Signs You're In a Relationship With a DARK EMPATH | Dr. Ramani Durvasula
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- Опубліковано 9 вер 2022
- Signs You're In a Relationship With a DARK EMPATH | Dr. Ramani Durvasula
“The Dark Empath is a person who has some of the dark triad patterns but may also have what looks like empathy. If you got into a toxic relationship it snuck up on you over time, because there may actually have been something, that did feel like empathy earlier in the relationship.”
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Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in Los Angeles, CA and Professor of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting, a company that offers a range of programs focused on educating survivors, clinicians, coaches and businesses on the impacts of narcissism on health, wellness and functioning.
She also has a popular UA-cam channel that focuses on narcissism and difficult relationships. The focus of Dr. Durvasula’s clinical, academic and consultative work is the etiology and impact of narcissism and high-conflict, entitled, antagonistic personality styles on human relationships, mental health, and societal expectations.
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My experience is that the master manipulators are high on agreeableness to your face. And, then go around slandering you to others when you are not around.
Yes, and we expect similar. I always say - disrespect me behind my back all you like. I will find out after all and then find a way to turn it around in you. But disrespect me to my face is a challenge that forces me to respond overtly to some degree. That’s not desirable. We much prefer to work in the shadows where we do our best work.
Empathy is when you can understand someone else. Knowing how to respect what makes someone happy and not whereby the same applies to you. I believe once someone can't see what makes you happy and respect you, the same way you are with them, it off.
James Fallon explained part of it well. They understand emotions, but they do not care. Their amygdala is small and their frontal lobe doesn't fire up.
So they are worse. They can use their understanding of emotions, but they don't actually feel it.
I think many empaths have learned to read emotions from abuse. It's like survival mode instead of a sixth sense that people claim.
My experience with psychopaths are I was attracted to them because I didn't feel the weight of their guilt, shame, anger, basically I didn't feel the weight of their emotions that I always had to check for when entering a room at home.
They were basically weightless because they didn't feel those emotions.
@@nikkinorton8310 Thank you for sharing your experience! I like your description of them being weightless. I never thought of it like that, but know it makes sense. For me is that I feel weird around them but I don't always know if it's a bad weird, and because I'm used to trust that people are good, it's hard to listen my gut feeling when I feel weird around someone without knowing why. But with small steps everyday, I'm learning.
@@bqurious. my first experience with a known psychopath, I was collecting DNA from a suspect accused of rape, car theft and murder.
I had been in the room with one of the victims. The room was incredibly heavy with emotions. Anger, guilt, shame, fear, you could cut the air with a knife.
When I was collecting evidence from the perp, I thought they had the wrong guy. He had 2 guns pointed at him. He was polite, funny, glib. He completely followed commands.
It was nothing I had ever experienced with a perp, because usually they are not cooperative, mad at me for collecting evidence, angry etc....
Video and DNA nailed the guy to the wall. He was executed in 2018. Before he was executed he had the guy that he murdereds son, pleading for his life.
It was definitely an eye opener for me. I had always trusted my gut and for the most part it served me well, but there were some in my life just like this. I started paying attention to what was going on around the person and if their emotions reflected what was going on around them.
My husband was like this. Risk taking. He was a bookie. He had no empathy. Our house burned down and my daughter and I was in it and we escaped. It didn't bother him. When I started getting death threats it never bothered him in the least. He had an affairs and lied about with no signs of guilt or remorse.
He was weightless. It took me a long time to see he had no guilt, shame, fear, he was superficial and charming.
Yes my neighbor its a horrible experience especially if your whole family consist of narcs and psychopaths and sociopaths and other neighbours are covert narcissist
Through trying to understand myself I considered that I could be a dark empath...thing is, I'm introverted as well as agreeable in most circumstances...thinking about it, this may explain my ex but I'm unsure, esp since I don't like labeling or putting down others, although I know I have because I've felt angry or depressed about how certain things panned out
Main thing you have to ask yourself is if you can feel genuine empathy
I also recently experience a brutal new relationship with a coach she called herself empath being completely non empathic full of anger violent its dramatic that such people lie so easily and are able to create program to help who ? Empaths and highly sensitive I revealed her mask. It was one of the most painful experience to go thru recently after trusting again virtual people
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Like do u think we had so many options being in a realationship with a toxic psychopath? I got born into that shit, and because of that Im a bad persion and dont deserve real love? In ur opinion??
Dark empath is mix extrovert and extrovert
They never stop coming up with new concepts and terms. And guess what every expert explains it differently. There are so many contradictions over there
do dark empath ever graduate to becoming sadistic or do u know??just wonderin
People who make these videos fail to get across that these people can be the parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, co-workers, bosses and the random person you meet at church, school and work. They just keep giving a speech about these relationships as if they only apply to romantic ones such as dating or marriage.
Watching this video just makes me loose so much hope for myself. Like What Can i do? U only point out whats bad with us. Non of this garvage videos Are actually helping us.