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@@yolandacervantes6926 God is real how could something so complex like the universe and humans be made from bacteria or rocks or evolution we just couldn’t God made it all😊
@@AintSunny They were referring to the mother being abusive. She uses her status as his mother to get him to dedicate his whole life around her needs. He should be living his young life, not forced to care for someone who ate themselves into that position. Which is also why the comment says "that boy deserves a life".
He should use common sense and not help her eat herself to death. He drives to the grocery store and he brings her the food. He just likes to live for free and prolly gets money when she dies. Hmmmm.......
@@AintSunny Her giving him the roll of caretaker is abuse. He hasn’t even had a chance to know or grow what he wants to be in life, because of her demands on him!
She's abusive to her son. She says that she hates putting so much on him but then involves him in her mental health issues. When she put her hand on his knee and asked "you in?" That enraged me. She is so manipulative.
Just a reminder in case you thought this couldnt get any worse: She did a porn video when she was over 600lbs with some poor soul and it is easily findable. Yea...truly mom of the year matierial
i got emotional for her son. his whole life revolves around her, its sickening. if i was him as much as you love your mum i would arrange getting her a carer. the kid deserves a life that doesn't revolve her.
No one can tell me there is no such thing as food addiction. Just listen to her. She knows exactly what's shes doing and ruining her sons life and she still does it.
So you get help long before you get to this wt, especially when you’re ruining your kids lives. It makes me so angry to see this, when I have had debilitating chronic pain from 2 different diseases for the last 39 yrs, for which there is no cure. I have endured multiple excruciating surgeries, procedures, implants, you name it, and it only gets worse. I wish I had something that I could fix with hard work. I would trade places with them in a heartbeat.
People think that normal sized people don’t love food. When really the case is they just tell themselves NO. People make choices and not everyone likes the consequences so they come up with 100 excuses. These over eaters are the most self centered people on the planet, I say that because they pull others into their behavior and it’s all on them to stop the insanity.
@lessehead it takes a lot of tenacity to get through something like that, especially over such a long period. I was an addict & I agree with you 100%. It can be fixed with hard work, unlike chronic pain and diseases. Ive never considered addiction a disease, only time I hear that is as an excuse for being "powerless" despite making the conscious decision to abuse drugs, overeat or whatever.
For everyone complaining: this episode is extremely old, literally from like the second season of the show a decade ago. She’s lost at least 400 pounds since then and is doing very well from what I know.
Good for her, I’m glad she stuck at it, but her son can’t get his lost years as a teenager back. I’m often wondering how people who eat as much as she does can afford food and a decent place to live. Who is paying for that? You shouldn’t be on a disability pension if you can make yourself better. Society shouldn’t be paying for her to be shovelling food down her throat. I’ve had over 130 surgeries yet worked all of my life.
@@joannedibben2352unfortunately, her son can’t get his childhood back, or his teenage years playing basketball and goofing around with friends and looking at the pretty girls. She stole that from him. His life is likely stuffed up, but I hope he’s ok. He seems a really nice son who was able to extract an intolerable,mum made prison.
Props to her for saying "It's not his fault, I abuse my position as his mother and I make him do it" You see too many of these people blame others in their lives, but she's taking full responsibility.
Dillion's face the entire episode, he is so angry and bitter. She's like a big baby, in a playpen. She is SO selfish and co dependant on him. I hope he was able, to live his own life happily
My heart breaks for the son, absolutely had me tearing up thinking about how much he has to go through and how being loyal to his mom is interfering with his life. He just looks so sad and defeated.
@dianem7677He’s her CHILD. It should be the other way around. He grew up in that household with her. She needs to be the one to cut him off, but she’s obviously too dependent.
I am only a few minutes in, but am triggered by her talking about needing to be rescued. Why is it up to somebody else to "rescue" her? Her future is in her hands alone. And her son's future. She has already taught him the bad food habits that may ruin his life too, by the looks of him!
He should be away at college, living with other kids. But he needs to make that choice. He should leave her and have his own life. She is a whiny, unpleasant person. He should leave her to stew in her own mess
If I were him, same here. Not because of her weight but because I'm no longer her son, but her god damn care taker. The roles r reversed here, so I don't and wouldn't blame her "son", or should I say caregiver😂.
I know from personal experience that an addict ceases to allow shame or embarrassment to deter them from doing whatever they must do to get the next fix. And almost 700 lbs is unquestionably an addiction. A severe one. It's actually shocking how many of these people have no sense of shame. They just let their private parts feel the breeze in front of everybody. It's crazy.
Let her go man. She should have let you go a long time ago but shes abuses her position as your mom to manipulate you. Your life is yours and yours only, and same for her
This is yet another example that all children need parents but not all parents deserve kids. I really hope her son is able to live his own life soon enough :(
I really don’t mean to sound insensitive but the main part that infuriates me about people like her, is how she selfishly knows she’s holding her son back, and still chose to live her life this way. Parents who subject their kids to taking care of them due to obesity is selfish in my eyes.
You have no idea how hard it is to live with this kind of a parent... My mom was doing this to me too and I was always the fat kid in the room... It hurts and you feel like you can't leave but I finally am going now. Took a really long time and I wish all those lost years doing stupid and useless things I could take them back and live a normal life like others :(.
@@dddddd211I am assuming you are still struggling with weight. I suggest reading Good Calories, Bad Calories and watching The Oiling of America. Knowledge is power.
Sad thing is, you don't need to damage someone's whole life in order to completely ruin it, in fact, if you put influence in them long enough, eventually it's going to be unfixable. And trust me, six years are enough for that to happen.
Saw another comment here, but i also want to know how these people can afford enough junk food to get that big. I can barely afford enough food to be alive. 🤨
I know the fear. I had a mini stroke a couple months ago.thank God it did not do much damage and working with physical therapy I have gotten stronger and back to normal.
"There aren't a lot of healthy options on the road." Well, there are grocery stores. And you can pack food to go with you. This is ALL about taking responsibility--not expecting to "get rescued." No to mention that EVERYTHING she says to her son is about HER, including the guilt tripping.
Food addiction must be so hard because unlike drugs and alcohol you actually do need food to survive so you can't just take it away. I can imagine its incredibly hard.
I believe that's what makes alcohol harder to tackle in some ways too. Fortunately alcohol has never really been my poison of choice but i suffer its consequences like everyone else simply bcz it's so integrated into our social lives & almost always readily available. My daughter was injured by a drunk driver so I'm sure the reasons for my attitude will be obvious. (She's OK now) I don't know about The States but in Australia- until the last decade or two- it was like we always had an overall pro alcohol situation where if you didn't drink you'd find yourself being called a "wowser" (meaning you're a party pooper essentially). Of course the peer pressure on men was probably much worse than for young "ladies" but that changed in the 1960s. I got to the point where I just didn't want to go to social events, even family gatherings, bcz there'd often be a guarantee there's always that one person who drinks too much & says or does some damned thing that ruins everyone else's day/night. I'm so glad awareness of the dangers of booze are now a priority for a lot of governments worldwide, even if it is simply bcz they know it will save money in the long term. Especially when it comes to consumption during pregnancy.
@@buzzzzzz69 yeah I completely understand that. I'm a recovering alcoholic myself and it's definitely hard because it's still so ingrained into society. If you don't drink people look at you differently. I avoid social events altogether because of it. Even with Christmas coming up I've had to not go to certain places because I know alcohol will be involved. Its definitely frustrating at times.
She has undergone a severe transformation since this was aired and lost the vast majority of her excess weight. Her son, on the other hand, got even more obese. She failed him terribly, and doesn't even have to pay the price.
_"Overweight woman can't believe she weighs almost 700 lbs."?_ What, are you kidding me? She HAD to know the reason why! It was all that junk food she KNEW she had been eating! Anyway, she did manage to lose some weight. But she already robbed her son Dillon of the life he was supposed to have been living. It's like he's joined at the hip. I wonder if their quality of life has improved any. And yes, Dillon has been enabling her. _(9/8/2023)_
“There aren’t a of options on the road, and I can’t get out of the van, so we have to go with fast food.” Convenient theory for you. Chop up a salad while you’re just lying in the back of the van.
Shouldn’t being 130 lbs make you a size 0-4? What is your bmi? Genuinely curious because I am on a weight loss journey and am 5’5” 160 and fit in a size 6-8 currently
She says she may ruin his life, the damage is done! It's not "if", you HAVE caused all sorts of harm to him emotionally - you can feel it emanating from the poor guy! She is such a self-centred drama queen
I feel sorry for her son as he has to care for her 24/7/365. This situation must be really affecting his self-esteem & confidence as he can't leave her side & live a life of his own until something drastic happens. If this is a really old episode, can anyone provide updates as to where either of them are now?
This aired in 2015, I believe. It's season #3. As of now 2023, Pauline's down to the mid 200's. But she put her son through an additional 5 years of her weight going up and down, up and down, and skin surgeries and recovery and she even had a period of pain med addiction followed by detox. She put her son through that chaos of living with a drug addict too, on top of what ended up being 11+ years of his life stolen by her selfishness. No idea what's up with the son in 2023, but last time he was on tv with Pauline he was extremely overweight himself. At least +100 lbs heavier than depicted in this video. Hope this reply was helpful! ❤
It’s already a bad sign that she doesn’t realize Dr. Now doesn’t just approve people. She needs to show her dedication to put in the work, otherwise the surgery won’t do anything if she doesn’t do her part afterwards.
I think that.. a mother who can admit she’s in the wrong? There is always still hope. I see too many parents pulling a victim card, so this is just giving me hope that she’s capable of something
She should be ashamed of what she is doing to her son , look at his weight , he’s living your life and not his own . He needs to be on his own , he needs someone to teach him proper foods to eat . Think of his health , you have already screwed up yours and still are in denial !! I pray he gets the help he’s gonna need .
As a carb and sugar lover, I can relate to how much they love fast food and unhealthy snacks. I gained from 65kg to 87.5kg during 2019-2023 Aug. As a 165cm Asian female, I am overweighted. On Aug 14, I decided to seriously lose weight because I want to have baby in the next 2-3 years. I barely eat any carbs and quit all the snacks and drinks for my first week, lost 4.6kg. Within 2month, I lost 12kg. As of today, I am still 75.2kg but I no longer crave for food especially fast food. Changing eating habit is the most important thing for losing weight. It is not as hard as we thought and the result is quite encouraging. I will keep going and hope people who want to lose weight will join me to this healthy journey ❤
Carbs and seed oils are the problem. Seed oil was designed for lubricating machines, sealing wood and as a cheap lamp oil. Then they convinced us it was actually food. Grass, grains and processed sugar have only been in the human diet for a blink in human history. Yet the Adventist cult food industry tells us that should be the base of our diet. There is no such thing as a healthy whole grain. It all turns to sugar in the body.
oh hey, we’re similar builds! I am 164cm and SE asian. Heaviest weight was 93kg back in early 2022. This morning I weighed in at 67kg. You’re doing amazing!! I have to agree with building the habit first before anything. Losing weight is a mental game and on some days, motivation isn’t enough. You have to completely change the way you think and function through good habits. Good luck! Don’t lose the weight too fast. Also, if you find that your weight loss plateaus, eat carbs again for a few weeks before going back to low carb (women respond really well to low carb diets but it messes up our hormones. this might also be significant if you want to have a baby)
I am 72kg on Nov 12. I have more carbs this week as I feel that I need a little bit of them. I mainly had lotus root, sweet potatoes and potatoes. May have some corn this week as well. :)
I hope you're still doing well and that you're at or close to your goal! I'm proud of you for making that first step and choosing to work on yourself, you're amazing ♥
I’ve been a nurse for 22 years. It’s been my experience that MDs from the Middle East and the greater Asian continent are very polite but hilariously honest in a backhanded sort of way to their patients. My personal primary is Vietnamese and she roasts me at every appointment. 😂 I took my daughter to a checkup one day and she was cracking up. Every time my daughter wanted to do something she’d say, Hey you’re fat, your doctor says you have to go for a walk! 😂😂😂
‘I don’t want my son to find me dead’. I’d say that’s the only time she considers him. ‘There are really only fast food shops around’ you’ve got a fecking kitchen!! Her son shouldn’t be in the position of being a carer as a boy. ‘I can’t get healthy options on the road’, she never eats healthy options. I don’t understand. I haven’t been able to eat because of surgery for disease - I had to stop eating and can only have hospital formula rdrinks. I haven’t eaten for 7 years so I can’t really bear the moaning about it. I certainly would inflict my problems on my son. She’s stealing his life from him. She really thought she could stuff herself with fatty food the whole time and get surgery without trying?!
“You in son” the audacity she’s used and abused her son mentally to the point where he’s always the one who does EVERYTHING. He needs to enjoy his life and live it it’s being wasted on taking care of his careless ignorant mother. Let her live alone and then she’ll come to know how much her son has done for her. Let her suffer her own consequences. She did this. You can be surprised your at that weight when you eat the size of a hippo. My gosh my only condolences to the poor son
LMAO when she weighed in and the nurse said “uhh you went up” and she went I don’t need the details 😂😂😂😂😂 the nurse is me she rolled her eyes so hard 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that part took me out! Babyyy smh
Ten minutes of "joy" for a lifetime of misery. You ARE ruining your sons life! Sadly, if he's not careful her Son will head the same way. He's your 15 year old Son, not your husband!
7:14 I can’t stand how she sits there and cries about dying from her weight problem, and then she tries to confide in her son, who was probably on the edge of losing the patience, and saying ‘No. You’re on your own.’
I do feel bad for her son because he's the only one who takes care of her and i believe that he doesn't have to care for her but it's important that his mother should be getting physically active so she can lose weight and regain her ability to walk without the wheelchair. Excess fat can really do damage to your body and it's only going to get worse if you don't take action fast to burn it.
Food can provide temporary pain relief. It doesn’t last long once you stop eating. Sweet and salty foods will give you a dopamine hit as well. Since she’s in pain from being overweight, she’ll want to keep eating to alleviate that. It’s a feedback loop that obese people can get stuck in.
"There's nothing but fast food around so that makes it tough." I lived in Houston for a year and that is an absolute lie. Houston has more decent restaurants than any city I've ever been to, even more than Austin where I now live.
As of January 2023, she had lost 520 pounds and was planning on getting married. Nothing mentioned about her son, but it did say that she's a lot healthier now.
I love food but doing this is abusive to the pleasure food gives. And I feel so bad for him because she pushes her eating habits into him and forces him to enable even though it’s obvious he’s tired of it and doesn’t want to live like this. Usually enablers are ok with it or at least they just go along but he looks so miserable. She’s a horrible mother. Sorry this hit close to home because my step mom and dad force me to do things for them and I just feel trapped too.
@dianem7677 more like I’m out in the Amish country in the middle of no where, my step mom is in the military and has ran after me when I tried running from home and dragged me back to the house, I called police and they didn’t do anything about it, CPS and police only go to our front door, talk to my parents then leave, and even when I stay at a friends or family’s house they classify me as a missing person then even pressed charges on my older cousin for “kidnapping”. So I’m trapped. And they take all my money so I can’t afford shit. Call me weak or whatever but I cant, quite literally, do anything. The closest grocery store and gas station is a 30 minute drive. Also they have cameras all over the house. If I say I feel trapped it’s probably bc I am.
@dianem7677you have no idea about the situation. We moved to a place far away from family, they scared off my friends, they refuse to let me get my license, when I tried getting a job they said they won’t drive me, they sold my bike, they threaten to kick me out and so much more I won’t discuss on the internet. It’s not just about mentality and saying “No means no!” To people that are stronger than you and have everything to keep you from freedom. CPS and police were called numerous times but they’d talk to my parents then leave, not even check up on me. I’m weak financially and physically. But I literally can’t do anything about it. I’m currently trying to attend a nearby college so I can walk to it bc I know they’d use driving as a way to control me. “I’ll drive you if you do this” kind of thing. So I’m just gonna do my own thing and try my best with what I have.
"There's no good options on the road" bs, she's just making excuses like she has her whole life to keep eating what she wants and her poor son is so manipulated that he can't help but just go along. She's killing herself and her son, and it's sad that he's almost looking forward to her death so he could be free
@@miryamamar9471poor boy is gonna need intense therapy and external help with forging his own independence. On top of harming his mental health, being his mums full-time carer certainly stunted his growth.
I would do anything-ANYTHING- to help my parents if they needed it (unfortunately they do, sometimes). And I'm old! So, when I see this young son trying so hard to help his mom and struggling so much to have the life that any young person wants, it truly makes me sad.
Do these people not watch the show before they go on it? Dr, Now always requires some weight loss. I have never seen him dismiss someone before giving them a chance.
The fact that she says she’s aware of what she’s doing to her son and doesn’t make an effort to change is just selfish. Ik it might be hard but you gotta think more about yours sons future and his health too
It made me so mad when she talked about "no other solution than fast food on the road" yes there are, vegetable sticks, homemade salads, whole fruits, pasta salad even... Its not that she couldn't, it's that she didn't want to.
Right??? I hate when pretty looking people are this fat. It's like the easiest thing you can do to be beautiful and it's just to do literally nothing (not eat) :D The things I need to do to even look OKAY and these people have it so easy...
For everyone coming down on her, you're absolutely right, and you need to understand that addictions are not logical. You can't reason your way out of an addiction. You have to heal the emotional part first. Humans are irrational, emotional creatures first and foremost. Logic is a tool to help guide us, but emotions are our reason for being.
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@@sophia23346
WHAT?????
ur delirious!!!!😵💫
@@yolandacervantes6926 God is real how could something so complex like the universe and humans be made from bacteria or rocks or evolution we just couldn’t God made it all😊
Ur scary 😨
@@sophia23346I feel like ur being ironic
Abuse is abuse. That boy deserves a life.
Giving food to a consenting adult is abuse ok 🤣😭😭😭
@@AintSunny They were referring to the mother being abusive. She uses her status as his mother to get him to dedicate his whole life around her needs. He should be living his young life, not forced to care for someone who ate themselves into that position. Which is also why the comment says "that boy deserves a life".
@@AintSunnythat's the complete opposite of what was said
He should use common sense and not help her eat herself to death. He drives to the grocery store and he brings her the food. He just likes to live for free and prolly gets money when she dies. Hmmmm.......
@@AintSunny Her giving him the roll of caretaker is abuse. He hasn’t even had a chance to know or grow what he wants to be in life, because of her demands on him!
She's abusive to her son. She says that she hates putting so much on him but then involves him in her mental health issues. When she put her hand on his knee and asked "you in?" That enraged me. She is so manipulative.
She’s a selfish hog and doesn’t give a damn about her son…don’t even try to argue this…
Just a reminder in case you thought this couldnt get any worse: She did a porn video when she was over 600lbs with some poor soul and it is easily findable. Yea...truly mom of the year matierial
I agree. She was showing remorse after she consumed her food, and then eat again. Such a noxious cycle.
the way she knows how shes ruining him and keeps doing it is infuriating
i got emotional for her son. his whole life revolves around her, its sickening. if i was him as much as you love your mum i would arrange getting her a carer. the kid deserves a life that doesn't revolve her.
No one can tell me there is no such thing as food addiction. Just listen to her. She knows exactly what's shes doing and ruining her sons life and she still does it.
So you get help long before you get to this wt, especially when you’re ruining your kids lives. It makes me so angry to see this, when I have had debilitating chronic pain from 2 different diseases for the last 39 yrs, for which there is no cure. I have endured multiple excruciating surgeries, procedures, implants, you name it, and it only gets worse. I wish I had something that I could fix with hard work. I would trade places with them in a heartbeat.
People think that normal sized people don’t love food. When really the case is they just tell themselves NO. People make choices and not everyone likes the consequences so they come up with 100 excuses. These over eaters are the most self centered people on the planet, I say that because they pull others into their behavior and it’s all on them to stop the insanity.
@lessehead it takes a lot of tenacity to get through something like that, especially over such a long period.
I was an addict & I agree with you 100%. It can be fixed with hard work, unlike chronic pain and diseases. Ive never considered addiction a disease, only time I hear that is as an excuse for being "powerless" despite making the conscious decision to abuse drugs, overeat or whatever.
Holly!🥰🎭
Addicted to JUNK food, garbage disguised as food. They don't get this way eating lean cuts of meat and vegetables.
For everyone complaining: this episode is extremely old, literally from like the second season of the show a decade ago. She’s lost at least 400 pounds since then and is doing very well from what I know.
Thanks for letting us know about this lady I'm glad she is doing well now
She has a pretty face, I bet she looks lovely now
she quit the show in her last episode cuz she threw a fit because she supposedly didn’t “aGrEe” with what dr now had to say 🤣🤣
Good for her, I’m glad she stuck at it, but her son can’t get his lost years as a teenager back. I’m often wondering how people who eat as much as she does can afford food and a decent place to live. Who is paying for that? You shouldn’t be on a disability pension if you can make yourself better. Society shouldn’t be paying for her to be shovelling food down her throat. I’ve had over 130 surgeries yet worked all of my life.
@@joannedibben2352unfortunately, her son can’t get his childhood back, or his teenage years playing basketball and goofing around with friends and looking at the pretty girls. She stole that from him. His life is likely stuffed up, but I hope he’s ok. He seems a really nice son who was able to extract an intolerable,mum made prison.
Props to her for saying "It's not his fault, I abuse my position as his mother and I make him do it" You see too many of these people blame others in their lives, but she's taking full responsibility.
so what shes still doing it
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Congrats to her but she’s still abusing him
@@brennathecatlover4360 Absolutely. I was commending her for owning up to it, and only for owning up to it.
But he still is an enabler and she brushes it off
Dillion's face the entire episode, he is so angry and bitter. She's like a big baby, in a playpen. She is SO selfish and co dependant on him. I hope he was able, to live his own life happily
He hates her so much he won't even look at her😮
@@Travis-pv8vjI hate her too
My heart breaks for the son, absolutely had me tearing up thinking about how much he has to go through and how being loyal to his mom is interfering with his life. He just looks so sad and defeated.
same :(
@dianem7677He’s her CHILD. It should be the other way around. He grew up in that household with her. She needs to be the one to cut him off, but she’s obviously too dependent.
I am only a few minutes in, but am triggered by her talking about needing to be rescued.
Why is it up to somebody else to "rescue" her? Her future is in her hands alone.
And her son's future. She has already taught him the bad food habits that may ruin his life too, by the looks of him!
I've been there with my alcoholic mom. I left. Now she is dying.
He should be away at college, living with other kids. But he needs to make that choice. He should leave her and have his own life. She is a whiny, unpleasant person. He should leave her to stew in her own mess
She is the only one who can turn her life around .
You can tell the son literally despises her
I would too if my mother called me "Dilly" 😠😠
If I were him, same here. Not because of her weight but because I'm no longer her son, but her god damn care taker. The roles r reversed here, so I don't and wouldn't blame her "son", or should I say caregiver😂.
@@jenniferdaulby5519 That was a cringe moment for me, too. "Dilly?" Also, she's one of the biggest whiners I've seen on this show.
@@melindac3368was thinking this exact thing. She whines about everything, such a cry baby
Going to get food using an electronic wheel chair whilst over 600lbs and having no shame is beyond me.
Do you think she has no shame? I think she is utterly ashamed every day. Peculiar thing that she is still not motivated.
"I do have a problem with water retention" 🤣🤣🤣
NO you have a problem with tons of junk food retention
She could only weigh 100lbs and still depend on her son for everything. He’ll never get away from her codependent personality
yes, I am afraid she sounds like a pain in the arse whatever her weight
Exactly. Her weight is just the byproduct of her toxic relationship with him. If it wasn't food, it'd be something else.
Exactly. A leopard doesn’t change its stripes
Seeing her ride down the highway in that wheelchair about took me out..😂😂😂
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I know from personal experience that an addict ceases to allow shame or embarrassment to deter them from doing whatever they must do to get the next fix. And almost 700 lbs is unquestionably an addiction. A severe one.
It's actually shocking how many of these people have no sense of shame. They just let their private parts feel the breeze in front of everybody. It's crazy.
😂😂😂 don't even want to say anything
I mean I hollered an screamed cause why show her like that😂,they could have skipped that an met her at the store😂
shes as big as the car behind her…
This woman is a disgrace. Her son has totally shut down, becoming silently resigned to his miserable life.
Let her go man. She should have let you go a long time ago but shes abuses her position as your mom to manipulate you. Your life is yours and yours only, and same for her
Love this comment!
This is yet another example that all children need parents but not all parents deserve kids.
I really hope her son is able to live his own life soon enough :(
Wow what a horrible comment
@@jjmurphey88 horrible how? what's the lie or the wrong thing about his comment? this kind of parents don't deserve their kids
I really don’t mean to sound insensitive but the main part that infuriates me about people like her, is how she selfishly knows she’s holding her son back, and still chose to live her life this way. Parents who subject their kids to taking care of them due to obesity is selfish in my eyes.
You can't obligate your children to take care of you, regardless of whether obesity is present or not. It's not their job. It's you or your spouse's.
You have no idea how hard it is to live with this kind of a parent... My mom was doing this to me too and I was always the fat kid in the room... It hurts and you feel like you can't leave but I finally am going now. Took a really long time and I wish all those lost years doing stupid and useless things I could take them back and live a normal life like others :(.
@@dddddd211I am assuming you are still struggling with weight. I suggest reading Good Calories, Bad Calories and watching The Oiling of America. Knowledge is power.
It is selfish & horrible way to treat your kid.
I agree. They’re very narcissistic.
Sad thing is, you don't need to damage someone's whole life in order to completely ruin it, in fact, if you put influence in them long enough, eventually it's going to be unfixable.
And trust me, six years are enough for that to happen.
Back when the weigh-in nurses still cracked a smile
Sly smile 😂
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The nurse has seen it over and over again I'm sure that's why I don't think the nurse got joy out of it
Right??? They are SO miserable now lol. Just so done with all the cameras and patients for the show
The way they pig out on their way down to Houston shows me they aren't ready.
I feel bad for her son , he doesn’t deserve that he’s miserable.he deserves his own happiness and I hope he lives his own life happily
On top of that he's big too, but could easily be but like a football player if he put in the work.
No more soda! That alone would make a huge difference
Not really. I quit soda for a month now, and still no loss
@@a2jaot420Quitting soda alone won’t make you skinny, but it definitely helps. You need to exercise in conjunction with eating healthy.
@@a2jaot420 Dude, one month is nothing. We're talking long term changes
@@a2jaot420try calorie deficit .
I lost 3kg in a week bc of it. And of course workout so your skin won't get saggy
@@a2jaot420if you’re still consuming more calories than you burn, you won’t see a loss
Saw another comment here, but i also want to know how these people can afford enough junk food to get that big. I can barely afford enough food to be alive. 🤨
I'm not be afraid of dying. I'd be afraid of having a stroke and ending up bed ridden in a care home.
Omg you just triggered me! That is my worst fear!
That's my very worst nightmare
She’s is bedridden. Her son is her nurse.
I know the fear. I had a mini stroke a couple months ago.thank God it did not do much damage and working with physical therapy I have gotten stronger and back to normal.
@@garyreardon11 So good to hear you are better.
"There aren't a lot of healthy options on the road." Well, there are grocery stores. And you can pack food to go with you. This is ALL about taking responsibility--not expecting to "get rescued." No to mention that EVERYTHING she says to her son is about HER, including the guilt tripping.
If I had to roll to the grocery store in my fat cart, I'd give up. That has to be so deeply humiliating.
Food addiction must be so hard because unlike drugs and alcohol you actually do need food to survive so you can't just take it away. I can imagine its incredibly hard.
I believe that's what makes alcohol harder to tackle in some ways too.
Fortunately alcohol has never really been my poison of choice but i suffer its consequences like everyone else simply bcz it's so integrated into our social lives & almost always readily available. My daughter was injured by a drunk driver so I'm sure the reasons for my attitude will be obvious. (She's OK now)
I don't know about The States but in Australia- until the last decade or two- it was like we always had an overall pro alcohol situation where if you didn't drink you'd find yourself being called a "wowser"
(meaning you're a party pooper essentially).
Of course the peer pressure on men was probably much worse than for young "ladies" but that changed in the 1960s.
I got to the point where I just didn't want to go to social events, even family gatherings, bcz there'd often be a guarantee there's always that one person who drinks too much & says or does some damned thing that ruins everyone else's day/night.
I'm so glad awareness of the dangers of booze are now a priority for a lot of governments worldwide, even if it is simply bcz they know it will save money in the long term.
Especially when it comes to consumption during pregnancy.
@@buzzzzzz69 yeah I completely understand that. I'm a recovering alcoholic myself and it's definitely hard because it's still so ingrained into society. If you don't drink people look at you differently. I avoid social events altogether because of it. Even with Christmas coming up I've had to not go to certain places because I know alcohol will be involved. Its definitely frustrating at times.
If we're all being honest, she could probably go 500 days without any food and survive on her bodies fat stores......
@@thegary9584 She could probably hibernate for years judging by all her fat
this is fake though, everything she says is forced by tlc they also force them to eat more.
She gets on the scales, the nurse said you've gone up.Then she replies I don't need details lol.
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That nurse was trying so hard not to laugh
it funny that she talks to him like he's a child but then expects him to do all these things for her like an adult.
manipulative & abusive woman. not once did she express concern for her son’s high bmi.
She has undergone a severe transformation since this was aired and lost the vast majority of her excess weight. Her son, on the other hand, got even more obese. She failed him terribly, and doesn't even have to pay the price.
_"Overweight woman can't believe she weighs almost 700 lbs."?_ What, are you kidding me? She HAD to know the reason why! It was all that junk food she KNEW she had been eating!
Anyway, she did manage to lose some weight. But she already robbed her son Dillon of the life he was supposed to have been living. It's like he's joined at the hip. I wonder if their quality of life has improved any. And yes, Dillon has been enabling her. _(9/8/2023)_
Damn
“There aren’t a of options on the road, and I can’t get out of the van, so we have to go with fast food.” Convenient theory for you. Chop up a salad while you’re just lying in the back of the van.
Or pack some protein bars, nuts or fruit to eat during the drive.
@@herlastvoyage yes!
Exactly
lmao they deleted my comment. This episode is over 10 years old. This woman has lost over 500 pounds. Her name is Pauline Potter
Wow. I wonder why they’re reposting old arse episodes?!? Thanks for informing us.
Her name and the season / episode are in the description. They didn’t delete your comment 😂😂😂
So glad she did! Hope she's still healthy.❤😊
any update on the son? I feel so bad for him, he should be out there with his friends and not taking care of a selfish mom
He passed away RIP
@@Gabagool93where’s ur source for this
8:48 she's so rude for no reason like the nurse is just bluntly being honest... you DO need details or it's gonna cost you your life like cmon now
How do these people get money to buy that much food?
Your comment was on my head 1 second before I see it
The taxpayers. For sure she gets SSI, welfare and food stamps.
I always think that
@@beverlyspruill5175there’s things like that in the US? like you get money to buy junk food? isn’t those things only for low income people?
I’m thinking the same thing, how could they afford it?
Food addiction is a disease I had to go through a lot of mental reconstruction I got up totals 280 lb and I now weigh 130 from a 4X. to a size 12
Shouldn’t being 130 lbs make you a size 0-4? What is your bmi? Genuinely curious because I am on a weight loss journey and am 5’5” 160 and fit in a size 6-8 currently
@allygonzalez7206 it depends whether its US or UK sizes. Size 12 in the UK sounds right for 130 pounds
It's not a disease. It's something you do only cuz you like it repeatedly. It already has a name. Addiction :D That's like saying book is wood.
@@allygonzalez7206I'm 5'6. A size 8 to 10 and weigh 160
Lol whoever at tlc is writing the titles for these clips needs a raise 😂 this was classic
She says she may ruin his life, the damage is done! It's not "if", you HAVE caused all sorts of harm to him emotionally - you can feel it emanating from the poor guy! She is such a self-centred drama queen
She acts like such a sympathetic mother for like 30 seconds then just uses him. I'd drop her off in Houston and call for updates and live my own life.
Amen 😂🎉😂🎉😂
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Good no mother should abuse her son like this
I feel sorry for her son as he has to care for her 24/7/365. This situation must be really affecting his self-esteem & confidence as he can't leave her side & live a life of his own until something drastic happens.
If this is a really old episode, can anyone provide updates as to where either of them are now?
This aired in 2015, I believe. It's season #3. As of now 2023, Pauline's down to the mid 200's. But she put her son through an additional 5 years of her weight going up and down, up and down, and skin surgeries and recovery and she even had a period of pain med addiction followed by detox. She put her son through that chaos of living with a drug addict too, on top of what ended up being 11+ years of his life stolen by her selfishness. No idea what's up with the son in 2023, but last time he was on tv with Pauline he was extremely overweight himself. At least +100 lbs heavier than depicted in this video. Hope this reply was helpful! ❤
Thanks for the update.
Much appreciated☺@@MeganVictoriaKearns
It’s already a bad sign that she doesn’t realize Dr. Now doesn’t just approve people. She needs to show her dedication to put in the work, otherwise the surgery won’t do anything if she doesn’t do her part afterwards.
Ate chili fries on the way there, and still expected approval...
7:45 “there’s mostly just fast food around so that makes it tough” why not prepare food from home??
A picnic basket can hold lots of healthy food, it’s a choice.
After working in healthcare for over 18 years these are my least favorite type of patients to deal with
“You went up 🙄” Her face is priceless 😂
"I don't need details" 😂😂 ma'am you pay them to monitor...
Shes so fkn dramatic, her son has patience
I think that.. a mother who can admit she’s in the wrong? There is always still hope. I see too many parents pulling a victim card, so this is just giving me hope that she’s capable of something
Yeah, apparently she lost over 400lbs
It’s unfair to her son, he deserves to have his own life, she’s lived hers.
making her son complicit is pretty gross
She should be ashamed of what she is doing to her son , look at his weight , he’s living your life and not his own . He needs to be on his own , he needs someone to teach him proper foods to eat . Think of his health , you have already screwed up yours and still are in denial !! I pray he gets the help he’s gonna need .
I think she knows full well what she’s doing
She just doesn’t want to change, which is worse than being in d*n!al
I always wonder how they pay for that much food?
As a carb and sugar lover, I can relate to how much they love fast food and unhealthy snacks. I gained from 65kg to 87.5kg during 2019-2023 Aug. As a 165cm Asian female, I am overweighted. On Aug 14, I decided to seriously lose weight because I want to have baby in the next 2-3 years. I barely eat any carbs and quit all the snacks and drinks for my first week, lost 4.6kg. Within 2month, I lost 12kg. As of today, I am still 75.2kg but I no longer crave for food especially fast food. Changing eating habit is the most important thing for losing weight. It is not as hard as we thought and the result is quite encouraging. I will keep going and hope people who want to lose weight will join me to this healthy journey ❤
Carbs and seed oils are the problem. Seed oil was designed for lubricating machines, sealing wood and as a cheap lamp oil. Then they convinced us it was actually food.
Grass, grains and processed sugar have only been in the human diet for a blink in human history. Yet the Adventist cult food industry tells us that should be the base of our diet. There is no such thing as a healthy whole grain. It all turns to sugar in the body.
oh hey, we’re similar builds! I am 164cm and SE asian. Heaviest weight was 93kg back in early 2022. This morning I weighed in at 67kg. You’re doing amazing!! I have to agree with building the habit first before anything. Losing weight is a mental game and on some days, motivation isn’t enough. You have to completely change the way you think and function through good habits. Good luck! Don’t lose the weight too fast. Also, if you find that your weight loss plateaus, eat carbs again for a few weeks before going back to low carb (women respond really well to low carb diets but it messes up our hormones. this might also be significant if you want to have a baby)
I am 72kg on Nov 12. I have more carbs this week as I feel that I need a little bit of them. I mainly had lotus root, sweet potatoes and potatoes. May have some corn this week as well. :)
@@potatoejauregui thanks for sharing your weight loss journey with me. You are doing great! Are you still working on losing weight love?
I hope you're still doing well and that you're at or close to your goal! I'm proud of you for making that first step and choosing to work on yourself, you're amazing ♥
I’ve been a nurse for 22 years. It’s been my experience that MDs from the Middle East and the greater Asian continent are very polite but hilariously honest in a backhanded sort of way to their patients. My personal primary is Vietnamese and she roasts me at every appointment. 😂 I took my daughter to a checkup one day and she was cracking up. Every time my daughter wanted to do something she’d say, Hey you’re fat, your doctor says you have to go for a walk! 😂😂😂
That is pretty funny 😂
‘I don’t want my son to find me dead’. I’d say that’s the only time she considers him. ‘There are really only fast food shops around’ you’ve got a fecking kitchen!! Her son shouldn’t be in the position of being a carer as a boy. ‘I can’t get healthy options on the road’, she never eats healthy options. I don’t understand. I haven’t been able to eat because of surgery for disease - I had to stop eating and can only have hospital formula rdrinks. I haven’t eaten for 7 years so I can’t really bear the moaning about it. I certainly would inflict my problems on my son. She’s stealing his life from him. She really thought she could stuff herself with fatty food the whole time and get surgery without trying?!
“You in son” the audacity she’s used and abused her son mentally to the point where he’s always the one who does EVERYTHING. He needs to enjoy his life and live it it’s being wasted on taking care of his careless ignorant mother. Let her live alone and then she’ll come to know how much her son has done for her. Let her suffer her own consequences. She did this. You can be surprised your at that weight when you eat the size of a hippo. My gosh my only condolences to the poor son
She should ride her scooter all the way to Houston 😅
She asks her son "are you in". Really!! Maybe she should take care of herself!!
Stop stocking your homes with drink, chips etc. If you have them within your reach you will definitely eat them especially during midnight.
My sleep medicine makes me want to sleep on a full stomach.
Thankfully, I'm down to 190 after being up to 240 several years ago.
1:28 I am SICK AND TIRED of people who know they are intentionally hurting people they love, yet all they say about it is “I’m gonna keep doing it”
LMAO when she weighed in and the nurse said “uhh you went up” and she went I don’t need the details 😂😂😂😂😂 the nurse is me she rolled her eyes so hard 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that part took me out! Babyyy smh
Enablers should be charged with felony neglect. If they are old enough to know what they're doing is wrong, they should be held accountable!
Ten minutes of "joy" for a lifetime of misery. You ARE ruining your sons life! Sadly, if he's not careful her Son will head the same way. He's your 15 year old Son, not your husband!
7:14 I can’t stand how she sits there and cries about dying from her weight problem, and then she tries to confide in her son, who was probably on the edge of losing the patience, and saying ‘No. You’re on your own.’
Her son is heading to the same destination
I do feel bad for her son because he's the only one who takes care of her and i believe that he doesn't have to care for her but it's important that his mother should be getting physically active so she can lose weight and regain her ability to walk without the wheelchair. Excess fat can really do damage to your body and it's only going to get worse if you don't take action fast to burn it.
He could've just not got her the junk. The mother was absolutely abusive though.
Food can provide temporary pain relief. It doesn’t last long once you stop eating. Sweet and salty foods will give you a dopamine hit as well. Since she’s in pain from being overweight, she’ll want to keep eating to alleviate that. It’s a feedback loop that obese people can get stuck in.
Did she really expect to be approved that day but still eating like crazy? She’s insane.
"There's nothing but fast food around so that makes it tough." I lived in Houston for a year and that is an absolute lie. Houston has more decent restaurants than any city I've ever been to, even more than Austin where I now live.
They could have brought along a bag of fruit for snacks, packed sandwhiches, pop corn, etc. Fast food is NOT the "only option"
As of January 2023, she had lost 520 pounds and was planning on getting married. Nothing mentioned about her son, but it did say that she's a lot healthier now.
I love food but doing this is abusive to the pleasure food gives. And I feel so bad for him because she pushes her eating habits into him and forces him to enable even though it’s obvious he’s tired of it and doesn’t want to live like this. Usually enablers are ok with it or at least they just go along but he looks so miserable. She’s a horrible mother. Sorry this hit close to home because my step mom and dad force me to do things for them and I just feel trapped too.
@dianem7677 more like I’m out in the Amish country in the middle of no where, my step mom is in the military and has ran after me when I tried running from home and dragged me back to the house, I called police and they didn’t do anything about it, CPS and police only go to our front door, talk to my parents then leave, and even when I stay at a friends or family’s house they classify me as a missing person then even pressed charges on my older cousin for “kidnapping”. So I’m trapped. And they take all my money so I can’t afford shit. Call me weak or whatever but I cant, quite literally, do anything. The closest grocery store and gas station is a 30 minute drive. Also they have cameras all over the house. If I say I feel trapped it’s probably bc I am.
@dianem7677you have no idea about the situation. We moved to a place far away from family, they scared off my friends, they refuse to let me get my license, when I tried getting a job they said they won’t drive me, they sold my bike, they threaten to kick me out and so much more I won’t discuss on the internet. It’s not just about mentality and saying “No means no!” To people that are stronger than you and have everything to keep you from freedom. CPS and police were called numerous times but they’d talk to my parents then leave, not even check up on me. I’m weak financially and physically. But I literally can’t do anything about it. I’m currently trying to attend a nearby college so I can walk to it bc I know they’d use driving as a way to control me. “I’ll drive you if you do this” kind of thing. So I’m just gonna do my own thing and try my best with what I have.
How does she reverse the psychological damage to her son?
I watch these shows because I’m fascinated by choices people make.
😢 sad addiction issues. I hope she can turn her life around ❤
😂😂😂😂 SHE can't even turn around.
She did, she has lost over 500 pounds. This episode is 10+ years old. TLC is still profiting off her
@@BingQiuSupremacy that's good to hear she lost the weight at least ♥
@@BingQiuSupremacyas they should, they paid ALL expenses for her....
Her poor son!😢Taking away that electric wheelchair would do wonders!
"There's no good options on the road" bs, she's just making excuses like she has her whole life to keep eating what she wants and her poor son is so manipulated that he can't help but just go along. She's killing herself and her son, and it's sad that he's almost looking forward to her death so he could be free
The shade in that title! 😂
She has ‘spoused’ her son. 🤢
“Please don’t let me wreck” like she’s a NASCAR driver going full send into turn 4 on the last lap of the Daytona 500 lmfao
She has to eat fast food because she can't get in and out of the van, but says nothing about how she takes bathroom breaks. So gross to live that way.
Pauline Potter lost her weight and she looks happy and healthier 👍👍
How does she reverse the psychological damage to her son?
@@miryamamar9471poor boy is gonna need intense therapy and external help with forging his own independence. On top of harming his mental health, being his mums full-time carer certainly stunted his growth.
@@mayjailerxx Sadly her son is morbidly obese. I doubt if she cares.
She’s the worst of the worst. He needs to cut her off. She’s going to eat herself to death. And he’ll be left with the baggage.
I would do anything-ANYTHING- to help my parents if they needed it (unfortunately they do, sometimes). And I'm old! So, when I see this young son trying so hard to help his mom and struggling so much to have the life that any young person wants, it truly makes me sad.
What does she mean by possibly ruin his life she is taking his life away from him everyday he has to wait on her.
Do these people not watch the show before they go on it? Dr, Now always requires some weight loss. I have never seen him dismiss someone before giving them a chance.
Only fast food around? Umm grocery store
Perfect video to keep myself on diet.
The nurse, "ugh you went up" 😂
Her son needs to just leave….she’d figure things out …poor kid, omg 😢
Hits hard cuz I know how terrible it is to have a fat mother... :(((
I'm sorry but I can barely look at her without feeling nausea.. And what she's doing to her poor son!
Not a single tear, she doesn’t give a crap.
Well said 👍
The fact that she says she’s aware of what she’s doing to her son and doesn’t make an effort to change is just selfish. Ik it might be hard but you gotta think more about yours sons future and his health too
😂 her getting into the van
"Drinkie" "Ouchie"? "Possibly ruin my son's life"? She needs more help than even Dr. Now can give her. Institutionalization, perhaps.
Horrible mother, poor kid deserves better.
It made me so mad when she talked about "no other solution than fast food on the road" yes there are, vegetable sticks, homemade salads, whole fruits, pasta salad even... Its not that she couldn't, it's that she didn't want to.
Following her son to the grocery store on a mobility scooter is pathetic.
She was also on Supersize vs Superskinny, love that show!
So sad. If you really look at her face she's a natural, freckle-faced beauty. And yet ... this.
Right??? I hate when pretty looking people are this fat. It's like the easiest thing you can do to be beautiful and it's just to do literally nothing (not eat) :D The things I need to do to even look OKAY and these people have it so easy...
For everyone coming down on her, you're absolutely right, and you need to understand that addictions are not logical. You can't reason your way out of an addiction. You have to heal the emotional part first. Humans are irrational, emotional creatures first and foremost. Logic is a tool to help guide us, but emotions are our reason for being.