How to Level Up your KIDS: GOOD MOMS ARE SEXY!
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- Опубліковано 1 лип 2023
- Hey TROPHIES!!!!
In this video, we delve into the essence of being a good mother, embracing the joys of raising your children while overcoming the hurdles that come with dating as a single mom. Join me as we discuss valuable parenting tips, that will create a loving and nurturing environment for your children to flourish.
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Yes, the first thing we as doctors do when you walk through the door is inspect, which tell us a whole lot about a person's health even before they mention the reason for their visit. Especially when it comes to children, we examine for signs of neglect- therefore we pay attention to everything!
Come THRU Dr. Trophy! Love it and thank you for confirming this for the ladies 😍🏆✨😘
oooh this is interesting, what kinds of things can you tell about a persons health from a look over as a doctor?
You are absolutely right!!! I have always received compliments on how well groomed and behaved my kids are. My oldest is 19 and he is very respectful and responsible, he has never given me any problems, never been in trouble, I am so grateful for that. I kept him into sports and other activities. My youngest is a 10 y/o girl and she is the same. I am teaching her early about proper grooming and good hygeine and other things that I was not taught growing up!! This is excellent advice
Love to hear this! 😍 You are a wonderful Mother!!! 👑🏆✨
What did you do to make sure your children were well behaved?
@@The-Oneness11 I did the total opposite of how I was raised. If that make sense
@@ItsjustKeyand how were you raised? Or if not comfortable sharing, pls some tips on what you did with your kids. Thanks!
@@nenyeo6090I grew up in a very dysfunctional household!! I never had an example of what a healthy relationship was!! I knew when I had kids, I wanted to be different, unfortunately I didn't break the cycle of single motherhood, but everything else I did.
Tips:
For my son, when his father passed away when my son was 5, I made sure I enrolled him in theraphy!! I knew there are no positive male role models in my family, so I found mentoring programs and enrolled him into sports!!. It was also a requirement that proper grammer was used, no "yeah or "huh", I also encouraged him not to mask his emotions
For my daughter,
I started early with teaching her the importance of good hygeine, being well groomed, etc. I also; enrolled her into sports, dance, etc. And mentoring programs!!
At dinnertime, we eat as a family at the table with no phones or tv, I encourage them, I never make them feel like their opinions don't count!! They know they are loved and can come to me about anything!! I may have left somethings out, but it was not easy. I am proud of the results
I’m not a mother, but I’m so glad you posted this. I hate seeing unkempt, neglected children. Especially when they haven’t been taught manners. And the part about leveling up their education is super important!
This is the best advice above all if you’re a mother trying to level up .. golden 🙌🏽❤❤we can never forget about our babes
Thank you love 🥰😘
I’m a mom too. A single 27 year old with a 5 year old. And I noticed guys find me sooo much more attractive when I am telling them I’m doing activities with my daughter, talking about how much I love her , etc.
Yes! Love to hear this 💕🏆
Loved this video and your consistent in posting.
Would love videos with your input on
1.) thing’s every trophy should do daily
2.) more mother advice
3.) feminine advice for finances
Love these topic ideas! You have no idea how helpful this comment was 🥰😘
I absolutely love this! This is so true! “I love the old money look on kids” and myself! They say if your child has the “Vaseline face” you are taking great care of your baby 😊
I even go as far as to get my daughter her own perfume and spray her and myself before we leave the car!
Yesss to “Vaseline face” 😆🥰😘 and I love that you take the time to perfume your baby girl, that’s so sweet! ❤️
@@thenewtrophywife ❤️❤️thank you
My daughter looks like this in the winter and it’s so cute 😂I literally just thought about the Vaseline face and I seen your comment. Keep being great! ❤
These are great points! 💕 I would love for us to let go of teaching kids to “Know a child’s place and respect adults” and embrace “Having respect for themselves and others”
I love the way you put this, I’m new to the “gentle parenting” movement, but I do love the ideology! Thanks for this babe ❤️
i'd say for them to respect people who respect them
What amazing information!!!! Omg THANK YOU! I pretty much grew up without a mom & I so wish I had this information 15 years ago 😢it would’ve saved me from so much pain went through with my ex’s family shaming me so much for not knowing how to be this kind of mom 😔 because I didn’t grow up with one myself.
Aww thank you My love! ❤️ Let’s break these generational curses together! 🏆✨
Solid advice!! This topic isn't covered enough! My momma always did my hair 💗💓 and as an adult I always have my selfcare on pointe!! It starts from childhood.
Go trophies! ❤ I’m always late too! But also look extra good 😊 I don’t have children and I’m single but I desire a life like this. A trophy life and having it all ❤
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If you want it, you will have it! Speaking it into existence for you. can’t wait to see your ring babe, it’s on the way ❤️😘✨🏆
Thanks for including the aunties. I sent this to my sister and it was met with vitriol. I’m so worried about my niece and nephews but yes your advice also includes future mothers…now that’s planning parenthood 🧐
You know what they say about “leading a horse to water” lol thank you for sharing the content babe, that means so much. Glad you’re here! 🥰😘
I love how she dress , very classy
Thank you my love 🥰😘
I seen women look gorgeous and their children hair and clothes a mess. My friend always had the nice weaves and outfits nails done and her sons were unkept and i felt she was very selfish
This is all too common unfortunately 🥲
Ok now THIS conversation I loved!
Thank you! 🥰😘
Love this topic! A lot of women don’t think about this. Thanks ❤
This is great advice particularly for younger mothers. Everything your advising is spot on.
Absolutely, especially the part about leveling up their education.
@@HarrisPilton789 yes! I realized that it’s much more to education than getting all A’s in school. My daughter is learning Spanish with me, piano, also learning about current/past local, National, and international affairs etc.
Great video, never thought about what you said
Great topic!! I want to see more of this. No body talks about this and it is super important. Also, the way your kids look can affect your social circle and your social circle can help you to find your future husband.
This is such a good point that I never even thought about, Thanks for sharing this with the ladies! 🏆✨😘
Yes, I don’t judge anyone but I surely decide who my friends are gonna be based on how someone’s kids looks. Yes, your child may have all As in school, but you are dressing them in tube tops at only 13 years old. My child will have friends who are well mannered and well rounded just like she is growing to be. Set a standard and stick to it.
Excellent Advice and Tips! Congratulations, You’re growing so fast! 🎉🎉🎉 I could imagine having a mother like you. Your children are blessed to have a good example of what is woman is and how she conducts herself and educates her children. Your sons will benefit by knowing how to treat the women around them. For the men that disagree, I guess they are not interested in creating a lifestyle for their family where they are the bread winners, etc. To each their own. I’m not knocking them for how they want to live, but it’s not for me. I know, we all have to accept that lives we’ve decided to create by the decision we’ve choose to make or not.
Thank you for your comment my love 🥰😘 I’m so grateful for beautiful women like you 🏆✨😘
@@thenewtrophywife Awwww thank you hun!
See imma be like you, i want 2 more kids when im married but give me 10-15 years between this set and the next set 😂
This was immeasurably helpful for me, thank you ❤️🙏🏾
Omggggggg thank you 🙏🏾 definitely needed a fresh reminder FYI -I love being called a trophy 🏆 so definitely subscribed . Thank you for the great content and giving other single moms who date and desire marriage hope cause I was losing it
You ARE a Trophy 🏆, and never give up! If God showed it to you, it’s because he has the power to deliver it. Speak it, your ring is on the way! 💍✨😘
Hi! Watching your videos help to keep me on track with my goals for me and my daughter. Thankyou! ❤❤
That’s beautiful to hear! You are a wonderful Mother 🥰🙏🏽
This is such a great topic. My Grandmother recently pointed this out to me. So refreshing to hear how having well behaved children will help when dating ❤
Love this video, very relatable.. you’ve gained a new subscriber!🫶🏽
Love the vibe 🥰
Thank you love 😘😘
I love your videos and very much look forward to them! Great Topic!
Thank you so much, Glad you like them! 🥰😘
Hey love, I discovered your channel from Shera's live stream and I asked a question, to which another lady lead me to you as we kind of has the same situation ❤❤
I'm a mom of two (3yo and 1yo) and would like to know how you discussed it initially with men about you having kids. Most of the men I've been talking to don't like that added responsibility. How can I deal with that and how do I position myself better? Would love to hear your insights and experience! Thank you and much love xx
Congratulations !!!!!❤
Thank you babe 🥰
Love the videos. They are sooo helpful 💗
I’m so glad to hear this babe! 🥰😘
Hello! I love the video and all your videos! Congratulations on your achievements with the channel +20 pts! Could you do outfit ideas, hair care and hair styles, and jewelry?! Those ideas would be so helpful. I really appreciate you for sharing your knowledge!
Hey Trophy! 🏆
Yes! I will definitely be doing videos related to these topics. So glad you’re here! 🥰😘
i love this! as first time mother i struggle a lot with this. Tq
The details of the undergarments and socks. You told us DETAILS DETAILS DETAILS 🎩
Details are EVERYTHING! 😘
I love this video! First time I see one like this on UA-cam, thank you! I don’t have kids, but I have a dog, these rules apply to my puppy also 🐶
Hey Trophy🏆 I Love this! Taking good care of those who depend on us shows class and good character 🥰😘
Hi love,
Could you please create a video on how to set up a profile on e.g eharmony to attract healthy masculine men.
I know a woman who was a conservative Christian woman who got on e-harmony for a young, marriage minded Christian man. All her matches were wholesome, decent men. Got married to one within a year.
Top notch advice 👌
Thank you my love 🥰😘
This is amazing . I'm a new mum. I loved this so much. Could you do a series this sexy mum videos.
Love this video!
Question: at what point in the dating process did you tell your husband that you have children? Do you recommend waiting a little bit to say or being truthful from the jump xx
I’d highly recommend you wait a while until you’ve fully vetted him because there are some p€do men who date single mothers to have “easy” access to their children
I waited until asked directly, and did not put this on my dating profile to avoid creeps ❤️
I came to the right UA-cam.. I struggle with being feminine & sexy with a young toddler 😩
We are going to change that! 🏆✨😘
This was such amazing advice I needed to hear I am a younger mom as well and I feel like I need to do better and level up my son with me ❤
Do you have a video on how to raise daughters when it comes to boys . I am having a hard time with my daughter. She’s 12
I feel that being open and honest with young girls is always more respected than just telling them “don’t do it”. Let her know what lessons you had to learn as a young woman and how it affected you. Always let her know how valuable her body and energy is 🏆✨😘
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Two things I don’t seek advice for is Sex and kids
Thanks for sharing 😇
If you don’t like her advice, why are you all over her videos commenting . She’s not forcing you to watch her videos. Unhinged behavior .
Aint nobody checking for no single mom 🤣 recreational use only
Meanwhile, she married a provider and your broke behind is on her channel triggered...thanks for the view though. Sprinkle sprinkle.
But you’re commenting on a former single mom’s videos that got wifed up. Find something productive to do.
I hope your mother wasn't a single mom the way you're talking
@@beautiful_wonderfullymade Sorry but I stopped reading after at a certain point within your ranting. I refuse to dedicate my time trying to defend men who chastise women they do not know based off surface level information. And I'm definitely not devoting my precious time trying to seek approval from men who do nothing for me who have no business being on WOMEN spaces/platforms (where women are trying to *elevate* themselves). I'm too busy leveling up from dusty idiosyncrasies. I'm a young single mother as well but am dating a provider. It really depends on your mindset. Actual high quality men are out here too busy accumulating paper taking care of their families rather than insulting women on the internet. And the fact that the woman on this channel is sharing advice on how to mother your children better but his Pillsbury roll looking behind is trying to demean her rather than doing something productive speaks volumes. It's never too late to burn that cape, girl. Ciao!
*Me, a woman who once was a single mother, now married entered the chat. 😝✌🏽🖕🏾
🎀🩷please 🙏share where you get your clothes!
You look really feminine💖
My faves are Nordstrom, WHBM, and Karen Millen. Sometimes Amazon has cute everyday dresses but the quality can be a hit or miss 😘
@thenewtrophywife Thank you, beautiful 🫶🩷🙏
I absolutely love you💜🩵🤎