I was actually just thinking while watching this episode that Abby is looking much happier and more settled than she has in probably the last year or so. It's really great to see
Your baby just turned one, just as soon as he started to have some sort of independence you had another baby. once your guys new born is older and isn’t as dependent on you as a newborn is, both your boys grow, you’ll feel that again. Trust me. I am on #5. Once your life gets on a good schedule with your new baby you’ll get back into your groove, and have more of those moments. I promise it gets better.
I truly had a hard time with the Santa thing also! What Abby said is exactly what I thought when raising my son! I didn't want to lie to my son... I think it sets our kids up for distrust in us! It's a sad thing! I would just tell them there is a Santa spirit in all of us, and we should all give to each other, and Santa sets that example... I also told my husband the big gifts will be from us, and Santa will be giving him the socks and underwear! I'm not giving the credit to Santa!
Matt & Abby communicate so well! I love this podcast because it can show so many people how to communicate your feelings in a healthy way. Marriage and life isn't always rainbows snd butterflies and I think Matt & Abby show a really great way to get through those hard moments.
Abby, pelvic floor physical therapy can help and doesn't have to be invasive. I went to one at a physical therapist in a clinic and she didn't even need to do a physical exam. She just showed me exercises and she did touch my crouch area, but it was over my clothes. It was just to feel the movement from the exercises. It can really help if you are suffering from incontinence. It can also prevent your uterus from prolapsing when you're older.
This!! Also - physical therapists literally have doctorate degrees😂. So yes. They are technically doctors. But I think if she went to someone’s house I doubt it was a licensed PT. I don’t think people realize that just because someone claims to be a “pelvic floor specialist” it does NOT mean they know what they are doing or that they have the education and licensure to back it up.
This. Spent too many years getting my doctorate to not say anything. I love treating pelvic floor especially pregnancy and postpartum. Don’t go somewhere sketchy expecting good medical care 🤷🏻♀️ also- you don’t have to pee on yourself for the rest of life just because you had babies Edit to say internal assessment is 100% up to the patients. I don’t push that on anyone that doesn’t feel comfortable and I never do it on day 1 so you don’t feel the pressure.
I think it’s awful how negative people have been about you two. No one understands a relationship except the two involved and really no one should judge in any rude way. It’s uncalled for especially since the two of you don’t share everything for obvious reasons. Sending support ❤
No its called picking up on the obvious....matt has made a song saying how he misses the old abby...and it's obvious he feels neglected since the kids...he's trying to tell her that...strangers on the Internet can pick up on it but not her...
they put their life online, and incredibly personal stuff that should be kept between a married couple. if my husband made a song about how he misses the old me id be so sad lol, he'd never say or think that let alone make a song for the world to hear
@@tashaax1993xanimalloverxthose are very normal feelings to have as a young couple or really any couple. His coping with a song and it about a big deal. Just bc someone misses the "old you" it's not a reason for divorce or to be mad at them or resent them. You poor kids that come from divorced parents have no understanding of commitment and the fact that life comes in seasons.
@tashaax1993xanimalloverx It's completely normal for both the wife and husband to both long for their old selves. Having kids is a huge transition, and huge identity shift for Mom and Dad. It seems like they are working through it with love, communication, and loyalty.
Abby never be ashamed of your mom's instinct. It is NORMAL and GOOD. This season of your life where it seems everyone is jealous of your mind being on the babies is temporary. As they grow older you will be able to fully focus on yourself and your other relationships more.
Very well said! It truly makes me upset that people get mad at moms when they can’t stop being a MOM. It’s a good thing and it changes as the children grown.
Mom instincts and anxiety are different. The babies were with her parents and from how she’s spoken about her mom she trusts her 100% plus the parents and grandchildren are probably very used to each other. I feel like maybe she hasn’t traveled like this since having two kids to care for and had some separation anxiety as well as the babies. I think she needs to get out of the house more sans babies maybe that’ll help her regulate her worries
Abby is a SAHM so she is dependent on her children. She will find a comfortable detachment when her boys are able to play with each other. Mothers who place their children in daycares as early as six weeks old don't have this dependency and connection with their children.
The Thankfulness and Sincere Gratefulness Abby showed towards Matt had me in tears as well. So Beautiful. Obviously they are not getting a divorce. There is true commitment there.
I cried at the part where Abby talks about how much she loves getting to see different versions of Matt in different stages of life. I yearn for something like this in my life and I’m so happy you guys have this together. Wish you guys all the best. I appreciate you sharing this with us.
I'm so happy you talked about the Santa topic! I have also really wondered about introducing Santa to my baby. I remember my parents having the Santa tradition, but always just keeping the spotlight on what the holiday actually means. Like yeah, Santa is there, but he's not the reason we celebrate Christmas. Then reminding us that Jesus was born and celebrating our faith is the largest part of Christmas. So, when we found out Santa wasn't real, it was like oh okay, that's fine at least we can still celebrate the fact that Jesus was born and we'll be able to see him again someday. 🥰
I’m going to get flack for this comment, but taking a 1 year old to an expensive trip to Disney is not a good idea. They are way too young to remember it and enjoy it. It’s definitely more for the parents.
My husband and I have been married for 21yrs and our kids are ages 20,18, and 16. The most beautiful part of marriage; is learning to love the new versions of each other as you go through life. I believe having children forever changes us, but other major life events do also. The death of a close loved one, loss of job, traumatic injury of a spouse or ourselves. It's okay though. It's meant to be that way. We find each other and fight for our partner through all of life's ups and downs. That is both beauty, pain, and triumph. It's the reason something deep inside us feels moved when we see an elderly couple still holding hands and loving each other. That is a lifetime of conscious perseverance speaking for itself. BTW I LOVE your podcast and it's the only one I watch every episode of. Thank you!
Okay relationship pro tip... 😂 After your kids are down for bed, go take a hot shower or bath with your hubby. This allows y'all both to decompress and have one on one bonding time. 💯 Also you can fully be present because your kids are sleeping safe and sound.
Matt and Abby, I appreciate you guys so much. I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years and my friends in 2-3 month relationships always seem concerned that we have fights sometimes and that we aren’t totally infatuated with each other anymore. You guys make me feel normal, love is so much more than butterflies in your stomach.
I’ve had the same thing with my chronically single friends! Once my relationship got stable and committed for life, I quickly realized that I feel much better reconnecting with my other friends that are in long term relationships, engaged and married. It also reflected better on my relationship.
I've experienced this too!! 7.5 years over here. It's totally normal to have disagreements. In my opinion, it's unhealthy if you aren't because then someone is just giving in and agreeing with the other. Communication is key and doing it in a respectful way, but this is SO normal
They’re such a normal HEALTHY Couple. Ppl have seen too many filtered relationships online and thing they’re so toxic and they’re just not. I think they’re just real and it’s REFRESHING. I’m so tired of seeing perfect people all the time.
I will say from experience the best ages to bring kids to Disney world are from 8-12. We went with kids from 4-12 and the 4 year old and the 5 year old was horrible. The 9, 10 and 12 year olds had a blast! Younger kids get grumpy and cannot handle it. It’s just too much for them. And Abby, sometimes you need to enjoy time with your hubby, y’all were in Disney world, your kids will cry and that’s okay, it’s also okay to be worried especially since they are so young. Having your mom there is amazing and helpful and she raised you and you turned out amazing! 😊 Being a good mom is awesome but being a good wife is also important, y’all have to be a team to do this. Matt, your kids are so young, the couple time will be limited and your wife will be worried. I love that you said maybe we can try night time together. You will find ways to manage that you just have to figure out what works. Life is going to be so different forever now with children but it doesn’t mean it’s in a bad way just a different way. You will make amazing memories with your family and you will enjoy the quality time with your wife more because you won’t get as much of it. You both are doing great. Couples fight and argue and have rough times, the important part is that you work through it and don’t give up. My husband and I work together, we run a business and we are together 24/7 lol. It gets hard, we actually argue more at work than at home 😂 I think that’s because our jobs are super stressful but we make it work and I’m so blessed I get to be around him all the time even though he drives me nuts sometimes, I’m sure I drive him nuts too! Please don’t shy away from showing your real life with real problems because this world is too full of fakes and the perfect picture. The real perfect picture family is the ones with hardships. ❤
About Christmas, I just wanted to add my perspective as we are raising our daughter (who is almost 3) that the magic of Christmas comes from the memories you make with the people who love you, and those who you love. We don't go overboard with Santa bringing food/water to all the poor kids, but simply that Christmas is what you make it. Santa visits if she wants him to visit, and we don't make it too elaborate so we don't have that "earth shattering" heartbreak when the reality hits.
Matt, I urge you to read about matrescence and pospartum. Emotional and hormonal Pospartum lasts between 1 or 2 years. The best thing you can do for your baby and your wife is understanding that it is still very soon, that her brain is now designed to pay full attention to the baby. This is jus biologically that way. Happens to every mother and you shouldn't try to change it. It is not her the one who needs to make an effort to pay more attention to you. It is you the one who should mature, accept that this is how things work, and accept that for a period of time you will not be the center of her world and attention. Pospartum season is not about you, you are the one who should protect the mum and baby bond. Also, your wife is actually an exception because she is actually more able to leave her kids more than most women. IT IS STILL VERY SOON. Stop putting pressure
I think that's unnecessary. I think he understands that perfectly fine, but he also misses his wife, and that is perfectly fine and normal. We are all but humans.
I absolutely agree marriage is a full lifetime commitment. It's hard work but most fulfilling and well worth it. We've been married almost 20 years now. I couldn't imagine spending the rest of my life with anyone else. Through good times and bad through sickness and in health.
TMI trigger warning. I had my second and went to work out at 6 weeks hit it to hard and actually caused a anal fissure it was 2 months of hell :( Going number 2 was shards of glass and crying each time to the point I trained my body once a day and went on a special diet. I ended up having to have surgery after all other aspects (medicine, hot baths, creams etc) did not heal it. The surgery was a saving grace my 2nd child is now 11 years old and have 2 more kids and have had no other issues but that area is so sensitive. FEEL FOR YOU!
All the things you were experiencing, tailbone, feeling gross on rides etc is a symptom of doing too much too soon after having a C-section and post partum!!!!
Abby, pospartum instincts are part of nature and are not something you need to fight back, you don't HAVE TO disconnect from your babies if your body and brain are not ready yet. Yes, you are a wife, a friend and all that, but you shouldn't feel the pressure to be there for them during pospartum. They should have the maturity to INFORM themselves about how the pospartum brain works and understand that during this period They should take out any expectations off you and actually be the ones who adjust to you. Also, the comments Matt makes sounding worried about you never being the same again... You will never be the same again. You have gone through the matrescence. You are a mother now forever. Your brain has physiologically changed forever. No, you will never be that child you were when you got married. Women grow and change when they become mothers forever, that's beautiful you shouldn't feel the pressure to go against nature and go back. Your husband has to learn to accept and embrace your pospartum version
My Grampa always told my mom and her sisters that Santa was a game that adults play with children like an imaginary game that kids play all the time. He said adults love to bring the spirit of Christmas to children through Saint Nicholas. He said Santa is only as real as we make him, and whenever they questioned if Santa was real he would say that Santa isn’t a person, he’s a personification of Christmas cheer ❤️ Hope that helps!
Oh my gosh, thank you for this! This is a great idea!! My oldest son questions everything, my husband and I find ourselves scrambling sometimes to find a way explain things. What a sweet way to teach kids, your grandpa sounds lovely ❤
We didn't "play" Santa until my son was 6. We told him that Santa is pretend and that some people like to pretend he comes to their house. I asked if he wanted to play that game. I told him that Santa brings toys to kids who don't have any, so we left toys by the door for Santa to pick up and take to other kids.
It’s not that it was a bad travel day for you, it was just so overwhelming in that moment. Talking about it does not make you privileged. You guys are great!
You guys are overthinking the whole Santa thing way too much. Lol My whole entire life I grew up knowing that Santa was not real. From a little kids perspective, I was never sad about it because our parents taught us that we have everything because of Jesus Christ. He is the one who gives us work, finances to buy food on our tables and the presents under the tree. We were taught that Christmas was all about Jesus being born, family, love, joy and not some fat old man delivering presents😂 Kids grow up being lied to their whole childhood.. 🙄
Do you have kids? I totally get both of their sides. But I get why he would be bummed. He never said he wasn’t worried about their children. I think he probably just wishes she could relax and enjoy herself more 😊 I tend to be more like Abby in this area and it can definitely affect your partner and your relationship
Take a shot everytime Matt interrupts her in the middle of a sentence I used to love yall and I do appreciate how honest and open you are but for the love of GOD he never lets her finish
When my sisters and I discovered Santa wasnt a guy in a red suit that snuck into our house lol, my parents told us that it was about keeping the spirit of St. Nicholas whose goal was to bring cheer for the celebration of Jesus’s birth! I think that was an awesome way to do it and will definitely do it that way with my kids!
just to add another little aspect to the Christmas conversation, I'd like to add the perspective of someone who never believed in Santa. For me, Christmas was still so magical and wonderful, and I could enjoy the Santa movies and everything with the same Christmas spirit even tho I knew he wasn't real, so that's just a thought 😊 my family had our traditions, like reading the passage about Jesus' birth every Christmas Eve, and looking at lights... there's plenty of ways to add Christmas magic without Santa, but again, these are just my thoughts based on my own perspective and experience 😊
Thank you guys for being so honest about your struggles! It is so easy to think that you are the only one struggling and to see that other people are struggling with someone of the same things is such a gift.
On the christmas topic, in latin america it’s not Santa that brings the presents. We believe baby Jesus brings all the presents and to me it was always so magical. It was the best time of the year that even now as an adult I still absolutely love christmas more than any other time of the year. Even though it was tough to learn that my parents were behind the whole thing, i still feel so grateful that they did all of that for me and my siblings and now i cant wait to do it with my kids and see the happiness and excitement in their little eyes in the morning when they find all of Santa’s presents.
I'm 41 and have never been to Disneyland and my kids probably won't get to either until they are adults. Even though I work 2 jobs as a single parent it doesn't look promising ever getting to go. The money I make is just enough to put a roof over our heads, a car to drive and food on the table! But congrats to those that have experienced Disneyland! Edited bcuz yall guys are totally awesome, funny and sooo honest I'm the same way and I love that about you both💜
We never lied to our 3 children. We taught them to never ruin it for other kids. Think about it why does the kids who are from richer parents get a cool gift from santa and the child who is poor got food? I love the idea of santa but its not for our house.
It seems pretty obvious that Matt has some type of resentment against you LO. L and he was definitely like overly mad at your parents about that. And also him talking about him needing attention. How old is your little baby? Like not even 6 months old? That baby is still attached to you. You're still breastfeeding. Of course, that's all you can think about. ! I love your guys as podcast. But not as just seeming like a negative little girlittle girl right now.
58:36 I have a feeling what I’m about to say is going to be very unpopular opinion but I also feel most people are going to say why they choose too. My husband and I decided before we had any kids we were not going to do Santa clause. This was a VERY UNPOPULAR decision to our family especially my father. We both believed as children so it had nothing to do with our family or even our faith. We now have six kids soon to be seven. We have been honest about Santa but we talk about how he is a character at Christmas. We also tell them that the name is used on presents that you don’t want anyone to know who gave the gift. Now my oldest chose to believe after a certain point he is seven now. We have been 100% honest with him but I told him if he wants to believe then that is fine. I personally go out of my way to be honest with my kids. It’s a painful process and when they ask a question I try to find an appropriate age way to answer it. I personally don’t like to be told something because the person is trying to be nice. I can’t stand with other adults will tell my kids white lies. My neighbor told my son we don’t get tornados in our state. Which isn’t true but what is true it’s less likely in the area we are currently living in. I had to tell him the truth which wasn’t easy. I know she didn’t want him to worry about tornados but for me if we did get one it would be more harmful for him in the long run.
God gave us those ‘mom instincts’ for a reason, so don’t be ashamed. Don’t listen to the negative people. You are such a refreshing young couple to watch. You both are younger than my husband and I, but you are people we would love to be friends with if we lived near you. We love watching you both and seeing you both grow as a couple. God bless both of you! Keep up the great content!
I love the end part of the podcast where Abby is all emotional and says all the beautiful things about Matt and how she loves him, and then there's Matt: I've seen you get pooped on hahahaha love you guys, you are the best and I love how this podcast makes me think about things, as life brings all the things you already went through, and like we are the same age, but in different stages and I love that about this, because I can relate so much and grow and see a new perspective
I love you two as a couple and as individuals! Relationships have seasons as well as plenty of ups and downs. Which only makes sense since humans are flawed! Thank you for being real!!
Mat, you need to understand that she has a newborn. You have a newborn. Life changes after having a baby. You would have been more understanding if you were older
I did not grow up thinking Santa was real, and Christmas has always been the most magical time (total Christmas nerd here). I have four kids and they also have never believed in Santa. There are so many great traditions for Christmas we have never felt like we were missing out. Presents mean more when we know who to show gratitude to. They truly appreciate the story of Christ, and I can honestly tell my kids that I do not lie to them. Also, something to think about is the idea of Santa only giving gifts if you are nice and not naughty. Tying gifts to behavior is not something I like to do. My kids have been really good about not spoiling it for others. When my oldest was little, she did say something to one little girl. Since then I have just been intentional with prepping them.
IDK, personally I think the couples that never acknowledge or discuss their conflict openly are probably closer to divorce than you guys 😅🤦🏼♀️ People are so silly!!
About Santa, I was raised with the truth about Santa. But we still joined in with the silly little gifts from "Santa". And setting out milk and cookies for "Santa", even though we knew it was my parents that would eat them. Lol And I never felt lied to. Best of both worlds.
Conflict is part of any relationship that is real! We should embrace conflict because it allows us to gain a better understanding of ourself and the other person. We should be thankful that Abby and Matt are sharing their personal relationship so openly and raw. It is truly very difficult to do and very commendable. Keep doing you Matt and Abby, we love you 🥰
Not even 3 minutes in and I’m inspired by Abby’s work out commitment… my Boys and a year and a half apart too, and they are 2 and 4 now, and I still have yet to go back to working out daily, and I certainly wouldn’t have the energy to wake up at 5am to do so! It’s truly inspiring! Side note: both of my boys sleep through the night, too, and I’ve been done breastfeeding for over two years🙈
Abby- it could have just been a workout injury type thing, but it sounds like that could potentially be a pilonidal cyst. They occur on the tailbone/top of the crack area 😅😂 and it sounds like what you are experiencing!! Might not be it- but could be!
I absolutely L❤VED what Abby said at the end about loving Matt throughout so many chapters and growing together as you evolved into different versions of yourselves ❤❤❤. That TRULY is such a blessing in marriage and the longer you’re together and stick through good times and bad only makes you both stronger and fall in love even MORE as the years fly by. ❤ I can remember having the thought on my wedding day that it would be impossible to love my husband more than I did on that day and 10 years later my heart just continues to inflate with more love. You two speak really well, I have a hard time finding words to express my thoughts 😂. Love your relationship. Thanks for sharing! 😊
Abby just WAIT! You're riding tea cups NOW. When my son graduated high school he took me skydiving. SCARIEST THING EVER!! Seeing my first born jump out of an airplane was the most horrifying thing I've ever witnessed! Then I went right behind him. Biggest adrenaline rush you could imagine! Then you pull the cord and realize you ARE going to survive lol! 😂 My baby is 21 were doing it next. I'm excited and terrified at the same time.🤗
Abby is EXACTLY right about the beauty and conflict resolution that’s part of a lasting, healthy marriage. As humans we are ever-changing and (hopefully) growing in positive ways. By the same token, we make mistakes and may even unintentionally hurt our spouse. There has to be communication, respect, love and forgiveness for a marriage to work. The beauty of it is that you literally get to live this crazy thing called life with the one person who you love deeply & know has your best interests at heart. You will not always be crazy about each other and marriage is a lot of work sometimes, but when you get on the other side of the hard moments it is always worth the work. As traditional vows state - for better or worse, richer or poorer, in sickness and in health. 1 Corinthians 13 ❤️
I want to say…thank you for helping me stay present in my relationship and the stages we are in now an how slowly it is taking to move to the next. That’s ok!! We are both growing and leveling up to be better for each other. Thank you for the insight
When you have to go pee GO! I am 52 now and have held my pee for long periods and now I have accidents if I don't go now. That's from holding my pee for long periods of time
I love you guys - realest couple out there. My husband and I have been together since we were kids too, and I always tell him how much you guys remind me of us. It’s refreshing to see a younger couple who understands marriage isn’t perfect, and that doesn’t mean divorce.
Honestly, I think the hate is coming from Matt’s immaturity. The inappropriate questions and comments is funny at certain times but he also needs to understand that it’s not always okay to say everything that comes to your mind.
🙏🏼 teach your kids to not give into the commercialization of the world. It’s not real it doesn’t last. Teach them about Jesus and family and being together.
We always said that we wouldn't lie if our kids asked outright about Santa, the Easter bunny, or the tooth fairy. Our son was very young when he asked if Santa was real so we explained that the way most people think about "santa" isn't real, but the story of st Nicholas (where it came from) is real. The fact that the story has changed and become more magical and false, doesn't make it bad or wrong to believe. We just make sure he lets other people believe in the magic and show kindness to others by not ruining the magic for them. We also put the focus back on why we get and give gifts and what we celebrate at Christmas rather than the santa narrative..works for us
Everything about your videos makes me want to watch more! Everything you say is so relatable and honest, thank you for being here and sharing stories with us ❤️
I know this is from a couple weeks ago. But, I am expecting my first child and have thought about the while Santa thing, and I recently saw something that really stuck with me. This family let their children believe in Santa and when their son came to them and asked if he was real they said "do you actually want to know the answer cause you can't unknow it" and the son of course said yes. So the parents said "well, the answer is yes and no. Is he a man in a red suit with a beard that sneaks down your chimney to give you presents, no. But he is the truly selfless act of giving without expecting any credit for that giving." They said "all those presents from Santa, they were from us, but we gave them to you without you know we got you them, without taking any credit for them. So no he isn't real in the human sense we think of, but he is real as a concept." I really liked that, because it teaches your kids a very good lesson on selfless acts and serving others without expecting anything in return.
I totally get it Abby, just keep doing your workouts and your pelvic floor will continue to get stronger. You’re honestly doing great being 3 months out from second pregnancy so close together! Just FYI: a pelvic floor specialist is usually a physical therapist (either a masters but now most have doctorate degrees) with a special pelvic floor certification. Love you guys❤
Loved this episode! Will always love how sincere and open you guys are. Im so sorry there are so many trolls online giving you so much flak! You are both incredible partners to each other and wonderful parents to your babies . So so excited for next weeks episode! Hearing from Jess and Gabe is going to be so fun! My two favorite youtube couples in one place!
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I was actually just thinking while watching this episode that Abby is looking much happier and more settled than she has in probably the last year or so. It's really great to see
Your baby just turned one, just as soon as he started to have some sort of independence you had another baby.
once your guys new born is older and isn’t as dependent on you as a newborn is, both your boys grow, you’ll feel that again. Trust me. I am on #5. Once your life gets on a good schedule with your new baby you’ll get back into your groove, and have more of those moments. I promise it gets better.
Pleaseeee do a house tour at some point! Before and after photos even. So cool to see your personal style develop in your home! 🖤🏡
I truly had a hard time with the Santa thing also! What Abby said is exactly what I thought when raising my son! I didn't want to lie to my son... I think it sets our kids up for distrust in us! It's a sad thing! I would just tell them there is a Santa spirit in all of us, and we should all give to each other, and Santa sets that example...
I also told my husband the big gifts will be from us, and Santa will be giving him the socks and underwear! I'm not giving the credit to Santa!
When you mentioned the ladybug in the room, I thought of Jenny 🍎
You tell them why some people believe in Santa and explain why to not spill the tea. It worked for my friends kid and I’m using that moto
Matt & Abby communicate so well! I love this podcast because it can show so many people how to communicate your feelings in a healthy way. Marriage and life isn't always rainbows snd butterflies and I think Matt & Abby show a really great way to get through those hard moments.
Abby, pelvic floor physical therapy can help and doesn't have to be invasive. I went to one at a physical therapist in a clinic and she didn't even need to do a physical exam. She just showed me exercises and she did touch my crouch area, but it was over my clothes. It was just to feel the movement from the exercises. It can really help if you are suffering from incontinence. It can also prevent your uterus from prolapsing when you're older.
The pelvic floor people
This!! Also - physical therapists literally have doctorate degrees😂. So yes. They are technically doctors. But I think if she went to someone’s house I doubt it was a licensed PT. I don’t think people realize that just because someone claims to be a “pelvic floor specialist” it does NOT mean they know what they are doing or that they have the education and licensure to back it up.
This. Spent too many years getting my doctorate to not say anything. I love treating pelvic floor especially pregnancy and postpartum. Don’t go somewhere sketchy expecting good medical care 🤷🏻♀️ also- you don’t have to pee on yourself for the rest of life just because you had babies
Edit to say internal assessment is 100% up to the patients. I don’t push that on anyone that doesn’t feel comfortable and I never do it on day 1 so you don’t feel the pressure.
Abby needs to see a doctor about her tailbone/"butthole" issue. She may need to have a pilonidal cyst surgically removed. 😬
Those are so painful, I went through that twice because the dr screwed up my first surgery 💕
I was going to say that! I had it and it was so painful
I think it’s awful how negative people have been about you two. No one understands a relationship except the two involved and really no one should judge in any rude way. It’s uncalled for especially since the two of you don’t share everything for obvious reasons. Sending support ❤
No its called picking up on the obvious....matt has made a song saying how he misses the old abby...and it's obvious he feels neglected since the kids...he's trying to tell her that...strangers on the Internet can pick up on it but not her...
they put their life online, and incredibly personal stuff that should be kept between a married couple. if my husband made a song about how he misses the old me id be so sad lol, he'd never say or think that let alone make a song for the world to hear
but either way, if you put your life and marriage online, expect negativity
@@tashaax1993xanimalloverxthose are very normal feelings to have as a young couple or really any couple. His coping with a song and it about a big deal. Just bc someone misses the "old you" it's not a reason for divorce or to be mad at them or resent them. You poor kids that come from divorced parents have no understanding of commitment and the fact that life comes in seasons.
@tashaax1993xanimalloverx It's completely normal for both the wife and husband to both long for their old selves. Having kids is a huge transition, and huge identity shift for Mom and Dad. It seems like they are working through it with love, communication, and loyalty.
I just have to say...that is a beautiful sweater on you, Abby. Sometimes the simple things bring out more of our beauty. This is one of your times ❤
Very cool that there’s going to be a podcast with Jess and Gabe! Looking forward to that one!
Abby never be ashamed of your mom's instinct. It is NORMAL and GOOD. This season of your life where it seems everyone is jealous of your mind being on the babies is temporary. As they grow older you will be able to fully focus on yourself and your other relationships more.
Very well said! It truly makes me upset that people get mad at moms when they can’t stop being a MOM. It’s a good thing and it changes as the children grown.
Mom instincts and anxiety are different. The babies were with her parents and from how she’s spoken about her mom she trusts her 100% plus the parents and grandchildren are probably very used to each other. I feel like maybe she hasn’t traveled like this since having two kids to care for and had some separation anxiety as well as the babies. I think she needs to get out of the house more sans babies maybe that’ll help her regulate her worries
Abby is a SAHM so she is dependent on her children. She will find a comfortable detachment when her boys are able to play with each other. Mothers who place their children in daycares as early as six weeks old don't have this dependency and connection with their children.
The Thankfulness and Sincere Gratefulness Abby showed towards Matt had me in tears as well. So Beautiful. Obviously they are not getting a divorce. There is true commitment there.
I agree with you
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I cried at the part where Abby talks about how much she loves getting to see different versions of Matt in different stages of life. I yearn for something like this in my life and I’m so happy you guys have this together. Wish you guys all the best. I appreciate you sharing this with us.
Yes!! ❤❤ same! 😊
I'm so happy you talked about the Santa topic! I have also really wondered about introducing Santa to my baby. I remember my parents having the Santa tradition, but always just keeping the spotlight on what the holiday actually means. Like yeah, Santa is there, but he's not the reason we celebrate Christmas. Then reminding us that Jesus was born and celebrating our faith is the largest part of Christmas. So, when we found out Santa wasn't real, it was like oh okay, that's fine at least we can still celebrate the fact that Jesus was born and we'll be able to see him again someday. 🥰
amen ❤
Amen!!!
Agreed!! Kids being the only one without Santa is it’s own issue
I’m going to get flack for this comment, but taking a 1 year old to an expensive trip to Disney is not a good idea. They are way too young to remember it and enjoy it. It’s definitely more for the parents.
My husband and I have been married for 21yrs and our kids are ages 20,18, and 16. The most beautiful part of marriage; is learning to love the new versions of each other as you go through life. I believe having children forever changes us, but other major life events do also. The death of a close loved one, loss of job, traumatic injury of a spouse or ourselves. It's okay though. It's meant to be that way. We find each other and fight for our partner through all of life's ups and downs. That is both beauty, pain, and triumph. It's the reason something deep inside us feels moved when we see an elderly couple still holding hands and loving each other. That is a lifetime of conscious perseverance speaking for itself. BTW I LOVE your podcast and it's the only one I watch every episode of. Thank you!
Yes! ❤. That’s the most beautiful thing about marriage, the journey through all of it ❤❤❤
Abby is looking so much prettier everyday, unbelievable
Am I the only one excited about their Collab with Jess and Gabe next week ? 😲 finally ! The best people collabing with more 'best people' ❤️✨
Okay relationship pro tip... 😂 After your kids are down for bed, go take a hot shower or bath with your hubby. This allows y'all both to decompress and have one on one bonding time. 💯 Also you can fully be present because your kids are sleeping safe and sound.
Matt and Abby, I appreciate you guys so much. I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years and my friends in 2-3 month relationships always seem concerned that we have fights sometimes and that we aren’t totally infatuated with each other anymore. You guys make me feel normal, love is so much more than butterflies in your stomach.
I’ve had the same thing with my chronically single friends! Once my relationship got stable and committed for life, I quickly realized that I feel much better reconnecting with my other friends that are in long term relationships, engaged and married. It also reflected better on my relationship.
I've experienced this too!! 7.5 years over here. It's totally normal to have disagreements. In my opinion, it's unhealthy if you aren't because then someone is just giving in and agreeing with the other. Communication is key and doing it in a respectful way, but this is SO normal
They’re such a normal HEALTHY Couple. Ppl have seen too many filtered relationships online and thing they’re so toxic and they’re just not. I think they’re just real and it’s REFRESHING. I’m so tired of seeing perfect people all the time.
I LOVE your comment! 🙌🙌. You’re exactly right! So many “couples” channels seem for filtered. I love seeing authentic relationships ❤
Abby: “I haven’t cried in so long on the pod!”
also Abby two minutes later: -sobbing-
Really not trying to hate but its so annoying when people think just bc they have kids they dont have to follow the rules like everybody else 😅
I will say from experience the best ages to bring kids to Disney world are from 8-12. We went with kids from 4-12 and the 4 year old and the 5 year old was horrible. The 9, 10 and 12 year olds had a blast! Younger kids get grumpy and cannot handle it. It’s just too much for them.
And Abby, sometimes you need to enjoy time with your hubby, y’all were in Disney world, your kids will cry and that’s okay, it’s also okay to be worried especially since they are so young. Having your mom there is amazing and helpful and she raised you and you turned out amazing! 😊
Being a good mom is awesome but being a good wife is also important, y’all have to be a team to do this.
Matt, your kids are so young, the couple time will be limited and your wife will be worried. I love that you said maybe we can try night time together. You will find ways to manage that you just have to figure out what works. Life is going to be so different forever now with children but it doesn’t mean it’s in a bad way just a different way. You will make amazing memories with your family and you will enjoy the quality time with your wife more because you won’t get as much of it.
You both are doing great. Couples fight and argue and have rough times, the important part is that you work through it and don’t give up. My husband and I work together, we run a business and we are together 24/7 lol. It gets hard, we actually argue more at work than at home 😂 I think that’s because our jobs are super stressful but we make it work and I’m so blessed I get to be around him all the time even though he drives me nuts sometimes, I’m sure I drive him nuts too! Please don’t shy away from showing your real life with real problems because this world is too full of fakes and the perfect picture. The real perfect picture family is the ones with hardships. ❤
Moral of the story get up earlier and be ready and get to the airport a couple hours before your flight like your suppose to .
Omg I would love to see Abby box 😂 She'd kick ass and then apologize excessively 😂😂
Lol at Abby at the end saying such beautiful, sweet things about Matt and Matt just mentioning weird, gross things. 😂
I also have spinabifida…same experiences with tail bone
Get it checked
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This podcast and Jess and Gabe’s pod cast are my two favorite! I’m so excited
I’m usually a “silent subscriber” but I just want to say how much I enjoy this podcast. It’s such an easy listen and nice escape from everyday stress!
👍. Same 😊
YES on the post pregnancy motion sickness!! I literally feel sick swinging next to my toddler at the playground lol. Glad I’m not alone💛
About Christmas, I just wanted to add my perspective as we are raising our daughter (who is almost 3) that the magic of Christmas comes from the memories you make with the people who love you, and those who you love. We don't go overboard with Santa bringing food/water to all the poor kids, but simply that Christmas is what you make it. Santa visits if she wants him to visit, and we don't make it too elaborate so we don't have that "earth shattering" heartbreak when the reality hits.
Matt, I urge you to read about matrescence and pospartum. Emotional and hormonal Pospartum lasts between 1 or 2 years. The best thing you can do for your baby and your wife is understanding that it is still very soon, that her brain is now designed to pay full attention to the baby. This is jus biologically that way. Happens to every mother and you shouldn't try to change it. It is not her the one who needs to make an effort to pay more attention to you. It is you the one who should mature, accept that this is how things work, and accept that for a period of time you will not be the center of her world and attention. Pospartum season is not about you, you are the one who should protect the mum and baby bond. Also, your wife is actually an exception because she is actually more able to leave her kids more than most women. IT IS STILL VERY SOON. Stop putting pressure
I think that's unnecessary. I think he understands that perfectly fine, but he also misses his wife, and that is perfectly fine and normal. We are all but humans.
I absolutely agree marriage is a full lifetime commitment. It's hard work but most fulfilling and well worth it. We've been married almost 20 years now. I couldn't imagine spending the rest of my life with anyone else. Through good times and bad through sickness and in health.
❤❤❤ same. 20 yrs in May. Marriage isn’t always easy but overcoming hard times make the good so much better and you only get stronger bc of it. 😊❤
I totally relate to what Abby was saying about becoming a mom and feeling so distracted when you're away from your kids.
i love how you guys didn’t stop the honesty even if you got hated for it. someone has to show people that what happens in their family is normal!
TMI trigger warning. I had my second and went to work out at 6 weeks hit it to hard and actually caused a anal fissure it was 2 months of hell :( Going number 2 was shards of glass and crying each time to the point I trained my body once a day and went on a special diet. I ended up having to have surgery after all other aspects (medicine, hot baths, creams etc) did not heal it. The surgery was a saving grace my 2nd child is now 11 years old and have 2 more kids and have had no other issues but that area is so sensitive. FEEL FOR YOU!
All the things you were experiencing, tailbone, feeling gross on rides etc is a symptom of doing too much too soon after having a C-section and post partum!!!!
Abby, pospartum instincts are part of nature and are not something you need to fight back, you don't HAVE TO disconnect from your babies if your body and brain are not ready yet. Yes, you are a wife, a friend and all that, but you shouldn't feel the pressure to be there for them during pospartum. They should have the maturity to INFORM themselves about how the pospartum brain works and understand that during this period They should take out any expectations off you and actually be the ones who adjust to you. Also, the comments Matt makes sounding worried about you never being the same again... You will never be the same again. You have gone through the matrescence. You are a mother now forever. Your brain has physiologically changed forever. No, you will never be that child you were when you got married. Women grow and change when they become mothers forever, that's beautiful you shouldn't feel the pressure to go against nature and go back. Your husband has to learn to accept and embrace your pospartum version
My Grampa always told my mom and her sisters that Santa was a game that adults play with children like an imaginary game that kids play all the time. He said adults love to bring the spirit of Christmas to children through Saint Nicholas. He said Santa is only as real as we make him, and whenever they questioned if Santa was real he would say that Santa isn’t a person, he’s a personification of Christmas cheer ❤️ Hope that helps!
Oh my gosh, thank you for this! This is a great idea!! My oldest son questions everything, my husband and I find ourselves scrambling sometimes to find a way explain things. What a sweet way to teach kids, your grandpa sounds lovely ❤
I love this!
We didn't "play" Santa until my son was 6. We told him that Santa is pretend and that some people like to pretend he comes to their house. I asked if he wanted to play that game.
I told him that Santa brings toys to kids who don't have any, so we left toys by the door for Santa to pick up and take to other kids.
It’s not that it was a bad travel day for you, it was just so overwhelming in that moment. Talking about it does not make you privileged. You guys are great!
Tell your children that it's a celebration of Jesus.
You guys are overthinking the whole Santa thing way too much. Lol
My whole entire life I grew up knowing that Santa was not real. From a little kids perspective, I was never sad about it because our parents taught us that we have everything because of Jesus Christ. He is the one who gives us work, finances to buy food on our tables and the presents under the tree.
We were taught that Christmas was all about Jesus being born, family, love, joy and not some fat old man delivering presents😂
Kids grow up being lied to their whole childhood.. 🙄
matt saying he was bummed when abby was worried about their children…….. jesus this dude is just a walking red flag 24/7
Do you have kids? I totally get both of their sides. But I get why he would be bummed. He never said he wasn’t worried about their children. I think he probably just wishes she could relax and enjoy herself more 😊 I tend to be more like Abby in this area and it can definitely affect your partner and your relationship
He’s SOOOOO annoying like let Abby finish a sentence!!! He does the same to their guests.
Each of you growing in your relationship is depth and layers of maturity and commitment to one another is beautiful.
Love how you said that! Yes! ❤
Take a shot everytime Matt interrupts her in the middle of a sentence
I used to love yall and I do appreciate how honest and open you are but for the love of GOD he never lets her finish
Take a chill pill, it's what you call conversation.
I think he said he has ADHD…so that’s why
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That’s NOT conversation when you’re constantly being interrupted. It’s rude!
When my sisters and I discovered Santa wasnt a guy in a red suit that snuck into our house lol, my parents told us that it was about keeping the spirit of St. Nicholas whose goal was to bring cheer for the celebration of Jesus’s birth! I think that was an awesome way to do it and will definitely do it that way with my kids!
just to add another little aspect to the Christmas conversation, I'd like to add the perspective of someone who never believed in Santa. For me, Christmas was still so magical and wonderful, and I could enjoy the Santa movies and everything with the same Christmas spirit even tho I knew he wasn't real, so that's just a thought 😊 my family had our traditions, like reading the passage about Jesus' birth every Christmas Eve, and looking at lights... there's plenty of ways to add Christmas magic without Santa, but again, these are just my thoughts based on my own perspective and experience 😊
Matt is extremely immature
Thank you guys for being so honest about your struggles! It is so easy to think that you are the only one struggling and to see that other people are struggling with someone of the same things is such a gift.
On the christmas topic, in latin america it’s not Santa that brings the presents. We believe baby Jesus brings all the presents and to me it was always so magical. It was the best time of the year that even now as an adult I still absolutely love christmas more than any other time of the year. Even though it was tough to learn that my parents were behind the whole thing, i still feel so grateful that they did all of that for me and my siblings and now i cant wait to do it with my kids and see the happiness and excitement in their little eyes in the morning when they find all of Santa’s presents.
I'm 41 and have never been to Disneyland and my kids probably won't get to either until they are adults. Even though I work 2 jobs as a single parent it doesn't look promising ever getting to go. The money I make is just enough to put a roof over our heads, a car to drive and food on the table! But congrats to those that have experienced Disneyland!
Edited bcuz yall guys are totally awesome, funny and sooo honest I'm the same way and I love that about you both💜
as soon as Abby said “oh my gosh i haven’t cried this episode” i knew it coming😂❤
We never lied to our 3 children. We taught them to never ruin it for other kids. Think about it why does the kids who are from richer parents get a cool gift from santa and the child who is poor got food? I love the idea of santa but its not for our house.
It seems pretty obvious that Matt has some type of resentment against you LO. L and he was definitely like overly mad at your parents about that.
And also him talking about him needing attention. How old is your little baby? Like not even 6 months old? That baby is still attached to you. You're still breastfeeding. Of course, that's all you can think about. ! I love your guys as podcast. But not as just seeming like a negative little girlittle girl right now.
So so excited for the episode with Jess and Gabe!!😍
58:36 I have a feeling what I’m about to say is going to be very unpopular opinion but I also feel most people are going to say why they choose too. My husband and I decided before we had any kids we were not going to do Santa clause. This was a VERY UNPOPULAR decision to our family especially my father. We both believed as children so it had nothing to do with our family or even our faith.
We now have six kids soon to be seven. We have been honest about Santa but we talk about how he is a character at Christmas. We also tell them that the name is used on presents that you don’t want anyone to know who gave the gift. Now my oldest chose to believe after a certain point he is seven now. We have been 100% honest with him but I told him if he wants to believe then that is fine.
I personally go out of my way to be honest with my kids. It’s a painful process and when they ask a question I try to find an appropriate age way to answer it. I personally don’t like to be told something because the person is trying to be nice. I can’t stand with other adults will tell my kids white lies. My neighbor told my son we don’t get tornados in our state. Which isn’t true but what is true it’s less likely in the area we are currently living in. I had to tell him the truth which wasn’t easy. I know she didn’t want him to worry about tornados but for me if we did get one it would be more harmful for him in the long run.
God gave us those ‘mom instincts’ for a reason, so don’t be ashamed. Don’t listen to the negative people. You are such a refreshing young couple to watch. You both are younger than my husband and I, but you are people we would love to be friends with if we lived near you. We love watching you both and seeing you both grow as a couple. God bless both of you! Keep up the great content!
Why did u still go to Disney if u were in so much pain n it involved so much driving n then going on rides? Ouch girl!
I love the end part of the podcast where Abby is all emotional and says all the beautiful things about Matt and how she loves him, and then there's Matt: I've seen you get pooped on hahahaha love you guys, you are the best and I love how this podcast makes me think about things, as life brings all the things you already went through, and like we are the same age, but in different stages and I love that about this, because I can relate so much and grow and see a new perspective
Abby, I really appreciate your insight on the stage of motherhood you are in and how its very consuming at times. It just is what it is.
Abby he shames you constantly…open your eyes.
I love you two as a couple and as individuals! Relationships have seasons as well as plenty of ups and downs. Which only makes sense since humans are flawed! Thank you for being real!!
I'm so stoked for Jess and Gabe next week!! Dreams do come true❤
I wrote a poem about my husband like that. He is my first boyfriend too! 25 years of marriage later...
Keep your personal life off social media if it really a great relationship
Mat, you need to understand that she has a newborn. You have a newborn. Life changes after having a baby. You would have been more understanding if you were older
I did not grow up thinking Santa was real, and Christmas has always been the most magical time (total Christmas nerd here). I have four kids and they also have never believed in Santa. There are so many great traditions for Christmas we have never felt like we were missing out. Presents mean more when we know who to show gratitude to. They truly appreciate the story of Christ, and I can honestly tell my kids that I do not lie to them. Also, something to think about is the idea of Santa only giving gifts if you are nice and not naughty. Tying gifts to behavior is not something I like to do. My kids have been really good about not spoiling it for others. When my oldest was little, she did say something to one little girl. Since then I have just been intentional with prepping them.
IDK, personally I think the couples that never acknowledge or discuss their conflict openly are probably closer to divorce than you guys 😅🤦🏼♀️ People are so silly!!
About Santa, I was raised with the truth about Santa. But we still joined in with the silly little gifts from "Santa". And setting out milk and cookies for "Santa", even though we knew it was my parents that would eat them. Lol And I never felt lied to.
Best of both worlds.
You should put “peace out dudes✌🏻” on the back of your merch sweatshirts!
41:30 *pauses video and buys merch*
42:40 *realizes there is a discount code😅
Conflict is part of any relationship that is real! We should embrace conflict because it allows us to gain a better understanding of ourself and the other person. We should be thankful that Abby and Matt are sharing their personal relationship so openly and raw. It is truly very difficult to do and very commendable. Keep doing you Matt and Abby, we love you 🥰
Yes. Anyone whose actually been in a long term relationship should know it’s part of marriage ❤
Not even 3 minutes in and I’m inspired by Abby’s work out commitment… my
Boys and a year and a half apart too, and they are 2 and 4 now, and I still have yet to go back to working out daily, and I certainly wouldn’t have the energy to wake up at 5am to do so! It’s truly inspiring! Side note: both of my boys sleep through the night, too, and I’ve been done breastfeeding for over two years🙈
Abby- it could have just been a workout injury type thing, but it sounds like that could potentially be a pilonidal cyst. They occur on the tailbone/top of the crack area 😅😂 and it sounds like what you are experiencing!! Might not be it- but could be!
Yes! I was thinking this too 😮
I was thinking she needs to see a chiropractor! Either way, please see a provider!
Yes, go to a medical doctor. Pilonidal cyst.
I absolutely L❤VED what Abby said at the end about loving Matt throughout so many chapters and growing together as you evolved into different versions of yourselves ❤❤❤. That TRULY is such a blessing in marriage and the longer you’re together and stick through good times and bad only makes you both stronger and fall in love even MORE as the years fly by. ❤ I can remember having the thought on my wedding day that it would be impossible to love my husband more than I did on that day and 10 years later my heart just continues to inflate with more love. You two speak really well, I have a hard time finding words to express my thoughts 😂. Love your relationship. Thanks for sharing! 😊
Abby just WAIT! You're riding tea cups NOW. When my son graduated high school he took me skydiving. SCARIEST THING EVER!! Seeing my first born jump out of an airplane was the most horrifying thing I've ever witnessed! Then I went right behind him. Biggest adrenaline rush you could imagine! Then you pull the cord and realize you ARE going to survive lol! 😂 My baby is 21 were doing it next. I'm excited and terrified at the same time.🤗
Fly at night
There’s something called pilonidal cyst. It might be worth checking into it.
Communication in a marriage is key. It's beautiful. You communicate often, and this will help you. Block out the miserable people.
Abby is EXACTLY right about the beauty and conflict resolution that’s part of a lasting, healthy marriage. As humans we are ever-changing and (hopefully) growing in positive ways. By the same token, we make mistakes and may even unintentionally hurt our spouse. There has to be communication, respect, love and forgiveness for a marriage to work. The beauty of it is that you literally get to live this crazy thing called life with the one person who you love deeply & know has your best interests at heart. You will not always be crazy about each other and marriage is a lot of work sometimes, but when you get on the other side of the hard moments it is always worth the work. As traditional vows state - for better or worse, richer or poorer, in sickness and in health. 1 Corinthians 13 ❤️
I want to say…thank you for helping me stay present in my relationship and the stages we are in now an how slowly it is taking to move to the next. That’s ok!! We are both growing and leveling up to be better for each other.
Thank you for the insight
When you have to go pee GO! I am 52 now and have held my pee for long periods and now I have accidents if I don't go now. That's from holding my pee for long periods of time
I'm excited for brooklyn and bailey!!
I love you guys - realest couple out there. My husband and I have been together since we were kids too, and I always tell him how much you guys remind me of us. It’s refreshing to see a younger couple who understands marriage isn’t perfect, and that doesn’t mean divorce.
Yep 👍. I feel the same 😊❤
Honestly, I think the hate is coming from Matt’s immaturity. The inappropriate questions and comments is funny at certain times but he also needs to understand that it’s not always okay to say everything that comes to your mind.
🙏🏼 teach your kids to not give into the commercialization of the world. It’s not real it doesn’t last. Teach them about Jesus and family and being together.
We always said that we wouldn't lie if our kids asked outright about Santa, the Easter bunny, or the tooth fairy. Our son was very young when he asked if Santa was real so we explained that the way most people think about "santa" isn't real, but the story of st Nicholas (where it came from) is real. The fact that the story has changed and become more magical and false, doesn't make it bad or wrong to believe. We just make sure he lets other people believe in the magic and show kindness to others by not ruining the magic for them. We also put the focus back on why we get and give gifts and what we celebrate at Christmas rather than the santa narrative..works for us
It sounds like a pilonidal cyst…I had to mine surgically removed
Everything about your videos makes me want to watch more! Everything you say is so relatable and honest, thank you for being here and sharing stories with us ❤️
I know this is from a couple weeks ago. But, I am expecting my first child and have thought about the while Santa thing, and I recently saw something that really stuck with me. This family let their children believe in Santa and when their son came to them and asked if he was real they said "do you actually want to know the answer cause you can't unknow it" and the son of course said yes. So the parents said "well, the answer is yes and no. Is he a man in a red suit with a beard that sneaks down your chimney to give you presents, no. But he is the truly selfless act of giving without expecting any credit for that giving." They said "all those presents from Santa, they were from us, but we gave them to you without you know we got you them, without taking any credit for them. So no he isn't real in the human sense we think of, but he is real as a concept." I really liked that, because it teaches your kids a very good lesson on selfless acts and serving others without expecting anything in return.
Wait until the child is 8-10 years old they barely remember anything about age 5
You 2 have a very good perspective about relationship and marriage. I am happy for you and i truly hope to see you in 20 years from now. Gg dudes.
I totally get it Abby, just keep doing your workouts and your pelvic floor will continue to get stronger. You’re honestly doing great being 3 months out from second pregnancy so close together!
Just FYI: a pelvic floor specialist is usually a physical therapist (either a masters but now most have doctorate degrees) with a special pelvic floor certification.
Love you guys❤
I was thinking that when they were trying to figure out who helps with that. My thoughts were definitely a physical therapist.
Loved this episode! Will always love how sincere and open you guys are. Im so sorry there are so many trolls online giving you so much flak! You are both incredible partners to each other and wonderful parents to your babies .
So so excited for next weeks episode! Hearing from Jess and Gabe is going to be so fun! My two favorite youtube couples in one place!
"I can be your pelvic floor specialist"
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