'Baby Reindeer' Creator Richard Gadd Reveals True Story Behind Hit New Show | This Morning

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 16 кві 2024
  • We’re joined by Richard Gadd, who’s turned his real-life experience of being stalked into a hit TV series ‘Baby Reindeer’. Working behind the bar of a pub, he offered one female punter a free cup of tea after she claimed she couldn’t afford a drink. That single act of kindness set off a series of events which would change his life forever. The woman - ‘Martha’ - went on to send him 40,000 emails and 350 hours of voicemail while obsessively stalking him outside his home, at his workplace and at his comedy gigs. Richard joins us today to explain why he wanted to share his story and how it feels to have created Netflix’s current number-one TV series.
    Broadcast on 17/04/2024
    Subscribe to This Morning for more exclusive videos: bit.ly/1JM41yF
    FOLLOW US:
    / thismorning
    / thismorning
    / thismorning
    MORE ABOUT THIS MORNING:
    Welcome to the official This Morning Channel! Join us every weekday from 10am on ITV1 and STV as we discuss the latest news stories, meet the people behind the stories that matter, chat to the biggest names in Hollywood, get the latest fashion & beauty trends, and cook up a storm in our kitchen with your favourite chefs!
    And did we mention we have quite a few laughs along the way too?
    #ThisMorning
  • Розваги

КОМЕНТАРІ • 2,2 тис.

  • @ConradIsFamous
    @ConradIsFamous 4 дні тому +4295

    Who’s here right after watching Fiona on Piers Morgan? 😂

  • @Lilawhen
    @Lilawhen 26 днів тому +13784

    Richard is so incredibly brave for not only telling his story but physically acting this trauma out for the second time. I can’t even imagine how difficult that must be. We are all proud of you Richard ❤️

    • @tamarAW515
      @tamarAW515 26 днів тому +396

      I finished the series the other night and had no idea that the lead was the creator for which the story was based. Unreal! Even more impressed now.

    • @DaveW-zi2jv
      @DaveW-zi2jv 26 днів тому +1

      After watching it I thought it was the best ever. However now I'm not so sure.
      I believe it needs a warning as could trigger people.
      Not all of us go onto to self destruct, use drugs and generally destroy everyone around us, there is another path. I fear this gives licence to the negative path.
      Has the male been charged? If not why not? Is he still out there roaming freely?
      Gadd said in another interview that the stalker in the series is so far from the truth of the real one she wouldn't even recognise herself 🤔
      I do think once the press dig deep into this, which they will, it's not as factual and heroic as he's made out.

    • @judithshelton5655
      @judithshelton5655 26 днів тому +30

      Well said!

    • @ajar.g.7307
      @ajar.g.7307 25 днів тому +71

      Couldn't agree more. What a phenomenal, genuine, strong human being. ❤

    • @taraqueen58
      @taraqueen58 24 дні тому +43

      Deserves highest acting accolade. Brilliant.

  • @marcbercht4021
    @marcbercht4021 22 дні тому +7238

    I love the moment he and his father discover they share the same past.

    • @TheOldYoungOne
      @TheOldYoungOne 22 дні тому +493

      So good they managed to get you to connect with the parents over such a short amount of episodes, they only appeared in the last two episodes but left such an impact

    • @woz_in_oz
      @woz_in_oz 20 днів тому +106

      What a scene!

    • @sjag2947
      @sjag2947 20 днів тому +192

      I balled like a baby 😢

    • @arfia89
      @arfia89 18 днів тому +186

      It was the saddest moment and I felt it so close to my heart. It was as if my biggest horrid secret being told as well.. And I felt so so sorry for his father, balled out worse realising his wife knew and they have gone through it together

    • @KimBlaQue
      @KimBlaQue 18 днів тому +71

      That broke me, not going to lie.

  • @SpotlessLeopard
    @SpotlessLeopard 2 дні тому +447

    I watched it.
    Through my neighbours window.
    Sent from my calculator.

    • @magdadzialak2178
      @magdadzialak2178 17 годин тому +4

      😂😂😂😂you killed me 😂😂

    • @SpotlessLeopard
      @SpotlessLeopard 17 годин тому +17

      @@magdadzialak2178 Glad you liked it.
      We are married now.
      Sent from my kettle.
      🤪

    • @nonamanis2594
      @nonamanis2594 16 годин тому +3

      Hahahhahah😂😂😂

    • @Sohum1111
      @Sohum1111 16 годин тому +1

      😂😂😂👏👏 !!!
      Sent from my shoelazy

    • @jennmemphis
      @jennmemphis 14 годин тому +1

      🤣🙌🏼🤣🙌🏼

  • @touchyto
    @touchyto 25 днів тому +6395

    This show deserves an award.

    • @natalias1513
      @natalias1513 23 дні тому +33

      I completely agree!

    • @thelittlesthobo7100
      @thelittlesthobo7100 23 дні тому +6

      Like an Olivier award for example?

    • @hannahrivera40
      @hannahrivera40 22 дні тому +13

      @@kevsrevc9780is this martha?

    • @emily_ly8150
      @emily_ly8150 20 днів тому

      I agree !!

    • @Gford912
      @Gford912 20 днів тому +3

      @@linapesz313good thing yours is the only opinion taken into consideration for awards

  • @LeonardoDiCapri-Sun
    @LeonardoDiCapri-Sun 26 днів тому +7652

    I almost can’t believe how open and vulnerable this show was, pretty incredible

    • @gotyoutriggered.8644
      @gotyoutriggered.8644 26 днів тому +17

      It was disgusting, a mockry to god.

    • @sams3987
      @sams3987 26 днів тому +143

      @@gotyoutriggered.8644sorry what 😂😂

    • @Se7hius
      @Se7hius 26 днів тому +1

      ​@@gotyoutriggered.8644bait

    • @Americasorola
      @Americasorola 26 днів тому +44

      Man ep 4 was just incredibly heart breaking I couldn’t believe it and the ending pfff

    • @gotyoutriggered.8644
      @gotyoutriggered.8644 26 днів тому

      @sams3987 God doesn't love rainbows or their supporters.

  • @patrickm7754
    @patrickm7754 19 днів тому +2855

    The scene where he breaks down on stage has to win some sort of award

    • @pmf15
      @pmf15 15 днів тому +24

      Just saw that scene and it was my first thought!!

    • @OGJprodandmore
      @OGJprodandmore 11 днів тому +1

      Which episode

    • @lucien5319
      @lucien5319 10 днів тому

      @@OGJprodandmoreep7

    • @antc9819
      @antc9819 10 днів тому +1

      @@OGJprodandmore end of number 6

    • @jonatan7112
      @jonatan7112 7 днів тому +30

      That's interesting. I actually found that scene to be the most unrealistic and staged in the whole series. I get that they had to make it more cinematic than how it was in reality but i think they could have done it in a more believable way.

  • @xull505
    @xull505 18 днів тому +1530

    Binged it. Great show.
    Sent from my iPhone

  • @I-kd3cz
    @I-kd3cz 24 дні тому +4221

    Never seen such realistic portrayal in media of what a victim has to go through and experience after being victimised. I haven't cried this much in a long time. We need more art that resonates with people

    • @bippitybop9060
      @bippitybop9060 24 дні тому +59

      That's what made me cry so much when watching it too, it was just such a realistic portrayal of what you go through.

    • @solb101
      @solb101 22 дні тому +26

      He’s not a victim. That’s the secret.

    • @erienglish
      @erienglish 22 дні тому +15

      I have been crying so much, I have a terrible headache. He is so brave, and I am glad he is better. I admire him!

    • @mattb4640
      @mattb4640 22 дні тому +24

      ​@@solb101 Not a victim? He's a professional victim.

    • @solb101
      @solb101 22 дні тому +2

      @@mattb4640 a professional not-victim

  • @palemich
    @palemich 25 днів тому +3286

    It genuinely breaks me that he says ‘I know other people have had it much worse than me’
    What an extraordinarily strong man

    • @sasskvetch8617
      @sasskvetch8617 23 дні тому +13

      He's right though

    • @nm3662
      @nm3662 22 дні тому +147

      @@sasskvetch8617 doesn't make his case any less important, when people say that they're usually being dismissive

    • @mindyt5557
      @mindyt5557 18 днів тому +13

      Yes. A very resilient and strong man. Lots of people would have crumbled and take the easy way out. I hope he heals and live a magnificent life.

    • @valentino1646
      @valentino1646 14 днів тому +4

      @@mindyt5557 'easy way out' what exactly do you mean by that

    • @mindyt5557
      @mindyt5557 14 днів тому +3

      @@valentino1646 Google who commits the most $uicide and you'll see what I mean. Very fragile.

  • @lwayne9281
    @lwayne9281 21 день тому +1153

    As an American, it's lovely to watch hosts that are actually good interviewers.

    • @BK12310
      @BK12310 14 днів тому +24

      Kat was the host of So you think you can dance. I didn’t know she did morning talk show work until now. Happy to see she has continued to carry a caring interview style.

    • @theycallmedrworm
      @theycallmedrworm 13 днів тому +20

      I'm an American too, and I thought the same thing!

    • @ninaa4life
      @ninaa4life 12 днів тому +13

      Are Americans not good interviewers?

    • @BK12310
      @BK12310 12 днів тому +29

      I think sometimes they don’t come across in a genuine way

    • @ouadguy06
      @ouadguy06 3 дні тому +1

      I would have to agree.

  • @nancyorlikow463
    @nancyorlikow463 19 днів тому +761

    We rarely get such a nuanced portrayal of trauma and abuse, and especially about a man. Richard has helped many men and abuse victims in general by sharing his story. A brilliant series that had me gripped into binge watching it. Bravo!🎉

  • @ManiKais
    @ManiKais 24 дні тому +2278

    Randomly chose to watch 5 minutes of this. Watched the entire series in one sitting. Blew me away. Best series I've seen. And lead female actor, Jessica Gunning - have never seen such talent. Stunned.

    • @chrisg9174
      @chrisg9174 22 дні тому +45

      Same here one night binge! She was amazing!

    • @sacerrone
      @sacerrone 22 дні тому +11

      Same

    • @Scout-scrapper
      @Scout-scrapper 22 дні тому +7

      Me too!

    • @moridimafea
      @moridimafea 20 днів тому +9

      Sameeeeeeeee!!! Amazing show. Will win Emmy and everything else this year. Deserved

    • @sarsar-zr1ry
      @sarsar-zr1ry 19 днів тому +2

      And me haha

  • @alexmousley7213
    @alexmousley7213 26 днів тому +1291

    I can say Baby Reindeer is one of the best dramas I've seen on Netflix for a long time- the writing, acting and editing is absolutely excellent- the way that it explores the mental health issues of both the stalker and of the victim of stalking is something unique and so compellingly acted. I couldn't help myself binge-watching it.

    • @beniteztheconman
      @beniteztheconman 24 дні тому +3

      Hardly a ringing endorsement. When has netflix ever had anything good?

    • @alexmousley7213
      @alexmousley7213 24 дні тому +12

      @@beniteztheconman Plenty of times! I take it you haven't seen Baby Reindeer then?

    • @carlabrunell9781
      @carlabrunell9781 22 дні тому +3

      ​@@alexmousley7213I agree. Fantastic perspective of both parties

    • @Angela-cc1hd
      @Angela-cc1hd 22 дні тому +7

      I am glad you said mental health issues of both, because he also, definately had mental health problems🤔

    • @alexmousley7213
      @alexmousley7213 20 днів тому +2

      @@espon2112 We will have to agree to disagree- I, and many others think it was extremely well written and acted.

  • @Keanerock
    @Keanerock 23 дні тому +560

    I hope Richard gets some Award's for Baby Reindeer, for his writing, his acting and his brutal honesty about the horrific things he endured. For him to act out himself was nothing short of class acting, he definitely deserves some recognition for this series.

    • @MagikarpBeast
      @MagikarpBeast 16 днів тому +3

      For seeking attention?

    • @Keanerock
      @Keanerock 16 днів тому +41

      @@MagikarpBeast There's always one!

    • @CountryCowboy008
      @CountryCowboy008 3 дні тому +10

      @@MagikarpBeastdid you post this comment from your iPhon?

    • @anitarogers2877
      @anitarogers2877 3 дні тому +4

      ​@@MagikarpBeast Yes, for seeking attention. To highlight the real plight some people, including men, actually do endure in regards to having been stalked.

    • @CarolynnMc01
      @CarolynnMc01 2 дні тому

      @@MagikarpBeast Maybe the millions make up for it in some way.... i'm not sure but I watched Fiona's interview earlier. I can't say she's a liar or if Richard over inflated the situations. Stay tuned, I guess! take care...

  • @fairybliss7772
    @fairybliss7772 3 дні тому +153

    This show needed to be made. Trauma is transformative. He’s very self aware.

    • @jeancarpenter5283
      @jeancarpenter5283 22 години тому

      He’d have to be aware by now, either that or he’d be dead.

  • @majestyk8654
    @majestyk8654 26 днів тому +1268

    The most moving, multilayered and epic show ever! Its truly incredible

    • @John-lp5xh
      @John-lp5xh 25 днів тому +4

      Sounds woke

    • @Moth-Mellow
      @Moth-Mellow 23 дні тому +12

      @@John-lp5xh Putting a label on something before experiences it for yourself is naive bud.

    • @John-lp5xh
      @John-lp5xh 23 дні тому +2

      @@Moth-Mellow it saves me so much time and I'm usually right 80% of the time

    • @majestyk8654
      @majestyk8654 22 дні тому +7

      ​@@John-lp5xhwell, you're missing out. It's one of the best shows on netflix

    • @John-lp5xh
      @John-lp5xh 22 дні тому

      @@majestyk8654 I don't know what your values are, I don't know what kind of person you are, how can I know what you like I'll like

  • @taylormadgolfuk4146
    @taylormadgolfuk4146 21 день тому +356

    Cried my eyes out when he told his mum and dad he was gay/bi .. expected his dad to walk away but that hug was emotional

    • @juliechristine377
      @juliechristine377 6 днів тому +5

      My husband cried too...more than me!

    • @nicolettesauramba2596
      @nicolettesauramba2596 6 днів тому +2

      @@juliechristine377 That seen was so emotional. I hope you asked your husband if he cried so much because he may have experienced abuse in his past? I may be wrong but I know it’s often hard for men to open up about these things. 😢

    • @taylormadgolfuk4146
      @taylormadgolfuk4146 6 днів тому +8

      @nicolettesauramba2596 I know where you're coming from, but not everyone who found this emotional has been abused. That's a pretty big statement

    • @taylormadgolfuk4146
      @taylormadgolfuk4146 6 днів тому +3

      @@juliechristine377 it done me big time. Great acting

    • @ddl4374
      @ddl4374 2 дні тому +2

      So good.

  • @ln14517
    @ln14517 15 днів тому +524

    Episode 4 was the most difficult things I’ve watched I think ever.

    • @ourcorrectopinions6824
      @ourcorrectopinions6824 15 днів тому +38

      Yes, it is up there with Irreversible. Seriously traumatic to watch.

    • @justenethompson3824
      @justenethompson3824 12 днів тому +6

      Same!

    • @rinodad
      @rinodad 12 днів тому +9

      Yes, first irreversible movie and second episode 04. 😢

    • @geline2686
      @geline2686 12 днів тому +8

      i stopped watching after that

    • @amillionlittle11
      @amillionlittle11 12 днів тому

      ​I almost wanted to stop as well but I highly suggest sticking with it and get on because it's just that one episode ​@@geline2686

  • @Lawzika
    @Lawzika 12 днів тому +130

    The fact he wrote about and acted his trauma is truly incredible. The series was amazingly written and acted. I hope it wins so many awards, very well deserved.

  • @eron8937
    @eron8937 26 днів тому +1177

    I never knew when watching Netflix that the guy playing ‘Baby Reindeer’ is the real life guy!! 😮

    • @mazda2038
      @mazda2038 26 днів тому +26

      Same

    • @skerriesrockart
      @skerriesrockart 26 днів тому +22

      Yes its his vanity project.Cant you tell by the way he's the hero in spite of the fact that nobody in real life would have anything to do with him

    • @stevezb222
      @stevezb222 26 днів тому +96

      I’m glad I found out AFTER I watched it. Made the discovery even more surreal.

    • @alexandra129
      @alexandra129 26 днів тому +76

      @@skerriesrockart how dare you

    • @skerriesrockart
      @skerriesrockart 26 днів тому +6

      @@alexandra129 nothing about him or the story is believable

  • @marianneyag4106
    @marianneyag4106 26 днів тому +712

    This was the most intense series I have ever watched. Many times, it was so hard to watch and yet I was magnetised and drawn in to the outstanding acting. Richard is incredibly brave and to react and go through all those emotions again and tell his side of trauma he endured. What a phenomenal and inspiring person.

    • @beniteztheconman
      @beniteztheconman 24 дні тому +3

      Wow

    • @TM-pl6tm
      @TM-pl6tm 24 дні тому +7

      Absolutely I was so connected to the actors Donny, Martha and Teri. Wow!!

    • @alexmousley7213
      @alexmousley7213 22 дні тому

      100 percent. It wasn't an easy watch but it was so compelling, the acting was extraordinarily good and the emotions of both stalker and stalked were so well expressed as well as the complexity of their entanglement.

    • @sun.g4l
      @sun.g4l 4 дні тому

      yes! the acting, the natorrating, the filming style is great.

  • @tanvirina
    @tanvirina 12 днів тому +69

    Why the host ia telling it was funny Comedy drama? Was it really that funny? I found it was intense, disturbing and emotional.

    • @yungjose3369
      @yungjose3369 7 днів тому +8

      it's a genre called Black Comedy

    • @Kat-qb1uj
      @Kat-qb1uj 5 днів тому +4

      The genre on Netflix says dark comedy

    • @luciekatherine
      @luciekatherine 3 дні тому +7

      There were flashes of humor between the characters, not just because he was a comedian. It was really interesting the feel all of those emotions at once

    • @sannasanna8535
      @sannasanna8535 День тому

      Yess

    • @LilstevieWonders2
      @LilstevieWonders2 17 годин тому

      So funny. I laughed a lot.

  • @karensobt
    @karensobt 22 дні тому +108

    the show is so incredibly raw and honest, it's rare to find a show that tackles such a difficult story in such a vulnerable way

  • @saleca3613
    @saleca3613 24 дні тому +346

    This series shook me to the core. I wasn’t expecting that

    • @AA-lq5pu
      @AA-lq5pu 23 дні тому +9

      Same here. Its taught me alot about myself.

    • @jadeamah
      @jadeamah 22 дні тому +3

      Init, crazy

    • @angel22j92
      @angel22j92 10 днів тому +1

      Me neither, very shocked

  • @Themis33
    @Themis33 26 днів тому +579

    This show was hauntingly good. I'm still processing it.

    • @beniteztheconman
      @beniteztheconman 24 дні тому

      Hahahahaha

    • @linapesz313
      @linapesz313 21 день тому

      What did you like about this show?

    • @Themis33
      @Themis33 20 днів тому +22

      @linapesz313 It i's a brilliant depiction of the human condition. The parallels are fascinating, also. I could relate to parts of it, like most probably can. And the acting was incredible.

    • @shashamarie4760
      @shashamarie4760 15 днів тому +3

      Processing. Exactly 😢

    • @catherinesydney
      @catherinesydney 4 дні тому +2

      The ending was utterly brilliant

  • @kayleighanne4205
    @kayleighanne4205 13 днів тому +36

    Honestly, the intense attachment a person can have to their abuser is so real. This series opened my eyes to things I have never understood about myself, and my response to my own abuser.
    I couldn’t stop watching. I binged it in a day by myself, and I had no idea how much I needed it, this was so unexpectedly therapeutic.
    I hope Richard Gadd is doing alright these days. I’m so proud of him.

  • @boogzieboogs
    @boogzieboogs 16 днів тому +69

    This show bought up trauma from my past, I was very tearful watching. I had a stalker and it still affects my mental till this day clearly. I remember I went to the police and was dismissed, I felt helpless! It’s been 4 years and I’m still waiting for closure. I appreciate him sharing his story because I have always felt no one understands how much that situation caused me so much distress.

    • @adimeter
      @adimeter 5 днів тому +3

      I'm so so sorry. I hope you get justice.

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 2 дні тому +1

      Same

  • @PBXBusinessbuilders
    @PBXBusinessbuilders 25 днів тому +231

    his acting as well as the actress who plays Martha was ASTOUNDING!!!

    • @jemillafrancis4148
      @jemillafrancis4148 День тому

      I agree, look what he said " stalker stories are usually one person's bad and the other person's good...and i wanted to get away from that " He's talking about an work of art he created...not a traumatic experience.

  • @shelleybartley8913
    @shelleybartley8913 24 дні тому +388

    I only realised the actor was the real guy after I finished watching it. I watched it all on the edge of my seat. Absolutely amazing. This guy is a beautiful honest soul 💖

    • @angelcuraza9813
      @angelcuraza9813 23 дні тому +1

      i only realized when i read this comment 🥲🥲

    • @midlifecrisis39
      @midlifecrisis39 20 днів тому

      Same

    • @Romawitch
      @Romawitch 18 днів тому +7

      Same, I realized while on the last episode and I cried my heart our for him.. kept thinking how difficult I must has been reenacting all of it... and also... hope this helps him

    • @mindyt5557
      @mindyt5557 18 днів тому +5

      I'm glad he's been seen, heard, validated and paid. More than that I hope his mind is healed or is healing. May the lord bless and keep him.

    • @BonJoviBeatlesLedZep
      @BonJoviBeatlesLedZep 12 днів тому +1

      I knew going in so everything that happened had me on the edge of my seat.

  • @danieldmyers
    @danieldmyers 3 дні тому +34

    I love this man. I couldn’t stop crying during the monologue about his dive into recklessness after the trauma because it hit home with my experiences a few years ago. I’ve never seen such an accurate portrayal of the situation and one’s response to it.

  • @Mama-Sarnit
    @Mama-Sarnit 22 дні тому +94

    I was shocked, crying, amazed, confused, and all sorts of emotions 😳. This show needs an award, and plus, this man deserves so much recognition. I can't wait to watch more of his work where he jumps on other human emotions

  • @younuvou7916
    @younuvou7916 23 дні тому +197

    Not a 'comedy drama', more of an autobiographical psychological thriller with comedic relief. And the clear villain is the Darrien character.. not a grey area at all. Loved this miniseries and it's cathartic potential for RG and other survivors.

    • @MaryCherryOfficial
      @MaryCherryOfficial 15 днів тому +16

      i agree. that was an odd thing to say

    • @lizzlovesjesus
      @lizzlovesjesus 15 днів тому +5

      Wouldn’t Martha be considered second villain though ? Or maybe more of the antagonist

    • @kelseylovesart
      @kelseylovesart 10 днів тому +11

      ​@@lizzlovesjesus He was able to show moments where Martha was an empathetic character with mental illness and where he made wrong choices to encourage Martha instead of disuading her so I think the grey area is more around the stalker/ stalked narrative not Darrien's role

    • @joescott5322
      @joescott5322 9 днів тому +2

      It’s a dark comedy

    • @johngreydanus2033
      @johngreydanus2033 2 дні тому

      @@MaryCherryOfficial The guy was a comedian FFS.

  • @RustyDarkStone
    @RustyDarkStone 26 днів тому +470

    It is a breathtaking piece of TV , this guy has really shared something so profound and dark that it has to be seen to be believed, his bravery and the amazing way he wrote this show is beyond talented and I applaud him and I wish him all the success in the world.

  • @kateobrien7067
    @kateobrien7067 5 днів тому +18

    I love how honest he is in this show, even going back to his abuser as a form of self hate, I think a lot of victims can relate

  • @fatmaal5296
    @fatmaal5296 19 днів тому +30

    Episode 4, the scene where he realised that the abuser was trying to control his mind was the exact moment I too figured it out and it was terrifying I swear I never felt such thing in a long time. What a great show! Thank you for sharing your story to help thousands of people out there. You’re brave and I wish you now all the fame and success you truly deserved!

  • @mrswolf3084
    @mrswolf3084 23 дні тому +193

    I've just watched and cried my eyes out. In all truth pain and trauma often makes the authentic writer and artists.

  • @jchope777
    @jchope777 26 днів тому +949

    What was done to him by that man was pure EVIL.

    • @whyisthissoannoying
      @whyisthissoannoying 21 день тому +132

      absolute evil. and it happens to children. it is pure evil and hatred.

    • @daniellem578
      @daniellem578 20 днів тому +115

      It happens a lot in Hollywood

    • @silverstarlight9395
      @silverstarlight9395 18 днів тому +56

      Who was the man in real life? I'd like to know that.

    • @jojo4hyworld654
      @jojo4hyworld654 18 днів тому +5

      He did that again in last episode??

    • @ananyatomar4249
      @ananyatomar4249 17 днів тому +13

      ​@@jojo4hyworld654No not at all

  • @stevenhageman8255
    @stevenhageman8255 17 днів тому +30

    Episode 4 for me is one of the finest pieces of exposition I've ever seen in film. It was also so refreshing seeing a true telling of what a person goes through, discovering their sexuality, instead of a writers imagined experience. Since it is his story, the authenticity all came through that much stronger

  • @NotFalling4it
    @NotFalling4it 4 дні тому +41

    I just watched the interview with ‘Martha’ Fiona Harvey on Piers Morgan and he 100% nailed her character.

    • @lindaflesch7303
      @lindaflesch7303 2 дні тому

      Do you believe her?

    • @NotFalling4it
      @NotFalling4it День тому +4

      @@lindaflesch7303 Some of it I definitely don’t believe, like I don’t believe she has a boyfriend who’s a lawyer and a lot of it I don’t know. My gut says she lying though.

    • @lisamartin6847
      @lisamartin6847 День тому +1

      I don’t believe her either. If she had a boyfriend, she wouldn’t be stressing the fact she does and that he is a lawyer! She seemed very hung up on that. She also seems very off esp when she describes having 4 phones abdb4-6 email addresses and the need to keep things separate (ex her utility bill and another bill) Crazy!

    • @michaelmora5334
      @michaelmora5334 День тому

      And let’s be honest, what family and friends email eachother anymore? She’s so full of it I got ptsd watching the interview after that series

  • @TK-md4dv
    @TK-md4dv 26 днів тому +176

    Richard Gadd's performance was one of the most grand performances I've ever seen in any film! Along with Jessica Gunning's beautiful performance! Powerful, emotional, brave, I can go on and on. I felt every word and left me sitting in a puddle of my tears. Excellent show. Acting perfection 👌

  • @tabascocat5102
    @tabascocat5102 23 дні тому +181

    He deserves every penny. Love the guy. A lot of people will identify with his story. I love him.

  • @claramoldes9632
    @claramoldes9632 17 днів тому +22

    In Spain we are impressed with this story too! He is so strong and incredibly honest.. Reliving his trauma must have been brutally hard. Congratulaciones Richard, you deserves awards for this work.

  • @theresabelcourt40
    @theresabelcourt40 15 днів тому +29

    A note to Richard Gadd. Your story touched me deeply and portrayed exactly my experience after my abuse first from my older brother followed by my now ex husband of 24 years. My soul has been touched and I’m grateful to you for your hard work in telling your story. I am certainly not a stalker but I have a tiny bit of insight into those who are so damaged that they do unspeakable things. This show has been a true gift. Thank you.

    • @adimeter
      @adimeter 5 днів тому

      "from my older brother followed by my now ex husband of 24 years". I don't understand what you are saying. Could you break it down into a couple of sentences.

    • @gabriellegoyette4238
      @gabriellegoyette4238 4 дні тому +1

      @@adimeter she was abused by her brother and then by her ex

    • @adimeter
      @adimeter 3 дні тому

      @@gabriellegoyette4238 Oh poor dear. But so sad she turned around and became an abuser.

  • @naomijenkins7848
    @naomijenkins7848 26 днів тому +171

    this was emotionally one of the most complex stories iver ever seen. im sure it will help a lot of people to understand the complex set of emotions that can come with abuse.

  • @gracekerr3127
    @gracekerr3127 26 днів тому +151

    Binged the whole series back to back- Simply Amazing.

    • @beniteztheconman
      @beniteztheconman 24 дні тому +1

      Took me 47 goes... couldn't stop yawning

    • @hotpotat0es
      @hotpotat0es 24 дні тому

      No thanks .who he was dating was pandering yet again

    • @libbyallen2566
      @libbyallen2566 23 дні тому

      Same!

    • @libbyallen2566
      @libbyallen2566 23 дні тому +3

      @@beniteztheconmanyou counted?

    • @ameliaroy222
      @ameliaroy222 20 днів тому +4

      @@hotpotat0es how can a true story be pandering?

  • @WR10678
    @WR10678 17 днів тому +22

    Takes a strong man to relive his trauma in front of the world👊🏾❤️

  • @gymbuddy32
    @gymbuddy32 День тому +2

    I binge watched it, then had to watch each episode again to fully digest, understand and give the show the respect it deserves.

  • @zenden6584
    @zenden6584 26 днів тому +148

    One of the best shows I’ve ever watched,so real to life with emotions we all have our struggles ❤

    • @beniteztheconman
      @beniteztheconman 24 дні тому

      Haha really?

    • @moodforever
      @moodforever 24 дні тому

      @@beniteztheconmanyou don't have struggles ? Maybe not the same as his but at the end of the day rather physically or mentally it's still a struggle , right ?

  • @heekyungkim8147
    @heekyungkim8147 26 днів тому +154

    Brilliant…. I laughed,shocked and cried. Best series i saw this year…

    • @Dbarr311
      @Dbarr311 26 днів тому +2

      Nah nit the best

    • @LANDE33
      @LANDE33 26 днів тому +7

      @@Dbarr311”best series I saw this year” = best one they’ve seen, maybe not the best you’ve seen.💀👍

    • @libbyallen2566
      @libbyallen2566 23 дні тому +1

      @@Dbarr311haven’t heard of nit

  • @maccart67
    @maccart67 3 дні тому +37

    His story, her story and the truth!

    • @MimiDidi121
      @MimiDidi121 День тому +4

      I 100% agree

    • @thelostchicagogirl
      @thelostchicagogirl День тому +2

      EXACTLY!!!!

    • @m-o-l
      @m-o-l 23 години тому +1

      Aye, there's always three sides to every story ..
      Her story on one side ..
      His story on the other side ..
      and the truth in the middle !!

  • @varsharavichandran8959
    @varsharavichandran8959 21 день тому +33

    The first thing I thought after watching this show is that Richard has such immense talent and intellect. You can see his intelligence from both on and off screen. Capturing such complex feelings and experiences that he’d gone through and to relive them?! Insane. Such a great guy that deserves all of this success and more ❤

  • @motulifelikefigures1987
    @motulifelikefigures1987 26 днів тому +137

    The success isnt surprising for me- this show is simply outstanding and it deserves all the awards it can possibly get. It needs alot of strength and positive believe to turn such trauma into worldwide success! He truly can be so proud of that project. I hope i get to see the one man show this series is based on at some point.

  • @santiagovasco4233
    @santiagovasco4233 23 дні тому +88

    This is the best Netflix series in a long time.

  • @KB-tf8vp
    @KB-tf8vp 22 дні тому +35

    Not only was this true and raw, this person is so brave and talented for writing, creating and acting it! 🤯 Bravo. Epic.

  • @dominique8655
    @dominique8655 4 дні тому +4

    i’m a survivor and i’m half way through the series and i just realized a baby deer is a “fawn”.. like the trauma response 😭. when i first started watching the word was at the tip of my tongue. thank you for this. it wasn’t even the scenes that got me as much as your dialogue, trying to make sense of everything. like trying to grasp on to something, anything concrete to keep you from falling into the deep recesses of your mind. that’s when i had started reading this book on trauma responses and learned fight/flight/freeze/fawn types. the response is just as much a part of one’s story as the trauma itself

  • @TwinedHorizon3
    @TwinedHorizon3 25 днів тому +79

    I am just learning that the actor IS the person that its based around and that is insane! This series was so well written but that just adds more depth to him. Mustve been so crazy to relive that again…
    Also wanna give credit to the actress playing martha, she was amazing in that role!

    • @sillygo0oser
      @sillygo0oser 22 дні тому +2

      Holy cow the expressions she made were amazing

  • @wcreview8227
    @wcreview8227 23 дні тому +44

    My Wife and I just watched Baby Reindeer and Richard, you are very Brave, and everyhting that you did and went though is part of the recipe to overcome Abuse! to have the courage to get it out .. Catharsis is the word! Incredible!!

  • @seanah123
    @seanah123 11 днів тому +8

    I have trauma that I have can't even speak about or even allude to with family and friends, not because I don't trust them, but because I find it so difficult to talk about. To be able to share this with the world and reenact it at the same time, it's incredibly brave.

  • @lolo_bird
    @lolo_bird 6 днів тому +8

    When I saw this I thought ‘how incredible is this actor?!’ And then I learned he WROTE IT based on his OWN EXPERIENCE I just couldn’t believe it

  • @Bartizzle739
    @Bartizzle739 26 днів тому +52

    I worked security for this when they filmed Edinburgh fringe scenes. Was a nightmare lol so busy. Show looks great though and it turned out really well I think. Didn’t expect to enjoy it but was brilliant. Fair play to Richard for opening up about all that happened.

    • @francine5936
      @francine5936 26 днів тому +2

      Was it really the Fringe when it was filmed?

    • @Bartizzle739
      @Bartizzle739 26 днів тому +6

      @@francine5936 yeah. Was so busy and so hot 😂 they couldn’t get any vehicles close to the filming areas so it all had to be carried or wheeled to each area 😂. They wanted the authentic fringe backgrounds going on. Got quite lucky with crowds assuming it was just something for the fringe so we didn’t get hassled too much 🙏🏻

    • @adimeter
      @adimeter 5 днів тому

      How interesting. You have 2 perspectives.

  • @sarahnaji8362
    @sarahnaji8362 26 днів тому +81

    I absolutely loved it!!!! I wanted more than 7 episodes!! Literally a masterpiece

    • @KarlSnarks
      @KarlSnarks 26 днів тому +13

      I think the story being told in such a self-contained format ads to its strength. Every episode also had a different runtime, to give every part of the story the space it needed to be understood.

  • @marianacabral8659
    @marianacabral8659 20 днів тому +8

    Richard Gadd is extremely brave and deserves all the praise. By making his case accessible to the world, I hope much more compassion and understanding will be able to be given to trauma victims. Trauma is extremely messy and he is very brave to show its effects in such a raw way. Thanks for your service, Richard.

  • @dezlc6259
    @dezlc6259 День тому +2

    What else makes this show fun to watch is that he’s the actual guy in the show! Yesterday, Martha went on Piers Morgan and I couldn’t help but feel sorry for her since everyone knows who she is now

  • @sophiecatmin2574
    @sophiecatmin2574 23 дні тому +36

    10/10 show! Most incredible writing I’ve seen on anything in a while. I’m so pleased he’s got the success he deserves from it, what a brave man for telling and showing us his story

  • @carlamcglone5698
    @carlamcglone5698 26 днів тому +43

    Just binged watched. WOW an absolute raw piece. Fair play to you Richard Gadd 👏🏻 👍🏻 🙌🏻

  • @sandracheney912
    @sandracheney912 День тому +2

    The Netflix show was authentic and raw, Brilliant acting and writing.

  • @lindseyturner1005
    @lindseyturner1005 22 дні тому +6

    So many scenes moved me to tears .Brilliantly acted and a very important brave thing to put out there .

  • @robbrown391
    @robbrown391 26 днів тому +44

    I thought it was Amazing ... Bless Him and glad he made it through all that ....

  • @fh5047
    @fh5047 26 днів тому +71

    Just finished this and it really wasn’t what I was expecting at all, it was much more! Well worth a watch

    • @KarlSnarks
      @KarlSnarks 26 днів тому +5

      Yeah it started off as a relatively lighthearted dark-comedy, I did not know what I was in for but I'm glad I randomly started watching this. I only found out after that this was Richard's own real-life story, so much respect for the courage it must've taken to show such vulnerable part of his past.

    • @beniteztheconman
      @beniteztheconman 24 дні тому

      I yawned a lot

    • @fh5047
      @fh5047 21 день тому

      @@KarlSnarks same, I didn’t know anything about it when I watched it, and I did actually think to myself in the abuse scenes, ‘that must be so hard for an actor to act out’ then find out it was his story 🤯

  • @psychedelicgoat3464
    @psychedelicgoat3464 21 день тому +5

    I have genuinely never cried so hard in a series. I found it so relatable, so astonishing in how it portrayed thought patters we are all prone to feel even though we don’t acknowledge this. He was so brave in sharing this story and exposing his vulnerabilities that make it easier for us to process our own deepest darkest secrets and shames. Can’t share my love for this series enough and glad he got out of this situation ok (from what we see)

  • @scoon2117
    @scoon2117 3 дні тому +4

    Absolutely amazing, candid raw and honest. Never seen anything like it. I love this guy.

  • @meegangamble6503
    @meegangamble6503 25 днів тому +23

    To be so honest with himself and share it with all of us, just truly amazing in his courage he is. Gives me hope for all of us 💜

    • @jamie6770
      @jamie6770 25 днів тому +1

      Has the person who graped him ever been prosecuted?

  • @wakeupbell2491
    @wakeupbell2491 24 дні тому +25

    Kudos to the person at Netflix who saw the potential of Gadd's story! It is a fabulous bit of television and I admire Richard for telling his story so very honestly.

    • @Melinamiu007
      @Melinamiu007 2 дні тому

      I tend to wonder if his abuser connected him with Netflix.

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 2 дні тому

      I was wondering that too

  • @thomazpank
    @thomazpank 4 дні тому +19

    I went to school with Richard, back then I was a spotty rather unpopular young man who was going through a lot of gender identity issues behind the scene and had also been a victim of an SA by an older man, I found Richard to be quite a mean person who was more than willing to engage in use of homophobic slurs against me and my few friends and was more than happy to be the bully to fit in with his group and not seem gay.
    Our guidance teachers were Ms Hutchinson and Mr Tarvet we attended Madras College.
    I am glad to see that Richard has lost some of his less savoury behaviours and improved with age. I wish him well. Perhaps he has now a better understanding of the power of other peoples behaviour to cause hurt and as a victim of other people maybe he can now understand that I forgive his actions but will never forget them and the impact they had on my younger self.

    • @fxm_ae
      @fxm_ae 4 дні тому +3

      Stop the cap please

    • @thomazpank
      @thomazpank 4 дні тому +2

      ​@@fxm_ae he rode a moffat and williamson bus to and from school. Ms Hutchinson married a geography teacher.
      We both went to school with Nick Ross who has since passed away. We had a music teacher named Mr Bell who always wore his trousers with the waist up high.
      Two vans would show up outside our school every lunch time, andy's ice cream van and Murray's chip van.
      ;) he'll be able to tell you this is all true, ask him. He was very into playing football. He once strained his groin while doing so.

    • @thomazpank
      @thomazpank 4 дні тому +1

      @@fxm_ae the definition of no cap. 😊

    • @James-ly1zt
      @James-ly1zt 4 дні тому +4

      ⁠@@thomazpankI don’t think your lying fella. Good on you for forgiving his actions and hope you are well

    • @thomazpank
      @thomazpank 3 дні тому

      @@James-ly1zt life is what you make it, I live literally a world away from where we grew up and I am transitioning finally after many years of dealing with things that were not helped by his and many others actions back then and years of working organising and helping out behind the scenes with campaigning for greater respect and rights for the LGBT community.

  • @simonasaboova6760
    @simonasaboova6760 5 днів тому +3

    The strength to act out his trauma is immense. People can’t imagine how much strength it sometimes takes to go through it for example in therapy but to act out so many of those scenes is absolutely unimaginable for me. And I have been in therapy for over 10 years. I have so much respect for that man for telling his story. Amazing strength 👏🏻🙏🏻 And the series was insane…. After the I finished the 3rd episode my eyes were hurting because I watched them with my eyes wide open 😳😳😳 THE WHOLE ENTIRE TIME. I just couldn’t rest them. It was just so insane what I was watching 😱😱

  • @1971redd
    @1971redd 26 днів тому +37

    The movie was amazing. I couldnt walk away from my TV. Richard you are so brave to relive that over and over acting in that movie

  • @the_floating_feather7480
    @the_floating_feather7480 26 днів тому +37

    His emotions were very raw❤❤

  • @PaigeHarris-uv2th
    @PaigeHarris-uv2th 2 дні тому +3

    I absolutely adore him. It takes a lot to bare your soul to the world the way he has. As they said, there is no hero and no villain. There is a lot of gray in the world, and a lot of humans are still unable to take accountability for their own suffering and the suffering they create for others. I hope he heals completely & continues to grow more into the extremely emotionally intelligent human I see him as. Sending love to him and any other victim of the violence portrayed in the show 💔

  • @lisayusko6800
    @lisayusko6800 21 день тому +3

    What is so great about the series, is that Gadd actually and finally got to realize his dream of writing and bringing something to the masses, through this series. Such an amazing heart- wrenching, thought-provoking piece of film. I have so many feelings, after watching this. Stunning work. ❤

  • @michellemybelle2263
    @michellemybelle2263 24 дні тому +10

    This show was so powerful, emotional, brilliant, great acting, great writing, crazy intricate story. Whatever awards can be given for a tv show should be given to this show. I haven’t stopped thinking about it since I finished.

  • @deltaXna
    @deltaXna 24 дні тому +27

    I just finished this show. Wow. Showcases the intricacies of the human phyche. Amazing.

  • @andreaandrea898
    @andreaandrea898 4 дні тому +10

    All talk about Martha. Now can we focus on Darrion?

  • @jemmavicary6397
    @jemmavicary6397 22 дні тому +1

    Most powerful thing I've ever seen, I was crying but at same time feeling so proud of him for being so brave...I just wanted one person to give him a hug when he let's it all out on stage, how no one did this was beyond me!

  • @robertt4176
    @robertt4176 24 дні тому +18

    He’s a beautiful fragile yet brave man

  • @sarahmatrious2277
    @sarahmatrious2277 25 днів тому +14

    Wow... this series took a sharp twist into dark. Emotionally overwhelming and courageously created. Amazing piece ... thank you for this! So proud of your courage to tell your story

  • @sydneymyers6883
    @sydneymyers6883 22 дні тому +3

    This show was brilliant. And I had no clue it was the actor who went through these things! The whole time I was thinking this man deserves an award for this acting it was so raw and genuine. Such a talent to write and act it. Not to mention the execution of the story and taking the audience through a range of emotions. My heart just broke for so many people.

  • @nerd55120
    @nerd55120 22 дні тому +21

    Who is the 50 something industry type that abused you? I hope he gets exposed. I'm sorry you went through that, but I'm glad you've turned this trauma into something so enlightening

    • @Nono-ge7ef
      @Nono-ge7ef 17 днів тому +2

      He doesn't want it to be known.

    • @alumcable
      @alumcable 8 днів тому +1

      It's not part of the actual "truth"

    • @nerd55120
      @nerd55120 7 днів тому

      Hi @@alumcable , are you saying that part isn't so 'true story'? That's interesting

    • @MariaGonzalez-gk6lj
      @MariaGonzalez-gk6lj 4 дні тому +1

      It’s funny no one’s talking about this instead, they’re all targeting the real Martha.

    • @lilme7052
      @lilme7052 2 дні тому

      ​@@alumcableit is

  • @Coalminesz
    @Coalminesz 23 дні тому +8

    Truly heartbreaking, yet a raw and descriptive show. I commend his bravery. So many feelings and tears were exposed while watching this show.

  • @lovey980
    @lovey980 25 днів тому +11

    It’s an amazing show and I’ve never felt like a show ended so fast. This deserves so many awards. It’s such a refreshing experience.

  • @tonimedlen5371
    @tonimedlen5371 22 дні тому +1

    This series was amazingly written. The ending was brilliant. The compassion and humanity and the evil and the anger. I have no words! Binged watched it in a day.

  • @BlackBizAdvocate
    @BlackBizAdvocate 14 днів тому +2

    I was mesmerized by this series! I felt ALL of the emotions, and it was very well written and acted.

  • @charleenhudson4746
    @charleenhudson4746 24 дні тому +71

    This show was a masterpiece! Just when I was about to give up on Netflix..

  • @GraceChai-bg5no
    @GraceChai-bg5no 26 днів тому +46

    Its such a brilliant show. Awesome cast.
    Richard is brave to relive his dark past and I was moved beyond words.

  • @jog9395
    @jog9395 5 днів тому +4

    The acting in this show is next level.. amazing characters.

  • @gbosonnet
    @gbosonnet 16 днів тому +2

    It was an incredible series and amazing how the writer actually acted his own story. The courage to do that is awesome

  • @99sillysausages
    @99sillysausages 26 днів тому +9

    What a Terrible time he went through. Extremely brave to share such a story. I hope your career continues to thrive. I hope you found your confidence ❤

  • @Leila-ie3ms
    @Leila-ie3ms 24 дні тому +4

    Such an amazing, honest, human and important document of his experiences. This will help countless people to know that trauma impacts every part of your external/internal life but healing is always possible when being prepared to be vulnerable and congruent with yourself. ❤

  • @ShevyCardoza
    @ShevyCardoza 22 дні тому +9

    I finished watching this last night. It helped me make sense of so much of my past Trauma. I felt deeply seen. Thank you.

  • @JoJo-ju7xw
    @JoJo-ju7xw 18 днів тому +1

    I just loved his parents in the show, especially how his dad handled everything