@@A_n_y_t_i_m_eyeah , i've been letting the "outside" damage me and make me think that my "inside" is what needs to be fixed by options and preferences of action actively/passively by the "outside" .. . Too easily fooled by chasing someone elses delusional Everest and their public instructions to get there. Time to go back in time and revert to the infancy default of being ok with silence and miniscule things causing random happiness and contentness.
So true! They never live up to my illusion of them, I always give them attributes they never had. I had to start just reading the flags to stay in the true reality.
It is not because he is wiser than you it is because he has lived longer than you-CRP😅 And when I think about it, I’m only 16 years his junior but still the young man he’s talking about lol Maturing at snail pace
‘Getting’ a girl is an attitude. Imho Friendship is a good foundation for a relationship, attraction obviously is important too (but it’s unreliable, it’s subjective, it comes and goes and comes back again). Sex is not a good foundation. It is the glue. But you actually need something of substance for the glue to hold together. You are t going to have sex every waking moment. Some see marriage as the end goal. There is no end goal where you achieved it. You have to keep working for the relationship to work, forever. If you ever take advice from someone. Make sure they have achieved the thing you are looking for. I’ve been married since 2009. I surround myself with couples who stay married. The advice is the same. Communication is key. Talk about expectations up front. You both have to be prepared to grow and change together. It’s not 50/50. It’s 60/40 or 30/70. Sometimes you are the 30 and need her support and sometimes she is the 30 and needs yours. Going into a relationship looking only at what you can get from it is a recipe to fail and don’t get with someone who has that attitude either. That’s my 2c
All the beautiful illusions one might have will completely fade to a distant memory once you suffer from a spine injury, so if you're reading this; be extra careful who you get in a car with as well as keep your eyes on the road, trust your first instincts, don't second guess and remember there are more maniac drivers then ever before on the road-that shouldn't even be on the road. So get good coverage to protect your behind first by always opting for the uninsured/underinsured to the max !!!! Then get bodily injuries to others 2nd !!
The reuploader is not the Original CRP ,Hes just a good brother who helps to reupload after CRP deleting all contents from his both channels for the reasons not yet communicated.
A girl with bad breath should be the LEAST of your problems ....it's something that you can tell right up front. That's why my number one ideal is a woman that smells good, *everything* else is secondary, including beauty! A woman could be as beautiful as Miss Universe, if she smells bad, forget it!
Lol ye that was my experience. My ex had lazy Effort and bad breath issues. The last thing I wanted to do was kiss her. But my dick I didn't care. Made her suck and lick it. Least my dick can't smell it. Kissing ur nose can smell everything which is a turn off
i agree with you on that point, i once dated a girl who had a bad breath, dating her was like a torture for me especially when it comes to kissing or having sex, i dumped her soon later on
2:00 This is why a goal can be impossible, but it always should be there and you should always move towards it to be happy. Dreams, goals, achievements. For a man, pointless life is misery. And the opposite is also true. Women can live without goals. But not men. Happiness is not the fact of achieving your goals. It's the _PROCESS_ of successfully striving towards those goals.
I wrote a book and it’s published, and I still feel good, even amazed, about it. Now I’m working on a 2nd book. It’ll be a fictional novel this time-my first time doing a novel. I’m sure I’ll still feel as good as I do about my first (an anthology), if it’s published. So what’s wrong with me? I’m a guy and I find I’m not like you say. MAYBE the issue is not with me, but you, and you just maybe also don’t know, for example, what true love is😊?
RIP Coach Red Pill. I wish you never entered into the politics about the Russian-Ukranaian war.
I’ll bet he did too .
😂😂😂
He actually married a Ukrainian woman before the war kicked off I believe. Could be bullshit but I've heard that.
His sons are ukranian he can't just step aside. A true Hero
Shouldnt of posted himself trying to leave on twitter
Honestly i feel like he is the only one on youtube that can explain so well what it means to be a man.
I'm rewatching these, Coach sounded so much like my father. Such a loss, RIP Gonzalo
Rest in peace Coach
RIP my guy you spoke a lot of Truth
RIP Gonzalo Lira 🙏
Being 38 and having lived through some shit and dated some hot chicks, I can say, coach is 100% correct.
@kayn6858This. Can't fix inside with the outside.
@@A_n_y_t_i_m_eyeah , i've been letting the "outside" damage me and make me think that my "inside" is what needs to be fixed by options and preferences of action actively/passively by the "outside" .. . Too easily fooled by chasing someone elses delusional Everest and their public instructions to get there. Time to go back in time and revert to the infancy default of being ok with silence and miniscule things causing random happiness and contentness.
So true! They never live up to my illusion of them, I always give them attributes they never had. I had to start just reading the flags to stay in the true reality.
Go Coach! Hope you are OK up there in heaven, you are a LEGEND, thank you!!
Regarding women, my mother unconditionally loved me the first three years.... the other females in my life are different. Great presentation 👍👍 RIP
RIP loved his videos he will be missed
We delude ourselves, all the time. Add sexual desire, and competition, all of the worst of our delusions are weaponized against us.
Rest in peace coach. Thank you
Wise words, Great insight..Rest in peace Brother!
Wise words by a very wise man! Thanks for the great advice Coach
It is not because he is wiser than you it is because he has lived longer than you-CRP😅
And when I think about it, I’m only 16 years his junior but still the young man he’s talking about lol
Maturing at snail pace
Rip to the greatest!!
Dating ended in the 1990's.
That was like 30 years ago...
RIP Gonzalo Lira
Miss you coach!!!
Great advice… Gonzo, hope you come back to us…
may he rest in peace
😂😂😂😂
Coach red pill is alive and well.
I love your videos coach. Much love from Lusaka Zambia. Africa is watching
well said! very wise!
this man is a LEGEND.
RIP COACH
‘Getting’ a girl is an attitude. Imho Friendship is a good foundation for a relationship, attraction obviously is important too (but it’s unreliable, it’s subjective, it comes and goes and comes back again). Sex is not a good foundation. It is the glue. But you actually need something of substance for the glue to hold together. You are t going to have sex every waking moment. Some see marriage as the end goal. There is no end goal where you achieved it. You have to keep working for the relationship to work, forever. If you ever take advice from someone. Make sure they have achieved the thing you are looking for. I’ve been married since 2009. I surround myself with couples who stay married. The advice is the same. Communication is key. Talk about expectations up front. You both have to be prepared to grow and change together. It’s not 50/50. It’s 60/40 or 30/70. Sometimes you are the 30 and need her support and sometimes she is the 30 and needs yours. Going into a relationship looking only at what you can get from it is a recipe to fail and don’t get with someone who has that attitude either. That’s my 2c
All the beautiful illusions one might have will completely fade to a distant memory once you suffer from a spine injury, so if you're reading this; be extra careful who you get in a car with as well as keep your eyes on the road, trust your first instincts, don't second guess and remember there are more maniac drivers then ever before on the road-that shouldn't even be on the road. So get good coverage to protect your behind first by always opting for the uninsured/underinsured to the max !!!! Then get bodily injuries to others 2nd !!
wish I would've done this, I'm in the same boat, but not from my spine...
Doing the lords work thank you
Sure hope we see him again.
men should love the process
Sir, Thank you reviving your contents.
I am certain that men ages 14 to 114 are building up straight and solid spines with your hard work. Thank you.
The reuploader is not the Original CRP ,Hes just a good brother who helps to reupload after CRP deleting all contents from his both channels for the reasons not yet communicated.
Gonzalo Lira your great dead and alive. Thank you for your thoughts and views.
May you upload”Young men have legitimate grievances”
Yesss! 💯 … I got the “girl of my dreams”, I won guys and guess what? It’s not a big deal 🤷🏻♂️
RIP smart man
Looks like this guy just finished painting the room, and decided to vent 😂
Go coach!!❤
Go Coach!!!
Thanks for this wise words.
A girl with bad breath should be the LEAST of your problems ....it's something that you can tell right up front. That's why my number one ideal is a woman that smells good, *everything* else is secondary, including beauty! A woman could be as beautiful as Miss Universe, if she smells bad, forget it!
Lol ye that was my experience. My ex had lazy Effort and bad breath issues. The last thing I wanted to do was kiss her.
But my dick I didn't care. Made her suck and lick it. Least my dick can't smell it. Kissing ur nose can smell everything which is a turn off
i agree with you on that point, i once dated a girl who had a bad breath, dating her was like a torture for me especially when it comes to kissing or having sex, i dumped her soon later on
Thank you for reupload
I really miss the late great Gonzalo Lira , R.I.P
Gone but never forgotten, see you on the other side brother.
Source?
got a Coach Red Pill video in my feed, I need to commit.
"You do need the illusions"
2:00 This is why a goal can be impossible, but it always should be there and you should always move towards it to be happy. Dreams, goals, achievements. For a man, pointless life is misery. And the opposite is also true. Women can live without goals. But not men.
Happiness is not the fact of achieving your goals.
It's the _PROCESS_ of successfully striving towards those goals.
Fucking genius!
upload video "grind it" and "laziness"
May His Soul Get liberated
Thanks
I wrote a book and it’s published, and I still feel good, even amazed, about it. Now I’m working on a 2nd book. It’ll be a fictional novel this time-my first time doing a novel. I’m sure I’ll still feel as good as I do about my first (an anthology), if it’s published. So what’s wrong with me? I’m a guy and I find I’m not like you say. MAYBE the issue is not with me, but you, and you just maybe also don’t know, for example, what true love is😊?
YOUNG guys....
The greatest illusion a man can have is: knowing Where's Tiffany Dover.
Dude was cool
Seems to me , CRP has good advice
Yeah reaching your destination is but a moment... Then you'll ask yourself.. What's next...? 😂
If you show me a girl that is not annoying, I'd give you $100 on the spot. I dont think they exist.
You’d see a lot of them if you step outside,
Free Gonzalo Lira
Is he still alive?
I dont know. Probably back in Ukrainian gulag.
@@Therevolution7hes dead
💯
So what happened to him ?
Everyone fools themselves when infatuated with someone else.. You never get what you paid for... 😹👈
He died?
BS his books did NOT sell ?