First tip is perfect. I need to watch this everyday. My mouth gets me in trouble a lot & I need to be truthful, helpful, inspiring, necessary & kind when I speak. That would avoid a lot of pain in my life. Thanks for the video.
I always feel dumb especially talking during a group chat. I have a basketball group chat everyday I say stupid stuff and they call me out on it and it makes me mad but then I realized what I said was stupid and not thinking before I spoke and heard what they said
The fact that you looked this up on UA-cam says a lot, and I'm glad you wanted to learn how to think before you speak. I know I'm a stranger, but I'm proud of you. You made the right choice. :)
To stop overreacting I would just pause my mind and just say to myself … “i am in control of my own emotions” and usually you can stop Bc you can realize this on your own.
You know, everytime i watch these types of videos, I get inspired and really determined to change myself. But after 3 days that motivation is gone and I'm back to becoming a loser
Thank you, I keep saying stuff that is anoying other people, and is getting me in trouble at school. I just recently realized that it was what I was saying instead of them being jerks. I needed this, and even tho I have ocs tomorrow for calling someone a bastard I know what to do next time I want to say something.
Thank you so much! I have an impromptu speeech tomorrow and I watched 2 of your videos. Before watching these two videos, I felt super nervous. But upon seeing your extremely helpful tips, I've gained confidence. I was so disappointed to see that your channel only has 4k subs, I believe you deserve to have more than that!
one time during school, we had a high school senior come in to help teach us in chorus and he had been there for a while. that day, a teacher was supposed to come in and grade him on how he teaches. he didn’t end up coming and i asked the high school senior let’s call him mr a, if the teacher comming to grade him, let’s call him mr t, the same one as the intro to business teacher because (and this is the part where i didn’t think) my brother doesn’t like him and my cousin swore a lot while talking about him. i felt so bad and i almost balled my eyes out the second after i said it. i was never a bad kid but i don’t know what happened. i just said it. my teachers all looked at me and said “alright stop we can’t say that it’s not nice” i felt really awkward and REALLY bad. i was about to cry. even now i think about it and i just feel so bad. can someone tell me how to fix myself
I do so much mistakes but today I have learned the power of silence and thinking of a good response..... Also Listen I will practice today and never give up
I’m trying to work on my impulsivity. It’s hard but mindfulness is key. I saved the think acronym and will put it my computer monitor at work to remind me, so I build this as lifelong habit - as much as possible. Thank you for sharing!
I am easily annoyed by many subject people used to speak about. Sometimes I bite myself on my tongue, sometimes my words just flew from my mouth. Sometimes I just want to insult people being stupid about that. I really try to stay calm but it is stronger than me. And sometimes I don't even care if I am going to insult someone. The problem is that this is my habit now so I unintentionally insult people I care about.
I came here today because in my school there was a performance so my class and all the sections came there we were talking then principal mam said if you don't keep quiet I will make the boys and girls sit together I couldn't stop myself and said yes mam then she called me out and made me sit with the girls I was the only boy with the girls it was very embarrassing 😢
Basically trying not to think is actually thinking so how do I keep not thinking about thinking about it? About what ? I need to stop smoking weed and try to do someonething with myslelf😂
I have a phobia like there are few bad words in my mind continuously going on sometimes and when there's important thing going on , they automatically generate in my mind. So if I think before I speak then the problem can be solved?? Pls tell me.
wished i was less confident so i wouldn't say bad things i don't believe just because they're funny. i also wish i wasn't reinforced by my friends laughing at the things i say.
Jeez, he talks too much! Was anything he said 'true', or 'helpful'? Did it 'inspire' me? Was it 'necessary' for him to spend over 5 minutes lecturing me about being kind? Only kidding. Great advice for people like me who puts my foot in it far too often.
First tip is perfect. I need to watch this everyday. My mouth gets me in trouble a lot & I need to be truthful, helpful, inspiring, necessary & kind when I speak. That would avoid a lot of pain in my life. Thanks for the video.
I can relate
Same
I'm trying to be more mature.. thanks man.
I always feel dumb especially talking during a group chat. I have a basketball group chat everyday I say stupid stuff and they call me out on it and it makes me mad but then I realized what I said was stupid and not thinking before I spoke and heard what they said
The fact that you looked this up on UA-cam says a lot, and I'm glad you wanted to learn how to think before you speak. I know I'm a stranger, but I'm proud of you. You made the right choice. :)
We are on the same boat m8: (
Atleast u are tryin"keep it up
I made a joke at school that I took too far and my friends won’t leave me alone about it. I understand.
I see that as helpful feedback for self training. It's awesome that you're learning
As I grow as a person I’ve realized this is my flaw and it can definitely ruin relationships
Do you have any tips on how to stop overreacting and how to get into the habit of thinking before doing?
it’s basically the same
thing, think before your actions
@@TheRapperTaffy how to?
Oh yes, non violance comunication-learn about it.
To stop overreacting I would just pause my mind and just say to myself … “i am in control of my own emotions” and usually you can stop Bc you can realize this on your own.
You know, everytime i watch these types of videos, I get inspired and really determined to change myself. But after 3 days that motivation is gone and I'm back to becoming a loser
Lmfao yup same
I Think this video is gonna help me a lot more
here cus i just got into trouble for something i didnt realise i did 😟
I am just the worst with not thinking before speaking. Thank you, I will try that.
Let us know how it goes! 🙂
Thank you, I keep saying stuff that is anoying other people, and is getting me in trouble at school. I just recently realized that it was what I was saying instead of them being jerks. I needed this, and even tho I have ocs tomorrow for calling someone a bastard I know what to do next time I want to say something.
What's OCS and have you changed?
@@edits9287 iss basically. On campus suspension, and I did change.
My friends get annoyed at me and say I am really annoying which makes me unhappy because I don’t want to be annoying and/or mean
I just started an office job. And I now realize how important this is. It makes you more efficient, you literally save time and money by doing this.
Thank you so much! I have an impromptu speeech tomorrow and I watched 2 of your videos. Before watching these two videos, I felt super nervous. But upon seeing your extremely helpful tips, I've gained confidence. I was so disappointed to see that your channel only has 4k subs, I believe you deserve to have more than that!
howd it go hannsmi
@@shahadabdullah2437 it went well! i also became more confident in impromptu speaking.
@@hannsmi1117 happy for you!! glad it went well. going out of my comfort zone and joining a contest to test myself lol
@@shahadabdullah2437 thank you! :DD good luck btw, im sure you’ll do well :))
How u know
my mouth kinda moves faster than my brain can think
Really feels like there is no connection between mind and mouth
one time during school, we had a high school senior come in to help teach us in chorus and he had been there for a while. that day, a teacher was supposed to come in and grade him on how he teaches. he didn’t end up coming and i asked the high school senior let’s call him mr a, if the teacher comming to grade him, let’s call him mr t, the same one as the intro to business teacher because (and this is the part where i didn’t think) my brother doesn’t like him and my cousin swore a lot while talking about him. i felt so bad and i almost balled my eyes out the second after i said it. i was never a bad kid but i don’t know what happened. i just said it. my teachers all looked at me and said “alright stop we can’t say that it’s not nice” i felt really awkward and REALLY bad. i was about to cry. even now i think about it and i just feel so bad. can someone tell me how to fix myself
Its relly helpfull bruh,Tysm.👏
Welcome 😊
It's helpful...!
I'm an idiot, most of my self-hate comes from thinking before i speak ty for making this video
I do so much mistakes but today I have learned the power of silence and thinking of a good response..... Also Listen I will practice today and never give up
I’m trying to work on my impulsivity. It’s hard but mindfulness is key. I saved the think acronym and will put it my computer monitor at work to remind me, so I build this as lifelong habit - as much as possible. Thank you for sharing!
You got this!
Thanku so much sir this is thing i was struggling so long.. I'll use this tips
I am easily annoyed by many subject people used to speak about. Sometimes I bite myself on my tongue, sometimes my words just flew from my mouth. Sometimes I just want to insult people being stupid about that. I really try to stay calm but it is stronger than me. And sometimes I don't even care if I am going to insult someone. The problem is that this is my habit now so I unintentionally insult people I care about.
Thank you ❤
I have the opposite problem. I usually want to say something, but I've been thinking about it so long, that it's no longer appropriate to say it.
Really liked the first trick. Thank you.
I should have controlled today😭😭
There's always tomorrow
What happened sis?
Thanks a lot man, simple and really helpful.
I need to watch this video everyday
this is a great video, underrated
Glad you think so!
How do you do it with ADD? (Attention Deficit Disorder)
You have been great!
Awesome, and to the point.. thank you!
I love the acronyms
Thanks it's hard kinda but I have to try. 💀
I feel like a bad person because i say things on an impulse and end up hurting people i love most. I keep making the same mistakes over and over
I will use this, thankyou.
Great!
Bravo Danish for another helpful video :)
Happy to help!
Thanks
Your pronunciation is quite good, i can only hear a tiny bit of your accent. Could you share it with us how do you improve your accent?
Bro it's very helpful for me also but I also like your accent for English any tips on that
Try listening to videos of a speaker you want your accent to be like, and just practice and record yourself as much as you can.
Much needed!
Today is my speech 💬 I have a lot of stage fear 😨
Thanks man. Good video
No problem 👍
So using the acronym, do I need to answer yes to the 5 questions?
Does everything a person says have to be necessary and inspiring? What is the criteria for that?
Thanks much
This saved my mental health
thank you
I'm not professional but I want to help. I'll share/make other understand a way that worked
I came here today because in my school there was a performance so my class and all the sections came there we were talking then principal mam said if you don't keep quiet I will make the boys and girls sit together I couldn't stop myself and said yes mam then she called me out and made me sit with the girls I was the only boy with the girls it was very embarrassing 😢
Basically trying not to think is actually thinking so how do I keep not thinking about thinking about it? About what ? I need to stop smoking weed and try to do someonething with myslelf😂
I don't think before speaking,, isiliye meri apne classmates ke sath nhi banti.. 😢😢
I have a phobia like there are few bad words in my mind continuously going on sometimes and when there's important thing going on , they automatically generate in my mind. So if I think before I speak then the problem can be solved?? Pls tell me.
Good trick
Great
Keep uploading
Too long intro and end very little info lol
I got myself into trouble
wished i was less confident so i wouldn't say bad things i don't believe just because they're funny. i also wish i wasn't reinforced by my friends laughing at the things i say.
Idk why, you look like Sundar pichai also your sound too
This is worse during group chats.
Thanks a lot
Thinking while speaking makes me to look smarter but it makes me offend people
Wtf
0:35
A LIFE SKILL?? More like a SOCIAL SKILL
Why not both
@@neematm8266 ok fine it’s both
Want to learn to stop say unkind thing
Glad you enjoyed!
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I made an unfunny joke today and im still embarrassed
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Jeez, he talks too much! Was anything he said 'true', or 'helpful'? Did it 'inspire' me? Was it 'necessary' for him to spend over 5 minutes lecturing me about being kind?
Only kidding. Great advice for people like me who puts my foot in it far too often.
If you already know something you may rush in. But if you don't know you better think before you speak 🪬