Tuca and Bertie perfectly capturing my maladaptive daydreaming

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  • @rollerturtle
    @rollerturtle Рік тому +5928

    Perfect, but it also engages you so much you lose all your friends, life and yourself to DD. The car scene is realistic

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +435

      The part that gets me is the transitions, especially in the mall scene stealing the boots where everything flies by with such a high emotional rush while feeling like fantasy. It feels straight out of my daydreams.

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +333

      Another reason this hits is the music, some days my daydreaming is so bad and unhealthy I have to stop listening to any music because it amplifies any daydreams I’m having that day.

    • @rollerturtle
      @rollerturtle Рік тому +97

      @@Guyro3278 oh yeah, the fast transitions while feeling emotion rush is so frequent, when you are feeling loaded with emotions and excited and you shift it to daydreams and it moves so fast because you want to experience everything at once. It's nice to hear from someone with similar experiences

    • @rollerturtle
      @rollerturtle Рік тому +41

      @@Guyro3278 I trained myself so my daydreams can be controlled while listening to music but from time to time when one song is in my liking I slip back to the unhealthy amount of DD

    • @predalien1413
      @predalien1413 Рік тому +5

      Essentially delusions.

  • @milofitz400
    @milofitz400 Рік тому +1850

    If you haven’t had a super affectionate platonic relationship with a goth girl that somehow turned gay and ended terribly, you haven’t lived

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +71

      Lol

    • @flowerpatchtoons1101
      @flowerpatchtoons1101 Рік тому +76

      I got that without the ending terribly part. I'm living life my guy I'm LIVIN wo!

    • @Mysteri0usPuppet
      @Mysteri0usPuppet Рік тому +33

      Wait this was a universal experience?

    • @ladystarfire
      @ladystarfire 7 місяців тому +60

      @@Mysteri0usPuppetits a very common sapphic experience to have a friendship with a girl that ends up terribly because you kind of were attracted to her.

    • @Mysteri0usPuppet
      @Mysteri0usPuppet 7 місяців тому +2

      @@ladystarfire I know, because it’s happened to me more than once 😭

  • @cherrie9824
    @cherrie9824 Рік тому +5270

    i get so fixated on people (irl and fictional) in my day dreams and it confuses me so much cause i really can't remember what i daydreamed and what is true sometimes. asking friends stuff like "oh you remember that time when blah blah blah" and they're like "wtf no?"

    • @SynthFox
      @SynthFox Рік тому +49

      Glad Im not the only one 😅😅

    • @marcobuncit7539
      @marcobuncit7539 Рік тому +10

      Welp, I guess when friends get confused, could just tell about the daydreaming I guess.

    • @Eveoriginalsinner
      @Eveoriginalsinner Рік тому +35

      I did this with my ex alot. A lot of false memories that made me want them more

    • @balmisia
      @balmisia Рік тому +9

      And then you explain what you guys did in great detail because you swear it's real and they just like at you like 😶

    • @dionysuss3045
      @dionysuss3045 Рік тому +5

      OMG YES ME W FANFICTION, sometimes I’ll read and I won’t be able to tell what was actually in the fic and what I daydreamed, usually with irl ppl I don’t make those mistakes though

  • @bauhausfan6939
    @bauhausfan6939 Рік тому +454

    as a goth i love that they used new wave instead of metal like most shows usually do 😭😭

  • @veggyeater
    @veggyeater Рік тому +4487

    I like the detail that bertie in her dreaming sequence wears different clothes than when they actually hang out,(like, beartie wears white and friend wears black) it showed that bertie didnt want to assimilate to her friend and wanted her to love her differences from her, but in reality, friend tried to transform bertie to be cofortable and simmiliar to her

    • @folgerkelley2715
      @folgerkelley2715 Рік тому +188

      That….wasn’t what happened. Bertie’s mom and Muriel both comment on BERTIE being the one to adopt/copy all the goth stylings even if it was disingenuous.

    • @veggyeater
      @veggyeater Рік тому +49

      @@folgerkelley2715 hmm, i see. But my theory can still work out if bertie didnt fully realise what she was doing, which i doubt she did. She still knows they are different in the core level. The song goes that friend percives her as something new, at least bertie wishes to see that perhaps? Her friend also encouraged her to steal clothes exact same style as her and do similar makeup, so berdie just picked that up from her, it was her decision because friend liked it

    • @dork7546
      @dork7546 Рік тому +63

      @@folgerkelley2715 Yeah, but that was after her friend tried to transform her into the kind of person she would like to hang out with. But I guess she failed since Bertie still liked typical teenage girl things like boy bands so she just ditched her.

    • @saturn1177
      @saturn1177 Рік тому +3

      Actually it's just their normal clothes?

    • @Mysteri0usPuppet
      @Mysteri0usPuppet Рік тому +4

      @@veggyeater Bertie actually did go both later on, this is when they first started hanging out and she only had the choker.

  • @sakurashy8492
    @sakurashy8492 Рік тому +1808

    I can only imagine how Bertie was after Muriel broke off their friendship. Poor girl must have felt so alone afterwards. I can only imagine how Bertie was like until Tuca entered the scene. This show needs more seasons so we’ll get to see how these Bird Buddies meet. Can you imagine the feels?

    • @RuinsRuasExe
      @RuinsRuasExe Рік тому +4

      I'm pretty sure the show was canceled when Bojack ended because of Netflix.

    • @marshmallowloaf
      @marshmallowloaf Рік тому +49

      It didn't?? Adult swim is airing season 3 RIGHT now as of this comment

    • @Barakon
      @Barakon Рік тому +3

      Not hbo max though, that is a dead beast.

    • @RuinsRuasExe
      @RuinsRuasExe Рік тому +2

      @@marshmallowloaf Oh, Thank you! Sorry I didn't hear about that!

    • @sourcherry8928
      @sourcherry8928 Рік тому +2

      @@RuinsRuasExe from what i read adult swim is doing season 4 as well

  • @rubyriot69
    @rubyriot69 Рік тому +1135

    this episode hit so close to home for me, because i WAS Bertie. i had a friend who wanted to make me just like her, we did all the stuff she liked, and i fell in love with her. but we abruptly drifted apart after she moved away because we both just lost touch. she was my first true crush and i’ll never forget her.

    • @Isa-vh2eh
      @Isa-vh2eh Рік тому +4

      where can I watch the episodes :0

    • @yesikanarvaez5027
      @yesikanarvaez5027 Рік тому +1

      Mine was never really my friend for a while

    • @bryn1063
      @bryn1063 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@Isa-vh2eh sorry I'm so late but it's on Netflix or adult swim. Netflix only has one season but adult swim has the full 3

  • @Ihazfunkitty
    @Ihazfunkitty Рік тому +1055

    Muriel was a terrible friend but i love her design, bats are super adorable ❤️
    I think she is based off the honduran white bat, because lf her colors, big ears and shes fluffy, only the nose is off.

    • @Mysteri0usPuppet
      @Mysteri0usPuppet Рік тому +18

      It’s SUCH a shame that all the cool character designs were wasted :( Muriel looked so cute and cool and I’m so sad they used her design on this

    • @topaz3452
      @topaz3452 Рік тому +9

      Good characters can be assholes doe.

    • @kanyethegoat
      @kanyethegoat Рік тому +29

      @@Mysteri0usPuppet Just because a character is cute they need to be a good person?😭

    • @Mysteri0usPuppet
      @Mysteri0usPuppet Рік тому +6

      @@kanyethegoat no, but it means they are generally unlikeable, and I would’ve wished a character who was nice and likeable could’ve had the design. Sorry, looking back on it I see how my comment came across haha!

    • @jillianefaithcobre8637
      @jillianefaithcobre8637 Рік тому +1

      Well, that’s true. I feel like that most bad characters are beautiful, cute, and good-looking design which is just wasted for them of being a bad characters.

  • @lonelyrooster
    @lonelyrooster Рік тому +487

    Damn I never even made that connection but this is literally it. To the changing locations super fast to random dance stuff. This is different than paracosm stuff. Seriously damn

  • @blackorwhhite
    @blackorwhhite Рік тому +464

    I was absolutely clueless about Tuca&Bertie having 3 SEASONS! I didnt recognize the bat character and oh boy now im thrilled to watch the rest of the show!

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +41

      You can check out seasons 2 and 3 on Adult Swim and HBO Max

    • @Catro1000
      @Catro1000 Рік тому +3

      Yeah Netflix kinda dropped tuca and bertie like many other great shows before and after it. But thankfully adult swim picked it up and i hope it picks up some of the other things netflix dropped like inside job

    • @bryn1063
      @bryn1063 7 місяців тому

      So sad it's over now. I wish I could have had two more seasons it was so good!

  • @Aquatic_jellyfish
    @Aquatic_jellyfish Рік тому +188

    "I only was friends with you cause I felt bad for you" /.- 💔

    • @carlycrays2831
      @carlycrays2831 Рік тому +10

      This is the basis of my friendship with my two best friends. It works for us.

  • @GnEEp_GnorpXoXo
    @GnEEp_GnorpXoXo 3 місяці тому +5

    The fact that there are people out there that think this show is a "stupid adult show" is astounding

  • @imjustasconfusedasyou
    @imjustasconfusedasyou Рік тому +110

    i daydream so much. if i hear a new song or meme? day dreaming it with my favorite charcaters from either 1 media source or multiple. read a new book? dd it with my favorite character from 1 or more media sources. i’ll even have to act it out sometimes. and showers are literally just daydreaming time. and it’s even worse when i’m trying to cry or dealing with something, i often find myself dd my favorite characters dealing with my problem or worse. or just them in general. it makes me not able to cry or deal with things. or i daydream about irl people and situations very very often. either to get tasks done or just in general. and if i’m dealing with something i’ll imagine someone helping me with it, or talking to someone about it, and breaking down in front of somebody about and them caring etc etc. it’s so incredibly frustrating because it’s all fake. i don’t know if i have maladaptive dd. but i know i day dream a lot.

    • @RedAngel63
      @RedAngel63 Рік тому +5

      I am exactly like that, it took a lot of therapy and different outlets through art and writing to break for the habit because the more I DD, the more it starts to feel lonely

  • @mjjinxer
    @mjjinxer Рік тому +106

    The first part of the episode Bertie said she felt like a leech
    But Muriel was clearly the toxic friend, she pretended to be her close friend, changed her appearance, personality, kissed her, then as soon as her old friend came back she completely ditched Bertie

    • @bluebird1914
      @bluebird1914 7 місяців тому +7

      For real. I wish that Bertie would've come to that realisation at the end of the episode.

  • @VSpoodle
    @VSpoodle 7 місяців тому +21

    I really appreciate tuca and bertie for touching on a relationship like this in the way they did. I had a toxic emo middle school frinedship that corroded into high school and disrupted my entire social experience in 10th grade. I wasnt perfect either but i didnt know how to handle the intensity of unmedicated bipolar behavior she was trying to work through, and i came out of the relationship feeling chewed up and spat out

  • @shadowdroid776
    @shadowdroid776 Рік тому +339

    I hope everyone in the comments section are trying to help fix their maladaptive daydreaming, because I suffer from it and it absolutely fucks you up. If not, when you can in life, please get all the mental help necessary and overcome this. I know you can!
    I'm funneling mine into art and comics, so what I daydream of becomes productive and an actual part of my life.

    • @axax773
      @axax773 Рік тому +32

      Funneling daydreaming into art is the best possible thing anyone can do with it. It's very powerful and the results are way better than just drawing random art

    • @shadowdroid776
      @shadowdroid776 Рік тому +8

      @@axax773 I disagree because my brain still isn't in reality 80 percent of the day and it does affect my mood horribly when I draw certain things, best thing is therapy for it regardless lol but I see where you're coming from.

    • @thiskid990
      @thiskid990 Рік тому +12

      @@shadowdroid776 as somebody who can’t afford therapy (I’m sure everyone can relate hehe) I also think drawing and writing is a great suggestion, like u said it’s doing something productive with your time… sorry to hear that it has affected u negatively though :( I know the feeling, a lot of my daydreams tend to be negative and sad. But I do think drawing that out still has its merits because it gives you an outlet to get these things out of your head sometimes. Well wishes 🤟

    • @goodnight63
      @goodnight63 Рік тому +19

      It isn't unhealthy if it's during your freetime. Unless your operating a vehicle, trying to go to bed, or someone is trying to talk to you. Moderation is amazing. For example if you listen to music, allow yourself to see colorful imagery you wisp into existence just by thinking. It's a skill that not many have and can be a beautiful thing in moderation. And if you formulate original ideas, definitely write them down and share that wonder. You can still take care of responsibilities and when the time is right, allow your brain to daydream. If your maladaptive daydreaming is violent or narcissistic- than that's a whole diffrent issue. Let us humans daydream regardless of age.

    • @shadowdroid776
      @shadowdroid776 Рік тому +30

      @@goodnight63 so that's not exactly maladaptive daydreaming, that's just normal daydreaming tbh, which is good! Maladaptive daydreaming is when your brain just kind of leaves reality and you day dream without trying to. You basically become trapped in nonstop daydreams and you lose track of time and what you're doing, you're distracted constantly and soon years pass by and you don't understand how. It's really freaky.
      You know the reality shifting that people talk about? That's maladaptive daydreaming.

  • @vipersniper178
    @vipersniper178 Рік тому +151

    I had this exact friend for 7 years this episode honestly broke me

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +17

      Did they also turn out to be successful?

    • @vipersniper178
      @vipersniper178 Рік тому +36

      @@Guyro3278 nope that was me instead

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +18

      @@vipersniper178 awesome

    • @botchedprincess
      @botchedprincess Рік тому +9

      @@vipersniper178 that made me smile im glad ur doing successful

  • @ingloriousMachina
    @ingloriousMachina Рік тому +27

    Obsessively daydreaming is how I wrote two books.
    I had to do SOMETHING with all those characters.

  • @robynp9872
    @robynp9872 Рік тому +78

    Love that the show also shows the timeline of them being together for max maybe a few months.
    It captures that feeling of being in HS, where everything feels like the most important thing in the world, and a week feels like a lifetime, and every detail impacts you so hard.

  • @awkwardbean1504
    @awkwardbean1504 7 місяців тому +10

    Just noticed how the songs lyrics "Youre something new" also reflect how Muriel sees Bertie. Not as a friend but as a pastime while she and Jessica weren't talking to each other. Someone to manipulate and transform into something reminiscent of her only to drop her the moment her *true* friend came back

  • @veeblebeeble
    @veeblebeeble Рік тому +11

    Just figured out that I do maladaptive daydreaming and everything makes so much more sense now. I do it for hours, and I can't stop. I've missed countless events and time with the people around me because I can't stop.

  • @RaysArtCorner
    @RaysArtCorner 7 місяців тому +9

    fun fact: this video made me realize I am a maladaptive daydreamer.

  • @snbsixteen6stars201
    @snbsixteen6stars201 Рік тому +23

    Kinda sad cus i love bats and fruitbats and they just had to make her that one really shitty friend that uses you as a temporary rebound

  • @dentistdamsel1345
    @dentistdamsel1345 Рік тому +14

    I love how her (crush? I haven't seen the new seasons) is a bat, which is basically a cool goth bird

  • @alize0623
    @alize0623 Рік тому +41

    I had a friendship like this a long time ago. It was with a dude, though. We couldn’t have been closer and were the same from jump. Then, one day, I moved for college and he just blocked me the same day I got off the plane. I still remember the last thing I said to him was, “you’ll always be my best friend. I’ll love you forever.” And he replied back with “ily so much

    • @PartyTimePPLZ
      @PartyTimePPLZ Рік тому

      I’m going through something similar, what helped you feel better when this happened?

    • @alize0623
      @alize0623 Рік тому +9

      @@PartyTimePPLZ nothing. I just had to move on. I miss them everyday and there hasn’t been a day in the decade since we last spoke that I haven’t thought of them

    • @starwoodanime1532
      @starwoodanime1532 Рік тому +3

      I used to have an amazing best friend but during highschool she suddenly stopped talking to me. Our friendship ended so fast.

  • @andersinn280
    @andersinn280 Рік тому +88

    I would actually kill for a full version of this song 😩❤️

    • @degenatron4572
      @degenatron4572 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/WNJnjgIupI4/v-deo.html

    • @dreamsandmemories4807
      @dreamsandmemories4807 Рік тому +16

      It exists, it’s a real song

    • @andersinn280
      @andersinn280 Рік тому +1

      @@dreamsandmemories4807 true but if there was a version more than 30 seconds that'd be great 😅

    • @bleached101
      @bleached101 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/WNJnjgIupI4/v-deo.html

    • @gudarin
      @gudarin Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/WNJnjgIupI4/v-deo.html

  • @ProNice
    @ProNice Рік тому +28

    I never knew I had unusual daydreaming patterns ... until now...

    • @SocialLocust
      @SocialLocust Рік тому +4

      If it's not causing you distress or causing problems in things like work, school, or relationships, then it's probably not unusual.

    • @ProNice
      @ProNice Рік тому +1

      @@SocialLocust Oh it's definitely part of my disability diagnosis - but I thought I was just a severe case of ADHD with lots of escapism fantasies.

    • @SocialLocust
      @SocialLocust Рік тому +3

      @@ProNice Then, it sounds like you did know it was unusual. You were just thinking of it by one name rather than another. It's still a matter of dopamine action in the brain. I mean, it's usually hard to know where one condition ends and another begins. It's not particularly important to distinguish most things as the one experiencing it. Mainly, it just comes down to what treatments are approved by insurance to treat what conditions. That's why, for example, someone with fibromyalgia will experience brain fog as part of their condition, but they may be diagnosed with add so that they will be able to get medications which are only approved for add, even though their symptoms are perfectly explained by the fibro.

    • @ProNice
      @ProNice Рік тому +2

      @@SocialLocust That sounds about right! Luckily the amphetamine (Vyvanse) brings some relief to the more disruptive symptoms. I'm still fascinated that maladaptive daydreaming is a thing. Now that it has its own name - I see it more clearly as a pattern in my life. 'm interested if there are maybe behavior therapy methods to deal with the length and intensity.

    • @SocialLocust
      @SocialLocust Рік тому +2

      @@ProNice It's not well recognized, so there aren't really treatments for it yet that I know of. Mostly, I have read about people telling their therapists or doctors and getting mistaken for having schizophrenia. I think that things which help ocd will be the most helpful. OCD has been found to be comorbid and they are both a mental addiction pattern. For me, the same types of things influence frequency of symptoms.

  • @missbork2468
    @missbork2468 Рік тому +131

    Wait, this was daydreaming? I thought that this was just an exaggerated montage of their friendship from Bertie's memories lol

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +115

      It was really complicated but Bertie was reliving a period of her life in a short span of time and scenes like this heavily reminded me of it. It wasn’t really daydreaming exactly but it was a great portrayal of how we view our memories and fantasies

    • @missbork2468
      @missbork2468 Рік тому +27

      @@Guyro3278 That makes a lot of sense, since her memories throughout the episode are kind of all over the place, like real memories are. That's part of why I love T&B 💖

    • @12DAMDO
      @12DAMDO Рік тому +3

      it's a memory

    • @razarine
      @razarine Рік тому +1

      I thought so too??

    • @haileybalmer9722
      @haileybalmer9722 Рік тому +2

      (It is, this person is either misusing the term maladaptive daydreaming or misunderstanding the show)

  • @nileshollowthorn
    @nileshollowthorn Рік тому +6

    This is one of the best episodes in the show for me, hands down. Heartbreaking.

  • @dudedadric6514
    @dudedadric6514 Рік тому +7

    This episode was actually so real

  • @CoralGardenWasteland
    @CoralGardenWasteland Рік тому +10

    I had a friend in school with who i was really close. Now, we dont talk with each other anymore. Honestly, it does feel like a dream whenever i remember our time together.

  • @vvampiricnature
    @vvampiricnature 7 місяців тому +5

    I think the worst part about this is how hard it hits.

  • @aaabbb-ve9po
    @aaabbb-ve9po Рік тому +73

    I daydream like this a lot. personally, I take it as a positive. it says to me that I desire things and people full of energy and life, and if it’s lukewarm it’s not something that I want. It’s very uplifting to me and reminds me of my vibrancy. It’s a beautiful thing to want to feel things in a world that’s comfortable with monotony. Sad that people view it as a problem.

    • @doransoran
      @doransoran Рік тому +16

      I honestly feel like it is a problem if it interferes with your happiness/the way you view ppl and ur sense of what’s real or not.

    • @doransoran
      @doransoran Рік тому +1

      But yes agreed

    • @guffawhyena4831
      @guffawhyena4831 7 місяців тому +5

      I feel like it ruined my life, I lost all my friends and most of my family relationships because of it. I even have mood swings and yell at people who interrupt me or are trying to help me. I've hurt myself badly so much, and my body always hurts from how much I run hours on end. Most Maladaptive daydreamers hate doing it but can't stop because it's like an addiction. I've met people with it and it's just sad.
      Maybe your mistaking your daydreams with Immersive. Immersive daydreaming means you daydream a lot and enjoy it (and it's safe and normal to do). Maladaptive means it ruins your life and can be dangerous. It's confused a lot and it sucks because even therapist/counselors push it aside because of the misinformation (from TikTok and Google especially)

    • @GreenGorgeousness
      @GreenGorgeousness 7 місяців тому +3

      Maladaptive daydreaming is like when you daydream instead of sleeping all night and then ruin your body because you didn't get any sleep.
      Or when you need to focus on something you love, but start daydreaming instead of actually doing it. Like someone else said, being interrupted feels like being slapped and you snap at people hurting your real life relationships.
      That's what makes it maladaptive, the destruction it inflicts on your life. Otherwise it's just daydreaming.

    • @AmberyTear
      @AmberyTear 5 місяців тому +1

      Maladaptive daydreaming is not just intense daydreaming. It happens whether you want it or not, makes it impossible to function, do your work, engage in hobbies and do the most basic things. THAT'S why it's a problem. If it's not crippling you then it's just a healthy daydreaming.

  • @fleabaguette9699
    @fleabaguette9699 Рік тому +18

    This brings back so many memories of falling for my best friend back in high school. Sigh. :/

    • @wetsockz3001
      @wetsockz3001 Рік тому

      That’s why it sucks being friends with lesbian girls

  • @ischeele7203
    @ischeele7203 Рік тому +20

    Maybe she likes tapes being a bit muffled because she has bat hearing

  • @AKHV9708
    @AKHV9708 Рік тому +48

    Edit: okay there have been people telling me to not give up, I'm talking about my past and how the video reminded me of it. I'm not talking about my current life at all.
    This REMINDED me of all the PAST friends I had, that I work so hard to fit in with. Only to be back stab and abandon...I put in the work and effort, listen and comfort them...especially when they were at there low point, etc. Once they were done with me...I just didn't even exist....I still have paranoid trust issues. I guess it is my fault for trying to get to know someone, give them a chance and not judge them. I try my best...it wasn't enough....so I'm alone and If I don't try to befriend...I wouldn't get hurt again...cause no one ever see me... I'm just a background character. Which isn't fair because I believe everyone is a lead role character in their own life story.

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому

      Well are you just going to give up on connections and sulk about it? Idk how old you are but Bertie was only a teenager, she was still young and had her whole life ahead of her and at her 30s has better friends and coping mechanisms and isn’t even around half her life yet. You could find new positive connections or you could just give up and feel bad about yourself. I related to this story hard and I was extremely depressed after but I still knew that I’ll find new people and that it will happen again as well, until eventually we know the right people. I’m not going to stop trying to get the life I want. That mindset of yours is just unproductive it doesn’t get you anywhere unless you’re content on “being a background character”.

    • @grayowl167
      @grayowl167 Рік тому +11

      @Allison Heinz-Villaneuva when you're ready to trust again, on your own terms, there are always new people to meet :) Trying new approaches leads to new results.

    • @AKHV9708
      @AKHV9708 Рік тому +5

      I like how this comment of mine got both the good positive criticism that got straight to the point with understanding kindness and then there's the negative criticism with it so call justifying act of kicking someone when there down.

    • @AKHV9708
      @AKHV9708 Рік тому +5

      @@grayowl167 Thank you, it's because of people like you. That I can keep some hope alive within me. I appreciate your kindness and understanding, you didn't assume or judge me base on my comment. You didn't jump to any conclusions, told me that it's alright to take my time to trust others again on my own terms. I really appreciate you thank you 😊

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +2

      @@AKHV9708 sorry if it hurt your feelings but I don’t think I was “kicking you while you were down.” I wouldn’t disrespect anything that may have happened to you. I think your feelings are valid. But I can’t justify myself to just enable those feelings rather than try to encourage you, even if it ends up being passive aggressive because it isn’t okay for you to continue feeling that way forever. You can take your time all you want it isn’t a simple thing to deal with by any means.

  • @thatsanriosoftboy
    @thatsanriosoftboy 7 місяців тому +5

    I still think about my ex girlfriend this way, and our relationship was actually pretty similar to Bertie and Muriel’s. I really loved her and I’d think about her all the time, and I spent every moment that I wasn’t with her imagining what it’d be like if she was there. She was cheating on me the entire time we were together, dumped me for her neighbor who ended up cheating on her, and than made it seem like she might want to get back together with me so she could use me for sex and attention. I found out she had been cheating on me the day after she said she didn’t want to get back together “because I’m afraid of hurting you again.” I still think about her a lot, and some part of me deep down still loves her, and doesn’t want to admit that she was beyond toxic and borderline abusive. I still wear the chapstick she liked, I still paint my nails her favorite color, I still wear the bracelet I made in both of our favorite colors, and I still sleep with the plush I named after her. I don’t want to let go, even though it hurts so much to think of her, but I can’t get myself to move on from her even after all of the awful things she did to me. I wish I had left when everyone in my life was begging me to, because they all saw the warning signs and were trying to get me to see them too. I do now, but it’s too late.

    • @_azumi_oni_3790
      @_azumi_oni_3790 4 місяці тому

      I think you should see a psychologist about this... because you need to move on without your ex, the world is full of wonderful people like you❤

  • @brunobucciaratiswife
    @brunobucciaratiswife Рік тому +5

    This sucks. I lost all my friends, even the people who swore they’d be there forever. As soon as I left school due to trauma they turned on me and told me they never even liked me. I was absolutely friendless up until like a year ago. Even now I only have one friend. Sometimes I think back to all the good times I spent with my friends and how happy I was with them, and have dumb little daydreams like this..

  • @no1legobatmanfan
    @no1legobatmanfan Рік тому +4

    this episode was genuinely a masterpiece

  • @Ambipie
    @Ambipie 9 місяців тому +7

    poor girl. The only reason she never fell for another girl is because Speckle was perfect. and so the secret died on muriels backstabbing hand.

  • @strawberrypockys3354
    @strawberrypockys3354 Рік тому +25

    Maladaptive daydreaming is the best feeling ever istg.

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +15

      It can be but it makes reality worse

    • @strawberrypockys3354
      @strawberrypockys3354 Рік тому +3

      @@Guyro3278 true.

    • @strawberrypockys3354
      @strawberrypockys3354 Рік тому +3

      @@Guyro3278 it does suck sometimes ngl. Like sometimes I’ll lose track of time and I just end up talking to myself out loud without realizing. :/

    • @MsCatfish4
      @MsCatfish4 Рік тому +5

      I love the feeling of it when I’m doing it but then hate the feeling of falling back to reality realising it’s not real and feeling like a piece of shit for having them and then obsessing wayy too much about the main person in em

    • @no1legobatmanfan
      @no1legobatmanfan Рік тому

      @@MsCatfish4Holy fucking shit Lpsawesome? your videos literally defined my childhood holy crap.

  • @limeslush1e
    @limeslush1e Рік тому +3

    DANG this is how i had to find out they made more of the show after it was cancelled???? TWO MORE SEASONS??

  • @rulerzreachf4nnnn
    @rulerzreachf4nnnn 7 місяців тому +8

    this is the second most accurate portrayal of maladaptive daydreaming in media I’ve ever seen

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  7 місяців тому

      What’s the most?

    • @rulerzreachf4nnnn
      @rulerzreachf4nnnn 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Guyro3278 Lewis’ level from What remains of Edith Finch! So realistic, I highly recommend watching a gameplay or even playing the game itself ^^

  • @charlie-jd3ls
    @charlie-jd3ls Рік тому +2

    😍😍😍♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ im obsessed

  • @lisah5750
    @lisah5750 Рік тому +41

    Ugh that bat girl was the worst

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +53

      I thought she was at least well written even if I don’t like her. She reminds me of an old friend tbh.

    • @coffintears5821
      @coffintears5821 Рік тому +13

      @@Guyro3278 she reminds me of one friend too eventhough she wasn't goth.

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +2

      @@coffintears5821 care to elaborate?

    • @lonelyrooster
      @lonelyrooster Рік тому +3

      @@coffintears5821 We'd love to hear your story if you're comfortable

    • @coffintears5821
      @coffintears5821 Рік тому +4

      @@lonelyrooster ok so let's call this person Annie since I don't want to use her real name. She basically was my first friend at the beginning of 6th grade at first we were practically inseparable almost like sisters but the more I started hanging out with her the more she got sick of me and for a while we wouldn't see eachother and she would always hang out with my other friend who wasn't exactly my friend since we were never hung out that much. Soon she started drifting away from me and by the time 7th grade rolled around we hardly ever saw eachother and went I entered 8th grade she went to another school I suspected she only tolerated me because she felt sorry for me since I was basically the weird loner girl nobody wanted to be around. So she befriended me out of pity.
      I copied alot of things she did out of admiration kinda like Bertie and became sort of an alter ego of my friend. The thing she liked most was hello kitty so I was into hello kitty too for a while til I moved onto something else. I have vague memories of her now and I barely even remember what she looks like but she still hurt my feelings and that's always something I will remember.

  • @d4dm05
    @d4dm05 7 місяців тому +1

    I love this scene so much.. couldn’t relate more 😭😭😭

  • @peppermintpattycam5546
    @peppermintpattycam5546 Рік тому +2

    I had the same exact thing happen to me people can use you just like that- but you know what you are strong and powerful don’t let anyone tell you you aren’t.

  • @there2745
    @there2745 Рік тому +11

    Oh god, this reminds me of when I first got a phone and the first number I put on it was a friend at the time. I constantly texted them because it all was so new to me 🤦‍♀️ and I cringe the same way as Bertie, fuck.

  • @hazardofmadness6750
    @hazardofmadness6750 Рік тому +5

    Gurl you get into Retrowave once, you wanna return to the times when corona wasnt even thougt of and enjoy the ride in your new Delorean

  • @FilmmakeroftheFuture
    @FilmmakeroftheFuture Рік тому +4

    I wonder how Muriel really saw Bertie. Maybe she felt sorry for her but really didn’t want to commit.

  • @silvercheetah92
    @silvercheetah92 Рік тому +4

    Oh god she had to listen to the tape in the car because she didn't have a tape player that takes me back

  • @MsCatfish4
    @MsCatfish4 Рік тому +16

    This was her maladaptive daydreaming? When watching the episode I thought this was a montage of things they did together

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +10

      You’re right it is, but the way her brain remembers it feels just like how daydreamers dream about things.

  • @sablerivera7095
    @sablerivera7095 Рік тому +7

    It's rough though because it's like her friend egged on these changes. She wanted Bertie to change then dumped her when she did and that shit stung tbh.

  • @maxyhere
    @maxyhere Рік тому +36

    I hate maladaptive daydreaming....I didn't even knew how to call it until a few months ago

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +13

      I knew I had an issue with daydreaming but thought it was just me being lonely all the time, once I learned about general maladaptive disorders I noticed how I had all those symptoms and that it was a real mental problem.

  • @yesikanarvaez5027
    @yesikanarvaez5027 Рік тому +35

    I like the music

  • @Guyro3278
    @Guyro3278  Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much for 20,000 views and 1,000 likes
    Edit: Wow thanks for 100,000 views now! ❤️

  • @Hchris101
    @Hchris101 Рік тому +3

    This si a good anime

  • @AmberyTear
    @AmberyTear 5 місяців тому +1

    One part missing is when you snap out of it for a moment, look at the clock only to realize 5 hours have passed, start crying because now you won't get shit done on time and immediately fall back into being your brain's hostage again.

  • @boyinblue.
    @boyinblue. Рік тому +17

    Didn't really resonate with me, real people (including myself) are never in my day dreams. In fact, I come up with every person within them. But I do vibe with the idea of music stating the daydream, music and ideas from TV shows normally give me grand ideas.

  • @wormpielars979
    @wormpielars979 4 місяці тому +1

    neurodivergence and limerence is such a rough combo

  • @snbsixteen6stars201
    @snbsixteen6stars201 Рік тому +5

    Still amazing song, godda be my new jam

  • @pearlgoddess2940
    @pearlgoddess2940 Рік тому +1

    Lmao I didn't watch this season so I assumed by the thumbnail that this clip would be about Bertie daydreaming about dancing with her furby 🤣

  • @creepymiddleagedman
    @creepymiddleagedman Рік тому +2

    Okay, here's the song link:
    ua-cam.com/video/WNJnjgIupI4/v-deo.html

  • @y.9645
    @y.9645 Рік тому +2

    For me it was BPD and shifting into said FP.

  • @CreatrixxxINK
    @CreatrixxxINK Рік тому

    💜💕✨

  • @scarfguy5337
    @scarfguy5337 Рік тому

    I love cassettes

  • @scribbleshrimp
    @scribbleshrimp 7 місяців тому

    So real

  • @d3ath-by-bruj4h
    @d3ath-by-bruj4h Рік тому +3

    I was she didn't end up mean, she could have really helped bertie out of her shell (no pun intended)

  • @dissonanceparadiddle
    @dissonanceparadiddle Рік тому +7

    Man i really thought and hopped she'd be a good person for Bertie but dang. She was not as cool as she seemed at first ....i guess that's the point

  • @NagitosWifeSpotty
    @NagitosWifeSpotty Рік тому

    slay i daydcream 2 😍

  • @patheticrazor
    @patheticrazor Рік тому

    That bat girl is adorable tho

  • @tergivesup6783
    @tergivesup6783 Рік тому +2

    reminds me of life is strange.

  • @dentistdamsel1345
    @dentistdamsel1345 Рік тому

    Where can I watch the new seasons btw, I don't have Netflix or HBO Max, is it on Adult Swim's website yet?

  • @shellman1yt816
    @shellman1yt816 Рік тому

    Whoa

  • @Mysteri0usPuppet
    @Mysteri0usPuppet Рік тому +1

    I’m never truly gonna let go of Lydia huh.. I said I didn’t care yet here I am. Only watching Tuva and Bertie because I know I relate to much to the show. Wow. I can’t believe I’ve faked it for so long I even tricked myself.

  • @slime_skull6152
    @slime_skull6152 Рік тому

    Anyone else really like the song I want like a full version of it

  • @ktprogamercoolgirl5746
    @ktprogamercoolgirl5746 11 місяців тому +1

    I really wish I could find the song

    • @gladeseason3462
      @gladeseason3462 10 місяців тому

      It’s called You’re Something New by Lee Richardson

  • @bittlesthecookieakacaitcat8798

    Same

  • @gamingghost6590
    @gamingghost6590 Рік тому +9

    What song is this?

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +3

      You’re something new, I linked it in the description

  • @mellypon
    @mellypon Рік тому +3

    okay just gonna ask: *song name?*

    • @sprieite
      @sprieite Рік тому +2

      you’re something new by lee richardson and others

  • @anneira9706
    @anneira9706 Рік тому

    Muriel looks like the drummer in Hex Girls from Scooby-doo

  • @SkullpunkArt
    @SkullpunkArt Рік тому +1

    I love this! What show is it?

    • @kismetmoon9294
      @kismetmoon9294 Рік тому +3

      tuca and bertie !

    • @SkullpunkArt
      @SkullpunkArt Рік тому +2

      @@kismetmoon9294 yeah I guess that should’ve been obvious lol, thanks!

    • @kismetmoon9294
      @kismetmoon9294 Рік тому +1

      @@SkullpunkArt no worries :)

  • @blikk6054
    @blikk6054 Рік тому

    "ur never be my friend"

  • @EmmaJ_95
    @EmmaJ_95 2 місяці тому

    If you live in the UK you can watch Season 2 & 3 on 4 on Demand 😊

  • @Gooberwares
    @Gooberwares Рік тому +1

    Song plz

  • @AmariAmai27
    @AmariAmai27 Рік тому +1

    what song is this?

  • @rootfish2671
    @rootfish2671 Рік тому +1

    Rouge the bat

  • @Puuuurrrr
    @Puuuurrrr Рік тому

    Wait what episode is this from I don’t remember this scene omfg

  • @wfaluna
    @wfaluna Рік тому +1

    Song name?

  • @TravellerZasha
    @TravellerZasha Рік тому +2

    Wait, you're telling me people don't normally maladaptivly daydream from the moment they are born? XD

  • @melteddarkchocolate000
    @melteddarkchocolate000 Рік тому

    Wait is there not a full somg of the song? Like why is it so hard to find?

    • @TADYR
      @TADYR Рік тому

      It's on youtube and spotify! It's called You're Something New

  • @batipiller
    @batipiller Рік тому

    What show is that

  • @askosefamerve
    @askosefamerve Рік тому +2

    My dreams aren't that serious luckily lol... BTW should i watch this show?

  • @lizanezhyva3570
    @lizanezhyva3570 Рік тому

    Which episode is it ?

  • @dabdabthethird2410
    @dabdabthethird2410 Рік тому

    What episode is this?

  • @zackpumpkinhead8882
    @zackpumpkinhead8882 Рік тому

    This is my relationsip with Harvey Danger: a band.
    Minus the goth bat friend.
    And... the general lived experiences
    My life is pretty dull

  • @Magical_Jade
    @Magical_Jade Рік тому +4

    May I ask why the goth bat broke off the friendship to Birdie?

    • @TADYR
      @TADYR Рік тому +3

      She got mad that Bertie won Gothiest in the school yearbook and criticized her for 'copying' her, then told Bertie she was only hanging out with her because she felt bad for her about what happened at the jelly lakes (they met through bertie venting about it)

  • @drpepper8144
    @drpepper8144 Рік тому +4

    What song is this

    • @Guyro3278
      @Guyro3278  Рік тому +5

      You’re something new. I linked it in the description. It’s not on UA-cam anywhere only Spotify.

    • @drpepper8144
      @drpepper8144 Рік тому +1

      @@Guyro3278 thanks

    • @MrPhantaze
      @MrPhantaze Рік тому

      @@Guyro3278 wrong, it's just well hidden ua-cam.com/video/WNJnjgIupI4/v-deo.html

    • @midwich4564
      @midwich4564 Рік тому +1

      It actually is on youtube, but yeah you can't find it by searching for it? Or something. Here's the link to the song on YT if you still want it. ua-cam.com/video/WNJnjgIupI4/v-deo.html

    • @millikiro6102
      @millikiro6102 Рік тому

      @@Guyro3278 Hey I was able to find the song here on UA-cam.
      Here’s the link: ua-cam.com/video/WNJnjgIupI4/v-deo.html
      Hope this helps a lot ^^

  • @mischasmith5136
    @mischasmith5136 Рік тому +1

    Name of song?

  • @rebutterfly
    @rebutterfly 7 місяців тому +5

    Bertie is wearing a collar in this memory, a symbol of being captive, like a pet, enslaved to her owner.