We Lost our Baby

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  • Опубліковано 28 лип 2024
  • The video I was hoping I never had to make. The story about how we lost our baby, miscarriage in week 11.
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  • @KalleFlodin
    @KalleFlodin  2 роки тому +1408

    Christine has been so extremely strong through this whole process, I'm so proud of her. It takes a LOT of courage to open up and talk about a trauma and sorrow like this publicly, especially when it's about your own body ❤

    • @rin7993
      @rin7993 2 роки тому +17

      I hope your doing better

    • @Jennasworld1876
      @Jennasworld1876 2 роки тому +31

      Wishing you all well and I am so sorry this happened. Talking about her trauma, both of your trauma, in front of this many ppl can become horrible after a while. Please be careful, it’s so deceiving. You feel like it’s therapeutic, but it can cause so much more damage than you know. Taking a huge break from the internet might be a good idea

    • @Hellwinofficial
      @Hellwinofficial 2 роки тому +24

      @@MissSchnickfitzel This is not the time nor the place to spread your views on nutrition, mate.

    • @johnadams8902
      @johnadams8902 2 роки тому +21

      As a father i cannot imagine your pain. If there was something i could say to help the pain. To stop you and your wife's suffering , then i would. This is very unfortunate and i do not know why things like this happen or what we are to learn from it. I hope what is good from this day forward from this point is filled with abundance for you and your wife. And though it cannot fill the loss , hopefully it can soften the blow. I am sorry for your loss.🌹

    • @gwendelyne
      @gwendelyne 2 роки тому +31

      There's a saying that grief doesn't shrink with time, instead your life grows around it. The shape and size remain the same but you learn how to cope. These conversations are so unbelievably difficult, but our culture is so far removed from the reality of death I think it's important to be open and honest about how it happens and what it's like. So thank you for being strong in the face of grief like this, I can't even imagine.
      I'm so sorry you lost your grandfather too 😔

  • @lauratrettevik5994
    @lauratrettevik5994 Рік тому +182

    Dear Christine and Kalle, I am a 70 year old 3rd generation Swedish woman born and raised in the United States. I recently found your videos and have loved them. I have grown to love you both like family. I know that this video is 10 months old, but I need to tell you that I cried with you, Kalle, as you walked us through this terrible loss, but mostly your deep love and concern for Christina. I trust that she is doing well now. May our loving God bless you always and know that you are in my prayers. Blessings, Laura Hendrickson-Trettevik.

  • @rbhfamily4556
    @rbhfamily4556 2 роки тому +303

    I really appreciate hearing this tender side of a father’s experience losing his baby. Thank you for sharing. I could feel your love for both your baby and your companion. I’ve lost 4 babies and I always appreciate those who acknowledge my babies and those who acknowledge their own babies so openly. My heart goes out to you both.

    • @cearilindubhlaoi9507
      @cearilindubhlaoi9507 2 роки тому +11

      Bless you and bless your precious babies xxxx I wish you peace be kind to yourself xxxx

    • @raeharris7087
      @raeharris7087 2 роки тому +8

      So sorry for the loss of your baby prayers to you both.

    • @lspeace6640
      @lspeace6640 Рік тому +4

      Im so sorry . I feel deeply with your loss. Bless you

  • @pamelajohansen882
    @pamelajohansen882 Рік тому +7

    I had a miscarriage 42 years ago, my final year in nursing school. I still remember those feelings and being in hospital. I healed. You will heal. In your time and in your way. Peace be with you both.

  • @davidclayton2642
    @davidclayton2642 2 роки тому +160

    My wife and I have gone through this a couple of times. It takes a lot of bravery and courage to open up so publicly about miscarriage and we're both thinking of you x

  • @Talasbuan
    @Talasbuan 2 роки тому +203

    We're so very sorry for what happened to you. You are both in our thoughts ♡

  • @pamwilliams6630
    @pamwilliams6630 Рік тому +32

    Back in the 70's I lost two pregnancies, I understand all the emotions. God bless you both.

  • @_elan__
    @_elan__ 2 роки тому +83

    I am so sorry for your loss 💔 sending you both so much love.

  • @LeenaHenningsen
    @LeenaHenningsen 2 роки тому +419

    Sending so much love to you both ❤️

    • @KalleFlodin
      @KalleFlodin  2 роки тому +15

      Thank you Leena ❤️

    • @DNA350ppm
      @DNA350ppm 2 роки тому +1

      From me, too - can relate to it all!

  • @mariamikkelsen4803
    @mariamikkelsen4803 2 роки тому +105

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I've had two miscarriages and the emotions, physical pain, hormones and all that comes with it. And it is as you say so common. I started talking about it as well and it's beyond hitting the roof with stories and how many miscarriages couples and women have gone through. It's really brave and nice to see a man's perspective and emotions around this. Thanks for sharing that! ♡

    • @tiffanieelek8740
      @tiffanieelek8740 2 роки тому +5

      I whole heartedly agree with you! I’ve only had one miscarriage and it happened when I was so young! I didn’t understand what was going on. After I got some good insight from a friend that’s when everything hit me!
      Thank you for sharing your story and for pointing out that it’s important to hear the fathers side of the story. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ADdddd90
    @ADdddd90 7 місяців тому +12

    I'm very sorry. I lost my first baby 12 years ago. I was in the 5th month. I had to give birth to her after she died in my womb. It was terrible and she is still missing today, even though I now have 3 healthy children. Nobody can replace our Mia❤️.Feel warm ❤️God bless you🍀In Love, Anna from Germany

    • @ginamiller269
      @ginamiller269 6 місяців тому +1

      That's true everything you wrote . I have lost twins 40b years ago. Ben pregnant with my two babies in 7th month as suddenly had to give birtgh. They have dies within 3 hrs. After few years later got a healthy daughter but my twins always in my heart and never ever forgotten. Warm regards to you and be happy with yur healthy childrens , same with me .

  • @Tubifia
    @Tubifia 2 роки тому +56

    Fint med en man som vågar visa sig så sårbar. En vacker dag kommer du att bli en fantastisk pappa.

  • @hazellinajane
    @hazellinajane 2 роки тому +219

    Dear Kalle and Christine. I knew the moment I saw your video last week that this was what had happened because I recognised the pain immediately, having gone through it myself. I am so, so very sorry for you both. It hurts so bad it's like a physical pain. I am only a stranger from the internet but I am sending you my love and so much healing.
    To anyone else who might read this comment, please be mindful of your comments too. Words like 'something wasn't right' and 'at least you know you can get pregnant' or ' you will have lots of babies' are agonising to hear at a time like this, as kindly as they are meant.

  • @thechiseledbeaver
    @thechiseledbeaver 2 роки тому +30

    My wife had 2 miscarriages before we had our healthy baby boy. I know this is a very difficult time. Keep going and you will be blessed.

  • @couragefish
    @couragefish 2 роки тому +59

    I'm so sorry for your loss ♥️ we lost twins in a missed misscarriage in 2017 and it was extremely painful (birth physically and emotionally). I appreciate that you're willing to talk about it and help break the stigma. I found that to be an important part of my own healing journey.

  • @Becinroom101
    @Becinroom101 Рік тому +38

    What courage; what love. This is the bravest and most loving thing I’ve seen on UA-cam. My heart aches for both of you, and for this terrible loss. I am so thankful for your courage in sharing your story, and shining a light on what is still too often a very deeply hidden grief. I hope this video gives courage and support to others, and lets people walking a similar path know that they are not alone.

  • @sleepywolf1533
    @sleepywolf1533 2 роки тому +143

    I’m so sorry. This made me tear up.

  • @vondonna1
    @vondonna1 2 роки тому +130

    Kalle, I’m so very sorry for your loss of both your baby and your grandfather. Words from a stranger cannot sooth your broken hearts, but please know that you and Christine are in my thoughts. Huge hugs to you both. Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @marydemars1341
    @marydemars1341 2 роки тому +114

    This video was... while heartbreaking, it was incredibly powerful and important. I've had family and friends experience miscarriages and... There aren't words. Sending so much love and support to both of you. Thank you for finding the strength to share this part of the journey. May the future hold so much happiness and good things for both of you.

  • @amyhamilton5
    @amyhamilton5 2 роки тому +34

    I’m so sorry. My husband and I were devastated when we lost our first baby. I’m glad you spoke about this and were so honest and transparent. Thank you.

  • @mattbahe
    @mattbahe 2 роки тому +67

    I'm so sorry for your loss Kalle. My wife and I had several miscarriages, and also a couple failed attempts at in vitro, so when you talked about how it's different for a guy that really resonated with me. #flashbacks Thank you for having the courage to share your story, as well as your sadness. You are not alone my friend.

  • @glenmisha
    @glenmisha 2 роки тому +144

    Losing a child is the most pain you'll ever face. Our son was 21 when he departed in 2021. Sorry for your excruciating pain. Nobody is to blame. Keep loving each other. 💔💞

    • @karineb5980
      @karineb5980 2 роки тому +1

      21 ans ., quel bel âge, respect de votre soutien

    • @ingevansand9180
      @ingevansand9180 2 роки тому +4

      So sorry for your loss ❤️

    • @fahd458
      @fahd458 2 роки тому +3

      So sorry for your loss ❤️

    • @elizeronnquist7642
      @elizeronnquist7642 2 роки тому +3

      ❤️

    • @op17567
      @op17567 2 роки тому +3

      Sorry for your loss.

  • @melanienorburg3011
    @melanienorburg3011 2 роки тому +59

    I lost a baby as a teenager , ( the father was also a teen). It never feels good hearing “it’s for the best”… we both wanted to be together and loosing that baby ripped us apart to our core. People underestimate the depth and life changing implications a miscarriage puts on parents at any age, social status, or relationship status

    • @metastract
      @metastract Рік тому +7

      It shouldn't affect relationship "status" though. Miscarriage is and always has been part of life. If your partner only wants you for what you can produce for them, you're not with the right person. True love means through thick and thin. With or without DNA kids. You can always adopt or foster if you're truly altruistic.

    • @jek__
      @jek__ Рік тому +6

      @@metastract good intention, bad execution. Neither the time nor place.

    • @Vikingshop
      @Vikingshop Рік тому

      I am so sorry Melanie 💔🙏💝

    • @mag1071
      @mag1071 6 місяців тому

      I understand and I am so sad for both of you. So glad that you can support each other because this is the time that you need each other the most!

    • @mag1071
      @mag1071 6 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing !

  • @grumpydruid8372
    @grumpydruid8372 Рік тому +11

    It is very generous of you both to share this story.

  • @thegoodscientistsdaughter7236
    @thegoodscientistsdaughter7236 2 роки тому +85

    Seeing the fathers perspective is really eye opening. I appreciate you sharing this very difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss. May peace and love be with you both.

  • @marc9709
    @marc9709 2 роки тому +84

    Me and my wife went through the same thing two years ago. November we had the good news, new year's eve it turned into an ectopic pregnancy which needed an emergency operation... I feel you dude, it's tough really tough. Make sure you talk about it, talk about it as much as possible to anyone and everyone. Sending you guys love from the UK.x

    • @Helena.E.M
      @Helena.E.M Рік тому +9

      I'm so sorry, Marc. Ectopic pregnancies are terrifying. I've experienced two and on the first, my fallopian tube ruptured. By the time they operated, I had a litre and half of blood and free fluid in my abdomen. The surgery that should have taken 40 minutes took nearly four hours. It happened again a year later and I needed another surgery but it wasn't quite so close to the edge that time because I knew what was happening and was in hospital when it got really serious. I'm adding this not to hijack your post but because I want to get the message out there that anyone who has early pregnancy pain and bleeding should get checked out. Considering what was going on in my body, I had relatively little pain and thought I was having a 'typical' miscarriage. If I'd not gone in just to get it checked - or even if I'd left it half-an-hour longer, I wouldn't be here. I think it's so important we share our experiences to support others who are going through similar. Sending every good wish to you and your wife. Thanks for sharing your story.

    • @Yonder792
      @Yonder792 Рік тому

      How sad x

  • @KR-pe7gr
    @KR-pe7gr 2 роки тому +10

    My brother, I am so sorry for your loss 💔 sending you both so much love.

  • @ashmagardener
    @ashmagardener 2 роки тому +20

    You have my deepest condolences, as a mother of two blessed children and 3 miscarriages. Loosing a child even if you have never seen them born is worth every tear and every moment of felt loss.. They are and were yours, there is absolutely no shame in weeping over an unborn child because to you and your family they already existed and this is valid and true to life 🙏❤️ Thank you for being opened to sharing your loss and heartbreak. I have shed tears the entire time listening, this is important to share thank you agian.🙏

  • @marytruax9684
    @marytruax9684 2 роки тому +28

    I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your baby! From the moment I realized that I was pregnant my life changed. That little babe become part of our family, our hopes and dreams! Four months later we too lost our baby. We commemorated our little one by planting a garden that came up year after year.

  • @aliveandfiddling
    @aliveandfiddling 2 роки тому +28

    My heart goes out to you. I lost my baby too. And my husband shortly after. This year has been one of unremitting grief and loss. It is so hard to keep going. Sending so much love and gratitude to you both for all you share and do and are. And so much empathy. Hold on to each other. Love, Meghan

    • @Olhamo
      @Olhamo Рік тому

      Sending you Love. i lost my mother a few months ago, and it still feels rough. So many people have lost others especially recently. Our hearts are raw.

    • @sterterous
      @sterterous Рік тому

      I am so sorry for your losses. That is so much to cope with. I am praying that the pain will lessen as time goes by.

  • @judyschepp8748
    @judyschepp8748 Рік тому +7

    Dearest Kalle and Christine, I just watched this video and I am so sorry for your loss. I've never lost a baby but my son and his first wife did and it was devastating!!!! We ran into each other at a department store where I happened to be shopping for a baby gift. They told me then and there. I went out to my car and sat there & sobbed my heart out!!!! I finally got home, told my husband and we both lost it. This happened about 10 or 12 yrs. ago. This would have been our only grandchild. Our son is in a relationship now with a sweet lady with a daughter who we claim as our own. She's our only one and we love her!!! Take care💕♥️🤗

    • @kathleenoverton3263
      @kathleenoverton3263 7 місяців тому

      My heart breaks for this couple. Losing a pregnancy at any stage is such a loss. Loss of your future child. The family you are to be. The dreams of having this baby and who he/she would be within your family and in the world. It shatters you. My son and his fiancé lost their daughter at week 16. Her water broke and umbilical cord fell out. It was an inevitable loss at that time. We held her tiny precious body and marveled that we could see her facial features so clearly. Her miniscule fingernails and toenails. She was to be, and still is, my first grandchild. It was heartbreaking. For her loss but also watching my child and the woman he loves go through this pain was the hardest thing I ve ever done. Including my own miscarriage nearly 3.5 decades ago. They are expecting again and 2 days from now she will be 18 weeks along. She just felt the first flutters. We are so thrilled and hopeful but still it seems we are all holding our breath.

  • @sandratalbert9578
    @sandratalbert9578 9 місяців тому +3

    What a terrible turmoil…I am so very sorry for both you and sweet Christine. As an 83 yr is old grandmother, I wanted to comfort you and hug you gently.
    Thank you for mustering the courage and strength to share and perhaps educate others as to the common instance of miscarriages. Because no one speaks of them it makes it much harder to accept the occurrence as a natural occurrence.
    May you find solace and strength to continue to build your life as you want and need to. And continue to hold each other dear. 💕💕💕

  • @kait4586
    @kait4586 2 роки тому +27

    I’ve been sitting here typing and retyping. I just don’t have the right words. I’m so sorry to you both for such a tremendous loss. My 13 month old son passed away in June and it has been the hardest time of my life. Please, both of you, take all the time you need to heal. Don’t let anyone try and rush it. Sending love and hugs.❤️

  • @Katringreen.
    @Katringreen. 2 роки тому +30

    Kalle I went through the same path in December. Was the worst month of the whole year for me. I know what sadness you and Christine are going through. There are no words to describe it.

    • @lm5608
      @lm5608 2 роки тому +1

      Much love, hang in there. ✨❤️

    • @Katringreen.
      @Katringreen. 2 роки тому +1

      @@lm5608 thank you dear

  • @simpleextrovert
    @simpleextrovert 2 роки тому +16

    Oh gosh! This can’t be easy. Sending lots of love and hugs ❤️

  • @alestergard
    @alestergard 2 роки тому +12

    My heart goes out to the both of you. I'm so sorry for the losses you suffered. Thank you for being so brave, vulnerable, and selfless by sharing your experience in hopes that it helps others. It most definitely will.

  • @ilzevitola2981
    @ilzevitola2981 2 роки тому +36

    Yes, we are here, "still watching". Thank you for sharing this vulnerable part of your life. Sorry for your loss. Stay safe. Hugs from Latvia.

    • @annekecrouse1870
      @annekecrouse1870 2 роки тому

      Wish we could do more than just watch and cry with you Kalle. 😓 Sending prayers from Australia!

  • @axesandaprons
    @axesandaprons 2 роки тому +41

    So sorry for your loss. I really knew this happened from your last video. I was an OBGyn nurse and have seen the “look” many times before. I hope you two can heal together and create a space for yourselves to do so. It will take time. ❤️

  • @joanasu
    @joanasu 2 роки тому +2

    So heart breaking. Sending all my love for yours and Christine's emotional recovery.

  • @clairereid6974
    @clairereid6974 2 роки тому +9

    I’m so so sorry and sad that you had to go through this, I send prayers of love and comfort to you both ❤️🐚

  • @NeilEvans1980
    @NeilEvans1980 2 роки тому +87

    I’m so so sorry - sending love from us to you both.

  • @beggo321
    @beggo321 2 роки тому +6

    When you find yourself in times of overwhelming sadness just look at the comment section to see how much we all love you.

  • @corriedf
    @corriedf Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your story with us and your vulnerability. You did an incredible job supporting Christine.

  • @reneewagner9808
    @reneewagner9808 2 роки тому +5

    Your account of this experience touched me tremendously. I'm so sorry for your loss. So much love from my family to yours.

  • @tarawhybrow388
    @tarawhybrow388 2 роки тому +28

    Kale and Christine. Thank you for sharing your experience. I too suffered a miscarriage at 11 weeks and it was the hardest thing I ever had to go through. Nothing prepares you for the loss of a child. Take your time to heal and deal with it the way that is best for you. Don’t feel pressured to “get over it” and mourn your loss in your own way. Trust me when I say it will get easier but for now hold each other tight and take your time.

  • @breyerobsessionist16
    @breyerobsessionist16 2 роки тому +31

    Kalle, I can’t begin to describe how my heart breaks for you and Christina. My mom lost a baby and I saw how she and my dad held together for my brother and I. Your video has opened my eyes to how it feels from the perspective of a man and I am so sorry. I don’t know if you guys are Christian, but I will be praying for you regardless. Much love ❤️

  • @carolcarol3938
    @carolcarol3938 2 роки тому +1

    I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies go across the globe to you both. Love from Australia

  • @goodkarmaw9625
    @goodkarmaw9625 2 роки тому +2

    I had an ectopic pregnancy and lost the baby at the end of December 2002. Your grief is real. I'm very sorry for your loss. Sounds like your grandpa went to take care of your baby. Very sorry it was such a long traumatic experience for you two. Thank you for sharing.

  • @wendybauman4074
    @wendybauman4074 2 роки тому +8

    We, too, lost our first baby. And then a year or so later, we had our son. ❤️ Wrapping you both in love. 💜🙏💜

  • @linnarmour5059
    @linnarmour5059 2 роки тому +17

    My wife and I are so proud of you both. Yes you made us cry and the subject was hard, but wow, you will will be helping so many other people with your bravery and ability to tell this story. We both consider you two our friends and feel love for you both, even though you don't know us at all. Please know there are thousands of other people out there that feel the same way. I hope all our collective thoughts for you both help.

  • @jobl1518
    @jobl1518 2 роки тому +8

    This is heartbreaking, I'm so sorry for your lost, I hope making the video and talking out will help you heal, sending lots of love for both of you ❤

  • @Stacieleighmay
    @Stacieleighmay Рік тому +5

    Losing a child is one of the most difficult things anyone can go through. I’m so very sorry for the loss of your baby. Thank you for sharing your story and experience. We lost our son a little over 3 years ago. I was only 29 weeks and got what is called pre-eclampsia. I got very sick, my blood pressure went sky high, my body started shutting down and they had to do an emergency c-section to deliver my son. He did very well in the NICU until his 5th day, then he went downhill so fast to where the doctors didn’t know what happened and suddenly died. His autopsy results showed MRSA in his lungs, likely introduced by the respiratory therapist that was in the delivery room and hadn’t bothered to gown up. There’s so many feelings when losing a child because it’s not just your child you loose, it’s a future. I’m still figuring out what our new future looks like, and it’s ok for y’all to take time as well. Everyone moves at a different pace. I hope y’all will continue to make more videos, it brings a lot of people peace, comfort and joy. Blessings to you both. ♥️

    • @lucypellek8940
      @lucypellek8940 Рік тому +1

      So sorry to hear love. Praying for you and your family. From one momma to another, you will overcome and be stronger. These stories will continue to help others in similar situations, keep sharing. Have a blessed Christmas! 💜

    • @sterterous
      @sterterous Рік тому

      I am so very sorry for your loss.

  • @opmaus
    @opmaus 2 роки тому +59

    I can't even imagine how hard the past month has been, especially when it's normally such a joyful time of the year around Christmas. I'll be keeping you both in my prayers, and I hope that you are able to find light and peace and comfort even in the face of such sorrow. You bring joy and peace and laughter to so many through your videos, and obviously you have created a wonderful supportive community (both in person and online) that wants to lift you both up in these hard times. There aren't any words that are really enough in situations like this, but I hope y'all know how many people are praying for you and sending you good wishes and happy thoughts.

    • @miamolin
      @miamolin 2 роки тому

      ❤️❤️❤️🙏

  • @OriginalHuman
    @OriginalHuman 2 роки тому +35

    Wow I couldn’t imagine 😞 I’m so sorry mate. ❤️

  • @leslie-reagan5219
    @leslie-reagan5219 2 роки тому +4

    I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending you loving thoughts. 🌷

  • @sarahobes2758
    @sarahobes2758 2 роки тому

    I am so sorry for your loss. As painfully sad as it is to have watched both of you telling your stories, it is good to see you Kalle, men need to be given a voice for their grief too.
    Sending strength and love.

  • @gwendelyne
    @gwendelyne 2 роки тому +20

    It's absolutely terrifying to watch someone you love go through so much pain and trauma, not knowing what's going to happen. It's harder still to keep yourself together and be strong in the face of that fear, for the other person. I wish I could take the pain away, but it's clear that you are both so incredibly strong.
    Massive, massive hugs to you 🤍

  • @LisaVesander.Creative
    @LisaVesander.Creative 2 роки тому +31

    Kalle and Christine, with much love, we in this household extend our love and support to you both. This loss of a child is still raw, we hope that you both take care of each other and hope also that you realise that you are not alone, we all grieve with you. We as friends and subscribers are also your internet family and want so much to tell you that we love you both.

  • @angelasprecco4246
    @angelasprecco4246 2 роки тому +4

    I’m so sorry for your loss, my heart breaks for you both.

  • @OccamsRazoretta
    @OccamsRazoretta 2 роки тому +2

    Kalle and Christina, my heart goes out to you. I'm so sad for the loss of your baby, and for the passing of your grandfather, too.
    Hugs and prayers.

  • @rin7993
    @rin7993 2 роки тому +28

    your strong and a good dad, the baby will be watching you both up from heaven ❤️

    • @jenniepersson807
      @jenniepersson807 2 роки тому +3

      Jag är så ledsen för er skull. Tårarna rann när du berättade. All kärlek till er ❤

  • @reneeupdike2220
    @reneeupdike2220 2 роки тому +23

    Oh how my heart BREAKS for you two. On top of such a devastating experience to have to keep going to the hospital is so hard! Take one day at a time to take care of each other. You will get through this. My first pregnancy was also a miscarriage so I know what Christine is going through. Taking one day at a time helps and trying to stay positive! I like to say prayers and will pray for you two every day!!! Thank you for sharing your lives with us. We care so much what happens to you two. Christine - you did NOT do anything wrong!!!! You will be surprised at how many miscarriages happen. I was shocked to find out the high percentage after I had mine. I had wondered what I did wrong also. After watching this video I have decided to talk to my young adult daughter about this so she is aware of the possibilities of what can happen. This is a good helpful video - Thank you! I pray you may find some peace of mind to be able to get through each day to heal physically and mentally. I cried so hard for you guys through this emotional video. You guys are like family!

  • @martinbparker
    @martinbparker 2 роки тому +2

    I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. I just saw Christina's video also. Being so open and honest about this painful event in such a public forum is of great service to others who have experienced this kind of grief and loss. My heart goes out to you both. This is a very important video. Thank you for sharing this with us all.

  • @fatimashaikjee6408
    @fatimashaikjee6408 2 роки тому +1

    Stay Strong. Time will heal all wounds. Christine is really amazing and you for helping her through it. Hardships have a way of bringing people closer together than they have ever been.

  • @helenacollins1757
    @helenacollins1757 2 роки тому +32

    Praying for you both that you'll be healed emotionally and physically.

  • @zothani6659
    @zothani6659 2 роки тому +36

    Kalle and Christine my heart goes out to you, I could feel your pain, we've gone through miscarriage in 2007- the emotional pain was so much more than the physical pain, it was hard, I feel you. I pray you both will bet better soon. Sending love to you both.

  • @heatherposten4865
    @heatherposten4865 Рік тому +2

    You are an amazing young man. It made me cry to see your video. I have not been through the sadness, but I feel it through you. Your Christine is also a special woman. The fact that you both wanted to share this sad event to help other people is just plain noble. You may not ever hear it but I bet many people will recall this video and gain strength from it. Bless you both.

  • @katiebrennan9460
    @katiebrennan9460 2 роки тому

    Oh Kalle. I’m so so sorry to you & Christine. Sending you both all of my love & support for your healing process.

  • @davidlakic
    @davidlakic 2 роки тому +38

    Man I'm so sad to hear these bad news, I really hope you guys stay strong and keep your head high, there's no words I could say right now that would help in any way, I hope and wish you guys all the best, you deserve it. I'm so sorry to hear this... You are such a good man, life will treat you better in the future, I promise

  • @daniellenoblet5131
    @daniellenoblet5131 2 роки тому +9

    I lost my first baby too. The pain is indescribable and I'm sending love to you both.

  • @mackenziewright9495
    @mackenziewright9495 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you for sharing your story. This sounds like an unimaginably hard experience.
    When I was about 7 years old, my mom had a miscarriage. This was her second miscarriage in 3 years. I found her in the bathroom and had to call 911. I know she almost lost her life that day. She was hospitalized for several days afterward. It was a really scary time. I didn't fully grasp how scary it was until I was older. But I also remember no one talking about it. I've spoken to my mom about it since and she expressed how difficult it was that no one would acknowledge the intense loss. Family and friends alike remained silent during a time when vulnerability, love, and support would have healed more than medicine.
    I appreciate you speaking so openly about this. It is help for me to see people willing to speak about the traumatic event. It helps me understand my mom a little more and prepare me for helping friends or processing this myself, in the future.
    Sending you all the love and support I can!

  • @heikostock9959
    @heikostock9959 Рік тому +7

    Dear Kalle, to be open: Whilst watching this video, I cried with you and Christina😢. Thumbs up for sharing this tabu-topic with me. I also lost my baby (as a father) More than 20 years ago - still thinking about it sometimes. You will never forget it - but t will be easier and less painful as years will go by. Listening carefully what you said and feeling your emotions for Christina, I can maybe tell you one single positive aspect about the whole situation: the connection between you and Christina will be even stronger than ever before. You are so strong and at the same time emotional - this is one thing why I like you that much.

  • @dadamdudum
    @dadamdudum 2 роки тому +17

    It takes so much courage to open up about your feelings, especially while they are so raw and unprocessed. Stories have a power to heal and connect, healing and connection is what you both need. Stay strong and thank you for showing your vulnerability!

  • @wendylbranchfield7959
    @wendylbranchfield7959 Рік тому

    I’m so sorry you both experienced this. You are so brave to share it in order to help other people. Bless you both! Sending love from Chicago.

  • @coeursauvage-b1k
    @coeursauvage-b1k 2 роки тому

    The honesty you’re both showing is such a mark of strength, resilience and altruism. I admire how you are handling this experience, even though you might feel otherwise. I’m at a loss to say more apart from thank you and hoping making those video will help the healing process, would it be only through all the support you are now getting! Sending much much love and healing your way.❤️

  • @CxMinette
    @CxMinette 2 роки тому +34

    So, so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this even in the middle of such grief and pain. Sending you and Christine so much love ❤

  • @kasseesmythe8738
    @kasseesmythe8738 2 роки тому +27

    This was hard to watch, Kalle, so I can't imagine what it has been like to go through this. I'm glad that you two have such a close and supportive relationship. Hugs to you both from the US.

  • @InkInWell
    @InkInWell 2 роки тому +2

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Much ❤️ to the both of you. Positive thoughts.❤️❤️❤️

  • @kreideprintz
    @kreideprintz 2 роки тому

    I've had this video in my "watch later" since it came out. The more I tried to make time for it, the more busy I got. I'm glad I finally got the time to watch it because this is both heartbreaking and important, I think this is the first time I see the pain of a father in this situation. My family has a history of miscarriages and I shared the pain and loss with every single member that ever went through this. I feel your pain too and I'm glad you're here, talking about this and showing just how common yet horrible it can be. I wish you both nothing but healing and good health. In moments like these in life, nothing else really matters so don't feel pressured to come back to UA-cam or anything of the sorts, just take your time to grieve and heal

  • @marygrant4019
    @marygrant4019 2 роки тому +5

    thirty years ago, I had two miscarriages within two years. My heart breaks for you. For sure, it takes all of our strength and resilience to move on from events like these.

  • @Simone-rp7jw
    @Simone-rp7jw 2 роки тому +7

    I'm sending love and warmth towards you, Christine , your family and the people around you. Thinking of you!

  • @larissanijholt939
    @larissanijholt939 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for being so vulnerable! Sending lots of love and strength! 💛

  • @susanh3462
    @susanh3462 2 роки тому +5

    Oh gosh, my heart goes out to you guys! This is such a horrible thing to go through.
    We lost a baby just when Corona started to hit the world. We were in week 9, and I had to be alone in the hospital due to the pandemic. My husband worried sick outside. You guys are so brave and strong in face of such a tragedy. And you are absolutely right, this should not be a taboo. I still blame myself for what happened, and likely I always will. Maybe it all would have been easier, when people would talk more openly about it. But well, now I'm sitting here, 4 weeks before due date. Someone really wants to come into this world and we are glad about it. I wish so hard for you two that, as long as you want, a happy and uncomplicated pregnancy is waiting for you in the future! -Greetings from Germany

  • @ExLibris-Alys
    @ExLibris-Alys 2 роки тому +5

    This is beyond sad. I’m so sorry to hear of your loss, sending much love to you both.

  • @pietrot90
    @pietrot90 2 роки тому +9

    I am really sorry for what happened, a big hug to both of you! I wish you can get through this hard moment the best way possible.

  • @amandaraezhu7099
    @amandaraezhu7099 2 роки тому +2

    I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. There are no words to describe the trauma from this experience both emotionally and physically. I just had my second miscarriage 2 months ago and I really appreciate you making this video. It was hard to watch, as my emotions are still so fragile, but this topic is so so important and it's good to see this being talked about, even thought it's so hard. Sending much love to you and Christine.

  • @JeanneAline
    @JeanneAline 2 роки тому

    We actually found your vlog through Christine’s channel and this was on the first videos in her channel we saw from the both of you. That such a joyful moment of doing the test and having all the thoughts about the future ends just like that. I think there are no words for that and I hope you both find happiness again. 🥺🌲

  • @vikingninja5033
    @vikingninja5033 2 роки тому +19

    I can't imagine what you and Christine are going trough..
    Sending you guys much strength and love to get trough this tough time🙏

  • @sarahu.38
    @sarahu.38 2 роки тому +26

    Wishing you and Christine all the strength, love, and healing that you need in this very sad time. Take all the time you need to yourselves, and we will be here when you get back.

  • @emilyanderson8504
    @emilyanderson8504 2 роки тому

    I’m soo sorry for your losses. You are such a source of strength for her in these hard times and both of you create such a wonderful impact on the world. It’s obvious you two are truly perfect together. I wish for healing and health for you both in the new year.

  • @verazimova7475
    @verazimova7475 2 роки тому +2

    I'm so sorry for your lost. My brother also lost his daughter during Christmas. Everything was all right into the last second. We absolutely didn't expect it and it hurts a lot. We were prepared for celebration of her birth, but she didn't survive. From the best Christmas ever to the worst. Wish you all to be strong. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️

  • @sandram4670
    @sandram4670 2 роки тому +11

    My heart goes out to you and Christine. I can't imagine how difficult this time has been for you both. Sending you loving prayers for comfort and peace in your time of grieving and healing. ♥

  • @naomisittig7950
    @naomisittig7950 2 роки тому +14

    So incredibly sorry for your loss, Kalle. Lean into each other during this time, and know that you are not alone!

  • @Note_Lover_
    @Note_Lover_ 2 роки тому

    Sorry for your losses. You both are in my thoughts & prayers. Thank you for sharing your story & being so real with us.

  • @catie_outdoorsq9662
    @catie_outdoorsq9662 Рік тому +2

    This is a heartbreaking, but beautiful story. God bless you all. Sending love and peace 🕊️

  • @johannahoff9185
    @johannahoff9185 2 роки тому +3

    You are so strong, both of you. Thank you so much for sharing this with us and being completely vulnerable. I think this video will help so many people who are going through something similar or are in general experiencing loss.
    I wish you all the best, you and Christine of course 💛

  • @noeggi
    @noeggi 2 роки тому +16

    Feeling helpless in such situations is so damn tough. I am sure making this emotional video helps you to feel 🙏🏻 I find it very brave of you to show yourself with such emotions. It add's so much to your channel. Thank you for sharing and I wish you both a great 2022!

  • @debthern
    @debthern Рік тому +2

    Just found your channel tonight and as a nurse, I had to watch this video. YOU showed a wonderful side of fatherhood that is so loving, kind, and touching ... congrats on being this open and honest. i know at some point your video will help other dads to cope with their feelings while going thru a heartbreaking loss.
    HUGE hugs to you both from deb in Iowa.

  • @Iris_Transforms_Healing
    @Iris_Transforms_Healing Рік тому +1

    Just found your channel . Thank you for sharing your experience with us. A year later my hope is that you both are continuing to heal. 🦋

  • @maeveskelly4686
    @maeveskelly4686 2 роки тому +3

    Kale, thank you for sharing this, as raw as it still feels. I haven’t experienced it but I do know close friends and work colleagues who have. From them I have seen how devastating the loss is. Give yourselves plenty of time to come to terms with your this. You won’t ‘get over it’ but it will eventually sit in the corner of your hearts where everyone you have loved and lost still live. Be kind to yourselves.