DOCTOR SHARES BULLYING EXPERIENCE WORKING IN THE UK+HOW TO DEAL WITH BULLYING FOR IMMIGRANTS
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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
- Sometimes we face unfairness, discrimination or even bullying from superiors and colleagues at work. This doctor shares her horrible bullying experience and also shares tips / advice on how immigrants can deal with such issues from her 14years of living in the uk.
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Wow, this woman is amazing! She taught herself English and then did a medical degree, in a self taught second language, which she speaks perfectly.
This woman is a "morale booster", a powerful motivator and a great optimist. I really learned a lot from this.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ God bless you both.🙏
She is great! I have been so refreshed and uplifted.
Cameroonian Ladies are very extrovert and dynamic. No sugar coated
Finally I’m glad to see a Cameroonian on here 🇨🇲🇨🇲 keep breaking boundaries Dr Dominique..you are a definition of African inspiring generations
Thank you Nanelle keep building bridges and showing full support
I do pray one day next year I’ll be on your channel 🇨🇲🇨🇲
Thank God I didn't miss this episode. She's opened my eyes to a lot of things. Please Please Please, can Dominique come back on this Chanel ? We need to hear her speak again 🙏
I simply feel so much empowered and inspired listening to Dr. Dominique. Such a fantastic speaker . I think she should start a UA-cam channel on immigrant empowerment ,honestly!❤️
I agree ☝️
I could watch her all day, such a vibe and the right one too..when you say yes to one thing remember you said no to another! Double like, well done once again 🙌🙌
That statement hit me hard
And that is the ultimate truth ♥️
this is the best video I've watched on you tube. I learnt so much from this interview and it has really re molded my mindset as I intend to move to the UK soon from Nigeria.
thank you so much Nanelle
Thanks for watching dear
Thank you Dominique for coming over here and working in our National Health Service. I want to apologise for the unforgiveable treatment, the bullying that you went through. No one should ever be treated like that, let alone a health care professional, who deserves the utmost respect for the work that they do. xx
Wow. God bless you. Would love to interview you on my channel 🙏🏽
Enlightening content!! Big up Nanelle for bringing Dominique on your platform!!
Dominique you are a powerhouse❤️
I swear she is
Wow!!! This was such an encouragement. I have not prioritized myself and my needs. Dominique reminded me that I need to put my personal needs above my professional needs.
Woow just look at an Anglophone lady speaking English so perfectly well because she was watching the BBC. This is educative . She has taught me one thing today , learn languages from a good Television channels.
Francophone*** you mean.
Yes ooo,thanks
Amazing, giving so much at work and giving little to the family. I am a living experience of someone who always behaves strong even in weak moments. Thank you for your words Dominique. This is my best so far. Kudos!
Wow, this conversation is literally a game-changer!! Thank you. As an European living in the UK, I must say that it was super helpful x I had one person saying strange comment about my accent but I didn't say anything because I didn't want to be 'in trouble'. How wrong is that? We all have accents and if we speak a new language or move somewhere else it'll be different, but that's the beauty of it, isn't it? X
Literally a game changer and eye opener.
Yes 100% correct,everyone’s accent is unique and different if the table were to turn around these people can never or will never speak another language/languages so kudos to us trying to converse with them with our “own unique” accent.
I was refused a house to rent in the UK because of my accent . The letting agent on the phone said "you have an accent I'm not renting this house anymore" .
@@MarieN8959 what😞can you just imagine😞.
@@MarieN8959 ❤
This is good to hear at least we can know how to overcome such situations when they occur. She really blew my mind by the way she opened up. She tried a lot. Glad I watched this. So much energy and thanks for bringing her
Thanks for showing up Cadmus 🙏🏽
" If i'm the gardener the grass will always be green where ever i go " cause i water it . this is it for me from this chat . love Dominique and her outlook towards life , awesome lady .
Wish I could triple like this video. It was Amazing to watch and I enjoyed every bit of it. Thank you Dominique and thank you Nanelle
Thank you Susan kindly share on other platforms 🙏🏽
Ugh Dominique is a whole mood, she is a real definition of I know what I want and I’ve learnt a lot. Thank you 🙏🏿😊
I'm not even a healthcare professional and found this incredibly refreshing to watch. Dominique's self awareness and confidence is what many of us should covet. Hope to see more of you in the future.
I agree
OMG! Had to sub for this woman, my spirit animal! This has always been my outlook and stance as a minority in the work place, I have never felt less than my majority colleagues. Boundaries, self-assurance and playing the game i.e. crying when in a tight corner will get you far in this country.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That example omg
Thanks for being so positive, this is my take about life too.I love the part of not allowing yourself to be surrounded by negative people.
Exactly!!!
E for energy! She's got great perspective to life as an immigrant in the UK.
I love the positivity in her, teaching me alot of lesson, the type of inferiority I have had am burying it from today in Jesus name
Amen 🙏🏽
Amen
You have to stand up for yourself right from the beginning. Never tolerate what they ( bully) can't tolerate .
I would say this isn't just for immigrants. I was born in the UK and I resonate with everything that was said. I still struggle with bullying in the workplace and setting boundaries. I was raised to work hard and still find it difficult to say no as I feel the pressure to persevere.
Thanks for this
@@NanelleGriselda also nurses and drs bully patients I've seen it happening
I'm an senior occupational health physiotherapist and this is exactly what I teach my patients to put themselves and families first. The bullying is also not just towards immigrants when you are British born you are not exempt I have taught a few black junior physiotherapist to know the 7 pillars of clinical governance as this will help them to know their rights and navigate unprofessional bullying behaviour.
Would you like to share the 7 Pillars of clinical governance on the channel. I’m sure people will learn a lot from it
@@NanelleGriselda, for sure
I'm in the UK, I'm just starting to live. I'm just starting to get that mindset she has now, it's been 2yrs but I just started living my best life.
2 years …. !!!!
Wow, I love her energy. She taught me a lot, and she is inspirational.
Wow...well-spoken, I love this lady. Learnt so much from this video...thanks for bringing her on
Highly motivated. Looking forward to more inspiring videos from you and Dominique. A Five star for the video 👌
You are so strong Dominique. Thanks for giving people the heads up and how to deal with it when in such a situation. Nanelle you are awesome ❤️
Thanks for showing up dear
Love you Dominique and Nanelle. I fully agree with the sentiments expressed by Dominique. As Africans, we need to show our emotions. My tears have got me out of situations - never play strong when you are hurting. Great advice❤❤💯💯
I think it's also important to recognise that's not everyone's experience. I've literally had situations like that where my tears have enabled racist managers to get rid of me.
Thank you so much for having Dominque as your guest. I really wish I was brave enough to stand up to the 2 bullies (my line manager and her boss) at work. They were able to do so because it was in a small office with doors, to cut a long story short I had to leave cos my mental health was affected!! Ever since then I have always been apprehensive about working in offices with rooms, I prefer open plan. Happy to say I am a lot better and I will call out bullying straight away, I thank God my employer does the same. No one has bullied even since they can try but me I will defend myself. PS: I'd like to share this video with my colleagues in the BAME forum that I belong to, if you don't mind.
Awwww thank God you found your way out
@@NanelleGriseldaOn a lighter note, I didn't know I should have asked beforehand like this lady but I have forwarded this video to my sister in law a Midwife and friends back in Nigeria already as its such an eye opener. There will always be first amongst equals, both of you are, thanks alot!!!!!!!
Oh my god. I am 50 year woman. And this young woman taught what I needed to hear. I Faced all sort of racism at work /school name it. I stayed on just each time and buckled up and became a shell of myself. I say yes to all orders. I lost me. Very true. Walk away if you are not appreciated. Start elsewhere. Your best asset is your mind and you. Live your life. Starting fresh life for me now. Thank you.
Wow . Thanks for watching Ma
@jenny so sorry that you have to go through all that from the hands of all those bully’s. I am in my early 50’s and I work in health care too, but from day one an English lady half my age tried to bully me, I went straight to my manager to tell her to back off from me and that she should never try whatsoever she tried with me, because next time she won’t be that lucky!! that was how she kept her distance and it didn’t even took long she resigned and since then none of them have tried shit with again.
Sending you hugs 🤗 🤗💚🤍💛💜💙❤️🥰🥰
@@janesvarietyfood Thank you sister for you words wisdom and of support.⭐🎈🥰🥰 In my case i don't even know why, I was just ashamed each time and felt if I moved elsewhere, racism is everywhere. You know. 😆 Lol. Honestly starting new.
@@NanelleGriselda keep up with your excellent ideas and God bless. 🥰
@@jennyrayman2505 ,you are most welcome dear sis, please don’t give room to any rubbish behaviour from anybody that try to put down, weather black or white people periodt!! Stay bless 🙏🏿👸🥰💖💛💙🤗🧡💜🤍💚❤️
Thank you both. Dominique is fantastically inspirational. I'm currently recovering from burnout as a GP and I'm now making different career moves. It took me so long to realise I had no work/life balance and this was actually impacting my sleep/mind/physical health. This was a lovely top up message I didn't know I needed. 💜
Wow happy this helped. 🙏🏽
I can't have enough of positive people! Thank You, Dominique!
Everyone needs help at some point. Crying is therapeutic... It is not a sign of weakness. It refreshes you to face your fears!
Put yourself FIRST! Once you are strong enough, you can go through everything you encounter!
Aduse I’ve never seen you cry
@@NanelleGriselda Haha😂 Well, I do when I have to!
I hardly get to that point but when I do, I allow my tears to flow. And once I wipe those tears, you’ll never know that I’ve faced any problems… I get out there and fight for those tears😊
Thank you for this video. It's very important to have a positive mindset in all circumstances, especially when you know there's nothing morally wrong with your actions.
True
Positive vibes from this Doctor, and she has watched all your videos like my self.
Ikr! I was shocked . Thanks Lydia . It means a lot
This is an eye opener. Nanelle,I love how you keep making your channel so uplifting. Thanks Dominique
I'm soo happy having to see my fellow Cameroonian on your vlog 🙏🏼..It really inspires me as a final year student nurse wishing to one day meet my dreams😰💫🧠..237🇨🇲
It’s possible my dear
Nice and uplifting.
This is no doubt your best interview by far, in my opinion.
The info in this video, the knowledge, the encouragement, the empowerment, on point. I love her.
Thanks Don 🙏🏽
Well answered Dominique! Accepting bullying because of your not permanent residency does not work! The impact to one's mental health is not worth it! "Stop thinking in a way that is narrow minded'! This is an important message. The narrow minded thinking pattern is what creates further division amongst "us immigrants". I love this Cameroonian Queen this interview!! I wonder if Dominique offers mentorship?
That’s a good one . Her Instagram is @lentchdoms. Facebook is Doms Lentch
@Dominique Thank you! Will certainly get in touch :-))
"If I am the gardener. The grass is always green anywhere I go"....love this Dom👍👍👍
I love this lady's spirit.Good job ladies.
She was so encouraging and truthful about the workplace.
Thank you Nanelle I'm learning a lot from you and the guests you invites, I'm so proud of your work 👏 💗.
Thanks dear
Nanelle's UA-cam family as we all love the video and so happy about it, please leave the ads to play 🥰😍.
Tell them ooo 🤣
Well spoken . Sometimes we need to be encouraged and motivated to be strong .Thank u 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻❤️💕🙏🏻
Wooow, she is amazing!! Soo true what we put up with because we don’t know our rights. When I was new as well I went through some stuff only to realise I didn’t have to. Once you stand up for yourself they start to back down and respect you. This is great advice, love her ❤️❤️
So true.
Wow. This is so refreshing to listen to. Your story and insights are a real gift. I'm so glad I listened.
Oh my goodness, I wish I had your guest in my life when I first went abroad at the age of 19. I love love her positivity!!!
Awwwwww
I like her already, the confidence is a top notch.
Wow!!! Wow!!! I just subscribed because of this video. Thank you so much. It's true the spirit of fear is a huge set back. As Africans we tend to make a lot of decisions out of fear. Amazing and eye opening. Thank you ladies. God bless you more.
Thanks dear 🙏🏽
Thank you for that point Dominique 👍 you are just refering to me directly.
💯 Correct .
Thanks Nanelle for inviting her 👏
It's so sad you had to go through this! This should not have happened, I hope you find a job you love with a great team who appreciate you. Loved hearing your story Dominique!
Nanelle Nanelle, thank you for bringing this lady here. this was supposed to be a 12hr video or more.
Hahahaaaaa
Dominique is absolutely impressive on so many levels, everything she states about the effects of racism on black people are completely spot on, well done Nanelle for inviting her on to your platform.
Woow!! This woman is such a big motivator!! Learned a lot from her, even gat my emotional button activated.
Very good video. Glad Dominiique said to not see yourself a an immigrant, as you are part of society. More need to see themselves like this. This country needs us all, glad to hear from something who on my wave lenght. Its good to have different peolle culture around me.
I love this woman called Dominique. She is a whole vibe, a strong n no nonsense personality.
Nanelle thnks for the women you bring here to interview, i learn everytime. Weldone Nanelle🙌
Thanks for this, but my pain is being bullied by my fellow African nurses .It sucks
That is even worse
Honestly why would a fellow African really bully an African?
Am glad someone has said it !!!!!
Ouch, that’s sad
Imagine bullying a fellow African in a foreign country it’s so sad and disappointing.
I just love what you said about bullies. Honestly in my experience particularly being in a field with very few immigrants, I have come to realise that the problem is much more bullying than racisim. These bullies will pick on anyone they feel would be vulnerable and those new to a profession/new immigrants are easy targets.
I agree
True that exactly what they do and gang up to lie against
Hmmmm, I can so relate
You have no idea how much you have helped me. Thank you so much
Awwww glad to hear that
I am crying 😢 listening to Dr Dominique.. God bless you both
Awwwww
I am going to share this video with my contacts....
Well done Dominique for your inspirational speech....
The mind thought must be protected by GOD Almighty YAWEH.....
Thanks dear
What!
Dominique is such a motivator! Thanks for this video, Nan. Anticipating the part 2 with so much energy. 🤝🙌
Wow!!! This is absolutely inspiring. She’s got a whole lot of positive energy. Such an amazing black queen!😞👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️🥰🌹
Dominique is a whole vibe. I lover her energy.
Dominique every single word you are saying is true.thank you for this video! Positivity peace and love 💛
Thank you Dominique. You made so much sense. "The grass is greener anywhere I go because i water it." This will definitely stick. God bless
It hit me too
So much in her speech..like what!!! My confidence level is increased and she's so right. Want to have her as a big sis seriously 😊🦋🌹
Amen 🙏 this is so powerful and so motivational thank Nanelle for bringing her she here is a really a great motivator woow 🥰
Gosh! Dominique has inspired me. Thank you Nannelle. I am a Cameroonian too. Newly qualified in OT. I faced the bullying too. But God helped me to finish my studies. I would like us to connect via email if you want. I would like to hear more of your experiences and how you overcame them.
Sure hun you can send me an email at anytime you can reach Dominique on her Instagram @lentchdoms. Facebook is Doms Lentch
@@NanelleGriselda is that ok
OMG , this lady is just too much. Keep up the good work Nanelle. Cant luv you less.
Wao.. I love her vibes. She is so energetic and listening to her speak for about 27minutes seems like I have spent few minutes.
This lady is an inspiration! I can relate to everything she said. God bless you sister I am encouraged 😘😍😇
This video just took my self esteem to the top. Thank you for this Nanelle. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I love you Dominique!!! Quite a motivation you are! I agree 100% to everything you have said. God bless you for this!
Gees, this woman is a motivator.....
I love you Dr.
Another inspiring piece... Thank you Nanelle and Dominique🙏✌️
Dear Nanelle, please bring Dominique back to the channel!! 🥰She's a whole mood. 😄Such a barrel of wisdom. ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much for this video.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Glad you enjoyed this
Word
This is inspiring. She needs to come back, love you both♥️
I agree
This lady is a phenomenal speaker
What a wow!
I feel blessed to be here
We are always scared and ends up crawling back to our shells
Thanx for enlightening us Dominique.
Nanelle, you are a whole new level 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you Diana
I like this lady. I can listen to her all day. She needs to have her own channel
Woo that part about your mental health and becoming a shadow of yourself. 💎💎 I wish I’d watched this when I was going through my own journey. Great video!
Great conversation! I loved this as a Newcastle graduate 🙌🏿
This is so inspiring. God bless Nanelle and Dominique. She spoke to me.
Same here
Dominique Wow you're an emotional changer,thumps up Nelle for bringing her up to share the experience,thank you so much
This channel is amazing 13 years ago when I moved to the UK at the age of 16 I had no where to look for advices or look for similar situations as mine. your UA-cam channel is therapy ❤
On point! manage yourself work life balance is a struggle that you have to aim for everyday
O how I love it when people pronounce properly. I had a huge satisfaction to have heard /tum/ for tomb…. And from a French speaking girl. Girl I’m proud of you. Let’s be friends please.
All.she said is true and I have experience all. The grass is very green at the other side.
I couldn't have come across this video at a better time. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and the tips. God bless!
Dominique.... i think i love you lol... thank you for that. I have been struggling with career progression, been stuck in the phase of "im just here for money". But i would like to settle here and make a life for myself. There is so much pressure from back home that sometimes we forget that we need to build our own lives, you cant pour from an empty cup.
I totally agree
I always learn alot whenever I watch your video. This is really encouraging and helpful. Keep it up and i wll be always here to watch your videos. WELL DONE 👏
God bless you Mrs
This woman is super!!!!. Keep it up love .xxxx.
We all need to have a Dominique in our lives. Wow, Keep soaring Doc
I totally agree
This was an amazing interview. I love the mindset and totally agree with her. Thank you for sharing. ❤️❤️ love from Florida.
God have a plan of peace for you not of evil
E for Energy.... I'm very motivated by this wonderful lady.