Reckful talks about his Deep Loneliness with Dr. Kanojia
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- Опубліковано 19 гру 2019
- Reckful discusses the feeling of loneliness without being alone with Dr. K.
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Dr. Alok Kanojia -
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Dr. Kanojia hitting us with the AOE heals, definitely want more of these.
the greatest comment of all time lmfao... DR K hititng us with CRITICAL CHAIN HEALS. THANK YOU DR K, AND THANK YOU RECKFUL FOR PUTTING YOURSELF IN VULNERABLE SITUATIONS TO HELP US LEARN!
you rly watch these hourlong videos?
@@krippaxxuseredarlordofthes9940 of course man, this content is an awesome insight to how beneficial therapy can be, not to mention it's very entertaining
I actually look forward to these. I just lay back in my chair, fullscreen it and just listen. Some of these made me cry even. Dr.K really hits home on alot of points.
@@krippaxxuseredarlordofthes9940 yes, Im finishing 2nd half now
Just passing by to get my dose of AOE heal before next phase of boss comes in.
ive never clicked on a video so fast POG
same
Ok
Seeing Reckful happy makes me so happy, I genuinely feel like Reckful’s happiness can be contagious.
I think happiness is mostly contagious from people you like, it just shows how much you care about him i guess
@@ikori7912 I think since most people do not care about themselves in the same way Reckful feels about himself, it would mean the world to people if they saw him succeed because, in an indirect way, it implies they too can succeed.
Sigh.. or, some people are just warm and gooey, I'm not but more power to people that are warm and gooey. Y'all are special.
I hope youre not lonly anymore where ever you are, have a blessed afterlife, innocent soul.
😥😥😢
He is living a better life now
I think he died, dude.
You were one of a kind soul, we’ll all miss you bryon, I truly hope you Rest In Peace
You can see that they have a nice chemistry, that's essential and never a given in a therapist - client relationship.
It feels like the start of a great friendship
what do you mean by "never a given in a therapist - client relationship." ?
Nemanja Rajkovic “never a given” means “not guaranteed” so he’s saying that not all therapists are able to have this natural chemistry with all of their clients and that’s why it’s important to find a therapist you can click with
@@Jadi11 To add on to what you said, the odds of you clicking with any kind of therapist are lower than a regular person you would meet. In order to do a good job, they need to make you talk about uncomforatble topics which can feel invasive to alot of people, at least some that I have spoken with.
respect for being so open and public about this, Reckful.
This series has been really eye opening for me, it's crazy how much your breathing patterns affect your mood and behaviors. Not to mention I was literally dying laughing during the boomer part, and the cocaine chat spam LOL.
"omg Im a boomer!" I lost it there, never seen Dr K express like that before lmao
I started crying when Dr.K said "A year from now.."
This guy is the best thing on twitch right now. We need more therapy/science/experts to help with this growing mental disability crisis we are having in modern countries. I'm so happy to hear stuff like this going on on twitch. And I love Biron. He's such a sweetheart in my eyes.
Love the interaction between Dr. K and Byron, I almost wish these videos were longer
My heart can’t handle another one of these videos
when reckful gets emotional about his brother it just kills me. stay strong bro
FUCK...
Look at the doctor how could you not love someone like him
Moi j'taime mon petit loup qui sais reconnaitre les belles choses
@@myfruitybeatsparadis3925 c'est gentil et je t'envois de l'amour aussi 😋😋
@@gabrielleloup2310 quoi, pourquoi sont les français ici xddd, mais.
Bon, pourquoi pas xdd
Thank You Reckfull, keep it going, its helps me up aswell. I kinda started looking up to You. Like older brother.
hi reckful, you seem to be a very humble, nice and down to earth person, I really like your personality
It's amazing how much better and more calm i feel when i take deep breaths. And it's also amazing how fast i go back to my original state when not consciously doing it
lmao i said this again and again but i think reckful´s chat is the only one thats actually funny ! the pogchamp with the air emote really got me
I'd even listen to this on a podcast. Keep em coming!
He´s casting to many Soraka Ultimates.
Hope you found your serenity. Rest In Peace
i love these keep doing them
It will be interesting to see Reckful's improvement over time!
ouch
RIP Byron. Love you bro
Hey Reckful, i love this series! you seem like such a nice guy!
I've actually used the nostril technique before when I have a cold to help loosen things up in my face.
I work in an isolated environment too and renting an office in a cowork space really helped me out, met lots of people that way and got that extra motivation for good habits.
Diet is important, fuck fat foods and grease, eat healthy and your body and mind will be more active.
Exercise is very important too. Add it to your routine, make it short and sweet, go, exercise for 40 minutes and go back home, don't over-commit for hours or you'll get lazy just thinking about going, I know it sounds weird for someone with depression but going to the gym and not talking to anyone is actually good, cause you will go more, for people like us who are hard to motivate we need to be very goal oriented so routine beats the randomness of having some really nice conversations and reliance on others to enjoy. You will feel much better and the testosterone boost is incredible to keep men happy and active.
Love your discussions :)
Chat says "cocaine" and then he comes out big smile on his face "I FEEL GREAT" I died laughing
Anyone else in there bed alone breathing like a crazy person following along with the Doc about different breathing types?
Dr. Kanojia is awesome. I love this guy.
Rip man fly high
the breathing part was some real quality stuff gachiHYPER
comfee cool picture
@@crazy-chann lets all love lain
do you have a timestamp for this?
Reckful i find What i lost with you, thanks, and thank that man to, love u guys, love the world :)
RIP Reckful.
I hope you guys keep talking! This is super cool to watch! Much love to both of you!
Havent had a friend since I was 21, havent had a friend group since I was 13, the last 8 years of my life is just a blob of nothing, sitting infront of a PC distracting myself and have given up on life. I want nothing other than the things I know I will never have.
Daniel find some hobbies. Go to gym, join a box club whatever
Brother your ego wants nothing more than the things it says you will never get. What you THINK yoursSELF is is not who you are. That doesn’t mean find another self to copy it means unidentify with your thoughts telling you stuff. Yourself is like a resume like the doctor says, a bleak one but the amazing thing is it’s not you. Go through past trauma, seek help like reckful is, release negative beliefs that hold you back, realise we are all the same deep down, love and joy. I came from a similar position that you are in man I was depressed my whole life since a kid and my parents always wanted me to achieve things for their ego so I never got real love. I resented them for it even though I thought I didn’t. Just because things happen to us a long time ago doesn’t mean they go away after time. There is only now and feelings last in the now, so forever basically until you deal with them and accept them, work your life ya through them then release them. There is always major resistance and pain at first, excuses etc but that’s a good it means your looking in the right places. The more resistance you feel the more likely you are starting to deal with core issues. Love brother don’t give up on letting go of yourself
hey how are you doing hope ur feeling better
22:50 "Reckful is buddha! PogChamp" had me in tears lmfao
Oh more of this, i love it.
i learned so much last time.
RIP Reckful....gbnf
Byron, bro, I appreciate your videos like this and that you're looking for the answers. I'm the same age as you, have a lot in common with you, and live a really lonely life as well. The thing is, it seems like we have CHOSEN to live a lonely life. And we are sad with our choice, but at the same time it is what feels best because we can "control" our environment best this way. You are very introspective and very smart, but do you feel better than you did? What all have you changed, really? I think I'm experiencing the same existential crises that you are, but I don't believe we can "think" our way out of it. Being more introspective seems to only rationalize or justify your feelings, but not change them.
he wasnt lonely at all he a room mate and various friends looking after him see mizkifs vod about it
I tried the nostril thing and it worked. Don't know about all the good effects he mentioned but the changing nostrils by laying on your side works so that's dope to know
miss you buddy
actual AOH heal, holy fuck. Been depressed for years. I love this.
"aweee I'm not fixed" lol this mad me laugh. Love byron
Everytime I visit my dad he just hands me these vitamin d pills from costco Lmfao
i watched alll through the last one really resonated with a lottt of stuff, this one a little less so far but DAMN that 'min maxing nostrils' made me crack the fuck up chat hahaha
protip: dont look at phone when you wake up
breathe in for 5 seconds and out for 4 or whatever, do this for 5 to 10 minutes when you wake up, putting you in a PRO-active state not a RE-active state from looking at a screen and then thinking about a bunch of bullshit messages because then you're starting off on the wrong wavelength
godbless
agree
lol no
Strongly disagree. That's not going to help what so ever.
You need to not have bullshit messages be a thing you care about.
I'm really interested in hearing more about everland, How's the progress going?
This is helping me just as much as it is helping byron, i feel like seeing things with people you seem to have a like mindset with opens your eyes more than you would see it just by yourself. This is actually so smart to be streaming because so many people don't even consider therapy/talking to someone who has a clear understanding on the basic/trivial mindsets humans have. Byron and Dr. K are both honestly helping sooo many people inadvertently. Please continue this, I and a-lot of other people really are learning so much from this. So many topics/ideas that haven't even gotten close to be touched on in most of our minds really until now.
and these people who are just trolling chat are the ones who are truly lost, ones who don't see anything except themselves in the reflection of their screen. Lonely people who refuse to believe there's a way to better yourself by just talking to someone. These people are basically the factors of doubt trying to hold the ones who actually want to be enlightened back, it's like they are the thoughts that are in our heads that keep us from bettering ourselves. The ones who actually want to absorb what is being taught here just seem to brush them off as if in other instances they would attack said person. This makes the person who is trolling actually look at their screen and understand that this isn't the time or place and no one is entertaining their toxic mindset so they mostly just end up leaving after just just a few messages. Honestly if you see someone trolling in chat during this try finding their name again after the first instance. More than likely they wont be there to post again because they are already somewhere else where their "woke" toxic mindset is entertained.
I really like this guy
FeelsGoodMan
"You're chillin'." I laughed so hard at this. Yeah! Let's chill the fuck out and be happy with what we got!
Dr. K. : My listenners
Me : Yes, master?
30:09 yoga quest Pog
I think Byron should do a" tea time with byron" with this guy
'' 1:20 best friends PogChamp '' in chat cracked me up
Twitch chat was hilarious when he was doing the plank shit lying down
He is a great guy. His ultimate message I think is to remind everyone that the mind is not the soul. That is why he is focusing on mediation, to remind everyone of that fact. The mind is a wild dog that never runs out of energy, and to keep it in line it takes 100% focus all the time. The constant fight between mind and soul does get easier but it is work. If you guys meditate long enough you will become enlightened. Enlightened is a mysterious way of saying you now completely understand that the mind and the individual are two different things. If you look at the mind as the enemy it is a quick way to find just that. When your mind wants to do something, it is just an opportunity for you to tame your mind and say no to it. Good luck all, peace and love.
It's actually amazing how pepega chat is that they 5head the word hypothesis
Our egos wants nothing more than the things it says you will never get. What you THINK yoursSELF is is not who you really are deep down. Deep down we all know this, we just think different. That doesn’t mean find another self to copy it means unidentify with your thoughts telling you stuff. Yourself is like a resume like the doctor says, a bleak one but the amazing thing is it’s not you. Go through past trauma, seek help like reckful is, release negative beliefs that hold you back, realise we are all the same deep down, love and joy. I came from a similar position that you are in man I was depressed my whole life since a kid and my parents always wanted me to achieve things for their ego so I never got real love. I resented them for it even though I thought I didn’t. I still get depressed occasionally but I a state of joy a hell of a lot more than I used to be, social, energised beyond what I ever thought possible and I am still on my journey it’s neverending, there is no goal it’s a process, enJOYing the process is the key. Just because things happen to us a long time ago doesn’t mean they go away after time. There is only now and feelings last in the now, so forever basically until you deal with them and accept them, work your life ya through them then release them. There is always major resistance and pain at first, excuses etc but that’s a good it means your looking in the right places. The more resistance you feel the more likely you are starting to deal with core issues. Love brother don’t give up on letting go of yourself
Starts at 3:31 , can continue at 6:30
1:22:25 it's just discord, TeamSpeak 3 FTW
Astralis activated their left nostril to stop choking during tournaments, it all makes sense now.
Dr K is great
I'm getting stuff out of these streams as well
My whole left arm fell asleep and then I had to fucking stop
rip byron :(
When reckful said “ that hit me” . I felt it too and i noticed my breathing was a short inhale and deep exhale. What an eye opener holy crap
@44:44 this doctor is officially based.
Find the juice
44:08
Reckful: How come you all are virgins in the chat?
Dr. K: Breaths Sexually
Chat: I'm not a virgin anymore!
I really wish I can manage to talk whit someone, because slowly slowly I'm becoming a living dead and I don't really know how much longer it's possible to stay alive.
whats bothering you, my man?
@@martingaggero8462it's much but in general a feeling of always being alone even when I'm whit friends 😞 and constantly a thought of being useless, I know it's mostly in my head, and the feeling that people finds me needy and annoying✌️❤️🕉️
@@mattiassvensson4341 Has anyone told you that were useless at any point? think about the times you remember. Also if your friends are still around you you are probably less needy than you think
@@martingaggero8462 yes my dad told me that several times until I got bigger then him, it's was probably not so funny when I was Abel to defend myself. Iknow it's in my head the problem is but it's hard to fix it when I can't manage to tell them around me exactly what's up, cause when I get emotional or sad I joke it away or get angry cause I'm not in control :/. Sorry for my bad English and bad grammar, and thanks for talking ✌️❤️🕉️
@@mattiassvensson4341 recognizing the problem is a big step, so well done. when your dad tells you that you are useless, do you think he is right?
I normally dodge healing because i want to die, but this is such a big aoe there is literally no way i can get out of range quick enough... Im starting to like it monkaW
good to hear
A lot of people have been saying that I'm starting a cult lately, so I though; let's see how to really do it
XD
Oh god, not telling grandma hit me hard dude :,(
Harvard andy is the best of all andys
i try to focus on the therapy but chat just keeps cracking me up lol
We go through this life running around looking for an answer… without direction we all get lost and stuck in different things that we abuse in order to fill a void deep inside us.
We put ourselves into bondage be it from drugs, depression, anxiety, people, sex, money, pride whatever it might be and we try to figure things out on our own.
You don’t have to struggle with either of those if you truly wish to fill the void in yourself, it won’t be filled by some “purpose” so to say or some “woman” or many for that matter.
From personal experience im trying to tell you that all that you are doing is chasing after pleasure and it’s all vanity and there is nothing gained that is worthwhile.
Ever since I gave my life to Jesus Christ I broke free out of all addictions.
I was attached to people, food, sex, pornography, lust, alcohol etc.
As I gave my whole life to Jesus and believed in Him, as he was my last resort, I truly understood that the truth is right in front of our eyes, but we refuse to acknowledge it because we are too stubborn to admit that we want to be our own “god” and we wish everything would go our way.
In reality that is not how things work and from what I can say from my current journey with Christ is that: If you repent and believe in the Death, Burial, Resurrection of Christ and that he died for YOU and your sins, you will be sealed unto the day of redemption by the Holy Spirit and saved from eternal damnation and separation from God.
God not only transforms you, but he molds you into a better person and teaches you how to hold your mind and thoughts together and gives you a purpose and a calling in life if you take the time to build a relationship with Him. You do not have to run around like a headless chicken looking for direction to what you have to do in this life.
We are all flawed and God knows it all, you can give your life today to the Lord and you will truly experience his love and grace. If you’ve tried everything, it is never too late to try what Jesus!
Have a good day.
Rip
39:55 Chat come on....... Omegalul Also Right gang.
That nostril switch technique didn't work for me.
this dude sick
Oh boy here we go again
I can’t read chat it ruins it for me
try listen to it like a podcast it works fine for me that way
i read chat and look at video sometimes it's cancerous but it is what it is.
yeah chat was quite cancerous imo
That’s just how twitch chats are, they’re like a hivemind.
But it can be funny sometimes
Peeing a lot and runny nose. Classic symptoms of mushrooms
Here before 5 views FeelsOkayMan
Same
is this what it would be like talking to a psychiatrist or is Kanojia just that good ? cuz he relate to us gamers?
watch some of his vid and his episode 3 and 4 i see my self alot, and episode 3 is kinda a paradox for me, the more i learn, the further away i'm going to seek help.
what do u mean "the more i learn, the further away i'm going to seek help"?
Jesus christ he started speeding balls, and that is a straight up coke response.
just breathe bro
Reckful lemme be your friend not a fan but a friend :(
I've been scrolling through this comment section and it's cringey as fuck, but congrats, this is by far the worst one.
twitch chat "not even hogwarts", the doc doesnt know what endorphins are?
Chat pointing out how much money Dr. Kanojia makes per hour is so toxic. He is putting himself out there and helping a lot of people with similiar problems.
You could command an hourly wage like that too if you educated yourself and became valuable; not a personal dig at you just towards people that whine about it
chat was toxic all stream
Check vardankar for real truth
Fucking chat distracting me so I have to rewind
He 5Head
28:03
i wish reckful could have done mushrooms with his brother PepeHands
Would be nice if this was actually watchable since the doctors voice is like 3 times lower than Reckful's :/
Means more privacy assets, the moment u know any secret even ur fired infinitely!