Let's get naked: Sheila Kelley at TEDxAmericanRiviera
Вставка
- Опубліковано 17 гру 2012
- About Sheila Kelley:
There exists in every woman an Erotic Creature. When Sheila Kelley discovered this sleeping giant, her life changed irrevocably. She had stumbled upon what women were missing and launched it into a worldwide sensation, ushering in the 4th wave of feminism by teaching women to own their sexuality. Let's Get Naked is about exposing the truth and the Erotic Creature, both of which rest just beneath the surface.
Connect with Sheila on Twitter / thesheilakelley and Facebook / sheilakelleyfanpage .
For more information, visit www.sfactor.com/ and www.sheilakelley.com/
About TEDx:
In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized. (Subject to certain rules and regulations)
This is a great TED talk! I've always thought of pole dancers as twisting and writhing around a phallic image and essentially being a servant to the male organ. But I like the depth and class she brings to the dance in talking about the power of feminine eroticism. The pole is only one type of dance that expresses this, there are many. All she is saying (for all you nay sayers in the comments below) is that when we embrace and allow the awesome power of female sexuality to be out in the open, we also allow the male to claim his awesome powerful masculine sexuality, and together they absolutely compliment each other and protect EACH OTHER. Women offer protection just as men do. Being a "feminist" does not mean that you hate men or don't need the help and protection they offer. THIS IS NOT A COMPETITION! We are designed to work together as a team. Where did we ever get the idea to compete with each other? It is stupid. There is so much to be gained by working together. Thank you for bringing this message out in your unique way.
I apologize for my previous comment for a very wrong observation. Sheila is a wonderful woman with an outstanding outlook on life. Thank you for taking the time to post this, and thanks to Sheila for helping educate an all knowing old man in an area where he must gladly confess complete and obvious ignorance. :)
☺️💓🙏
This was such a great talk. I am so glad I was there to experience you live! EVERYONE loved this POWERFUL talk! thanks @sheilakelley you rock!
I am honored and humbled to be your student Sheila. I cannot begin to express what you've helped me reclaim after years of struggle! Thank you for EVERYTHING.
The "First offense" is a powerful concept to explore. It is often the trigger for little girls to head toward body dysmorphia and all it's related problems. Women are drawn to learning pole at epidemic rates since the turn of the century. When it's confined to a dance studio or at home, women are freeing themselves in every way imaginable. Many of them thank pole fitness and the seductive side of learning to pole, with elevating their mood, self confidence, level of success in life and relationships, and finding real friends..real open women who are all after the same thing. being free in body and mind and working toward a healthy fit body.
+ThatGirl beautifully said!
f
@Jeffrey Bone lol that’s absolutely hilarious 😂😂😂
The message she is sending is just to be comfortable in your own body and embrace what you're born with and don't feel ashamed of yourself and people are commenting saying she's a "stupid feminist bitch", etc. Lmao I don't understand how people can go on the defense and start spewing feminist hate over such a simply positive message.
That's because you are a disgusting ignorant feminist pig. Don't worry, even you can be educated. Not sure how much sensitivity training it will take, but the amount of training is not the issue. The end result is.
I hope this is sarcasm.... If not you need to get a grip on reality, how old are you, 45? And you're posting fucked up comments like that at 4 am? I hope you get help and fix you're skewed vision of reality whwther it a serious comment or not
Yes, I seriously think you are a disgusting ignorant feminist pig. Let there be no mystery about it. I hope I cleared that up. I only wish the press were here to quote me, ignorant feminist pig.
wow, a comment at 3 am this time, marginally less pathetic but not really. You seem to have a lot of hate in you. Take some anger management classes or something
Anne Cameron It's very scary how some people are just not getting it. This weirdo below is far beyond the "not getting it" and in the scary zone!!
So beautiful. Like Christina, I finally began reclaiming my life after "just" the intro class. Your SF staff is FANTASTIC. Thank you S Factor!
That sounds really similar to how new members feel when they first join Scientology
I like that she’s speaking about this erotic creature in a very beautiful way. Being feminine doesn’t mean being vulgar or cheap.Her dance at the beginning was very suble,gentle,feminine. We should make the difference
Yes, and the vocal militant Femi-Nazis out there are really creating a bad reputation for the rational feminists out there who are legit doing good. Sad
This is SO important. Not just for femininism but i truley believe EXACTLY what you are saying is the key to a more peacful and (some would say ironically), loving, safe and passionate, decent world. Honestly this video gave me shivers it is so vital!!!
This was fantastic, one of my favorite TED Talks.
iare eeeh you are clueless. I did it professionally for almost 18 years at prestigious clubs in NYC. Now I'm in therapy. Dancing on stage is about 2% of the job. The rest is about dealing with pigs and manipulation.
@@stacypipkens2399 the Ted talk is about rediscovering feminine power.Not just about professional pole dancing right..no offense.Hope u r recovering and doing well.
Nearly 25,000 views already! WOW Sheila! You are amazing and so incredibly inspiring! I recall a phone call when my daughter was about 6 from a very good friend at the time who sent her home when her brother and two friends were pretending to moon each other.. It was ok for the boys but not the little girl who cried all the way home told she did this AWFUL thing--she was about 6. It created a rift in the relationship with my friend. My daughter is beyond amazing and I never forget to tell her so
This is such a beautiful topic. So happy I watched it!
Thanks for your comment Abbie! We appreciate it.
Sheila - You/S Factor have changed my life! Thank you for blessing us with the beauty of organic feminine movement!!
Cried through the whole thing. You are the voice we are looking for, the voice we need! thank you.
I am so glad that I chose to watch and listens to this presentation. I am absolutely agreed!
I loved this speech, I'm sharing this with the girl i like, I've been very much trying to empower her. thank you Sheila!
brandon clobes Thank you Brandon!
brandon clobes pour me another tequila, Shiela
Thank you for this beautifully inspiring comment.
This. Oh my gawd. This is so important. No one should have to feel shame or the need to hide their body.
This gave me goosebumps.
As a man, deep gratitude for your voice in the world. A brilliant presentation from the naked heart, you did not just talk about this subject, you embodied it. Deep, deep thanks for this.
I am in tears…deeply touched by the energy behind your words Sheila. Your video went straight to my Feminine Soul…my body is shaking, I feel awaken…alive…THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! For me and for all the women, sisters in the world!
Very well spoken.
Thank you. SFactor has been a part of my journey. I encourage all women to explore this.
SO POWERFUL! Thank YOU, Sheila and your amazing teacher creatures!
This speech is really beautiful. Loved it.
AMAZING talk! 👏🏻👏🏻
Wonderful talk, very enlightening
Very good Talk.
My Dad taught me that if you make a woman feel beautiful they love it. I love to tell women how beautiful their eyes are. ☺💃
I sure they love you love telling a lot of women how beautiful thier eye are...such a player... 🤣 Player rule one - tell them what they want to hear...
@@SolarizeYourLife No I'm not about that. But it's about being nice to women. Bringing out their beauty. It's about not being afraid of calling a woman beautiful if you feel it instead of being too shy to say it.
Your dad, unfortunately, was a beta. And so are you.
Being alpha is overrated. And often mistakenly conflated with being a bully.
@@DeAngelo77 so should we all just be dickheads like you then?
The more we as women become empowered in our bodies and our femininity, the greater power and healing ability we really have. As a S woman, I am so grateful for Sheila Kelley, her beautiful movement of empowering women in their femininity and in their bodies and the S Factor community.
u put me into tears....thank u so much Sheila
I forgot how much I love this!!!! Thank you!
Thank you. There's so much more!!
I'd modify only one small part of Sheila Kelley's presentation and message....
Instead of the quote from Joseph Campbell, the exact quote, I'd perhaps make it say....
"Woman is life and Man is the servant of life.
The Male's job is to protect [that service
so that Woman may freely
give more life.]"
Some/many women can protect themselves quite well. There's no need for us to prematurely step-in, unless SHE asks us to. The VALUE of collaboration, protection, service, and the culturing between Woman and Man that Sheila is urging, is hence increased exponentially as BOTH are more empowered. Well, at least that's my own take to her fantastic presentation.
+Dwain Miller Lovely.
BRAVO!!!!!! This is amazing and I want to be involved in this! Way to go Sheila Kelley, amazing talk and performance.
That was amazing. Thank you.
Love this message! I feel the power in the truth of her words! Bravo Sheila! You are empowering the culture!!
This is the kind of messages that I wish were delivered on sunday mornings to the populaces. Very beautiful message, useful for both women and men.
Hokibukisa Thank you very much!
Hokibukisa qq
7
mike wadey uber
Elmer Bowman j
Thank you for the talk.
This is the best Ted talk I have heard so far.
Some great inviews here!
woww... brilliant!
thank you Sheila for expressing what so many of us just can't seem to do for ourselves.This presentation is valuable and I will share it with my family and friends,Thank you!
Amazing. Thank you, Sheila!
One of the best TEDx speeches I heard
Issam Jiryes omg u don't understand a thing about dancing and neither does she.
Thankyou. ♥
powerful and enlightening
Thanks for and Great talk with great perspective
I need to dig out her book (bought it years ago, but never finished it). Excellent talk!
Very empowering speech for me.. sharing it with my girlfriends..
This is the best TED talk evar!
thanks for opening the eyes of your audience!
AMAZING! this is sooo important to heal our planet now!!
Woah! I appreciated every word she said . Those are damn true words ..
I have been a student since 2009 and can't speak highly enough about the journey my soul has been on - thank you Sheila!
Amazing. And so inspiring, not to mention of course LIBERATING! Thank you TED Talks for having Sheila as a guest. She in unique, passionate, brilliant and so needed. Bravo!
One of the most important Ted talks ever!
lionel martin Really?? Try doing it.
She is perfect!
What a woman! Amazing that you understand women on this level. Also helping heart, bless you...
I was skeptic at first about this one but I was surprisingly inspiring.
Richard is an unbelievably blessed man. You are glorious, Sheila. I pray to find a woman of good heart and loving nature, awakened and alive and whole, just as you.
This talk is also good for men, esp those who repress their sexuality,it needs to be freed then all things can happen.Bravo and thx for this talk.
What a beautiful talk. And so true.
I love it. Now I have to decide if it's appropriate to share with my college students. The message needs to hit them and resonate deeply.
I almost cried once she got to the shirt part. I truly connected right there.
mandolina simeon .
The dance at the beginning is so beautiful, intoxicating, and vulnerable, but I feel almost every women has a small portion of her that craves that complete abandonment that surrender to throwing her whole body mind and soul into and dance like this...I crave dancing in this state..(Get over the pole)...its the sense of abandonment. and revel, that is intoxicating. Love it so much almost made me cry..the song is perfect..."Don't harm me"! I think a women in this state inspires every fiber of a (good) true man to want to rise up, Protect, Love and nurture a women like this..It is built into their DNA....And I have to constantly remind myself of this when making the choice to be feminine and even vulnerable...that those I love don't want to harm me. They want to love and protect me, and only in this state of mind can a women relax and feel cherished and sexy. Fantastic stuff lady!! Bravo!!!!
Thank you Sheila Kelly!!
Thank you for sharing this Ted talk, I
Sheila, I love this. Beautiful.:-)
> is surprised to find a TedTalk video about sexuality with a female presenter where the comments haven't been disabled.
> makes the mistake of looking at the comments.
> is reminded all over again of why the comments are typically disabled on such videos.
*sigh*
+nfinn42 Exactly, in case anyone ever says " who do these people block comments on such videos..." we have point and example right here in this section sadly. Honestly, some of the people who shared strong dissenting views is a 100% appropriate if they truly feel that way, however truly foolish immature comments that are not about the topic are the reason commenting is normally blocked.
+nfinn42 Uh the comments are never disabled... you hater.
Comments are in fact quite frequently disabled on YT videos which involve female presenters, especially female presenters making statements even remotely close to what might be considered feminist, due to YT's army of misogynistic trolls. Comments threads on such videos typically become nothing more than virtual sewers, and the signal-to-noise ratio drops to near-zero, preventing all valid discussion of the video from taking place.
Since comments threads like these are then often used by trolls and haters to encourage one another and doxx targets, it's quite sensible for video creators to disable comments when there is no useful discussion going on anyway and the comments thread represents a potential avenue of communication for the violent to organize attacks.
nfinn42 You are just like a black man that shouts racism all the time... As in, the role of the victim is a comfy position. I have watched LOADS of UA-cam video's with a female presentrix, Never have I seen a disabled comment section.
"female presentrix"
Isn't that a bit redundant? The -trix suffix is sufficient to denote femininity.
I guess maybe it's an example of having seen different videos from each other. But note that the descriptor I used was not just female presenters, but female presenters arguing a position that is at least moderately feminist. If you consider that subset, I think you will see more disabled comments sections, and as I said, for good reason.
Amazing insight. Thank you.
Absolutely brilliant!! Shelia's words are powerful and amazingly truthful!! About 2 months ago I was doing an EFT technique when suddenly I said: Even though I am ashamed that I am a woman, I still deeply love and accept myself. I started crying, and when I completed the EFT technique I felt amazing! My son said, "Why would you be ashamed of being a woman mum?" Because, all my life I was told women are the reason there is sin in the world. I have nothing to be ashamed of. I stand naked!!
I'm sure there are lots of UA-cam videos about the issues men go through, Vanitycraft.
Fortunately for women, Sheila's expertise and focus is on healing society by creating awareness of the offenses committed towards women and girls in all degrees and calling on men and women to heal together by bringing forth both masculine and feminine genuis that live within us.
What you guys need to realize is that this is not a beautiful car, boat, or something else that you use for your physical pleasure. That is a human being, and the differences in her body and psyche are there to be both counterpoint, harmony, and unity with yours. Until you accept the challenge of life that you have to grow and accept the power that women have over your feelings and the future of your unborn children you will never truly be a man. Until you recognize that this is the most complete partnership you can ever aspire to you will never truly understand what it means to be a male human being. Until you are able to be part of a relationship in thought, word, and deed you are a half-human, and not a man.
Blues Slide Load of one sided bias bullshit
Shut it donkey lover
Blues Slide Wow. That's is a man that I want to meet talking.
I dance S Factor, and it is truly changing me. Thank you, Shiela. I love you, sister.
Loved your class in costa mesa. Please bring the x factor to Seattle
wow really great message.
lynda whitlow ii
lynda Dorsee
Fantastic video Sheila! :) Very Inspirational. We would love to feature this video on our website and share it with more people with your permission. This TED talk will change many women's lives.
Our customers are searching for new ways to understand their bodies, keep fit and have fun. Your videos are well presented and will inspire our customers to make a positive change.
We would be very happy to provide you with extra publicity for your great work. We will also provide a link to your channel for helping us out.
If you could help us out, that would be great!
We wish you all the best for the future Sheila.
Presented by TEDx Talks, not Sheila.
Thank you Sheila. I am grateful for your talk. Thanks for being you.
Hi Sheila! I shared this video with my English professor.
This subject is difficult to bring to academia. I would suggest you make a video designed for college students and an in-class environment. I'm sure it would be shown in many Human Sexuality classes.
The challenge of life is being genuine and honest and respectful and appropriate when sharing ideas. And then listening to others, too. :)
You're welcome!
I want to be honest and I am looking for so much more than "having a good time" with my body. Been there, done that. The body is so temporary and incomplete. Being with a man who is living all the way down to his soul, including his who being in a relationship is where it's at and the body will follow without needing any practice or attention. Flowing in harmony without thinking.
Thank you!!
This is the most valuable Ted talk I have ever watched! Truly transformative for women and for men.
+Janis Feiden Huerta Thank you, Janis!
Thank you for watching til the end. We appreciate it.
It was great, loved it.
she is fantastic
Wow wow WOWWWWW... Love this Sheila. A huge heartfelt Thank YOU!
Thank you Sheila!! The message is so powerful! What is the name of the song?
so beautiful!i love this ugh women are so divine !!!:D
What a beautiful discription of feminine body... Hats off. ..
Good one, loved it.
You are awesome!
Thank you for being a fearless role model in embracing our femininity in a classy way (not cheap or overtly sexual way)
I became the "hero of my life."
Nice presentation.
Increíble Sheila ,Gracias gracias gracias ♥️🤎💦
I saw a short documentary on this woman a while ago, and listening to her now makes me really appreciate what she has to say! Fuck this! I'm learning how to poledance!
This makes me so happy! go girl x
Thank you Dawn.
men have their disadvantages too in the field of sexuality. women in fact can easily be weak, emotional, gay, whereas men cannot. everyone has his disadvantages. stop with this bullshit-feminism that talks about the poor women, the poor victims and be real. women have disadvantages and advantages as men, they don't have to be strong, they don't have to fight in wars, they don't have to compete with the other men to reproduce etc. etc. and yet this woman says that men have to protect her, work for her and elevate her, pst go away. you don't want equality, you want privileges.
What the woman in the video will not say is that unlike women, men face rejection far, far more than women, especially in the field of sexual expression. Western culture with the help of feminism has hammered into the public consciousness a rock solid belief that any aspect of male sexuality or erotic persona must be the epitome of all things perverse, exploitative, criminal, and decidedly violent.
More often than not men confront issues that many women do not have to confront, and much of this confrontation regards very real world encounters where its not just about his feelings or about a personalization of self. But about wider external issues from which he has to put aside his own preferences and to varying degrees, emotion to produce the best possible results.
A man going into a bar know he has just as much chance at being rejected by women as he might have of being accepted by women. So like in other cases he doesn't exhibit so much emotional investment into things that aren't guaranteed for very good reasons. The rational man knows that he's got to survive rejection or live in constant internal pain and self-doubt.
On a wider scale most men learn to get used to earning respect, and negotiating his position, sometimes through compromise and actual work and effort sometimes involving risk and personal sacrifice.
Most women, as exampled by the woman in the video, learn to expect respect and deference as an automatic thing of which she's entitled to for merely existing. Do they want equality?,No.,Equality would imply equal culpability, equal responsibility, equal accountability and equal consequences for one's bad decisions and choices, and in a feminist worldview where espousing nothing is ever a woman's fault, privilege through compulsory entitlement is the standard from which feminist accept as gender progress for women.
Efilzeo di Reggio you take everything too literally and too shallow. She's not just talking to the men, she's talking to both men AND women, to show that what she wants really is equality. She's telling women to embrace their sexuality, the same way men do, telling them to stop being weak, helping them getting over being emotional, and what the hell do you mean women can "easily" be gay? That's the weird bullshit belief brought on by our current media that she was talking about. If you say feminism shouldn't be discussed about, then what of those guys who said they would rape a woman if there isn't a repercussion? I feel like "masculinism" should be talked about now. Oh, and about the "don't have to fight war" thing? Here, in Vietnam, our women fought for our country just as men did. Your country's women just aren't fighting because we, as in men, don't freaking let them. Ms.Kelley never said anything about "work for her", no, she said we have to protect women, because of the brutal way we're treating them and our barbaric fantasy of raping them, and elevate them because we, as in humanity, have taken what should've been theirs from the beginning. Basically, she wants us to give back, not give more.
Cloud Leonhart I think your interpretation of what she says takes a lot of things on faith. The study she sites about men raping if there is no consequence comes from a statistic and study that has been soundly debunked. When feminist like her speak about gender issues it doesn't take long before the anti-male narratives to pop up. The whole association of male sexuality with rape is typical when maintaining the underlying assertion that men lack moral and ethical agency, so of course men would rape because from her point of view, the idea that most men are not attracted to abusing women or expressing sexuality with women violently just doesn't occur to her as a reality to consider.
Besides women didn't fight in America because women didn't want to After all there were no women in the U.S. protesting the government to fight. So the idea that men forced them against their will not to endure military combat is nonsense.
As far as the "taking what should have been theirs from the beginning" That sounds more like playing the victim card out of context to the complexities and nuances of history and present day society.
blackburn9 "When feminist like her speak about gender issues it doesn't take long before the anti-male narratives to pop up." That doesn't mean she shouldn't talked about it, now, does it? If we just forbid everyone from talking if it means there are some people who are eager to misinterpret it, we're not gonna be talking right about now. Just to be clear, she didn't say anything about "men lacking moral and ethical agency", in fact, she considers both male and female to be the victims. I'm unsure how you got the information that from her point of view, "the idea that most men are not attracted to abusing women or expressing sexuality with women violently just doesn't occur to her as a reality to consider", because she clearly said there were only 50% of UCLA men (just one university), who said they would rape. There's still that other 50%. On a completely unrelated note, the idea of protesting TO fight is mind boggling to me... I digress. If you consider "taking what should've been theirs from the beginning" as playing the victim card, then perhaps you're just not looking the right way. In fact, there have been plenty of rape cases where the ones who got blamed were the victims, the girls, I'm sure you can find plenty on Google. Women who work on the Internet or most other media face with plenty more rape threats, death threats and online harassment than men who work in the same field. These threats may sound hollow to others, but to the victims, they're very real. Imagine showing your face on the Internet all the time and suddenly someone says they're gonna find you and kill you. They are definitely the victim of a disfunctional society, and we, men, are clearly victims of a disfunctional education system. Let's just remember that she's not telling everyone to "empower" women, but just to treat them equally to men.
Cloud Leonhart I'm not sure if you're suggesting that I think she shouldn't have the speak freely about her ideas. I don't recall suggesting that she should be prohibited from doing so
The UCLA study was much more complex than the manner in which she communicated it. For instance the question was framed in such a way that the word rape was not used, but instead "aggressive seduction." And when rape was introduced it was in the context of commentary on something similar to fantasy role play, where consequence was unlikely. Also the same study included questions such as "do you think rape is ever justified?" from which 99% of the males affirmed without hesitation that it was. Yet knowing this, she decided to present the results of the study in an extremely over simplistic way for the conscious purposes of perpetuating a threat narrative that is consistent with the anti-male narratives generally attributed to feminist gender discourse. Her version of the study has been roundly debunked and is no longer considered academically credible. Yet she still chooses to present it incorrectly because she knows there's a very good chance few people would actually research it.
You were more ambiguous about exactly what was taken from them. I didn't put together from what you were saying that you were speaking of something taken away as a result of rape, but instead a wider concept such as "everything," which some believe was the rightful possession of women from the beginning of time. There are some men who rape. There are some men who bake, there are some men who steal, and there are some men who build things. If one leaves an impression that men in general are defined wholly with associations to the negative without any attempt at equitable balance, then the thinking is easily manipulated into believing that men in general rather than some men engage in criminal or negative behavior and activities. This then becomes a conviction that the essential innate nature of man is defined wholly in terms of that lacking moral and ethical agency.
Let me give you an example. In the general assessment of the character of the male gender, when was the last time you heard , say a feminist point out all the times men save women's lives, or assist women in times of need, or build and create and work to enhance the health and safety of both men and women? Chances are, if you're honest (I'm presuming this oh course) you haven't. And one reason is because there is much more motivation to associate men as a gender with negative attributes than attributes associated with virtue as a rule rather than a rare exception. Now let's switch it. When was the last time you heard a, let's say a feminist make any negative associations with women? We know some women commit horrific crimes, everything from child abuse to stealing, lying and manipulation to utilizing proxy violence to murder. Yet how often do you hear that these things are used to define the innate character of the female gender? Chances are, none at all. The narrative is different but in both cases completely subjective rather than objective.
Also in contemporary terms, the definition for victim blaming has essentially become anything in all situations and circumstances where there is any question, however justified or reasonable pertaining to what responsibility a woman owes to her bad decisions and choices.
It is very unlikely that you will find any sane man who really believes how a woman dresses or behaves or who has a particular sexual history of perceived promiscuity as an justified invitation to unwanted sexual assault. Most men who do violent rape will cite anger, feelings of being diminished, revenge, esteem issues and other psychological conflicts as a motivating factor. This is not to say these are excuses justifying rape, it isn't but it doesn't change the fact that its usually not the version of victim blaming commonly utilized as something akin to rationalizing sexual assault through entitlement where the victim is blamed for merely being considered enticing and therefore communicating consent.
While it is true more women face online threats and harassment. What is not usually discussed is that the identities of those making the threats against other women turn out to be other women 50% of the time. And it appears the largest cases of personalized bullying in grade school and high school of girls is from other girls,so much so that in most cases of suicide resulting from such bullying, more often than not it was the harassment involved a group of other girls, more so than boys. We know this because the current system is set up to immediately rain down heavy consequences on boys for even the slightest suggestion of aggression against girls in school, while the inverse rarely happens. There have been some studies that suggest some women will make rape threats to other women online because with an anonymous online identity it is very easy for a man or woman to obscure what gender they are
I would point out that saying men are the products of a dysfunctional education is only correct with specific circumstances but not in totality. There has been in recent decades a feeling among some men that by reinforcing men with negative associations as the sum of what is innately identified as male, one can appear more socially enlightened, at least from the perspective of some women and all feminists. Speak too well of men in a fair manner, you get criticized by some women and all feminists. Speak badly about men by pointing out only the one-sided negatives that exist in women but are rarely spoken about (except as an insult) you are applauded as a rare exceptional man with the power of tremendous progressive foresight and thinking capability. So no i don't buy the men are dysfunctionally educated in the way that you imply.
A blessed and educational lecture,
Fantastic speech! Sheila is so right. No painting, no architecture, no landscape is a beautiful as women......all women! Let us protect our women, and help them to blossom into their true and incredible beauty.