I’m aroace, but I feel slightly attracted to someone in a different way. It’s not like sexually or romantically, idk how. But he’s my online friend and that makes it *hurt.* The odds I can tell him how I feel are slim. And I’m scared he won’t understand.
Bisexual here, i dont give a shit if you're sexually or romantically attracted to people. You know what I think? You're fucking valid! Now come on over, we're watching Barbie!
I am ace, and there is kind of a disconnect with the other sexualities. when I tell someone I’m gender fluid or I’m biromantic it’s normal, but with Ace it seems a little off to them and sometimes they say that’s not a real sexuality.
It literally isn't a sexuality.....a prefix meaning without. It just to show you don't have a sexuality.....and it's treated as such....that's the goal.
Yeah, I feel it there, too. I guess it's because most sexualities are about the qualities a person is attracted to, but asexuality is about the nature of the attraction itself. Like this! O
There are two ways I can go about this the lexikitty way or the normal way. The normal way: don’t listen to them or don’t talk to them. The lexikitty way: what are their names I will find the for legal reasons that was a joke for moral reasons it was not
As an aroace person, I've faced a lot of bullying and taunting. from my relatives to my neighbours. It's hard, very hard. I get told that "I am not real" or "I am delusional and I must have sex with my future husband." It's annoying and I'm tired living in religious extremist people.
As someone who is aroace, the issue isn't that other sexualities are different, because every sexuality is different. Its because many don't accept not feeling sexual or romantic attraction as lgbtq There's also a lot of aro/ace people many if us just don't make it our entire personality or aren't open about it
@@D7o7m7i7sure, just as hetero and homo is a spectrum, most things are spectrums, however you can group certain spectrums together (such as the lgbtq)
My only struggle as an aroace is being called “like jaidenanimations” “Yeah im aroace” “Oh, like your like jaidenanimations? Get your own sexuality” (Real convo ive had)
We should all just come up with random words for our sexualities and then explain it as however we experience it, and pretend like it's something that we didn't make up in five minutes. That would be fun.
That’s just plain homo from that guy. I hope what you said taught him a lesson, if you just sat there, shame on you. Teach that guy that everybody matters and no matter what you identify has, your valid.
@@SpeedyMcPit i told him that he’s a piece of shit and that half the world is straight so why is he, he walked away saying “everyone should be straight.” So I guess we know where he stands on that
I love these videos cause I get to scroll through they comments and find people that are like me and feel like I belong somewhere instead of feeling like I don’t so to all my fellow aro ace people WE ARE IMPORTANT😊
Aroacer, really just feeling like i shouldnt be and that it is invalid to be aroace, im currently closeted with only one friend of mine knowing i am, and during biology class about sexualities, a classmate said “but asexuality is fictional.” Which really made me doubt it too-
I feel jealous of people who love as an aro/ace. Like aro/aces get discluded more than the rest of the lgbtqia community being called non valid that’s our feelings aren’t real it’s just a false how do we know if we don’t like it if we never tried you just haven’t found the right person yet and ofc we’re not part of lgbtqia i hurts
people almost never have respect if you say you don’t get crushes. so far i’ve only had one “crush” in my entire life n for all i know it could be a squish (like a crush but for friendship idk) people will say you “get no bitches” or whatever like you should care. we put so much of a focus on getting with someone as an accomplishment, something that if you don’t do then you’re a failure at life. i say live how you want with whoever you want just don’t hurt people!
As someone who is Aroace I have a lesbian friend and a bi friend and we call our trio the ALB (who wants to invade Denmark and get garlic bread on the way)
As an aroace yeah i dont know a singel aroace person personally but i dont really mind im around the horniest mfs but i just try to fit in i say im ace but then still just act completely normal
@@TheMetalliator ok just ignore it then? It's so easy to ignore it rather than going out of your way to say you don't care which definitely means you care. I just don't understand what Chaos is looking for that's so important in the world while on yt shorts lol
And also everyone finds it off when when we tell them and they don’t believe you and they just say oh you haven’t decided yet like my guy I’ve decided now are you come and watch barbenhiemer with us or not?
@@internetstrangerrr well not exactly what is used in this video is the aromatic flag and asexual flag the aro ace flag is totally different even though it does make sense to combine them
It’s daft. I’d say most of them are people who have been rejected or are so terrified of sex and intimacy the brain creates a coping mechanism. Like a form of depersonalization. A way to distance themselves from the pain. The rest are legit cases of hormone issues or mental illness. I speak from personal experience. After my divorce I was so shattered that after I “healed” I was pretty much an Aro. Not an ace tho. Still had sex but literally felt no emotion towards them. Total indifference. Now I see that it was a way to heal. Obviously this is situational and anecdotal but from the people I know it seems to fit. They definitely feel this way tho. It’s real to them.
@@jackroyaltea5034I'm aromantic and I'll be blunt and tell you this is completely wrong. Being aromantic isn't fear or a coping mechanism. I've never felt romantically attracted to anyone in my life. You described getting divorced and not being romantically attracted to any sexual partners you had. That's not aromantic. That's just meaningless sex. There's a huge difference.
That must be a chemical imbalance due to something such as depression. I’m no doctor, but I know for a fact that depression can be one of the reasons why someone may lack feelings of love or attraction towards someone.
it can be yes. It can also be a result from trauma even if you heal from said trauma,sometimes it sticks. Its situational just like any other sexualty and identity.
Ah yes situational. Someone who has never felt attracted to the opposite sex in their life, it’s only situational. Hmm I’m not so sure about that one. If you’ve got more to read about it I’ll gladly discuss
@@synder_sync7834 well maybe situational isn't the correct word- my apologies. By situational I meant every case is different,like not every straight person likes the same thing in a person,if that makes sense? Serious apologies if it came off wrong lol I'm horrible with words
I’m aroace, but I feel slightly attracted to someone in a different way. It’s not like sexually or romantically, idk how. But he’s my online friend and that makes it *hurt.* The odds I can tell him how I feel are slim. And I’m scared he won’t understand.
Update: my friend had me tell him. He didn’t know how to respond, and we just moved past it for now.
Idk I think I might be aro/ace im not sure
It might be platonic, but you want a relationship? Plus, you can still date even if your aroace, like me!
@@_V4ggie_ yeah, we haven’t talked since. I do want a relationship, just platonically.
You might be feeling platonic attraction, I suggest you look it up !
Bisexual here, i dont give a shit if you're sexually or romantically attracted to people. You know what I think? You're fucking valid! Now come on over, we're watching Barbie!
Agreed! As a fellow Bi who is technically also on the ace spectrum (Being Demi-Bi) I suggest we help bridge the gap and watch barbie
Mega cringe
You’re so real for that ☺️
@@foxowaranimation397 demi bi? So you're just gay? The lgb circus gets crazier by the day
Bi-demi-trans here! I'M BRINGING THE GARLIC BREAD.
I am ace, and there is kind of a disconnect with the other sexualities. when I tell someone I’m gender fluid or I’m biromantic it’s normal, but with Ace it seems a little off to them and sometimes they say that’s not a real sexuality.
I think you should talk to different people then.
Don’t listen to them. Aces are just as valid as the rest of us!
It literally isn't a sexuality.....a prefix meaning without. It just to show you don't have a sexuality.....and it's treated as such....that's the goal.
Yeah, I feel it there, too. I guess it's because most sexualities are about the qualities a person is attracted to, but asexuality is about the nature of the attraction itself.
Like this!
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There are two ways I can go about this the lexikitty way or the normal way. The normal way: don’t listen to them or don’t talk to them. The lexikitty way: what are their names I will find the for legal reasons that was a joke for moral reasons it was not
As an aroace person, I've faced a lot of bullying and taunting. from my relatives to my neighbours. It's hard, very hard. I get told that "I am not real" or "I am delusional and I must have sex with my future husband." It's annoying and I'm tired living in religious extremist people.
As someone who is aroace, the issue isn't that other sexualities are different, because every sexuality is different.
Its because many don't accept not feeling sexual or romantic attraction as lgbtq
There's also a lot of aro/ace people many if us just don't make it our entire personality or aren't open about it
Also I apologize if my comment doesn't make sense I have no idea how to make it make sense better
As an aroace person myself i don't really count it to LGBT+ I see it more as its own spectrum
@@D7o7m7i7sure, just as hetero and homo is a spectrum, most things are spectrums, however you can group certain spectrums together (such as the lgbtq)
My only struggle as an aroace is being called “like jaidenanimations”
“Yeah im aroace”
“Oh, like your like jaidenanimations? Get your own sexuality”
(Real convo ive had)
We should all just come up with random words for our sexualities and then explain it as however we experience it, and pretend like it's something that we didn't make up in five minutes. That would be fun.
That’s just plain homo from that guy. I hope what you said taught him a lesson, if you just sat there, shame on you. Teach that guy that everybody matters and no matter what you identify has, your valid.
@@SpeedyMcPit i told him that he’s a piece of shit and that half the world is straight so why is he, he walked away saying “everyone should be straight.” So I guess we know where he stands on that
@@SpeedyMcPithomo means gay btw 😃
Haha funny thing Jaiden actually helped me realize i was aero/ace being able to relate to her experiences
I love these videos cause I get to scroll through they comments and find people that are like me and feel like I belong somewhere instead of feeling like I don’t so to all my fellow aro ace people WE ARE IMPORTANT😊
AROACEEE IM A AROACE CIS GIRL TOO
take up arms, my fellow Aro/Ace lad, and we shall host a conquest in the name of awesome bullshit!
Aroacer, really just feeling like i shouldnt be and that it is invalid to be aroace, im currently closeted with only one friend of mine knowing i am, and during biology class about sexualities, a classmate said “but asexuality is fictional.” Which really made me doubt it too-
You're valid no matter what others think or say! - Another aroace person :)
I feel jealous of people who love as an aro/ace. Like aro/aces get discluded more than the rest of the lgbtqia community being called non valid that’s our feelings aren’t real it’s just a false how do we know if we don’t like it if we never tried you just haven’t found the right person yet and ofc we’re not part of lgbtqia i hurts
"Aroace/asexual"
Aromantic:
👊
people almost never have respect if you say you don’t get crushes. so far i’ve only had one “crush” in my entire life n for all i know it could be a squish (like a crush but for friendship idk)
people will say you “get no bitches” or whatever like you should care. we put so much of a focus on getting with someone as an accomplishment, something that if you don’t do then you’re a failure at life. i say live how you want with whoever you want just don’t hurt people!
I’m Bi and I really don’t give a fuck if you’re nice and friendly with others then you’re valid as hell
As someone who is Aroace I have a lesbian friend and a bi friend and we call our trio the ALB (who wants to invade Denmark and get garlic bread on the way)
male aroace here and my only attraction is my phone 😅😅😅😅😅😅
Real 🤭❗
As an ace This Is true...
As an aroace I couldn't care less tbh :P
Hey if you are living life, enjoying the sun and not hurting anyone. Why not, I hope the best for you man/gen
- fellow aroace
I am aroace, and I don't consider myself as a living person.
As an aroace yeah i dont know a singel aroace person personally but i dont really mind im around the horniest mfs but i just try to fit in i say im ace but then still just act completely normal
Am aroace and im ✨proud✨
Aroace person here it is really like this. Jaiden explained it perfectly but I’m still proud to be aroace!
Omg I'm aroacre too:D
Aero/ace and I’ve found my place!!
I agree with you and I'm aroace too :)))
I'm aroace and I fell happy and valid
As a pansexual i am confused by yet accept aroace ppl
I feel this. No one knows we exist
Yeah It sucks somethimes....(I'm aroacre too So I know what's It ilke)
That's why I hate doing asexual 😢
I get this bc I am bi ace
It doesnt even feel like a sexuality, u can be asexual and straight and aromantic and straight
I don't like labels, but ai definetley am an ace girl. Also I'm changing my name to Jamie:)
As a straight I find this to be really not important with what’s going on in the world so yea but idk
Dude what are you looking for on UA-cam shorts then
This was recommended to me despite my disdain for these people @@OnlyyAutumnn
Why should you be valid but others be invalid just because you don’t care
lol what if i said i don’t care about straight people and complained every time one shown up on my page
@@TheMetalliator ok just ignore it then? It's so easy to ignore it rather than going out of your way to say you don't care which definitely means you care. I just don't understand what Chaos is looking for that's so important in the world while on yt shorts lol
Jaden is the same sexuality as me?
Im asexual and yes it happened to me :(
Im straight
There is nothing wrong with any gender, race or sexuality. Its only a problem if someone makes it their entire personality and identity.
Genuinely can’t relate cuz I’m gender fluid and bisexual, but my friend used to be asexual. :p
thank you soooo much!!! also: AMAZING ANIMATION!!
Nothing wrong with feeling pity for someone.
And also everyone finds it off when when we tell them and they don’t believe you and they just say oh you haven’t decided yet like my guy I’ve decided now are you come and watch barbenhiemer with us or not?
Nooo the colors are orange yellow white light blue and dark blue
we have two flags, the sunset and the mix of aromatic and asexual
@@internetstrangerrr well not exactly what is used in this video is the aromatic flag and asexual flag the aro ace flag is totally different even though it does make sense to combine them
Yep
Well, yeah no shit.
Aro here and i literally could not care lesa
Wtf is aroace
Its where someone feels little to no sexual or romantic attraction to anyone
It’s daft. I’d say most of them are people who have been rejected or are so terrified of sex and intimacy the brain creates a coping mechanism.
Like a form of depersonalization. A way to distance themselves from the pain.
The rest are legit cases of hormone issues or mental illness.
I speak from personal experience. After my divorce I was so shattered that after I “healed” I was pretty much an Aro. Not an ace tho. Still had sex but literally felt no emotion towards them. Total indifference.
Now I see that it was a way to heal.
Obviously this is situational and anecdotal but from the people I know it seems to fit.
They definitely feel this way tho. It’s real to them.
@@jackroyaltea5034nah man I just don’t feel sexual attraction. I’m at the point where that would be happening if I were allo.
It's a combination of being both aromantic and asexual
@@jackroyaltea5034I'm aromantic and I'll be blunt and tell you this is completely wrong. Being aromantic isn't fear or a coping mechanism. I've never felt romantically attracted to anyone in my life. You described getting divorced and not being romantically attracted to any sexual partners you had. That's not aromantic. That's just meaningless sex. There's a huge difference.
Dont care didn't ask
Basically a walking L
Wow thanks for being so open about yourself! You really are a walking L
Wow dude you're so funny why don't you go back to Fortnite now lil homie
@@Testejzhwhsb no, I'm not
@@OnlyyAutumnn I'm not a British cigarette
@@brananagrans5381 bro really dancing around that slur
That must be a chemical imbalance due to something such as depression. I’m no doctor, but I know for a fact that depression can be one of the reasons why someone may lack feelings of love or attraction towards someone.
it can be yes. It can also be a result from trauma even if you heal from said trauma,sometimes it sticks.
Its situational just like any other sexualty and identity.
Ah yes situational. Someone who has never felt attracted to the opposite sex in their life, it’s only situational. Hmm I’m not so sure about that one. If you’ve got more to read about it I’ll gladly discuss
@@synder_sync7834 well maybe situational isn't the correct word- my apologies. By situational I meant every case is different,like not every straight person likes the same thing in a person,if that makes sense?
Serious apologies if it came off wrong lol I'm horrible with words
@@saigetucker6054 oh that makes so much sense! Sorry for my passive aggressive reply, it makes more sense when you say it like that:)
@@synder_sync7834 its quite alright lol. I'm horrible with wording things(plus was late when I started writing) which leads to these situations :'3