I have to defend and protect my mental health. 💯
So I’m not in this situation alone, now I’m much happier.
Tosinnnnnnn🥰🥰
So good to have you here ❤️
Its Dami Adejumobi , your classmate back in Babcock University, Nigeria.
🥰BIG HUGS for both of your!! Thanks for sharing your challenges and how you overcame 💪quite encouraging 👍more strength to your elbow.Nannelle.keep it up💪👍🥰
By the way, up School ( UCH)
I have been there before, I have ever cried in theatre, the next day walked to my manager and explained everything and the core person band (6) was suspended for 4 months for investigation to go on because apparently I wasn’t the only one.
Wooooooo please can I interview you on this ??
Problems happen when it's a manager who you need to blow the he whistle against. that is when it gets nasty...
Such an eye opener!!Thank you Nanelle and Tossin
Essie !!!!
@@NanelleGriselda OMG So you are wide awake at this hour?
“At the end of the day, go back to the source”” 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Enoanono
Woo. Serious travelling for that distance. Nursing life is definitely not easy
Not easy at all … the sacrifices we make to get our license
This is beautiful. I totally enjoyed this. I’ve just found out this channel and I’m loving it. I live in Northern Ireland and I am living the vibe of this UA-camr. Kudos darling
Hey how are you? Where exactly in the northern Ireland are you?
Ns Tosin from Renaissance, good to see you. Sad to hear about what you went through, you're free spirit and lively person there. You once called me a one man army, glad you made it through
Thanks ladies for such insights, hmm difficult though but we are jotting things down. We will get there👌🌹
Very necessary
Great lessons learnt. Thank you💞
I love the honesty..... hearing about the good and bad..... but hey.... I would love to find a care giver company to work with in Northern Ireland..... even though its tough.... its not as bad as home country.....
I personally think there are nicer folks in Scotland than in England, been there a couple of times and if u get lost, people won't help you, no greeting or exchange of pleasantries.
Nice one Nanalle & Tosin !
Soooo true about the confidence part . I've always felt beautiful and confident. But they made me feel so so low but im at your point where u r way happier but I want to be even more happier.
I'm looking forward to her channel 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Wow. So sad hearing your experiences. I am currently in nursing school in Canada I hope they are niceR here.
Lovely u really said ur hearts aut thanks
You're just a complete vibe. It felt like you were talking to me and also SHARING MY STORY AS A NURSE ABROAD 😭 THANK GOD 🙏🏼 we don't look like what we've been through. I love when you said we have to take care of ourselves, one way is moving out of toxic environment and appreciating the good memories and people. Abeg open your channel we need to do a collab together 😜
Thank you so much Nanelle for bringing her
Hahahaaaaa IKR !!!!! Thank God we don’t look like what we’ve been through … The Lord is our strength !!!
@@NanelleGriselda indeed 🤍
I feel this is everybody's story. It's tough in the beginning
My first time catching the train, I missed the train because I saw the sign saying "first-class" and got confused. I asked some old man that clearly worked at the station and he asked "where are you from?" Mumu me, I answered thinking I was still in 9ja. BIG MISTAKE! That's how Baba changed it and said "you came all the way from Nigeria to miss your train?!" Hey God! Then he walked off whistling, I recognized the song the title was "if only I had a brain". Ah! I couldn't cry 😭
My days😂😂😂 okay that’s awful.
Christ !!!! I would have cried . Jeeezzzz the Lord is our strength!!!
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My friend also had that experience
Some people are just very mean
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She got to have her own channel please
Very true
In love with your guests....Very informative video
Very Frank talks, I like it. Thanks for sharing girls
Thank you for sharing your experience dear.
It’s really not easy sometimes, but some of them are amazing
True
Ei me that I overthink things and say my mind on everything. This will pain me God! I'm happy you're fine now. It gets better they say...
Y'all are beautiful I love ur vibes thanks for all you do.I hope to meet u guys when i come ohh☺️🙏
Nanelle, thank you so much for your content. Can you do a video for persons who don't have formal qualifications in nursing but are willing to train/work in the UK as HCA's. Are there agencies that support this?
Yes! Tossin, get your channel!
I actually have a video planned so stay tuned
Seconded, I also need guidance on this path. Mine is actually a desire to change career path from Political science background to Nursing. Is it a very rigid process or too complicated to venture into? What subjects would a nonmedical graduate find challenging? Are there Mathematics or Chemistry related topics in Nursing for example? Can I do Masters in Adult Nursing direct? Can I become a Registered nurse or a License Nurse in UK after studying Masters? What And what do i have to do in UK to be a fully certified nurse?
Glad everything worked out Tossin....what a story!
“She talks like that because that is one of the beautiful academia excellence that UCH instills.” 😊😊 An alumnus here, and I’m glad to see a familiar face on a vid who says it as it is here. Well done 👍🏾
That is so true.i cry every day.just want to go back home.
Thanks to you guys keep it up ....so enlightened
Thats great, I love this video.. great 👍
I experience that alot ; when you need someone to direct you ; not knowing you re so close to the place..you just get dump founded and cry a little...
It’s sad 😞
Yes Nanelle pls hammer it well down Tosin's hearing,,, she should really have her own channel..that skill of eloquence should not be left wasting away just like that... and when she does, kindly let me know..keep up the great job Nanelle.
I’m still encouraging her ooo . Thanks for saying it too.
The hard truth!
Tosin thanks for sharing
Kisses for you Nanelle
💋 😘😘😘
I work with Tossing in Nigeria,R-jolad hospital, she is a strong lady with hard spirit, babe I feel u,
Pls can I check ur UA-cam channel name.
Love u girl.
Awwwwww
I appreciate you loads
Wow..thanks
Thumbs up to all nurses out there