Watching Dr.Mike’s empathy towards Emma while she is speaking is so endearing and beautiful to watch. This is why he is an amazing Doctor, you can tell he is genuinely interested in what she is saying. ❤️
this video was actually so insightful and refreshing to hear as a fellow content creator on this platform. thank you for talking about these subjects and being so open! ❤️
wow i couldn't relate more. I'm no where close to emma's subscriber level, but I went through some crazy ups and downs especially over the past year as I slowly transitioned into replacing my old job. And especially not having many friends it doesn't make it any easier. I've always used youtube as a way for me to open up, try new things, and force myself to be more spontaneous and have excuses to make life more exciting. I've learned so many new skills and had so many experiences because of it. But its really easy to let how well your channel/vids perform effect your mood. I always take my time if I feel like posting a vid or not. Sometimes I just don't feel it, but other times I will get into that flow state and have so much motivation, creativity, and not even see the time go by. And other times I will love a certain video idea, have fun filming it, but then I'll wait to edit and as the time goes by I just start losing motivation, feel it ain't good enough and struggle with finishing the video. But I also came to realize over the years that everything has its ups and downs. I feel like its important to have an ultimate self-fulfilling goal. Sure things are cool to grind for, but those intrinsic goals are sooooo nice.
The only reason why this video didn’t blow is because of UA-cam’s algorithm which definitely says a lot especially on what these two amazing people discussed in the video
Wow! I didn't know her, thank you for this video Dr Mike! Really loved watching it. Mental health is a such an underestimated problem, I wish there were more doctors like you. thank you!
Was not expecting this, but such a welcome video. Anxiety is a big part of my life and I'm just starting to get into social media and it's already a bit stressful so this is a great video. Thank you.
Things we want to see from Doctor Mike: - Jump out of a plane with Juanpa - Do a vlog in NYC - Story with your red car and spider - More from your lovely nephews 😍 - Another vlog in the hospital Edit: - Collab with James Charles Lovesssss
I agree with everything but I really really dying to know the story about his red car and the spider. Like how do you crash a car because of a spider? 🕷️🤔
I definitely “get on the” hedonic treadmill in my life. I get this and now I want that almost immediately, but when a country/community is going through a pandemic together it has slowed down and I’m learning to enjoy every little thing!
"when you're making a video you are really talking to yourself.".... And Dr. Mike also dances by himself at the end of every video while there is no music while he does it 👀👀👀👀
I genuinely love how he keeps everything so real and understands people around him. The empathy he holds within himself is just truly commendable. I just wish all doctors out there were like him.
My Perspective On Mental Health It's hard when you're always lying, Always hiding the way you feel. Losing your sight on truthful words, Forgetting what is real. It's hard when you forget to laugh And you're scared that someone might see. Hoping no one saw your face, As you struggle to remember how to breathe. It's hard to pretend you're happy, And you're terrified someone might ask. It's becoming harder every day; It's becoming quite a task. You feel when your body shakes, As it searches for something to hold. Though the temperature feels hot, Your heart and mind feel cold. Your throat feels like it's closing, And your legs feel like they're weak. You try your hardest to grasp a breath, But there's not even enough to speak. Your hands remain unsteady, And your heart pounds like a drum, And even though you can barely walk, You fight the urge to run. You scream as the world starts spinning, And your knees drop straight to the ground. You realize in that moment You're just having another breakdown.
It’s true that people don’t understand someone else’s struggles unless they face them themselves. You never know what someone might be going through. Everyone has their own struggles in life. So, it should be our responsibility to not make things harder for anyone by spreading hate. Please stop spreading hate! It doesn’t help anyone.
I love this mental health videos. They make you feel included and a normal human just like every other human. I always had problems talking in front of a camera, or holding a speech, because I have a gut that tells me I can't trust anyone. I'm afraid of the lies that might be spreading, I feel fragile and made of glass if I'm surrounded by eyes I never saw. When I speak to people, I want to make eye contact, I want to make sure I can trust the one I'm talking to, cause you know internet or the wrong person is a good place for shading. When I'm holding a speech, when I'm speaking in front of a camera, I can't do that. I can't make eye contact with people, I can't make sure I can trust them. And I unfortunately found our about this fragile part of myself a bit late. So, when Emma said she felt analysed as a youtuber, I felt her from the bottom of my heart. I wanted to share my experiences, and I hope you understand that there's a great difference between being afraid of holding a speech and being too shy to hold a speech.
I'm a UA-camr and it does effect your mental health, i've had moments when i've turned on the camera and literally cried simply because my head is telling me "I'm ugly" "nobody likes me" "i'm too fat to make UA-cam videos" and plenty other things, I push on and try to ignore the voice in the back of my head but sometimes it gets too much, so i understand the struggle
she is so much more well spoken than before. I love Emma so much. she deserves all the success she has + I hope she gets many more things in the future. she grew up in the best way and she's thriving! she's amazing.
Parasocial relationships are not the same as real relationships. UA-camrs don't know who you are and we don't really know UA-camrs. A UA-camr can present their struggles in a video but we will never trully understand them.
I didn't know who Emma was/is, but that conversation was absolutely great and honest. Thanks for that. It's always "good" for ppl with mental health issues to see that they are not alone. That can happens to everyone. Thanks for that. It was very educational as usual.
I feel so sad for her, we are the same age and I cannot imagine the pressure on her...I hope she finds some good group of friends and has support we all crave.
I'm so glad you did this. One of my son's favorite UA-camr committed suicide. He couldn't understand why or how he could of wanted to die. Im going to show him this video. My son wants to be a UA-camr but it worries me. Its hard to balance wanting to encourage your kid to follow their dreams but also be a voice for reason. Thanks Doc
100% know what you’re talking about. My 9year old wants to stream Fortnite videos. That scares me! Thankfully there’s an age restriction on a lot of platforms. Hopefully he grows out of wanting to do that. But at the same time. When he is of age. If he can partially support himself (news paper runs, mowing lawns walking dogs etc) I will support him in his ventures. We’ve spoken about it so he knows what to expect and what we expect until then.
@@xZotiC454 ive seen so many kids brought into the light on the internet and so many parents are blind to the damaging everything does to the mental health!
This is JUST LIKE being a teacher!! No one understands what we go through except other teachers. We are constantly judged and critiqued and our job is acting all day every day. We feel obligated to make everyone happy. We burn out so fast too. I loved seeing two of my favorite you tubers collaborating. ❤️ such a great video
She has my husky voice, lol! Yes, the hedonic treadmill! I have experienced that! I was in a toxic relationship with my husband of 26 years, and he basically gave me everything just to shut me up. In essence, he felt if I had all the trinkets life has to offer, I shouldn't complain. But my husband was absent in all things emotional and physical because he became a drug addict. He thought if he gave me the finer things in life I would ignore his indiscretions (his mistress was cocaine) and not complain. I finally left that relationship and I do not have the Audi, and the tri-level home with swimming pool and spa, and all the niceties that come with success, and I've never been more at peace than ever.
Happy you’re at peace!! Also....husky voices are the best/sexiest 🥳 as someone tooting their own horn in saying that I don’t care hahaha, husky voice gang
Equating drug addiction to a booty call (mistress) is actually very misogynistic. Addiction is an illness. Infidelity is quite another matter. Your husband is ill (or was) and taking his money for TWENTY SIX YEARS while he's ill and with no mention of trying to deal with the addiction or any contributing circumstances makes you sound very exploitative of him. Hope both of you are better off now.
I'm literally 45 seconds into the video and already this interview/collab is 1000x better than the collab with Gabbie. How is someone who is almost 10+ younger than Gabbie act more mature and collected? Just staying quiet and letting him speak is something Gabbie couldn't do. Just saying 🤷🏻
This is why it’s so so good for creators to have some sort of meaning or purpose behind their content or outside of their content other than just vlogging their daily lives. The people who I watch that have an outside career or a deeper purpose to their content stay much more grounded and don’t seem to live in so much anxiety about their career suddenly crashing out of no where
I legit felt like I was sitting in a therapy session with both Dr Mike and Emma. It was so cool to witness how Dr Mike's bedside manner shows outside of the hospital. You can tell he is a great doctor. I just know he's better than any doctor I've met from the way he actually listens to people and from how knowledgeable and passionate he is. I love that he educates others through videos, he's the best
I don't know who needs to hear that right now, but dark times won't stay forever. Better days will come. For everyone out there, please check on your "strong" friends and colleagues, because these are the ones who suffers inside and don't show it. For everyone who pulled themselves out of a dark place, you are stronger than you think, because it takes a lot of strength to do that. And never feel like you can't talk to anyone, believe me, your friend are rather listen to your problems than hearing you hurt yourself or even worse. Peace and Love ✌🏽❤️
Thank you so much for this. I've been seeing these everywhere and I really think it's a sign that I really am meant to be alive right now. Please never forget that these things apply to you as well.
Elizabeth Sunenberg you are meant to be alive. You will overcome whatever it is that you are going through. Always believe in yourself! There’s always a rainbow after a storm 🦋🌈 sending you love and positivity 💕💫
@@elizabethsunenberg5949 yes my dear, YOU ARE MEANT TO BE ALIVE. Never forget, what you are going to miss when you are not. And again, whenever you feel sad or even worse, talk to someone. It is important for you, but also important for your friends and family. Peace and big Love to you. Alway remember, YOU ARE AMAZING!!!! 💕💕💕
Very accurate and psychological conversation. It took a few therapy sessions to realize I cant control others and can only control myself and my reactions. This helped a lot with future issues I've had.
In my last 2 years of high school I was extremely depressed, occasionally self harming but my classmates would always make comments about how put together I was and they were always like “you’re so happy all the time” even tho at the end of the day I would go home and cry because I was so insecure and hated myself. I only seemed to be happy because when I’m around other people I never want to be a downer even if I’m struggling internally. So everyone just assumed things about me and never asked me if I was okay or how I was doing. I now never assume anything about anyone’s mental health.
A lot of the things she talked about felt super relatable to me, for example how she disappears of the internet for a while when she is not well and isolates even more and how she feels when she made a video she is not proud of. Both these I experienced even though I just make videos for fun. Really informative video especially since I thought I was the only one who felt like this
Emma is so real In her videos tho. She’s careless but still being herself. She’s doing a good job. She just needs to keep it up with the genuineness. That’s all
Hi! I’m glad to find a recent video because I’ve been wanting to ask Dr. Mike a medical question. I’m excited that I’ve watched it because I’ve learned so much about UA-camrs, their motivations and process. The emphasis on mental health is so relevant today. Thanks for making this collab! What medical opinions do you have about the Wim Hoff/Michael Hoff methods? Any safety concerns? What about the assumption that it enhances the immune system? Do you agree with the claim that it trains the subconscious to respond to conscious directions? How about it using it to treat mental health issues (such as the ones mentioned in this video?) Thank you!
Dr. Mike is such a great person. Intelligence, kindness, empathy, passion, and many more things... People like him make me feel very hopeful about humanity.
I feel like UA-cam is an extreme job, and depending on the person it can either stress you out fully and cause you anxiety or it can cause you mostly happiness and fulfillment, but unless you arent working it full time I dont think there is a lot of space to be in between.
@@starchannel123 It is extreme, I agree on the confidence part tho. But other than all eyes being on you, and the lack of job security, it can be extreme because you make your own schedule, you need to make your own decision of how much work to do, it's not a 9 to 5 so it can create a lot of pressure to work more and more even when you should just take a break and rest which can get extreme. But if you know how to balance it and you are successful that's where it gets to give you the tons of happiness.
I literally was watching him yesterday and I was thinking “ it would be sooo cool,if he collared with Emma” cuz I’ve been watching her a lot too and I wake up today and there’s a notification saying that they collared to talk about mental health
I literally thought I misread the title of this video bc I did not ever expect Mike and Emma to collab, not complaining tho. My two of my fav creators together
I’ve got a question about mental health: How do I get over the urge to fall back into old habits? (Aka doing target behaviors, not taking my meds, and letting my mental illnesses take over me)
I understand this so much. I don't know if this will help you, but when I really can't cope with life I give myself a "day off". That day I can sleep a lot or stay awake too late, eat unhealthy food or not eating some meals, not showering or changing my pajamas or whatever, but after that day passes and my brain has been in the gutter enough, I wake up at a reasonable time, take care of myself and my body and slowly but surely in the following days I try to get my routine right again. I don't think it's the best option but I prefer that to being funky for eight days straight lol hope you feel better soon, be strong and ask for help if you need it :)
When you were talking about “flow” you made me think of something my therapist and I discuss often. Vocation vs avocation. I LOVE being in the dance studio dancing jazz, tap and ballet. I sometimes have to look DOWN to see cloud 9. BUT I’d hate to think of it as my job. Something that I HAVE to do. There is potential for joy to be sucked out of it.
Hi Dr. Mike! I studied in Beijing, I was always sick there, had fever, coughing, headaches, trouble breathing etc. Went to see a doctor but they only recommended Chinese Medicine... What are your views on Chinese Medicine? Is it safe and do you recommend it?
Chinese medicine has really helped my father alot he wont go to see a western doctor (western medicine never helped him) thats just his experience but i would say research the doctor you go to and then give it a shot (no ta doctor but i have watched my fathers health improve tremendously from Chinese medicine)
Me: *a hype person, usually laughs a lot, the one who always give advices to friends* Also me: * depressed, trying to share problems* ppl who know me: *it's your imagination* people closer to me: *don't pays attention a lot, laughing, they think I'm joking around - continue talking about their problems instead*
That happens to people who seem happy all the time and help others so when they need help it is difficult to get a listening ear. Maybe you can write your feelings or do a video/audio pretty sure it can help. God bless you 🙏
Exactly people need to understand they are humans just like us but famous.... Why do we expect them to be perfect ... Cut them some slack... Great video Mike... Don't understand why does this have lesser views
How I see it is that the more subscribers you have, the more people you have to please.. the higher the expectations become until the bar is almost unreachable. From the viewer perspective, it almost feels like you’re building a relationship with the creator- we know so much about you; it feels like I could see you on the street and greet you like a coworker or a friend, but you have no idea who I am. So there’s a level of disappointment if the creator goes Mia or doesn’t post as much etc. it’s such a one sided situation - you nailed it when you said you can’t talk back to those individuals that comment. And that’s hard from the viewers end as well. We feel a connection and it would be nice to have our thoughts or feelings reciprocated and feel that two- way interaction but at 1,2,8-million subscribers, how could you!
People underestimate how amazing mental health youtubers are. If you go on and keep up a happy, shiny appearance people just IRL think ‘theyre fine, why do they think they have mental issues?’ but if we show up on a bad day, looking how we feel and just shootin straight about the misery people think ‘ugh theyre such a hot mess, they need help, theyre not fun, im out.’ Everyone wants proof that there’s an illness there then when they get proof they think the person is gross. I can only imagine how amplified that must be on youtube. Emma you’re a rockstar. Never forget it.
I'm not even a UA-camr but I think those two last questions and answers can be applied to me and other similar situations as well, I'm feeling quite emotional right now. I'm glad this video exist.
Thank you! I've been seeing these everywhere and I really think it's a sign that I am supposed to be alive right now. You also deserve to be very happy!
I think the biggest impact I’ve had from back when I was trying to “be a UA-camr” is that I spend so much time talking to nothing/my webcam that I still to this day catch myself in a 1 on 1 conversation looking at absolutely nothing. It’s like my brain disassociated eye contact with conversation.
I think what happens is that people see a celebrity or a UA-camr and they idolize them because it seems like they have the perfect life that the person wishes for, so when they learn the people they idolize aren't happy it makes them upset or angry because their life seems perfect. However, it doesn't make it okay. If there is one I've learned, no one's life is perfect, no one's family is perfect, and everyone struggles sometimes. Celebrities and UA-camrs are human, you guys have real problems and are allowed to talk about them, to be upset, or even to take time off. In most jobs you can take personal time or take time off when something terrible happens, but UA-camrs always feel like they can't take any time off because of the way the algorithm and the internet works. You both rock, and I wish nothing but happiness for both of you, and I also hope you take care of yourselves ❤
This may sound silly, but I have felt that anxiety from the internet in a micro dose of you guys. I have a pretty popular tik tok series and a lot of my videos go majorly viral which is so cool! But it doesn’t feel that exciting, and i get numb to the numbers because i can’t comprehend it. Friends, family, and strangers come up and talk to me and hype it up but it’s emotionally exhausting and draining. Having instant gratification is amazing but also isolating and scary. I totally get this. Thanks for this awesome vid! ❤️
Not Dr. Mike (obviously) but I'd say it's just whatever works best for you, my parents are kinda workout nuts, and they do whatever's best for them. My mom refuses to work out or go the gym early in the morning because she wouldn't be doing her best, so it's whatever is best for you. Workout is workout.
I mean, as someone who sometimes works out, I tend to work out in the morning because I become far more awake, but I tend to be tired at the end of the day
Mental health applies to everyone. Rich, poor, famous, obscure.
That's why everyone should have equal access to mental health care.
@@altrocks I agree. It's just as important as physical well being.
Watching Dr.Mike’s empathy towards Emma while she is speaking is so endearing and beautiful to watch. This is why he is an amazing Doctor, you can tell he is genuinely interested in what she is saying. ❤️
You have no idea how long I have waited for this combo
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This topic is so important... and we don’t talk enough about it.
Dr. Mike looks so proud whenever Emma explains her train of thoughts and it´s honestly so endearing
this video was actually so insightful and refreshing to hear as a fellow content creator on this platform. thank you for talking about these subjects and being so open! ❤️
Love how Emma explains her feelings and Dr. Mike explains the theory behind it
wow i couldn't relate more. I'm no where close to emma's subscriber level, but I went through some crazy ups and downs especially over the past year as I slowly transitioned into replacing my old job. And especially not having many friends it doesn't make it any easier. I've always used youtube as a way for me to open up, try new things, and force myself to be more spontaneous and have excuses to make life more exciting. I've learned so many new skills and had so many experiences because of it. But its really easy to let how well your channel/vids perform effect your mood. I always take my time if I feel like posting a vid or not. Sometimes I just don't feel it, but other times I will get into that flow state and have so much motivation, creativity, and not even see the time go by. And other times I will love a certain video idea, have fun filming it, but then I'll wait to edit and as the time goes by I just start losing motivation, feel it ain't good enough and struggle with finishing the video. But I also came to realize over the years that everything has its ups and downs. I feel like its important to have an ultimate self-fulfilling goal. Sure things are cool to grind for, but those intrinsic goals are sooooo nice.
The only reason why this video didn’t blow is because of UA-cam’s algorithm which definitely says a lot especially on what these two amazing people discussed in the video
Wow! I didn't know her, thank you for this video Dr Mike! Really loved watching it. Mental health is a such an underestimated problem, I wish there were more doctors like you. thank you!
this was a collab video i never expected but honestly i’m living for it
this is the collab i never knew i wanted
I love how engaged in the conversation she is. As a young girl close to her age, it’s nice to hear someone in her shoes talk about these things.
Emma : when my privacy is not being respected it's the worst
Hollywood fix: 👁️👄👁️ lolz
LMAO
Was not expecting this, but such a welcome video. Anxiety is a big part of my life and I'm just starting to get into social media and it's already a bit stressful so this is a great video. Thank you.
Please talk about medical racism on your channel, Dr. Mike.
Things we want to see from Doctor Mike:
- Jump out of a plane with Juanpa
- Do a vlog in NYC
- Story with your red car and spider
- More from your lovely nephews 😍
- Another vlog in the hospital
Edit: - Collab with James Charles
Lovesssss
Totally agree
Yes, I wanna hear the story of him crashing his Audi.
Addie-Eileen Paige baaaaahahahahha I was waiting sooo long for that
But i hope he sees this 😬😬
I agree with everything but I really really dying to know the story about his red car and the spider.
Like how do you crash a car because of a spider? 🕷️🤔
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest"
😍
I'm not a content creator, but as a software engineer, I feel the exact same. It's like wearing golden handcuffs.
i like this analogy!
Being alone in a crowd is exactly how I feel when I'm around people who aren't my close friends.
I suffer from anxiety and depression so this was very informative
I definitely “get on the” hedonic treadmill in my life. I get this and now I want that almost immediately, but when a country/community is going through a pandemic together it has slowed down and I’m learning to enjoy every little thing!
Weirdly fulfilling isnt it. When life gets put on pause? Was this the break we all needed?
Wow this was a really deep conversation I feel like I learnt a lot for my own life. Thank you 😊
I love this collaboration! Emma saying “you know” multiple times is soo cutee😭♥️
Is so offensive how good looking this dude is
"when you're making a video you are really talking to yourself.".... And Dr. Mike also dances by himself at the end of every video while there is no music while he does it 👀👀👀👀
I genuinely love how he keeps everything so real and understands people around him. The empathy he holds within himself is just truly commendable. I just wish all doctors out there were like him.
I read that in Hermione's voice.
@@emptynutellajar8283 But that name's a male...Haha! Nd Hi! I am A Potterhead as well!!😂💕
@@nope4207 I'm a female lol
@@nope4207 I said that by the reference of the dp 😂
My Perspective On Mental Health
It's hard when you're always lying,
Always hiding the way you feel.
Losing your sight on truthful words,
Forgetting what is real.
It's hard when you forget to laugh
And you're scared that someone might see.
Hoping no one saw your face,
As you struggle to remember how to breathe.
It's hard to pretend you're happy,
And you're terrified someone might ask.
It's becoming harder every day;
It's becoming quite a task.
You feel when your body shakes,
As it searches for something to hold.
Though the temperature feels hot,
Your heart and mind feel cold.
Your throat feels like it's closing,
And your legs feel like they're weak.
You try your hardest to grasp a breath,
But there's not even enough to speak.
Your hands remain unsteady,
And your heart pounds like a drum,
And even though you can barely walk,
You fight the urge to run.
You scream as the world starts spinning,
And your knees drop straight to the ground.
You realize in that moment
You're just having another breakdown.
Well said
🖤
Nice message but are you trying to make a song bruh? No hate I just find it funny.
@@smarty_melon more like a poem
I love this poem 💜 You are very talented.
she acts more mature than gabbie when she did a collab with Dr. Mike💀
Aisha haha you are so right. 🤣
People are like "who's here 'cuz of Emma!"
Me: I'm here because of Doctor Mike teaching and having fun
🎤ua-cam.com/video/iaRLQc2XJOI/v-deo.html
Same dude 😌
I'm here for both (even though I haven't watched Emma's videos in a while...)
I don't know who Emma is, so I am here for Dr Mike 😊
@@veronicaivanova pretty much same i dont know her but i heard her name from other youtubers
It’s true that people don’t understand someone else’s struggles unless they face them themselves. You never know what someone might be going through. Everyone has their own struggles in life. So, it should be our responsibility to not make things harder for anyone by spreading hate. Please stop spreading hate! It doesn’t help anyone.
I love this mental health videos. They make you feel included and a normal human just like every other human. I always had problems talking in front of a camera, or holding a speech, because I have a gut that tells me I can't trust anyone. I'm afraid of the lies that might be spreading, I feel fragile and made of glass if I'm surrounded by eyes I never saw. When I speak to people, I want to make eye contact, I want to make sure I can trust the one I'm talking to, cause you know internet or the wrong person is a good place for shading. When I'm holding a speech, when I'm speaking in front of a camera, I can't do that. I can't make eye contact with people, I can't make sure I can trust them. And I unfortunately found our about this fragile part of myself a bit late. So, when Emma said she felt analysed as a youtuber, I felt her from the bottom of my heart. I wanted to share my experiences, and I hope you understand that there's a great difference between being afraid of holding a speech and being too shy to hold a speech.
I'm a UA-camr and it does effect your mental health, i've had moments when i've turned on the camera and literally cried simply because my head is telling me "I'm ugly" "nobody likes me" "i'm too fat to make UA-cam videos" and plenty other things, I push on and try to ignore the voice in the back of my head but sometimes it gets too much, so i understand the struggle
she is so much more well spoken than before. I love Emma so much. she deserves all the success she has + I hope she gets many more things in the future. she grew up in the best way and she's thriving! she's amazing.
I have so much respect for Emma being like this she should have this persona in videos
Parasocial relationships are not the same as real relationships. UA-camrs don't know who you are and we don't really know UA-camrs. A UA-camr can present their struggles in a video but we will never trully understand them.
"I put my heart and my soul into my work, and have lost my mind in the process." (-Vincent van Gogh)
I didn't know who Emma was/is, but that conversation was absolutely great and honest. Thanks for that. It's always "good" for ppl with mental health issues to see that they are not alone. That can happens to everyone.
Thanks for that. It was very educational as usual.
I feel so sad for her, we are the same age and I cannot imagine the pressure on her...I hope she finds some good group of friends and has support we all crave.
this was the longest Emma doesn't cuss 😂
Its an interview. What do you expect
@@user-ys6hu4dk7x uuuhh.. sarcasm?
I watch Mike and Emma whenever I'm anxious so this is like an ultimate zen combo 😂
Simon Stella same
Emma is so wise beyond her age! Even as 50 year old, I enjoy watching her! I was really happy to see these two collab for this video!!
Who wants to see mike fight that plant again 😂
I hope it moved with him
Me
😂😂
Dina Zwitscher did he move??!?
Update: the plant is alive (..😶..) in the open schools video.
I'm so glad you did this. One of my son's favorite UA-camr committed suicide. He couldn't understand why or how he could of wanted to die. Im going to show him this video. My son wants to be a UA-camr but it worries me. Its hard to balance wanting to encourage your kid to follow their dreams but also be a voice for reason. Thanks Doc
100% know what you’re talking about. My 9year old wants to stream Fortnite videos. That scares me! Thankfully there’s an age restriction on a lot of platforms. Hopefully he grows out of wanting to do that. But at the same time. When he is of age. If he can partially support himself (news paper runs, mowing lawns walking dogs etc) I will support him in his ventures. We’ve spoken about it so he knows what to expect and what we expect until then.
@@xZotiC454 ive seen so many kids brought into the light on the internet and so many parents are blind to the damaging everything does to the mental health!
This is JUST LIKE being a teacher!! No one understands what we go through except other teachers. We are constantly judged and critiqued and our job is acting all day every day. We feel obligated to make everyone happy. We burn out so fast too. I loved seeing two of my favorite you tubers collaborating. ❤️ such a great video
Hi!! I think that a very interesting subject to discuss is the impact of stress on the general health! Specially in the pandemic situation we live in.
She has my husky voice, lol! Yes, the hedonic treadmill! I have experienced that! I was in a toxic relationship with my husband of 26 years, and he basically gave me everything just to shut me up. In essence, he felt if I had all the trinkets life has to offer, I shouldn't complain. But my husband was absent in all things emotional and physical because he became a drug addict. He thought if he gave me the finer things in life I would ignore his indiscretions (his mistress was cocaine) and not complain. I finally left that relationship and I do not have the Audi, and the tri-level home with swimming pool and spa, and all the niceties that come with success, and I've never been more at peace than ever.
Happy you’re at peace!! Also....husky voices are the best/sexiest 🥳 as someone tooting their own horn in saying that I don’t care hahaha, husky voice gang
@@nicky2575 Thank you!
i’m so proud of you, you’re so strong!! i may be a stranger but seeing you happy makes me happy 🤍
@@BabyYodie My ex-husband's name is Lou, lol!
Equating drug addiction to a booty call (mistress) is actually very misogynistic. Addiction is an illness. Infidelity is quite another matter. Your husband is ill (or was) and taking his money for TWENTY SIX YEARS while he's ill and with no mention of trying to deal with the addiction or any contributing circumstances makes you sound very exploitative of him.
Hope both of you are better off now.
I'm literally 45 seconds into the video and already this interview/collab is 1000x better than the collab with Gabbie. How is someone who is almost 10+ younger than Gabbie act more mature and collected? Just staying quiet and letting him speak is something Gabbie couldn't do. Just saying 🤷🏻
Dr.Mike is clearly an expert conversationalist, If he was my dr. I would probably try to go to the hospital often
This is why it’s so so good for creators to have some sort of meaning or purpose behind their content or outside of their content other than just vlogging their daily lives. The people who I watch that have an outside career or a deeper purpose to their content stay much more grounded and don’t seem to live in so much anxiety about their career suddenly crashing out of no where
I legit felt like I was sitting in a therapy session with both Dr Mike and Emma. It was so cool to witness how Dr Mike's bedside manner shows outside of the hospital. You can tell he is a great doctor. I just know he's better than any doctor I've met from the way he actually listens to people and from how knowledgeable and passionate he is. I love that he educates others through videos, he's the best
I can’t believe i just found this video now, like I’m so late man, i can’t believe im watching two of my fav youtubers in one video
Same lol
I don't know who needs to hear that right now, but dark times won't stay forever. Better days will come. For everyone out there, please check on your "strong" friends and colleagues, because these are the ones who suffers inside and don't show it.
For everyone who pulled themselves out of a dark place, you are stronger than you think, because it takes a lot of strength to do that.
And never feel like you can't talk to anyone, believe me, your friend are rather listen to your problems than hearing you hurt yourself or even worse.
Peace and Love ✌🏽❤️
Uschi P. I do 😭🥺
Thank you so much for this. I've been seeing these everywhere and I really think it's a sign that I really am meant to be alive right now. Please never forget that these things apply to you as well.
Elizabeth Sunenberg you are meant to be alive. You will overcome whatever it is that you are going through. Always believe in yourself! There’s always a rainbow after a storm 🦋🌈 sending you love and positivity 💕💫
@@elizabethsunenberg5949 yes my dear, YOU ARE MEANT TO BE ALIVE. Never forget, what you are going to miss when you are not. And again, whenever you feel sad or even worse, talk to someone. It is important for you, but also important for your friends and family.
Peace and big Love to you.
Alway remember, YOU ARE AMAZING!!!! 💕💕💕
Very accurate and psychological conversation. It took a few therapy sessions to realize I cant control others and can only control myself and my reactions. This helped a lot with future issues I've had.
In my last 2 years of high school I was extremely depressed, occasionally self harming but my classmates would always make comments about how put together I was and they were always like “you’re so happy all the time” even tho at the end of the day I would go home and cry because I was so insecure and hated myself. I only seemed to be happy because when I’m around other people I never want to be a downer even if I’m struggling internally. So everyone just assumed things about me and never asked me if I was okay or how I was doing. I now never assume anything about anyone’s mental health.
No one:
UA-cam: let’s notify her 5 minutes late so she can never be early
Literally 😔
Ikkk
Every time 😔
Ikr
Ikkkrrrr
I've never expected this collab, haha loving it tho
I honestly wish that dr.mike was my doctor. Then I’d brag all day. 😄🤣😂
I would go to the doctor every single day😂
Martina Pisani and if I was a little baby I could brag about getting shots from him. 🤣
A lot of the things she talked about felt super relatable to me, for example how she disappears of the internet for a while when she is not well and isolates even more and how she feels when she made a video she is not proud of. Both these I experienced even though I just make videos for fun. Really informative video especially since I thought I was the only one who felt like this
Emma is so real In her videos tho. She’s careless but still being herself. She’s doing a good job. She just needs to keep it up with the genuineness. That’s all
The analogy of YT as the demonic personal trainer is so apt & easy to understand !
Kudos to your ability to simplify complex topics Dr. Mike 🙌🏼♥️
I collab I didn't expect, and never knew I needed 😭❤️
Yessss
The last time I was this early Bear was trying on Halloween costumes 😂
Hi! I’m glad to find a recent video because I’ve been wanting to ask Dr. Mike a medical question. I’m excited that I’ve watched it because I’ve learned so much about UA-camrs, their motivations and process. The emphasis on mental health is so relevant today. Thanks for making this collab!
What medical opinions do you have about the Wim Hoff/Michael Hoff methods? Any safety concerns? What about the assumption that it enhances the immune system? Do you agree with the claim that it trains the subconscious to respond to conscious directions? How about it using it to treat mental health issues (such as the ones mentioned in this video?)
Thank you!
Dr. Mike is such a great person. Intelligence, kindness, empathy, passion, and many more things... People like him make me feel very hopeful about humanity.
I feel like UA-cam is an extreme job, and depending on the person it can either stress you out fully and cause you anxiety or it can cause you mostly happiness and fulfillment, but unless you arent working it full time I dont think there is a lot of space to be in between.
It's not an extreme job but it's not for someone without confidence
@@starchannel123 It is extreme, I agree on the confidence part tho. But other than all eyes being on you, and the lack of job security, it can be extreme because you make your own schedule, you need to make your own decision of how much work to do, it's not a 9 to 5 so it can create a lot of pressure to work more and more even when you should just take a break and rest which can get extreme. But if you know how to balance it and you are successful that's where it gets to give you the tons of happiness.
@@Mohammad-on5qo and UA-cam's bullshit guidelines don't help much either
omg mike and emma literally my two favourites, both deserve the world 🥺💞
Two of my favorite youtubers talking about an important subject!!! I love it already
There's the saying that, "Money doesn't buy happiness." Well, views or subscribers don't buy happiness, either.
I literally was watching him yesterday and I was thinking “ it would be sooo cool,if he collared with Emma” cuz I’ve been watching her a lot too and I wake up today and there’s a notification saying that they collared to talk about mental health
I literally thought I misread the title of this video bc I did not ever expect Mike and Emma to collab, not complaining tho. My two of my fav creators together
She’s so wise for her age, I really enjoy her.
OMG MY TWO FAVORITE UA-camRS FROM DIFFERENT UNIVERSES TOGETHER!!! i’m freaking out
I’ve got a question about mental health: How do I get over the urge to fall back into old habits? (Aka doing target behaviors, not taking my meds, and letting my mental illnesses take over me)
Find your inner strength. Meditate. And do your best to be strong !
I understand this so much. I don't know if this will help you, but when I really can't cope with life I give myself a "day off". That day I can sleep a lot or stay awake too late, eat unhealthy food or not eating some meals, not showering or changing my pajamas or whatever, but after that day passes and my brain has been in the gutter enough, I wake up at a reasonable time, take care of myself and my body and slowly but surely in the following days I try to get my routine right again. I don't think it's the best option but I prefer that to being funky for eight days straight lol hope you feel better soon, be strong and ask for help if you need it :)
I really request Emma to post a detailed video on this topic on her Chanel
When you were talking about “flow” you made me think of something my therapist and I discuss often. Vocation vs avocation. I LOVE being in the dance studio dancing jazz, tap and ballet. I sometimes have to look DOWN to see cloud 9. BUT I’d hate to think of it as my job. Something that I HAVE to do. There is potential for joy to be sucked out of it.
Hi Dr. Mike! I studied in Beijing, I was always sick there, had fever, coughing, headaches, trouble breathing etc. Went to see a doctor but they only recommended Chinese Medicine... What are your views on Chinese Medicine? Is it safe and do you recommend it?
I actually wanna know what he has to say cause ive heard about chinese medicine but dont know much about it
Chinese medicine has really helped my father alot he wont go to see a western doctor (western medicine never helped him) thats just his experience but i would say research the doctor you go to and then give it a shot (no ta doctor but i have watched my fathers health improve tremendously from Chinese medicine)
@@serenabean868 Thank you ☺️
I hope you don’t have what I think you have
@@tomato1618 oh no, don't worry 😂
This was like two years ago... Won't travel now haha
Me: *a hype person, usually laughs a lot, the one who always give advices to friends*
Also me: * depressed, trying to share problems*
ppl who know me: *it's your imagination*
people closer to me: *don't pays attention a lot, laughing, they think I'm joking around - continue talking about their problems instead*
Here for you💕 God bless
You’re not alone❤️
That happens to people who seem happy all the time and help others so when they need help it is difficult to get a listening ear. Maybe you can write your feelings or do a video/audio pretty sure it can help.
God bless you 🙏
I look forward to the "PEEWOOP" so much 😭😂
Exactly people need to understand they are humans just like us but famous.... Why do we expect them to be perfect ... Cut them some slack... Great video Mike... Don't understand why does this have lesser views
How I see it is that the more subscribers you have, the more people you have to please.. the higher the expectations become until the bar is almost unreachable. From the viewer perspective, it almost feels like you’re building a relationship with the creator- we know so much about you; it feels like I could see you on the street and greet you like a coworker or a friend, but you have no idea who I am. So there’s a level of disappointment if the creator goes Mia or doesn’t post as much etc. it’s such a one sided situation - you nailed it when you said you can’t talk back to those individuals that comment. And that’s hard from the viewers end as well. We feel a connection and it would be nice to have our thoughts or feelings reciprocated and feel that two- way interaction but at 1,2,8-million subscribers, how could you!
Such an open and amazing mind. She’s incredibly mature for her age
take a shot everytime emma says"you know"
You should watch dr. House it’s on amazon prime!
People underestimate how amazing mental health youtubers are. If you go on and keep up a happy, shiny appearance people just IRL think ‘theyre fine, why do they think they have mental issues?’ but if we show up on a bad day, looking how we feel and just shootin straight about the misery people think ‘ugh theyre such a hot mess, they need help, theyre not fun, im out.’ Everyone wants proof that there’s an illness there then when they get proof they think the person is gross. I can only imagine how amplified that must be on youtube.
Emma you’re a rockstar. Never forget it.
I'm not even a UA-camr but I think those two last questions and answers can be applied to me and other similar situations as well, I'm feeling quite emotional right now. I'm glad this video exist.
Why do I feel like mike was Emma’s dad in a way
They're only like 10 years apart lol
@@adaezenjoku7527 Laughs in Priyanka and Nick
Adaeze Njoku that’s a very large age gap..
@@kristinhaddadin7270 maybe if they were dating but not nearly large enough to be father and daughter
It's been confirmed. The best collab ever has finnally happened!
You are a blessing. I wish I knew you personally 😞💜
I love your videos
Yes
doesnt everyone wanna
Doctor Mike: us as creators we deal with different anxieties and...
Emma: 𝙉𝙤𝙙
That little smile of emma when mike said "reproduce" 10:55
Hey you, yes you there scrolling down. You deserve to be happy ❤ I wish you all the best 😊
Same to you 😘
You too! Thanks 🙂
Thank you! I've been seeing these everywhere and I really think it's a sign that I am supposed to be alive right now. You also deserve to be very happy!
absolutely loved this collab! emma is so wise and well spoken
I think the biggest impact I’ve had from back when I was trying to “be a UA-camr” is that I spend so much time talking to nothing/my webcam that I still to this day catch myself in a 1 on 1 conversation looking at absolutely nothing. It’s like my brain disassociated eye contact with conversation.
nowadays its ok to have conversations with yourself, I do it too. Or maybe its the hell portal under my bed leaking out satan’s writings 🤔
@@Connorly800 ha, wrote this before I realized I was autistic and no/limited eye contact is a major thing with people with ASD
HOW did this exist for FOUR MONTHS before I discovered it
I think what happens is that people see a celebrity or a UA-camr and they idolize them because it seems like they have the perfect life that the person wishes for, so when they learn the people they idolize aren't happy it makes them upset or angry because their life seems perfect. However, it doesn't make it okay. If there is one I've learned, no one's life is perfect, no one's family is perfect, and everyone struggles sometimes. Celebrities and UA-camrs are human, you guys have real problems and are allowed to talk about them, to be upset, or even to take time off. In most jobs you can take personal time or take time off when something terrible happens, but UA-camrs always feel like they can't take any time off because of the way the algorithm and the internet works. You both rock, and I wish nothing but happiness for both of you, and I also hope you take care of yourselves ❤
What a thought provoking content.Thanks Dr.Mike❤
i was literally just binge watching emmas channel ommmggg 🤯😆
do a collab with brad mondo or best dressed or simplynailogical
BESTDRESSED YES
CRISTINE
these three youtubers are literally all in my subscribe box;)
Callie Daulton yes
This may sound silly, but I have felt that anxiety from the internet in a micro dose of you guys. I have a pretty popular tik tok series and a lot of my videos go majorly viral which is so cool! But it doesn’t feel that exciting, and i get numb to the numbers because i can’t comprehend it. Friends, family, and strangers come up and talk to me and hype it up but it’s emotionally exhausting and draining. Having instant gratification is amazing but also isolating and scary. I totally get this. Thanks for this awesome vid! ❤️
it's so nice that Emma's talking about mental health and being a youtuber. i learned a lot too 🙏
Question for Dr. Mike: When is the best time to workout? Before breakfast, after breakfast, at night, etc.?
Not Dr. Mike (obviously) but I'd say it's just whatever works best for you, my parents are kinda workout nuts, and they do whatever's best for them. My mom refuses to work out or go the gym early in the morning because she wouldn't be doing her best, so it's whatever is best for you. Workout is workout.
Try to avoid nighttime because that’s when you get your heart rate up and can’t sleep
I mean, as someone who sometimes works out, I tend to work out in the morning because I become far more awake, but I tend to be tired at the end of the day