Flirting & My Stories
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- Опубліковано 24 лис 2016
- i stalled making this video for 10 months because i'm embarrassed to tell these stories but whatever i'm over it here ya go
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And this tells me you read the description, which means you respect what I have to say! Thank you :D You have a 2% higher chance of being asked out by someone you like ;0 - Фільми й анімація
Comebacks to “How long you’ve been together” :
Girl - “He’s Gay”
Boy - “She’s my sister”
Jinhunter Slay my sisters hot
I broke My gender what the fu- *ALABAMA INTENSIFIES*
N’STUFF I’m a theater kid...
STEP sister. Oh wait...
That makes it worse
I broke My gender sincerely me?
The best story I have about flirting was with a girl in the line for comic con, she says to me after a few minutes of talking "hey I like your hair." and in my head I just think "OMG A GIRL JUST COMPLIMENTED ME. RESPOND APPROPRIATELY." and what do I reply with? "Thank you. I grew it myself. SHIT"
Flash Gmaing She probably thought you said it on purpose as a joke ahaha
Aingotnolife ThankstoSixthForm yeah she did actually. what makes this great is that I was cosplaying and I was wearing a wig xD
btw I love your username
Flash Gmaing ahaha thanks
funny how your story sounded like dbz abridged with trunks
This happened but I did use the Dbz abridged quote to make it sound better. although I did say "Thank you. I grew it myself"
“You two sound like you could have a bomb friendship! Since you theoretically should be able to get along perfectly!” I’m laughing so hard bc it’s so obvious that Jaiden hasn’t yet discovered that there’s ANOTHER EMOTION INVOLVED!
as someone who walked up to a girl at my freshman year in high school, asked her if she wanted to dance, and she said she had a boyfriend, and I immediately walked away, I can agree.
Now thb jaiden is asexual it makes sense
@@Fenikx33 this was 7 years ago
@@funnyman7312i know but i just wanna say
"Foreshadowing is a literary device used to hint at events yet to come"
When I told my crush I liked her she said “BRUH” 😭
Poor you
😂 say brah and its 3% gonna work than 1%
She rejected u didn't she....
oof
F
friEND
boyfriEND
girlfriEND
Comrade
*Only COMRADE has no END*
*DEEP*
Indeed friend
MountAgony comrade*
Hello my fellow Comrade!
And vodka!
i love how the video RECOMMENDED after this video is "Being Not Straight" 💀
I got this before that one🤣🤣🤣
After her coming out, I have come to realize Jaiden is the master of foreshadowing.
It's subtle foreshadowing, though. Foreshadowing so subtle that even Jaiden didn't recognize it at the time!
Like the never checking Ari's gender thing in that one vod!
She made me realize I might be Aro ace. Honestly, I never even attempted to flirt!!!! I did attempt to fall in love, man did that backfire horribly
Crush: Hi how are you?
Me: Thanks you too
Shemione Granger for me:
Crush: Hi how ar...
Me: Hahaha nice one there did you know that I ate 21 burritos in 3 minutes
I dont have crush
Am I human?
Someone's actually replied to me like this before. She has a crush- I think it's just an anxious thing.
Nice name Shermione Granger
@@nethascotx24 i can fucking relate
Crush: so how was your day?
Me: yes
Same
Me. Lol.
*O F F E N S I V E I T E M*
*Y E S*
Auto correction:
*Yes the day is the day to say Yes*
Oof, same.... XD
Knowing I'm aroace by now too, I actually had the exact same kissing experience. And I just gotta say, if you like someone, regardless of them potentially being aroace now, do not confess with a kiss! You'll put them in a spot where they might not know what's happening until it happened and you just end up overstepping their boundaries and potentially alienating the person you like. Consent is important even for "just" a kiss. And just because they didn't slap you away or some doesn't mean they consented. So in short, surprise kissing someone to confess is not the sweet romantic gesture that movies make it out to be
Yeah but it’s “apparently” harder to have a kiss when your not actually in a romantic relationship. Idk though I’m demiromantic
@@Sentient-potato You mean for someone who wants to be in a romantic relationship with someone? Ah trust me, there's people that seem to have no problem at all with that xD And it's fine if the other consents, but my post was about people confessing their love through a kiss without giving the other person the time to consent. Because that's what I had experienced and Jaiden too according to this video. Though that experience unfortunately isn't exclusive to aros or demis, there's many allo people who experience it too
@@ChillingDusselgurr I don’t think I accidentally experienced it, I feel like I’d be brave enough to tell them no anyway; I am just thinking about it from stories I’ve heard
amity did that and it worked out, yes luz had a few days of "wait... does she like me?" but it worked out :)
@@Sentient-potato same
Man, seing this 7 years later is really cute. She really foreshadowed something she didn't know at the moment ❤
This is called foreshadowing
How many humans are still watching this 5yo video?!
@@nvid it’s definitely gotten an increase in viewership since Being not Straight came out
@@nvid I just recently started watching Jaiden and I'm watching all videos in chronological order, so yeah...
@@nvid well im not human. im a computer.
@@nvid she literally mentioned this video in her coming out video and how she “refused to rewatch” obviously that means that many people will rewatch this video
How to avoid telling strangers about relationship
Google : We are just friends
Bing : He's gay
@alexeeee thanx man
Bruh
Just yes
LOL
*long deep breathe 🙏🏻PERFECT COMMENT ABSOLUTELY STELLAR 10/10
I think this video aged wonderfully. It took a while for her to find herself, but in the end she's happy now being herself and deserves all the support in the world. Love you so much, Jaiden! thank you for helping me come out too about my demisexuality. You're amazing. 💕💕
"I don't think i've ever flirted in my life, come to think of it."
And this is what we call in the writing biz "Foreshadowing".
"I peer pressured myself, without any peers."
- Jaiden
so in other words... I pressured myself
imagine sayin "I peer preasured myself"
ElectronOMG when she said that and I was scrolling and saw that
Isn't that called self pressure
@@canyousee2578 nah i do it too
“I don’t think I’ve ever flirted in my entire life”
Hindsight really is 20/20
@vary helpful there talking about how hindsight has 20/20 vision not the year 2020
Do people really flirt that much? To the point where flirting never even once would make one seem obviously ace? Uhhh… asking for a friend
@@Bluzigo I wouldn’t say obviously ace or aro, but yea us romantic people do flirt quite a lot
@@17_Biskitz dam I’ve never even felt a little compelled to flirt with anyone, I’ve always just thought I was uninterested with everyone. Idk I’m barely an adult so I’ll see I guess
Me. Apparently, just talking to someone is considering flirting. What?! I’m just talking to them, that makes no sense.
I remember watching this when it came out (back when I didn’t realise I was aroace) and thinking that this was the most relatable thing ever and being really confused that everyone else in the comments thought that she was being weird. I was about 60-70% sure I was aroace before she “came out” but now watching her “coming out” video and this, I can safely say I am 102% sure with a two percent error margin
Gosh, that's me!
so what's the difference between 104% aroace and 105%
where you think you could be the first but not the other
The thing you don't notice about the whole "let go of a good friend, because they don't want a relationship" is that the longing for more sometimes does not go away. And sometimes the hope for more has a hard time leaving, too.
On a strictly rational level you are absolutely right: A friendship with an awesome person is better than no friendship, if a relationship isn't available.
But you can't just decide to fall out of love. And sometimes fleeing is the only way to escape this feelings.
"If you can't be romantically involved, why not just stay friends" is an absolutely hilarious line with the context of the new video. The signs have been here all along.
@Rayyan khan ?
@Rayyan khan jaiden animations
@Rayyan khan My aunt passed away without ever having an interest in sex or getting married. Isaac Newton died without those as well, and he expressed how he had no real interest in either of them.
It may not have been explicit or well known, but I’m sure there were aro/ace people in history. Not to mention how societal expectations and standards are big factors why these people might’ve not known about their identity, or been in romantic/sexual relationships without actually feeling attraction.
@Rayyan khan bruh u serious? R u seriously mad that a girl ain't straight? Bruh like fucking more than half of the women in this world aren't straight, thats the most shallow thing a person can argue about. Male's on the other hand aren't ok I'm a homophobic to m8 but only against guys since I don't see the problem of girls being gay especially being aroace
It’s funny how things played out, glad she figured herself out. Lot of respect and support towards her after the latest video.
YASS
I was imagining this video might spike in views after the most recent one. Full support to her!
I watched this video like two months ago, and I couldn’t help but notice... maybe? Glad my hunch came true!
It seems so obvious in hindsight but hindsight is 2020
@Rayyan khan She's not lost, she's figuring out what she actually wants, and understanding herself better. Being aroace is completely valid.
I am aro and watched this vid before I knew what being aro was… I found it very relatable…
It’s a good thing I’m 16 and haven’t gotten to the point of doing any of the dumb stuff before realizing .
Life was waving the aroace flags in semaphore and neither she nor the rest world could read the signals back then lol. I can understand why Jaiden refuses to rewatch this.
Jaiden: “Well I did (flirt) one time by accident...”
Me: “Yup that’s our Jaiden :)”
True XD
Yes Just stay Hydrated
I may not may not have flirted with you and said I love you and said I've watched you for the last year. I know where you live and I know everything about you.
Ethan Akery are you talking about Jaiden?
(. ❛ ᴗ ❛.)
This video's new title, to me, is just “JaidenAnimations being an aroace disaster without her realizing it for over 8 minutes” xD
Accurate
@Rayyan khan you're just upset that your parasocial relationship was torpedoed by a 15 minute UA-cam video
@Rayyan khan what?
@@thetacoman9657 he got recked
👏👏👏
Seriously guys how did we not notice Jaiden was aroace?! She basically says she's aroace right in this video without saying she's aroace! 😂
Like i was aroace (didn't know that at the time) and was glad someone was talking about and that I finally agree with someone. IT WAS SO OBVIOUS!!!
My 12-year-old self, being asexual and lithoromantic without knowing it, related so hard to this video. Jaiden's video about being aroace came out (no pun intended) right as I was realizing that I was ace and arospec. The timing was just... *chef's kiss*
shut up no one cares
How are you asesexual if you can't even do that yet
remember, you can't get friend zoned, if you aren't' even friends.
@@SoRa-re1yd Oompa loompa doopity doo, the FBI is coming for you
@Normal Profile
Don’t worry. The FBI have been... neutralized
Lol
Omg I found you :0
I didn’t ask to be exposed
I bet this is getting a lot more views now that "Being Not Straight" is out.
Well now I feel called out as after the video I’m bloody confused with myself
I'm here.
Yes and this video still holds up to her being aroace. She just didn't realize it yet.
@@diamond_chaos same, although I'm becoming more certain about being aroace
Correct
-AAA battery (any/all)
Looking back you can really see why this seemed so weird at the time. Like she didn't understand why you don't want to be around the person who rejected you. . . Obviously it hurts too much to be around them but she had absolutely no idea how any of it feels.
Tip for first dates: NEVER go to see a movie, unless your idea of romance involves sitting in a room where nobody is supposed to talk. Similarly, don't go to places where you have to split your attention, like to a sports game or a show of some kind. Save those for later dates, when you've bonded more and can create meaningful, relevant dialogue based on shared interests or intellectual capacity. But NEVER the first date.
You want the first date to be tentative, but not hesitant. Nothing too intimate, but nothing completely impersonal, either. Something where there's a chance for you to get to know one another and create a bond without too many outside distractions. Dates that involve achieving a goal together are awesome ideas, because it creates a shared experience and more room for connection.
I'm not an expert on dating, nor am I even in a relationship, but some of the worst first dates I've ever been on have always involved not being able to pay attention to the person I'm with. Likewise, some of the best dates I've ever been on were ones where we had to do something together. Best date I've ever been on was helping a friend of a friend find her lost cat (we found it in the end).
"I peer pressured myself without any peers": Me in a nutshell.
My entire life described ;v
Lol
Me wanting to watch any anime (Except jojos)
800th like
"l have a girlfriend"
"Me too"
Now I'm confused who really IS gay
rice consuming sociopath I have had 2 girlfriends
I’m pretty sure Jaiden’s pan and she mentioned it in a video. Just can’t remember which one.
@@cordeliajackson8615 really?
Me. Well biromantic asexual
ajay che we already have
Now i know why she was so relatable. She was a fellow aro/ace all along.
And considering that just yesterday i very awkwardly rejected the first guy who asked me if i could be his girlfriend, getting this video recommended seems like fate.
0:37
It was at this moment when Jaiden knew, she messed up.
"He's gay"
Wow Jaiden you just did a switch of awkwardness on them. XD
Melzie I DIED AT THAT PART XD
ToxicCat Gamer lol me too XD genius response, I thought she wouldn't know what to say
Melzie I would just be like, "yup been together for two years" XD
ToxicCat Gamer then your friend just looks at you like *oooookayyy* d:
Melzie Whatever I could explain to him later XD
“Aww relationship goals”
“He’s gay”
I’m dead XD
666 likes.
Currently
planet RDC it has been ruined
800th like
Jaiden is a savage bro 'he's gay'
Me back in 2016 relating to Jaiden so much:
Me in 2022, also freshly out the closet relating to Jaiden so much:
Me: I lost my number, can I have yours?
Crush: Sure.
Me: And my phone.
Crush: Wha-
Me: And my wallet, this is a robbery.
First me
me: wow this guy no how to flirt
second me
me: wat?
third me
me: oh wow
Lol there should be a rule about this comment but there isn't because it's so RaNdOm 🤣
Crush: hey are you a bank
me: yeah why
Crush: leave me a loan
Random Girl: What’s your name?
Me: Robbin.
Girl: And your Family-Name?
Me: Ya
She: Is this Chinese?
Me: No, I’m fkng robbing ya, bitch!
(Triggering sound enters the room) FBI OPEN UP
i already know what you guys are gonna say and no, none of these stories are about james so you can take off your detective hats thankyaverymuch
Jaiden Animations My Crush is chocolate.
Jaiden Animations FIRST
Jaiden Animations wow I'm early
HI
ok
People don't have to stop shipping Jaiden and James... they NEED to stop shipping Jaiden and James and... James has a girlfriend, and these are real people.
Also jaidens aroace
And jaiden is aroace
I've never understood why anyone ships. Shipping is sad.
@@facthunt2facthunt245 shipping is fine, FOR FICTIONAL CHARACTERS! But y know, real people?? There's boundaries
James' GF is the soubaru
so funny how i related so much to jaiden, then for me to realize years later that's it's because we're both ace
This all makes so much more sense with her newest video. Really puts these experiences into perspective
I want to reply to this comment but idk what to say so... hi i guess? lol
@@Rended_ lol hi
@@Rended_ yeah it does make sense. I don’t understand why people are so mad about Jaiden being aromatic
@@aubrey6970 thinking more about, this a little arofobic
@@aubrey6970 what happened?
0:04 *rare footage of the wild jaiden, displaying it's mating call.*
*and as you can see at **4:21**, it shows it's rare mating dance.*
Wait why... why does that work
no its called corona virus part 2 electric buggalo
HHahaahhahah
Omg this is the most funny thing I’ve ever seen
@@l.lproductions3928 ughhhhh
1:04
"who even are you?"
AN AROACE POTATO--
This hits different now...glad she's out.
Also
✨***Slay***✨
I wish people would start normalizing boy/girl friendships. It’s so annoying that people just immediately assume you like your friend when they hear that friend is of the o p p o s i t e g e n d e r.
Yeah I have a friend and people always think we are a couple or something and it's very annoying.
Also people who don't think we're a couple think we're siblings so .... Xd
Ikr so annoying!!!
I have a guy friend (who had a gf since before we met, so you know we’re 100% just friends) but I met him beginning freshman year of college, and I’m 90% sure the whole dorm thought we were dating by the end of the year.
This is partially why I've never really had any friends of the opposite sex. In about 4th grade, the class was divided into girl-boy-pairs and each took turns reading a page of dialogue from a book. I had no problem with that, but afterwards I got bullied by a classmate for looking like a couple with my pair while reading the same book. And later, I bullied him back for spending too much time with girls during breaks. So we all had to stick with peers of the same gender or risk getting bullied. Absolutely pathetic behaviour from us. But then again, we were 10 or something and afraid of cooties.
Also, it gets worse. The more the LGBT relationships are becoming accepted, the more people are prone to assume you are a couple even if you are _not_ the opposite gender.
That awkward silence and then Jaiden just randomly say “uuuuuhhhh he’s gay” XD i died
dragomanderplays true so true
Im gay and its true
XD the timeing was perfect
Yea
Wait was he actually gay
1:56 well now it totally makes sense as to why she wouldn't understand that
this aged well
When someone asks“ how long are you guys in a relationship”
Everyone- we are just friends
Jaiden- he is gay
Yeah lol
Second
Yeah, she's awesome
*That's pretty Effective*
@@ttvmightybonan6595 who cares
having romantic feelings for someone and being around them while knowing they will never feel the same way and nothing else will happen is soul crushing
its less painful to just not have them in your life anymore, being around them just becomes a constant reminder of how much you want to be with them when you cant regardless of how much you used to enjoy spending time with them.
Ben Kocsis I mean on one hand you bring up a valid point Jaiden comepletely glossed over, on the other though you're still "with" that person as friends. At the point where it's soul crushing that probably means you're being a tad possessive or you're just very frustrated with the lack of mutuality in feelings, not necessarily that you like them and they don't so much as frustration you feel different about each other.
honestly hope this didn't come off as mean or anything and sorry if it did, and I hope whatever drama's going on in your life calms down
Ben Kocsis I feel you XD
Ben Kocsis yeah I feel ya
Ben Kocsis that's the deal with me and my crush rn. we're friends but she has a crush on someone else and when she talked about her crush i died inside.
"He's gay"
...
"We messed up-"
Best line ever😆
2:08. Logically I understand why this happens, but also I very much agree with Jaiden here.
"I peer pressured myself without any peers"
STORY OF MY LIFE
TheGuyWhoLikesMusicals hey i like your icon + username wow
I read this comment right as she said it in the video XD lmao
TheGuyWhoLikesMusicals dude all of us 😂
The story of my life to biring you home i thing i did this rong this is asong
@@mikeyluffy5083 I was thinkin about that💀
"Hey there" "I have a girlfriend" "oh my god same we have so much in common"
*wait*
You want me to pH your god? Basic, acidic or neutral?
7u7
SilentStorm *r/wooosh*
Caden, you've just tried wooshing someone, then you done got wooshed.
Krte *Ok. 2 things. Sorry for being such a grammar nazi but u mispelled my name and I r/woooshed his because HE was a grammar nazi*
I know this was from 2016 but it came up in my feed for some reason. Really cool and funny animation/story! I bet my data is being collected somehow because it's related to an experience I've recently had that I want to share.
At college, there is a girl I really like. I mean, I don't really know whether my feelings have died down but I do know it was initially just a slight attraction but it just kept growing and growing... It felt AMAZING! This crush was unlike any other. I was initially attracted because of her looks but eventually I started to like her as a person. She isn't the kind of girl I was looking for but she's the kind of girl I never knew I needed. She was perfect. She's literally an Angel. Really mature, kind, funny, supportive, friendly, compassionate, empathetic and humble. I loved being around her and talking to her, even though it was mainly on Snapchat. Literally the best part of my day, we got on so well! Eventually the feelings became so overpowering I told her how I felt. I told her everything. She told me I'm an amazing person but she has her heart set on someone else and she thought we could just be friends. I'm bringing this up because you're right, you shouldn't hide your feelings, just tell them! Before I told her I liked her I gave her compliments to make her feel good and sort of insinuate how I felt, even if she didn't pick it up 😂
I've been feeling quite depressed as a result because the feelings were out of this world, I can't stop thinking about her. But I just want to say to anyone going through a similar situation, time is a healer and eventually you will start to accept it. Don't bombard whoever you like or overwhelm them, just give them some space to process how you feel depending on how they act around you, or just talk to them as if you are friends if you want to keep the friendship. Again, if you have strong feelings for someone, just tell them everything! How you feel when you're around them, what you like about them! It's better than not knowing when something special could spark!
My friends: "Wow, you're good at flirting."
Me: "How the frick do I flirt?!"
Jaiden: He’s gay
JK Rowling: Finally a worthy opponent
Ok I laughed
🤣
Nico: Step aside, peasants.
Jk Rowling is the person who makes Harry potter
Lol ikr
"I peer pressured myself without any peers" this is so me!😂😂 I ain't proud about it😪😪😪😪🙀
Me too!
mother earth PssSShh
I bet your fat
You don't need peers to be pressured
-probably some smart guy
I love how I saw this video years ago and was like "omg that's such a mood!!!" and then cut to Jaiden coming out as aroace literally like three months after I did LMAO. Real nice foreshadowing here, that this was one of the few flirting videos I could relate to.....
“i peer pressured myself without any peers” oh god
jaiden being aroace is just a part of her. sure it may change how some people see her, but i still see her as the cool animator with sick talent and that's all i care about. growing up, i'd always pressured myself to think that i had to be dating or having a crush on someone, so your newest video made me happy :)
I agree with you m8. She is she, and doesn't need to change because of her audience because those animations and storys are timeless. I think we can all agree on at least that. If not, why are you still here?
People focus too much on other people's life. So what if she's aroace? So what if she's asian? So what if she's autistic? So what if she has blue eyes? So what if prefer cats over dogs? So what if she like eggs? So what if she's anything? That doesn't change her or her content, and that's what important, the great, charming stories she talks about and the smooth animation. If you leave her because of that you've never been a true fan of her.
I don't really understand what's the big deal with this. Like, she never represented herself as a romantic person so it's not that shocking to me.
@@redpanda6497 i agree! she's still the same jaiden she's always been.
Why would anyone care if shes aroace? Unless theyre secretly writing self insert fanfics abt her or saving up cows to pay her bride price
"3 yea-"
"*HE'S GAY*"
pause
"I guess I'm gay"
Guess im not gay.
I dunno man seems pretty gay to me
Sorry im a boy
I’m not gay Greg
JK Rowling vibes
My crush didn't be like BRUH or anything mean she actually hugged me then ran away and now we're together
Lucky you
Congrats
i remember just being like, jealous like "i wish i wasnt attracted to anyone" in that way, , like only i na platonic way. and now it makes a lot more sense years later after she said she was asexual
How long have you been together?
Oh...... He's gay
Oh crap 😂
Hey are you guys together
Um he gay and cheated on me so bye now
cRiNgE aAaAaA
W E L P
@Chuheng Wen what if he was actually gay?
Jaiden) he's gay. (the guys) ....🙁 ( your friend ) ( whispers) kill me 😭😭😭😭
Me: I like you
Crush: Oh, I'm gay
Me: Oh yeah, me too
*aKwArD SiLeNce*
XD
XDDD
Hmm
Lemi
Spam
0:32
"hey there"
"I have a girl friend"
"Oh cool sameeee we have so much in common"
*Wait*
We didn’t know it at the time, but this was attack on titan level foreshadowing 💀
Yeah....I can beat the last one. Easily.
I'm a guy and I was hanging out with someone at the mall when we were teens. On our way there, a clown appeared out of nowhere, grabbed my hand, looked at it and exclaimed loudly: "I CAN SEE YOUR FUTURE. And you're gonna be together for a looooong time." And he was SO happy and proud of himself.
We were both stunned for a couple of seconds and then:
Her: "I'm his sister."
Me: "And I'm gay."
The guy just was devastated and just muttered "Oh...ok" and left.
Oh no 🤣 I kinda feel bad for the clown tho 😭🥲
home sweet Alabama.
@@barbaregabellia7915 We did too, tbh.
But it was still such a bizarre situation that we couldn't help but laugh
I mean maybe by together he didn't mean dating he's technically right
@@owyemen9367 it's a translation thing. In my original language the word he used means romance. 🤷🏻♂️😂
Random Stranger: So how long have you been together?
Jaiden: *He’s gay*
Oh no.. it's at 69 likes already.. I guess I can't like this message then
*Seinfeld theme plays*
Uhm.... He's gay
AND THAT'S WHY YOU MIND YOUR OWN FACKING BUSINESS
Lmao ikr
dont worry you werent the only one who got confused on why people wont just stay friends if they get rejected- (aroace moment)
YES BRO I ALWAYS ASSUMED CRUSHES WERE LIKE AN ULTIMATE BEST FRIEND AND I JUST DIDNT WANT ONE 🤷♀️
Even after her coming out I feel like I still understand the “why not just stay friends” aspect. Like, WHY NOT? I want to keep being friends with people who have confessed to me. And I’m sure they want to too.
Edit: so… turns out I’m nebularomantic… aka aro-spec and just full on asexual. Apasexual. I’m an angled aroace. Don’t take advice from me
I WAS GONNA SAY .
As someone allosexual / alloromantic , there's a lot of fear of things being awkward , but the most damning thing is that
. . . You still LIKE the person after confessing to them , your romantic feelings don't go away upon being rejected , so it'd hurt to be around them / keep your feelings tucked away while you're friends
This doesn't go for everyone , a lot of people don't mind being friends with someone who rejected them , since they still enjoy their company , but that's pretty much why people would struggle being friends with someone after being rejected !!
"hi!"
"I have a girlfriend-"
"Oh! me too!"
**lesbian confusion**
True
Rock
Stone
I talking about a rock a rock
I’m not confused. Just lesbian.
Hi idk what that word means?
Usually it goes like this for me.
My crush:how's the weather
Me:th..thank you
Me.
This was a meme
Wow this channel is active this was made like 2 years ago and u already have this many likes
100% accurate
Ya wanna know something stupid I did. My crush told me she liked me and guess what I did, I panicked and said that I didn't like her back.
me watching this when it came out: yea it doesn't matter if they just wanna be friends! just stay friends if you can't be with them!
Me now realising im asexual (who feels barely any romantic attraction): ohhhhh shiiiiiit.
Bruh old Jaden doesn't even know
🟧🟨⬜️🟦⬛️
this is me when i’m nervous
Crush: what’s your favourite color?
me: uhhh...Y-yes.....
I don't know the color yes...
This doesn’t happen. This hasn’t happened.
@@loruammayoung9785 It kinda looks like ginger color mixed with some other dark color with a bit of yellowish gold and white... so basically a $h¡T colour.
My crush: hey
Me: how many kids do you shoot daily
let me change my name hahah, I like this one
I find that the best way to break awkward tension between two people that are being socially awkward and don't know what to say, is to comment on the socially awkwardness and make light of it. You'll both have a laugh and then you both can explain what you are feeling and why, which usually kickstarts a conversation
Meanwhile me: just blurt out whatevers in your brain, anything to end the awkward silence
Or it could make it more awkward.
@@punga6102 yeah it could, but more often than not it makes it less awkward
Ask about their favorite dinosaur and then rant about how the t-rex is overrated.
Laughing in general is better. It's a brain chemical thing that makes everyone fucking relax a bit.
I’m 9 and I love your videos!❤
So now with the "not being straight" i finally understand why i related with this video so much
“You should send that to me haha...”
“But I don’t have your number...”
Accidental sneak 100
Actually that’s a classic play by the guy lol
+50 smoothness
"Can you hold something for me"
"Sure what is it"
"My hand 😎"
The only date i have is on a calendar.
Kool
Sem
Same
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@@tapatiosprotecter403 trickster
1:53 - Yup, that's totally me. When I flirt with a chick, and if she doesn't like me mutually back, I do not want anything to do with them. I think that's the best explanation for me never experiencing "this friend zone" that people keep referring to. From the famous words of Vin Diesel, "I don't have friends, I got family."
Could have condensed it into "I don't have friends"
i ain’t reading allat
I understand.
Jaiden, you can always be my friend. I enjoy your company, personality, and your videos about these kinds of topics, as it really opens my book wide open.
I get your nervousness, as I've been that quite spottedly.
You are definitely a person worth being my friend.
Jaiden is basically my online therapist
@@sael9595 thnx
Same
Same
same
Agreed
*“I peer pressured myself without any peers”*
ME THO *lols...*
.... I talk to myself
Imperial Dragon when you scroll down on your comment really fast you see purple. EVERYTHINGS PURPUR
How!??????????
Iconic.
relationship advice with an aromatic, ironic yet.. poetic? ig? idk my hands are just in the motion of typing mow so until words stop going through the screen in my head I'm not gonna stop typing okay ima go eat some noodles in a cup
1:54 real aroace moment
"How long have you guys been together?"
"...he's gay"
😂dead
Well I see nobody has anything to say about this…
Lol
‘-‘
LOL
"How long have you been together?"
-Kicks my Bff in the shin-
". . ."
"Yeah that's what I freakin thought!"
Stranger:So how long have you been together?
Jaiden:He's gay
Stranger:I've made a mistake
Jaiden's Friend Internally:But I'm straight
Oh no
OOF XD
Ahem.....
It's JAIDEN, not jaden
How comes you spelt it right the first time but not the second time XD
Jaiden's gay friend is....... James
This had me laughing so hard I almost peed
The best forshadowing in the world
1:57 the reason people stop talking to someone because they don’t return their romantic feelings is because you still like them in a romantic way and they don’t, so if you remain friends you’d have to witness them in the future being with other people and that could be really hard and kinda hurt.
I think the awkwardness comes from other source. Maybe your vision about the person changes because you are certain they won't have the same effort as you.
@@kyyoru At least for me, I can say thedreadedzero is right. My vision hasn't changed because she doesn't has the same effort as me. If you love someone and they don't return your feelings and you still talk to them and they get together with someone else it hurts like hell. Really. Take the most terrible, horrific pain you've ever felt and then multiply it by 10 then you maybe come close to what it feels like every second. To clarify, I'm in love with a girl since 7 years, she doesn't return my feelings but i'm her best friend and she does not have a lot of friends so I don't want to leave her alone. Every time she has a boyfriend it hurts like this. If she talks to me about him, multiply it by a hundred. And when he breaks up with her and she cries and i'm there to comfort her you can't even imagine the amount of pain, sorrow and anger i feel. So yeah I don't think people stop talking because of effort but because they don't wanna have their heart torn in pieces.
Sorry for my bad grammar and possible misspellings, english isn't my native language.
@@LuciferGA Yupp pretty much, you just always wonder why you weren’t good enough. Then you’ll have the inevitable inner struggle where you wonder why you were ok enough to fill the emotional void all these boyfriends couldn’t fill without any of the benefits that come with a relationship. People don’t want to admit this because they are either naive or the one doing the friend zoning but ultimately an opposite gender friend is filling a hole a romantic partner should be filling and though No one ever wants to admit it, the friend zoned individual is being used, much to the benefit of the current partner of the friend zoner.
Yep. But I think it might be even more common for the one who was hit on to stop hanging out because... I haven't figured that out yet. But I know a lot of people who's crush just blew them off after they told them how they felt... It feels good. (Sarcasm)
Jup same for me, I think the wrong part is when people just stop communicating and hanging out with their crush without giving them an explanation on why that is.
“How long have you been together?”
“He’s gay.”
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Yeah smooooooottthhhhh afffffff
Bruh seal as the picture
Derpy Flurp-
😂😂😂 nice comment!
Also I LOVE your profile pic!!!
I CAN USE THIS. Perks of being pansexual and preferring girls am I rite XD
I can’t say “Bi perks!“ because i’m a girl and i like a guy but i’m still Bi but i wan’t a short hair style, but my friend doesn't think i would look good in it but i can’t get ig rn cause of cOroNaViRuS.
"Don't watch it" she said.
"What was that?" the masses replied.