If he used it the right way it could even be a sure fire "in" for him. Well it worked for me anyway but being on the better looking side probably helped a little.
@@DeathBYDesign666 To be honest what else does he have? No job that I can discern no interesting hobbies not even the ability to talk to a normal person male or female. Being a virgin is literally his only trait everything else is nonexistent.
Using anything as your whole personality generally makes u an unattractive person unless the other person happens to fill what ever tight niche u also occupy , limiting urself is bad there are too many people and life is too short
Skippy is that type of guy you try to give a chance because he seems like a nice guy and immediately regret it when you get to know him and he turns out to just be really conceited and self centered. I've given many "skippy" types a chance because I wasnt always conventionally attractive and was bullied for my looks and often overlooked because of them and like 8/10 guys like him are a thousand times more judgmental and demanding than conventionally attractive men and sometimes downright mean and hateful.
Yep, same here. It seems like some of them also project their looks onto the rejection and just grow more resentful of women (especially if they’re attractive) because of it-assuming they’re really getting rejected because of their looks.
Skippy: Im not good with the ladies : c Also Skippy: (stalks women, harasses them, sexually harassed/assaulted at least one woman, treats dates like children, interrupts them, forces them to kiss him after they've said no, thinks he needs to be praised for being a 'nice guy', verbally abuses women when they reject him, tries to get pity affection, films his dates even if they said no at first, shows up to their houses unannounced late at night, apparently the rooftop hes on overlooks a girl's college/dorm so hes probably spying on them) ALSO Skippy: Here's some dating advice!
Bartenders don’t usually give advice. I was a bartender for 8 years, and I would just sit there and listen to people. A lot of times people just need a friendly face to hear their story. I listen to them rant about their significant other, their job, and even their kids. I didn’t wanna give the wrong advice and upset anyone, so I usually just said “I’m sorry that happened to you“, and I would just be there with them in that space.
That’s the best way to be... with friends, family and strangers. As Confucius once said; “Opinions are like A-holes; everybody has one and quite a few of them stink!”
I had a deaf guy with his friend check me out at the bar. I could tell he was deaf because they would communicate in sign language then look over at me. Wish to this day I would have approached them and said, "hi!" because I was there avoiding a jerk boyfriend at home. I am not picky just want someone peaceful with no drama.
He’s too much. Being a virgin isn’t a big deal, he leads with that so much . He’s comes off so creepy and expects something from women because he is a “nice guy”. He expects to have a reality show for some reason and doesn’t want to work for anything. It’s not that big of deal to be a virgin, he makes it something and weird and it isn’t, it’s his actions. He wants to give advice, but doesn’t take anything. It’s all about physical he doesn’t talk about a women on a emotional level.
I feel a little bit of the Mormon seeping out. They love those gender roles. The woman serves the man, but he's also overcompensating. Probably trying to go for "I'm not like other guys" but still expecting that SAH wife.
@@killerwolfpack the woman serves the man and the man provides for the woman and the children, in essence both are serving their own family and in extension themselves, traditional values are not bad, Skippy is just one of them people who will never connect with another, it's sad but such is life.
being a virgin is'nt big deal? male virgins are always, incels, mysoginists, bronys, niceguys, simps, neckbeards, otakus you would'nt want more of those
"Being a virgin doesn't make you a social outcast, being weird about it does." EXACTLY! Good for you if you want to remain celibate. If you're a virgin and want to get laid, just be nice to women and DON'T BE CREEPY!!! I think girls don't like him because he makes being a virgin his entire personality.
i was like skippy long ago. After few rejections, i went straight to pros workers. I wasted all my savings money in few years. And then I understood how everything works.
A lot of Skippy’s statements are all “l” and “me” statements. He doesn’t seem to view any potential relationship beyond his wants and needs. He ponders why he is a virgin and that is sad because it’s painfully clear to all of us.
At this point I just wonder what his goals are. He has made money out of being a Virgin, and losing his virginity would mean losing his career now. I wonder of he is self sabotaging at this point.
@@DJKnight4 OMG you mean this guy is a statistic! Well I shouldn't freak out too much. It is not like I will reincarnate and have one of these clowns as my dad.
If Skippy didn't make his virginity his key personality trait and how he opens a conversation with women then he'd probably have been laid by now fr. Taking a guys v is a big deal to a lot of women and will freak anyone with casual interest away SUPER quick. He's best off marrying within the Mormon faith as the women are usually also virgins until marriage, it wouldn't be seen as such a huge deal to a lot of lds women (speaking as an ex convert).
Definitely and seeing how he acts he is probably the type of person to become very obsessed with the girl who took his V card because she was his first.
If a guy says i”m a nice guy” that’s a huge red flag and Id cut ties and stop seeing them immediately. They can be cruel and terribly mean if you dare say “no” to them.. r/niceguys is a good example of why I’d immediately nope out.
I’m glad you guys aren’t rushing into something just because of peer pressure. Younger and younger, people (I.e. kids) are being sexualized and wanting to grow up. I’m glad that you weren’t pulled into that when you were younger.
The sad thing is that internet if filled with people like him who don't take care of themselves, have no prospect, no job, no will to work on themselves they are just looking for cheap ways to make themselves interesting. What a sad existence.
What I find disturbing about the age thing is that he wants to date young women like in their 20s, he doesn’t find women his age attractive. See here is the thing with Normally mentally developed adult men: The older you get the wider your attraction gets. You grew into an age and have that connection with women your own age. Come on Skippy, grow up.
It woudn’t shock me to see Skippy show up on “To Catch a Predator” (if it were still running). He gives off the strange, creepy-ish vibes you get from the pedos on that show.
I was thinking that perhaps it's because he missed out on girls in his teenage years and twenties that he now looks for what he missed. Not morally right or anything but might be an explanation
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I always say a personality can make people attractive or ugly. You could go on a date with a model and find out they are rude and mean then you'll start looking at them differently. Personality is everything.
I’m a 27 year old virgin. There’s a whole backstory as to why, but skippy is pathetic and makes the rest of us older virgins, who aren’t weird about it, look bad. I appreciate what Ken and Buff said and some of the comments here. I can’t stand people who make their whole identity around something so silly. That clip of him on the game show made me cringe. I don’t know what goes on in his head, but from these videos a clips, it’s definitely nothing but nonsense
I relate to the rant they went on about preferences because my husband of 3 years was originally someone I never would’ve thought I’d date, wasn’t my type in any way, but our personality’s just clicked, and I eventually fell in love. If I had stuck to my specific types I would’ve never gotten together with this wonderful man!
I was a virgin way longer than my peers, and didn’t go on my first date until I was 24. And guess what? Nobody knew! Because it wasn’t my whole personality. And when I did tell people after my first relationship, (we broke up because I wouldn’t “put out”) they said they would have never guessed
There is nothing wrong with wanting date someone who is in shape, because it suggests a healthy lifestyle. You should be looking for someone who holds similar values, and that you feel happy being around.
Thank you. It's not being shallow if you don't want to date someone who's chubby or something. Because honestly why would you want to date someone who's unhealthy? Because being fat is unhealthy and people don't want to hear that, nor admit it. Human existence has always proven a fit body is always preferred. Why do men workout so much if women don't like muscular men? As for women, they've been wearing corsets and trying other things to alter their figures to make them more appealing. Once again why would they do that if men down unhealthy looking women attractive. Because neither gender does. We want fit bodies, not fat bodies.
@@spades77 Oh shut it and stop judging people. Also I would personally never date a muscular man because they are more obsessed with their appearance than I am. But to each their own.
@@EdgarRazorlip Truth! But if they're going to live their lives being judgemental and focusing on looks, then truly good luck to them in finding someone who wants to spend time with them! They sound awful to be around.
Having a list of things you need in a partner can really affecting your dating life negatively I agree! If I had stuck to my list I'd never have met my husband
"Impure thoughts lead to impure actions." No, thats a lack of self control. I've Thought about a lot of bad stuff, I'm sure everyone has. But a Lot of people Dont do them because we have control over ourselves. I for one love my family too much to do anything horrid. Cutting your brain off from Thinking and saying that cures bad actions is a bad teaching.
Exactly !!!!! People act like they're not in control of their own bodies... you're not in control of your thoughts but it's ultimately up to that person to decide what's right and wrong
im severely mentally ill and i struggle with intrusive thoughts, these are exactly what they sound like. thoughts that intrude, things we keep thinking of but don't actually want to do, and having them so much can kind of convince you that you want to or have to. i have istrusive thoughts about murder, violence, incest, sexual assault, cannibalism. i have never acted on these impulses, even if I felt like I wanted to, like a compulsion. it is all about your self control.
That's the typical very religious people's way of thinking, they think that without God and strict rules humans just turn into animals and start murder each other - bc they don't believe people in general have some self control and some universal morals no matter which culture and religion they come from. And what's even funnier, people from such strict conservative families tend to rebel much more bc they feel trapped like in a cage.
Yeah, when i was younger, i thought this guy was average until we started talking and he was funny and nice, so he got more physically attractive to me. I've also seen people get uglier in my eyes because i got to know the real them.
Yeah. There was this black girl that I went to school with and at first I wasn't attracted to her because I'm not usually attracted to black girls. Not really my preference. She was really pretty though. Just wasn't my preference. As I got to know her though I started finding myself being attracted to her and I eventually asked her out and she said yes.
The analogy my mom used dealing with others was that some people are like beautifully wrapped packages with nothing inside, totally empty. Others are wrapped in plain brown butcher-paper but are full of diamonds, rubies and other treasures. What you tell little kids is important, it stays with them and helps form their moral compass in life.
I couldn’t stop thinking about how ill-fitting Skippy’s glasses are for at least half of the video but also how creepy it was when he was talking about how you have to be somewhat picky. I don’t know why he worded it like that to just say I have preferences and it’s ok to have preferences for what you want in a partner. He complained so much about how little meaning and purpose his life has, while bragging about how many celebrities he’s met, I totally forgot this was a requested video to give dating advice to someone.
Buff, your anecdote about your friends that used to be like Skippy… congrats to them for growing! I’ve made my mistakes in the past with dating as well, including my whole outlook on it, but I’m glad I learned from all that and grew to be a better guy. Your friends seem to have gone through a similar journey. Hope all is well, and happy thanksgiving ❤
11:34 As an overweight woman, I totally agree with this! I am never offended by someone who wouldn't date me because I'm overweight. I totally understand! The only time I get offended is if that person is a dick about it. There's a way to talk to people you know? Even when I was on dating apps in the past, I had some people say "Sorry. I'm not attracted to your body type" or "I'm not interested but thanks anyway". And I actually appreciate that. They let me know in a respectful way. I don't agree with people who lash out at those that don't want to date them because of their weight. We all have our preferred types and THATS OK!
@@BDESal Aw thank you! It's so nice getting an uplifting comment! That's unheard of on UA-cam! 🦄You are a unicorn! Lol Thank you very much, new friend. 🙂 You are a beautiful person 💜
“Women: most weight, smell nice, be attractive, and don’t have any insecurities” Also skippy: “im overweight, I have no job, I’m insecure, and I’m unattractive. But I deserve the best because I don’t have an std.”
I sliced open my hand in an accident a few days ago, I just turned 18 and I have 16 stitches in my hand. I’m currently awaiting surgery because I cut an artery in my pinky. Big thank you to Ken and Buff for always making me laugh each day ❤
I think, he would struggle with an arranged marriage or dating outside of the US too. The woman's family has to like him enough to want to hand their daughter off to him... being a virgin is a plus, but his personality is awful. I don't think he could hide it long enough for the family to be tricked. He needs to lower his standards a bit. He'll be just fine in the US if he works on himself. He might as well get a mail order bride if all he cares about is the girl's looks and himself.
At around 9 minutes in when Master Ken started talking about not falling back on preferences and focus more on personality and personal chemistry. That's where we all got reminded why Master Ken is Father-UA-cam.
@@meows8603 I've been watching videos of his "dates" since a few years ago and I can tell he's desperate, but simultaneously too innocent to make a move, you know 🤔. Like, he never prioritizes the woman he's hanging out with, and stuff.
@@meows8603 Indeed! And a little self awareness from him would be a such intense eye-opener to him that I think he'd broke, about this topic 🤔😅. Like, I can see that he still has a mind of a 14 year-old boy that just found out how a p**sy looks like, saying at the age of 37 that he wants a "girl" (without earlier knowledge of him, this statement would be creepier than it already is) instead of a woman, SO, etc... And his religious views are just holding him in this immature perspective on dating. I'd say that he has some hope, but the fact that he's 37, all that (lack of) baggage AND keeps repeating the same mistakes (there's a old video of him doing this when he was 24) for such a long time... I wouldn't hold my breath on this situation.
“Basically, if they make you feel good, and you are happy being around them, then you have the potential to date them.” Thank you, seriously! Could not have said it better or made it any simpler myself
I would love to see skippy meet a dating coach / therapist and tell him the totality of what he really needs to work and and see show he would react would be really interesting to see
“Impure thoughts lead to impure actions” Yeah if you have no sense of self control like a normal adult. Don’t feel weird about smackin meat or flickin flaps y’all. It’s a normal need to release when you feel the need.
I really thought yesterday’s video with Big Ed’s fake crying attempting to sell the ‘I am not controlling’ line while making a face because Liz wants to work more/ have a life was super cringe hell, but after watching Skippy and his dating advice I stand corrected and will now go bleach my brain..
i agree with ken that weight and height should not be looked at the same when entering a relationship since weight can fluctuate, but i also think its unhealthy to enter into a relationship thinking "if they loose weight theyd be perfect" or "i can help them loose weight".
“You say I’m picky, I call it that. I say that I’m trying to look for someone who’s right for me” was literally me in middle school going after the popular girls 😂
I agree with Ken it doesn't t matter where you go or who you are nobody will ever check off every box in your perfect partner list, and thats ok. I mean at some point your search for the perfect person just becomes superficial and any relationship based on that will never make it. Afterall having differences can be a beautiful thing and a lot of the times it's those differences that makes someone fall in love.
Ken, your wife is right. You are handsome in any iteration of hair length and beard. Change your look when you're bored, not because you're self conscious. You're gorgeous!
Thanks for my daily cringe! Skippy seems like the kind of guy that women would excuse themselves from to go to the washroom, then quietly jump into a taxi, go home, pack their stuff and move away so he can't find them!
He made being a virgin his identity and everything revolves around that with his interactions with women which perpetuates his virginity. Plus he just makes things incredibly awkward.
So, I live near here, and I've been to the building that he is standing on. He is in a shirt and tie, so he probably just left the Institute of Religion, a college ministry. SO HE IS STILL CREEPING ON (and maybe a**aulting) 20 YEAR OLDS. Bro only goes after girls who are young enough to be his daughter. He is basically a young religious Big Ed
I used to think I wanted to date a guy who was over 6’, then I met my boyfriend who’s 5’10” and it’s perfect (height was never one of those hard requirements, I just thought big height differences were cute, i’m 5’5” for reference). him only being 5 inches taller than me is absolutely perfect, we don’t have to strain to kiss each other, we both fit comfortably in the bed, and it’s comfortable to hold hands. I really can’t understand girls that are like 5’ and will only date guys if they’re 6’+ lol.
Dating someone around your own height is best, I think. I can understand wanting someone taller than you, but anything more than, like, a six-inch difference is excessive if you ask me. 5'5" and 5'10" is fine!
You know what hurts me? Skippy didn’t even have to say he was from Utah for me to know bc 1. I recognized those mountains in an instant 2. I know SO MANY dudes just like this. It’s painful.
lol, good thinking, he'll turn up at your door with a klondike bar, creepy little bridge troll, he has this sense of entitlement that if a girl is pretty, they should expect to be kissed, urg
Standards are one thing. Basic standards like “having some similar interests as me” or “goal-oriented” or “kind and respectful” or “good communicator” are some good examples of basic, foundational standards to have for a relationship or a partner. But A) it’s better to keep those standards very general, like the concepts I just mentioned, and to not get overly picky and specific about the little details, and B) You REALLY have to be making sure you embody those traits as well. You can’t (well, more like shouldn’t) be like the contestants on The Button, who give absolutely nothing but expect to get everything they want in return
The only advice he should be giving is "if you've seen my dates, do the exact opposite to what I am doing". I feel like this person who requested this advice video is a troll, and Skippy is falling for it. I can't believe this is a genuine request, knowing how much he sucks on the subject.
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash.
Divorce is sometimes a very necessary way out. My parents were together for 30 years and were incredibly abusive to each other and they tried over and over every way to fix it but they weren't good for each other. Sometimes divorce is the right option.
Whenever I see cringe at the "sucks at dating" field, it makes me feel so much better about my own shortcomings. Any idiot with even the slightest life experience can tell you that being attractive to women isn't nearly as complex as some people make it out to be, and having had some shit luck with it myself, such a message can be refreshing to come back to. After that high fades though, Skippy still exists and there are women that have to put up with him. Most of us have the social awareness not to plaster our virginity around like a poster for a missing pet, but Skippy doesn't. He can't seem to get it through his head that he has serious changes to make, not just for the sake of his own wellbeing, but for the sake of those around him. I'm surprised he isn't more of a lolcow than he already is.
Ken and Mary are probably the most wholesome UA-cam couple along with Marzia and Felix. I remember they all did a collab video where the guys tried to guess what certain makeup products, that the ladies brought, were used for. it was funny n so relatable!
The whole "I want a man who's at least 6 ft tall" thing is absolutely crazy. I could understand if a taller girl wants a man to be taller but if you want a guy who's over 6 ft you've already ruled out 85% of men on the planet ☠️😂
What gets me is when a girl who's sub-five feet herself refuses to date anyone shorter than six feet. As long as they're taller than you, why does it matter? Most experts agree that, in terms of physical compatibility, dating someone who's around the same height as you tends to be the best choice.
@@GamingintheAM0801 true but: that just it and cant change this. Also its funny for me that woman 150 cm dont want date with guy under 180cm becouse he is „short” but only advice is run away from this type of woman:)
I don't want to say this *never* happens, but it is mostly a myth. It's because the kinds of girls that most men go after are the ones who would say this. Which is probably 5-10% of females. And yet, the 90%+ of us other women don't give a flying flip about men's heights. Maybe if instead of going after Insta-models and influencers, you would actually find someone who doesn't care about your height. It's really not that hard. I don't know anyone who has said "I will only date 6 foot or higher." And my best friend is 6'1. And she never had a height requirement. So again, very, very few women have a height requirement. It's become this trope, but it's not really all that common in reality.
@@melynn44 i dont know where you live but in mordern western society is many woman. You dont know where there are: Create account as a man in tinder, this is not 5-10% insta models, its more than 60% population woman, not only top 5%. I remember many years ago when i was young poor student girls from my university tell that same, that men must have 6 feet or more, they were average and this was in 2007. You’re a litlea delusional, in big cities western countries woman are in this way of thinking in masive population.
If he magically found himself in a relationship I feel like she wouldn’t be able to truly understand compromise or the work it actually takes to maintain the commitment and the relationship would be over before they even finish their first argument.
I totally agree with your comment about having too many demands. There’s nothing wrong with having standards, but when your standards become very superficial, I think there’s a problem with that. 🤷🏽♀️
Oh wow Skippy giving dating advise... I think I'm gonna SKIPPY this video so I don't die of cringe. I'm not even sorry Edit: I can't simply not watch a Ken and Buff video because I love them so much ❤
You know I just turned 30 years old last September, and I'm still a virgin. However, I grew up in a piece of shit neiborhood where I'd see girls go from pretty when they are young, to trashy drug addicts who sleep around constantly and end up with 4 kids from 3 different guys. I was more affraid of catching VD that I just stayed in my room and played video games for most of my teens. Around my twenties I started focusing on myself such as physical fitness and overall health. Yeah I met some women here and there but nothing ever stuck or I just didn't feel comfirtable enough with them. Up until about 4 years ago, when I was tired trying to meet someone cause it was interfering with my college classes, I dedicated myself to my studies and now I'm on my last semester before I get my degree. After that, I'm gonna do what I have to do to get out there. I'm gonna hit the gym and put on 20 to 30 pounds of muscle simply because I wanna have an athletic, ripped figure just like my dad. I'm gonna go to places in my city that I enjoy and have fun for myself. If someone comes along while I'm enjoying my life, then awesome. Unlike Skippy here, I'm not gonna waste my life worrying about shit lol.
Just to keep your expectations realistic; you won’t put on 20 or 30 lbs of muscle without having trained consistently to failure, as well as eating well with a lot of protein, for many years. That’s assuming you have adequate genetics for muscle building and good T levels. And given that you’re already in your thirties, your testosterone levels will start to drop little by little at some time in the next few years. Just keep your expectations realistic for your muscle building journey.
Lol saw a woman on a dating app w/ exactly what Ken is describing at 11:50 . She was about 100 pounds overweight and it said "If you have a weight preference, I have a height preference" lol. One of these things can be controlled, the other cannot lol
And still both are just as shallow as each other. No one should lose weight just to be appealing to others, so it's perfectly reasonable to say what this girl on Tinder said.
@@DwynTwo I disagree. Traditional beauty standards are that for a reason. It's one thing to accept your body, it's another thing to have people like Lizzo out there encouraging morbid obesity as a lifestyle choice. Like I said before, height can't be changed, weight can.
@@DrVanNostrand01 I am overweight. I work out 3-4 days a week, and I guarantee, I probably work out more than a lot of the "thinner" women on the dating apps. I'm older. The pounds don't really come off. I work hard to maintain where I am. But, I am sure a lot of people look at me and think I'm just a sedentary loser who is making a lifestyle choice to be where I am. You can't judge books by their covers. Some overweight women really do try to stay healthy. Some thin women were blessed with a perfect metabolism, and can eat anything and never work out and never gain an ounce.
Dating advice 101: try to find someone who has the same values, not based on looks. If your going off only looks and are disappointed in their personality, you’re going to have a bad time. Do your best to look attractive and know the difference between cute vs creepy.
Listen, Ken! I am a 5 foot seven, 22-year-old woman. I have a height requirement because 2 inches puts me that much closer to 6 foot. I’m not saying a guy has to be like a freaking tree… But if I wear heels, I cannot be looking down at you.
Honestly think he might never. Someone gonna have to want to marry him but his expectations are extremely high apparently lol, I don't think he wants to date someone "ugly"
Being a virgin isn't a bad thing, making "I'm a virgin" your whole personality IS.
Exactly. It’s the “nice guy/nice gal” trope.
If he used it the right way it could even be a sure fire "in" for him. Well it worked for me anyway but being on the better looking side probably helped a little.
@@DeathBYDesign666 To be honest what else does he have? No job that I can discern no interesting hobbies not even the ability to talk to a normal person male or female. Being a virgin is literally his only trait everything else is nonexistent.
Using anything as your whole personality generally makes u an unattractive person unless the other person happens to fill what ever tight niche u also occupy , limiting urself is bad there are too many people and life is too short
Exactly its like that with everything this is what the trans people are doing wrong
I would pay so much money to see Creepy Skippy and Big Dumb Ed in the same room arguing about relationship approaches
Dude, trust me. Skippy is nowhere as bad as Big Ed.
@@beardedentity Hard to know since Ed's uglies seem to foremost come out in his romantic relationships, and Skippy hasn't been in one afaik
who do you think would win the argument?
I think they'd actually agree on most things
Skippy is an INCEL who acts (and looks) like an 8-yo-child. Big Ed is a horrible ogre, a Mountain-Troll on the inside and out.
Skippy is that type of guy you try to give a chance because he seems like a nice guy and immediately regret it when you get to know him and he turns out to just be really conceited and self centered. I've given many "skippy" types a chance because I wasnt always conventionally attractive and was bullied for my looks and often overlooked because of them and like 8/10 guys like him are a thousand times more judgmental and demanding than conventionally attractive men and sometimes downright mean and hateful.
Yep, same here. It seems like some of them also project their looks onto the rejection and just grow more resentful of women (especially if they’re attractive) because of it-assuming they’re really getting rejected because of their looks.
Id not give him a chance from the start lol
This is so true
Exactly. The truth exactly. Guys like Skippy are “virgins” forever because they have that pathetic act and they turn out to be complete swine.
@@konarefur you missed the point of the statement with your response. We know YOU would not give him a chance. You may not be us.
Skippy is the kind of guy that sees women as a different species, instead of as people.
Totally
Bitch I see other species as people. He don’t even see them as living creatures with their own desires.
Duhh that's because they are objects not another species or people! Don't you know anything?!
Pppft, "People". Amicable humor sir!
So f boy basically
Skippy: Im not good with the ladies : c
Also Skippy: (stalks women, harasses them, sexually harassed/assaulted at least one woman, treats dates like children, interrupts them, forces them to kiss him after they've said no, thinks he needs to be praised for being a 'nice guy', verbally abuses women when they reject him, tries to get pity affection, films his dates even if they said no at first, shows up to their houses unannounced late at night, apparently the rooftop hes on overlooks a girl's college/dorm so hes probably spying on them)
ALSO Skippy: Here's some dating advice!
Bruh were did you get this information from????
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wasn't there a murderer who has similar perspective? elliot rogers or something
@yourlocallesbian6448 watch all his videos that’s where the information comes from
Bartenders don’t usually give advice. I was a bartender for 8 years, and I would just sit there and listen to people. A lot of times people just need a friendly face to hear their story. I listen to them rant about their significant other, their job, and even their kids. I didn’t wanna give the wrong advice and upset anyone, so I usually just said “I’m sorry that happened to you“, and I would just be there with them in that space.
Excellent advice right here as a former bartender myself usually people are just looking for a little kindness
That’s the best way to be... with friends, family and strangers. As Confucius once said; “Opinions are like A-holes; everybody has one and quite a few of them stink!”
I had a deaf guy with his friend check me out at the bar. I could tell he was deaf because they would communicate in sign language then look over at me.
Wish to this day I would have approached them and said, "hi!" because I was there avoiding a jerk boyfriend at home. I am not picky just want someone peaceful with no drama.
Facts!
He’s too much. Being a virgin isn’t a big deal, he leads with that so much . He’s comes off so creepy and expects something from women because he is a “nice guy”.
He expects to have a reality show for some reason and doesn’t want to work for anything.
It’s not that big of deal to be a virgin, he makes it something and weird and it isn’t, it’s his actions.
He wants to give advice, but doesn’t take anything. It’s all about physical he doesn’t talk about a women on a emotional level.
I feel a little bit of the Mormon seeping out. They love those gender roles. The woman serves the man, but he's also overcompensating. Probably trying to go for "I'm not like other guys" but still expecting that SAH wife.
Thats cuz ur not a guy, ur a girl. Try to magically become a guy and then say what u said again. Bet you wouldnt have the same spiel u wrote
@@killerwolfpack the woman serves the man and the man provides for the woman and the children, in essence both are serving their own family and in extension themselves, traditional values are not bad, Skippy is just one of them people who will never connect with another, it's sad but such is life.
being a virgin is'nt big deal? male virgins are always, incels, mysoginists, bronys, niceguys, simps, neckbeards, otakus you would'nt want more of those
Sounds like he's a truly commited incel 😅
"Being a virgin doesn't make you a social outcast, being weird about it does." EXACTLY! Good for you if you want to remain celibate. If you're a virgin and want to get laid, just be nice to women and DON'T BE CREEPY!!!
I think girls don't like him because he makes being a virgin his entire personality.
i was like skippy long ago. After few rejections, i went straight to pros workers. I wasted all my savings money in few years. And then I understood how everything works.
The only dating advice Skippy should be giving is: do not date Skippy.
Or Nikocado Avocado.
Facts right there!
I think you mean big edd
Damn skippy!
I think he does that just by opening his mouth
A lot of Skippy’s statements are all “l” and “me” statements. He doesn’t seem to view any potential relationship beyond his wants and needs. He ponders why he is a virgin and that is sad because it’s painfully clear to all of us.
At this point I just wonder what his goals are. He has made money out of being a Virgin, and losing his virginity would mean losing his career now. I wonder of he is self sabotaging at this point.
Being a virgin is his identity. If he gets laid then there's nothing else interesting about him
Having been raised mormon and somewhat living that life for 30 years, I have met loads of Skippys and they are all the same.
Being exmormon and have been in singles wards, guys like Skippy always creeped me out and they are the ones I stayed away from.
@@Kithrina right, and there is always at least one. So glad I got my shit together and left.
Lmao as a Mormon I've seen a lot of these
@@DJKnight4 OMG you mean this guy is a statistic! Well I shouldn't freak out too much. It is not like I will reincarnate and have one of these clowns as my dad.
Sometimes I think I'm undateable and then I watch a video about Skippy and feel better.
This is like taking weight loss advice from Tammy Slayton
She slept for a month and lost 100 pounds tho
@@arklaymountains5832 sleep will not help him get laid
@@arklaymountains5832 more like a coma lmfao she could not wake up 💀💀
🤣
she is losing weight now though
If Skippy didn't make his virginity his key personality trait and how he opens a conversation with women then he'd probably have been laid by now fr. Taking a guys v is a big deal to a lot of women and will freak anyone with casual interest away SUPER quick. He's best off marrying within the Mormon faith as the women are usually also virgins until marriage, it wouldn't be seen as such a huge deal to a lot of lds women (speaking as an ex convert).
Definitely and seeing how he acts he is probably the type of person to become very obsessed with the girl who took his V card because she was his first.
He wants the IG baddies, not the mormon girls........ that's what the real problem is
@@YumFit1 Yup hes pitching in a league way beyond his abilities lol
That’s cool. Hearing how woman don’t want me because of my choice to stay a Virgin until marriage makes me want to shoot myself.
Wait some woman actually like takin dudes V cards? I thought that was some urban myth.
I skip Skippy, but you gotta love Ken and Dane, they make watching these kind of videos bearable.
You’re damn right about that
Bless you for this comment! Totally agree!
How dare u skipping my man Skippy, look at him he's a nice guy.
His issue isn't being a virgin, it's being a 'nice guy'...
And the problem with "nice guys" is they are not genuinly nice. They are "nice" because they expect something in return, and that is not how it works.
@@ironpamf true
If a guy says i”m a nice guy” that’s a huge red flag and Id cut ties and stop seeing them immediately. They can be cruel and terribly mean if you dare say “no” to them.. r/niceguys is a good example of why I’d immediately nope out.
@@ironpamf Facts absolute facts!
@@ironpamf yep that’s not being nice, that’s being manipulative
I’m 27 and a virgin. The only dating advice I can give is don’t come to me for dating advice. That’s it 😂
I’m a 27 year old virgin too. This is wonderfully put haha it’s called self-awareness which skippy clearly doesn’t understand
I’m glad you guys aren’t rushing into something just because of peer pressure. Younger and younger, people (I.e. kids) are being sexualized and wanting to grow up. I’m glad that you weren’t pulled into that when you were younger.
x100 self awareness 🧘🏼♀️
@@M.Montgomeryz yes Skippy totally lacks self awareness
Amen ✌️
The sad thing is that internet if filled with people like him who don't take care of themselves, have no prospect, no job, no will to work on themselves they are just looking for cheap ways to make themselves interesting.
What a sad existence.
What I find disturbing about the age thing is that he wants to date young women like in their 20s, he doesn’t find women his age attractive.
See here is the thing with Normally mentally developed adult men: The older you get the wider your attraction gets. You grew into an age and have that connection with women your own age. Come on Skippy, grow up.
It woudn’t shock me to see Skippy show up on “To Catch a Predator” (if it were still running). He gives off the strange, creepy-ish vibes you get from the pedos on that show.
Me, im the opposite. I like older women
And I bet his mom does everything for him at home still. Stuff like that is super unattractive imo.
I was thinking that perhaps it's because he missed out on girls in his teenage years and twenties that he now looks for what he missed. Not morally right or anything but might be an explanation
Many women age terribly, though. There are older women who refuse to date men their own age.
Skippy won no nut November for at least 25 years!
Gotta respect the hustle. But he finally lost
@@meows8603 the nut gets overwhelming sometimes lol
Think he's a lifer
@@ryancampbell1847 not necessarily.. it depends on environment youre in and what you’re watching../hearing . I can believe it tbh
No but champion back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back to back
I always say a personality can make people attractive or ugly. You could go on a date with a model and find out they are rude and mean then you'll start looking at them differently. Personality is everything.
I’m a 27 year old virgin. There’s a whole backstory as to why, but skippy is pathetic and makes the rest of us older virgins, who aren’t weird about it, look bad. I appreciate what Ken and Buff said and some of the comments here. I can’t stand people who make their whole identity around something so silly. That clip of him on the game show made me cringe. I don’t know what goes on in his head, but from these videos a clips, it’s definitely nothing but nonsense
I relate to the rant they went on about preferences because my husband of 3 years was originally someone I never would’ve thought I’d date, wasn’t my type in any way, but our personality’s just clicked, and I eventually fell in love. If I had stuck to my specific types I would’ve never gotten together with this wonderful man!
🥰🥰🥰
I was a virgin way longer than my peers, and didn’t go on my first date until I was 24. And guess what?
Nobody knew! Because it wasn’t my whole personality. And when I did tell people after my first relationship, (we broke up because I wouldn’t “put out”) they said they would have never guessed
There is nothing wrong with wanting date someone who is in shape, because it suggests a healthy lifestyle. You should be looking for someone who holds similar values, and that you feel happy being around.
Thank you. It's not being shallow if you don't want to date someone who's chubby or something. Because honestly why would you want to date someone who's unhealthy? Because being fat is unhealthy and people don't want to hear that, nor admit it.
Human existence has always proven a fit body is always preferred. Why do men workout so much if women don't like muscular men? As for women, they've been wearing corsets and trying other things to alter their figures to make them more appealing. Once again why would they do that if men down unhealthy looking women attractive. Because neither gender does. We want fit bodies, not fat bodies.
Exactly so!
I would prefer to date someone who's healthy, whom I know I'll be able to spend a long life with.
@@spades77 Oh shut it and stop judging people. Also I would personally never date a muscular man because they are more obsessed with their appearance than I am. But to each their own.
The problem is assuming chubby people are unhealthy.
@@EdgarRazorlip Truth! But if they're going to live their lives being judgemental and focusing on looks, then truly good luck to them in finding someone who wants to spend time with them! They sound awful to be around.
Imagine asking someone for advice and they just have an existential crisis and go "okay I'm go post this banger now"
Having a list of things you need in a partner can really affecting your dating life negatively I agree! If I had stuck to my list I'd never have met my husband
"Impure thoughts lead to impure actions." No, thats a lack of self control. I've Thought about a lot of bad stuff, I'm sure everyone has. But a Lot of people Dont do them because we have control over ourselves. I for one love my family too much to do anything horrid. Cutting your brain off from Thinking and saying that cures bad actions is a bad teaching.
Exactly !!!!! People act like they're not in control of their own bodies... you're not in control of your thoughts but it's ultimately up to that person to decide what's right and wrong
“Turn it Off”-Broadway, Book or Mormon 😂
Your thoughts don't determine who you are, but what you do about them does.
im severely mentally ill and i struggle with intrusive thoughts, these are exactly what they sound like. thoughts that intrude, things we keep thinking of but don't actually want to do, and having them so much can kind of convince you that you want to or have to. i have istrusive thoughts about murder, violence, incest, sexual assault, cannibalism. i have never acted on these impulses, even if I felt like I wanted to, like a compulsion. it is all about your self control.
That's the typical very religious people's way of thinking, they think that without God and strict rules humans just turn into animals and start murder each other - bc they don't believe people in general have some self control and some universal morals no matter which culture and religion they come from. And what's even funnier, people from such strict conservative families tend to rebel much more bc they feel trapped like in a cage.
Yeah, when i was younger, i thought this guy was average until we started talking and he was funny and nice, so he got more physically attractive to me. I've also seen people get uglier in my eyes because i got to know the real them.
Same. I can relate to this.
Yeah. There was this black girl that I went to school with and at first I wasn't attracted to her because I'm not usually attracted to black girls. Not really my preference. She was really pretty though. Just wasn't my preference. As I got to know her though I started finding myself being attracted to her and I eventually asked her out and she said yes.
The analogy my mom used dealing with others was that some people are like beautifully wrapped packages with nothing inside, totally empty. Others are wrapped in plain brown butcher-paper but are full of diamonds, rubies and other treasures. What you tell little kids is important, it stays with them and helps form their moral compass in life.
@@ethankiger4385 what does her being black have to do with anything lmao
@@idontexist1966Apparently you didn’t read it, bc he said he isn’t normally attracted to black women. Open your eyes not your ass.
Just when skippy thought he was done with making a fool of himself, 7 years later, WE ARE HERE TO MAKE IT FUNNY AGAIN🤣😭 THANK YOU BUFF AND KEN💯✌️😂😂😂
"Won't you just step back from that ledge, Skippy!"
😅😅😅😂😂😂
I couldn’t stop thinking about how ill-fitting Skippy’s glasses are for at least half of the video but also how creepy it was when he was talking about how you have to be somewhat picky. I don’t know why he worded it like that to just say I have preferences and it’s ok to have preferences for what you want in a partner. He complained so much about how little meaning and purpose his life has, while bragging about how many celebrities he’s met, I totally forgot this was a requested video to give dating advice to someone.
Buff, your anecdote about your friends that used to be like Skippy… congrats to them for growing! I’ve made my mistakes in the past with dating as well, including my whole outlook on it, but I’m glad I learned from all that and grew to be a better guy. Your friends seem to have gone through a similar journey. Hope all is well, and happy thanksgiving ❤
11:34 As an overweight woman, I totally agree with this! I am never offended by someone who wouldn't date me because I'm overweight. I totally understand! The only time I get offended is if that person is a dick about it. There's a way to talk to people you know? Even when I was on dating apps in the past, I had some people say "Sorry. I'm not attracted to your body type" or "I'm not interested but thanks anyway". And I actually appreciate that. They let me know in a respectful way. I don't agree with people who lash out at those that don't want to date them because of their weight. We all have our preferred types and THATS OK!
You’re beautiful the way u r, I love bbw tbh
@@BDESal Aw thank you! It's so nice getting an uplifting comment! That's unheard of on UA-cam! 🦄You are a unicorn! Lol Thank you very much, new friend. 🙂 You are a beautiful person 💜
@@BeeTeaDubs ❤️
“Women: most weight, smell nice, be attractive, and don’t have any insecurities”
Also skippy: “im overweight, I have no job, I’m insecure, and I’m unattractive. But I deserve the best because I don’t have an std.”
I know right
„Don’t have any insecurities“ is such a dumb thing, you shouldn’t be surprised to hear that every person has several insecurities
Best advice I could give don’t make one thing your entire personality. Especially not being a virgin
“Do the math, baby! Two nickels still equals a dime!” God, I love that analogy
I sliced open my hand in an accident a few days ago, I just turned 18 and I have 16 stitches in my hand. I’m currently awaiting surgery because I cut an artery in my pinky. Big thank you to Ken and Buff for always making me laugh each day ❤
Happy birthday, I hope you recover quickly, I'm sorry you have to go through that.
Skippy is the cursed love-child of Quentin Tarantino & Ed Sheeran 💀
If he moved to California to find a girlfriend, he is f@cked 🤣
he lives in the united states, he is a mormon and he's a creep...... i don't think his life can get much worse
@@stefanforrer2573 I mean he could live in literally any other country on the planet and be worse off than in the USA.
I think, he would struggle with an arranged marriage or dating outside of the US too. The woman's family has to like him enough to want to hand their daughter off to him... being a virgin is a plus, but his personality is awful. I don't think he could hide it long enough for the family to be tricked. He needs to lower his standards a bit. He'll be just fine in the US if he works on himself. He might as well get a mail order bride if all he cares about is the girl's looks and himself.
@@xxarianahiltonxx5116 Very well said.
@@SuchDoge4242 mhm.... whatever you say man
At around 9 minutes in when Master Ken started talking about not falling back on preferences and focus more on personality and personal chemistry. That's where we all got reminded why Master Ken is Father-UA-cam.
Honestly, I'm surprised Skippy didn't become a Elliot Rodger 2.0, by this point.
Yeah he definitely could be a worse guy. He's definitely creepy at times and desperate but at least he isn't sa people and stuff (as far as I know).
@@meows8603 I've been watching videos of his "dates" since a few years ago and I can tell he's desperate, but simultaneously too innocent to make a move, you know 🤔.
Like, he never prioritizes the woman he's hanging out with, and stuff.
@@RodrickMarsMoon yeah and isn't his expectations unrealistic? Like he wants to date someone "hot" and cares a lot about superficial details
Nah. He cot a belly button lint collection.
@@meows8603 Indeed! And a little self awareness from him would be a such intense eye-opener to him that I think he'd broke, about this topic 🤔😅.
Like, I can see that he still has a mind of a 14 year-old boy that just found out how a p**sy looks like, saying at the age of 37 that he wants a "girl" (without earlier knowledge of him, this statement would be creepier than it already is) instead of a woman, SO, etc... And his religious views are just holding him in this immature perspective on dating.
I'd say that he has some hope, but the fact that he's 37, all that (lack of) baggage AND keeps repeating the same mistakes (there's a old video of him doing this when he was 24) for such a long time... I wouldn't hold my breath on this situation.
“Basically, if they make you feel good, and you are happy being around them, then you have the potential to date them.” Thank you, seriously! Could not have said it better or made it any simpler myself
As a virgin he does not speak for us
Doesn't announcing that you're a virgin unsolicited make you exactly like skippy?
I would love to see skippy meet a dating coach / therapist and tell him the totality of what he really needs to work and and see show he would react would be really interesting to see
He’s a major creep
“Impure thoughts lead to impure actions” Yeah if you have no sense of self control like a normal adult. Don’t feel weird about smackin meat or flickin flaps y’all. It’s a normal need to release when you feel the need.
Flickin flaps!
Well guess I’m teaching my husband a new word tonight
FLICKIN FLAPS💀💀💀
Wtf? 😂
I like how he has made his whole identity being virgin.
It's all he has.
Skippy sounds like the kind of guy to drive around in a beefed up yellow hummer and collect baseball cards.
No wayyyy. Is that a Better Call Saul reference? 🤣🤣
I really thought yesterday’s video with Big Ed’s fake crying attempting to sell the ‘I am not controlling’ line while making a face because Liz wants to work more/ have a life was super cringe hell, but after watching Skippy and his dating advice I stand corrected and will now go bleach my brain..
You're handsome and funny AF Ken! Not stepping on Mary's turf, just stating facts and agreeing!
i agree with ken that weight and height should not be looked at the same when entering a relationship since weight can fluctuate, but i also think its unhealthy to enter into a relationship thinking "if they loose weight theyd be perfect" or "i can help them loose weight".
The Red Flags.... omfg. "Try not to scare girls" tells me more than i needed to know.
Exactly. Why would anyone need to say that? It should be implied.
“You say I’m picky, I call it that. I say that I’m trying to look for someone who’s right for me” was literally me in middle school going after the popular girls 😂
Oh my gosh….I am also a Virgin at 35. I’m wanting to wait for marriage. But stuff like this is depressing…..
Similar situation: this hurts me 😅
If you live in usa just go to foreign country n live there to find wife
Any updates?
I agree with Ken it doesn't t matter where you go or who you are nobody will ever check off every box in your perfect partner list, and thats ok. I mean at some point your search for the perfect person just becomes superficial and any relationship based on that will never make it. Afterall having differences can be a beautiful thing and a lot of the times it's those differences that makes someone fall in love.
Love your vids Ken! You and buffs videos are my stress relief! Haha
I imagine interacting with Skippy would feel the same as having a conversation with a really realistic AI robot.
Ken, your wife is right. You are handsome in any iteration of hair length and beard. Change your look when you're bored, not because you're self conscious. You're gorgeous!
Thanks for my daily cringe! Skippy seems like the kind of guy that women would excuse themselves from to go to the washroom, then quietly jump into a taxi, go home, pack their stuff and move away so he can't find them!
Getting advice from Skippy would be like getting Stevie Wonder to teach me how to drive.
He made being a virgin his identity and everything revolves around that with his interactions with women which perpetuates his virginity. Plus he just makes things incredibly awkward.
I'm 46, still a virgin, perfectly content with life and grateful not to be named after a peanut butter jar🤣🤣🤣🤣
So, I live near here, and I've been to the building that he is standing on. He is in a shirt and tie, so he probably just left the Institute of Religion, a college ministry. SO HE IS STILL CREEPING ON (and maybe a**aulting) 20 YEAR OLDS. Bro only goes after girls who are young enough to be his daughter. He is basically a young religious Big Ed
I live here too, and I couldn't agree more.
Skippy is going to transform into a wizard at any moment now.
Just another 15 years and I can give out wisdom like this guy.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be a virgin or stay celibate it’s just the fact that he is making it his whole personality is the problem.
I used to think I wanted to date a guy who was over 6’, then I met my boyfriend who’s 5’10” and it’s perfect (height was never one of those hard requirements, I just thought big height differences were cute, i’m 5’5” for reference). him only being 5 inches taller than me is absolutely perfect, we don’t have to strain to kiss each other, we both fit comfortably in the bed, and it’s comfortable to hold hands. I really can’t understand girls that are like 5’ and will only date guys if they’re 6’+ lol.
Dating someone around your own height is best, I think. I can understand wanting someone taller than you, but anything more than, like, a six-inch difference is excessive if you ask me. 5'5" and 5'10" is fine!
I love all your videos ken! Iv literally watched you for years! Thank you for still putting out videos!
I put this comment before i watched the video and skippy on some next level stuff
You know what hurts me? Skippy didn’t even have to say he was from Utah for me to know bc
1. I recognized those mountains in an instant
2. I know SO MANY dudes just like this. It’s painful.
Skippy just can’t get his pickle slippy 😔✌️
Ken out here dropping the sage-like dating advice. I hope Skippy sees this 🙏
I'm from Utah and he popped up on my tinder last year 😅 I recorded his profile, but was too scared to actually match and talk to him haha
lol, good thinking, he'll turn up at your door with a klondike bar, creepy little bridge troll, he has this sense of entitlement that if a girl is pretty, they should expect to be kissed, urg
@@Hexighost 🤣
Lucky you!
Skippy keeps going through the same situation, but can't see he's the most common denominator
I woke up excited to watch ken and buff’s daily video but I was early! And two seconds later they uploaded 😊y’all never disappoint ❤
Standards are one thing. Basic standards like “having some similar interests as me” or “goal-oriented” or “kind and respectful” or “good communicator” are some good examples of basic, foundational standards to have for a relationship or a partner. But A) it’s better to keep those standards very general, like the concepts I just mentioned, and to not get overly picky and specific about the little details, and B) You REALLY have to be making sure you embody those traits as well. You can’t (well, more like shouldn’t) be like the contestants on The Button, who give absolutely nothing but expect to get everything they want in return
The only advice he should be giving is "if you've seen my dates, do the exact opposite to what I am doing". I feel like this person who requested this advice video is a troll, and Skippy is falling for it. I can't believe this is a genuine request, knowing how much he sucks on the subject.
I don't think it was a request at all. I think skippy wanted to sound "wise" in relationships by faking it.
"Skippy the 40 year old virgin gives terrible dating advice"
Wow, who would have thought?
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash.
@Rose Allen well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer.
@Rose Allen her name is Shelly Renee White, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster.
@Rose Allen you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
Ehh... I wouldn't say NEVER... that's kind of dangerous, for what I'd think would be obvious reasons; abuse being the most obvious.
Divorce is sometimes a very necessary way out. My parents were together for 30 years and were incredibly abusive to each other and they tried over and over every way to fix it but they weren't good for each other. Sometimes divorce is the right option.
Whenever I see cringe at the "sucks at dating" field, it makes me feel so much better about my own shortcomings. Any idiot with even the slightest life experience can tell you that being attractive to women isn't nearly as complex as some people make it out to be, and having had some shit luck with it myself, such a message can be refreshing to come back to. After that high fades though, Skippy still exists and there are women that have to put up with him. Most of us have the social awareness not to plaster our virginity around like a poster for a missing pet, but Skippy doesn't. He can't seem to get it through his head that he has serious changes to make, not just for the sake of his own wellbeing, but for the sake of those around him. I'm surprised he isn't more of a lolcow than he already is.
Ken and Mary are probably the most wholesome UA-cam couple along with Marzia and Felix. I remember they all did a collab video where the guys tried to guess what certain makeup products, that the ladies brought, were used for. it was funny n so relatable!
Love how excited Buffpro gets for Skippy dating advice 😂
@ 6:40 ....that microsoft excel panning did that pic no justice
The whole "I want a man who's at least 6 ft tall" thing is absolutely crazy. I could understand if a taller girl wants a man to be taller but if you want a guy who's over 6 ft you've already ruled out 85% of men on the planet ☠️😂
For this girls isnt a problem, becouse they want only this 15%.
What gets me is when a girl who's sub-five feet herself refuses to date anyone shorter than six feet. As long as they're taller than you, why does it matter?
Most experts agree that, in terms of physical compatibility, dating someone who's around the same height as you tends to be the best choice.
@@GamingintheAM0801 true but: that just it and cant change this. Also its funny for me that woman 150 cm dont want date with guy under 180cm becouse he is „short” but only advice is run away from this type of woman:)
I don't want to say this *never* happens, but it is mostly a myth.
It's because the kinds of girls that most men go after are the ones who would say this. Which is probably 5-10% of females. And yet, the 90%+ of us other women don't give a flying flip about men's heights.
Maybe if instead of going after Insta-models and influencers, you would actually find someone who doesn't care about your height. It's really not that hard.
I don't know anyone who has said "I will only date 6 foot or higher." And my best friend is 6'1. And she never had a height requirement. So again, very, very few women have a height requirement. It's become this trope, but it's not really all that common in reality.
@@melynn44 i dont know where you live but in mordern western society is many woman. You dont know where there are: Create account as a man in tinder, this is not 5-10% insta models, its more than 60% population woman, not only top 5%. I remember many years ago when i was young poor student girls from my university tell that same, that men must have 6 feet or more, they were average and this was in 2007. You’re a litlea delusional, in big cities western countries woman are in this way of thinking in masive population.
If he magically found himself in a relationship I feel like she wouldn’t be able to truly understand compromise or the work it actually takes to maintain the commitment and the relationship would be over before they even finish their first argument.
A sense of humor and humane personality is genuinely so powerful. You’d be surprised (not really, just treat people like people).
These videos get me through the damn day XD Love you guys!
I totally agree with your comment about having too many demands. There’s nothing wrong with having standards, but when your standards become very superficial, I think there’s a problem with that. 🤷🏽♀️
Oh wow Skippy giving dating advise...
I think I'm gonna SKIPPY this video so I don't die of cringe.
I'm not even sorry
Edit: I can't simply not watch a Ken and Buff video because I love them so much ❤
Yes Ken! That take on shaming for height vs weight is on point. P.s love your vids, bring me heaps-o-joy. Thank you good sir 🙌
I don't think I'd be able to survive a video of Skippy without Ken and Buff.
"to be honest I don't know what the rest of my week or life is gonna be like"
*Jumps off roof*
STOP😭
You know I just turned 30 years old last September, and I'm still a virgin. However, I grew up in a piece of shit neiborhood where I'd see girls go from pretty when they are young, to trashy drug addicts who sleep around constantly and end up with 4 kids from 3 different guys. I was more affraid of catching VD that I just stayed in my room and played video games for most of my teens. Around my twenties I started focusing on myself such as physical fitness and overall health. Yeah I met some women here and there but nothing ever stuck or I just didn't feel comfirtable enough with them. Up until about 4 years ago, when I was tired trying to meet someone cause it was interfering with my college classes, I dedicated myself to my studies and now I'm on my last semester before I get my degree. After that, I'm gonna do what I have to do to get out there. I'm gonna hit the gym and put on 20 to 30 pounds of muscle simply because I wanna have an athletic, ripped figure just like my dad. I'm gonna go to places in my city that I enjoy and have fun for myself. If someone comes along while I'm enjoying my life, then awesome. Unlike Skippy here, I'm not gonna waste my life worrying about shit lol.
Good for u 😍 hope you find the perfect, mature lady you want
Just to keep your expectations realistic; you won’t put on 20 or 30 lbs of muscle without having trained consistently to failure, as well as eating well with a lot of protein, for many years. That’s assuming you have adequate genetics for muscle building and good T levels. And given that you’re already in your thirties, your testosterone levels will start to drop little by little at some time in the next few years. Just keep your expectations realistic for your muscle building journey.
Marry right ken u got the silver fox thing goin on point and the dad shirts add tht touch of personality 👌🏼
Ken speaks truth. Super attractive women are... shock... people too. Putting anyone on a pedestal can distort how you see someone.
I feel like whoever asked for relationship advice was trolling 😂
Lol saw a woman on a dating app w/ exactly what Ken is describing at 11:50 . She was about 100 pounds overweight and it said "If you have a weight preference, I have a height preference" lol. One of these things can be controlled, the other cannot lol
And still both are just as shallow as each other. No one should lose weight just to be appealing to others, so it's perfectly reasonable to say what this girl on Tinder said.
@name4311 they should lose weight so they aren't a walking heart attack waiting to happen, and a burden to society.
@@DwynTwo I disagree. Traditional beauty standards are that for a reason. It's one thing to accept your body, it's another thing to have people like Lizzo out there encouraging morbid obesity as a lifestyle choice. Like I said before, height can't be changed, weight can.
In general, you shouldn't insult someone for a physical trait that can't be changed in 30 minutes or less.
@@DrVanNostrand01 I am overweight. I work out 3-4 days a week, and I guarantee, I probably work out more than a lot of the "thinner" women on the dating apps. I'm older. The pounds don't really come off. I work hard to maintain where I am. But, I am sure a lot of people look at me and think I'm just a sedentary loser who is making a lifestyle choice to be where I am.
You can't judge books by their covers. Some overweight women really do try to stay healthy. Some thin women were blessed with a perfect metabolism, and can eat anything and never work out and never gain an ounce.
How cute was it when Kenny said Mary said he looks handsome. You guys are so adorable
Dating advice 101: try to find someone who has the same values, not based on looks. If your going off only looks and are disappointed in their personality, you’re going to have a bad time. Do your best to look attractive and know the difference between cute vs creepy.
I try to find out what their values/personality are and adopt them.
Listen, Ken! I am a 5 foot seven, 22-year-old woman. I have a height requirement because 2 inches puts me that much closer to 6 foot. I’m not saying a guy has to be like a freaking tree… But if I wear heels, I cannot be looking down at you.
If skippy lost his v card what would his branding be?
Honestly think he might never. Someone gonna have to want to marry him but his expectations are extremely high apparently lol, I don't think he wants to date someone "ugly"