Facts. I tried it for 5 months.. she was showing and acting obsessed , sending me pictures of engagement rings.. "let's move in" "I'm in love with you I love you, be my boyfriend " the second I receiperocated any type of that energy.. she gone and back on bumble in a week. This is how they are.
A while ago I had a much younger woman turn into pretty much a full on stalker with me. She'd DM me late at night, respond to me within minutes, tickle me, tease me. I caught her looking round my car in the car park. She'd tell me about what she was looking at through her bedroom window, she also told me she knew when I was at home based on what lights were on - she was also a neighbour for a while. She was obsessed, and did all this for 18 months, ratcheting up the pressure, asking if I liked to moan or if I was silent. The moment I started to show some interest back and that we should spend time together, whoosh, she was gone. I've also had women grope me and get more physical in public with me, but again when I started to show interest, they'd go away.
@EE12CSVT When women are playing these kinds of games with you, you can't go into traditional "courtship" mode (like telling her "we should spend time together", "let's meet up for dinner", "let's get to know each other", etc.)... The thing you need to do is tell them something along the lines of "I'll see you at my place at 7 PM tonight...bring your best lingerie" or "I'll be at this bar at 9 PM...come ready for a wild night together") These women want the fantasy of quickly being seduced and being able to say something along the lines of "it just happened"...) We as men blow it with these type by trying to be "too serious" with them instead of letting them live out some "literotica" fantasy they have going on in their head...
@@EE12CSVT same they always get so touchy with me. But i think to keep them interested you have to ghost them from time to time or hurt them. The last girl i lost interest in was always a phone call away doesn't matter whatever i shit i say to her.
1. Indifferent 2. Do not give her masculine protectiveness or signs of interest 3. Emotional turmoil 4. Whatever | typical coming from you 5. Make her want your approval 6. Women want what they cant have
I did accidentally applied this on the past and she felt in love like a crazy person. The hard part is that it is almost impossible for all of us to behave the same way with the woman you really like.
Same here & when she walked out the door & I didn't call her back or go after her like I didn't care she came back wanting to connect again. But I'm sure she was out with other guys. By showing I didn't give a hoot. Here she comes wanting to give it another chance. Go all weak for her & she'll pull away. Try to fix it & she'll pull away even further & faster. Play with her @$$ & tease her @$$ like you don't care she'll pick you over every other guy that comes a knocking.
There is a certain type of woman that this type of stuff works on. Usually it involves anxious attachment in some way (idk how to explain I’m not a psychologist) but honestly, when you meet someone you really vibe with, all of this mind game shit goes out the window. it’s absolute magic. When you achieve true intimacy it’s almost like leveling up as a human. You and her become a team. This type of stuff is mostly for guys who wanna sleep around, with chicks who have attachment issues. Proceed with caution.
thing is we do vibe at times and clearly like each other but damn can she be akward at times i myself have always been very confident and easy to talk to but brother she has been the hardest challance yet its kinda cute too how she struggles but difficulty lvl 10 idk how to deal with it at times
I’m a 36 yo who has ducked over 100 women, have tons of super hot fwb while being 70 lbs overweight… this kid is a complete tool. Follow John Anthony lifestyle or something. He even reviewed this exact video. Casey is a fucking retard.
This is the last type of advice I'd expect to work but just looking back, everything makes sense. The girls I liked were almost repulsed by me, I got obsessed. Then heaps of other girls I didn't like were obsessed about me and I kept ignoring them One time a girl I liked, I told her I got over her and suddenly she had a crush on me. You can't make this stuff up
I have plenty of experiences with women (25 years of marriages plus ca 40 extra affairs) and I can say the Casey`s advices do NOT work AT ALL. Thats all bullshit.
This is the absolute craziest advice I have ever heard in my life man, and I'm actually really successful with women for the most part, and you might be a f****** genius bro
Casey, I owe you a world of thanks. The content that you so graciously provide for free has changed my life in an unrecognizable way! Having a beautiful girl fly internationally to come visit me while I was on vacation was an amazing first for me.
I just got a book from this site, and I’m loving it. Thanks for pointing me in the right direction I’m finally feeling like I can address my fear of women.
There's a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
There's a book called FlirtoSphere Seduction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Don’t act uninterested. Love her, appreciate her and be interesting in her. She is still a feminine woman who wants to feel desired and loved by the man she chose. Just have things what is more important than her like your life, goals, mission, family, social life etc. When you constantly improving yourself as a man, she will feel desired because you chose her to be your girl. Example: You and your girl are watching some Netflix. Later you decide to go to the gym She wants you to stay and watch some Netflix with her But you still go to the gym. She may feel sad in the moment but she will respect and desire you more in the long game. If you just put a act by being someone you aren’t, she will leave you regardless. Have a REASON to appear uninterested, don’t act. She needs to know and see she isn’t your first priority and that you have a life.
So In other words you're putting her in a state of uncertainty, which will make her feel unsure of your interest in her which will ultimately force her to make most of the effort to win you over
You don't understand what he's saying it's a metaphor. She can never be your main focus, you and your purpose is always number one this is the only way she'll feel safe in the relationship. @@jeansollot6419
Ex Brazilian football star and Ac Milan Legend, Kaka, got a divorce from his wife couple of days ago. When asked why she left him, she said because Kaka was a GOOD & PERFECT HUSBAND- Never cheated, no side pieces and met ALL her needs. Hate or love Casey but this guy is the real deal and the best out there in terms of relationship content creation. "When you have all the boxes checked and you're Mr PERFECT you are so boring and predictable" Shout out to Casey!!!
Yep that's why she left. What these women say they want on paper is totally different in reality. I owe Casey because he opened my eyes to a whole lot that I use in my dating life that works perfectly.
@alantinoalantonio Yer Kaka also played for Real Madrid but it was at AC Milan he made his name where he won the UEFA Champions League and Fifa Ballon D'or. And yes he won the World Cup in 2002 but only playing one game which he came on from the bench in the group stage against Costa Rica. He only won one La Liga title with Real Madrid that's why I said AC Milan Legend because he won a lot in AC Milan
These women though. Well, I still feel being with them without any form of commitment is the best because you get the best of behaviour and intimacy while she's trying to make you commit. They just love chasing the approval and validation of the man they're emotionally attached to. Seriously. Casey opened my eyes to a whole lot. Damn.
This brought me back and not only does it yield better results but it gets rid of brain fog and mental stress because you don’t have to try or do anything in particular to keep her attraction besides backing off, which detaches your self worth from someone else (a good thing so ur not ruled by feminine indoctrinated emotions).
Same. I never did anything intentionally. But whenever I genuinely show interest in someone, they eventually lose interest in me. And whenever I genuinely don't give a shit, the woman becomes obsessed. I'm not a very good actor/liar though. I don't know if I can pretend to be disinterested when I genuinely am interested.
The old Harry Heartbreak routine. Start off unimpressed with her because she has to feel like she is winning you over. I've known this technique for years.
This is the opposite of natural attraction mechanic, we (men) love having a woman we had to work for a little and women love being led and cared for by men they're physically and mentally attracted to Just be hot and righteous about your feelings, literally
To me this just sounds like how to attract emotionally immature girls who need to play some game because they are immature. A woman who actually is mature wouldn't put up with that bs and move on. What you're saying would work for hooking up or some short term relationship but I find when it comes to actually building something for life, its just being fake and emotionally mature women can pick up on it instantly. Dont worship her or put her on a pedestal but just have your boundaries set and make her feel valued in a balanced way. Relationships are energy exchanges and you attract that what you are. If you go around playing games with push and pull then youll attract girls who want to play in it but the ones who know better won't entertain it. Just focus on being your authentic self, level up and naturally by the law of the universe you will attract that which is in alignment with you. Either way man still a great video and not trying to discredit it, just find if one wants a serious longer relationship with a woman then it is without entertaining their childish games Much love to you brother
I am talking to a mature super sweet girl now and the connections definitely hits differently in a very good way, Though I’m glad I did get to experience other girls in the past who likes to play games because now I can for sure see and feel the differences when you get to know a mature woman…it’s actually so much more intense and attractive!
Definitely Casey is the best. He explains stuff on scientific anthropological level regarding female nature. Although I'm a player by myself still I learn new stuff from him every time I watch these videos
maybe this is ur most powerful video ever made, Casey. I had a date where I did the simping things (goodbye hug, getting her to the bus, etc.), then got ghosted on.
@@teekandy it wasnt that, she was hooked, she was sending me pics of her telling she is my Beauty and im her Beast, etc. but I simped for no reason. :D
I've listened to a lot of dating gurus and this is different and amazing! However, it is diabolical. I'm gonna try it and really the first date will be more fun when I'm not trying to be Mr. Perfect. Thank you Casey, found your UA-cam today. Looks like I have a lot of videos to learn from.
This only works on damaged women so tread lightly... if secure and with someone secure then caring and appreciation go a long way... with my same person for 17yrs... so if wanna smash n dash with an insecure person then this guy's spot on
This makes so much sense! All the girls that have been ‘obsessed’ with me were the ones I didn’t really like but was bored (I know that makes me a prick) and the one I really liked just messed me about.
100% my experience so far! I've learned so much from Casey that I now feel ready to approach a lasting relationship. I had one going for about 2 years with a crazy girl, took a break from dating for some time. After that I met a girl I wasn't really interested in personally, more physically. We had some things in common but also a few big differences that made me walk away in the end. I never simped or glaced her, she was just one girl I met and I made clear from the beginning, that I didn't want a relationship right now (emotionally unavailable). After I told her that she was totally obsessed with me, texted me all the time and even initiated sex by herself! It was great ;) The girls I was really interested in put me straight into the friend zone.
“Most of you have no idea how much a woman will tolerate when she likes you” . MAD true, I learned this first hand. I was only in middle and high school but I incidentally acted exactly how Casey is speaking of here. this girl legitimately went above and beyond gifting me things, inviting me to high profile events (daddy’s money), and had an uncontrollable crush on me for over 10 years. Objectively I was a di** . I didn’t care at all and I invited other girls to school dances/dates despite all that and it only got more and more intense from her.
i agree, had the same going on in my early 20's. The thing is when you are not into the girl it really comes easy to treat her like that. The problem, you are actually not into the girl. I usually dont keep a girl in the loop for long if iam not really interested in her. Casey is teaching a mindset, which we should have EVEN IF we are into the girl
I know bro. I had the exact same thing happen. I told her my type was blondes with blue eyes and she was brunette with brown. I kept telling her I was better than her and had a huge ego about it. But I did this all by accident. She was so attached i literally moved to college and she straight up asked me to write her love letters like in movies. This method of making her not worthy and giving her opportunity to win you over is #1 method for sure. Even to this day, after i stopped talking to her, she still breaks no contact and texts me about random things. Hasn’t been 10 years for me but yeah. This is fundamental for female obsession
Right on point. I found this to be true. I found this out on my Own. I just couldn't put it all into words like you. you explain in a way that I could not? But I've experienced this exact same thing. I thought I was having a dayshavoo moment. But it took a lot of dates to figure it out. And a marriage. Thanks for the detailed breakdown.
The intro is just super funny, as Casey purposefully goes around the word manipulation, so he doesn't have to use it in order to not stigmatise the topic.. two times in a row! 😂😂
This is all true. Pleasing woman doesn't make her love you. Let's make it simple you don't have to do anything to make a woman love you, if she loves you she does.
I love how casual and matter of fact he is about manipulating women. I love the part where he casually says "Women want a cold man they feel like they can get to open up....and then when they do they leave them". I busted out laughing at that part His zen peace with accepting the brutal reality of Women and dating is hilarious.
I don't necessarily use this step by step, it's not my style, but the emotional frame of turmoil and discrepancy of SMV is so very damn spot on. Thank you for this.
You play games to get a woman and you’ll get a woman who plays games. I don’t have enough patience for a woman who doesn’t understand her impulses or traumas.
Women don't even understand themselves, and the dating scene is always a game where you're the prize she has to win. Your role in this game is to remain unaffected by her behavior, and never get emotionally attached. That's all.
The idea of hypergamy is something more people should understand, and this video explains it in a clear, actionable way. Definitely learned a lot from this!
11:35 you don't EVER want to be her boyfriend! Then she is gonna start making demands, set rules, withhold ish from you because now she start to invest and she will judge you differently. Do NOT give boyfriend energy, give Daddy/Zaddy/Bad Boy energy. She will STAY hooked, keep her demands low and will maintain desire for you.... EVEN AFTER if you were to break up if you do end up in a relationship. And even in the relationship, do not be giving boyfriend & definitely NOT HUSBAND energy. Reason? MONOGAMY IS NOT NATURAL. Once you give her that kind of commitment, NATURE TAKES OVER & SHE STARTS TO LOSE INTEREST.
OMG 😱 your The ONE!!! All the videos. I've been watching books I've read you just made a click so simply. 🤯 Thank you. Now I get it. Jedi mind tricks 😎
15:00 all men need to look at is, just how many of them when there is a break up say "i don't even know what i was attracted to, he is normally not my type". Listen guys, honestly.... WOMEN DO NOT HAVE A TYPE. What they FEEL TODAY is most likely influenced by what they saw/hear somewhere else and at the end of the day, they get & REMAIN attracted to HOW YOU MAKE THEM FEEL IN THE CURRENT MOMENT.
The climax was just perfect !! I loved how I was thinking this maybe little too rude then you explained everything and then showed us how women be already doing this to us !!!
He ain't lying when he said "they aren't as sweet/soft/delicate/sensitive as you think." Guys, tease the fuck out of them, give them shit but in a flirty fun way. Have fun with it. They may act irritated or mad in the moment, be indifferent. I do this all the time, maybe even sometimes I go a bit overboard but at the end of the night the attraction is even higher.
It's sad that I know this is true but going about actually doing this is damn near impossible, I'd be so fucking stiff and awkward lmfaooo it would be weird asf not flirty. I get what you mean but touching girls is like literally the hardest thing in the world
Bang on bro. A lot of guys could benefit from developing their social skills with women. The gym etc is great, but developing your social skills and your ability to build attraction through banter is top tier game.
This only works if she's interested in u. If she's indifferent and undecided about you acting uninterested will not get a 2nd date whatsoever. What you have to do is find out what she's lacking and be the only one to give her that. If she's beautiful and knows it telling her she's beautiful wont mean anything. Praise her smarts her style will go a longer way. Be her therapist force her to dig
Whoa dude you blew my mind and I thought I had it all figured out (even though my results were shit lol thought I just needed to try harder). So mastering your masculine means mastering your feminine and doing to women what women do to men to try to get them to cave.
- carefree, attract not chase - show maybe indifference (first 2 dates, you had many dates) - qualifying her saying bye just go - because of her - Narrative she won me over, he likes me they are not soft and sweet and delicate they are emotionally king -
This advice is all great if you are hell bent on winning over or scoring with avoidant broken women. One day you need to look at yourself in the mirror and realise you are attracted to and attract these broken women. It’s a life of loneliness and pain. If you want to be loved in a healthy way make an agreement with yourself to only choose to date women that display healthy attachment styles. If you want to vet them try to find out what their relationship to their parents is like.
I LOLed because Casey has to be the biggest and best coach for this kind of material. Analysis through the wazoo blowing a kazoo or whatever. That's thorough
I really didn’t want to believe this concept of hypergamy for so many years, but time and time and time and time again it’s proven BANG on… it begs the question how has this kind of knowledge only just begun to surface??
Everything you`ve said in this video completely goes against what I was taught growing up,....and for that, I thank you! Because this is the REAL truth
12:28 now this is TRUTH, because women are NURTURERS BY NATURE. So if you're "perfect", there is nothing for her to do, she will get bored, lose interest, start looking elsewhere. This is why they just don't bother with some men that "have it all together". Not saying don't have your ish together, irony, they want that too. But there NEEDS to be SOMETHING about you that is not "perfect" that she FEELS she can FIX.
Soo just be a degenerate wreck lol of course makes sense look at the world! Bullseye! And I tell u there are still many degenerate detached wrecked men still alone the only difference is the good looking degenerate wreck dudes are the one banging all the woman hahaha, u can copy a Chad's behaviu9r all u want u can't copy his looks face height frame build hahaha
Casey literally teaches you to behave like a woman lol. Mirror them ,the lie is he tells u that's masculine and packages it up as masculinity , manipulation is feminine behavior
As a dude, who achieved a certain level in life, especially in the dating/mating industry, I verify this dude. The game is as it is. Harsh for a lot of dudes out there.
Its true though and this has happened to me before I knew about it. If I recall my failing relationships they're defined by perfect dates. Play recall my successful relationships theyre defined by honest encounters and natural drama. I noticed that all periods of drama and all my relationships come after a long seasons of peace. I always thought that those long seasons of peace were sucess.. boy thats what ive learned now, keeping a subtle draw of indifference and a constant nagging tension above her is the way to ACTUALLY love her.
I don’t 100% agree with everything you say but I must admit I can relate so much to very specific scenarios you mention. It happens every time I see your videos. My ex loves me when I don’t give a shit and show no interest in being in a relationship again. She stopped loving me when we got back together again and now that I stopped talking to her now she wants to reach out to me and try to talk things out. I honestly can’t be bothered. I seem to be good at attracting women initially but I’m so bad at keeping them
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What happend to all your gains bro?
So if we stay uninterested how we are gonna set up dates and intimacy??
@@ehabremon8711Reach out to her from time to time
My brother, you’re fucking goated. You’re game, is literally, the fucking best.
this doesn't work with black bishes
The more you attach your worth to a woman's perception/feelings, the worse you'll feel. Be stoic and willing to let go if circumstances warrant.
This facts. Bruhhhh…😩 got me looking back on previous rel. & how i did things wrong.
Indifference is the key 🔑 fellas
Faxx
@@redline350zHR yes exactly me too
@@SergioFernandez-cj4mtnot even indifference just pragmatic
"Please don't use this for evil" *Turns up volume*
Same
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We're the ones who got manipulated here 😂
Aha-ha 🙂
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Facts. I tried it for 5 months.. she was showing and acting obsessed , sending me pictures of engagement rings.. "let's move in" "I'm in love with you I love you, be my boyfriend " the second I receiperocated any type of that energy.. she gone and back on bumble in a week. This is how they are.
A while ago I had a much younger woman turn into pretty much a full on stalker with me. She'd DM me late at night, respond to me within minutes, tickle me, tease me. I caught her looking round my car in the car park. She'd tell me about what she was looking at through her bedroom window, she also told me she knew when I was at home based on what lights were on - she was also a neighbour for a while. She was obsessed, and did all this for 18 months, ratcheting up the pressure, asking if I liked to moan or if I was silent. The moment I started to show some interest back and that we should spend time together, whoosh, she was gone. I've also had women grope me and get more physical in public with me, but again when I started to show interest, they'd go away.
@EE12CSVT When women are playing these kinds of games with you, you can't go into traditional "courtship" mode (like telling her "we should spend time together", "let's meet up for dinner", "let's get to know each other", etc.)...
The thing you need to do is tell them something along the lines of "I'll see you at my place at 7 PM tonight...bring your best lingerie" or "I'll be at this bar at 9 PM...come ready for a wild night together")
These women want the fantasy of quickly being seduced and being able to say something along the lines of "it just happened"...)
We as men blow it with these type by trying to be "too serious" with them instead of letting them live out some "literotica" fantasy they have going on in their head...
@@EE12CSVT same they always get so touchy with me. But i think to keep them interested you have to ghost them from time to time or hurt them. The last girl i lost interest in was always a phone call away doesn't matter whatever i shit i say to her.
dream on, kid. It never happened. Lol
Been there! But now we've both learned the lesson.
Another solid gold lesson.
Men are expert at projecting the illusion of strength; while women are expert at projecting the illusion of weakness
WTF? I hope you didn't mean to come off as a hairy legged feminist.
Does anyone want a girl who is “obsessed”?
@@moheganson dont all of us, at least eventually?
@@moheganson why do u keep asking this? lol. to each his own.
BS. I AM strong, its not a projection. Dont let this this emasculating nonsense gets to you.
And dont get me even started on "strong women"..
1. Indifferent
2. Do not give her masculine protectiveness or signs of interest
3. Emotional turmoil
4. Whatever | typical coming from you
5. Make her want your approval
6. Women want what they cant have
I did accidentally applied this on the past and she felt in love like a crazy person. The hard part is that it is almost impossible for all of us to behave the same way with the woman you really like.
Well you gotta stop yourself from loving her. As he said in the beginning, love is one sided.
You have the exact situation I did
Same here & when she walked out the door & I didn't call her back or go after her like I didn't care she came back wanting to connect again. But I'm sure she was out with other guys. By showing I didn't give a hoot. Here she comes wanting to give it another chance. Go all weak for her & she'll pull away. Try to fix it & she'll pull away even further & faster. Play with her @$$ & tease her @$$ like you don't care she'll pick you over every other guy that comes a knocking.
There is a certain type of woman that this type of stuff works on. Usually it involves anxious attachment in some way (idk how to explain I’m not a psychologist) but honestly, when you meet someone you really vibe with, all of this mind game shit goes out the window. it’s absolute magic. When you achieve true intimacy it’s almost like leveling up as a human. You and her become a team.
This type of stuff is mostly for guys who wanna sleep around, with chicks who have attachment issues. Proceed with caution.
99% women
@@godsbruhgirls not woman
You mean Avoidant Attached. Anxious is the opposite and they chase.
fr man i was doubting on this actually
i was like "how am i going to find the mother of my children by playing such autistic games"
thing is we do vibe at times and clearly like each other but damn can she be akward at times i myself have always been very confident and easy to talk to but brother she has been the hardest challance yet its kinda cute too how she struggles but difficulty lvl 10 idk how to deal with it at times
This guy is the only guy that gives real advice. This stuff explains so much why so many random girls like me that I never even talk too. Lmao.
Does anyone want a girl who is “obsessed”?
I’m a 36 yo who has ducked over 100 women, have tons of super hot fwb while being 70 lbs overweight… this kid is a complete tool. Follow John Anthony lifestyle or something. He even reviewed this exact video. Casey is a fucking retard.
This is the last type of advice I'd expect to work but just looking back, everything makes sense.
The girls I liked were almost repulsed by me, I got obsessed.
Then heaps of other girls I didn't like were obsessed about me and I kept ignoring them
One time a girl I liked, I told her I got over her and suddenly she had a crush on me.
You can't make this stuff up
Does anyone really want a girl??@@moheganson
I have plenty of experiences with women (25 years of marriages plus ca 40 extra affairs) and I can say the Casey`s advices do NOT work AT ALL. Thats all bullshit.
This is the absolute craziest advice I have ever heard in my life man, and I'm actually really successful with women for the most part, and you might be a f****** genius bro
Casey, I owe you a world of thanks. The content that you so graciously provide for free has changed my life in an unrecognizable way! Having a beautiful girl fly internationally to come visit me while I was on vacation was an amazing first for me.
"You are now the reality TV show she wants to keep seeing"
Does anyone want a girl who is “obsessed”?
@@mohegansonChoose the right girl first of all yet still be able to put up with woman shit.
@@moheganson If your not being chased, your being dumped.
@@brentonlSimple rule of thumb 👍
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I just got a book from this site, and I’m loving it. Thanks for pointing me in the right direction I’m finally feeling like I can address my fear of women.
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its easier to do this when you are so focused on your purpose (getting money, starting a business, etc) instead of getting into a relationship
So, we need to upgrade our power levels?
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Revealing women’s psychology they’ve been playing for centuries. Tension & drama done correctly works wonders
This strategy is summed up in this statement: "A woman's biggest flaw is being desired, act like you don't desire her, act uninterested...
I agree that we have to find a little bit of a balance somehow
Don’t act uninterested. Love her, appreciate her and be interesting in her. She is still a feminine woman who wants to feel desired and loved by the man she chose.
Just have things what is more important than her like your life, goals, mission, family, social life etc.
When you constantly improving yourself as a man, she will feel desired because you chose her to be your girl.
Example:
You and your girl are watching some Netflix. Later you decide to go to the gym
She wants you to stay and watch some Netflix with her
But you still go to the gym. She may feel sad in the moment but she will respect and desire you more in the long game.
If you just put a act by being someone you aren’t, she will leave you regardless.
Have a REASON to appear uninterested, don’t act.
She needs to know and see she isn’t your first priority and that you have a life.
So In other words you're putting her in a state of uncertainty, which will make her feel unsure of your interest in her which will ultimately force her to make most of the effort to win you over
You don't understand what he's saying it's a metaphor. She can never be your main focus, you and your purpose is always number one this is the only way she'll feel safe in the relationship. @@jeansollot6419
Does anyone want a girl who is “obsessed”?
Ex Brazilian football star and Ac Milan Legend, Kaka, got a divorce from his wife couple of days ago. When asked why she left him, she said because Kaka was a GOOD & PERFECT HUSBAND- Never cheated, no side pieces and met ALL her needs.
Hate or love Casey but this guy is the real deal and the best out there in terms of relationship content creation.
"When you have all the boxes checked and you're Mr PERFECT you are so boring and predictable"
Shout out to Casey!!!
Maybe that’s why Gisele left Brady
Yep that's why she left. What these women say they want on paper is totally different in reality. I owe Casey because he opened my eyes to a whole lot that I use in my dating life that works perfectly.
*Real Madrid Legend and World Cup Champion.
@alantinoalantonio Yer Kaka also played for Real Madrid but it was at AC Milan he made his name where he won the UEFA Champions League and Fifa Ballon D'or. And yes he won the World Cup in 2002 but only playing one game which he came on from the bench in the group stage against Costa Rica. He only won one La Liga title with Real Madrid that's why I said AC Milan Legend because he won a lot in AC Milan
These women though. Well, I still feel being with them without any form of commitment is the best because you get the best of behaviour and intimacy while she's trying to make you commit. They just love chasing the approval and validation of the man they're emotionally attached to. Seriously. Casey opened my eyes to a whole lot. Damn.
Casey a day keeps the simping away!!!
So true
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certainly does
Understatement!!!
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This brought me back and not only does it yield better results but it gets rid of brain fog and mental stress because you don’t have to try or do anything in particular to keep her attraction besides backing off, which detaches your self worth from someone else (a good thing so ur not ruled by feminine indoctrinated emotions).
Backing off/ demonstrating indifferencd
“Get in and out within 20 minutes”
bro that’s the best shit I’ve heard all week, noted
Lol bro
@@arandomvietnamese5787 🤣
Fax. Looking forward to doing this 🗿
@@Kashboy.Z bruv as of 2 nights ago I can officially say:
this shit works
she was pissed af….. but it works 👀🤣
@@swetsTV I request elaboration 👀🤣
Top 3 among all your videos, clear instructions, straight to the point. Thanks Uncle C!
it works 100%. did this in my last "relationship" unconsciously, just being myself. She got obsessed.
Same. I never did anything intentionally. But whenever I genuinely show interest in someone, they eventually lose interest in me. And whenever I genuinely don't give a shit, the woman becomes obsessed.
I'm not a very good actor/liar though. I don't know if I can pretend to be disinterested when I genuinely am interested.
Dude where has this channel been hiding!! This is the best!!
The old Harry Heartbreak routine. Start off unimpressed with her because she has to feel like she is winning you over. I've known this technique for years.
Does anyone want a girl who is “obsessed”?
@@moheganson Oooh, good point.
You dont need all this mumbo
@@brandonhernandez1055 True. Enough experience with women and this behavior will be automatic because you won't be impressed by any of them.
This is the opposite of natural attraction mechanic, we (men) love having a woman we had to work for a little and women love being led and cared for by men they're physically and mentally attracted to
Just be hot and righteous about your feelings, literally
Casey, you're a ducking badass! You're changing lives on a drastic level. You deserve all the blessings in the world.
To me this just sounds like how to attract emotionally immature girls who need to play some game because they are immature. A woman who actually is mature wouldn't put up with that bs and move on.
What you're saying would work for hooking up or some short term relationship but I find when it comes to actually building something for life, its just being fake and emotionally mature women can pick up on it instantly.
Dont worship her or put her on a pedestal but just have your boundaries set and make her feel valued in a balanced way. Relationships are energy exchanges and you attract that what you are. If you go around playing games with push and pull then youll attract girls who want to play in it but the ones who know better won't entertain it.
Just focus on being your authentic self, level up and naturally by the law of the universe you will attract that which is in alignment with you.
Either way man still a great video and not trying to discredit it, just find if one wants a serious longer relationship with a woman then it is without entertaining their childish games
Much love to you brother
Well said.
Not really. FEMs are turned off by what they can easily have. Besides, if she doesn't put some energy into it, I'm gone.
I am talking to a mature super sweet girl now and the connections definitely hits differently in a very good way,
Though I’m glad I did get to experience other girls in the past who likes to play games because now I can for sure see and feel the differences when you get to know a mature woman…it’s actually so much more intense and attractive!
I agree 100%. If I met a guy like this on a date....he wouldn't be hearing from me ever again. Men who practice this shit are only hurting themselves.
This is typically the hot girls under 30 though, so you gotta behave accordingly.
Definitely Casey is the best. He explains stuff on scientific anthropological level regarding female nature. Although I'm a player by myself still I learn new stuff from him every time I watch these videos
maybe this is ur most powerful video ever made, Casey.
I had a date where I did the simping things (goodbye hug, getting her to the bus, etc.), then got ghosted on.
Maybe she just dont like you
@@teekandy it wasnt that, she was hooked, she was sending me pics of her telling she is my Beauty and im her Beast, etc. but I simped for no reason. :D
Probably it wasn’t that, i always did it and nothing happens, probably it was how you behave in the date
@@vl9444 you might be right, I was trying to keep the conversation going permanently, got too interested w/o any commitment from her.
@@nikitaspintilii963Sounds like she literally wanted you to be a non domesticated beast.
Casey, this is another true masterpiece head and shoulders above the rest that you find on YT. Great stuff.
This guy is a blessing to men
I've listened to a lot of dating gurus and this is different and amazing! However, it is diabolical. I'm gonna try it and really the first date will be more fun when I'm not trying to be Mr. Perfect. Thank you Casey, found your UA-cam today. Looks like I have a lot of videos to learn from.
Bruh be havin me rolling with the straight talk, "She'll just run run run away run into the distance and you'll never see her ever again" 😂😂
I died of laughter when he said that bro😂😂😂😂😂
Not that funny when you experienced it
@@jean-baptistesimofoko5692 I feel you, I just meant his delivery, but it happens to every dude and it happens to every girl
I know right?😂😂😂
I be rolling on the floor too. Casey is so blunt and straight with this shit.😂😂
this guy is totally worth my time not just for the practical tactics he suggests but also for the motivation i draw from just listening to his energy
Thanks!
Simpin on Casey lul
This only works on damaged women so tread lightly... if secure and with someone secure then caring and appreciation go a long way... with my same person for 17yrs... so if wanna smash n dash with an insecure person then this guy's spot on
Most of the people are insecure
@asnv9070 exactly so if don't ever want anything long term then follow his advise
Most women are insecure and damaged. They’ve done worse to men.
This makes so much sense! All the girls that have been ‘obsessed’ with me were the ones I didn’t really like but was bored (I know that makes me a prick) and the one I really liked just messed me about.
100% my experience so far!
I've learned so much from Casey that I now feel ready to approach a lasting relationship.
I had one going for about 2 years with a crazy girl, took a break from dating for some time. After that I met a girl I wasn't really interested in personally, more physically.
We had some things in common but also a few big differences that made me walk away in the end.
I never simped or glaced her, she was just one girl I met and I made clear from the beginning, that I didn't want a relationship right now (emotionally unavailable).
After I told her that she was totally obsessed with me, texted me all the time and even initiated sex by herself!
It was great ;)
The girls I was really interested in put me straight into the friend zone.
“Most of you have no idea how much a woman will tolerate when she likes you” . MAD true, I learned this first hand. I was only in middle and high school but I incidentally acted exactly how Casey is speaking of here. this girl legitimately went above and beyond gifting me things, inviting me to high profile events (daddy’s money), and had an uncontrollable crush on me for over 10 years.
Objectively I was a di** . I didn’t care at all and I invited other girls to school dances/dates despite all that and it only got more and more intense from her.
Does anyone want a girl who is “obsessed”?
i agree, had the same going on in my early 20's. The thing is when you are not into the girl it really comes easy to treat her like that. The problem, you are actually not into the girl. I usually dont keep a girl in the loop for long if iam not really interested in her.
Casey is teaching a mindset, which we should have EVEN IF we are into the girl
I know bro. I had the exact same thing happen. I told her my type was blondes with blue eyes and she was brunette with brown. I kept telling her I was better than her and had a huge ego about it. But I did this all by accident. She was so attached i literally moved to college and she straight up asked me to write her love letters like in movies. This method of making her not worthy and giving her opportunity to win you over is #1 method for sure. Even to this day, after i stopped talking to her, she still breaks no contact and texts me about random things. Hasn’t been 10 years for me but yeah. This is fundamental for female obsession
Right on point. I found this to be true. I found this out on my Own. I just couldn't put it all into words like you. you explain in a way that I could not? But I've experienced this exact same thing. I thought I was having a dayshavoo moment.
But it took a lot of dates to figure it out. And a marriage.
Thanks for the detailed breakdown.
I gotta show this to my girl so we both can have a great laugh at this
Keep feeding off of her approval and see what happens.
Beta talk 😂
The sad thing is that women are emotional and cannot control attraction
The intro is just super funny, as Casey purposefully goes around the word manipulation, so he doesn't have to use it in order to not stigmatise the topic.. two times in a row! 😂😂
Does anyone want a girl who is “obsessed”?
@@moheganson🤔if she is obsessing over YOU, she probably isnt with others😉
It is a manipulation game that men and women have to play because people would rather chase than be chased.
Call it what you want. We all do it. Love is a game. Seduction is a battle
This is all true. Pleasing woman doesn't make her love you. Let's make it simple you don't have to do anything to make a woman love you, if she loves you she does.
True
Casey cold asf, dude be on point!💯
Casey is the best dating coach EVER !!!
Finally; things we need to do, not what not to do
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This is by far the funniest video I’ve seen today 🫡
I love how casual and matter of fact he is about manipulating women.
I love the part where he casually says
"Women want a cold man they feel like they can get to open up....and then when they do they leave them". I busted out laughing at that part
His zen peace with accepting the brutal reality of Women and dating is hilarious.
Funny coz it's true
Man, you're life saver for men. I'm 30 yo and exoerienced all those things and understood these quite late
Tried and true. Stay hard fellas
They malfunction when you do these to them. Those are the first steps to leaving the lasting imprint on them.
Does anyone want a girl who is “obsessed”?
@@moheganson As opposed to uninterested?
does anyone want someone that spams the same reply to every comment? No, no they do not.
I feel like lex Luther or the joker after listening to your game plan. Brilliant!
Even though I know this shit now, it's still good to keep getting refreshers though. Good vid Casey
I don't necessarily use this step by step, it's not my style, but the emotional frame of turmoil and discrepancy of SMV is so very damn spot on. Thank you for this.
You play games to get a woman and you’ll get a woman who plays games. I don’t have enough patience for a woman who doesn’t understand her impulses or traumas.
Women don't even understand themselves, and the dating scene is always a game where you're the prize she has to win. Your role in this game is to remain unaffected by her behavior, and never get emotionally attached. That's all.
The idea of hypergamy is something more people should understand, and this video explains it in a clear, actionable way. Definitely learned a lot from this!
11:35 you don't EVER want to be her boyfriend! Then she is gonna start making demands, set rules, withhold ish from you because now she start to invest and she will judge you differently. Do NOT give boyfriend energy, give Daddy/Zaddy/Bad Boy energy. She will STAY hooked, keep her demands low and will maintain desire for you.... EVEN AFTER if you were to break up if you do end up in a relationship. And even in the relationship, do not be giving boyfriend & definitely NOT HUSBAND energy. Reason? MONOGAMY IS NOT NATURAL. Once you give her that kind of commitment, NATURE TAKES OVER & SHE STARTS TO LOSE INTEREST.
Does anyone want a girl who is “obsessed”?
So why do you want monigamys women? , it is irrational to want that.
Women ☕
@@Katarzyna-h2z
Expection is perfect
Reality is Not
If you like the girl, then yeah.
OMG 😱 your The ONE!!! All the videos. I've been watching books I've read you just made a click so simply. 🤯 Thank you. Now I get it. Jedi mind tricks 😎
This is probably the REALEST GAME on UA-cam
15:00 all men need to look at is, just how many of them when there is a break up say "i don't even know what i was attracted to, he is normally not my type". Listen guys, honestly.... WOMEN DO NOT HAVE A TYPE. What they FEEL TODAY is most likely influenced by what they saw/hear somewhere else and at the end of the day, they get & REMAIN attracted to HOW YOU MAKE THEM FEEL IN THE CURRENT MOMENT.
Does anyone want a girl who is “obsessed”?
😂 ☕️
The climax was just perfect !! I loved how I was thinking this maybe little too rude then you explained everything and then showed us how women be already doing this to us !!!
This shit is priceless lol
And the real messed up part about it, is that it’s 1000% accurate
This stuff is Gold.. it’s so spot on
This man is the truth
He ain't lying when he said "they aren't as sweet/soft/delicate/sensitive as you think." Guys, tease the fuck out of them, give them shit but in a flirty fun way. Have fun with it. They may act irritated or mad in the moment, be indifferent. I do this all the time, maybe even sometimes I go a bit overboard but at the end of the night the attraction is even higher.
Does anyone want a girl who is “obsessed”?
Faks!
It's sad that I know this is true but going about actually doing this is damn near impossible, I'd be so fucking stiff and awkward lmfaooo it would be weird asf not flirty. I get what you mean but touching girls is like literally the hardest thing in the world
@@mohegansonare you a bot or something you're everywhere asking the same damn thing
Bang on bro. A lot of guys could benefit from developing their social skills with women. The gym etc is great, but developing your social skills and your ability to build attraction through banter is top tier game.
This only works if she's interested in u. If she's indifferent and undecided about you acting uninterested will not get a 2nd date whatsoever. What you have to do is find out what she's lacking and be the only one to give her that. If she's beautiful and knows it telling her she's beautiful wont mean anything. Praise her smarts her style will go a longer way. Be her therapist force her to dig
If she wasnt interested in you she wont be showed to the date. Thats a raw truth
Awesome video, Casey!
You have provided a guide to masculinity and I am so grateful
This is one of his best videos.
So extreme
I swear you been speaking to me more and more... on point. thank you
Casey is in full swing, back to back video 🔥
Whoa dude you blew my mind and I thought I had it all figured out (even though my results were shit lol thought I just needed to try harder). So mastering your masculine means mastering your feminine and doing to women what women do to men to try to get them to cave.
Casey is on point with this video. This is all true
When you said "please do not use this for evil" I literally laughed out loud. Thanks so much!
“Push-pull” sexual tension is like crack to a woman
nope. It does not work this way.
@@marguskiis7711 no one can take u seriously if u don’t elaborate 😂
So....your clearly not married
@@Quintana88 married women are broken, so they don’t count in this scenario cupcake
@@user-xz1wy4to4o normal confident women just move on.
Casey Zander for the rest of our lives legendary 💪🏼❤👑
Casey keep splitting facts keep it up bro
Thanks a million Casey your by far the best advisor on YT!
- carefree, attract not chase
- show maybe indifference (first 2 dates, you had many dates)
- qualifying her
saying bye just go
- because of her
- Narrative
she won me over, he likes me
they are not soft and sweet and delicate
they are emotionally king
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you’re in a movie
This advice is all great if you are hell bent on winning over or scoring with avoidant broken women. One day you need to look at yourself in the mirror and realise you are attracted to and attract these broken women. It’s a life of loneliness and pain.
If you want to be loved in a healthy way make an agreement with yourself to only choose to date women that display healthy attachment styles. If you want to vet them try to find out what their relationship to their parents is like.
I swear, you're just the best out there.
I LOLed because Casey has to be the biggest and best coach for this kind of material. Analysis through the wazoo blowing a kazoo or whatever. That's thorough
19 mins of pure gold
Bad boy and playboy winning this kind of game.
0:45 shows Casey doing his best job at not saying manipulation 😭😭😭
I really didn’t want to believe this concept of hypergamy for so many years, but time and time and time and time again it’s proven BANG on… it begs the question how has this kind of knowledge only just begun to surface??
First minute brother tried so hard to not say “manipulation” lmao ITS IS WHAT IT IS TRUTH IS TRUTH
Gotta do it before they do it to you
Everything you`ve said in this video completely goes against what I was taught growing up,....and for that, I thank you! Because this is the REAL truth
12:28 now this is TRUTH, because women are NURTURERS BY NATURE. So if you're "perfect", there is nothing for her to do, she will get bored, lose interest, start looking elsewhere. This is why they just don't bother with some men that "have it all together". Not saying don't have your ish together, irony, they want that too. But there NEEDS to be SOMETHING about you that is not "perfect" that she FEELS she can FIX.
Soo just be a degenerate wreck lol of course makes sense look at the world! Bullseye! And I tell u there are still many degenerate detached wrecked men still alone the only difference is the good looking degenerate wreck dudes are the one banging all the woman hahaha, u can copy a Chad's behaviu9r all u want u can't copy his looks face height frame build hahaha
Casey literally teaches you to behave like a woman lol. Mirror them ,the lie is he tells u that's masculine and packages it up as masculinity , manipulation is feminine behavior
Great quality advice thank you
As a dude, who achieved a certain level in life, especially in the dating/mating industry, I verify this dude. The game is as it is. Harsh for a lot of dudes out there.
Its true though and this has happened to me before I knew about it. If I recall my failing relationships they're defined by perfect dates. Play recall my successful relationships theyre defined by honest encounters and natural drama. I noticed that all periods of drama and all my relationships come after a long seasons of peace. I always thought that those long seasons of peace were sucess.. boy thats what ive learned now, keeping a subtle draw of indifference and a constant nagging tension above her is the way to ACTUALLY love her.
Congrats on getting to Half a Million 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Non-neediness is the key term more than indifference. Show interest or else she will think you don’t want her. But don’t be needy about it at all.
As a masculine man I can confirm that Casey does deliver great info in a wise way. Respect!
Real Masculine men don't need to parade around telling others they are masculine.
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I love this channel
This is like Mad TV style dating - I love it ! 😂
What a legend you are.
I don’t 100% agree with everything you say but I must admit I can relate so much to very specific scenarios you mention. It happens every time I see your videos. My ex loves me when I don’t give a shit and show no interest in being in a relationship again. She stopped loving me when we got back together again and now that I stopped talking to her now she wants to reach out to me and try to talk things out. I honestly can’t be bothered. I seem to be good at attracting women initially but I’m so bad at keeping them
I could have used this channel two years ago but better late than never.
This is your best video ever . Big ups Uncle C 💪🏻
The best advice of casey zander
Thank you for this video and for the knowledge and information and for your time and effort and for the heads up and for the truth