I am 42 years old and when i started working at 19 the older men told me that you spend 8 to 9 hours with the people at work but onely a few hours a day with the lady you love and that is true Your lifes sound better 👏
As a father I can tell you, don't overthink possible personal flaws. I had a child unplanned in a difficult situation, but it's the most valuable part of my life now.
I think in the relationship all the childhood traumas come up or experiences as a trigger and it's a blessing to find a partner who is going to be on the healing journey with you together.
"Sometimes all this hard work makes me feel so alive." Christine - that is a secret you have discovered, many of us middle class westerners never learn it - things that take us to our edge - also take us deeper into life. As to the tears - all good, tears are an evolutionary advantage - humans who don't cry are LESS evolved. I cry from time to time (105kg, 183cm, shaved head, long red beard ...) and I feel GOOD about that, I feel strong to be connected easily to my emotional truth. I don't cry and quit - I cry, learn something, feel a bit of 'release' and then keep going. It sounds like you do the same - that is a strong thing, be proud of it.
My wife occasionally does things that annoy me (and vise versa), but if something ever happens to her and she is no longer around, oh how I would miss those things.
"what if i want to propose?" LOL christine i love that response! and then kalle is like "that's not going to happen" LOOOOOL you two are so cuuuuute! this video is bringing me so much joy today, thank you!
The two of you are so wholesome and hilarious it melts my heart 😭😂❤️ I hope you can make a video talking about how the two of you met and came together, I feel like it must be such an interesting story!
Oh this was so heartwarming! And ps: the questions about the children NEVER stop no matter what you do. At first it's like when when when, then we had a boy and then it was like 'oh are you going to try for a girl??' then we had a second baby, and she is a girl, and since then it's been like 'so, are you done now? Are you dine now?' No, we had another... 'but now you're done right? Don't you have your hands full? Oh but you really must have your hands full, you're done now, right?' Ugh lol. Can't please people, so just do what you do and don't let them bother you ❤
I’m 70 years old. I have tears running down my face. You two are such an amazing couple. Your living my dream. Your a lucky man and she is a lucky woman.❤
We have a cabin in the woods in the UP Michigan we are going to be living there full time in the next month- but talking about mice- we put peppermint oil everywhere- clean with it- and put it on cotton balls and put in all the drawers and it has helped and smells amazing..
Funny logbook entries from airplanes and how maintainance reacted: Problem: _Mouse on board._ Written solution suggested by mechanics: _Install. Cat._ (I think in reality the mouse was removed and quickly. Not only would it freak out the passengers, a rodent could be a hazard. If it gets to the innards of the plane and eats at cables. There is a backup for everyting that is crucial ... but in reality sometimes unexpected things coincide. Maybe you could get a local cat - that might be trained by the mother not to stray or it will be eaten by wildlife.
you guys, are really good people. Looking healthy, sparkling eyes.. and Kalle, you are manly but also a sweet guy in one body, love that kind of guys .Wish you all the luck!
19:03 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you for sharing this christine, you did it so eloquently and beautifully. i have been through the same thing and i shut down as a way to protect myself as well. you're not alone. i'm so glad kalle is so understanding and advocates for you to communicate while being a safe person. thank you so, so much both of you for being so open ❤️
Christine, I totally understand your frustration about the children question. Even if you do want kids, there is so much pressure on women to start a family and do it as soon as possible, and it can be really overwhelming and make you feel like you lose value as an individual person. I'm 35 and just a few weeks away from having my first baby, and I have been asked those questions for years and years. When I got married, the first thing people asked was "when are you having kids?" And even when we decided to have a baby, we struggled with infertility for three years before we got pregnant, and that question really hurt because I didn't know the answer. I really wish people would just stop asking at all. If it happens, it happens, and if you decide you don't want kids, that's fine too! It's nobody's business but yours and Kalle's.
It's brutal. I don't think people understand how rude and hurtful it can be. Specially if you are dealing with infertility problems. They just add unnecessary pressure. And if your choice is just not having children... it's even more brutal.
@Säker tagning yes. It's very hard and you don't necessarily have to tell everyone that asks your medical troubles, so people should have discernment and stop with the questioning. If someone choses not to have children should be respected too. Only they know their reasons. We are not on this world to judge eachother. I sure know a lot of people that had children and have zero patience, that provide food and a roof but lack on the emotional side. We live in a very selfish society and more than ever the meaning of family is disintegrating and being attacked and people are none the wiser. A new life is a miracle.
I identify with cristina in having a clean house, my head is not clear if everthing is dirty or messy but I also identify with you kelly in relation to being in a bad mood if I don't eat 😅😅😅 my husband know me well, when that happened he send me to eat 🤣 Thank you for sharing these intimate things with us. Corage and paciente for you guys send you a lot of love ❤💚
Thank you for being so honest - I would say one big challenge could be if kids come along and you really want your parents nearby - especially the mum needing her parents.
Love Nathaniel Drew! Toilet Paper...you just need a big stick or rod so you can stack about 6 rolls at a time...or a big beautiful basket..protected from any critters...thanks for sharing!
I didn't know I needed this Q&A but wow! I love the answers! You and Christine are lovely together. Also I know that feeling of 'can we change the topic?' when someone asks my boyfriend and me when are we getting married, when are we having children? 'Can we change the topic? I don't have to explain myself to you' You know? We've been together for eleven years - coming next month Sept 17th. So yes, just be happy, enjoy each other and your beautiful home. When you both are ready you'll know. I look forward to new Q&As in the future and the ebooks. Thank you for sharing and keep on smiling! 😊 ❤ ❤
the question of also having kids is the physical and emotional impact it would have on the mother.... i totally understand your reservations christine and i respect how you feel and whatever path you take, whether it's being child-free or being a mother ❤️ i love how thoughtful you are. keep being you ❤️
Really refreshing that your sharing so openly about what you find annoying about each other and arguements. Absolutely agree with talking it out. If you never argue, it might mean one of you is bottling up or being a door mat. Neither is healthy. You grow together
So nice to meet both of you! Thanks for sharing all of this! For your mice issue, you should get a cat. When you have a cat, mice won't even go near the house because they will smell the cat. I've had a cat for years now and my fiance and I never have issues with mice in our home. Sending you both all the best!
Children are a gift and the two of you will embrace the changes this brings to your busy lives. Christine wanting a clean & neat home environment is the only way to function. I could never live in a messy chaotic home. I loved your honesty in this video.
I had my first kid when I was 36 and my second at 38 and I don’t regret it. Live your life’s to fullest first as a couple. You guys are a wonderful pair. Thank you for sharing a little bit of your personal life. Be safe!😘🤗🌼🇻🇪
This was a great watch, thanks! As a British guy living in Sweden, it’s always nice to hear perspectives like these. Particularly your thoughts on the ‘children’ topic, as we’re a young family about to grow by one more.
Thank you Christine for speaking about periods in the winter without running water - I've wondered that question for many years! I still have unanswered questions, but I expect I'll have to trial and error it myself due to it being an awkward conversation. Thank you for sharing some thoughts about it!
aw, that was good fun! thanks for sharing ☺️🌻 P.S., ‘when we decide to’ is a complete response to ‘when are you going to have kids?’ you don’t owe anybody answers to that question!
I am so glad this was a longer video, because before I knew it, it was over! I saw so many similarities in you two that I see in myself and my boyfriend. I completely understand the cramped living situation - he and I used to live in a tiny shed together with a cat! I'm so glad to be part of your journeys and I'm excited to see what the future holds 😊
Oh I totally understand the challenges your facing. Especially you Christina. Two years ago our family of now 6 moved totally off-grid to our farm 2000kms from friends and family. We literally camped in an old vintage caravan and tents until we built a 30ft modern yurt. It is comfortable now but very cozy. Mostly it’s great, but sometimes I long for my own space. We have done a lot now and life is getting easier but, but we have a long way to go. I distinctly remember a couple of times bursting into tears when the gravity fed water tank was empty, the fire had gone out, the animals had broken through fencing, I was washing our clothes by hand, our solar had broken and we had no money to fix it and everything just seemed too bloody hard. But constant small changes and steps forward and things get easier. You learn to adapt, be innovative to create solutions and make do. And the failures make even the smallest steps forward feel monumental and worth celebrating. While if we lived a typical life they would be taken for granted. Life will get easier, and like you guys, even when things feel impossibly hard, we remain drawn to this beautiful nature filled life. Xx
I think we dislike in others what we most dislike in ourselves. I think it is wonderful that you sit down and communicate with each other, this is the most important thing in a relationship other than love. Take care and God bless!
This episode keep me smiling! I can see how kalle love and respect kristine. on d other hand, i can see kalle being Kristine's constant and rock. Keep on loving!
Christine, I totally understand your frustration about the children question and this is certainly a private thing between you and Kalle. I just love watching the videos you guys make about how you live in the cabin and surroundings. Just live your own life and there are things that are just private and that is no one else's business. Have a lovely day.
I’m distracted too Christine! I was diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder. It can be challenging in relationships. You guys are adorable. Wish you both all the best!! ❤
Christine, your thoughts in relation to moving to Sweden is exactly how I feel! It's something i have been thinking about for several years and really hope i can have that dream come true soon. Even though it's super scary.🙏🏼
Christine is so lovely!!! I love her spirit.. For both of you, your English is wonderful! The only other language that I learned to some degree, was German. I had to learn because I was living in Germany which made it easier because I had to learn because that many people didn’t speck English. I love the interaction between the two of you.
this is such a beautiful video. thank you so, soooo much. i hope you make more videos like this in the future and i'm looking forward to the video you make about the two of you meeting and falling in love! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hei you two (four 😉), Me and my family moved to a little cabin in Finnland and we have luxurious running hot water in the kitchen, but no bathroom "just" a sauna. And it can SO hard!!!!! Getting fires going everywhere in the mornings and evenings, showeling tons of snow, frozen waterpipe...but we love it!!! We would never go back to Germany and live in a apartment!! About the mice...we have a very skilled cat taking care of them. Maybe you think about getting one? And with having kids...we have two of them and we love them so much and they have so much fun in our garden and look at the all the catterpillars, help my wife in the garden planting veggies and they climb every tree. And your right Kalle it's a team effort. Don't be afraid Christine, you maybe give something up for maybe sometime but you will gain so much by becoming a mom! The children taught me what was really important for me personally. Because even with kids you will make space and time for the important things! And thanks for doing great videos!
Regarding the question about having kids - would you raise them in the cabin? Is there a school nearby? What about social interaction (since you mentioned there's nobody living around you!)? Lots to think about!
Hey Kalle! Can you make a video for your vlog entirely in Swedish? I'm learning the language and I think it would be very interesting to learn more about the cabin while also learning Swedish!
When i moved to my forever home, The first 4 years was freezing and the curtains used to freeze in a thick sheet of ice. So we used to use 1 room and keep it warm as much as possible. Then i got double glazing, Oh wow what a difference. Q Do you or will you grow your own food. I save ton's of money by growing my own and storing for the winter. Take care good VL.
Thank you for the video! Both of you are so honest and beautiful souls. If most of people can do “now sit down and let’s talk -sessions” the world will be much more peaceful . Puss och kram
Being snowed in here in the California Sierras 13.6" (34.5 cm) of new snow today Tuesday have been watching all your videos. We love living off grid (solar, wood stove) and the stillness the snow creates, Had to smile when you were talking about things that annoy each of you, because as a widow, I can tell you, I miss those little annoying things so much. As for whether someone will have children, I never ask, simply because so many couples have a hard time conceiving or have miscarried, had a stillbirth etc that its to personal of a question for me to ever ask.
I get that way too. It is my blood sugar. It gets low and I become a little hypoglycemic. Not diabetes, my sugar just is better when eat small meals 4-5 hours. So, when I need to eat, I get a bit ornery.
AWW What a sweet video, I can relate to pretty much all of it! So interesting too, how the past can be so hard to shake, and how as humans, no matter where we are geographically, we struggle with very similar things and need very similar things. Anyway, made me feel like having a coffee with you guys and chat about life! 🥰💖
Just a few suggestions: there are waterpumps with water tanks attached to them or other ones that you can immerse into the well and they will pump the water into your house, you just have to put down pipes to run the water from the well into the house. We put the water hose/pipe underground to protect it from the frost in winter. There are also water heaters like the Ariston Lydos Hybrid (heatpump technology) that use very little energy to make hot water. It is worth checking it out. I am in favour of living in harmony with nature, but I see no reason why it should be unnecessarily difficult with all the eco-friendly technologies at hand. Of course it may be your choice to live as you do, in that case I apologize for the unrequested advice. You are a cute couple and I wish you good luck and happiness in life.
I love the way you are speaking your issues out loud with each other. I really do believe that is one of the key elements of well-working relationships. Good video guys, thanks for sharing 😉👍
I switched to a slow lifestyle three years ago. I would like to know how you find balance for your social life in this way? I have noticed, for example, that my social behavior has changed by living more rural and being more reserved.
Thank you for writing in English, I was working on a French answer but it was a bit tricky 😅 My behavior have changed as well 😊 Maybe we can talk about it on a future live stream? To big of a topic to answer in a single comment 😊
@@KalleFlodin Hihihi no problem 😊🙏 thank you very much, it will be a pleasure to hear your opinion for this topic. Many people can experience some isolation also that affect the social behavior.
This was a fun video. It gave a lot of good perspective. And, I so resonate with Christine about having a clean house. I also feel "messy" inside when my surroundings are out of order and I feel much more calm and inspired when my home is clean and minimal. Thank you both for sharing! :)
Thanks for sharing with us. Have to say you guys came across as brave and confident. Love it. Also thanks for inspiration you put forth to seek ones own path to find a more "happier" life. Keep up the good work and looking forward to the podcast Kalle.
@@KalleFlodin You're welcome. :-) I have been struggling for many years now with deep depression, but have got more help with it this summer from my family, and also through channels like yours, Leena Henningsen and Jonna Jinton I found words, new views on life and strengths I've need for a long time. Also found my way back to my love and passion in life which is photography that for the last 2,5 years have been lost for me. And through that I will try to launch my own UA-cam channel during the months to come so I can share my journey (both personal and through the nature of Norway) and knowledge on the field of photography with others, as well as maybe inspire some.
I loved this, smiled throughout! One small friendly feedback point though (sorry): maybe set the aperture of your lens to a number that's a bit higher, because throughout the video the focus was only on one of your faces which was kind of distracting. Felt I needed glasses haha But other than that, love it ^^ I'm a part of Christine's woman circle, so it's nice to see her on here now, because I feel I know her a bit better :) Thank you for sharing all of this so honestly and openly!
What a lovely video , so heart warming you both seem too have found your soul mate . My one bone of contention is when Kalle said she can buy half the cabin. How can she do that if Christine doesn't have an income yet , when she does how is she expected to keep money back from you to buy her share of the cabin. I can't see how that is going to work . I'm sure such a beautiful couple will work it out . Children will come at the right time don't let people push/influence you , your time will come when its right for both of you .
Thank you Kalle and Christine for sharing some aspects your life with us and you are a very lovely couple. I would like to make a respectful observation from an older person who has seen a lot. May Kalle allow Christine all the time she needs to express herself when she is talking with no interruptions or corrections so that you may have a lasting loving relationship free of resentments that could accumulate. I wish you all the best.
Just get the ring and the perfect situation WILL reveal itself. Take the advice of an old lady. You two are PERFECT for each other. Also dont WORRY if you can be a Mom and still have enough time for everything. It will all work out in due time.
Greetings from Northern California. Thank you for sharing your life and thoughts with the world in such a realistic and honest way- not an easy thing to do! Someone else may had already piped up to note that the item Christin was referred to is generally called sanitation pad here in the State. Not I expect that you will need to say it often in public! It is indeed good to know what one does not need to have in order to build a content rich life. Stay safe and be well. The Chinese written word of crisis is made up of two characters: danger & opportunity. You absolutely have turned every danger you met on the road into opportunity !
I found your channel and I have to say that I have enjoyed watching some of your videos. I also subscribed to it! I'm looking forward to seeing your journey. God Bless you both!!
I am happy you talked about the mice situation, it was something i was curious about for a long time. I had the chance to live in a cabin this summer for a while and i had the same problem, once it started raining the mice would use the house as their shelter and they would roam everywhere, especially in the kitchen. How do you deal with it? Did you just get used to them or you have a plan for how to keep them away in the future? Thanks for another great video
I can relate to so many things you mentioned. Inspiring video, thank you so much for opening up! I love seeing how you two are in each other's company. :)
Thank you for being so open & honest, it was so refreshing and enjoyable to watch. Blessings for a continued wonderful life together. With love, from Australia. 💞
Thank you for sharing of yourselves so sincerely. These were very practical topics. You are both very funny and certainly seem to complete each other. Whether you get married or not, or have children or not, or whatever or whatever not, I wish you both many more happy years shared together..
She's gorgeous! And so polite. The clean thing is very typical of men and women. Women are biologically designed to be aware of hygiene and cleanliness because if they give birth, they need to make sure she and the baby won't get infections or contamination. It's also why they can smell things that men can't when they are pregnant.
What a wonderful and honest video! Thank you so much for sharing all your thoughts and feelings. It is so nice to watch this. Keep staying the way you are. lMuch peace and love to both of you. ❤️
you guys are absolutely AMAZING together, talk about a perfect match, really feels like it and her laugh is so contagious, Kalle make he laugh more and more... I can only imagine the beautiful family you will have and I can't wait what the future holds for you both !!!!!
Oh geez, Kalle. When you dropped the line "when you get to be with your soulmate life is so much better", ya just about killed me.I didn't know they made guys like you anymore...well done you two!! Much health and happiness to you both.
Christine - your question to yourself - "can I be busy AND be good for my children" - that is a SUPERB question to ask and to keep asking for the rest of your life. I think the fact that you ASK that question is a strong indicator that you will LIVE a good answer to that question. Love is something we DO - the words "I love you" are simply the aroma - our actions ARE the love. You already understand this - that is why you ask the question - you already know you will need to give children time, give them attention and patience and presence. So will Kalle. Do people ask Kalle the same question about having kids? It is curious how people tend to ask women that question but not men.
You are both awesome. It is so refreshing to watch and listen to you. This is wonderful really. I have very recently found your channel but I am already following your journey with huge interest and caring. I am an older lady that like you both have been dreaming of escaping since I was very young. I was born and lived for my first 4 years in a very isolated country area. But have searched for many years for an opportunity like you have built for yourselves. I wish you all success. You are bringing joy by extension to myself and maybe many others who have had these dreams. Thank you for sharing your efforts and lessons. Xx
Always fun to share your most intimate thoughts and feelings online 😅 Hope you'll like the video ❤🌲
Fun and emotional😊
The unofficial term in American English is "Hangry." Lol.
Hungry + Angry = "Hangry". 😉
@@roadrunner5481 This... except the mice might eat the toilet paper. 🤔
I would looooove to know your star signs - Christine reminds me of a scorpio!
I am 42 years old and when i started working at 19 the older men told me that you spend 8 to 9 hours with the people at work but onely a few hours a day with the lady you love and that is true
Your lifes sound better 👏
As a father I can tell you, don't overthink possible personal flaws. I had a child unplanned in a difficult situation, but it's the most valuable part of my life now.
You just called your child IT
I think in the relationship all the childhood traumas come up or experiences as a trigger and it's a blessing to find a partner who is going to be on the healing journey with you together.
So so true❤thank you
"Sometimes all this hard work makes me feel so alive." Christine - that is a secret you have discovered, many of us middle class westerners never learn it - things that take us to our edge - also take us deeper into life. As to the tears - all good, tears are an evolutionary advantage - humans who don't cry are LESS evolved. I cry from time to time (105kg, 183cm, shaved head, long red beard ...) and I feel GOOD about that, I feel strong to be connected easily to my emotional truth. I don't cry and quit - I cry, learn something, feel a bit of 'release' and then keep going. It sounds like you do the same - that is a strong thing, be proud of it.
Love is when kalle sitting on the background to let his woman sitting in the front. So we can see that she is the most important person in his life. 💚
That's called getting more views 😉
Large part of love is "enduring" the annoying thing. Accepting, sometimes letting go.
Love is inspite, not just because
My wife occasionally does things that annoy me (and vise versa), but if something ever happens to her and she is no longer around, oh how I would miss those things.
@@wayneblanchard 👍 Know the feeling
"what if i want to propose?" LOL christine i love that response! and then kalle is like "that's not going to happen" LOOOOOL you two are so cuuuuute! this video is bringing me so much joy today, thank you!
The two of you are so wholesome and hilarious it melts my heart 😭😂❤️ I hope you can make a video talking about how the two of you met and came together, I feel like it must be such an interesting story!
Aw, you're so sweet ❤ Yea, that video is coming later this year! 😊
I'd love to hear that story, too! :)
Oh this was so heartwarming! And ps: the questions about the children NEVER stop no matter what you do. At first it's like when when when, then we had a boy and then it was like 'oh are you going to try for a girl??' then we had a second baby, and she is a girl, and since then it's been like 'so, are you done now? Are you dine now?' No, we had another... 'but now you're done right? Don't you have your hands full? Oh but you really must have your hands full, you're done now, right?' Ugh lol. Can't please people, so just do what you do and don't let them bother you ❤
Well when a child comes into the world you can’t really blame it’s family members for pestering their other family member about them 😆
@@Saber23yes you can blame the people asking shitty questions
Christine, your laughter is so contagious and I love it.
I’m 70 years old. I have tears running down my face. You two are such an amazing couple. Your living my dream. Your a lucky man and she is a lucky woman.❤
Kalle is like me. I can’t move forward until we have ironed every crease.
And I love how confident and self aware Christine is. ♥️
We have a cabin in the woods in the UP Michigan we are going to be living there full time in the next month- but talking about mice- we put peppermint oil everywhere- clean with it- and put it on cotton balls and put in all the drawers and it has helped and smells amazing..
Funny logbook entries from airplanes and how maintainance reacted: Problem: _Mouse on board._ Written solution suggested by mechanics: _Install. Cat._
(I think in reality the mouse was removed and quickly. Not only would it freak out the passengers, a rodent could be a hazard. If it gets to the innards of the plane and eats at cables. There is a backup for everyting that is crucial ... but in reality sometimes unexpected things coincide.
Maybe you could get a local cat - that might be trained by the mother not to stray or it will be eaten by wildlife.
My sister did not have her first child till 39, 2nd at 42, it’s your life, you will know when your time is right 👍
you guys, are really good people. Looking healthy, sparkling eyes.. and Kalle, you are manly but also a sweet guy in one body, love that kind of guys .Wish you all the luck!
19:03 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you for sharing this christine, you did it so eloquently and beautifully. i have been through the same thing and i shut down as a way to protect myself as well. you're not alone. i'm so glad kalle is so understanding and advocates for you to communicate while being a safe person. thank you so, so much both of you for being so open ❤️
Christine, I totally understand your frustration about the children question. Even if you do want kids, there is so much pressure on women to start a family and do it as soon as possible, and it can be really overwhelming and make you feel like you lose value as an individual person. I'm 35 and just a few weeks away from having my first baby, and I have been asked those questions for years and years. When I got married, the first thing people asked was "when are you having kids?" And even when we decided to have a baby, we struggled with infertility for three years before we got pregnant, and that question really hurt because I didn't know the answer. I really wish people would just stop asking at all. If it happens, it happens, and if you decide you don't want kids, that's fine too! It's nobody's business but yours and Kalle's.
It's brutal. I don't think people understand how rude and hurtful it can be. Specially if you are dealing with infertility problems. They just add unnecessary pressure. And if your choice is just not having children... it's even more brutal.
@Säker tagning have heard of infertility? .... Distracted? Trolling?
@Säker tagning yes. It's very hard and you don't necessarily have to tell everyone that asks your medical troubles, so people should have discernment and stop with the questioning. If someone choses not to have children should be respected too. Only they know their reasons. We are not on this world to judge eachother. I sure know a lot of people that had children and have zero patience, that provide food and a roof but lack on the emotional side. We live in a very selfish society and more than ever the meaning of family is disintegrating and being attacked and people are none the wiser.
A new life is a miracle.
I identify with cristina in having a clean house, my head is not clear if everthing is dirty or messy but I also identify with you kelly in relation to being in a bad mood if I don't eat 😅😅😅 my husband know me well, when that happened he send me to eat 🤣
Thank you for sharing these intimate things with us. Corage and paciente for you guys send you a lot of love
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Thank you for being so honest - I would say one big challenge could be if kids come along and you really want your parents nearby - especially the mum needing her parents.
You two are so lovely, love her energy and laugh. I was smiling the whole time watching this. Good vibes 💜
She is the definition of what a elegant, rational woman should be. Kalle you did good mate. I wish you two the best forever.
Love Nathaniel Drew! Toilet Paper...you just need a big stick or rod so you can stack about 6 rolls at a time...or a big beautiful basket..protected from any critters...thanks for sharing!
I didn't know I needed this Q&A but wow! I love the answers! You and Christine are lovely together.
Also I know that feeling of 'can we change the topic?' when someone asks my boyfriend and me when are we getting married, when are we having children? 'Can we change the topic? I don't have to explain myself to you' You know? We've been together for eleven years - coming next month Sept 17th. So yes, just be happy, enjoy each other and your beautiful home. When you both are ready you'll know. I look forward to new Q&As in the future and the ebooks. Thank you for sharing and keep on smiling! 😊 ❤ ❤
the question of also having kids is the physical and emotional impact it would have on the mother.... i totally understand your reservations christine and i respect how you feel and whatever path you take, whether it's being child-free or being a mother ❤️ i love how thoughtful you are. keep being you ❤️
It’s not “child-free” it’s CHILDLESS stop trying to change the English language to spare people’s feelings
Also I’m pretty sure there’s going to be physical pain regardless I mean you’d literally push another person out of you
Really refreshing that your sharing so openly about what you find annoying about each other and arguements. Absolutely agree with talking it out. If you never argue, it might mean one of you is bottling up or being a door mat. Neither is healthy. You grow together
So nice to meet both of you! Thanks for sharing all of this! For your mice issue, you should get a cat. When you have a cat, mice won't even go near the house because they will smell the cat. I've had a cat for years now and my fiance and I never have issues with mice in our home. Sending you both all the best!
it's so beautiful to see how well you fit together. I didn't ask any questions, but it was fun to see what others asked and to hear your answers
Your hair looks great, Christine!!! 🥰🥰🥰 You guys are so sweet!!! Thank you for being real and sharing so much! 👍👍👍👍
I love hearing Christine laughing!
Children are a gift and the two of you will embrace the changes this brings to your busy lives. Christine wanting a clean & neat home environment is the only way to function. I could never live in a messy chaotic home. I loved your honesty in this video.
What a treat it was to watch and listen to you guys... Wow... what a lovely chemistry you have. Very refreshing and so natural. Thank you for sharing!
I had my first kid when I was 36 and my second at 38 and I don’t regret it. Live your life’s to fullest first as a couple. You guys are a wonderful pair. Thank you for sharing a little bit of your personal life. Be safe!😘🤗🌼🇻🇪
This was a great watch, thanks! As a British guy living in Sweden, it’s always nice to hear perspectives like these. Particularly your thoughts on the ‘children’ topic, as we’re a young family about to grow by one more.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings... very generous of you both😊
So nice Kalle and Christine! Thanks for this beautiful time with you chatting about interesting topics!
“And in the end, the love you take
is equal to the love you make” (Paul McCartney)
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Thank you Christine for speaking about periods in the winter without running water - I've wondered that question for many years! I still have unanswered questions, but I expect I'll have to trial and error it myself due to it being an awkward conversation. Thank you for sharing some thoughts about it!
aw, that was good fun! thanks for sharing ☺️🌻
P.S., ‘when we decide to’ is a complete response to ‘when are you going to have kids?’ you don’t owe anybody answers to that question!
So interesting to hear how you solve those everyday worries and how you have put your life puzzle together.
I am so glad this was a longer video, because before I knew it, it was over! I saw so many similarities in you two that I see in myself and my boyfriend. I completely understand the cramped living situation - he and I used to live in a tiny shed together with a cat! I'm so glad to be part of your journeys and I'm excited to see what the future holds 😊
Well said😍💖
Oh I totally understand the challenges your facing. Especially you Christina.
Two years ago our family of now 6 moved totally off-grid to our farm 2000kms from friends and family. We literally camped in an old vintage caravan and tents until we built a 30ft modern yurt. It is comfortable now but very cozy. Mostly it’s great, but sometimes I long for my own space.
We have done a lot now and life is getting easier but, but we have a long way to go. I distinctly remember a couple of times bursting into tears when the gravity fed water tank was empty, the fire had gone out, the animals had broken through fencing, I was washing our clothes by hand, our solar had broken and we had no money to fix it and everything just seemed too bloody hard. But constant small changes and steps forward and things get easier. You learn to adapt, be innovative to create solutions and make do. And the failures make even the smallest steps forward feel monumental and worth celebrating. While if we lived a typical life they would be taken for granted.
Life will get easier, and like you guys, even when things feel impossibly hard, we remain drawn to this beautiful nature filled life.
Xx
2 years later, that is a great comment.
Oh you are in NSW - so the winters are not too bad - maybe a bit on the wet side ?
I think we dislike in others what we most dislike in ourselves. I think it is wonderful that you sit down and communicate with each other, this is the most important thing in a relationship other than love. Take care and God bless!
true
Nominating what is coming up or what we feel that is not true to the Love we are is such a powerful tool to heal ✨💖✨
This episode keep me smiling! I can see how kalle love and respect kristine. on d other hand, i can see kalle being Kristine's constant and rock. Keep on loving!
Christine, I totally understand your frustration about the children question and this is certainly a private thing between you and Kalle. I just love watching the videos you guys make about how you live in the cabin and surroundings. Just live your own life and there are things that are just private and that is no one else's business. Have a lovely day.
You are both so beautiful, not just your looks but your insides too. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. Your English is so lovely.
I can be with my cat every day for hours, and every night, and I never get tired with my kitty. 😾 Love him so.
I’m distracted too Christine! I was diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder. It can be challenging in relationships. You guys are adorable. Wish you both all the best!! ❤
There is never a perfect time to have children. It is impossible to time it perfectly, but it's worth it!
Christine, your thoughts in relation to moving to Sweden is exactly how I feel! It's something i have been thinking about for several years and really hope i can have that dream come true soon. Even though it's super scary.🙏🏼
1:00 "YES" LMAOOOO CHRISTINE DIDN'T EVEN HESITATE!!! LMAOOO!! 😂😂😂😂😂
You are such a lovely couple. Thank you for sharing your life. All the best to you.
Christine is so lovely!!! I love her spirit.. For both of you, your English is wonderful! The only other language that I learned to some degree, was German. I had to learn because I was living in Germany which made it easier because I had to learn because that many people didn’t speck English. I love the interaction between the two of you.
this is such a beautiful video. thank you so, soooo much. i hope you make more videos like this in the future and i'm looking forward to the video you make about the two of you meeting and falling in love! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
At 25.50 my first thought: "A bat!"
Then I realised it was just the dog shaking its body. 😅
Thanks for the video! 💙 x
Hei you two (four 😉),
Me and my family moved to a little cabin in Finnland and we have luxurious running hot water in the kitchen, but no bathroom "just" a sauna. And it can SO hard!!!!! Getting fires going everywhere in the mornings and evenings, showeling tons of snow, frozen waterpipe...but we love it!!! We would never go back to Germany and live in a apartment!!
About the mice...we have a very skilled cat taking care of them. Maybe you think about getting one?
And with having kids...we have two of them and we love them so much and they have so much fun in our garden and look at the all the catterpillars, help my wife in the garden planting veggies and they climb every tree. And your right Kalle it's a team effort. Don't be afraid Christine, you maybe give something up for maybe sometime but you will gain so much by becoming a mom! The children taught me what was really important for me personally. Because even with kids you will make space and time for the important things!
And thanks for doing great videos!
Regarding the question about having kids - would you raise them in the cabin? Is there a school nearby? What about social interaction (since you mentioned there's nobody living around you!)? Lots to think about!
Hey Kalle! Can you make a video for your vlog entirely in Swedish? I'm learning the language and I think it would be very interesting to learn more about the cabin while also learning Swedish!
Couldn’t have explained having a clean more better. So true!
When i moved to my forever home, The first 4 years was freezing and the curtains used to freeze in a thick sheet of ice. So we used to use 1 room and keep it warm as much as possible. Then i got double glazing, Oh wow what a difference. Q Do you or will you grow your own food. I save ton's of money by growing my own and storing for the winter. Take care good VL.
Thank you for the video! Both of you are so honest and beautiful souls. If most of people can do “now sit down and let’s talk -sessions” the world will be much more peaceful . Puss och kram
Christine, I love your honesty than then you giggle about the hardships of cabin life.
Being snowed in here in the California Sierras 13.6" (34.5 cm) of new snow today Tuesday have been watching all your videos. We love living off grid (solar, wood stove) and the stillness the snow creates,
Had to smile when you were talking about things that annoy each of you, because as a widow, I can tell you, I miss those little annoying things so much.
As for whether someone will have children, I never ask, simply because so many couples have a hard time conceiving or have miscarried, had a stillbirth etc that its to personal of a question for me to ever ask.
I get that way too. It is my blood sugar. It gets low and I become a little hypoglycemic. Not diabetes, my sugar just is better when eat small meals 4-5 hours. So, when I need to eat, I get a bit ornery.
AWW What a sweet video, I can relate to pretty much all of it! So interesting too, how the past can be so hard to shake, and how as humans, no matter where we are geographically, we struggle with very similar things and need very similar things. Anyway, made me feel like having a coffee with you guys and chat about life! 🥰💖
Just a few suggestions: there are waterpumps with water tanks attached to them or other ones that you can immerse into the well and they will pump the water into your house, you just have to put down pipes to run the water from the well into the house. We put the water hose/pipe underground to protect it from the frost in winter. There are also water heaters like the Ariston Lydos Hybrid (heatpump technology) that use very little energy to make hot water. It is worth checking it out. I am in favour of living in harmony with nature, but I see no reason why it should be unnecessarily difficult with all the eco-friendly technologies at hand. Of course it may be your choice to live as you do, in that case I apologize for the unrequested advice. You are a cute couple and I wish you good luck and happiness in life.
I love the way you are speaking your issues out loud with each other. I really do believe that is one of the key elements of well-working relationships. Good video guys, thanks for sharing 😉👍
Christine has the best laugh! Great video
"Perfect!" Great job!
I switched to a slow lifestyle three years ago. I would like to know how you find balance for your social life in this way? I have noticed, for example, that my social behavior has changed by living more rural and being more reserved.
Thank you for writing in English, I was working on a French answer but it was a bit tricky 😅 My behavior have changed as well 😊 Maybe we can talk about it on a future live stream? To big of a topic to answer in a single comment 😊
@@KalleFlodin Hihihi no problem 😊🙏 thank you very much, it will be a pleasure to hear your opinion for this topic. Many people can experience some isolation also that affect the social behavior.
A ad starting playing as soon as you started talking about UA-cam ads 😅 interesting videos guys 👏🏻
This was a fun video. It gave a lot of good perspective. And, I so resonate with Christine about having a clean house. I also feel "messy" inside when my surroundings are out of order and I feel much more calm and inspired when my home is clean and minimal. Thank you both for sharing! :)
Happy you liked it 😊❤️
Thanks for sharing with us. Have to say you guys came across as brave and confident. Love it. Also thanks for inspiration you put forth to seek ones own path to find a more "happier" life. Keep up the good work and looking forward to the podcast Kalle.
Thank you for saying that ❤
@@KalleFlodin You're welcome. :-)
I have been struggling for many years now with deep depression, but have got more help with it this summer from my family, and also through channels like yours, Leena Henningsen and Jonna Jinton I found words, new views on life and strengths I've need for a long time. Also found my way back to my love and passion in life which is photography that for the last 2,5 years have been lost for me. And through that I will try to launch my own UA-cam channel during the months to come so I can share my journey (both personal and through the nature of Norway) and knowledge on the field of photography with others, as well as maybe inspire some.
I loved this, smiled throughout!
One small friendly feedback point though (sorry): maybe set the aperture of your lens to a number that's a bit higher, because throughout the video the focus was only on one of your faces which was kind of distracting. Felt I needed glasses haha
But other than that, love it ^^
I'm a part of Christine's woman circle, so it's nice to see her on here now, because I feel I know her a bit better :)
Thank you for sharing all of this so honestly and openly!
Thank you so much for your authenticity ! It's a pleasure to hear and see both of you !
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What a lovely video , so heart warming you both seem too have found your soul mate . My one bone of contention is when Kalle said she can buy half the cabin. How can she do that if Christine doesn't have an income yet , when she does how is she expected to keep money back from you to buy her share of the cabin. I can't see how that is going to work . I'm sure such a beautiful couple will work it out . Children will come at the right time don't let people push/influence you , your time will come when its right for both of you .
Kalle, I think you'd be a fantastic counsellor/therapist. The world needs more men like you. And more Christine's too.
Thank you Kalle and Christine for sharing some aspects your life with us and you are a very lovely couple. I would like to make a respectful observation from an older person who has seen a lot. May Kalle allow Christine all the time she needs to express herself when she is talking with no interruptions or corrections so that you may have a lasting loving relationship free of resentments that could accumulate. I wish you all the best.
Just get the ring and the perfect situation WILL reveal itself. Take the advice of an old lady. You two are PERFECT for each other. Also dont WORRY if you can be a Mom and still have enough time for everything. It will all work out in due time.
Greetings from Northern California. Thank you for sharing your life and thoughts with the world in such a realistic and honest way- not an easy thing to do!
Someone else may had already piped up to note that the item Christin was referred to is generally called sanitation pad here in the State. Not I expect that you will need to say it often in public!
It is indeed good to know what one does not need to have in order to build a content rich life. Stay safe and be well. The Chinese written word of crisis is made up of two characters: danger & opportunity. You absolutely have turned every danger you met on the road into opportunity !
I found your channel and I have to say that I have enjoyed watching some of your videos. I also subscribed to it! I'm looking forward to seeing your journey. God Bless you both!!
SSSSSoooooooo honest you two.Just love it.Watched your video smiling all the way.Merci from Québec.
I am happy you talked about the mice situation, it was something i was curious about for a long time. I had the chance to live in a cabin this summer for a while and i had the same problem, once it started raining the mice would use the house as their shelter and they would roam everywhere, especially in the kitchen. How do you deal with it? Did you just get used to them or you have a plan for how to keep them away in the future? Thanks for another great video
We put up some traps, but most of them run away when they see and hear our dogs come running 😅
I can relate to so many things you mentioned.
Inspiring video, thank you so much for opening up!
I love seeing how you two are in each other's company. :)
I just discovered your channel. People like you give me hope for the future.
Thank you for being so open & honest, it was so refreshing and enjoyable to watch. Blessings for a continued wonderful life together. With love, from Australia. 💞
Thank you for sharing of yourselves so sincerely. These were very practical topics. You are both very funny and certainly seem to complete each other. Whether you get married or not, or have children or not, or whatever or whatever not, I wish you both many more happy years shared together..
This was a very enjoyable video ! Thanks for sharing your life with us !
She's gorgeous! And so polite. The clean thing is very typical of men and women. Women are biologically designed to be aware of hygiene and cleanliness because if they give birth, they need to make sure she and the baby won't get infections or contamination. It's also why they can smell things that men can't when they are pregnant.
I didn’t have my children until 34 and 36…(And I still think it was perfect timing.) You’ve got time! 🙏🏻💝
You two are a beautiful couple! Love to watch you share with us. Enjoy your videos.
What a wonderful and honest video! Thank you so much for sharing all your thoughts and feelings. It is so nice to watch this.
Keep staying the way you are. lMuch peace and love to both of you. ❤️
I'm so happy you liked it Tanja 😊 Thank you!
you guys are absolutely AMAZING together, talk about a perfect match, really feels like it and her laugh is so contagious, Kalle make he laugh more and more... I can only imagine the beautiful family you will have and I can't wait what the future holds for you both !!!!!
I can't believe how people think it's ok to pry if others are going to have kids or getting married. It is none of their business :D
I totally agree👍🙏
You must believe, this is normal. He published his personal life in the first place, so this is the cost to be famous.
Wrong. Public persona no longer becomes private.
@@TheBroot0999 No, it's never okay to ask, even for Parents. Private or public dosn't count.
Oh for goodness sake 🙄
Oh geez, Kalle. When you dropped the line "when you get to be with your soulmate life is so much better", ya just about killed me.I didn't know they made guys like you anymore...well done you two!! Much health and happiness to you both.
Thank you both for talking so honestly.
Christine - your question to yourself - "can I be busy AND be good for my children" - that is a SUPERB question to ask and to keep asking for the rest of your life. I think the fact that you ASK that question is a strong indicator that you will LIVE a good answer to that question. Love is something we DO - the words "I love you" are simply the aroma - our actions ARE the love. You already understand this - that is why you ask the question - you already know you will need to give children time, give them attention and patience and presence. So will Kalle. Do people ask Kalle the same question about having kids? It is curious how people tend to ask women that question but not men.
Så vackra ni är tillsammans och den respekt och kärlek ni visar är underbar 💐💗
That was very sweet and fun thank you! Tuss almost shared and Nala’s sweet nose kiss was lovely💚
Thank you Ida ❤ Haha yes they always want to be where we are 😅
@@KalleFlodin yes! Mine the same wouldn’t have it any other way! 💚💚💚🐕
You are both awesome. It is so refreshing to watch and listen to you. This is wonderful really. I have very recently found your channel but I am already following your journey with huge interest and caring. I am an older lady that like you both have been dreaming of escaping since I was very young. I was born and lived for my first 4 years in a very isolated country area. But have searched for many years for an opportunity like you have built for yourselves. I wish you all success. You are bringing joy by extension to myself and maybe many others who have had these dreams. Thank you for sharing your efforts and lessons. Xx