The Lord will help you and lead you and give you peace. He sees all, knows all. God was never deceived by your narc. He loves you and doesn’t want you to live enslaved to lies and abuse. Reality hurts and it takes time. You will look back and wonder if you’re the crazy one...maybe you’re getting it all wrong. But God. Keep seeking Him and relying on Him - He will take you out of Egypt and lead you somewhere better. Much love and prayer.❤️
After 41 years I just couldn't take it another day. It is so confusing hearing my husband preach righteousness, and then use my love for God to control me, punish me, intimidate me and manipulate me. I have walked on egg shells for so long and become so used to thinking, speaking and acting in a manner to try and "please" my husband that I almost forgot how to be me. It's so hard to reconcile the good side with the side that is so verbally and emotionally abusive that I jump at the sound of him speaking my name. God has been very good to me and given me women who give wise, Biblical counsel and show me so much love and support. I am continuing to seek His direction and provision day by day.
You go girl Isaiah 41:10 don’t be afraid for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.😇🙏👍
You are stronger than you think sweety! God gave His only Begotten Son to free the captives, not to give husbands dominion over us wives. We wives were given the power to bruise the head of the serpent with OUR heel, not our husbands. Also do not forget that our husband’s prayers get hindered if they don’t do right by us and NOT vice versa! Once I remembered that after getting so lost and confused about being married to a man that thinks he’s riding on a stallion with a sword for a tongue. I invited my husband to leave the house and that absolutely terrified him knowing that I don’t have to put up with him. God absolutely loves us. Dont forget who’s daughter you are babe! You are stronger than you think.
My husband 50yrs preached. 6 months free still hard no contact. I pray God will feel the emptiness. So hard to believe he can preach bible but not live what they preach😪
Realise it was a lie BECAUSE IT WAS! Then write a small book about how this person abused you, as soon as you think of one write it down. Then whenever you are tempted to get back in touch, or feel sorry for yourself pick it up and read it, because IT'S TRUE! Keep adding to it, and keep reading it, rinse and repeat until the pangs of brokenness are healed. Keep trying to forgive them eventually you will and then move on. 🙏✝️ Bless you all, for me it was thirty two years and two children. You can do it.
Would you consider not spending time writing, reading, rehearsing and rehashing the pain afflicted but instead keep our eyes firmly fixed on Jesus? HE is our Healer. HE binds the wounds of our broken heart. As we replace the old with Him, we forget the former things. We spend no time on them. They are sent back to where they came from and are under our feet as they are now our footstool. Would you consider looking to Him only? He can wash our hearts, mend, renew and recreate them and we won’t even think of what once consumed us. Praise God! I pray you will.
@@noble604 Obviously it doesn't replace King Jesus, it's not to immerse yourself in and dwell on, it's just a quick fix to remind yourself when you have initial pangs of separation and doubting the truth of the matter and your judgement being clouded into possibly wanting that person back that's all. I appreciate your prayers, may Our Father in Heaven bless you and your family.
I’m saying we can’t be looking at two places at same time. Keep seeking Jesus and the past fades. He alone has the power to do this. He breaks the yoke of bondage that the past holds on us. Every time we think of an occurrence with that one, call on the Name of Jesus. There’s power in that Name. All power. Love you
I see what you saying about journalling but it is wrong in many biblical ways. 1. God does not keep a record of our wrongs yet He is the most aggrieved party. 2. Love does not keep a record of wrongs. 3. In the parable of the unforgiving servant, the master expected the debtor to remember their own unpayable debt not what was owed to him. 4. The narcissist has a similar journal that they keep referring to inorder to continue hurting you. Remember, even your very own existence is an offence to a narcissist. 5. It contradicts what she said about Paul forgetting the past and moving on. 6. Is it possible to journal all narcissists in your life? Don't worry about journalling, the narcissist never disappoints in constant and persistent drama. If you start recording, you will have a bestseller every other month! I believe that the best way is not recording events but acknowledging the SINGLE fact that you are entangled with an emotional predator and you are the meal. Life is short and that is why Paul says in 1Corinthians 7:9 'let those who are married act as though they are not!' Even marriage and original family should not preoccupy the mind of a believer into an obsession.
I read these amazing words in Jeremiah to quiet those intermittent wanderings of mind to remind me. Jeremiah 11:18-19-"The Lord informed me, so l knew. Then you helped me to see their deeds, for l was like a docile lamb [like a pet] led to slaughter. I didn't know that they had devised plots against me: 'Let's destroy the tree with it's fruit; let's cut him off from the land of the living [isolation] so that his name will no longer be remembered.'"
@@JesusIsLife298 Father is so good that l read this just before this UA-cam presentation arrived and right in the middle again of convincing myself again that it all really happened. Peace to you Sister!
The victim of the narcissist continues to think the narcissist will have some sort of transformation. When in fact the transformation needs to take place within the victim's heart and mind. It leaves all their emotional well being into the hands of the narcissist so "transition" to a healthy and whole life is put on hold.
I am 45 years old and it has just come to light that I come from a narcissistic family system. I have been in therapy for years and gotten healthier so when everything blew up recently, I recognized what was happening. It was the worst shock of my life. I refuse to be controlled and go back in my box and they are furious with me. I have tried to work things out with them but they have escalated things to an impossible place. It’s like a gigantic confusing puzzle I can’t solve. I was hoping so much that we were just misunderstanding each other but every contact they make with me just confirms it more. It’s been devastating. I suddenly an feel like I’m an orphan but they didn’t die. Jesus is the only reason I’ve been able to face each day. I keep praying that God will be able to reach their hearts and heal them because I’m devastated for them as well, not just for myself and my family.
This was so healing to listen to, thank you. Tears came when I realised I'm in that dessert and part of me longs to go back... I really really needed to hear this. I'm so encouraged that the Lord is using your negative experience with a narcassist to the fullness of his goodness.. to reach out to others suffering.. and boy have I suffered. Your channel is the only way to frame it all for me, being a Christian.. and falling into that hope without discernment trap. I praise God for you Shaneen 🙏 xx
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma and stress from my heart in Jesus name. Pray lord send angels to free me from all witchcraft,free me from all lies of the enemy,free me from mind control,free me from mind blinding,free me from all confusion and free me from all brain fog in Jesus name. ua-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
You nailed it. If you are a recovering from a narcissistic relationship remember you can also be victorious and more than a conqueror when it’s all said and done. Shaneen has many other videos to help guide you through this time.
I agree. If they’ve mistreated you, the Lord will help you be victorious and more than a conqueror. He doesn’t take kindly to the mistreatment of His children. We don’t seek vengeance or pray for their downfall; on the contrary, we seek peace and pray for mercy even for those who have acted wickedly toward us. Just know He will act on our behalf. They have no idea what they’ve done or who they’re dealing with. You are His prized possession, and He is faithful to you. There can be no other way. Amen .
Clark Hubanks - thank you. (.... If anything be true, _noble_ , pure, lovely, admirable, excellent... ...... think on _these_ things.) We are kings and royal priests through the precious, shed Blood of Christ. We no longer walk and think as this world in their mundane ways. *We are noble* and as nobility, we set our royal, kingly, noble minds on kingly, royal noble things.) I praise God for this newness of mind. It’s ALL new! Blessings to you
@@ShaneenMegji I realize it is therapeutic to write down the wrongs, I have even done this. My queastion is, how long are we to go over these memories in order to move on. I do not get that teaching from God's word. We are to forgive 70×7, that was just an example read Mathew 6:15. This passage is talking about forgiveness and also not holding on to the past, because God sure doesn't. He wipes the slate clean with Jesus's blood. How wod you explain your point?
Thank you. This was an answer to prayer. I feel like I should be better, be over it but I still have effects. The snake is cut off but I’m still recovering and digesting all I swallowed. Makes so much sense. God bless you and your ministry of truth and light.❤️
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma and stress from my heart in Jesus name. Pray lord send angels to free me from all witchcraft,free me from all lies of the enemy,free me from mind control,free me from mind blinding,free me from all confusion and free me from all brain fog in Jesus name. ua-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
Same here. I couldn't get over how it was all a lie, how he was unfaithful through and through and finally seemed repentant and came back to work on things, but then he won't make it true. It's just all been a lie and I can't be a part of it anymore and we were together almost 20 yrs, married for 17.
Married for 36 years not realizing he was a narcissist. Figured it out by learning of my Moms narcissism and seeing how they both had these same traits. Now that I’ve learned of this, it’s so much easier for me to deal with them because they all follow the same patterns.
Thank you for this video… My ex is a Lead Pastor he divorced me after 10 years of marriage and a few weeks later remarried his ex-wife. The shock of being discarded and enduring a very difficult smear campaign and custody battle was almost overwhelming - but God❤️ Looking forward to watching your videos #NewSubscriber
You weren’t created to be disgraced by a person, abused and tossed away and certainly not “in the Name of the Lord.” Continue to be what your name says. Your God has seen every step of this life of yours. He’s even seen things regarding you that you haven’t. He’s heard every single word and He knows every intention in every heart. Our God loves you and He is moving on your behalf. Man’s little smear campaign doesn’t compare to the Mighty acts of our God. He will not be mocked. Hold on. He has not failed you or forsaken you and He never will because He cannot. Continue to seek peace. He is moving just for you. He is with you. You are His. Blessings to you.
Isaiah 41:10 Don’t be afraid for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged but I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you I will hold you up with my victorious right hand girl keep going forward I was married to a pastor he did the same thing to me
My dad was the pastor of a small church and my mom was the one with a religious spirit /covert narcissist . She determined the “truth” about any given situation either in the church or at home and my dad was her enabler. I knew something was desperately wrong but could never define it. I have recently went no contact with her. Something that was not necessarily easy but necessary non the less. I married someone almost 4 decades ago. The son of a missionary. He had the same issue just a different flavor. It started with physical abuse then decades of emotional and psychological abuse. I just caught on about 2 years ago to what was going on. I feel like I just crawled out of the Matrix . I’m still in the slightly dazed and confused stage but praise God I now know the truth and The Truth has set me free. I often see the question asked here if a narcissistic can change. Yes they can. By God’s grace my husband is seeing the truth and changing . The Lord is restoring to us the years the locust have eaten. Praise His Name!
I have to wonder, if it took you that long to see what was happening to you if you can even begin to see whether your husband has really changed at this stage of your separation. Remember narcs are amazing deceivers. They are masters at it. Sounds like you must’ve been heavily invested in seeing things the way you wished they were for decades rather than the way they really were so I hope that before you reunite with him you get very intensive and thorough counseling With someone who understands narcissistic abuse and trauma bonding.
Wow!! After 34 years of marriage, and working so hard to hold on to this marriage, I finally caught his cheating and it gave me a way out. But to learn it was all a lie is devastating, but I can look back and clearly see it. The hardest thing for me is how to you go no contact when you have children together?
I'm going through the same. I was with him for 12yrs we have kids and he left according to him every thing is my fault and he did everything right....refuses to talk to me or go to marriage counseling....yet texts out the blue to check on the kids and at this point I just want nothing to do with him....ive begged I've cried to him and he just steps all over and seems to have moved on. I want to move on too but how with kids involved
I think it's good to keep boundaries. Only discuss business or the kids, but keep it brief and to the point. You will probably see how he uses it to get back in with you (probably needs supply), but learn their tactics and listen to your feelings. I'm becoming more indifferent and not triggered like before thanks to the healing God's been doing. I look forward to moving on.
I actually started crying at the part where you said "you have God's grace to go no contact" because in this case it's family and it has been eating me up not knowing if God sanctions abandoning family...I think elderly family is the hardest to let go of without that guilt setting in.
God first You second. Everything thing else somewhere back there. Your relationship with God is no different than a marriage. God first, you second then Spouse because you cannot minister out of your need rather an abundance. Unhealthy relationship have to be placed in a boundary. Sometimes that boundary is huge!
Well. There's an amazing biblical book I read that answers your question. It is called "The First Will be last: a biblical perspective on narcissism" by DC Robertsson. Blessings
You are such a gift from the Lord. I have been totally blessed today by your words of truth which confirm my own decision to leave a marriage of 3 decades. However I have had to deal with the judgment of almost every friend, church member, former pastor, and even my own children who completely disagree that I have any right to leave this abuse as a Christian, and they have considered me to be apostate, meanwhile not showing me a bit of love or concern. Your words were a healing balm to me today and I am so glad I found your channel. And yes ministering angels have been caring for me no doubt as I have been almost bedridden with grief and depression until the Lord showed me the path to healing and moving into my true destiny.
I’m so sorry for what you are going through now 😢, but so happy that you got the courage to leave, and that you’ve landed in the healing, loving arms of God. Praying for much peace, comfort, and loving guidance from God.❤️🤗🙏🏽
I was with my husband for 12yrs and he has left for a little over a month and everything is my fault and according to him he has been perfect and not sorry for anything. He refuses to try to go to marriage therapy.....now I'm here taking care of my kids alone and no explanation and it's like he moved on easily and quickly
How refreshing your examples are. I have been listening to many sources on narcissists because I was married to a covert religious narcissist who hid behind her belief. Everything was my fault and I was always the issue yet she gaslighted me and I could never have a constructive "discussion" on issues in our marriage..... always the "discussion" turned into word salad and psychobabble that just went in circles. She never took responsibility for any issue and her actions definitely did not match what she was saying. Three years have passed and by the Grace of God I feel I am coming out of a fog. I am ready and looking forward to my next phase in this life..... THANK YOU.
Good for you! I’m going one year no contact with 2st Narc. and one year 4 months no cont t with the 2nd Narc. Feeling myself again with mental fog clearing up. myself again
Your understanding of this horrible soul eating type of relationship has helped me greatly I do not know where I would be in this journey with out your guidance. No one understood what i was going through until i found your videos thank you so much. You are a blessing in my life.
I also had a vivid dream. The narcissist & I were at a venue of some sort. People there were speaking in a "code" that I didn't understand when it suddenly came to me that I didn't belong there. So I began walking & left the narcissist behind. I walked & walked & walked, putting more & more distance between us. The thing I remember most about that dream is walking, continually walking. And when I think back, it's an encouragement to me to keep going, to keep walking. 🚶♀️
Oh thank you for this video, Shaneen! 18 months after breaking free from the ex narc, this video has turned up as a much needed message of encouragement. I didn't even realise that I needed to hear it. I am indeed very grateful. Thank you for sharing it and may the LORD bless and keep you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma and stress from my heart in Jesus name. Pray lord send angels to free me from all witchcraft,free me from all lies of the enemy,free me from mind control,free me from mind blinding,free me from all confusion and free me from all brain fog in Jesus name. ua-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
Perfect description of my ex wife. Wisdom and discernment goes hand in hand when dealing with narcs. I'm so happy now. We as empaths don't need them, but they needed us to be honest. Funny thing is, I, too had a dream about her last summer. The way God showed me her true self was eye opening for me. She was 3 different witches in my dream that kept shape shifting actively in my dream. Thanks for mentioning Jezebel by the way😉
EXCELLENT. WATCH MORE THAN ONCE, UNTIL IT CLICKS. 1 The longing for those "special experiences" (distorted thinking). 2 Longing re-introduces the shock ("it was all a ie" / crazy loop of replaying/false perception of how it really was). 3 Be patient with yourself. (detox from ANY interaction with the N; instead, partner with yourself and God. 4 Accept the adventure God has for you. 5 Go NO CONTACT with that N. 6 Pursue God's talent for your life.
It has been 2 years now and I was drawn to watch this video again. Brought tears to be honest. After a 43 year friendship, suddenly gone . It is so so difficult ... (all boxes ticked a year and a half ago 😞 Only Rauch Hakodesh keeps me going)
This video is especially timely for me. I am struggling and I’m not sure why. I was doing better until recently. I can’t figure out if it’s because of the holidays, job searching, recent contact with the narc, being sick with the flu/Covid or just everything. What I heard in the video? Be patient and give it time. Thank you. 💓
Your videos have helped me greatly , going through the worst time of my life dealing with a highly manipulative narcissistic. Completely crushed me and my sense of worth. But I’m determined to get through it ❤
Thank you 🙏 mam. By watching to your video iam realising now that God have saved me from my toxic relationship. Iam praying to God to please forgive me for my failed relationship, and to please heal me from my broken 💔 heart. Amen🙏
Thank you!!💗💗💗 this is the EXACT thing I was discussing with a friend about the narcissist today! Just what I needed to hear. What happened to Elijah and what had to happen in order for him to heal makes sense! Sticking closely to my Jesus!!!👑
Going through this right now. Horrendous beyond belief. Thank you, Shaneen❤ God has blessed me incredibly with strength, conviction, grace. Struggling with patience. God's goodness will prevail over evil...Bless you. Your videos are amazing!
I’m 65. I have 5 sisters. 3 brothers. (1 living & 2 deceased of the boys) I’ve only become aware of narcissism in our family. They come after me with a vengeance, continuously and I’ve never understood why. Educating myself in this arena connects the dots of my entire life. Do I really disengage from my entire birth family? They are truly so steeped in it that it’s like a teabag in a hot cup of water. I can only guess that all the years I was locked away from everyone in the basement was a blessing in disguise.
It will get better, I left my marriage 2 years ago. Some days are bad and I accept them, some days are good and I celebrate them. You will be fine, allow yourself to feel every emotion and if you are a believer find a scripture that will allow God to counter that negative emotion with a positive word. All the best...
You are so on point. Every word you said is just like you are looking directly at me. I am narc free no contact and praying everyday to get back into relationship with Father God Jehovah. 3.5yrs of hell with that man who was sent by Satan to destroy me. But I kept crying out to my Father and he rescued me. Thank you Lord. Taking my time to heal and it is not easy but I refuse to go back I was with a malignant narc so some of the things I endured at his hand I would not wish on him! So I am holding on to Horns of the Alter and not going to let go until my Father bless me with True Deliverance. Thank you so much for yielding to God's Voice and bringing these videos. GOD BLESS YOU 🙏 !
It is so appalling and traumatic to realise that you (thought you) loved someone who was instead just taking you for a ride; mocking you to their friends; using you. And I’ll that is just a summary of the myriad abuses you experience with a narcissist. It can take years for you to truly recognise that the narcissist was never worthy of you. The biggest con the narcissistic plays is to make you feel unworthy of them when it’s totally the other way round.
Thank you for this video, now I know not to be mad at myself, Let Daddy God wrap his loving arms of love all around me! God Bless You and have a Peaceful Day Today 😎💜🙋♀️
The narcs' words run through my mind and I hate it. I'll be going about my business then I hear their voice. I'm learning and growing, thank you for your videos.
I have three children with a narcissist I don't know that I can forget the past. I've been burdened with a business and a home to support myself and my family. His name is all over everything I've thought about leaving it all and walking away but I can't do that to the kids. If it was just me I would have gone a long time ago.
I have an added sadness because God brought me and the individual together in a unique way as he was hurting from a devastating break up and was searching for God. He told me that I and two other strangers had appeared in his life the exact week and began telling him about Jesus. After several months and several conversations he told me that he had accepted Christ as his Savior. He was attending a nearby church and we daily exchanged things about God and the Bible. I felt that we had a deep friendship connection that was very special. Once his divorce was final and he got everything he wanted, I was no longer needed and apparently that was also true of the other two men. I have tried a few times to reconnect with him, but the last time was a disaster. He explicitly told me what he thought of me and the friendship permanently ended. I question everything now. I question if God was in the situation at all or if I was being used and manipulated to be "on his side" during the court proceedings. I feel now as though there was never any friendship and it was all a sham. My heart is broken.
You just described my 10 yr. Marriage to narcissist. He said to me after 10 yrs of emotional abuse w/other women etc. he said I don’t love you, I’ve never loved you.
I remember praying fervently that my ex-wife would be released from the possession of her BPD and all the antics she’d pull. But as time went along, the Holy Spirit was guiding me into the understanding that a person must WILL to change or it won’t happen. Also the Spirit showed me that, what I considered her demons, she actually was proud of and even her family praised her for. So I realized it was a lost cause. A person won’t stop their toxic behavior if they, themselves, believe that very behavior is positive and beneficial.
LOVE this channel, thank you so much! Been listening to Dr. Ramani, Dr. Les Carter, and HG Tudor but having a biblical perspective is so much more powerful. Thank you thank you! 💕💗💞
I was with the narcissist for 3 years. But I woke up to it, the problem that I'm having is all the bad things he did to me he would always pray and God would reward him and he never learned a lesson not that he was going to learn it anyway but I just don't understand why God let him get away with so much and and then would reward him 😞
Wow Shaneen. You have just the right words and biblical encouragement every time. Yet I am still so afraid to just up and leave. I know what to do. I just need the courage to get up and leave everything behind. It's so sad considering this is my second failed marriage to a narcissist. And I just discovered that's what they both were, just a few months ago. 💔 How do I even explain this to anyone. I will have to leave my church. Cos they believe in counseling. They have clearly never been exposed to narcissists. I feel alone and so vulnerable and afraid. And I hope that God will show His love for me during this impossible dark transition time. Because I honestly have never felt God's presence during my 11 year marriage. Crying out to God constantly, asking Him to show me what I'm dealing with and how to deal with it It's like the story of Job The Bible says he lost everything. But God blessed him abundantly after The losing everything must have hurt like hell But there's no more mention of that Just his abundance after . Aa a christian, I am ashamed and don't know how to come up for air after the dust has settled I am frozen with anxiety and hopelessness How can I call myself a Christian with these emotions I am feeling... There is no fruit of the spirirt in what I am enduring right now I feel so ready to die of a broken heart. I have no desire to see the testimony Come from this test. Infact, I cannot imagine anything positive coming from this horrid test. I feel like Elijah did, with jezebel hunting him Empty, redundant, hopeless. Where is this spirit of power, of love and of sound mind, the Bible speaks of? I have zero peace. Only fear and anxiety Where do I go, and how do i just leave....?
You are a Godsend! I’m grateful to have found this channel! You’re an anointed and awesome teacher. A load has lifted and l’m so encouraged to keep fighting and keeping the faith! Bless you, bless you, bless you!!
Thank you sister in Christ for this video as I have recently got divorce from toxic relationship and going through a lot of thinking about this whole marriage thing. It was a big fat lie from the beginning but I couldn’t see anything signs. Now as I connect the dots I see quite clearly how I was treated . I appreciate how you are helping people like me . God’s grace is enough and I’m on my way to recovery one day at a time. May God bless you and give wisdom to help others .
I can so relate to the snake dream. I dream a lot and many times there are snakes. Perfect analogy. My healing only started when I cut the narcissist off (no contact). We still have to go through a difficult process, but it’s the only way to eventually get to a place of healing.
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma and stress from my heart in Jesus name. Pray lord send angels to free me from all witchcraft,free me from all lies of the enemy,free me from mind control,free me from mind blinding,free me from all confusion and free me from all brain fog in Jesus name. If you have any snake dream just pray I bind all demons that entered any of my dreams and cast them to the pit in Jesus name. ua-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
This is the best description of why I feel so empty and sad now that I a alone. This helps to know that I will be ok. That I will heal and find what fulfills me on my own. With God. Thank you!!
Third Eye Spell is still on me from a Narcissist Couple who constantly follow me for Financial gains. It's almost impossible to get them out of my life even more powerful then God' Mercy.
Since I went no contact, to the best of my ability, because we are part of the same ministry, I have had a bit of angst that it was all a lie but through praying for healing I have been so at peace lately. I feel the presence of God in my life again and would rather feel lovely than go back. I know I am not alone because there are ministering spirits dispatched to me since I have been delivered from bondage. I got real lonely today and prayed and I immediately felt like I was being told to take a walk. I saw bunnies playing, a robin red breast escape the swoop of a hawk, ducks swimming in a creek, smelled lilacs which is my favorite scent of spring, and met a neighbor on my walk with the cutest dog. I now feel wrapped in love and no longer feel lonely. Just pray and He will send the comforter to you, but NEVER GO BACK TO THE BONDAGE GOD HAS DELIVERED YOU FROM!
Thank you that you started this channel!!! This will be always of great value to many many!! May He protect your heart and mind and give you strength to continue with the good things!!!
I’ve recently decided to go “no contact” even though we have a son. He doesn’t acknowledge him at all. Never gave any kind of support and has never seen him in his almost 2 years of existence. He’s emotionless. Yet he has the guts to continuously mess with me by going back only when he feels like it. I pray that this time I can really block this person and move on with my life. I have a permanent reminder of the narc in the form of our son but he’s the opposite of his father and truly a blessing from God.
This is the first time I'm commenting on your videos, although I have been watching manyyyy of them. I'm not with the narc anymore but he's still around and we still have to interact with each other, unfortunately. It has been almost 11 years since I met him and went through the abuse and made up my mind back in 2016 that this is what I was dealing with and my only chance is to let everything go emotionally. It was God who revealed to me a video on NPD by Sam Vaknin in 2016 and at that time no one was speaking about it but I thanked God and began my healing. Healing is a longggggg process so be patient. Things trigger you, if they are still around they will trigger and provoke and that's why it is best to remove them from your life entirely. What I really must say is that GOD speaks to us in dreams and you mentioning this dream made my heart beat so fast. God also knows the heart of man while we see the outward appearance. I truly believe now that the only way to be protected against this demoinc entities oppressing these people as NPD is to be hidden in Christ. When I became intimate with the one that found me, I too had really ill dreams. I kept dreaming of being in their home and it's really cold and dark and just a yuck feeling. I will always try to turn the lights on but no light would come on, not one. I will hit the switch so many times and it would just not come on. When I woke up, that sinking, heavy, nasty feeling would be present for the entire day. That dream repeated itself so so so many times and it was a warning from God as he says in the scripture that he warns us in dreams and visions of the night. I needed to pay attention because that dream meant nothing good at all and so did my life reflect. I had a female friend who is also a narc and she would tell me her dreams and they're alwaysssss demonic and filthy. Even when I distanced myself from her, I dreamt of her being in an extremely filthy sexual act, almost as if she had no control over herself and I was trying to help her, while these two entities kept her in bondage. The narc I dated also used and discarded someone I just met as well and left her really confused and I had to share with her what he was doing at the present moment, grooming little girls, having sex with another woman who he always has sex with and currently love-bombing a new supply. (We live near each other, until I can make a clean move, so I'm privy to it all). This girl also had a dream of him being in a coffin, which made me a bit sad as I know dreams reveal many many things. Being intimate with the narc also caused many filthy dreams and spirit spouses to attack. All this to say, my dear brothers and sisters in Christ, you must present any person claiming to be interested in you to Christ. My blind spot is that I tend to believe people's words so God has started to warn me in my dreams about these people. I hadn't the knowledge back in 2011 when I met the narc but I can tell you now, whenever I am speaking to anyone new, if they are no good, God alwaysssss reveals it to me in dreams. Also refrain from sexual intercourse before marriage. God made it a covenant for our protection. These people spread sexually transmitted demons that are stubborn and refuse to leave you, even after the narc has discarded you or you them. God rewards obedience and that's how he protects us from being abused by the narcs. The moment they get intimate with you, it's a fast track to a hellish experience. I speak from experience, healing, compassion and love.
I am so happy I was in tuned with my gut. I can spot these folks as I am a trained Physician. They love bom and gas lighting is such a red flag. As soon as you set boundaries the mask comes off. There is always a hidden agenda. I am a super empath. No contact is the best therapy. Most of all constant praying for discernment is key to dealing with these demonic people. deceptive indeed.
It's especially hard when the Narcissist is your own mother, who love bombed you as a baby and young child, and then began the discard as you approached your teens. She left my kid sister and I after my father's death when I was 15 and my sister 13. She never loved anyone but herSELF, and I remained trauma-bonded to her for years, constantly wondering what had happened and how I could get my old mom back. Now of course I realize my entire relationship with her was a lie. It was never real, but how could a child understand that???
I do keep and read all my journaling and just to remind me of why I left. How could I ever forget being bullied online by his fan club of mostly women and couple of men who posted on my page, "I have never seen such jealously" words I heard constantly from the narcissist. And the constant devaluing of my character.
Wooow!!!! I needed this sooo much. Talking me down here. Want to go back sooo much. I was 15 when we met, and I’m 50 now. Still love him - I don’t know if I will ever b ok. Coparenting and we talk a lot and now kinda friends. He has totally moved on ok… I have a run down rental and no friends- family doesn’t talk to me. NO one talks to me anymore- except him. My 10 year old does- so ok. Just an lost now. Want to go back but he doesn’t want me anymore- I think.
A narcissist can cry & stop suddenly. Smile almost simultaneously. They're master pretenders. Never fall for their evil scheme. Don't figure them out. Run
Amen, I have been married to a covert for almost 5 years. The one positive from this relationship is that it has brought me closer to Jesus. I was confused at first because I could not figure out his behavior, going from being the most important person in the world to him to absolutely no relationship, feeling utterly alone. Love bombing is so confusing when it ends abruptly and then you get blamed because your attitude. So much betrayal and lies, but now I limit my interactions with him. He almost seems fine with it and I am working at keeping calm and not reacting when he tries to push my buttons. I would like to leave at some point, but I am not currently in a position to do so. Thank you for your videos. I have learned so much.
it's so hard for me to accept the person I chose to love became something I don't know anymore .. opening our eyes can be really painful ... I am feeling that pain I just want to vanish
Shaneen I've just discovered your videos; I think the Lord caused them to pop up on my UA-cam feed and I'm so thankful. I'm finding them to be the most helpful in understanding the spiritual and biblical perspective on narcissism. All your videos are great, and you articulate so accurately the various dynamics that take place in a relationship with a narcissist; the lovebombing, gaslighting, devaluing, discard, the way they abuse their victims. I'm a missionary and this year is my 10th year serving on the field. Over those 10 years I've served under more senior leaders (Pastors, former Mission Organisation Ex Director, current Missional Community senior leaders) who were narcissists (all covert) than those who were not. I kid you not. I know God has a purpose in it all. I've spent the last year really studying narcissism via various psychologists, counsellors and pastors on UA-cam because at one point i thought i was really losing my mind, and so I can understand the way they operate and protect myself in current relationships. And I know God is my Deliverer in my present circumstances. Thank you for all your teaching and expertise on this very important subject. Your teaching is a life and sanity saving gift to us. 😊
Shaneen again spot on and just in time. I had a painful experience with the narcissist in my life over the festive season. These short but powerful videos are like a safety harness, again just reminding me of the truth of what is going on. Thank You Jesus for Your Truth and Your Comfort. God bless you Shaneen ❤️
You have confirmed everything God has been telling me. thank you for making your videos and with Jesus setting the captives free. Every end of a video of yours is a video ended too soon. 😄
Thank you for sharing in a way that I understand. Being a Christian and empathic was an open door for me to try to be Christ-like in this situationship. But leaving has allowed me to give God full control and in that, I am back on track with my purpose and vision God has created for me to manifest on this earth for His glory! I have forgiven him and myself and I recognize what my weakness was allowing God to teach me HIs way in this very thing. I have decided to allow God to search me entirely for His will and use me as a vessel. This journey has my understanding and seeing what God is showing me during these times and the difference between the spiritual and physical. Knowing our authority in Jesus Christ. Being obedient is better than sacrifice. I am enjoying the journey. Those that don't understand will think I am going thru the ringer and feel sorry for me... but those that know can see the hand of God in my life as He has given me a way of escape and has provided brothers and sisters in Christ in obedience to serve with the help I needed...I know it was from the Lord! Praise God. Thank you again. My son and I enjoy your teachings. Blessings, Ann
Wow, it really resonated with me everything you wrote, I agree with everything you said, I liked obedience is better then sacrifice....I recognize it deeply but never saw it perfectly that way, thankyou so much! 😇✝️❤
I had 3 children with a narcissist. 18 years of emotional, physical and verbal abuse. What I didn't realize at the time I ended the marriage, that I would still have to deal with him off and on for the rest of my life, because of life events, and milestones with our children. Thank God for His deliverance from that horrible experience. Because of the Holy Spirit teaching me and healing me, and because of amazing professionals God used in my life, I learned the skills needed to stop from falling into the same trap with my children. Children have the DNA of both parents healthy and unhealthy. I have had to set and reinforce boundaries with my children when they would try to lie, manipulate me, gaslight me and use various other tactics to break me down. Praise God I do have a relationship with my children who are now adults with children of their own. The mercy, and grace of God saved me and taught me how to teach and impart wisdom into my children. Over the years, we have had our moments, and ups and downs, but overall we do have healthier relationships with each other than I ever had with their father and his family. All praise to God for His healing!!! Thank you for making these videos. They are reminding me and reinforcing the truth about narcissistic abuse.
Thank you for this video! I went no contact from my sister just a few weeks now. It’s still a struggle. I keep replaying our relationship in my head over and over. It seems like she was hijacking my life, I was losing myself in her life (which is toxic). I’ve been making videos talking about her mind games for myself to watch as a reminder. Maybe there might be a channel in the making, not sure but, it’s helping me talk it out with myself. I pray that by me withdrawing from her God will deal with her self deception. I think I had to get out of the way.
I really liked the way you conveyed this , I had an absolutely horrible situation with my ex , and. You are right I had such a hole in my stomach when the relationship was over they where the only person that gave me a certain attention that had never gotten and was extremely giving and very adventurous they began to slowly abuse me emotionally and put me down and Had a really bad temper, after that every relationship I had where dissatisfying and very rude , it’s been rough and I finally stopped trying to find that feeling in other people and just let go but it has been really rough because I do think about all of everything we did together and wanting the feeling of the good times , but it was very unhealthy, thank you for reminder...
Thank you so much for these videos. They have been helping me in my healing. As a christian the last several years have been so confusing. Have been told to love to be patient and to pray more. But you put all this so beautifully together. I am thinking of sending you and email to have one on one. Glory to God
Thank you once again...it seems like you are talking specifically about my situation and that snake dream makes so much sense...I needed to hear that it was a lie...
Why is it that he is doing for his new fiancee everything he refused to do for me, including parading her around on Facebook when he kept me hidden, throwing an engagement party and buying her jewelry which he refused to do for me, etc?
@@noble604 yes you are right. In time his true self will come out. Actually he showed his true self early in the relationship and I overlooked and forgave a lot.
My whole life has been a lie..surrounded by them..help me God.
Much grace and peace to you! 🙏🏽
@@ShaneenMegji thank you..I'm in the wilderness and God is healing me..still very painful..I know I have purpose..that's what keeps me going
You are not alone ❤
The Lord will help you and lead you and give you peace. He sees all, knows all. God was never deceived by your narc. He loves you and doesn’t want you to live enslaved to lies and abuse. Reality hurts and it takes time. You will look back and wonder if you’re the crazy one...maybe you’re getting it all wrong. But God. Keep seeking Him and relying on Him - He will take you out of Egypt and lead you somewhere better. Much love and prayer.❤️
Liz - *AMEN*
After 41 years I just couldn't take it another day. It is so confusing hearing my husband preach righteousness, and then use my love for God to control me, punish me, intimidate me and manipulate me. I have walked on egg shells for so long and become so used to thinking, speaking and acting in a manner to try and "please" my husband that I almost forgot how to be me. It's so hard to reconcile the good side with the side that is so verbally and emotionally abusive that I jump at the sound of him speaking my name. God has been very good to me and given me women who give wise, Biblical counsel and show me so much love and support. I am continuing to seek His direction and provision day by day.
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The love of Jesus unto you. Grace to you.
You go girl Isaiah 41:10 don’t be afraid for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.😇🙏👍
You are stronger than you think sweety! God gave His only Begotten Son to free the captives, not to give husbands dominion over us wives. We wives were given the power to bruise the head of the serpent with OUR heel, not our husbands. Also do not forget that our husband’s prayers get hindered if they don’t do right by us and NOT vice versa! Once I remembered that after getting so lost and confused about being married to a man that thinks he’s riding on a stallion with a sword for a tongue. I invited my husband to leave the house and that absolutely terrified him knowing that I don’t have to put up with him. God absolutely loves us. Dont forget who’s daughter you are babe! You are stronger than you think.
My husband 50yrs preached.
6 months free still hard no contact. I pray God will feel the emptiness. So hard to believe he can preach bible but not live what they preach😪
It helped me to remember that God is not the author of confusion, but of peace. 1 Corinthians 14:33
Realise it was a lie BECAUSE IT WAS! Then write a small book about how this person abused you, as soon as you think of one write it down. Then whenever you are tempted to get back in touch, or feel sorry for yourself pick it up and read it, because IT'S TRUE! Keep adding to it, and keep reading it, rinse and repeat until the pangs of brokenness are healed. Keep trying to forgive them eventually you will and then move on. 🙏✝️ Bless you all, for me it was thirty two years and two children. You can do it.
Would you consider not spending time writing, reading, rehearsing and rehashing the pain afflicted but instead keep our eyes firmly fixed on Jesus? HE is our Healer. HE binds the wounds of our broken heart. As we replace the old with Him, we forget the former things. We spend no time on them. They are sent back to where they came from and are under our feet as they are now our footstool. Would you consider looking to Him only? He can wash our hearts, mend, renew and recreate them and we won’t even think of what once consumed us. Praise God! I pray you will.
@@noble604 Obviously it doesn't replace King Jesus, it's not to immerse yourself in and dwell on, it's just a quick fix to remind yourself when you have initial pangs of separation and doubting the truth of the matter and your judgement being clouded into possibly wanting that person back that's all. I appreciate your prayers, may Our Father in Heaven bless you and your family.
I’m saying we can’t be looking at two places at same time. Keep seeking Jesus and the past fades. He alone has the power to do this. He breaks the yoke of bondage that the past holds on us. Every time we think of an occurrence with that one, call on the Name of Jesus. There’s power in that Name. All power. Love you
I see what you saying about journalling but it is wrong in many biblical ways.
1. God does not keep a record of our wrongs yet He is the most aggrieved party.
2. Love does not keep a record of wrongs.
3. In the parable of the unforgiving servant, the master expected the debtor to remember their own unpayable debt not what was owed to him.
4. The narcissist has a similar journal that they keep referring to inorder to continue hurting you. Remember, even your very own existence is an offence to a narcissist.
5. It contradicts what she said about Paul forgetting the past and moving on.
6. Is it possible to journal all narcissists in your life?
Don't worry about journalling, the narcissist never disappoints in constant and persistent drama. If you start recording, you will have a bestseller every other month!
I believe that the best way is not recording events but acknowledging the SINGLE fact that you are entangled with an emotional predator and you are the meal. Life is short and that is why Paul says in 1Corinthians 7:9 'let those who are married act as though they are not!' Even marriage and original family should not preoccupy the mind of a believer into an obsession.
@@JohnJohn-lu7wd Yes John good points 😊🙏✝️🙌🕎🗡️🔥
In a counseling session, our pastor looked at me and said, "You've never known marriage."
I feel so good that I got away from my narcissist
I read these amazing words in Jeremiah to quiet those intermittent wanderings of mind to remind me. Jeremiah 11:18-19-"The Lord informed me, so l knew. Then you helped me to see their deeds, for l was like a docile lamb [like a pet] led to slaughter. I didn't know that they had devised plots against me: 'Let's destroy the tree with it's fruit; let's cut him off from the land of the living [isolation] so that his name will no longer be remembered.'"
Whoa. Thanks for sharing that
@@JesusIsLife298 Father is so good that l read this just before this UA-cam presentation arrived and right in the middle again of convincing myself again that it all really happened. Peace to you Sister!
Then u drop the mic. Thank you for the words 💞
God will prevail over the narcs demons!
I would have lost hope had I not believed that I would see The Goodness of God in The Land of the Living.💞 Psalm 27:13
The victim of the narcissist continues to think the narcissist will have some sort of transformation. When in fact the transformation needs to take place within the victim's heart and mind. It leaves all their emotional well being into the hands of the narcissist so "transition" to a healthy and whole life is put on hold.
I am 45 years old and it has just come to light that I come from a narcissistic family system. I have been in therapy for years and gotten healthier so when everything blew up recently, I recognized what was happening. It was the worst shock of my life. I refuse to be controlled and go back in my box and they are furious with me. I have tried to work things out with them but they have escalated things to an impossible place. It’s like a gigantic confusing puzzle I can’t solve. I was hoping so much that we were just misunderstanding each other but every contact they make with me just confirms it more. It’s been devastating. I suddenly an feel like I’m an orphan but they didn’t die. Jesus is the only reason I’ve been able to face each day. I keep praying that God will be able to reach their hearts and heal them because I’m devastated for them as well, not just for myself and my family.
This was so healing to listen to, thank you. Tears came when I realised I'm in that dessert and part of me longs to go back... I really really needed to hear this. I'm so encouraged that the Lord is using your negative experience with a narcassist to the fullness of his goodness.. to reach out to others suffering.. and boy have I suffered. Your channel is the only way to frame it all for me, being a Christian.. and falling into that hope without discernment trap. I praise God for you Shaneen 🙏 xx
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma and stress from my heart in Jesus name. Pray lord send angels to free me from all witchcraft,free me from all lies of the enemy,free me from mind control,free me from mind blinding,free me from all confusion and free me from all brain fog in Jesus name.
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You nailed it. If you are a recovering from a narcissistic relationship remember you can also be victorious and more than a conqueror when it’s all said and done. Shaneen has many other videos to help guide you through this time.
Thanks Garrett! Bless you! 🙏🏽🕊
I agree. If they’ve mistreated you, the Lord will help you be victorious and more than a conqueror. He doesn’t take kindly to the mistreatment of His children. We don’t seek vengeance or pray for their downfall; on the contrary, we seek peace and pray for mercy even for those who have acted wickedly toward us. Just know He will act on our behalf. They have no idea what they’ve done or who they’re dealing with. You are His prized possession, and He is faithful to you. There can be no other way. Amen .
@@noble604 Agreed, ...nice name.
Clark Hubanks - thank you. (.... If anything be true, _noble_ , pure, lovely, admirable, excellent... ...... think on _these_ things.) We are kings and royal priests through the precious, shed Blood of Christ. We no longer walk and think as this world in their mundane ways. *We are noble* and as nobility, we set our royal, kingly, noble minds on kingly, royal noble things.) I praise God for this newness of mind. It’s ALL new! Blessings to you
@@ShaneenMegji I realize it is therapeutic to write down the wrongs, I have even done this. My queastion is, how long are we to go over these memories in order to move on. I do not get that teaching from God's word. We are to forgive 70×7, that was just an example read Mathew 6:15. This passage is talking about forgiveness and also not holding on to the past, because God sure doesn't. He wipes the slate clean with Jesus's blood. How wod you explain your point?
Thank you. This was an answer to prayer. I feel like I should be better, be over it but I still have effects. The snake is cut off but I’m still recovering and digesting all I swallowed. Makes so much sense. God bless you and your ministry of truth and light.❤️
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma and stress from my heart in Jesus name. Pray lord send angels to free me from all witchcraft,free me from all lies of the enemy,free me from mind control,free me from mind blinding,free me from all confusion and free me from all brain fog in Jesus name.
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Same here. I couldn't get over how it was all a lie, how he was unfaithful through and through and finally seemed repentant and came back to work on things, but then he won't make it true. It's just all been a lie and I can't be a part of it anymore and we were together almost 20 yrs, married for 17.
Finding her was my answered prayer too🙏🏼🙏🏼 God is good!
Me too
Married for 36 years not realizing he was a narcissist. Figured it out by learning of my Moms narcissism and seeing how they both had these same traits. Now that I’ve learned of this, it’s so much easier for me to deal with them because they all follow the same patterns.
Thank you for this video… My ex is a Lead Pastor he divorced me after 10 years of marriage and a few weeks later remarried his ex-wife. The shock of being discarded and enduring a very difficult smear campaign and custody battle was almost overwhelming - but God❤️ Looking forward to watching your videos #NewSubscriber
I love the "but God ❤" Much blessings to you and welcome! 🤗
My heart and prayers go out to you. So glad you are healing healthily. Yes, may more and more revelation of Jesus in these videos bring you healing.
You weren’t created to be disgraced by a person, abused and tossed away and certainly not “in the Name of the Lord.” Continue to be what your name says.
Your God has seen every step of this life of yours. He’s even seen things regarding you that you haven’t. He’s heard every single word and He knows every intention in every heart.
Our God loves you and He is moving on your behalf. Man’s little smear campaign doesn’t compare to the Mighty acts of our God. He will not be mocked.
Hold on. He has not failed you or forsaken you and He never will because He cannot. Continue to seek peace. He is moving just for you. He is with you. You are His. Blessings to you.
Amen!!!
Isaiah 41:10 Don’t be afraid for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged but I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you I will hold you up with my victorious right hand girl keep going forward I was married to a pastor he did the same thing to me
My dad was the pastor of a small church and my mom was the one with a religious spirit /covert narcissist . She determined the “truth” about any given situation either in the church or at home and my dad was her enabler.
I knew something was desperately wrong but could never define it.
I have recently went no contact with her. Something that was not necessarily easy but necessary non the less.
I married someone almost 4 decades ago. The son of a missionary. He had the same issue just a different flavor.
It started with physical abuse then decades of emotional and psychological abuse. I just caught on about 2 years ago to what was going on. I feel like I just crawled out of the Matrix . I’m still in the slightly dazed and confused stage but praise God I now know the truth and The Truth has set me free.
I often see the question asked here if a narcissistic can change. Yes they can. By God’s grace my husband is seeing the truth and changing . The Lord is restoring to us the years the locust have eaten. Praise His Name!
Nutt iffie gutts nabal err be laban spits in em
I have to wonder, if it took you that long to see what was happening to you if you can even begin to see whether your husband has really changed at this stage of your separation. Remember narcs are amazing deceivers. They are masters at it. Sounds like you must’ve been heavily invested in seeing things the way you wished they were for decades rather than the way they really were so I hope that before you reunite with him you get very intensive and thorough counseling With someone who understands narcissistic abuse and trauma bonding.
Hello. Can I connect with you and hear more about your story?
The betrayal of my mother was so painful and mind blowing.
No contact for 19 months.
Praise God!
Wow!! After 34 years of marriage, and working so hard to hold on to this marriage, I finally caught his cheating and it gave me a way out. But to learn it was all a lie is devastating, but I can look back and clearly see it. The hardest thing for me is how to you go no contact when you have children together?
I'm going through the same. I was with him for 12yrs we have kids and he left according to him every thing is my fault and he did everything right....refuses to talk to me or go to marriage counseling....yet texts out the blue to check on the kids and at this point I just want nothing to do with him....ive begged I've cried to him and he just steps all over and seems to have moved on. I want to move on too but how with kids involved
I think it's good to keep boundaries. Only discuss business or the kids, but keep it brief and to the point. You will probably see how he uses it to get back in with you (probably needs supply), but learn their tactics and listen to your feelings. I'm becoming more indifferent and not triggered like before thanks to the healing God's been doing. I look forward to moving on.
I actually started crying at the part where you said "you have God's grace to go no contact" because in this case it's family and it has been eating me up not knowing if God sanctions abandoning family...I think elderly family is the hardest to let go of without that guilt setting in.
God first
You second.
Everything thing else somewhere back there. Your relationship with God is no different than a marriage. God first, you second then Spouse because you cannot minister out of your need rather an abundance. Unhealthy relationship have to be placed in a boundary. Sometimes that boundary is huge!
Well. There's an amazing biblical book I read that answers your question. It is called "The First Will be last: a biblical perspective on narcissism" by DC Robertsson. Blessings
Thank you Shaneen ! I Love how you use the Bible for healing! It’s so beautiful! 🙏
I'm so glad! God bless you Epiphany! 🙏🏽
You are such a gift from the Lord. I have been totally blessed today by your words of truth which confirm my own decision to leave a marriage of 3 decades. However I have had to deal with the judgment of almost every friend, church member, former pastor, and even my own children who completely disagree that I have any right to leave this abuse as a Christian, and they have considered me to be apostate, meanwhile not showing me a bit of love or concern. Your words were a healing balm to me today and I am so glad I found your channel. And yes ministering angels have been caring for me no doubt as I have been almost bedridden with grief and depression until the Lord showed me the path to healing and moving into my true destiny.
I’m so sorry for what you are going through now 😢, but so happy that you got the courage to leave, and that you’ve landed in the healing, loving arms of God. Praying for much peace, comfort, and loving guidance from God.❤️🤗🙏🏽
I’m scared to even listen to this video because I know it’s so true of my nearly ten year relationship. Here goes nothing. 🙏
I was with my husband for 12yrs and he has left for a little over a month and everything is my fault and according to him he has been perfect and not sorry for anything. He refuses to try to go to marriage therapy.....now I'm here taking care of my kids alone and no explanation and it's like he moved on easily and quickly
How refreshing your examples are. I have been listening to many sources on narcissists because I was married to a covert religious narcissist who hid behind her belief. Everything was my fault and I was always the issue yet she gaslighted me and I could never have a constructive "discussion" on issues in our marriage..... always the "discussion" turned into word salad and psychobabble that just went in circles. She never took responsibility for any issue and her actions definitely did not match what she was saying. Three years have passed and by the Grace of God I feel I am coming out of a fog. I am ready and looking forward to my next phase in this life..... THANK YOU.
I'm SO glad to hear that. May the days that are ahead of you be much brighter than the days that are behind you. God bless you. 🙏🏽🕊
Good for you! I’m going one year no contact with 2st Narc. and one year 4 months no cont t with the 2nd Narc. Feeling myself again with mental fog clearing up. myself again
Your understanding of this horrible soul eating type of relationship has helped me greatly I do not know where I would be in this journey with out your guidance. No one understood what i was going through until i found your videos thank you so much. You are a blessing in my life.
I also had a vivid dream. The narcissist & I were at a venue of some sort. People there were speaking in a "code" that I didn't understand when it suddenly came to me that I didn't belong there. So I began walking & left the narcissist behind. I walked & walked & walked, putting more & more distance between us. The thing I remember most about that dream is walking, continually walking. And when I think back, it's an encouragement to me to keep going, to keep walking. 🚶♀️
My eyes were just opened about 2 months ago. This is just to much to process
Never go back.
Keep moving forward ✨️
Oh thank you for this video, Shaneen! 18 months after breaking free from the ex narc, this video has turned up as a much needed message of encouragement. I didn't even realise that I needed to hear it. I am indeed very grateful.
Thank you for sharing it and may the LORD bless and keep you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
The breaking soul tie prayer is good. It takes a while sometimes so sometimes must be prayed often. God bless. ❤🙏
Yes that's true. May God break those soul ties once and for all and bring complete freedom in Jesus' name. God bless you Isabella. 🙏🏽💕
@@ShaneenMegji Thank you and may God richly bless you. ❤🙏
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma and stress from my heart in Jesus name. Pray lord send angels to free me from all witchcraft,free me from all lies of the enemy,free me from mind control,free me from mind blinding,free me from all confusion and free me from all brain fog in Jesus name.
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The soul tie and Covent need to be broken since sex is a covenant.
Perfect description of my ex wife. Wisdom and discernment goes hand in hand when dealing with narcs. I'm so happy now. We as empaths don't need them, but they needed us to be honest. Funny thing is, I, too had a dream about her last summer. The way God showed me her true self was eye opening for me. She was 3 different witches in my dream that kept shape shifting actively in my dream. Thanks for mentioning Jezebel by the way😉
EXCELLENT. WATCH MORE THAN ONCE, UNTIL IT CLICKS.
1 The longing for those "special experiences" (distorted thinking).
2 Longing re-introduces the shock ("it was all a ie" / crazy loop of replaying/false perception of how it really was).
3 Be patient with yourself. (detox from ANY interaction with the N; instead, partner with yourself and God.
4 Accept the adventure God has for you.
5 Go NO CONTACT with that N.
6 Pursue God's talent for your life.
It has been 2 years now and I was drawn to watch this video again. Brought tears to be honest. After a 43 year friendship, suddenly gone . It is so so difficult ... (all boxes ticked a year and a half ago 😞 Only Rauch Hakodesh keeps me going)
This video is especially timely for me. I am struggling and I’m not sure why. I was doing better until recently. I can’t figure out if it’s because of the holidays, job searching, recent contact with the narc, being sick with the flu/Covid or just everything. What I heard in the video? Be patient and give it time. Thank you. 💓
Hugs to you!
Teaching to help
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Your videos have helped me greatly , going through the worst time of my life dealing with a highly manipulative narcissistic. Completely crushed me and my sense of worth. But I’m determined to get through it ❤
Jesus, you're always welcome in my life. Actually, I can't live without you. Amen
Amen 🙏🏽💯
And the shocking thing is to realize that when you already lived your life. Great video, it gives hope
I'm so glad. God bless you Jil! 🙏🏽
Thank you 🙏 mam. By watching to your video iam realising now that God have saved me from my toxic relationship. Iam praying to God to please forgive me for my failed relationship, and to please heal me from my broken 💔 heart. Amen🙏
Thank you!!💗💗💗 this is the EXACT thing I was discussing with a friend about the narcissist today! Just what I needed to hear. What happened to Elijah and what had to happen in order for him to heal makes sense! Sticking closely to my Jesus!!!👑
Going through this right now. Horrendous beyond belief. Thank you, Shaneen❤ God has blessed me incredibly with strength, conviction, grace. Struggling with patience. God's goodness will prevail over evil...Bless you. Your videos are amazing!
I’m 65. I have 5 sisters. 3 brothers. (1 living & 2 deceased of the boys) I’ve only become aware of narcissism in our family. They come after me with a vengeance, continuously and I’ve never understood why.
Educating myself in this arena connects the dots of my entire life.
Do I really disengage from my entire birth family? They are truly so steeped in it that it’s like a teabag in a hot cup of water.
I can only guess that all the years I was locked away from everyone in the basement was a blessing in disguise.
This is a fantastic video….I’m going thru this shock stage and it just feels so surreal and painful
I'm so sorry, Sunny. I pray God would fill you with His unending peace, joy and comfort in Jesus' name. 🙏🏽🕊
Yes it hurts so much knowing that every emotion and experience i had wasn’t real
I've been in shock for years. Lol
❤
It will get better, I left my marriage 2 years ago. Some days are bad and I accept them, some days are good and I celebrate them. You will be fine, allow yourself to feel every emotion and if you are a believer find a scripture that will allow God to counter that negative emotion with a positive word. All the best...
You are so on point. Every word you said is just like you are looking directly at me. I am narc free no contact and praying everyday to get back into relationship with Father God Jehovah. 3.5yrs of hell with that man who was sent by Satan to destroy me. But I kept crying out to my Father and he rescued me. Thank you Lord. Taking my time to heal and it is not easy but I refuse to go back
I was with a malignant narc so some of the things I endured at his hand I would not wish on him! So I am holding on to Horns of the Alter and not going to let go until my Father bless me with True Deliverance. Thank you so much for yielding to God's Voice and bringing these videos. GOD BLESS YOU 🙏 !
It is so appalling and traumatic to realise that you (thought you) loved someone who was instead just taking you for a ride; mocking you to their friends; using you. And I’ll that is just a summary of the myriad abuses you experience with a narcissist. It can take years for you to truly recognise that the narcissist was never worthy of you. The biggest con the narcissistic plays is to make you feel unworthy of them when it’s totally the other way round.
This is the most perfect explanation of the breakup w a narc. I’m healed now. No contact was vital to healing
Thank you for this video, now I know not to be mad at myself,
Let Daddy God wrap his loving arms of love all around me!
God Bless You and have a Peaceful Day Today 😎💜🙋♀️
The narcs' words run through my mind and I hate it. I'll be going about my business then I hear their voice.
I'm learning and growing, thank you for your videos.
I have three children with a narcissist I don't know that I can forget the past. I've been burdened with a business and a home to support myself and my family. His name is all over everything I've thought about leaving it all and walking away but I can't do that to the kids. If it was just me I would have gone a long time ago.
I have an added sadness because God brought me and the individual together in a unique way as he was hurting from a devastating break up and was searching for God. He told me that I and two other strangers had appeared in his life the exact week and began telling him about Jesus. After several months and several conversations he told me that he had accepted Christ as his Savior. He was attending a nearby church and we daily exchanged things about God and the Bible. I felt that we had a deep friendship connection that was very special. Once his divorce was final and he got everything he wanted, I was no longer needed and apparently that was also true of the other two men. I have tried a few times to reconnect with him, but the last time was a disaster. He explicitly told me what he thought of me and the friendship permanently ended. I question everything now. I question if God was in the situation at all or if I was being used and manipulated to be "on his side" during the court proceedings. I feel now as though there was never any friendship and it was all a sham. My heart is broken.
No good time to remember, just being used.
You just described my 10 yr. Marriage to narcissist. He said to me after 10 yrs of emotional abuse w/other women etc. he said I don’t love you, I’ve never loved you.
I remember praying fervently that my ex-wife would be released from the possession of her BPD and all the antics she’d pull. But as time went along, the Holy Spirit was guiding me into the understanding that a person must WILL to change or it won’t happen. Also the Spirit showed me that, what I considered her demons, she actually was proud of and even her family praised her for. So I realized it was a lost cause. A person won’t stop their toxic behavior if they, themselves, believe that very behavior is positive and beneficial.
LOVE this channel, thank you so much! Been listening to Dr. Ramani, Dr. Les Carter, and HG Tudor but having a biblical perspective is so much more powerful. Thank you thank you! 💕💗💞
God Bless Shannen for her spiritual words of wisdom!
I was with the narcissist for 3 years. But I woke up to it, the problem that I'm having is all the bad things he did to me he would always pray and God would reward him and he never learned a lesson not that he was going to learn it anyway but I just don't understand why God let him get away with so much and and then would reward him 😞
Celebrating my loss of the narcissist in my life. Good riddance of a bad rubbish person.
Will someone please pray for me ? i broke free after learning she was a covert narcissist- but then she pulled me back in 😢very sad right now 2:30
Wow Shaneen.
You have just the right words and biblical encouragement every time.
Yet I am still so afraid to just up and leave. I know what to do. I just need the courage to get up and leave everything behind.
It's so sad considering this is my second failed marriage to a narcissist. And I just discovered that's what they both were, just a few months ago. 💔
How do I even explain this to anyone. I will have to leave my church. Cos they believe in counseling. They have clearly never been exposed to narcissists.
I feel alone and so vulnerable and afraid.
And I hope that God will show His love for me during this impossible dark transition time.
Because I honestly have never felt God's presence during my 11 year marriage.
Crying out to God constantly, asking Him to show me what I'm dealing with and how to deal with it
It's like the story of Job
The Bible says he lost everything.
But God blessed him abundantly after
The losing everything must have hurt like hell
But there's no more mention of that
Just his abundance after .
Aa a christian, I am ashamed and don't know how to come up for air after the dust has settled
I am frozen with anxiety and hopelessness
How can I call myself a Christian with these emotions I am feeling...
There is no fruit of the spirirt in what I am enduring right now
I feel so ready to die of a broken heart. I have no desire to see the testimony Come from this test.
Infact, I cannot imagine anything positive coming from this horrid test.
I feel like Elijah did, with jezebel hunting him
Empty, redundant, hopeless.
Where is this spirit of power, of love and of sound mind, the Bible speaks of?
I have zero peace. Only fear and anxiety
Where do I go, and how do i just leave....?
You are a Godsend! I’m grateful to have found this channel! You’re an anointed and awesome teacher. A load has lifted and l’m so encouraged to keep fighting and keeping the faith! Bless you, bless you, bless you!!
Thank you sister in Christ for this video as I have recently got divorce from toxic relationship and going through a lot of thinking about this whole marriage thing. It was a big fat lie from the beginning but I couldn’t see anything signs. Now as I connect the dots I see quite clearly how I was treated . I appreciate how you are helping people like me . God’s grace is enough and I’m on my way to recovery one day at a time. May God bless you and give wisdom to help others .
I journaled all the lies,empty promises,abuse etc... To read and remember why I will not go back or be hoovered again. It works!!
I can so relate to the snake dream. I dream a lot and many times there are snakes. Perfect analogy. My healing only started when I cut the narcissist off (no contact). We still have to go through a difficult process, but it’s the only way to eventually get to a place of healing.
Yes indeed. God bless you Catherine! 🙏🏽💕
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma and stress from my heart in Jesus name. Pray lord send angels to free me from all witchcraft,free me from all lies of the enemy,free me from mind control,free me from mind blinding,free me from all confusion and free me from all brain fog in Jesus name. If you have any snake dream just pray I bind all demons that entered any of my dreams and cast them to the pit in Jesus name.
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Thank you. God bless you!
I am so thankful for this message. I felt God's presence in this message, and this is the best video I have heard! You are so annotated!
I'm just watching all your videos Beloved 💝
This is the best description of why I feel so empty and sad now that I a alone. This helps to know that I will be ok. That I will heal and find what fulfills me on my own. With God.
Thank you!!
Third Eye Spell is still on me from a Narcissist Couple who constantly follow me for Financial gains. It's almost impossible to get them out of my life even more powerful then God' Mercy.
Thank you for sharing the dream of the snake. It was so profound and I'm grateful 🙏 that I didn't have it. I got the lesson.
As a Christian you are so hitting all the right words and you are an awesome lady yourself thank you so much for your help
Since I went no contact, to the best of my ability, because we are part of the same ministry, I have had a bit of angst that it was all a lie but through praying for healing I have been so at peace lately. I feel the presence of God in my life again and would rather feel lovely than go back. I know I am not alone because there are ministering spirits dispatched to me since I have been delivered from bondage. I got real lonely today and prayed and I immediately felt like I was being told to take a walk. I saw bunnies playing, a robin red breast escape the swoop of a hawk, ducks swimming in a creek, smelled lilacs which is my favorite scent of spring, and met a neighbor on my walk with the cutest dog. I now feel wrapped in love and no longer feel lonely. Just pray and He will send the comforter to you, but NEVER GO BACK TO THE BONDAGE GOD HAS DELIVERED YOU FROM!
Thank you that you started this channel!!! This will be always of great value to many many!! May He protect your heart and mind and give you strength to continue with the good things!!!
I’ve recently decided to go “no contact” even though we have a son. He doesn’t acknowledge him at all. Never gave any kind of support and has never seen him in his almost 2 years of existence. He’s emotionless. Yet he has the guts to continuously mess with me by going back only when he feels like it. I pray that this time I can really block this person and move on with my life. I have a permanent reminder of the narc in the form of our son but he’s the opposite of his father and truly a blessing from God.
This is the first time I'm commenting on your videos, although I have been watching manyyyy of them. I'm not with the narc anymore but he's still around and we still have to interact with each other, unfortunately. It has been almost 11 years since I met him and went through the abuse and made up my mind back in 2016 that this is what I was dealing with and my only chance is to let everything go emotionally. It was God who revealed to me a video on NPD by Sam Vaknin in 2016 and at that time no one was speaking about it but I thanked God and began my healing. Healing is a longggggg process so be patient. Things trigger you, if they are still around they will trigger and provoke and that's why it is best to remove them from your life entirely.
What I really must say is that GOD speaks to us in dreams and you mentioning this dream made my heart beat so fast. God also knows the heart of man while we see the outward appearance. I truly believe now that the only way to be protected against this demoinc entities oppressing these people as NPD is to be hidden in Christ. When I became intimate with the one that found me, I too had really ill dreams. I kept dreaming of being in their home and it's really cold and dark and just a yuck feeling. I will always try to turn the lights on but no light would come on, not one. I will hit the switch so many times and it would just not come on. When I woke up, that sinking, heavy, nasty feeling would be present for the entire day. That dream repeated itself so so so many times and it was a warning from God as he says in the scripture that he warns us in dreams and visions of the night. I needed to pay attention because that dream meant nothing good at all and so did my life reflect. I had a female friend who is also a narc and she would tell me her dreams and they're alwaysssss demonic and filthy. Even when I distanced myself from her, I dreamt of her being in an extremely filthy sexual act, almost as if she had no control over herself and I was trying to help her, while these two entities kept her in bondage. The narc I dated also used and discarded someone I just met as well and left her really confused and I had to share with her what he was doing at the present moment, grooming little girls, having sex with another woman who he always has sex with and currently love-bombing a new supply. (We live near each other, until I can make a clean move, so I'm privy to it all). This girl also had a dream of him being in a coffin, which made me a bit sad as I know dreams reveal many many things. Being intimate with the narc also caused many filthy dreams and spirit spouses to attack.
All this to say, my dear brothers and sisters in Christ, you must present any person claiming to be interested in you to Christ. My blind spot is that I tend to believe people's words so God has started to warn me in my dreams about these people. I hadn't the knowledge back in 2011 when I met the narc but I can tell you now, whenever I am speaking to anyone new, if they are no good, God alwaysssss reveals it to me in dreams. Also refrain from sexual intercourse before marriage. God made it a covenant for our protection. These people spread sexually transmitted demons that are stubborn and refuse to leave you, even after the narc has discarded you or you them. God rewards obedience and that's how he protects us from being abused by the narcs. The moment they get intimate with you, it's a fast track to a hellish experience. I speak from experience, healing, compassion and love.
Great example, your dream. I did have very helpful dreams throughout my life, too. Thank to God.
I am so happy I was in tuned with my gut. I can spot these folks as I am a trained Physician. They love bom and gas lighting is such a red flag. As soon as you set boundaries the mask comes off. There is always a hidden agenda. I am a super empath. No contact is the best therapy. Most of all constant praying for discernment is key to dealing with these demonic people. deceptive indeed.
It's especially hard when the Narcissist is your own mother, who love bombed you as a baby and young child, and then began the discard as you approached your teens. She left my kid sister and I after my father's death when I was 15 and my sister 13. She never loved anyone but herSELF, and I remained trauma-bonded to her for years, constantly wondering what had happened and how I could get my old mom back. Now of course I realize my entire relationship with her was a lie. It was never real, but how could a child understand that???
I do keep and read all my journaling and just to remind me of why I left. How could I ever forget being bullied online by his fan club of mostly women and couple of men who posted on my page, "I have never seen such jealously" words I heard constantly from the narcissist. And the constant devaluing of my character.
So beautifully you have explained this problem in connection with Bible standards...thank you so much..you are Blessed
Wooow!!!! I needed this sooo much. Talking me down here. Want to go back sooo much. I was 15 when we met, and I’m 50 now. Still love him - I don’t know if I will ever b ok. Coparenting and we talk a lot and now kinda friends. He has totally moved on ok… I have a run down rental and no friends- family doesn’t talk to me. NO one talks to me anymore- except him. My 10 year old does- so ok. Just an lost now. Want to go back but he doesn’t want me anymore- I think.
A narcissist can cry & stop suddenly. Smile almost simultaneously. They're master pretenders. Never fall for their evil scheme. Don't figure them out. Run
Amen, I have been married to a covert for almost 5 years. The one positive from this relationship is that it has brought me closer to Jesus. I was confused at first because I could not figure out his behavior, going from being the most important person in the world to him to absolutely no relationship, feeling utterly alone. Love bombing is so confusing when it ends abruptly and then you get blamed because your attitude. So much betrayal and lies, but now I limit my interactions with him. He almost seems fine with it and I am working at keeping calm and not reacting when he tries to push my buttons. I would like to leave at some point, but I am not currently in a position to do so. Thank you for your videos. I have learned so much.
it's so hard for me to accept the person I chose to love became something I don't know anymore .. opening our eyes can be really painful ... I am feeling that pain I just want to vanish
Shaneen I've just discovered your videos; I think the Lord caused them to pop up on my UA-cam feed and I'm so thankful. I'm finding them to be the most helpful in understanding the spiritual and biblical perspective on narcissism. All your videos are great, and you articulate so accurately the various dynamics that take place in a relationship with a narcissist; the lovebombing, gaslighting, devaluing, discard, the way they abuse their victims. I'm a missionary and this year is my 10th year serving on the field. Over those 10 years I've served under more senior leaders (Pastors, former Mission Organisation Ex Director, current Missional Community senior leaders) who were narcissists (all covert) than those who were not. I kid you not. I know God has a purpose in it all. I've spent the last year really studying narcissism via various psychologists, counsellors and pastors on UA-cam because at one point i thought i was really losing my mind, and so I can understand the way they operate and protect myself in current relationships. And I know God is my Deliverer in my present circumstances. Thank you for all your teaching and expertise on this very important subject. Your teaching is a life and sanity saving gift to us. 😊
Yes yes only God can remove a maniac narcissist from our lives...Excellent pods....
Thank you! Thank you! THANK YOU!!!
Shaneen again spot on and just in time. I had a painful experience with the narcissist in my life over the festive season. These short but powerful videos are like a safety harness, again just reminding me of the truth of what is going on. Thank You Jesus for Your Truth and Your Comfort. God bless you Shaneen ❤️
God bless you. Very helpful words!
IVE MOVED ON BUT NOW SHE USES MY CHILDREN AS WEAP🤡NS
You have confirmed everything God has been telling me. thank you for making your videos and with Jesus setting the captives free. Every end of a video of yours is a video ended too soon. 😄
Aw...thanks! God bless you Joseph. 🙏🏽😊
I can’t even tell you how many times I said “actions speak louder than words “.
Thank you for sharing in a way that I understand. Being a Christian and empathic was an open door for me to try to be Christ-like in this situationship. But leaving has allowed me to give God full control and in that, I am back on track with my purpose and vision God has created for me to manifest on this earth for His glory! I have forgiven him and myself and I recognize what my weakness was allowing God to teach me HIs way in this very thing. I have decided to allow God to search me entirely for His will and use me as a vessel. This journey has my understanding and seeing what God is showing me during these times and the difference between the spiritual and physical. Knowing our authority in Jesus Christ. Being obedient is better than sacrifice. I am enjoying the journey. Those that don't understand will think I am going thru the ringer and feel sorry for me... but those that know can see the hand of God in my life as He has given me a way of escape and has provided brothers and sisters in Christ in obedience to serve with the help I needed...I know it was from the Lord! Praise God. Thank you again. My son and I enjoy your teachings. Blessings, Ann
Wow, it really resonated with me everything you wrote, I agree with everything you said, I liked obedience is better then sacrifice....I recognize it deeply but never saw it perfectly that way, thankyou so much! 😇✝️❤
@@annieb8521 Let us thank God together. Amen
@@Anndrayton Amen
I had 3 children with a narcissist. 18 years of emotional, physical and verbal abuse. What I didn't realize at the time I ended the marriage, that I would still have to deal with him off and on for the rest of my life, because of life events, and milestones with our children. Thank God for His deliverance from that horrible experience. Because of the Holy Spirit teaching me and healing me, and because of amazing professionals God used in my life, I learned the skills needed to stop from falling into the same trap with my children. Children have the DNA of both parents healthy and unhealthy. I have had to set and reinforce boundaries with my children when they would try to lie, manipulate me, gaslight me and use various other tactics to break me down.
Praise God I do have a relationship with my children who are now adults with children of their own. The mercy, and grace of God saved me and taught me how to teach and impart wisdom into my children. Over the years, we have had our moments, and ups and downs, but overall we do have healthier relationships with each other than I ever had with their father and his family. All praise to God for His healing!!! Thank you for making these videos. They are reminding me and reinforcing the truth about narcissistic abuse.
Thank You 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you for this video! I went no contact from my sister just a few weeks now. It’s still a struggle. I keep replaying our relationship in my head over and over. It seems like she was hijacking my life, I was losing myself in her life (which is toxic). I’ve been making videos talking about her mind games for myself to watch as a reminder. Maybe there might be a channel in the making, not sure but, it’s helping me talk it out with myself. I pray that by me withdrawing from her God will deal with her self deception. I think I had to get out of the way.
It's been more than a year... I can't still get over this..
These videos have helped my daughter and me start to understand and heal. We're so grateful for them.
I really liked the way you conveyed this , I had an absolutely horrible situation with my ex , and. You are right I had such a hole in my stomach when the relationship was over they where the only person that gave me a certain attention that had never gotten and was extremely giving and very adventurous they began to slowly abuse me emotionally and put me down and Had a really bad temper, after that every relationship I had where dissatisfying and very rude , it’s been rough and I finally stopped trying to find that feeling in other people and just let go but it has been really rough because I do think about all of everything we did together and wanting the feeling of the good times , but it was very unhealthy, thank you for reminder...
Thank you so much for these videos. They have been helping me in my healing. As a christian the last several years have been so confusing. Have been told to love to be patient and to pray more. But you put all this so beautifully together. I am thinking of sending you and email to have one on one. Glory to God
Thank you for your good works born of love. Your channel is unique and is touching lives worldwide. God bless you!
Thank you once again...it seems like you are talking specifically about my situation and that snake dream makes so much sense...I needed to hear that it was a lie...
Thank You Shaneen.
Why is it that he is doing for his new fiancee everything he refused to do for me, including parading her around on Facebook when he kept me hidden, throwing an engagement party and buying her jewelry which he refused to do for me, etc?
Isn’t he the same person, though? She just gets to wear shiny jewelry and be all over Facebook with him. That hardly seems like a great reward🤷♂️.
(I do understand what you’re saying... please just know he’s the same person.) blessings
@@noble604 yes you are right. In time his true self will come out. Actually he showed his true self early in the relationship and I overlooked and forgave a lot.
totally understand
Actions AND inactions very important.