GUIDE TO BE LADYLIKE PART 2: if you try and eat very elegantly please burn your mouth and don’t enjoy the soup and bread together it’s too good and liking food is not ladylike!. CONGRATS YOU ARE NOW A ✨lady✨
As a chef i would like to state that if the soup comes with bread the bread goes in the soup. No “elegant” restaurant would make you eat just plain bread. If the bread is not for the soup it would be served with oil or some sort of butter/tapanade
Thank you chef! I just had a soup with bread and I had oil put on the bread along with olives ...If I dont feel like diping it in the soup I always have some oil or something else with my bread otherwise plain isnt good!!!!
Yes, it's not the way you're eating, it's the way you just are. I got it, savoir blah blah, but... For fuck's sake, why so much pointless rules about something like FREAKING BREAD XD
Well you will be surely judged at a company dinner, if you are slurping ur bowl or soaking the bits by bits of bread. It's never to bad to learn some good etiquette afterall it's for own self, if u go with an attitude that it's show off or for people then can't help.
@@musicislife5211 I'm sorry. But if I'm with FAMILY I'm eating like there's no tomorrow. She's saying that elegant ladies eat like that everywhere. With anyone. Doesn't matter who. No thanks mate.
I am a boy 😅but when I watched the vedio,☠️ she just said not to blow the soup with your mouth 😳like you have superpower to drink that freaking hot boiling soup 🍲 straight from the pan 🤣🤣🤣 I was like wtf ☠️ is this cringe content 😑
That’s ok.. not everybody is about that life.. if you ain’t apart of the circle, you can eat however you want. This is basic eating etiquettes that are actually taught at seminars for those who are trying to be actual diplomats. And yes they pass and fail you, and your opportunity of becoming a diplomat requires you to know the proper etiquettes of how to eat soup properly, when it comes to eating with heads of states, ministers, presidents, royal families etc
@@willman9567 Neither would anyone say the same about you, freak. Look at you acting all holier than thou as if behaving like you have a stick up your ass makes you any better. 😂
Elegancy is not a matter of how you eat 💕 you’re just elegant . Period . Humility and not trying to be perfect is actually more elegant than trying too hard ☝🏼
Imma eat my soup however the fuck I want Edit: Y’all saying that I or other people replying in this section are being too dramatic, honestly we’re not. I’m sorry I wanna eat how I wanna eat.😐 But one thing is that dipping your bread into the soup doesn’t seem inelegant at all, anyone would do it even “elegant” people. Scooping soup the way she showed which is apparently the “wrong” way doesn’t seem inelegant at all just wait for it to stop dripping off the spoon. Even if some of us want to be elegant some of what she’s showing shouldn’t affect how we eat elegant or not. Y’all telling me or anyone else who agrees with me to scroll etc. it’s UA-cam we can comment whatever we want
@@luvlyariylxx Nada a ver meu! Estás praticamente a dizer que só pessoas com elegância conseguem dinheiro ou emprego. Nada a ver, devias é pensar duas vezes se o que vais dizer é correcto ou facto antes de falares sequer
Anyone who even notices which way you spoon the soup is paying way too much attention to your food. Seriously unless you're scooping it up with your bare hands I'm not saying anything.
Right they don't eat fart or poop. My boys were told this by their dad and my youngest would straight up want to fistfight my oldest when he told him that wasn't true about moms at all.
Soup from the outside part of the bowl is actually cooler than the rest. Plus, that's why when the food was served in restaurants. People don't usually eat right then. They talk for a while to let the food cool a little longer and then eat
She’s mistaking posh etiquette for elegance. They are not remotely the same thing. Elegance is your character and integrity and how you conduct yourself in all aspects of your life. Guess she missed the memo.
We need to get rid of stupid rules like this that give women lots of unimportant details to focus on and create anxiety to be perfect. Girl just eat your soup anyway you like it
If your at a fancy restaurant it’s best to have good manners because it could be disrespectful to the chefs and could make other people uncomfortable if your making slurping noises-
How to suck the joy away from eating every kid’s favorite meal. Word of wisdom: don’t compromise your inner child when you really don’t need to. Life’s too short
@@chupirusi where in the hell did I say that💀 quit linking being a lady to being unhappy. Inner child my ass lmao this is literally something as small as eating soup. Women often times pay for classes on being a lady and now it’s bad? Since when has being a lady been bad?
What? This doesn't even suck the joy away. You can eat however you want but in formal events and places you need to be appropriate. You don't wanna appear like a hungry chimpanzee who hasn't eaten for days in those situations or chewing so loudly like you're tryna make a remix of chewed foods.
You know what elegant ladies do? Eat and allow themselves to fully enjoy food with out surrendering to ideologies pushed on them and marching to their own drum beat.
I don’t care to be a “proper lady” I care about being healthy and getting my food in my mouth however the hell i want. I’ll be drinking that soup right out the bowl AND be eating the bread in one bite at the same time
Nah, I just thought that's how everyone ate. I be inhaling my soup while I'm seasoning my bread with car oil, and you best believe I ate in all in .3 seconds.
@@ChildOfTheGodI won't see a woman who is not using these specific techniques in the video and think of her as not elegant... Unless you are drinking straight out the bowl and shoving that bread in.
@@celinedalessandro950it’s food. There shouldn’t be any rules to eating except for those that make sure it’s safe to eat. Not because it looks “nicer.”
@@tigerlover7359 i mean....i agree for the most part, but i was taught from a young age not to rest my elbows on the table, so i never have....it was a bad habit i had that got broken early...it's a form of etiquette so that when/if you ever make it to a nice restaurant, you don't look like a heathen. Go to a country club and start chowing down on your food like you do at home...you're gonna get some strange looks. If you're cool with that, go on with your bad self, BUT it doesn't hurt to culture yourself and have a sense of decorum when needed....as Tati said "time and place"
@@calli.catastrophe why would you care what other people think? I've gone to so many restaurants and I've put my elbow on the table and never gotten any weird looks. I think that's just you
I see a bunch of people saying she isn’t judging others for the way they eat, but she literally claimed in the title that if you are an "elegant lady", you eat exactly like her. I hate people’s lack of attention span. Stop acting like she isn’t calling us sloppy
@@willman9567 Says the guy who is chugging on his beer and laughing to himself thinking he is doing something by sitting behind a computer making this comment.
@@z_.5557 omg get your head out of your ass and realize that ISNT THE PROBLEM lmao no one cares if you’re different. You ain’t the main character being “different” than all the other girls lol
I've been feeling deeply spiteful today and this is the last straw lmao. I'm off to make Campbell's chicken noodle soup and pour it directly down my throat out of a plastic Tupperware bowl okay y'all have a good night 👍
Food is meant to be enjoyed, there shouldn’t be any stress if you’re doing it wrong or not. My gf and I love sharing meals together and I love how she’s able to eat comfortably. She’s told me stories about how she used to feel judge when she would eat with others. I’m so glad that she feel comfortable around me and I’m glad that there’s no pressure and would love it if others could enjoy food the same way as we do. ✌🏻
@@grassisgraasnow that’s messed up. How did you gone from eating food to cannibalism? What kind of comparison is this? That’s like two seperate things 🥶
The louder the slurp the better the taste, my sauce is that sauce tastes better when you first put it on your mouth so if you do that repeatedly it tastes better and soup is basically sauce but hot and.
It’s so interesting how different cultures have different standards for manners. Western countries tend to have the no slurp & spoon away from you rule. Comapred to Asian countries where if you don’t slurp your Ramen, it’s offensive. The differences in cultures never ceases to fascinate me. Thanks for sharing! 😊
@@sunflowing ohhh. Still, if I ever slurped my spaghetti noodles, my mother would kill me. I can’t tell you how many times as a kid I got lectured to “spin you noodles onto your fork, don’t just slurp them into your mouth.” Needles to say, I spin my spaghetti.
@DiG-e9d I understand you there, my friend. My parents were quite strict too. I think I’ll change some of the rules they taught me when I have children. Others, I’ll definitely keep. My mom had this 3 bite rule. You had to take 3 bites of a food (even if you didn’t like it) before you could leave it on your plate. I didn’t always enjoy it, but as I got older I realized the reason the rule existed. 3 bites made us think about the food and it’s taste so that we wouldn’t just say we didn’t like it without really paying attention to what it truly tased like. Also, it was just enough that if we thought we didn’t like it, but in reality we were just shocked by a new flavor/texture, we could get used to it and tell if it was something we actually enjoyed. Yet, 3 bites isn’t enough to be cruel if it was truly something we didn’t enjoy. It was the perfect balance to help us try new foods and to help us get used to new 7 healthy foods over time. We weren’t allowed to leave the table unless we had 3 bites. After that, we could leave the rest alone. That was the rule for most foods. If we had a repeated disgust for a particular food over time and it was clear we truly didn’t like it, my mom would eventually let us just decline eating that food. Every couple of years or so, she would encourage us to try it again (because your taste buds change about every 7 years). But other than that, she would let it go. For me that food was tomatoes. I hated them. They were ok in ketchup or spaghetti (although I didn’t like the larger chunks in the sauce as much, but I would eat it because I could stand it a bit more than regular tomatoes). But if they were by themselves or in a salad or on a sandwich? No. Way. After a while, my mom didn’t push it. I wasn’t picky on much else, so that was good enough for her. I remember her convincing me to try on in middle school, just to see if my tastebuds had changed. But no, still hated them. I did keep trying one here and there. And then, in my Senior year of high school, I discovered my tastebuds had changed. Now I eat them virtually any way. (There are still some kinds I don’t prefer to eat plain, but on the whole, tomatoes are now one of my favorite vegetables.) I really appreciated the 3 bite rule. I grew up the opposite of a picky eater. There are very few foods I don’t care for. I’m actually someone who is quite adventurous in trying new foods. And I owe that to the way my mom raised me. Even though I have a myriad of food intolerances, I still enjoy trying new cuisine. I always tell people: “I’m not a picky eater by choice. And if my body could handle all types of food, the list of new things I’d love to try would be a mile long.” SORRY I WROTE A BOOK. 😅 Sometimes I can’t help it. hehe
@whenimmanicimgodly4228 can't tell if this is satire, but no- the way anyone consumes their food does not change the overall effects in the body it has or changes the way it is digested
This ain’t about others, this is about you and how you treat yourself. If y’all claim y’all love yourselves so much then show it to yourself. Some ladies just love/ respect themselves so much where they wanna incorporate it into their life’s bc why wouldn’t they? If you think you deserve good then prove it to yourself
@@CATDOJAA Is it really respecting yourself that you don't allow yourself to be happy? Is respecting yourself acting in a way that only aims to look pleasant in other's eyes and not treating yourself with the comfort that you deserve?
Nah I've seen really elegant people. They handle themselves with so much class (it's amazing even those who are not rich like me can have this naturally) I eat respectfully and appropriately without thinking about other people's opinions but whenever I am with people like her, you can really see the difference. So no, you can't just be truly elegant with just being respectful and appropriate.
I don't care but being a teenager and literally seeing someone telling how to eat in PUBLIC and showing proper table manners and teaching to look nice while eating will really help me ❤❤😅😊
My parents taught me if it's not an important meal with some powerful ppl just eat the way u want, as long as you stay respectful towards othe people near you
Good attempt but not accurate. I know this video is a joke, but for anyone who seeks to become more sophisticated, here is the real way. I levitate the soup directly onto my forehead and let it dribble down my nasolabial folds (approximately) and just open my mouth really wide to show enjoyment of the meal, and the soup mostly goes inside sometimes. This is way I've seen people enjoy their soups at presidential dinners. If there is bread present, you must not touch it. It is your neighbor's bread. Accordingly, show neighborly trust by reaching to your LEFT table neighbor and taking THEIR bread. Manner of consumption does not matter in this case. If you are the furthest left at your table, you're shit out of luck. The only bypass of this etiquette problem is by going under the table to take the bread of the person sitting directly across from you. Again, if there is no one seated there, you won't be having bread that night. It's important to demonstrate graceful restraint and acceptance of circumstances. Children in Africa are starving every second children starve in Africa.
@@emote3976 Are you sure it's just them that they're ignoring and not you as well? Because last time I checked too, rich people don't give a fuck about any of us, including you no matter how much you defend them.
Elegantly is living you're life respecting you're self and others, loving you're self and you're family ( if they were a good family ) not eating like this, if thats what elegant is I never want to be elegant ty very much.
As a lady, I can say that , if I'm hungry, I will eat even the bowl, not only the soup.
Lmaooo samee
Bro spare the bowl it doesn't deserve this kind of treatment
Yassssss
@@akatsukihajime6100 bro wtf I dying 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's late night and started laughing reading your comment bahahahahahahhahaa
How to eat soup elegantly: do not lift up the spoon, do not touch the bowl, do not sip the soup, stare at the soup and wait for it to enter your mouth
I can confirm, this is how I consume soup.
😂
GUIDE TO BE LADYLIKE PART 2:
if you try and eat very elegantly please burn your mouth and don’t enjoy the soup and bread together it’s too good and liking food is not ladylike!. CONGRATS YOU ARE NOW A ✨lady✨
Do not eat
💀💀
I'll just enjoy my food no matter what others think 🤣
Then don't watch her content?? Negative comments are unnecessary
@@KARINA29534 you are giving negative comment to me...i dint give..i just told what i want...😆
@@KARINA29534 it's on the net, so anyone can watch and *comment*
@@v.n.k4911 pathetic English. Learn some grammar then come and talk to me
good for you!
As a chef i would like to state that if the soup comes with bread the bread goes in the soup. No “elegant” restaurant would make you eat just plain bread. If the bread is not for the soup it would be served with oil or some sort of butter/tapanade
Omg thank you, it’s almost like this type of people don’t even go out of their house
Thank you chef! I just had a soup with bread and I had oil put on the bread along with olives ...If I dont feel like diping it in the soup I always have some oil or something else with my bread otherwise plain isnt good!!!!
Thank you! Because I'm not about to eat dry ass bread when there's soup in front of me
Exactly, yes maybe don't use the whole thing of b it's a large slice like that, breaking it up is fine, but no way I'm eating it seperately
Exactly, people on social media are posting just about anything for views no matter how dumb it looks
I’m not a sociopath, I’m going to continue dunking my bread into my soup.
I'm going to continue dunking my head into the soup.
I’m going to continue eating the bread and forgetting to drink the soup
Same
@@Emmyhere88 lol
@@O_MAH_GAWD lol
You can be an elegant lady and still dip your bread in the soup, girls.
Yes, it's not the way you're eating, it's the way you just are. I got it, savoir blah blah, but... For fuck's sake, why so much pointless rules about something like FREAKING BREAD XD
Yes ma'am!!!
Yes yes yes
I agree
Xx
Elegant ladies don’t judge others for how they eat
Right😮
Exactly!
🎉❤🎉
Well you will be surely judged at a company dinner, if you are slurping ur bowl or soaking the bits by bits of bread. It's never to bad to learn some good etiquette afterall it's for own self, if u go with an attitude that it's show off or for people then can't help.
@@musicislife5211 I'm sorry. But if I'm with FAMILY I'm eating like there's no tomorrow. She's saying that elegant ladies eat like that everywhere. With anyone. Doesn't matter who. No thanks mate.
As an elegant man, I actually drink my soup with a straw
beyond underrated 💀👏
The mouth burn is gonna be insane 💀 (I’ve tried it 😂)
😂😂😂
😂🤣😂
This comment made me chuckle😂😂🤣
If i can't dip my bread in my soup I don't want to be elegant.
yes, I agree with you
I am a boy 😅but when I watched the vedio,☠️ she just said not to blow the soup with your mouth 😳like you have superpower to drink that freaking hot boiling soup 🍲 straight from the pan 🤣🤣🤣
I was like wtf ☠️ is this cringe content 😑
If i can't dip my bread in my soup I'll dunk the soup from whoever's stopping me
Same
FR
as a professionally elegant lady I can confirm that all elegant ladies consume their soup however the fuck they like
period
You don’t sound like an elegant woman
@@Kyle97492 ok kyle
@@venus1669 why did this seem like a roast even tho its their name..
Cheers
I don't want to live in a world where I can't get my bread in My Soup.
me neither
😂😭fr
SAME it tastes better when it’s all gooey with soupy goodness. Life’s too short!!!
I love the capitalization of My Soup haha
Same
Elegant ladies never make tiktok in restaurant.
If you have soup and bread the bread goes in the soup, it's the law of the universe.
Thank you. Who knew soup had steps on how to eat
Yes
EXACTLY
There is no debating it, soup+bread=bread in soup
YES
she managed to take the joy out of consuming soup and bread in thirty seconds
That’s ok.. not everybody is about that life.. if you ain’t apart of the circle, you can eat however you want.
This is basic eating etiquettes that are actually taught at seminars for those who are trying to be actual diplomats. And yes they pass and fail you, and your opportunity of becoming a diplomat requires you to know the proper etiquettes of how to eat soup properly, when it comes to eating with heads of states, ministers, presidents, royal families etc
@@saltypotatoesand to think we use to be cavemen my god 😂
@@saltypotatoesshut up
You should watch the one about eating a hamburger...😂😂
@saltypotatoes oh I will pass, but then I am eating like this.
It must be exhausting caring so much what others think about you 😩
Bro if u don't like her content then leave
@@nanamiita3576 that’s not the point weirdo
@@nanamiita3576 this a comment section tho
@@radioactive.rabbit Still, if you don't like something you can leave
@@nanamiita3576we leavin' after commenting cuz we elegant like dat😌
How do we laugh? We laugh politely hahaha
"HWHEHEGRNHAAHAHAHAHAAG"😂
😂❤😂❤😂
Girl if I can't even dunk my bread into the soup ima just give up on being "elegant" at this point 💀
you get the bread to dunk it in the soup , like i'l just eat a plane piece of bread for no reason
FR
777 likes, I can’t-
think about why there’s no “how elegant men should eat” videos
Cause we care about having fun instead of showin class and stuff IG?
Most men just wanna spend time and Party with their friends🤣
@@mohammedrehaan3090My cousin: am i a joke to you?
@@mohammedrehaan3090bro doesn’t enjoy brunch, what a sad life.
well.. men are men mate and thats why i always enjoy my food
Think about why a woman made this video. Perhaps because men don’t give a shit about what others eat?
If I can’t dunk my bread I don’t want to be elegant.
same 😅
Doubt anyone would ever accuse you of elegance in anything.
@@willman9567 Neither would anyone say the same about you, freak.
Look at you acting all holier than thou as if behaving like you have a stick up your ass makes you any better. 😂
@@willman9567 😂
Same bruhh
Elegancy is not a matter of how you eat 💕 you’re just elegant . Period . Humility and not trying to be perfect is actually more elegant than trying too hard ☝🏼
Girls like her need to hear this. She is acting like an android
Elegance
I'm not going to have my lips burned off just to appear elegant. I will dip, blow etc just to make sure I enjoy my food.
She’s not telling you do eat it like how she does it. It’s for special occasions, like meetings, dates, etc. not just to eat by yourself
period
@@bluesclues3169 why should you be doing this on a date anyway. Date isnt a job, just be yourself
Period!
@@FunnyFishFart33 your saying you would eat like an animal on a date? Yeesh what happened to having manners.
I’ll double and triple dunk my bread all I damn want.
Right!.. what's the point of bread with soup if you can't dunk?!!
Fr
Then go ahead, nobody gives af if you don’t 💀
Frrr
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Thats when the food hits different unlocks another level of greatness ❤😂😂😂
Imma eat my soup however the fuck I want
Edit: Y’all saying that I or other people replying in this section are being too dramatic, honestly we’re not. I’m sorry I wanna eat how I wanna eat.😐 But one thing is that dipping your bread into the soup doesn’t seem inelegant at all, anyone would do it even “elegant” people. Scooping soup the way she showed which is apparently the “wrong” way doesn’t seem inelegant at all just wait for it to stop dripping off the spoon. Even if some of us want to be elegant some of what she’s showing shouldn’t affect how we eat elegant or not. Y’all telling me or anyone else who agrees with me to scroll etc. it’s UA-cam we can comment whatever we want
Exactly 💅
y’all are being dramatic
That part
then go like no one stoppin u
I heeard thr
I wanna actually see her eat the whole soup like this
me too
She’ll probably have some a lady never leaves the dish empty 💀
Never gonna happen 💀
That would take her 2 years
I couldn't stomach it, I think I'd vomit from the hideous arrogance. Easier watching a 700lb man shovel and ooze food. D;
If I can’t dip my grilled cheese directly into my tomato soup, then I don’t want to be a lady 😂😂
Perhaps they should have used a grilled cheese and tomato soup reference.... Im certain, this would be very different... 😂😂😂😂 Im with you 🤘😁
That's the only way too 🥰
@@Kursed_Desii A, I wanna see her eat tacos! 🌮🌮
@@HVO2024 i love tacos🌮
Period
No thanks I choose happiness
is this not happiness?
@@luvlyariylxx i dont think so :(
@@luvlyariylxx it's at best just stressful to keep all of those princess-y rUlEs in your mind all the time. For literally no important reason
@@radioactive.rabbit I don’t understand, like can u literally survive a day without money? No😂
@@luvlyariylxx Nada a ver meu! Estás praticamente a dizer que só pessoas com elegância conseguem dinheiro ou emprego. Nada a ver, devias é pensar duas vezes se o que vais dizer é correcto ou facto antes de falares sequer
I’d like to think I’m elegant , elegant enough to pick the bowl up and drink it like I haven’t had anything to eat in 4 months .
or like a baby one their parents last nerves
This made my day 😂😂😂😂😂
💀
I know right? Like i can be eatung my soup and bread with my feet for all that i care? Like wtf
So trye
If I do this in front of Indian parents, will get a death stare from them😂
I can already tell she’s that one person that takes forever to finish their food
REAL.
HONESTLYYYY
i mean i take forever to finish my food but im eating for 4 adults so 🙉
Bruh on purpose too just to prove how disciplined she is LMAOOOOOOO
I'm already a slow eater as is. If I did this, I'd be finishing dinner in time for breakfast the next day. 🤣
Ain’t no way we gotta spoon our soup in a certain way to be elegant💀
Fr like this lady is Fr doing to much
Anyone who even notices which way you spoon the soup is paying way too much attention to your food. Seriously unless you're scooping it up with your bare hands I'm not saying anything.
Elegant ladies don't eat soup,they drink air
Yes, that’s also why they don’t poop
Right they don't eat fart or poop. My boys were told this by their dad and my youngest would straight up want to fistfight my oldest when he told him that wasn't true about moms at all.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
@@juliawhitt7202or fart
Haven't seen one elegant individual in my entire life!
*dunks the bread into the soup and slurps aggressively*
Me too!!!
@@lavanyabalaji3374 yay high five 😁😄
You go girl enjoy it 😅🙌🏻
😂😂
Lol I am with you
Steps to drink a soup elegantly: do not blow the sup when it is hot and burn your mouth and then go to the hospital and come back to home elegantly ❤
😂💀
Soup being 200 degrees hot
😂😂😂
😂😂
Probably why they eat gestapo
elegant ladies do what they want with their soup.
let’s go ladies.
Well said!!!
You tell them lady 😂😂😂😂😂😂,what a joke
I’m comin😂
Honestly this is comedy gold 😂
Damn I don't think I will ever be able to eat like an elegant lady like bruh! 😂 I don't want to eat plain bread and burn my mouth with hot soup 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Same😂
Taking the soup from the outside of the bowl is actually a lot cooler then the inside
Soup from the outside part of the bowl is actually cooler than the rest. Plus, that's why when the food was served in restaurants. People don't usually eat right then. They talk for a while to let the food cool a little longer and then eat
If you ever feel useless, remember this.
Very much so
she is jsut saying this to show you she’s not forcing anyone to do this so dont hate on her for liking to be elegant
@@vale.x1Elegant or just raw idiocy ? This is like "ok but don't season the beef, eat the steak and the salt seperatly very elegant"
Who has the final say in what is elegant?
@@vale.x1stop dick riding
She’s mistaking posh etiquette for elegance. They are not remotely the same thing. Elegance is your character and integrity and how you conduct yourself in all aspects of your life. Guess she missed the memo.
Yes literally I was raised on having to know table manners and still don’t do this stupidy
My thoughts exactly.
@springs1312 This is not stupidity. Very good to know this, in case you are ever in that company.
We need to get rid of stupid rules like this that give women lots of unimportant details to focus on and create anxiety to be perfect. Girl just eat your soup anyway you like it
Bro I guess I’m a un-elegant lady lol I literally just soak my bread in the soup
Edit: That’s my bad tearing bread is kinda fire 🔥 🔥🔥
Psycopaths?
@Draktharm what she said
Average western women with no manners.
i tear my bread...😭
@@raeganstr Physcopath!
If i ate soup and bread like that my fiance would have ended the relationship after the first date lmao
your getting married! congrats
Bro mine 2😂😂😂
My family would disown me
You dont have a fiancee bruh stop 🧢🧢
@@KfcOwner is this supposed to be an insult? The ring on my finger says different "bruh" lol have a good life
I don't wanna be elegant, I want to be full and happy
First
this exactly
If your at a fancy restaurant it’s best to have good manners because it could be disrespectful to the chefs and could make other people uncomfortable if your making slurping noises-
AMEN
@@phantasmagoria617but that means we are still enjoying it
*agressively dunks bread in soup*
How to suck the joy away from eating every kid’s favorite meal. Word of wisdom: don’t compromise your inner child when you really don’t need to. Life’s too short
And sometimes women just respect themselves so much that they wanna carry themselves with respect. What’s wrong with that?
@@CATDOJAA so those who don’t want to play tea party with you when eating dinner don’t deserve respect. Classist much
@@chupirusi where in the hell did I say that💀 quit linking being a lady to being unhappy. Inner child my ass lmao this is literally something as small as eating soup. Women often times pay for classes on being a lady and now it’s bad? Since when has being a lady been bad?
@@CATDOJAA It ain't the 1800s no more. If you really wanna be elegant, then step right up to your local guillotine.
What? This doesn't even suck the joy away. You can eat however you want but in formal events and places you need to be appropriate. You don't wanna appear like a hungry chimpanzee who hasn't eaten for days in those situations or chewing so loudly like you're tryna make a remix of chewed foods.
Elegant ladies don’t judge other women for how they eat
You know what elegant ladies do? Eat and allow themselves to fully enjoy food with out surrendering to ideologies pushed on them and marching to their own drum beat.
Depends on your definition of elegant…
@@JosephQPublic Not really, but slay queen slayyy
@@marmar3530yes really but still
Got damn Lou, finally! This internet shit allowing you to put that women's studies degree to work
Your fun at party's
I'm not trying to be elegant. I'm trying to eat
Elegant ladies can eat food however tf they want
Nop
Exactly!!😂🤦🏾♀️
Its the way you act, Not the way you eat
@@seiyarules eating is acting
@@Asterisk0000 eating is enjoying
Next video: Elegant ladies NEVER breathe the same air as you!
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Breathe in only from one side of the nose and breathe out from the other if you use your mouth to breathe you are a UNCULTURED MONSTER .
I don’t care to be a “proper lady” I care about being healthy and getting my food in my mouth however the hell i want. I’ll be drinking that soup right out the bowl AND be eating the bread in one bite at the same time
Nah, I just thought that's how everyone ate. I be inhaling my soup while I'm seasoning my bread with car oil, and you best believe I ate in all in .3 seconds.
That's why this is for elegant ladies only 😊
@@ChildOfTheGodI won't see a woman who is not using these specific techniques in the video and think of her as not elegant...
Unless you are drinking straight out the bowl and shoving that bread in.
My Italian dad & grandpa would be so proud of you 😂
As an elegant man, I make sure my slurping is above 874 decibels every time
Elegant ladies never tell other people what’s elegant and what’s not ❤
They are some rules to eat and whatsoever, don’t get why you people take it that personally
@@celinedalessandro950it’s food. There shouldn’t be any rules to eating except for those that make sure it’s safe to eat. Not because it looks “nicer.”
@@tigerlover7359you are so right 😊
@@tigerlover7359 i mean....i agree for the most part, but i was taught from a young age not to rest my elbows on the table, so i never have....it was a bad habit i had that got broken early...it's a form of etiquette so that when/if you ever make it to a nice restaurant, you don't look like a heathen. Go to a country club and start chowing down on your food like you do at home...you're gonna get some strange looks. If you're cool with that, go on with your bad self, BUT it doesn't hurt to culture yourself and have a sense of decorum when needed....as Tati said "time and place"
@@calli.catastrophe why would you care what other people think? I've gone to so many restaurants and I've put my elbow on the table and never gotten any weird looks. I think that's just you
Instructions unclear , soup is now everywhere and the bread is now dancing
Is the floor wet?
@@omkarpawar6709 no , the ceiling is wet
@@Abandondeded so then floor must be lava
@@omkarpawar6709 no , i have no floor
@@Abandondeded the where is the bread dancing
"Elegant ladies don't blow soup"
Soup : *1000°*
Elegant ladies : *slurp*
Their tongue : alrgt imma head out
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@@tahirihachiaa1626 🥰thx^^
I see a bunch of people saying she isn’t judging others for the way they eat, but she literally claimed in the title that if you are an "elegant lady", you eat exactly like her. I hate people’s lack of attention span. Stop acting like she isn’t calling us sloppy
Real elegance doesn't judge others.
Not sure when she judged. I just saw information regarding manners. I am sure you slop like a hog when you eat or you wouldn't be so upset.
@@willman9567 Says the guy who is chugging on his beer and laughing to himself thinking he is doing something by sitting behind a computer making this comment.
@@z_.5557 I didn't say I was a guy.
@@willman9567 HELP, SO WHY IS YOUR USERNAME WILLMAN? 😭
@@sly_lxi2203 Why should it not be? It's not a gendered name.
Next time:
HOW TO BREATHE ELEGANTLY
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Elegant ladies don't breathe
@@SiddhiChaukate 💀
How to breathe AESTHETICALLY
If she doesn't dunk the bread in the soup, she's probably a sociopath.
Lol right !
The only way to get my respect through eating soup is by sticking your head in the bowl like it's a trough
There's no question she is.. look at her.
literally like that’s why they gave her dumbass the bread
real
As a guy I encourage women and guys to eat soup how ever they like not what society expects.
Elegant ladies don’t care what other think and just enjoy the food they are lucky to have
Elegant ladies care about what they think of themselves, they respect themselves so they wanna eat respectfully. Literally who cares
@@CATDOJAAwho cares bro ☠️
@@leafsculpture literally what I just said lol
@@CATDOJAA Nobody cares, and yet you keep shoving it in our faces like it's some "morally higher than thou" example that we should follow. 💀
@@z_.5557 omg get your head out of your ass and realize that ISNT THE PROBLEM lmao no one cares if you’re different. You ain’t the main character being “different” than all the other girls lol
I've been feeling deeply spiteful today and this is the last straw lmao. I'm off to make Campbell's chicken noodle soup and pour it directly down my throat out of a plastic Tupperware bowl okay y'all have a good night 👍
I love this comment so much
Truthfully Hope you had fun with that
Right on!
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Finally someone who makes sense!!!!
This comment is giving me live😂😂
Food is meant to be enjoyed, there shouldn’t be any stress if you’re doing it wrong or not. My gf and I love sharing meals together and I love how she’s able to eat comfortably. She’s told me stories about how she used to feel judge when she would eat with others. I’m so glad that she feel comfortable around me and I’m glad that there’s no pressure and would love it if others could enjoy food the same way as we do. ✌🏻
I guess eating human flesh is right now because it's able to be enjoyed, don't judge jeffrey! You said no judging!
@@grassisgraasnow that’s messed up. How did you gone from eating food to cannibalism? What kind of comparison is this? That’s like two seperate things 🥶
@@grassisgraaslmao do you have 2 braincells dawg? 😂 you're comparing eating soup to eating humans.
@@grassisgraashow did you even reach that conclusion you fucking dipshit
I knowwwww, like bro we can eat with our feat for all that we care. We are elegant because of oyr personality, not by how we eat like bruh, tf
Dipping the bread in the soup is the best part.
Hell nah, I'm slurping my soup from the bowl straight
Hell yeah brother
Cube of culture
That's my favorite way to go
Real lmao
yeahhh
If you’re not supposed to dip the bread in the soup, then why would they give bread to you?
maybe take some soup and then the bread right after so it’s still together
😂😂😂😂😂
say it in Joe's accent (Friends)
@@kiaratheexplorer4 your stomach doesn't mind and neither would others
@@kiaratheexplorer4doesn't taste as good as dipping it though.
Still going to dip my bread IN my soup 😊
Same
Yup same, I’ll double dip it !!!!
Your food your way people. Whatever way YOU think is right, is right. Bottom-line: food should be eaten with enjoyment
I just drink my soup from the bowl. Ain’t no body got time to look “elegant” before the soup gets cold.
Exactly
This man gets it.
If Belle from Beauty and the Beast can do it, so can I.
are you a dude because this video was talking about females
@@olgathehandmaidwhat did she do
i’ll eat my soup and bread however i want to 💀💀
Then do it. nobody is holding you at gun point..
@@yeetedunicorn4145 right 💀 like this is how to eat elegantly not how to eat bread and aoup
well yeah… this is aimed toward people who wanna be elegant 💀
Ikr💀
As an asian man, I dont care about being elegant, I’m gonna slurping that soup loud af.
The louder the slurp the better the taste, my sauce is that sauce tastes better when you first put it on your mouth so if you do that repeatedly it tastes better and soup is basically sauce but hot and.
Same!
Reminder, yes I will do the same.
@@armin70 it’s allowed in most Asian countries.
@@karatekidfahim3 dude..
It’s so interesting how different cultures have different standards for manners. Western countries tend to have the no slurp & spoon away from you rule. Comapred to Asian countries where if you don’t slurp your Ramen, it’s offensive.
The differences in cultures never ceases to fascinate me. Thanks for sharing! 😊
This is not at all our culture.
This is a very rare thing generally considered to be pompous as well as comedic.
@@sunflowing ohhh. Still, if I ever slurped my spaghetti noodles, my mother would kill me. I can’t tell you how many times as a kid I got lectured to “spin you noodles onto your fork, don’t just slurp them into your mouth.” Needles to say, I spin my spaghetti.
@DiG-e9d I understand you there, my friend. My parents were quite strict too. I think I’ll change some of the rules they taught me when I have children. Others, I’ll definitely keep.
My mom had this 3 bite rule. You had to take 3 bites of a food (even if you didn’t like it) before you could leave it on your plate. I didn’t always enjoy it, but as I got older I realized the reason the rule existed. 3 bites made us think about the food and it’s taste so that we wouldn’t just say we didn’t like it without really paying attention to what it truly tased like. Also, it was just enough that if we thought we didn’t like it, but in reality we were just shocked by a new flavor/texture, we could get used to it and tell if it was something we actually enjoyed. Yet, 3 bites isn’t enough to be cruel if it was truly something we didn’t enjoy. It was the perfect balance to help us try new foods and to help us get used to new 7 healthy foods over time. We weren’t allowed to leave the table unless we had 3 bites. After that, we could leave the rest alone.
That was the rule for most foods. If we had a repeated disgust for a particular food over time and it was clear we truly didn’t like it, my mom would eventually let us just decline eating that food. Every couple of years or so, she would encourage us to try it again (because your taste buds change about every 7 years). But other than that, she would let it go. For me that food was tomatoes. I hated them. They were ok in ketchup or spaghetti (although I didn’t like the larger chunks in the sauce as much, but I would eat it because I could stand it a bit more than regular tomatoes). But if they were by themselves or in a salad or on a sandwich? No. Way. After a while, my mom didn’t push it. I wasn’t picky on much else, so that was good enough for her. I remember her convincing me to try on in middle school, just to see if my tastebuds had changed. But no, still hated them. I did keep trying one here and there. And then, in my Senior year of high school, I discovered my tastebuds had changed. Now I eat them virtually any way. (There are still some kinds I don’t prefer to eat plain, but on the whole, tomatoes are now one of my favorite vegetables.)
I really appreciated the 3 bite rule. I grew up the opposite of a picky eater. There are very few foods I don’t care for. I’m actually someone who is quite adventurous in trying new foods. And I owe that to the way my mom raised me. Even though I have a myriad of food intolerances, I still enjoy trying new cuisine. I always tell people: “I’m not a picky eater by choice. And if my body could handle all types of food, the list of new things I’d love to try would be a mile long.”
SORRY I WROTE A BOOK. 😅 Sometimes I can’t help it. hehe
food is food, it won’t matter how you ate it once it’s in your stomach
what if it gets more elegantly digested if you eat it nicer
Oh, so you are telling me i can kidnap you, rip out your intestines, and eat them because they are edible?
@whenimmanicimgodly4228 can't tell if this is satire, but no- the way anyone consumes their food does not change the overall effects in the body it has or changes the way it is digested
Never let them know your newly move: eat the soup and drink the bread 💀
Underrated comment.
Nah bro catch me turning into a wood chipper in the middle of a 5 star restaurant. That bread is GONE
You are a
Legend🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Multiverse be like 😂
LOL sounds elegant 😂😂
Yeah I don’t care enough about others to not enjoy my food how I want it
This ain’t about others, this is about you and how you treat yourself. If y’all claim y’all love yourselves so much then show it to yourself. Some ladies just love/ respect themselves so much where they wanna incorporate it into their life’s bc why wouldn’t they? If you think you deserve good then prove it to yourself
She's the reason the meme Women ☕came to existence!
Is life too hard?
@@ValenTina-sh7mu 😂yep so for that we have to watch other such vdos , then it surely will 😂🤣🤣
As an African, this made me want to cry.💀
I know oml... Hurray for etiquette but the meal definitely isn't going to be as enjoyable
I'm not even african and it's the same to me
you're so fat that even your facebook profile picture is chubby, jokes btw
As a Chinese, this made me want to die
Yall are simply not cultured
I'm an Indian. I am dunking my bread in the soup , very elegantly. Thanks .
We’re going back to the 1800’s with this one 🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥🔥
How to be truly elegant: dont care what people think and eat however you want in an appropriate and respectful way
No? Believe it or not being “elegant” ain’t about being happy. It’s about respecting yourself so much where you even show it on the outside.
@@CATDOJAA Is it really respecting yourself that you don't allow yourself to be happy?
Is respecting yourself acting in a way that only aims to look pleasant in other's eyes and not treating yourself with the comfort that you deserve?
@@z_.5557 holy shit are you dumb? Like actually. You guys link being “ladylike” as such an unhappy thing 💀💀💀💀
@@z_.5557 Eating like a pig makes you happy? Really amazing how triggered everyone is over table manners.
Nah I've seen really elegant people. They handle themselves with so much class (it's amazing even those who are not rich like me can have this naturally) I eat respectfully and appropriately without thinking about other people's opinions but whenever I am with people like her, you can really see the difference. So no, you can't just be truly elegant with just being respectful and appropriate.
She is so humble that she forgot to tell us that she made the universe🐐🐐
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Sarcasam on next level 😂
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you are really an elegant lady if you don’t care what your perception from other people are
No you're not.. what is even your perception of "elegant"
I don't care but being a teenager and literally seeing someone telling how to eat in PUBLIC and showing proper table manners and teaching to look nice while eating will really help me
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I literally hand grabbed my $70 steak at the t bone at a 5 star restaurant and ate that shit like a savage in front of everyone
Hell yeah
Eating by hand is the best way to eat
queen shit
I just read America as a sentence, no judging tho fucking eat how you wanna
Thinking abt that makes ne hungry
Attitude, how they talk, and how someone treats others is what makes someone look elegant to me.
My parents taught me if it's not an important meal with some powerful ppl just eat the way u want, as long as you stay respectful towards othe people near you
Pero ella no te esta diciendo que así deberías comer😂😂😂
Good attempt but not accurate. I know this video is a joke, but for anyone who seeks to become more sophisticated, here is the real way.
I levitate the soup directly onto my forehead and let it dribble down my nasolabial folds (approximately) and just open my mouth really wide to show enjoyment of the meal, and the soup mostly goes inside sometimes. This is way I've seen people enjoy their soups at presidential dinners.
If there is bread present, you must not touch it. It is your neighbor's bread. Accordingly, show neighborly trust by reaching to your LEFT table neighbor and taking THEIR bread. Manner of consumption does not matter in this case. If you are the furthest left at your table, you're shit out of luck. The only bypass of this etiquette problem is by going under the table to take the bread of the person sitting directly across from you. Again, if there is no one seated there, you won't be having bread that night. It's important to demonstrate graceful restraint and acceptance of circumstances. Children in Africa are starving every second children starve in Africa.
I don't care how elegant I have to be I'm still dunking that bread in the soup 😂
I ain't going to fancy restaurant with strangers
I'mma go with my buds and be weird
*Elegant people don't look at how others are eating their food*. That should be the biggest etiquette😂😂
Elegant people actually do that because they are too rich and well-mannered to even care to look at you 😂
@@emote3976 Are you sure it's just them that they're ignoring and not you as well?
Because last time I checked too, rich people don't give a fuck about any of us, including you no matter how much you defend them.
Although your videos are good . True beauty and Eligance comes from within
The person who invented convoluted table manners has their own custom made layer of hell just for them
😂😂😂 it shows they had too much free time to do such stupidity
Wait till you hear about what you're supposed to do with the bread basket in a dinner setting.
this one is so underrated
My food my choice 🥴
HELL NAH, im blowing my soup bc its way too hot to even process it down my throat 😭
Elegantly is living you're life respecting you're self and others, loving you're self and you're family ( if they were a good family ) not eating like this, if thats what elegant is I never want to be elegant ty very much.
How to eat like a lady: Telepathically talk to the soup and it will be absorbed though your skin in small particles. After 4hrs, your meal is done
Next video : how to breathe elegantly
Breathe air like a normal person❌
Breathe under water✔✔✔✔
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Don't be a mouth breather.
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I dip my bread in the soup. I love it. 😂😂😂😂😂