Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this! I’m currently dealing with the consequences of holding on to a trauma bond. I let myself backslide on daily practices of gratitude and giving myself time and space to feel every part of my inner world. This person constantly would tell me i was a bad communicator for catching on to my own anger and attempting to walk away. I gave in too many times to that default behavior of shouting and saying whatever i could to fight back whenever i’d feel bullied or manipulated. I never wanted to hurt anyone. Now there is only pain in the place of what used to be called love. this video affirmed that i am on the right path. I just wish that person was willing to do this hard work along side me and grow together, rather than labeling me abusive and dismissing me.
Sending you so much love and support. Thank you for taking care of you! It's so challenging when the people we care about are abusive and unwilling to do their own work but that is reality for many many people. Keep setting your boundaries and loving your Self whole.
thank you I needed to hear that ^^ I'm currently doing an internship and they criticize my posture and everything (because it was done to them too) ^^° but I'll manage, I'm learning a lot :)
14:06 (I never comment on UA-cam but) this made me feel very seen, even though I've heard it before numerous times (even from within myself). I'm learning to be gentle with myself and flow with what I feel and flow with letting go. Thank you for this video ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. 🙏🏼❤🙏🏼
heartwarmed greetings from Europe
Blessed Be! I am glad you are here.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this!
I’m currently dealing with the consequences of holding on to a trauma bond. I let myself backslide on daily practices of gratitude and giving myself time and space to feel every part of my inner world. This person constantly would tell me i was a bad communicator for catching on to my own anger and attempting to walk away. I gave in too many times to that default behavior of shouting and saying whatever i could to fight back whenever i’d feel bullied or manipulated.
I never wanted to hurt anyone. Now there is only pain in the place of what used to be called love.
this video affirmed that i am on the right path. I just wish that person was willing to do this hard work along side me and grow together, rather than labeling me abusive and dismissing me.
Sending you so much love and support. Thank you for taking care of you! It's so challenging when the people we care about are abusive and unwilling to do their own work but that is reality for many many people. Keep setting your boundaries and loving your Self whole.
thank you I needed to hear that ^^ I'm currently doing an internship and they criticize my posture and everything (because it was done to them too) ^^° but I'll manage, I'm learning a lot :)
You've got this. Thank you for being here.
14:06 (I never comment on UA-cam but) this made me feel very seen, even though I've heard it before numerous times (even from within myself). I'm learning to be gentle with myself and flow with what I feel and flow with letting go. Thank you for this video ❤
I am so happy my words were able to reach you. Thank you for being here.
Great points 💯 Like your point regarding Trauma Bonds with the Matrix 👐 I call it Stockholme System Syndrome 🙊
So true, so true. Breaking free!!!