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Judea Arthur started a channel for the first time to talk about her baby girl Noah Lee. The baby died of SIDs last October. Please reach out to her, only those who have experienced this horrendous loss have some idea of what the parents are going through and qualificated enough to help in anyway. She is totally destroyed. She wants people to know she existed and she was and still is adored. Noah Lee is the baby girls name. Beckett was a beautiful baby boy, I am so profoundly sorry for your loss my love xxx
I saw her video yesterday and I am extremely concerned and worried for her. She is completely broken. I worried she’s at risk of taking her own life. I hope someone can reach her and help her. I can’t stop thinking about her. Her Instagram is heartbreaking. 💔
@@laurahulland she just does not want to live without her baby. She needs someone who has been through it to reach out to her. They will be able to comfort her like noone else can. It is just your worst nightmare, my heart is sore for Judea, and every mother, father, family member who have experienced SIDs in their family.
@@Kiki-yw9kc absolutely agree, On her Instagram, ,she says she won’t be one of those people who are an inspiration, she won’t be a success story, she’s just counting time until she can be with Noah again. She literally doesn’t want to be here. I agree that no one can help unless they have been through it. Absolutely. I lost my mother in 2019 and the only people who understood the trauma and pain were other people who had lost their mother, and lost them like I lost mine. We can all offer support and kind words and listen, and bear witness to her pain and suffering, keep Noah alive in our own hearts, but we can never know her torment like another mother who has lost a baby the same way. It’s so so sad. 😞 I’ve never seen anything like it. But I suppose most of us keep that pain locked inside or only share with close family. I don’t know. I hope it helps her somehow, cathartic and healing maybe.
@@laurahulland I am sorry for your lose and you are 100% spot on with everything you have said. She needs other mothers to reach out to her. No doubt all these women want to be with their baby but then other children and life kicks in and the years start to go by. Judea just lost her baby in October. I am by no means saying the grief varies but time certainly brings on the different stages of grief and this needs to be discussed with her. It is so good that we are highlighting this because that is what is needed, love, care and support. my God it is just beyond tragic, I truly hope beyond hope that Judea gets the vital support she needs and to realise she is not on her own with her thoughts ❤️
@@Kiki-yw9kc thank you sweetie, I appreciate that. For a long time I was in a very dark place. She was my best friend and I still can’t comprehend she is gone. My dad is still in the depth of his grief, 53 years of marriage to his soulmate. He’s beyond devastated. Lockdown has made it even worse. Everyone has their own pain and our own pain is not something to use as a benchmark or yardstick to measure all grief. It’s subjective and relative to your own experiences isn’t it? But I have done a lot of research on grief to help my dad, and what I am seeing with poor poor Judea is called complex grief and it needs professional help. It’s when someone gets stuck in one of the stages and becomes obsessively locked in that negative feeling without progressing. She will still have all her pregnancy hormones and could be suffering from post natal depression on top of the grief. I do hope her husband is getting support too and that their families are trying to rally around them. Don’t you just feel so helpless that you can’t actually do anything physically to help? 😩
I am so so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby boy. My daughter is 5 weeks old and I have such a massive SIDS fear. No loving parent should ever have to go through losing their child. You're a really strong woman and amazing mother to have got through it and helped your other children through it. Healing hugs to you and your family xx
Same I'm terrified
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my first baby, Jacob, to SIDS when is was 5 1/2 months old over 30 years ago. I like to talk about him too. Sending hugs.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby boy.
SIDS is a blanket diagnosis that basically means we don't know . It's only given when there's no other explanation that can be found. I think it's an outdated term that should be changed or at least redefined because it isn't a medical condition. There is no one cause of SIDS so there are no tests or treatments. There are only risk factors.
Most researchers believe that the majority of SIDS deaths are the result of apnea episodes. All babies have occasional apnea. It's different from what most of us know as traditional sleep apnea which is a result of an airway obstruction. In babies the airway isn't usually the problem, it's because they forget to breathe. When a baby is in the womb breathing is not necessary for survival. The breathing that they do is for practice. They are learning to breathe and swallow and their kidneys are learning to pass urine from the amniotic fluid that they swallow. It's the only things that they need to know how to do to survive outside of the womb. But until the umbilical cord is cut they don't actually need to breathe, and as a result some babies forget. While most babies are reminded to breathe before it's too late there are some who don't. Some research points to the startle reflex as one of the ways that a baby in a deep sleep is reminded to breathe.
My youngest sister's daughter had to be resuscitated at birth and spent two weeks in the NICU before she could go home. Once she was home she had to be on a strict feeding schedule where they had to wake her up every two hours to eat and it was a struggle to get her alert enough to eat. She was fat and healthy. The doctors said that she behaved like she was still in the womb. She had to be forced into a sleep wake cycle and monitored to make sure that she was remembering to breathe. Fortunately she is now a beautiful 16 year old who still enjoys sleeping very much.
My sister just had her second child a year ago, we got her one of those angel care monitors that went underneath the mattress of her bassinet and would vibrate to gently startle the baby so that she would wake up enough to breathe if it didn't sense any movement for a certain period of time. And it alerted my sister on the monitor to check on her. I think that those types of devices are the best defense we currently have and should be covered by insurance as essential.
I know this is an old post but it’s very informative. Thank you.
@@catherinerose1607 And don't forget that it is preventable. Co-sleep your baby in the same room as parents - close enough to reach out and touch them during the night. Breastfeed for at least six months (from the breast, not pumped milk in a bottle), and sleep baby on their back - with no cot bumpers or pillows or loose blankets.
@@pm2886 Good advise. Thank you so much.
Oh Ashley, I was crying right along with you. You are the bravest woman ever. And I know this video is going to help so many families. I am sending you all my love! ❤
And I have never heard of a placenta tear that fills a uterus up with blood! It is such a blessing you were able to have another baby.
Don’t be hard on yourself Ashley, you lost your baby, you have every right to be tearful when recalling his passing. You are extremely courageous to share this agonising experience brining the taboo to light. I’m pleased you find a measure of comfort in remembering your angel. Cherish those truths and know that there is never a need to apologise for your expression of pain. The tears must fall to make room for the laughter.
So sorry for your loss. Thank for sharing your very personal story about your family and your loss of your baby.
Thank you for for sharing your journey of the little boy that became a angel to soon. Your little boy will never be forgotten through your forever memories and love you knowingly show for him and for the rest of your children.
With you openeness and telling of your journey about your loss your son are bringing awareness of about SIDS and prevention.
All the best in the future and best wishes to your family! 🇦🇺💙💙
Hi Ashley! What a beautiful angel! I can't imagine the unimaginable heartbreak you've been through, but thanks for sharing a piece of you with us. I know this video will help so many struggling. Sending big hugs and prayers your way! XOXO Michelle
I’m so sorry for your loss, I feel like words can never express. Hugs to you and your family. May your sweet boy Rest In Peace ❤️
I still cry when I talk about the SIDS death of my little girl 33 years later... Go ahead and cry... There is nothing to be ashamed of.
Thank you for your testimony, thank you for sensitising us to that matter and sharing with us this difficult part of your life. God bless your little angel. He’s in heaven now.
I don’t know if I have the right words but just know we are so grateful for this ❤️ much love to you and your family ❤️
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing! Childloss is so difficult. 🥺💔 Sending you lots of love and big hugs! 💛💛💛💛💛💛
I'm 48 yrs old and my sister passed from SIDS 1 year before I was born. She was 3 months old. I pray for you and your family.
This is so unimaginable, I have 2 girls and this makes me appreciate them so much more . And I just hope you and your family can find a way to continue on ❤️
I am so sorry💔 no parent deserves to lose their child. You're so strong and your baby boy was such a strong baby. He wanted to meet you. He fought through it all to be born just to meet his mom and family🤍🙏🏼
I am so sorry for your loss, Ashley. You are such a brave Woman to share your story of your beautiful baby Boy. It broke my heart to hear your words. I will pray for you, Sweetie. Enjoy your memories. ~ Nona
Hi sweetie, I’m a new friend from Kentucky to your channel. I am a fellow sub box lover and do box opening vids and I have been doing a few documenting vids of my breast cancer journey I am dealing with now. I am so sorry for your loss and this video have made my heart so broken to hear you talk about your baby. I can also see so much love in your eyes and on your face when you talk about him also. ❤️ I hope to see more videos from you soon love. I’m excited to get to know you and make a new forever friend.
I lost my baby 3 years- I am living with ptsd and it is still a painful situation- I am sorry for your loss!
While watching your video I could almost feel your grief. I am so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story.
I am so very sorry for your lost 😔 Thank you so much for your video, I know is so painful but is good to talking about it. You are a brave woman. I saw a lot of comments and there is a lot of mothers hiding their pain because they feel guilty same like my daughter and me for our 4 month baby girl lost😔
Thank you again for having the courage to talk about SIDS 🙏
So brave of you, and so generous, to try and help other babies. He was beautiful.
So sorry for your loss and stay strong hun💕💕💕
I lost my beautiful six day old baby boy to sids a month and five days ago. Your story has me balling, I feel you so so very much. My heart goes out you and your strength! 💞
I'm so sorry for your loss :(
So Sorry for Your loss!💗⚘😇
This is my number 1 worst fear in life now I have a beautiful baby girl after years & years & years waiting for her.
I am so sorry for your incredibly heart breaking loss my sister in Christ xxoo
@@olivialovesdesign Exactly the same, waited for my daughter my whole life, currently 5 weeks old and I'm so terrified of SIDS :(
So sorry for your loss Brianna xx
i feel so sorry about your loss it is the most heart breaking point of a mother ,maybe God has a better plan than ours .
I’m so sorry. I can’t even imagine what you’re going through. ❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
My little sister passed away from SIDS at 4months old , in 2004. The pain never goes away.
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I'm so very sorry for the loss of your son. Sending love from the UK 🇬🇧❤
Your video just came up in my feed and I said to myself I recognized that baby. I think we must have been in the same due date group May 2010. I lost my baby to incompetent cervix/extreme prematurity in January 2010. Thank-you for sharing your story.
Thank you for sharing. So sorry for you and your family’s loss.
I’m so sorry for your loss sweet Lady!!
I lost a grandchild about 28 years ago to sids I still think about her. I'm so very sorry for your loss
Very sorry for your loss. While respect and consideration goes to you, these awful events are a valuable opportunity to discuss SIDS prevention. We know now that it's likely to be the immature infant autonomic breathing arousal, but what we didn't understand until about 30 years ago, is why the arousal wasn't happening. We know now, and we must talk about it as often as possible - to help prevent these awful losses. Basically, is essential that newborns have sounds and movement around them at all times. They rely on the very close proximity of another person to trigger that arousal response. The breathing, heartbeat, smells, and small movements of others is fundamental to that. Basically, small babies should not be alone - ever. And definitely not while asleep.
The safest is in bed with parents, carried in a front sling or pouch, or in a crib pulled against the side of parents bed and the side lowered so they're as close as possible to mother or father. Demand breastfeeding also helps enormously, as breastfed babies wake more often due to the faster digestion of breast milk. Human infants are just not designed to be alone until at least six months, though two years is safest. They're also not designed to consume formulas, which are much heavier than breast milk, and take too long to digest. This makes babies sleep through the all important 45 minute cycles of wakefulness which keeps them breathing safely. So to expecting parents reading this, please do the research and consider what you can do. SIDS is preventable, so make it your priority to learn more about how.
Thank you so much for the information 😔🙏 sadly we look for information after a desvastated situation happened 😥🙏💕
God bless all the families that have been in the same situation. Our little angels are in heaven now😔🙏😥
Thank you
Oh Ashley I’m sorry I’m crying along with you I’ve lost 2 babies while pregnant and they were hard but to lose your beautiful boy after 4 months it would be an unimaginable loss.
We just lost our grandson baby Hadyn in our family. He had RSV and I'm suspecting covid as well. This is just horrible. I'm so sad to see that this is still affecting you 9 years later. I can't imagine what my son and daughter in law will be going thru. This is just an unimaginable loss.
Nooo 😭 May I ask how old your grand baby was? What did the autopsy results say? I’ve been trying to keep my rainbow baby safe as much as humanly possible. My mom had a horrid accident happen to one of her in-home daycare infants named Molly. This was around 2005.
She put the kids down for their regular afternoon nap, and Molly had just learned how to roll over. She rolled onto her belly and when my mom went to go check on her... she was blue, it was too late. She had lost too much oxygen to her brain and she was beyond help. My mom was extremely depressed for months, we all were as a family. The daycare kids were like our own children.
I have a very extreme fear for my son. I do not want to experience this first hand ever. Sometimes I stay up for hours through the night and just watch his breathing.
What a beautiful boy Beckett was. This is just heart breaking. I'm so sorry...
I am so sorry for your loss 🥺
he was so adorable, beautiful and cute, and he looked just like you 💜 you are so strong.
One day you will get to meet him and hug him again
Thank you for being strong and sharing your story. I hope to have your strength one day. I lost my baby boy 11/30/2020. He was 17 weeks. Happy healthy baby. I can’t stop thinking about that day.
And no indication of anything about to happen?
I lost my 4 month old baby boy 😞💔💔💔 keep me in prayers please
@@kaylabetson9434 Prayers to you mama 💙 I wish no parent had to experience this type of pain. May god continue to carry you on days you need the strength the most.
@@kaylabetson9434 🙏🙏🙏God bless us 😔😥🙏
My heart goes out to you so much love ❤ Stay strong
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son 💐
Thank you for sharing your story and I'm very sorry for your loss.
So sorry I lost my son Mason at 16 weeks due to unknown causes I'm now pregnant with baby no 7 and I worry everyday I pray hes ok and I love my Angel's I also had 3 early miscarriages child loss is the hardest things to deal with
My second daughter passed away from SIDS. She would be 9 this septmeber and passed away at almost 2mo old. When my husband and i woke up that was already cold. My husband began cpr he was cpr certified. When the paramedics arrived i can remember sitting on my living room floor and i remember it as if i was floating over myself watching myself watch the paramedics as they worked on madison they even drilled a small hole in her shin to try to get oxygen into her. She had been gone for so long that the blood had already settled in her body to the point it looked like her back was bruised. Of course she as kept on her back during sleep. We were also told by a high-risk dr that they may have found a tumor on her brain that could cause our daughter to be down syndrome and the type that causes death befoe age 5. At birth we found out she was completely healthy. I also had very bad back pains to the point i would occasionally limp when id walk. She was only 5lbs and 7oz at birth her sister who was 5 when she was born and passed was 8lbs even at birth and was 27½in long so she was much much smaller than her bigger sister. Well when we got her death certificate because SIDS cannot be explained scientifically for what causes SIDS they put accidental exphyxsiation due to co dependent sleeping. She had her own bassinet but she had woken up at 1:30am for a bottle and diaper change and we woke up at around 5am when we found her gone. While at the hospital i was allowed 15min to hold her before dr did their overall examination of her body. I begged th nurses asking if there was anything they could do to bring her back. Which was basically shock and denial kicking in. When we went to the funeral home to begin preparations for her service when the funeral home director brought in the tiny infant sized coffin in it was absolutely heartbreaking i sobbed uncontrollably. We had her cremated because i couldnt fathom having to sit at a gravesite to visit her. I can also remember feeling like our lives were paused due to this and i remember feeling so hurt to see other family members laughing and carrying on with day to day life. I had to learn that only me and my husband's lives were put on hold. U never get over losing a child u just learn to mover forward with life without the new baby. Its more of mourning not just the loss of ur childs life but also the loss of all the dreams u have for ur child. Its not something i would ever wish upon even my worst enemy. Very traumatic extremely heartbreaking. And every year on her birthday we buy a balloon in shape of the number of the age she would be turning and we release it. I remember my daughter had her 2mo appointment on monday and was told she was great absolutely perfect and healthy was told congratulations on ur beautiful healthy baby girl. And she passed away the very next night on tuesday madison we miss u so much and we love u more than words could ever say. And we think of u all the time! One day we will be reunited again until then momma and daddy and big sister love u! My condolences to u and the loss of ur beautiful baby boy!!
I’m so sorry mama. This is what I as a mother is the worst pain imaginable.
I'm so so so sorry. I can't imagine
My husband's cousin lived with us at the time of our daughters passing at he said the sound i made when we found her gone will be a sound he will remember for as long as he lives
Hi Ashley I’m so sorrry for your loss hun. I’m sure you think of him everyday and may god reunite you in heaven someday in sha Allah. I also have a 4 months old baby and I m so scared of SIDS that I make him sleep beside me. He sometimes chokes on his saliva in his sleep so automatically now I don’t fall deeply asleep, one little sound related to him or him moving I wake up right away to see what’s up. Even when he’s napping I lie down beside him or I keep checking up on him every 5 minutes cuz I’m so scared of SIDS and especially because he chokes too in his sleep.
My 17 month old healthy grandbaby just never woke up on Jan 28, 2020. I'm devastated and barely holding on. I was so close to him. The mother wasnt fond of him compared to his 3 siblings. I have a gut feeling something happened that could have been prevented. His autopsy said accidental positional asphyxiation. He was almost 2! He was strong. How could this happen? Rest in peace my angel Hudson Theriot Mimi will find you again.
Soooooo broken n sorry for you! Ugh why God
most sids happens as a cover up for vaccine reaction.
@@PrettyBlackk thank you Ebonee Silmon
@@Hey.bekind777y you know, about a week before he passed I had taken him for a checkup and the nurse said he was due a set of shots. he cried so much my poor darling. what if it was bc of the shots? I would never forgive myself. i will never know the reason now.
@@tanyatheriotlmt3002 my grandson passed away 4 days after getting 2 vaccines. He was 2 months and 5 days old when he passed and was a twin.
I sorry for your lost my heart goes out to you and your family
I know God has you!!❤️❤️
For, my family it has crushed our world..My jayman wasn't even 2 months..(Tears)My, daddy & grandson RIH
Heartbreaking. Beckett was so cute. ❤️🙏🏼
So sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby.
CYRIE WILLIAM HAWES
Sunrise: 4-10-20 Sunset: 8-18-20
Cyrie was a fighter since the day he was born he was born premature and not breathing and was on a feeding tube but he kept pushing he finally was able to come home to see his all his siblings who love him so much and he continued to get stronger every single day he had the deepest dimples and biggest smile ever and loved his family and life but tragically on August 18th his life was cut short due to SIDS then on September 9th he was laid to rest we said our goodbyes and celebrated his short life he was perfectly healthy and happy baby but it's like his body just stopped he was only 4 months old today he would have been 7 but I know our angel is celebrating in heaven life is not complete without him. I love you CW ❤ (this has nothing to do with the video I'm just sharing my baby cousins story and letting people know that SIDS is real and it can happen to anyone at anytime so please try to prevent it I hope you and the baby have a safe birth )
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We lost our 5 month old daughter Mia the 21 of April I can barley sleep I am just so beyond crushed. Thank you for your video your son is so precious 💙 he is always with you.
sorry for loss....I also lost my baby boy last year Nov
I lost my daughter, Joy, 26 years ago. It does get better. It is very, very hard. But it does get better.
probably just a bad reaction to vaccines
God bless you!! I had a still born babygirl
I remember being shocked 38 years ago that barely any research was being conducted on Sudden Infant death. My son passed away aged 4 months for no apparent reason?
It seems we are still in the dark and no further forward and these deaths are not worthy of research.
Im so sorry for your loss dont ever think it was your fault things happen e
Unexspecitally.
Did you guys find the other video she did about SIDS?
I'm so sorry for your loss, I have one question about that day that I didn't catch if you had mentioned it. You said that day was his 4 month check up, right? I'm just wondering if you do vaccinate your children, and if so did he receive his scheduled 4 month vaccines? I'm not trying to cause problems or be disrespectful. I'm really just trying to learn more about the stats of sids
This is exactly what I wanted to ask. Let think about what was different about this day? He got medicine injected into him….
I am so sorry for any parent who suffered through this.
A specialist in pediatrics said the dangerous time is 2-4 months! This pediatric specialist lost a son also to SIDS. Also, around the same age! RIP little precious boy!
I lost my baby girl Sarah to SIDS in 1992. Its hard but you will get through it.
What help you get through it?
@@_gabe_2407 My faith got me through it. It took several years, I won't lie, but it's worth the time to be able to remember her and not go to that sad place anymore.
Piper Landrie
I lost my 2 month baby boy about a year and a half ago to sids, just been real hard to process for my wife and I. Me just giving god the finger for not taking me instead, it’s just not right, healthy baby boy taken for no reason
@@_gabe_2407 I know it's tough. My Sarah was a healthy three month old too. I just don't understand some of the not to dos when putting your baby to sleep. Sarah slept on her back with nothing in her crib. She never slept in bed with me. I think they are so dumbfounded that they are picking straws as to the big WHY? You and your wife had nothing to do with your sons death. Just be there for each other. Don't smother each other about how long it takes to deal with such a tragic loss. Everyone grieves at there own pace. Sometimes all each of you need is a hug or a smile. Trust me, things get better.
We lost Jabien in 2000. I was 7. Bless you 🙏 ♥️
God Bless you and your sweet family. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for sharing your story. :(
I am very sorry for your loss
Don't ever say sorry for talking about YOUR precious angel baby xxoo
Look up- My Darling Child by Sinead O'Connor
He is so handsome!
I lost my baby at 34 weeks pregnant. She was perfect and I miss her every single day. It's still so very hard. I recently had another baby, a little boy, and I am now terrified of sids. I basically hate going to sleep because I'm so scared of the time I'm not alert.. 😔
I'm so sorry about your precious little boy. The pain is always there. Forever...🌹
I am so very very sorry, I just came across yourvideo i know the pain never completely goes away, but I pray that you found some peace in knowing he is with Jesus and you will meet again someday in heaven❤❤❤❤
I lost my son in 1985, he was almost three months old, back then we were not educated on sids, I went back to work, mistake...the babysitter would put him to sleep on a waterbed, on his tummy, again, then there wasn't education on sids... baby passed away when I was at work, arrived to pick him up, with no idea what had happened. I was shocked when I pulled up in the driveway , with police cars, and a police officer who met me on the porch with the horrible news, he gave me the number for sids hotline, my life has never been the same.
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Sounds like suffocation not SIDS
Hi my name is Lorna I had a little girl 22nd June 1984 her beautiful name is Danielle Louise the loss of my little girl was so perfound, I just wanted to die and still after all these years I don’t no how I got though it to this day she was 6 months old when she left me I didn’t get to hold her , but I did she in her coffin she looked amazing I just wanted to grab her and run away as far as I could and hide so no one could take her away again ,there are a lot of feelings and emotions trying to deal with them all at once is crazy ,my life just seemed empty so I can say you never get over it you just learn to live with with the loss , so here I am years later , sitting down with tears rolling down my face saying to you all it still bloody hurts,
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He’s soooooo cute
I lost a son to sids in 2006 I have no support system I feel like I'm going through my losses alone I lost a daughter also in 2001 due incomplete cervix I have 3 living children
I am so sorry that you had no support, that makes this whole thing even harder to deal with and live with forever! 💔
I hope someone who is looking into the fact that breathing isn't as automatic for infants as we assume. We don't bteathe in the womb. It isn't totally surprising that an infant body might forget to breathe. The next step would be to figure out whose at risk.
I am so sorry for your loss. These words seem insufficient, but they are all we have.
I am so sorry for your loss. There is nothing that anyone who has not been through this could possibly understand about it unless they have been through it. I have. I understand. It is devastating and it cripples you. I am sending my love to both you and your baby boy. Also ai?wanted to helo you out and give you sime advice about your filming 🙂 You need to look at the camera lens while filming and not the viewer(where you can see yourself). It is very distracting watching you look at yourself the whole video lol. But I do love your content so keep it up. Just a little tip for you because it will make your viewers more comfortable and there will be a better connection with your viewers if you are looking at us rather than yourself. Keep making videos! I hope your channel gets huge! Much love and respect.
I am very very sorry💔.
Have you seen Vaxxed the documentary. You deserve answers. God bless.
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Sorry for your loss dear..stay strong.
I want to make a point here....we shouldn't put babies in different/ another place or room which is not visited by you for long time of hours.
They need to be not specifically checked but just need to be glanced by family member that ok he is sleeping on his back..n breathing.
This thing can prevent many cases if SIDS.
Kids need to be watched.
Here also..if anyone could have walked an hour/ 30 minutes or 10 minutes near to the child he could have survived.
Pls dont put yr baby in different room...have the movable bassinet or crib near you.
Beckett was a very daring baby boy. A precious little gift from God in Heaven 💙🙏
May knowing that Beckett is now in the arms of Jesus Christ in Heaven gives you comfort, strength and peace. ✝️
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My channel has my story too..
So sad ❤️
I Am so so so sorry for your loss. Truly devastating. Check our documentary series Unbreakable Faith. We just released a story of parents who experienced SIDS too
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Babies in uterus do not breath, they get their O2 from their cord blood
I feel really bad for people who loose their baby to sids, it seems unfair that i survived sids, i dont find it anywhere that babys survive from it
Denise do you mind telling us your story? How did the drs know you were dying if sids in time to save you ? I thought it was a quick happening ?
Just curious, did your child received any vaccine before this happened?
SIDS is so cruel. It martches into your life and gives no warning. Babies are, seemingly, so well and then they die. It is a shocking reality for so many parents. Thankfully, there are now steps, which parents can take, to reduce the possibility of sudden death. I've known that boys are more likely to die of sids, and that sleeping on their backs & using pacifiers are strongly advised. I don't know why boys are more susceptible than girls. However, you have 4 beautiful children. May I suggest that you don't tell your daughters that they were a disappointment.
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Thats horrible my babi died from sids,you are a smoker?i read that smoke can be a cause from sids and my boyfriend it is.
I want to say Im sorry for your loss, but it just seem empty words which cant describe how horrible and heartbroken you must feel. We both smoke with my partner (I only started again when our baby was around 2 months old) My best fried has passed on my baby’s due date after a long battle of cancer and I was in a very dark place. Smoking always made me calm unfortunately so I started again. Our dr and HV said its “ok” to smoke if you really cant stop it as long as you dont smoke inside, close to baby, you dont bed share and you change your clothes. I know its still bad, but I just cant help it😕 My great-uncle has passed of sids (it wasnt called like that back then when he passed around the 40’s) and my great grandmother has never smoked. I hope you find peace, your baby looks a cutie on your picture.
@@tinka2833 thanks you tinka.yes it was horrible its a pain that i have on my chest every day,i feel stupid guilty and i dont know why,one question when you found your baby was purpple?because my baby he never changue of color when we found that he was having something he never changue of color and in the autopsy of mount sinai they put that he changued to purpple thats not true,he died like 30 minutes afther delivery we were on the hospital an nobody could do something you can imagine that?
Smoking can cause problems like low birth weight and jitters, but it isn't attributed to SIDS since the majority of SIDS deaths are with non smoking mothers.