How To Love How You Look

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  • Опубліковано 17 лис 2024

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  • @Exotixa
    @Exotixa 10 місяців тому +451

    "There's no such thing as ugly, only neglected." Powerful

    • @semolinasemolina8327
      @semolinasemolina8327 10 місяців тому +9

      "I look after me now" "I look after myself" "I care for myself"

    • @paulinenoel2576
      @paulinenoel2576 8 місяців тому +5

      I've been saying exactly this to people, but they say it's not true lol. Nobody is ugly, they are just neglected or do not know their beautiful traits to put forward

    • @solarmoon1054
      @solarmoon1054 8 місяців тому +1

      I disagree so strongly. There are certain faces that are hard to look at. Sometimes you are unfortunately looking and not your type at the same time. What then? Some features just look terribly bad, especially paired with other odd features and no amount of care (maybe only surgery) will change it

  • @LJ-kn7oe
    @LJ-kn7oe 8 місяців тому +105

    I’m a model & I got a rhinoplasty thinking it would help my insecurities & now I’m LESS attractive. My nose is now objectively perfect & it makes my face look bland. I wasn’t able to see the beauty of my face due to dysmorphia so I picked apart my individual features. A big mistake but it made me realize that the issue is me & not how I look & now it’s about learning to like myself instead of changing. Great video.

  • @googleuser4034
    @googleuser4034 10 місяців тому +93

    HEALTHY looks beautiful on everyone.

  • @Jenn_KittyThe3rd
    @Jenn_KittyThe3rd 10 місяців тому +135

    I love one of your last points about being with a partner that LOVES your body type/looks. My last partner, I was not his typical type, and honestly I've never felt more ugly in my life. He was wonderful, but as a woman, we can tell when our partner lights up, and when its not for your type, it sucks so damn bad.

    • @Shreyashi_512
      @Shreyashi_512 7 місяців тому +6

      Absolutely agree. Not many people talk about how important it is.

  • @everitadave
    @everitadave 10 місяців тому +56

    another little beauty technique - is looking at your own image or photo with true adoration. you will be surprised how only in 3 days - you will never doubt your beauty ever again.

  • @bitterapple
    @bitterapple 10 місяців тому +107

    You remind me of the Girl with a Pearl Earring painting without makeup. You are a classic beauty!

  • @KingBrokenCode
    @KingBrokenCode 10 місяців тому +27

    I am a classically cute blonde hair blue eyed tiny fit girl but was raised in New Mexico. I spent my whole childhood dying my hair brown, wishing my blue eyes away, tanning my skin, trying to get fat so I could have a booty etc. I moved to Kentucky for college and was shocked that all the popular girls looked like me (but without all the crazy baggage). I feel so bad for kids. Were sooooo desperate to just fit in.

    • @ellisjackson336
      @ellisjackson336 7 місяців тому +4

      Your type is well liked in many parts of the world lol. But you mentioned growing up in NM so I can understand where you’re coming from

  • @rileyparise
    @rileyparise 10 місяців тому +142

    Girl you are literally glowing. You are gorgeous with or without make up and have such beautiful skin. Your whole persona is infectious and high vibration. So grateful for you and how you have changed my life.

  • @niixkky
    @niixkky 9 місяців тому +22

    The beauty of 2 beautiful women does not mean the absence of the either woman.
    IT JUST MEANS THERE ARE 2 BEAUTFIFUL WOMEN.

  • @Stephanieislovely_butUno
    @Stephanieislovely_butUno 10 місяців тому +12

    I looked very obese in my childhood because of trama and abuse… also my very young marriage plus I put on 40 pounds… I after divorce and self awareness have slimmed down and felt and now look better now in my mid 30’s than I’ve ever in my whole life! No joke. This is truth because I l❤ve me now and the things I can change I do! 🌺🍀👋😊
    Lucky to meet you Margarita love. ❤️

  • @juliallorente2719
    @juliallorente2719 7 місяців тому +7

    You are a genuine person. No niceness masks, just a kind, real woman sharing her valuable insight. Love to hear you, sis

  • @sierraroush118
    @sierraroush118 10 місяців тому +43

    It's absolutely insane how much your advice has helped with my self confidence. I am turning into a whole new person. Thank you❤

  • @amandaw4945
    @amandaw4945 10 місяців тому +18

    I’m in my early 30s and I’ve been feeling so ugly lately. I really needed this

    • @pearldavison4560
      @pearldavison4560 9 місяців тому +1

      Me too ❤❤

    • @jennywelsh
      @jennywelsh 5 місяців тому

      Hey! I am 58, I wish I could turn back time, in appearance.

  • @silvina_pugliese
    @silvina_pugliese 11 місяців тому +44

    I'm discovering your work and your content is so inspiring, refreshing and insightful, Margarita! Kind regards from Wellington NZ 🙂🙏

  • @IevaKambarovaite
    @IevaKambarovaite 10 місяців тому +26

    We're in this never ending consumerism machine selling us every product and secret under the sun convincing we're not good enough. If you just make a little tweak here, slim this and that.. 24/7
    Love this video. Very refreshing❤️
    I'm very inspired by your content as a small creator and admire your consistency!!

  • @helloneurons
    @helloneurons 10 місяців тому +9

    “I want to do everything I can do better the real version of myself.” This sentence succinctly and powerfully sums up my entire philosophy of beauty. Thank you for putting it into words!

  • @MD-wx9in
    @MD-wx9in 10 місяців тому +21

    This information is sooo important for woman to see i don’t consider myself a perfectly looking women but I have really learned to accept and love myself just as I am and I find it so unbelievably crazy how much hate I get from so many women who haven’t yet learned this it’s scary thank you thank you for being the amazing woman leader that you are this work that you do changes the world thank you queen!!!!✨🤗❤️

  • @julianorelli9423
    @julianorelli9423 10 місяців тому +7

    The way that you speak so directly is so helpful for me to absorb what you give out. Thank you for this- it’s such a gift

  • @rebeccaly
    @rebeccaly 10 місяців тому +15

    Life is so beautiful when we spend it creating, loving, etc., so why waste this precious time obsessing over whether or not we accept ourselves? So much truth. Thank you Margarita! ❤

  • @spacequeenruby
    @spacequeenruby 10 місяців тому +12

    You make my Tuesdays better Margarita 💕

  • @MBLydia
    @MBLydia 10 місяців тому +4

    Dropping facts while also being so ironically funny
    Loved it

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRoss 10 місяців тому +6

    You were wonderfully and perfectly made. Your body is a temple. I pray you are at peace within and feel it without. Your aura is one of a kind and irreplaceable. Keep shining, be-YOU-tiful soul.❤

  • @taytayqueen7024
    @taytayqueen7024 10 місяців тому +9

    Your skin looks amazing without makeup 🤞🏽would love a skincare routine

  • @StarlingASMR
    @StarlingASMR 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you 🤍

  • @Hunnybutter91
    @Hunnybutter91 10 місяців тому +10

    Thanks for talking about ethnicity. I'm biracial and I find myself constantly feeling bad because I do not look like my white half (which is where I live). On top of that my personality is a bit different and I'm also culturally mixed. I feel like I'll never be the ideal "town girl" and that nobody will be attracted to me or brave enough to introduce me to their family. It's a very alienating experience

    • @cristina-8327
      @cristina-8327 9 місяців тому +2

      I get it, I kind of have the same experience. It's hard because I can't seem to connect fully to the people from my country. My personality is definitely different, but it's also what makes you stand out and much more interesting. You're probably a gorgeous awesome girl, but just do you. You're literally amazing as you are and carry that energy and embrace all of who you are ❤

  • @nicolemad278
    @nicolemad278 4 місяці тому

    Wow. This really opened my eyes. The part that really hit me was when you mentioned that there is always something unique about you, and just because YOU think its "bad" doesnt mean everyone else does because thats your personal charm. I really love this! You are the one person on UA-cam that gives this raw real advice. Thank you :)

  • @Alicia_mcc
    @Alicia_mcc 10 місяців тому +7

    I love your advice and energy so much. You’ve really been helping me see things in a different light. Especially myself. My issue is my nose. One big difference I noticed yesterday was when someone called me pretty instead of saying ‘wise up’ like I usually would, I said thank you. Accepting compliments is definitely a good start💗

    • @oambitiousone7100
      @oambitiousone7100 10 місяців тому +2

      Same : nose. Thinking how it is my ancestral heritage instead of this thing to “fix” (homogenize)

    • @annaclark9524
      @annaclark9524 10 місяців тому +2

      I have a big nose too. When I was 18 at my grandfather's funeral a man whom I've never seen in my life came over to me. He said, "I know exactly whose daughter you are, you've inherited the most beautiful features of all the family." That really stuck with me and shaped some part of my self-image, think about that.
      P.S.: I opened your picture, you look absolutely stunning

  • @ayzamalik95
    @ayzamalik95 4 місяці тому

    your elegance is actually what captivated me in the first place

  • @whatistau
    @whatistau 10 місяців тому +2

    i love how articulate you are!

  • @MagdalenaLondon
    @MagdalenaLondon 8 місяців тому

    I literally laughed out loud several times. That doesn’t happen often. Loved this.

  • @aveenhussein8059
    @aveenhussein8059 21 день тому

    I freaking love this video, I really didn't expect it! I was having a low mood today feeling a bit insecure, and I searched but expected some load of dishonest love yourself you're all perfect video.. and instead I found a nuanced honest, helpful content! Thank you!

  • @HashtagAPI8
    @HashtagAPI8 10 місяців тому +3

    Isn’t it just completely mad how we can look at other people and find them extremely attractive but we can hate on the exact same features when it comes to our selfs? 🤣 I too have a very Eastern European face, with high cheekbones, full cheeks, big eyes and a small but full mouth. My nose is pointy from the side but like a ball upfront (very confusing😅). Growing up in Scandinavia I always felt ugly because my features are so much different from the other girls I see. In my 30’s I learned to accept and appreciate this, it makes me unique and I play it up even more. We always want what we don’t have, it’s human nature unfortunately. But I think we have so much to be proud of and we need to be proud of who we are and how we look. Russian and Easter European girls are some of the most beautiful girls. Thank you for always making me feel better and more confident ❤

  • @alyalim6584
    @alyalim6584 10 місяців тому +1

    You are saving me! I am so blissfully grateful that i have discovered you! Cheers from Uzbekistan ❤

  • @fluentinoverthinking
    @fluentinoverthinking 10 місяців тому +23

    I have never understood why men are never bothered with their appearance and no one ask them to wear make up while women APOLOGISE if they go out without wearing it. Isn’t it insane?! Also, it pisses me off when I hear these interviews with women where they’re asked how much money they spend on cosmetics and they ‘half of my income’ or something like this 😮 Our society is being brainwashed, but there is this thing called independent thinking, why people don’t use it? 😢

  • @Billy33753
    @Billy33753 10 місяців тому +4

    Very uplifting and good video

  • @nbabombshell
    @nbabombshell 9 місяців тому

    Soo many good points . The one about the celebrities that's sooo true .

  • @elorabasu9503
    @elorabasu9503 9 місяців тому

    this has really helped, I went through a very difficult break up and the last part of this video made me emotional - thank you

  • @andycristiana1043
    @andycristiana1043 4 місяці тому +1

    I'm almost 50, grey hair, dress less than flattering, and have no make up and I attract people with a HUGE smile 😊 I engage people in conversation and people just open up and continuously compliment me. I take it 😊

  • @areeba5654
    @areeba5654 9 місяців тому

    This woman!!!! I’m in awe!

  • @ericasampson5001
    @ericasampson5001 10 місяців тому +1

    I needed this and so does my daughter! Passing this on to her! Thank you! 💗

  • @pinaypride4784
    @pinaypride4784 10 місяців тому +1

    You don’t need make up Margarita you’re perfect! ❤ I watched your videos every day you help me a lot. Thank you keep up the good work.

  • @rachelr796
    @rachelr796 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video, it was deep and empowering

  • @goodnewsgrace
    @goodnewsgrace 10 місяців тому +1

    This is great and it's the sort of thing that people should talk about more.
    The irony though is that you would never see a video like this made by someone who's looks are below average, or who has aged without some kind of modification(botox, surgery etc).

  • @juliadesjardins9588
    @juliadesjardins9588 9 місяців тому

    I'm so glad i found you. I love how you express yourself, it's so therapeutique because you explain things so well.

  • @btwthblood
    @btwthblood 10 місяців тому

    I like you because you're real!! Honest and wise.

  • @thethrashbird
    @thethrashbird 10 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this! i’m learning to appreciate my Slavic features and embracing where it came from.

  • @debopriyak7254
    @debopriyak7254 9 місяців тому

    A BIG THANK YOU to you for sharing this video. You dont know how this has helped me and how I just happened to find it at the right time. Your clarity on the details of this topic is praisworthy. You have touched every point. As a woman I could understand and moreover relate to almost each and every point that you highlighted. "Accept what you cannot change and improve what you can change." Please keep making more of such videos. Glad that you chose to share your experience and knowledge with all of us here.❤lots of love.

  • @nfr1993
    @nfr1993 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for this content. I comment on this video but I watch them all! I find that your way of expressing things is so visual and expressive that you have no chance but to look at it and process it. I love how you can give your opinion, even if sometimes polemical, without being judgemental at all. Its like alchemy! How do you do that? It's really difficult not to like you. Thank you for opening up and for being out there as a reference for other women ❤ we need to follow more reknown people with values and a relevant message, and less famous people with not that much to say.

  • @justsomeone4155
    @justsomeone4155 10 місяців тому +4

    Absolutely agree with every point apart from the gym, cause I go there myself (even tho I do horse riding in the side) and for me it’s a sign of consistency and self control, very hot features indeed. It’s just a matter of whether a man makes it the centre of his universe or just works out in free time from the stuff that is actually worthy of centering your mind around (achieving goals, learning new information, leaning deeper into yourself etc)

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 4 місяці тому

      Going to the gym train your mind too...

  • @nathaliegrice4885
    @nathaliegrice4885 Місяць тому

    I freaking love you. You're so funny. I'm quite a bit older and not all content related but I do value a lot of this and how you relay it. Thank you ❤

  • @Em_gkb_mgl
    @Em_gkb_mgl 5 місяців тому

    Thank you Margarita for this video you helped me so much 💗

  • @Mochi14ihcoM
    @Mochi14ihcoM 7 місяців тому +2

    Strawberry legs are not fixable. But I’m learning to accept that my skin is beautiful

  • @Miaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
    @Miaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 9 місяців тому

    Really needed this !! Thank you , I really struggle with loving myself , this has really really helped

  • @sunofsonz
    @sunofsonz 10 місяців тому

    You’re talking so much truth

  • @t.lc.777
    @t.lc.777 9 місяців тому

    Well done you! Also your sense of humor is great.

  • @bysevrdi
    @bysevrdi 10 місяців тому +1

    Wow, love you Margarita ❤️

  • @kenealcloete8657
    @kenealcloete8657 10 місяців тому +1

    It's quite funny how you said you did not like your nose, one of the reasons I was so intrigued by you was because of your features and especially your nose, you are such a stunning woman I adore your features and you as a person in general, fr❤❤❤

  • @vic-ek3vq
    @vic-ek3vq 10 місяців тому

    i was literally thinking how could i accept myself and i saw your notification. thank u. greetings from argentina

  • @waadtriq
    @waadtriq 9 місяців тому

    you're such a nice soul, love so much sis

  • @RachelNoronha
    @RachelNoronha 7 місяців тому

    I literally love you so much thank you for everything

  • @knitnpaint
    @knitnpaint 10 місяців тому +1

    I always click on your video first. You are the best.

  • @lilallybaby
    @lilallybaby 10 місяців тому

    I always look forward to your videos! I love watching you on here but when I can’t catch it I love how you put it on your podcast. You’re so beautiful inside and out! You give it to us straight and you’re so so so real. I’m always looking forward to your videos so I can listen to real woman advice that will help me elevate and grow 🌱 Thank you Margarita!!! 💖

  • @LyticiaAMR
    @LyticiaAMR 10 місяців тому +2

    Your videos are amazing, thank you for everything xx

  • @rosiek649
    @rosiek649 9 місяців тому

    Wow 9 months and you still look amazing! If you have skin like that I'd rather not put makeup on. I never wore makeup until I stepped into medical school and the stress got to me my skin changed now I had to put makeup for various reasons, lack of sleep, high stress, lack of ventilation in school sleeping environment, etc. Goal is to have minimal makeup again after I get out of here. BTW folks in U.S. don't know of the thumbelina story! I keep asking people and they have no idea! I loved that story!!

  • @angelaramsay1778
    @angelaramsay1778 10 місяців тому

    Margarita, what a gift you are Darling x

  • @lucindaheinzer3467
    @lucindaheinzer3467 8 місяців тому

    Best video!!! Thank you tons!!!

  • @veyra3224
    @veyra3224 10 місяців тому +1

    can you make a video about how to maintain attraction and love in long-term relationship/marriage when going through very rough times? not rough times as in arguing a lot, but as in crisis, life crisises, serious illness, bankruptcy etc. all the horrible stuff that life can throw at you while sharing your life with someone else for a long time. how do you maintain a strong relationship through such hardship? how do you maintain the attraction when you or both are feeling defeated by something?

  • @cattalinaa90
    @cattalinaa90 10 місяців тому

    This was powerful. Thank you!

  • @randnotiz_vienna
    @randnotiz_vienna 9 місяців тому

    I love your content. Its so empowering
    I love love love it
    ❤ huge hug from Vienna

  • @Salomea369
    @Salomea369 10 місяців тому +2

    I’ve recently stopped putting foundation on just powder my skin looks better and sometimes I put only powder and blush to work and guess what I don’t care! But I think it comes with an age when you older you stop carrying what people think especially people you don’t know or you don’t even like! I’ve stated using natural products and my skin improved and it’s glowing🤩ps.I love make up and to look good by the way;)so even for someone like me it does work not to care!

  • @tansytansy
    @tansytansy 5 місяців тому

    you are amazing. thank you!

  • @trulybrandise9600
    @trulybrandise9600 10 місяців тому

    Great pointers to live by! Love it! Thank you for you!❤❤

  • @fitgainsbyrory
    @fitgainsbyrory 6 місяців тому

    I love your videos, your are soooo real and raw and i love your personality

  • @shannonburt2636
    @shannonburt2636 10 місяців тому

    I have recently found your channel, and you are very inspiring. This video was honest and 100% accurate. Thank you for your message of self worth ❤

  • @stromgrenlovestennis
    @stromgrenlovestennis 6 місяців тому +1

    I am an engineer and being among mostly men is not celebrated at all😢. Women can be catty as well, but with the criticism I have learned how to love myself. We all just need to support each other. My confidence came from surviving the doubt to show my self and the world that I matter!

  • @alliec57
    @alliec57 10 місяців тому

    I can’t explain enough how much I needed to hear this. Thank you for all that you do; your message and story are so vital for all women to hear ❤

  • @JeliOra
    @JeliOra 10 місяців тому

    Love your videos! Always inspiring! They make me feel good 👍

  • @bluebird7806
    @bluebird7806 10 місяців тому

    Thank you ❤
    Congratulations on your pregnancy ❤

  • @annapiresdecampos3328
    @annapiresdecampos3328 10 місяців тому +2

    You are absolutely beautiful the way you look and speak. Hi from Dallas 😊

  • @GS-ef5ht
    @GS-ef5ht 3 місяці тому

    Haha, so true. I studied at a tech school (75% male) and it was really good for my self development. I got to know and love men in a spiritual level also.

  • @shums77
    @shums77 10 місяців тому

    This made me feel soooooooo much better ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tantric_stories
    @tantric_stories 10 місяців тому

    The truth is i fuckin love you ,u are amazing anything u posting it has so much beauty and value .i dont often do comments or compliments but u babe u breaking the ice .love u endlessly and thnx for being in my life ❤

  • @GabrielaHernandez-kg9il
    @GabrielaHernandez-kg9il 9 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for this video. I’m 22 and I wish I liked myself. I’ve never truly liked myself and some days I hate how I look and spiral because of it. I think that my mind hyperfixates on all the times that I’ve been rejected or at least felt like I was and make it about my worth and how I look. It feels like a mental imprisonment. I hope that some day i can love myself. Thank you again for this video

    • @katerina3902
      @katerina3902 6 місяців тому

      If someone doesn’t choose you, you choose yourself.

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 4 місяці тому

      That is something you do while growing up

  • @sunofsonz
    @sunofsonz 10 місяців тому +1

    I was told I was fat since I was a child… looking back now I was very skinny and because of that I developed body dysmorphia . Now I have to be very careful and conscious because sometimes I dont even know if I trust my eyes or the mirror or even a camera

  • @Fleuvifarello
    @Fleuvifarello 7 місяців тому

    so so true!!!!! so powerful!

  • @leospectrum
    @leospectrum 7 місяців тому

    I laughed so many times in this video. Thank you Margarita

  • @marylynn259
    @marylynn259 10 місяців тому +1

    Love this video ❤️

  • @LorenRoz
    @LorenRoz Місяць тому

    Dear Margarita, I’ve been following you for one year, and your content is always a breath of fresh air. I recently launched my own channel inspired by your message of self-love. I’d be so curious to know, what has been your biggest challenge in learning to love yourself? Your journey has truly moved me. 💋 x

  • @claricedepetriz
    @claricedepetriz 7 місяців тому +2

    i'm brazilian and i'm not telling you this because i like you but trust me you would be very popular in here, we love a blonde bright eyed woman ❤

  • @Lmbl4
    @Lmbl4 10 місяців тому +1

    It is so hard. I was born with a malformation which affected my face. I had near than 20 surgeries. I had boyfriends and so on. I am skinny, I do a lot of sports, i have blue eyes, I am tall, i have long and healthy hair. But because of this malformation I just can’t see anything beside this. The scars and the fact that I shouldn’t be born with this face, surgeries helped a lot but I know that without it I would have a different face. And no matter how hard I am trying this is really hard to surpass this and “accept” this. This doesn’t come from my ancestors or whatever, it’s just bad luck I guess. And even if I also have a lot of “””pretty””” features or like things that are celebrated in our society in my mind and my eyes I have this difference, this thing coming from nowhere but here with me since my birth.
    Your videos are helping but still this is a hard thing to deal with.
    (I am french so sorry for my non perfect English)

  • @yasmin.379
    @yasmin.379 9 місяців тому

    I love this video so much

  • @mia.frankel
    @mia.frankel 8 місяців тому +3

    your supermodel friend watching this :
    👁️👁️
    👄 🧍‍♀️

    • @june29378
      @june29378 4 місяці тому

      girl make a fitness video!! you've got bomb glutes 🎉

  • @noeliaflores3190
    @noeliaflores3190 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for this!! You are my role model🥹💗

  • @dollary9046
    @dollary9046 10 місяців тому

    thank you for making feel beautiful and for making me laugh

  • @Mimi-ni3il
    @Mimi-ni3il 10 місяців тому +2

    In the past I didn’t like the dimple in my nose. My fiancé adores it.❤

  • @decg26
    @decg26 10 місяців тому

    You are so inspiring ❤

  • @NawrasMatee7
    @NawrasMatee7 10 місяців тому

    needed this.

  • @Gamingfluff6
    @Gamingfluff6 10 місяців тому

    I look forward to your videos ❤

  • @jodaisy113
    @jodaisy113 6 місяців тому

    Michael Imperioli (The Sopranos) … had a nose job to help him land a role on Goodfellas … looks completely natural 🤩 … Love you Miss Margarita 😘

  • @Franciscarojasofficial
    @Franciscarojasofficial 6 місяців тому

    I am done neglecting myself ❤