But some things she said don't apply to all cultures so be mindful when listening they are correct but does not apply to all cultures Some of the things mentioned here we as Xhosa people don't apply them
Mkhulu you are a rare stone and the host is an excellent driver of the conversation. I wish every person who listens to this can commit themselves in preserving ubuntu bethu.
My husband made sure that he follows the process. He sent the letter to my family without my knowledge behind my back because he wanted to have a surprise engagement party for me on my birthday, so I was engaged on a Sunday which was my birthday and a week later the delegates came to negotiate the process.
Never watched one person this much… never have I paused or skipped any part. Infact I rewatch all her videos. And bra Dave’s ability to keep conversations flowing so organically!! Yoh big up Bra Dave
I thank my wife for introducing me Radio2000 and by God's grace i got to know about THE KING. Since then my life is getting better im learning alot about our culture. Hola KING 🎉❤🎉
This episode has helped me a lot preparing for my first ever Lobola negotiations, everything I needed to know I found here. You guys are doing a massive contribution to educaring the morden African people. We appreciate it 🙏
I recently paid Lobola for my love but it put a strain on our relationship. We provisionally agreed on our brideprice range and her family that are unknown to me tripled the amount. The agreed range was 40 - 50k. Relationship context: Together for 5 years, 1 daughter of 3. Damages paid in line with tradition. Both qualified professionals but I'm already a multiple property owner, had recently bought a vehicle for my woman and she takes care of me whenever possible. I honour the privilege of being able to take care of her more. We are best friends but families nearly broke us apart. We are steadily recovering at this stage. I am a proud African man but at some stage I considered not going through with the process. These processes can be abused by families or even used to sabotage something great. It is discouraging.
I understand, me and my husband have been through this and we nearly broke up. Both families were not getting the fact that they are both tearing us apart. After lobola we called them and explained what they are doing and if they didn't want us to be together they must tell us so that we know what we do and stop the drama. Since then we are both happy and have been married for 4 years now.
It is very important to send abakhongi who can stand their ground when negotiating because once you face the problem you're mentioning it means they failed you.But indeed there are families who're very greedy nowadays.
The lighting, camera and studio set up. Wow what an investment. The conversation fruitful and I love how both party's portray the story, makes it easy to understand and grab most important lessons. Thanks again King David
Yoh! Khelha Manjoro is a blessing, shame. I've learned sooooooooo much about myself, my family and how I need to do things just by listening to 3 of her interviews. Absolutely brilliant! Also, the questions that David asks are top tier! Love how simple you guys make this!
We need a Khehla Manjoro channel....oohw such a gem ❤ thanks KingDavid for bringing her to us we really need such conversations we sure were lost kancane kancane we getting back on track 😊 🇸🇿
Her energy,the way she talks. I could go on and on. Thank you so much. Very informative for some of us who come from families who no longer practice culture. May God and your ancestors continue to bless you.
What a blessing Khehla Manjoro is, I have learned so so much from ALL episodes. Hands down, thank you King David for continuously bringing her to enhance our knowledge and way of thinking and doing.
Conversations with Khehla Manjoro, so so humbling. This woman is erudite, in the African Spirituality, I mean our Wikipedia of "Isintu." That's a true healer, she is called indeed. Thank mkhulu, needed to hear this. 🙏🙏😊
I never really knew much about this subjects (culture & tradition ). I'm very thankful to you Ntate Mashabela and the masterclass Khehla Manjoro serves us everytime she's here💯 Keleboga gommenagane🙏🕯
This was indeed an eye opener, I am proud of myself for making sure that my Lobola Negotiations went well even though I don't have parents, But Ramogolo and Bo Malome, plaid a very important part in my ceremony. I pat myself in the back, one always needs to know who handles your lobola negotiations especially for a girl.
South African law makers did not really research or proper consult the traditional leaders on how indlu emnyama does umshado. The lady uyicacisa kahle🙌
This days lobola gets complicated from price we are treated as commodities, families treating us as slaves and elders taking sides in solving problems. It's really complicated
I always feel so blessed that she chooses to share her wealth of knowledge with us. Amongst other things, it is her kind heart that will take her places. ❤️
This topic is complicated and thank you to your guest for untangling this subject. Thank you Kehla🙏🏽 May we also thank mothers who raised respectful sons.
There's a layer of coherency that is being left out. This exchange idealises the parents / guardians, as though these people are not themselves falible humans who are either not respected by their children (for their own reasons) or worse, they are dubious themselves. So why can't the conversation be held within the context of modern problems? This idealism of what isn't our collective reality does not help us, because our lives are not the model of this idealised past (a past which is itself viewed with rosecoloured glasses).
In the olden days it was known how much is the lobola based on 1. She is still a virgin 2. She doesn't have children 3. She has one child. All these where known factors that determines the price or cows Now the issue of who gets presents, in the olden days it sed to recognise 5 people only who were important as 1. Father 2. Mother 3. Aunt 4. Uncle 5. Gogo.These were only people matters in getting present on lobola.
Aunt and Uncle from both sides of the family or only dad's family? Also, is it all the aunts and uncles or the eldest. And which Gogo, from mother's side or paternal side. Please school us.
Have Pt1, pt2 and this (Pt3) saved... Too much needs to be learned and understood. Always a beautiful conversation with Khela Manjoro and Bra David. Thank You🔥👏🙌
Free éducation that u give us WOW, tomorrow we are the one's who will be chosen to go negotiate the small information that we get everyday it's really important to us so that we can do the ryt thing that will help us grow even spiritually.
She really is a Gift, may she blessed abundantly. I hope she writes a book to preserve this information because our nation is lost. Thank you for this episode Mr Mashabela 👍👍
Respectfully, watching this I lost count of marriages I know of which were doomed from very the beginning from just fumbling this process and I sympathize with them. I learned so much from this episode!
Ntate Dave thanks for these encouraging shows please don't stop unless god decides to love you and I wish you well I also realized that I need an MBA god to bless you for making notice that
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ohhhhhh your spoiling us bra D, I love Gogo very much re mo kopa every 2nd week. The wisdom she's impacted with is what we need. Thank you very much
Kind David you such a plug, thank you🤞💞....My Sunday was made.... watched all your interviews with Khehla Manjoro and Gogo Bathini... So informative and Khehla and Gogo are full of wisdom, I aswell did not know much about our tradition and african spirituality. Camagu🙏
David you are the greatest actor ,think of doing that .We will enjoy your movies .You make this discussion very interesting on point.Well done Khehla Manjoro &, King David educational Bravo I love it because of the learning curve to us all.
This was insight and very educative to us Africans and one wish such treasure be recorded(Books) and we keep on seek connection with our roots while we live in this busy life.
She's an absolute gift to all of us, much love ❤❤❤. Thank u to u too King-D for the questions 🙏🙏🙏. I have never seen you so intrigued in all the previous episodes. What a Master class...
Eish🤣🤣Ngiyabuya ngiyanazi mos...I'm loving it! Balance is crucial ko magading bathong. Life is good and ra equalizer like dat💯 Re a leboga Rre Mashabela for this one🍾RESPECT is the basis of it all🙏🙏
let us be honest Mkhulu Manjoro is the only one currently in one of these podcasts whos explaining n dishing out important knowledge that most Gogos and Mkhulus fail to explain clearly and shout out to David for asking very important questions we needed this info
Thanks mkhulu manjoro about your podcast it is more educational to all African people people in both side groom and bride family you are making the lobola more easy keep it up
uKhehla Manjoro is such a beautiful energy, 🥰& a rich well of knowledge. Thank you so much for sharing such a beautiful topic that even us brothers still look forward too despite having been deterred by the things "people" have misconstrued as fundamentals. Thokoza Khehla
Listening to these episodes just made me feel by tradition people of Southern Africa we are one. My ancestors are Nguni, they moved to Swaziland and then settled in Zimbabwe. I can relate to most of the things discussed in the conversation in our Shona culture.
I didn't know of Khehla manjoro since yesterday,,,so I simply went on a hunting spree for all her interviews and my heart is full... Siyabonga Khela for your enlightenment Rea leboga ntate Mashabela for the way you engage and navigate the conversation 🙏
Mkhulu Mnjoro siyabonga to teach the us and reminds us how thing need to be done in olden days pls now teach us what do with lobola money after wards who must handle or use ngesintu.and phahla process uyibika kanjani edlozini Thokozane
If you would like to contact Khehla Manjoro:
073 680 4444
I love this woman bakith can she never leave your channel.She shines so bright .God bless her .
I agree totally with you, she can do something once a month we are learning
True
Me too she is having a wisdom
After listening to Mkhulu Majoro, you realize how lost the majority of us are😢
But some things she said don't apply to all cultures so be mindful when listening they are correct but does not apply to all cultures
Some of the things mentioned here we as Xhosa people don't apply them
Dude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@phelokazimtshazi9088 Very true. This is mostly in nguni culture. Zukus xhosas etc.
Yey. I sent this to my mom
Mkhulu you are a rare stone and the host is an excellent driver of the conversation. I wish every person who listens to this can commit themselves in preserving ubuntu bethu.
My husband made sure that he follows the process. He sent the letter to my family without my knowledge behind my back because he wanted to have a surprise engagement party for me on my birthday, so I was engaged on a Sunday which was my birthday and a week later the delegates came to negotiate the process.
She is a gift and we need people like her who can relate Christianity to our traditions big up bra Dave
Sent it to my mom
Never watched one person this much… never have I paused or skipped any part. Infact I rewatch all her videos. And bra Dave’s ability to keep conversations flowing so organically!! Yoh big up Bra Dave
Bro i have rewatched her videos so many times and every time i m excited
i was even rewinding and pausing lol
Thank you King David for blessing us with khehla Manjoro again and again and again and we won't get tired of her
I thank my wife for introducing me Radio2000 and by God's grace i got to know about THE KING. Since then my life is getting better im learning alot about our culture. Hola KING 🎉❤🎉
This episode has helped me a lot preparing for my first ever Lobola negotiations, everything I needed to know I found here. You guys are doing a massive contribution to educaring the morden African people. We appreciate it 🙏
I recently paid Lobola for my love but it put a strain on our relationship.
We provisionally agreed on our brideprice range and her family that are unknown to me tripled the amount. The agreed range was 40 - 50k. Relationship context: Together for 5 years, 1 daughter of 3. Damages paid in line with tradition. Both qualified professionals but I'm already a multiple property owner, had recently bought a vehicle for my woman and she takes care of me whenever possible. I honour the privilege of being able to take care of her more. We are best friends but families nearly broke us apart. We are steadily recovering at this stage. I am a proud African man but at some stage I considered not going through with the process. These processes can be abused by families or even used to sabotage something great. It is discouraging.
I understand, me and my husband have been through this and we nearly broke up. Both families were not getting the fact that they are both tearing us apart. After lobola we called them and explained what they are doing and if they didn't want us to be together they must tell us so that we know what we do and stop the drama. Since then we are both happy and have been married for 4 years now.
It is very important to send abakhongi who can stand their ground when negotiating because once you face the problem you're mentioning it means they failed you.But indeed there are families who're very greedy nowadays.
Modimo a ne le lona kona o fele. ❤🎉 Love how you understand the importance of your partner
Your woman must convice them I convince my family
Phala mfo...address the issue to the elders. Kuzoqonda, other families are just there to ruin their own members' bliss.
From Mkhulu Manjoro I've learned that everything in our lives must be spiritually protected.
The lighting, camera and studio set up. Wow what an investment. The conversation fruitful and I love how both party's portray the story, makes it easy to understand and grab most important lessons. Thanks again King David
She's such a blessing to Africans and very down to earth. You're really appreciated khehla❤❤
Yoh! Khelha Manjoro is a blessing, shame. I've learned sooooooooo much about myself, my family and how I need to do things just by listening to 3 of her interviews. Absolutely brilliant! Also, the questions that David asks are top tier! Love how simple you guys make this!
No loadshedding formed against me shall prosper.
I can not afford to miss this episode.
Especially if it's Khehle Manjoro❤
😂😂❤❤❤😊😊
Khehla Manjoro should visit the podcast every month, there's so much education here🙌🏾
Yeah, that'd be nice. ☺️
Residency! Would be great
We need a Khehla Manjoro channel....oohw such a gem ❤ thanks KingDavid for bringing her to us we really need such conversations we sure were lost kancane kancane we getting back on track 😊 🇸🇿
Hi swazi girl
Her energy,the way she talks. I could go on and on. Thank you so much. Very informative for some of us who come from families who no longer practice culture. May God and your ancestors continue to bless you.
Ntate Mashabela thank you for bringing Khehla Manjoro back I like how she explain everything our Sabrina ❤️💖
She is truly a gift. What an eye opening moment. We have been schooled ❤
This women educated us on how things should be done and the meaning behind these process.. Thank you Kehla ❤
Lo mama is a national treasure, please keep her and further grow your show about roots around her, she has made me spiritually better. God is good.
What a blessing Khehla Manjoro is, I have learned so so much from ALL episodes. Hands down, thank you King David for continuously bringing her to enhance our knowledge and way of thinking and doing.
Another masterclass with Mkhulu Manjoro. We are becoming more and more wise people through her knowledge
I have not watched anything else by King Dave but each time I see mkhulu Manjoro, I know I have to stop and listen 🤌🤌 what an amazing woman ❤
Conversations with Khehla Manjoro, so so humbling. This woman is erudite, in the African Spirituality, I mean our Wikipedia of "Isintu." That's a true healer, she is called indeed. Thank mkhulu, needed to hear this. 🙏🙏😊
I really appreciate how you conduct your interviews..such a seasoned broadcaster.
I never really knew much about this subjects (culture & tradition ). I'm very thankful to you Ntate Mashabela and the masterclass Khehla Manjoro serves us everytime she's here💯
Keleboga gommenagane🙏🕯
This was indeed an eye opener, I am proud of myself for making sure that my Lobola Negotiations went well even though I don't have parents, But Ramogolo and Bo Malome, plaid a very important part in my ceremony. I pat myself in the back, one always needs to know who handles your lobola negotiations especially for a girl.
South African law makers did not really research or proper consult the traditional leaders on how indlu emnyama does umshado. The lady uyicacisa kahle🙌
This days lobola gets complicated from price we are treated as commodities, families treating us as slaves and elders taking sides in solving problems. It's really complicated
I always feel so blessed that she chooses to share her wealth of knowledge with us. Amongst other things, it is her kind heart that will take her places. ❤️
Mkhulu Majoro thank you, ngokucacisa kahle hle lendaba. Please invite her again for other topics, truly eye opening stuff. Siyabonga!!
Yah, I have to go an have in depth conversation with my elders about how we do this. King David, Mme Manjoro thank you.
This topic is complicated and thank you to your guest for untangling this subject. Thank you Kehla🙏🏽 May we also thank mothers who raised respectful sons.
As le2000 this is super insghtful cause I swear I have never heard some of the things mentioned by Khehla. But Im guided now. Many thanks.
I get a sneaky feeling braDave is doing research for himself 😁
🤣 same!
Lol same 😂😊
Iam convinced of the same
He's trying to learn these things with the rest of us.
That must be the luckiest person on planet earth
There's a layer of coherency that is being left out. This exchange idealises the parents / guardians, as though these people are not themselves falible humans who are either not respected by their children (for their own reasons) or worse, they are dubious themselves. So why can't the conversation be held within the context of modern problems? This idealism of what isn't our collective reality does not help us, because our lives are not the model of this idealised past (a past which is itself viewed with rosecoloured glasses).
In the olden days it was known how much is the lobola based on 1. She is still a virgin 2. She doesn't have children 3. She has one child. All these where known factors that determines the price or cows
Now the issue of who gets presents, in the olden days it sed to recognise 5 people only who were important as 1. Father 2. Mother 3. Aunt 4. Uncle 5. Gogo.These were only people matters in getting present on lobola.
Aunt and Uncle from both sides of the family or only dad's family? Also, is it all the aunts and uncles or the eldest. And which Gogo, from mother's side or paternal side. Please school us.
All thanx to Kahle manjoro we love u ❤️ , wish u can teach us more
I can’t wait to hear this one. We need her at least once a week Abuti David
Please
Have Pt1, pt2 and this (Pt3) saved... Too much needs to be learned and understood. Always a beautiful conversation with Khela Manjoro and Bra David. Thank You🔥👏🙌
Quiet an intriguing conversation.... The truth on another level right here
We really need these kind of conversations,thank you khehla Manjoro and King D.
wow, I learned a looot from this episode. I think most of us are just in the dark about such important matters.
This lady is a blessing. Shine on Khehla ✨ 🪔🕯️
I love her so much I can't wait to listen in. King David don't EVER keep the episodes short when khehla majoro is in the building
Another power packed episode, thanks King David and Khehla Manjoro 👏🏾
I had to watch it twice in a day..... Very very informative. Thank you Khehla Manjoro. Love and light to you and your family ❤. Thank you King David ❤
I can't get enough of the knowledge that she is sharing with us she is really a gift❤
Thank you for the great knowledge Khehla Manjoro... I'm watching this show with my girlfriend and we love it.
Waiting very patiently for this episode❤. This is the Masterclass 🎉
Free éducation that u give us WOW, tomorrow we are the one's who will be chosen to go negotiate the small information that we get everyday it's really important to us so that we can do the ryt thing that will help us grow even spiritually.
Khehla Manjoro, words are not enough to appreciate the knowledge you are imparting. Do not get tired of sharing❤🎉
I truly appreciate and love her way of thinking. 😊😊😊Beautiful
Have watched this twice. Will probably revisit it at a later stage. Profoundly enlightening and stimulating
She really is a Gift, may she blessed abundantly. I hope she writes a book to preserve this information because our nation is lost. Thank you for this episode Mr Mashabela 👍👍
Today I learned a lot big up to the KING he is asking all relevant questions. Salute...
Respectfully, watching this I lost count of marriages I know of which were doomed from very the beginning from just fumbling this process and I sympathize with them. I learned so much from this episode!
Marriages fail because of the people in the marriage and not because of processes.
Its 3;19 AM and bumped into this that healed my soul.
Ntate Dave thanks for these encouraging shows please don't stop unless god decides to love you and I wish you well I also realized that I need an MBA god to bless you for making notice that
Lost for words. Amazing wisdom there. Thanks again for bringing Khehla Manjoro. God and the ancestors bless her 👏🙏
This conversation sparked something in me. I hope we have many more conversations around conversations like this. Thanks Dave
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ohhhhhh your spoiling us bra D, I love Gogo very much re mo kopa every 2nd week. The wisdom she's impacted with is what we need. Thank you very much
Always wanted to know this side of our beautiful culture
These are the type of info always mesmerize me
Thank you for this sit down 🥹
I love this woman wow she so amazing uyalazi usiko nesintu😊
Love this woman.. well informed about our cultures.. very wise about EVERYTHING THAT CONCERN'S A BLACK COMMUNITY...
Kind David you such a plug, thank you🤞💞....My Sunday was made.... watched all your interviews with Khehla Manjoro and Gogo Bathini... So informative and Khehla and Gogo are full of wisdom, I aswell did not know much about our tradition and african spirituality. Camagu🙏
I have learned so much, she broke it down so nicely. ❤️❤️
David you are the greatest actor ,think of doing that .We will enjoy your movies .You make this discussion very interesting on point.Well done Khehla Manjoro &, King David educational Bravo I love it because of the learning curve to us all.
I thank God for her existence...Keep on teaching us.
This was insight and very educative to us Africans and one wish such treasure be recorded(Books) and we keep on seek connection with our roots while we live in this busy life.
The enlightenment is so invaluable... 👏👏
Thanks alot Mkhulu Manjoro for ur teachings.Ihv learned alot yhuu.Sifuna abantu abanje abasibuyisela emasikweni ethu.😍🤗
It's like they are intertwine to the bones.their voices together Jo! I could listen to them to sleep and anytime.❤
Thank you Mkhulu Manjoro for the knowledge and guidance. I love you
Thank for enlightening us...we are really lost some of us. Reminding us on how things are down in that subject. Siyabonga Khejla
She's an absolute gift to all of us, much love ❤❤❤.
Thank u to u too King-D for the questions 🙏🙏🙏. I have never seen you so intrigued in all the previous episodes. What a Master class...
I've learnt a lot on this episode, thokoza Khehla Manjoro. Thanks King David.
Eish🤣🤣Ngiyabuya ngiyanazi mos...I'm loving it! Balance is crucial ko magading bathong. Life is good and ra equalizer like dat💯 Re a leboga Rre Mashabela for this one🍾RESPECT is the basis of it all🙏🙏
Thanks KIng David Studio's for preserving such knowledge.
super great conversation, really enjoyed the insights. ❤
wow thank for bringing this treasure into our lifes now im gonna go back to part one to see if i missed anything
let us be honest Mkhulu Manjoro is the only one currently in one of these podcasts whos explaining n dishing out important knowledge that most Gogos and Mkhulus fail to explain clearly and shout out to David for asking very important questions we needed this info
Thokoza khehla Manjoro,You explain everything very clear,when you talk,You really know what you talking about, Thokoza khehla 🙏🙏🙏❤
Indeed Mkhulu Manjoro is a blessing and thank you eternally King D for always educating us.
Thanks mkhulu manjoro about your podcast it is more educational to all African people people in both side groom and bride family you are making the lobola more easy keep it up
Khehla manjoro uyangikhulisa spiritual kuningi engikufunda kuye uyi spiritual mentor yami love her
Thanks a lot King David for blessing us with beautiful Khehla Manjoro❤❤
she is such a blessing ❤❤❤
uKhehla Manjoro is such a beautiful energy, 🥰& a rich well of knowledge. Thank you so much for sharing such a beautiful topic that even us brothers still look forward too despite having been deterred by the things "people" have misconstrued as fundamentals.
Thokoza Khehla
Great conversation, very informative
Bra Davo! Bona bra van mei, I'm halfway in life. Mare sgela se tsena benekant!
I love you gogo manjoro for making us understand things we didn't understand that make us know the things we didn't know God bless you
Your podcast is a gift. Thank you
Listening to these episodes just made me feel by tradition people of Southern Africa we are one. My ancestors are Nguni, they moved to Swaziland and then settled in Zimbabwe. I can relate to most of the things discussed in the conversation in our Shona culture.
I didn't know of Khehla manjoro since yesterday,,,so I simply went on a hunting spree for all her interviews and my heart is full... Siyabonga Khela for your enlightenment
Rea leboga ntate Mashabela for the way you engage and navigate the conversation 🙏
What a n education of African values,thanks.
Mkhulu Mnjoro siyabonga to teach the us and reminds us how thing need to be done in olden days pls now teach us what do with lobola money after wards who must handle or use ngesintu.and phahla process uyibika kanjani edlozini Thokozane
Mkhulu Manjoro ❤ I can listen to her everyday. Share more videos of her please 🙏🏽.
Khehla Majoro Thank you for Clarity with regards to culture and the importance and acknowledgement of God being first in all things.