Remember when “super-“ sexuality identities were a thing, earlier this year? I had a “super”gay (who was really not in any way “super”), trying to justify to me his need to build an identity around his wish to never date or hook up with any trans man. I simply pointed out to him, “It wouldn’t happen, anyway. I can tell you that much, because I’m friends with lots of trans folk. None of them would ever date you. Because they actually have taste.”
EXACTLY. As a gay guy, I can absolutely say that I have liked many trans guys in addition to cis guys, and that trans men are super amazing and handsome and wonderful. It just saddens me that even those within the LGBT community are so open to discrimination. I hope that all of the trans guys out there know that they are very handsome and valid 🥺
@@lukesart8023 Yup. Anatomy preferences are no different than body type preferences. Everybody has them. It doesn’t make anyone a bigot, unless you’re going to call someone “disgusting” because they aren’t what you’re into. But also, having specific preferences does not mean you’re part of a marginalised identity to be “proud” of.
@@NineWorldsFromDrew Excatly, I’m a gay trans guy if a gay guy doesn’t want to date me because i haven’t had any ops so my genitals might not be what they are into that’s totally okay! This happens a lot and I respect them for it because they still respect my identity and many are my good friends.
I'm a cis woman. And definitely a feminist, and honestly, I feel like feminism is all about fighting for the underdog, and trans women are the strongest underdogs out there, so honestly it only makes sense to include trans women when we fight for equality as women. No question.
“Rights are not pie”!!! Harvey Milk said “It takes no compromise to give people their rights. It takes no money to respect the individual. It takes no survey to remove repressions.” And he was a white cis gay in the 70s, so if he could figure it out I’d hope it would be obvious by now
Transfobs- "Trans woman can't participate in woman sports" Me cis male who's the weakest person in my class and PE teacher always put me in girls team. - exist
Why does your school even have a "girls' team," if they're going to put a boy in it? Why not just have Team Green and Team Orange, and equally divide up the players, so that both teams have a good range of skill sets, and they can actually compete equally against each other, and have it be, you know, challenging?
Trans man: exists Transphobes: You’ll never be a real man! Trans man: has child Trans man: makes dad joke Transphobes: shrivel under the immense power play
@@brendonrookes1151 It is absolutely possible for trans men to have children, if they, of course, still have vagina, ovaries and an uterus. Unless the person does a surgery to get rid of them, their body is able to give birth. CashT might’ve also meant adopting a child. That insult was extremely unnecessary and incongruous, if you didn’t get something or weren’t certain about the information you were given, a polite question would’ve been enough. I hope you now understand that, thank you.
@@zachnotmyactualname1481 im not talking about biological form im talking about a woman trans to a man cant produce male sperm and a male trans to a woman cant grow a baby in side him its medical fact
@@brendonrookes1151 it’s possible if they like the same gender and didn’t have surgery because you still can produce male sperm if you didn’t have surgery and your biological sex is male same for female
"Be transparent, steal from shops" is the new "be gay, do crime," and I am fucking here for it. (I'm cis but I love all my siblings in the LGBTQ+ community that this applies to
As a cis gay person, I'm so sorry for gay transphobia. It just doesn't make sense to me. And as a Spaniard, I'm sorry for our highly gendered language. Some of us are trying to use the suffix -e to create agendered words (for example, "non-binary" would be "no binarie"), but some people say they don't sound right or that it is not natural because doesn't come with the "natural" evolution of the language. Yeah, cause it's more important to preserve the "natural" evolution of a language than trying to accommodate all people in it.
My friend said Russian has similar problems with gendered words, & it must suck. I agree that complaining about grammar is just an excuse to be prejudiced, cos I bet these people don't get infuriated about anything else that's not perfectly grammatically correct. And if they knew anything about language, they'd know it's constantly evolving, & we DO make up new words for new things & concepts- "telephone", "the internet", "feminism"... Language doesn't "evolve naturally", it's not a living organism, & anyone who thinks language develops logically should google "great vowel shift in Middle English" (or not, cos the completely illogical complexity will hurt your brain!)
@@brendonrookes1151 Think of it this way: if Person A doesn't like the look of blonde hair, it's perfectly fine that Person A is not attracted to blonde-haired Person B. However, it doesn't make sense for Person A to announce "I would never date someone with blonde hair and you shouldn't either," and it is not okay for Person A to say bad things about blonde haired people.
Literally yesterday I was stupid and basically let a cis gay guy sexually harass me I pointed out that he’s gay but because I look like a guy and for some stupid reason told him what was in my pants when he asked (it was late, idk why) suddenly this gay man is making me very uncomfortable even though I told him to stop I blocked him so quickly. This man had no self control you have no idea how many times I said no and it went right over his head So this PSA has gone out to gay men who think it’s okay to harass trans women just because they look like men Or any women, don’t sexually harass anyone. Damn.
Oh my god that is fucking horrible. I don’t even know what to say except I hope that you’re alright now. That must have been awful. I have no idea why so many ‘gay’ guys think it’s remotely okay to first of all harass someone sexually but second of all claim to be gay while liking a trans woman. Trans women are women, and gay men are men who are specifically attracted to only men and masculine-aligned individuals. If you are a man who likes a trans woman, you are not gay. Periodt. But yeah, that is fucking horrible and I am sending you all the love and support I can 🥺❤️
So I'm making a pride flag artwork for pride month. I've just watched one topic look through r/pansexual, while colouring in the trans flag. Now I'm watching Jamie look at trans memes, while colouring in the pan flag. Honestly, I just didn't think this through.
Ayyyy congrats on the coming out my man!! Wish you all the support and love! I’m rlly happy that you feel safe enough to come out bro!! Coming out is a brave thing, even on the internet so!! Proud of you!! *hug!!*
Dear all trans people, On behalf of all the transphobic cis lesbians, I'm so sorry. Sincerely, A cis lesbian and trans ally (Edit: Originally, my comment said "Dear trans community", but I think that made it sound like I was saying trans people are separate from the LGBTQ+ community, which was not my intention. I hope saying trans people instead helped!)
Don't worry lol, I'm very confident that terfs aren't claimed by the people they try to hide behind. It's a really obvious play for validity on their part. In fact, I'M sorry that you have to deal with them. I will always support cis lesbians!!
re trans colors: one of the frats at my college has the colors light blue, pink, and white, and they recently painted their common room those colors, so the entire house just feels like trans rights/gender reveal party
About the whole terf thing I totally agree because as a true feminist you don’t get to use an equality movement to be a bigot. If you’re a feminist you care about everyone truly especially women of color and lgbtq+ women. If you’re a terf I’m just gonna assume you’re very insecure in your womanhood bc the patriarchy effects literally everyone so why wouldn’t you want to be a decent human being by just being respectful.
Exactly. Not to mention that what I fight for is equality, not the right to walk all over any other gender. TERFs give those of us who *know* what feminism is and was meant to fight a really bad name.
Hi everyone! You are all wonderful. Just a friendly cactus popping in to let you know that you are all so very loved and cherished. Your feelings are so very valid, I’m so proud of all of you for making it this far, and I know even though it might be tough right now you’ll push through to the other side. You all are getting stronger every day. Keep being your smart, kind, hilarious, amazing selves.
If you ever loose faith in humanity, remember, that the main colours of the sky by sunset are blue, light pink and white... So once a day, it turns into a giant trans flag.
Just the other day I witnessed the sky turn into the trans flag and my mom and I just sat in a parking lot and stared at it until it devolved into nothing, I regret not taking a picture
@@trinitytiger6485 Ooooh yes. That happened to me too. And if even the sky says "trans rights", what should transphobes say about god being against us. xD But a pity for you, that you didn't take a pic.
Hey Jamie - I just want to say I’m a young trans boy and your videos have really helped me. When I came out, my parents didn’t understand and kept calling me a girl and using my deadname. I want to correct them but I’m scared. Anyway, all I want to say is thanks for being you. -Max🏳️⚧️
@@maddiepaige715 i wish it were like a relatively expensive dlc, like almost stupid expensive for a dlc. i mean, $50 is a lot of a dlc, but it would be amazing
@@SpikeyBagelOh yes please. Even the Rolls Royce of DLC is somewhat attainable for most people. As it stands at the moment medical procedures for transitioning are complete pipe dreams for the majority of people who need them. Of course this is also assuming you don't live in a country where that little DLC is "region locked" 😞
@@maddiepaige715 yeah, it sucks that they banned the dlc in some areas. why would you do that? people are going to use similar, but less effective/temporary ones, and some are going to use bootlegs that could give them a lot of new issues.
I really don’t get how people can be so anti and disrespectful towards trans persons. Whenever I think about how hard of a way they had come to finally be the person they always knew they were I am so fucking impressed. Because I don’t know if I would have ever been strong enough to get thorough all of the stuff they had to go through. I am so frickin proud of you. And if there is anyone out there reading this and struggling with their life, please don’t hesitate to contact me. I’ve been through rough times in my life as well and whenever I have the chance to help someone, I am happy to do so. I love you.
One of strangest things I've seen is one of my former friends, who was non-binary themselves, yet would act transphobic towards another non-binary friend(not sure if it's the right term for it, but it's what the other person called it). They consistently called them names, refused to acknowledge a legal name change and generally behaved toxic towards them, as well as generally being horrible to the rest of my friends, though they (My friends) only complained about them behind their back, out of worry for getting in trouble or upsetting them. Luckily, I disregard the feelings of other people and couldn't careless what punishments the school could offer, so soon after they started interrupting an being rude about the other non binary friend, whilst they were getting lunch, calling them toxic. I told them that they sure would know a lot about toxicity. They got confused/offended, asked what I meant. I went on to explain that they were constantly interrupting, being nasty to everyone, demanding attention and pity, hitting people and continuing with things that made others uncomfortable after being asked to stop. I told them that I was sick of them and had hated them ever since they'd followed me around everywhere the year before. They started crying and ran off, looking for pity from a friend who didn't know the situation (though I informed them on the bus ride home). Thankfully, the cunt hasnt spoken to any of us since and my friend group was pleased with them being gone.
about the non-binary Spanish thing from a Spanish speaker: all our nouns are (pointlessly) gendered for some reason, so adjectives (like non-binary) and pronouns (él/el/lo and ella/la) must be gendered too, and we have no "grammatically correct" neutral letter: -o for male ("el auto viej-o"/"the old car") and -a for female ("l-a silla amarill-a"/"the yellow chair"). however, in recent years some of us have started using "inclusive language", in which we end words with -e for people-related adjectives (the "e" is always pronounced like in the word "bed"). it can be used like the neutral "they" ("elle", to refer to a non-binary person, which itself becomes "no binarie"). also, our default for groups of people is masculine: if there is just one man in a group you have to say, for example, "amigos" ("friends"), even if there are mostly women. that's where inclusive language also becomes useful: "amigos" becomes "amigues", "todos" ("all"/"everybody") becomes "todes", etc. Love to you all!
Dope! It also happens in Brazilian Portuguese, and the same thing was done to solve the problem. The hardest thing is getting people to treat nonbinary people by their right pronouns (if they use only gender-neutral pronouns)
Wanted to add: we say someone has (literal translation) nb gender, this way you say género no binario and the -o is the gender of the word gender (masc) and not the gender of the person
Hey anyone who reads this I need some advice for a trans friend I have. He's in a really homophobic and transphobic family. He's pansexual too. And his parents don't use his correct name or pronouns and they're very religious and think that getting married in a mormon temple is super important. Which you can't do if you're trans and you can only marry people of the opposite gender. Anyways, he's in a really bad situation, he only has 2 friends who accept him, myself included, and his parents don't let him go on most websites and can see anything he does on any website and read his texts. I don't think they realize how much they're hurting him. He barely talks to anyone at church and church activities because he doesn't want to put himself in a position where he could get hurt. But it hurts me to have to see him wear a dress every Sunday. Me and his other accepting friend want to get him a binder for his birthday. But we wish we could do so much more. We live in a pretty accepting area but his parents home school him and he's not allowed to go a lot of places because they don't trust him. And in fall he's moving to an even less accepting place. He's about 16 with no where to go but with his parents so he still has 2 more years of this. Any advice? Any way to help him and just give him hope and show him how many people there really are in the world who would love him for who he is. Also if anyone has any suggestions for where to get a binder that would be helpful. For context, the church we're all in is homophobic and transphobic and my parents are too and his other accepting friend's parents are too. But I have a car and a credit card I can order stuff online with so I should be able to get him a binder some how. Are there any like physical things I could get him? Something he could probably hide from his parents. Update: we ended up getting him a gc2b binder (would reccomend) which made him very happy and he wore it (safely) almost every day before he moved. The place he moved isn't as bad as he thought it would be, queer people find eachother and he's made many lgbt friends there and seems to be doing okay. I showed him the comments and he was very thankful that so many random strangers on the internet care about someone they've never met. As his parents realize that they can't change him they've calmed down a little bit but are still pretty strict and I still don't like them.
Gc2b is a good online shop for binders, they also make a discreet packaging so his parents might not even notice. I wish I could help more, but that's all I can do, best of luck to him and you ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@@moiaussi7722 thank you! That'll actually help a lot so that my parents don't know I'm buying a binder (even though it's not for me). Knowing his parents they'd go though the packaging, you're amazing 🥰
Maybe a small pride flag? It won’t help him much physically, but it might help him see he’s not alone. And maybe let him watch lgbtq videos on your phone if you two are ever alone
Hmm.. I think for mental health, find a supportive community or friend group and spend as much time as possible there. I also live in a Mormon family, but they're actually pretty chill about my sexuality. (Still in the closet ab being gender fluid tho) It gets better, and you're not alone! Stay strong :)
YOU SAID TRANS MOTH AND SO I LOOKED UP TRANS MOTH AND I FOUND A REDDIT ACCOUNT WITH A WHOLE BUNCH OF ART OF MOTHS WITH PRIDE FLAG DESIGNS my evening has been blessed
When I was 13, it was the first time I had a dream where I was male, in the dream, everyone I knew saw me as me & acted all normal even though I knew it was different. With the changes I started going through, I was very embarrassed & upset about everything like I remember from a young age, I didn’t want breasts so I cherished the time I had being flat, thankfully I stayed flat until like my young adult years & they annoyingly decided they were going to be about average size out of nowhere. High school was pretty difficult, I’d spend most of my free time in bed, forcing myself into those dreams where I’m male. Weird thing is, I don’t identify with being male, I thought maybe I did because I preferred a man’s body to the extent where I was sleeping most of the time but presentation wise? I don’t identify male or female, I feel disconnected with both. It’s so frustrating & I can’t even explain it accurately but man, that one meme was on point with age, that’s exactly when it set in, at the age of 13. I don’t talk about how I feel in that sense much because it’s weird saying that I don’t identify as being a man but it’s awkward not having a dick. Sometimes I even get this phantom feeling down there, it’s weird but it’s like it’s there when I know it’s not, first time it ever happened was when I was in my early teens & went out to dinner with my friend & her family, every time I walked or moved in certain ways, I felt it & thought it was the strangest thing. Not bad, just strange. Figured I had to use the bathroom & sat in there long enough for my friend to come in & find me, worried about why I was in there so long. Ever since then, it pops up sometimes. I don’t ever talk about it because it’s a very strange & personal thing, especially given I hate revealing that stuff about myself but I’ve been trying my best to be able to compose how I’ve felt for a majority of my life to a friend who is having a hard time understanding because she’s too wrapped up in how she feels about things & believes I’m mistaken on how I take things but I’be been too scared to actually say exactly how I feel, I just end up dancing around it. Also, I am ace which kinda complicated things a lot like I’m definitely not into sexual stuff at all, never have felt any sort of sexual attraction but not having certain parts feels like having a missing tooth but in that tooth’s place is a gummy bear or something that obviously shouldn’t be there like I don’t play with my teeth or anything, I use them as tools to eat my food, I like all of them to be what they should be so they function the way they should & feel accurate in my mouth. Eh, this went on too rambly, been afraid about talking to this friend but a mutual non-binary friend of ours is going to help me out with talking to her, we discussed things & they get what I was saying when I let myself give it direct instead of dancing around it like I typically do. So hopefully, things go well.
I have to say especially because of the "rivalry" and disrespect inside of the communtiy, I prefer the abbreviation "GSRM" (gender, sexual and romantic minorities) since it's more inclusive but also represents much more that while having different issues, we should stand together. I'm always so sad to hear of trans people having problems inside the community and have to say that sadly, as someone on the asexual sprectrum, if it is not explicitly mentioned, I often don't feel included/accepted. It's so discouraging to discover that inside the community you thought you were welcome, you still might not be safe and get the support you need. But I think it's definitely important to bring attention to this subject, so we really practice the love and openness we fight for every day properly amongst ourselves 💜 Let's don't forget others because we only see our own struggles.
Considering I just within the last few months, after finally really feeling comfortable in my sexuality, started questioning my gender, I would definitely be the AAAAA-flag. All white flag of surrender.
@@fevre_dream8542 I’m not trans either (I’m just confused to be honest, I’m just trying to work out if I’m a girl (I was born female) or if I’m neither).
Me: is 13 now Dysphoria for literally everything including gender, sexuality, and even just me wishing I was something other than human or lived in a magic world instead: is for me?👀👉👈
Please accept these mama hugs, with no obligation.❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 You Are Valid, regardless of whether or not you have figured yourself out yet. You are a precious, sweet bean, and you are loved. 🙏
Everything you feel is real and allowed. You can call yourself whatever feels right and identify with whatever feels right. You can use as many or as few labels as you want. You are valid, and I believe in you. There is no wrong way to be a person.
explination to people that don't speak spanish to why the word "non-binary" has a male version and a female version: in Spanish, most words have to be gendered because of grammar. So normally its "non binario" but when you say "a non binary person" the word "persona" is feminine so you have to say "una persona *non binaria*" sorry if i ruined the joke, i just want people who genuinely don't know why non binary has a feminine and masculine in Spanish to learn :D
In portugese is the same, but we are trying to neutralize theese worlds using "e" in the end, like, non binary would be "não binárie" insted of "binário" or "binária"
Ok i’m non binary but tbh the whole “trans men are men/trans women are women/non binary people are valid” just makes me cringe a bit? Not in an embarrassing way but just like. Idk. It feels very infantilizing. Like we’re humouring non binary people. I’d much prefer that whole phrase but with “non binary people are non binary” because it feels less like an empty gesture. Saying we’re valid is good, of course, and idk if i’m putting this into words properly. Tldr: non binary people deserve explicit respect rather than a hollow “you’re valid :)” kinda thing
I fully agree!!! It's like instead of "I'm nonbinary" "yes, you are" it's "I'm nonbinary" "I can accept that". Like, it's not a matter of validity. I just am.
Well, I get the vibe you're talking about, but valid doesn't mean like "i support you honey" but more like "non-binary people are real and deserve to be treated as a real identity" so the meaning is the same as the others. But I don't disagree. I'm non-binary too btw
Exactly which is just more reason why people complaining about men's rights activists makes no sense the thing about having all of the rights you could need is no matter what you do you'll never gain more rights
@@theemofemboycatgirlw3214 The problem is, there are kind of two divisions of men's rights activists. The ones you're talking about are one division, the ones who use "men's rights" to counter or discount women's rights movements. But there is another division, which is men who have also been hurt by gender stereotypes and norms. That second group isn't advocating against women's rights, they are working for equality too, just in a different form.
@@Petrichor_Pyroclast still both types aren't going to change women's rights because it's not that simple why do you think feminism hasn't really made any progress it's because the people in power either say women need equal rights to get elected and then once elected they don't care anymore or the people who say men and women are equal when that's not entirely true trans people are still not really cared about our deaths mean nothing I'm sure you heard about the story of the trans woman that was shot and described by police as a man in a skirt which is heavily indicating they were saying this was just another crossdresser so there's no reason why we should bother investigating
@@Petrichor_Pyroclast but same could be said for womans rights groups some are the scumb off the bottom of the pool and others feel that woman are mistreated still wrong but not evil
6:56 Same with Bi and pan people. It’s so strange to me how people do f the lgtbq+ community sometimes oppress each other when we feel each other’s pain. It makes me sad to hear some people in our own community doesn’t respect trans people. PS: Trans rights are human rights 🏳️⚧️ Also my flag is either AAAAAAAAAA or Rat
Jammi, one correction. Feminism is equality regardless of gender. (It was in response to something you said around 4:20). This is coming from a feminist who checked the movement they were apart of.
@@devilisdev3064 I mean, I'm not enby either, just cis and bi (but fiercely support my lgbtqa+ fellows) I'm actually not sure if enby falls under trans, but I'm not entirely sure it matters, as any gender identity is equally legitimate.
@@devilisdev3064 yeah it does, or it can at least. Since people are assigned one of the binary genders at birth, being nonbinary means by default you identify with something other than your AGAB, therefore falls under the trans umbrella. The white stripe in the trans flag is for nonbinary identities as well as transitioning. That said, some enbies identify as trans and some don't
to whoever needs to see this…u are loved. u matter. u are beautiful. you can dress feminine still be a man. you can dress masculine and still be a woman. you can be agender or nb without looking adroynous. if u are tucking or binding, plz do it safely and drink lots of water. as a trans guy who doesn’t want to change his appereance or anything, i remind myself i’m still a guy even tho i still look feminine. love u all and happy pride. as lady gaga said “love yourself today cuz baby u were born this way. “a different lover is not a sin!” you are wonderful ajd valid no matter who u are
As a non-binary person, the whole "non-binary people are valid" thing makes me feel weird. I don't need others to validate me and say I'm valid. I need people to treat me how I ask to be treated. I get told I'm valid, but it rarely translates to action. Yes. My identity is valid and also just...what's wrong with "non-binary people are non-binary"
Hi, just your local cis person trying to learn more about trans people so that she can better support her friends, btw, Happy pride month from a fellow alphabet mafia member! (Btw, I’m panromantic :))
Aww that's great ur educating urself. Jamie is perfect for that. And one topic at a time is great too. He's a great lgbtq ally that covers lgbtq subrettits
I went to a bookstore not long ago and happened to overhear a conversation between two friends, picking pens in the trans flag colors, as a gift for their newly transitioned friend and I just though it was adorable 😍
I personally am the AAAAA trans. Also, I keep forgetting that Jamie is trans even tho he mentions it quite often. Little references to it and sometimes I'm like "wut" then I go "OH"
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"What trans are you?"
Me, a trans man named Sans: I- I guess I have a flag now?
nice name and flag :)
I like your name-
*intense undertale flashbacks*
I’m sorry what-
Lmao
@@InkSans_FandomSoda You can tell the year I came out in lol
SANS UNDERTABLE?????,??
Remember when “super-“ sexuality identities were a thing, earlier this year?
I had a “super”gay (who was really not in any way “super”), trying to justify to me his need to build an identity around his wish to never date or hook up with any trans man.
I simply pointed out to him,
“It wouldn’t happen, anyway. I can tell you that much, because I’m friends with lots of trans folk. None of them would ever date you. Because they actually have taste.”
EXACTLY. As a gay guy, I can absolutely say that I have liked many trans guys in addition to cis guys, and that trans men are super amazing and handsome and wonderful. It just saddens me that even those within the LGBT community are so open to discrimination. I hope that all of the trans guys out there know that they are very handsome and valid 🥺
@@lukesart8023 Yup. Anatomy preferences are no different than body type preferences. Everybody has them. It doesn’t make anyone a bigot, unless you’re going to call someone “disgusting” because they aren’t what you’re into. But also, having specific preferences does not mean you’re part of a marginalised identity to be “proud” of.
@@NineWorldsFromDrew Excatly, I’m a gay trans guy if a gay guy doesn’t want to date me because i haven’t had any ops so my genitals might not be what they are into that’s totally okay! This happens a lot and I respect them for it because they still respect my identity and many are my good friends.
@@N.G.G.U "I'm attracted to people regardless of their gender, except if they're trans"
... No, it doesn't feel right
@@N.G.G.U The non-stick kind I suppose
I'm a cis woman. And definitely a feminist, and honestly, I feel like feminism is all about fighting for the underdog, and trans women are the strongest underdogs out there, so honestly it only makes sense to include trans women when we fight for equality as women. No question.
I thought I was gonna be very mad about this but I continued to read and it made my day
@@l0b0t0myb0ner lol. I'm really glad I didn't make you mad
:')
It doesn’t just make sense to fight for them because they’re underdogs it also makes sense to include them because they’re just simply women
@@aislingcoffey1443 Can I just say, I really love your name
“I’m a little trans moth” 10/10 cutest thing ever also same
Same
Moths are great :)
I want to do a watercolor lunar month with trans flag wings now... 🤭😊
@@AWindy94 That would be so pretty!
My cat is named moth and we’ve dubbed her as non-binary! She uses she they pronouns and their the best thing that has happened to me
Love them!
Gender critical: terfy
Gender critic: this gender is full of flavor, the depth and balance of spices is delicious
Ahhh yes this gender is very... full bodied XD
*snifts gender tastefully*
Me: *empty bowl*
Is this the reason I am agender? Cause a Gender critic ate it?
Gender critics love genderfluidity for the variety of flavour
“Rights are not pie”!!!
Harvey Milk said “It takes no compromise to give people their rights. It takes no money to respect the individual. It takes no survey to remove repressions.”
And he was a white cis gay in the 70s, so if he could figure it out I’d hope it would be obvious by now
Jamie: Is that a shirt? underpants? a skirt? a scarf?
Me: ITS A T H N E E D
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I really NEED a THNEED
Sorry
@Io Oi Off to ship the Onceler with himself :]
Onceler binder :)
I think it’s a fricking Onceler binder-
Transfobs- "Trans woman can't participate in woman sports"
Me cis male who's the weakest person in my class and PE teacher always put me in girls team. - exist
Why does your school even have a "girls' team," if they're going to put a boy in it?
Why not just have Team Green and Team Orange, and equally divide up the players, so that both teams have a good range of skill sets, and they can actually compete equally against each other, and have it be, you know, challenging?
thats not the same as being a pro being put in the girls team your talking about the best in their feilds
@@brendonrookes1151 ok brendon
@@brendonrookes1151 "A pro being put in the girl's team???" Bro how do you think sports work for trans women 😐
@@AuntLoopy123 ikr, in elementary school there used to be a boys line and a girls line when we went outside of class.
"What trans are you?"
Well, as an enby, I feel that AAAAAA is pretty accurate.
I'm genderfluid and that AAAAAA is pretty accurate to my daily gender identity crisis
As a demigirl I feel that AAAAAA is also accurate, but rat is a close second
As another enby, that is very accurate
it's a flag close to my heart too ngl
as a person who isnt even sure if theyre trans, AAAAA is definitely accurate lmao
Trans man: exists
Transphobes: You’ll never be a real man!
Trans man: has child
Trans man: makes dad joke
Transphobes: shrivel under the immense power play
im sorry but a trans man cant have a child on his own nor can a trans woman give birth ur stupidity astounds me
@@brendonrookes1151 it depends on if they had surgery to change their body parts because if they didn’t then they could easily have children
@@brendonrookes1151 It is absolutely possible for trans men to have children, if they, of course, still have vagina, ovaries and an uterus. Unless the person does a surgery to get rid of them, their body is able to give birth. CashT might’ve also meant adopting a child. That insult was extremely unnecessary and incongruous, if you didn’t get something or weren’t certain about the information you were given, a polite question would’ve been enough. I hope you now understand that, thank you.
@@zachnotmyactualname1481 im not talking about biological form im talking about a woman trans to a man cant produce male sperm and a male trans to a woman cant grow a baby in side him its medical fact
@@brendonrookes1151 it’s possible if they like the same gender and didn’t have surgery because you still can produce male sperm if you didn’t have surgery and your biological sex is male same for female
"Be transparent, steal from shops" is the new "be gay, do crime," and I am fucking here for it. (I'm cis but I love all my siblings in the LGBTQ+ community that this applies to
Be crime, do gay
Don’t forget be trans throw hands
me: knows about dysphoria
also me: not realizing that is what I'm feeling until I'm 27
“I’m a little trans moth.”
-JammiDodger 2021
As a cis gay person, I'm so sorry for gay transphobia. It just doesn't make sense to me.
And as a Spaniard, I'm sorry for our highly gendered language. Some of us are trying to use the suffix -e to create agendered words (for example, "non-binary" would be "no binarie"), but some people say they don't sound right or that it is not natural because doesn't come with the "natural" evolution of the language. Yeah, cause it's more important to preserve the "natural" evolution of a language than trying to accommodate all people in it.
My friend said Russian has similar problems with gendered words, & it must suck. I agree that complaining about grammar is just an excuse to be prejudiced, cos I bet these people don't get infuriated about anything else that's not perfectly grammatically correct. And if they knew anything about language, they'd know it's constantly evolving, & we DO make up new words for new things & concepts- "telephone", "the internet", "feminism"... Language doesn't "evolve naturally", it's not a living organism, & anyone who thinks language develops logically should google "great vowel shift in Middle English" (or not, cos the completely illogical complexity will hurt your brain!)
it dosnt make sense to you that a gay man wants to have a partner with a penis im sold idiot
@@brendonrookes1151 Think of it this way: if Person A doesn't like the look of blonde hair, it's perfectly fine that Person A is not attracted to blonde-haired Person B. However, it doesn't make sense for Person A to announce "I would never date someone with blonde hair and you shouldn't either," and it is not okay for Person A to say bad things about blonde haired people.
@@brendonrookes1151 so if a cis gay asexual man didn't care if their partner had a penis or not, are they somehow also not gay to you?
"What trans are you?"
me, foaming at the mouth: ✨RAT✨
Yesssss!!!
I'm a Frog!
Literally yesterday I was stupid and basically let a cis gay guy sexually harass me
I pointed out that he’s gay but because I look like a guy and for some stupid reason told him what was in my pants when he asked (it was late, idk why) suddenly this gay man is making me very uncomfortable even though I told him to stop
I blocked him so quickly. This man had no self control you have no idea how many times I said no and it went right over his head
So this PSA has gone out to gay men who think it’s okay to harass trans women just because they look like men
Or any women, don’t sexually harass anyone. Damn.
hey! are you okay? did you tell anyone besides this comment section?
Are you alright? Did you tell anyone what happened other than the comments?
Oh my god that is fucking horrible. I don’t even know what to say except I hope that you’re alright now. That must have been awful. I have no idea why so many ‘gay’ guys think it’s remotely okay to first of all harass someone sexually but second of all claim to be gay while liking a trans woman. Trans women are women, and gay men are men who are specifically attracted to only men and masculine-aligned individuals. If you are a man who likes a trans woman, you are not gay. Periodt. But yeah, that is fucking horrible and I am sending you all the love and support I can 🥺❤️
You are not stupid and you didn't let him do anything. He sexually harassed you. And I'm sorry he did that to you.
I'm sorry that happened to you!
So I'm making a pride flag artwork for pride month.
I've just watched one topic look through r/pansexual, while colouring in the trans flag.
Now I'm watching Jamie look at trans memes, while colouring in the pan flag.
Honestly, I just didn't think this through.
That's incredible xD
That's funny and very appropriate!
Same :3
XD
Lol, I came from OT's pan vid, too. XD
I feel safe here so I would like to come out….
…
I AM A TRANS MAN!!! It feels nice to say it even if it’s on the internet where no one will see
Ay I'm glad you could find your identity my guy c:
Sorry if this is sounds weird I'm not good with the words I'm just happy for you
I saw it.
Though I doubt you can see me, as I just learned I am transparent.
Got a new identity today.
Ayyyy congrats on the coming out my man!! Wish you all the support and love! I’m rlly happy that you feel safe enough to come out bro!! Coming out is a brave thing, even on the internet so!! Proud of you!!
*hug!!*
Congrats!!!!
I saw it.
I saw it with my eyes.
Sending good vibes with my positivity canon in 3...2...1...
*Aims positivity canon at the window. *
FIRE!
🎉✨🌈⚧️
"what trans are you"
i'm AAAA. just pure confused screaming.
…and that's perfectly fine. 😁
nice
Personally I’m satan
Apparently I'm trans now, too, cause me too is really confused
im a r a t
My bf's sister is bi but doesn't accept him, who's trans, and doesn't like me, who's also trans. Sad, really
oof
i think i just had a stroke trying to read that
@@ninovandorrestein561 haha same
He deserves better honestly
I will never understand transphobic LGBQ+ folks.
Jamie: what trans are you?
Me: I’m satan!
My older sister: nOO!
My younger brother (who isn’t even trans): YESSSSSSS
This is comedy gold! 😂😂😂😂
"Look, trans colors!"
Me: just realized the Pokémon Sylveon is white, pink and light blue
Sylveon is trans now
Sylveon is a trans icon, pass it on
trans pokemon!!!!
Google it and you will find fan art :D
I always thought of Vivillon as being the "trans butterfly pokemon"
Dear all trans people,
On behalf of all the transphobic cis lesbians, I'm so sorry.
Sincerely,
A cis lesbian and trans ally
(Edit: Originally, my comment said "Dear trans community", but I think that made it sound like I was saying trans people are separate from the LGBTQ+ community, which was not my intention. I hope saying trans people instead helped!)
Dw, we know most cis ppl aren’t like them. The problem is that they’re louder than most other cis people so they seem like the majority.
@@coolworms7297
That's unfortunately true.
oh hon, thanks so much for saying so
Thank you!!!!
Don't worry lol, I'm very confident that terfs aren't claimed by the people they try to hide behind. It's a really obvious play for validity on their part. In fact, I'M sorry that you have to deal with them. I will always support cis lesbians!!
RAT! IM RAT! As an agender goblin of a person, rat is my whole vibe!
“what trans are you?”
definitely the “AAAAA”
not just because I’m nonbinary/genderfluid but because that’s my brain every second of the day
preach!
gender emoty, just AAAAAAA
Same
I personally identify as "AAAAAA." Aromantic Asexual Agender Anarchist Anthro Artist.
sameeeeee 100%
I am a Sass Rat, but AAAAA speaks to me on a deep, spiritual level.
I am AAAAA
same
Possibly an Assrat, StarAss, or maybe the good ol AAAAAA for me.
I'm just Tat. Plain tat.
@@Lewisiaisoutofcontext this is weak, BE SATAN, but you do you tat is tat
4:42 For me, the first thing that came to mind is "be they, do crime."
Off topic but: Since it’s Father’s Day, all of you with bad dads, don’t even think of them. I have adopted you.
Thank you dad!
Here's a cookie :D 🍪
Dadza 2.0?
Have a good dad but love you, I got bread and the milk 🍞 🥖 🥛
I had my foster dad this fathers day 🧡🧡🧡🧡
can i have 10 bucks to go the movies?
re trans colors: one of the frats at my college has the colors light blue, pink, and white, and they recently painted their common room those colors, so the entire house just feels like trans rights/gender reveal party
Imagine being asked by a fellow trans person "What transgender are you?" and saying "Yeah, I'm AAAAAA and RARR, what about you?"
About the whole terf thing I totally agree because as a true feminist you don’t get to use an equality movement to be a bigot. If you’re a feminist you care about everyone truly especially women of color and lgbtq+ women. If you’re a terf I’m just gonna assume you’re very insecure in your womanhood bc the patriarchy effects literally everyone so why wouldn’t you want to be a decent human being by just being respectful.
Exactly. Not to mention that what I fight for is equality, not the right to walk all over any other gender. TERFs give those of us who *know* what feminism is and was meant to fight a really bad name.
They should be called Feminism-Appropriating Reactionary Transphobes.
I absolutely agre
In my encounters with TERFs they also use "feminism" to bully other women. Problematic in many, many ways.
@@NovaSaber _-i loudly wheezed when i realized what the acronym was-_
Jamie: moustache
Jamie: moustache?
Jamie: moust-ask
*Proceeds to laugh at his own joke* is the best thing 🤣
7:49 He is the Lorax and he speaks for the T’s
Be a bigot, and he'll come for your knees
"How trans are you?"
me walking flamboyantly through the doorway: *𝓪𝓼𝓼✨*
Ass or sass. Or Sans.
Or transnart.
Preach it
Mate you just made my Day 🤣🤣🤣🤣👌
Yes
(Looks at huge Ghost playlist)
Welp, looks like I'm SATAN! XD
Hi everyone! You are all wonderful. Just a friendly cactus popping in to let you know that you are all so very loved and cherished. Your feelings are so very valid, I’m so proud of all of you for making it this far, and I know even though it might be tough right now you’ll push through to the other side. You all are getting stronger every day. Keep being your smart, kind, hilarious, amazing selves.
:D
Ey!!!!
Ty. Have an epik day cactus :D
HELLO!
:D
love you Cactus you always make us feel better :>
"Rights are not pie. Everybody can have equal rights."
Thank you for that. Such a beautiful summary.
"Despite the murder, it's really relaxing to play."
LMAO That endorsement might need some work.
If you ever loose faith in humanity, remember, that the main colours of the sky by sunset are blue, light pink and white... So once a day, it turns into a giant trans flag.
Just the other day I witnessed the sky turn into the trans flag and my mom and I just sat in a parking lot and stared at it until it devolved into nothing, I regret not taking a picture
@@trinitytiger6485 Ooooh yes. That happened to me too. And if even the sky says "trans rights", what should transphobes say about god being against us. xD But a pity for you, that you didn't take a pic.
@@trinitytiger6485 I saw one of those a while ago and took a picture
Hey Jamie - I just want to say I’m a young trans boy and your videos have really helped me. When I came out, my parents didn’t understand and kept calling me a girl and using my deadname. I want to correct them but I’m scared. Anyway, all I want to say is thanks for being you.
-Max🏳️⚧️
You can do it! We all believe in you! I would say get your parents to sit down at home some time and explain your feelings to them.
-Ash🏳️⚧️
Oh God they're right, being trans and transitioning through meds and surgery is literally IRL dlc. I WANT TO UNREMEMBER THIS.
It wouldn't suck so much if it cost the same as regular DLC -_-'
@@maddiepaige715 i wish it were like a relatively expensive dlc, like almost stupid expensive for a dlc. i mean, $50 is a lot of a dlc, but it would be amazing
You unlocked the "Wait, where's my quicksave?" achievement!
@@SpikeyBagelOh yes please. Even the Rolls Royce of DLC is somewhat attainable for most people. As it stands at the moment medical procedures for transitioning are complete pipe dreams for the majority of people who need them. Of course this is also assuming you don't live in a country where that little DLC is "region locked" 😞
@@maddiepaige715 yeah, it sucks that they banned the dlc in some areas. why would you do that? people are going to use similar, but less effective/temporary ones, and some are going to use bootlegs that could give them a lot of new issues.
I really felt "the second gender you've gotta pay for". Just made my first payment towards the top surgery I'll be having at the end of next March
me: *screen shots jamie holding the trans octopus and smiling*
serotonin: *comes back with the milk*
Jamie has too much power, he can make trans dad jokes AND corny bi puns
I believe that he has ascended above us all
I think you mean
Ace-ended!
I'll see myself out.
I really don’t get how people can be so anti and disrespectful towards trans persons. Whenever I think about how hard of a way they had come to finally be the person they always knew they were I am so fucking impressed. Because I don’t know if I would have ever been strong enough to get thorough all of the stuff they had to go through. I am so frickin proud of you. And if there is anyone out there reading this and struggling with their life, please don’t hesitate to contact me. I’ve been through rough times in my life as well and whenever I have the chance to help someone, I am happy to do so. I love you.
i'm almost tempted to overshare again. perhaps i should
You feel like the person who would aggressively scream at me to take care of myself and drink water out of the amazing-ness of your pure heart
@@SpikeyBagel you can write me on Reddit if you like. u/NM2BL
@@SpikeyBagel lmao, me whenever I sense an inkling of kinship with a new person
@@LoreCatan quit calling us out, dammit
One of strangest things I've seen is one of my former friends, who was non-binary themselves, yet would act transphobic towards another non-binary friend(not sure if it's the right term for it, but it's what the other person called it). They consistently called them names, refused to acknowledge a legal name change and generally behaved toxic towards them, as well as generally being horrible to the rest of my friends, though they (My friends) only complained about them behind their back, out of worry for getting in trouble or upsetting them.
Luckily, I disregard the feelings of other people and couldn't careless what punishments the school could offer, so soon after they started interrupting an being rude about the other non binary friend, whilst they were getting lunch, calling them toxic.
I told them that they sure would know a lot about toxicity. They got confused/offended, asked what I meant. I went on to explain that they were constantly interrupting, being nasty to everyone, demanding attention and pity, hitting people and continuing with things that made others uncomfortable after being asked to stop. I told them that I was sick of them and had hated them ever since they'd followed me around everywhere the year before.
They started crying and ran off, looking for pity from a friend who didn't know the situation (though I informed them on the bus ride home).
Thankfully, the cunt hasnt spoken to any of us since and my friend group was pleased with them being gone.
about the non-binary Spanish thing from a Spanish speaker: all our nouns are (pointlessly) gendered for some reason, so adjectives (like non-binary) and pronouns (él/el/lo and ella/la) must be gendered too, and we have no "grammatically correct" neutral letter: -o for male ("el auto viej-o"/"the old car") and -a for female ("l-a silla amarill-a"/"the yellow chair"). however, in recent years some of us have started using "inclusive language", in which we end words with -e for people-related adjectives (the "e" is always pronounced like in the word "bed"). it can be used like the neutral "they" ("elle", to refer to a non-binary person, which itself becomes "no binarie"). also, our default for groups of people is masculine: if there is just one man in a group you have to say, for example, "amigos" ("friends"), even if there are mostly women. that's where inclusive language also becomes useful: "amigos" becomes "amigues", "todos" ("all"/"everybody") becomes "todes", etc. Love to you all!
Dope! It also happens in Brazilian Portuguese, and the same thing was done to solve the problem. The hardest thing is getting people to treat nonbinary people by their right pronouns (if they use only gender-neutral pronouns)
Cool
Wanted to add: we say someone has (literal translation) nb gender, this way you say género no binario and the -o is the gender of the word gender (masc) and not the gender of the person
@@piligom4743 true, I'd forgotten about that one
I was just going to comment on this, but you already did it perfectly! 😊🙌
Hey anyone who reads this I need some advice for a trans friend I have. He's in a really homophobic and transphobic family. He's pansexual too. And his parents don't use his correct name or pronouns and they're very religious and think that getting married in a mormon temple is super important. Which you can't do if you're trans and you can only marry people of the opposite gender. Anyways, he's in a really bad situation, he only has 2 friends who accept him, myself included, and his parents don't let him go on most websites and can see anything he does on any website and read his texts. I don't think they realize how much they're hurting him. He barely talks to anyone at church and church activities because he doesn't want to put himself in a position where he could get hurt. But it hurts me to have to see him wear a dress every Sunday. Me and his other accepting friend want to get him a binder for his birthday. But we wish we could do so much more. We live in a pretty accepting area but his parents home school him and he's not allowed to go a lot of places because they don't trust him. And in fall he's moving to an even less accepting place. He's about 16 with no where to go but with his parents so he still has 2 more years of this. Any advice? Any way to help him and just give him hope and show him how many people there really are in the world who would love him for who he is. Also if anyone has any suggestions for where to get a binder that would be helpful. For context, the church we're all in is homophobic and transphobic and my parents are too and his other accepting friend's parents are too. But I have a car and a credit card I can order stuff online with so I should be able to get him a binder some how. Are there any like physical things I could get him? Something he could probably hide from his parents.
Update: we ended up getting him a gc2b binder (would reccomend) which made him very happy and he wore it (safely) almost every day before he moved. The place he moved isn't as bad as he thought it would be, queer people find eachother and he's made many lgbt friends there and seems to be doing okay. I showed him the comments and he was very thankful that so many random strangers on the internet care about someone they've never met. As his parents realize that they can't change him they've calmed down a little bit but are still pretty strict and I still don't like them.
Gc2b is a good online shop for binders, they also make a discreet packaging so his parents might not even notice. I wish I could help more, but that's all I can do, best of luck to him and you ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@@moiaussi7722 thank you! That'll actually help a lot so that my parents don't know I'm buying a binder (even though it's not for me). Knowing his parents they'd go though the packaging, you're amazing 🥰
Maybe a small pride flag? It won’t help him much physically, but it might help him see he’s not alone. And maybe let him watch lgbtq videos on your phone if you two are ever alone
Hmm.. I think for mental health, find a supportive community or friend group and spend as much time as possible there. I also live in a Mormon family, but they're actually pretty chill about my sexuality. (Still in the closet ab being gender fluid tho)
It gets better, and you're not alone! Stay strong :)
Other than what other people have already said, I don’t have any ideas. Good luck though
YOU SAID TRANS MOTH AND SO I LOOKED UP TRANS MOTH AND I FOUND A REDDIT ACCOUNT WITH A WHOLE BUNCH OF ART OF MOTHS WITH PRIDE FLAG DESIGNS
my evening has been blessed
Definitely a whole lot of SASS with maybe a little SATAN sprinkled in just for good measure
SATRANS
I'm mostly SATAN with a generous helping of AAAAA
@@bean5157 same
"I am the Lorax, and I speak for the Enbies"
"Disrespect their pronouns and I'll break your knees" (this is edited because i forgot the quotation marks lol)
I've been binging Jammidodger videos and one of the things that I love is how kind and funny the comments are. Congrats, y'all are awesome.
I really love "AAAAA", "RARR", and "SASS" 😂😂 that type of meme never gets old for me 🤣
I collect those lmao
I have a friend who has been a REALLY GOOD trans ally through everything.
His last name is Sass...
I HAD to send him the trans flag meme
When I was 13, it was the first time I had a dream where I was male, in the dream, everyone I knew saw me as me & acted all normal even though I knew it was different. With the changes I started going through, I was very embarrassed & upset about everything like I remember from a young age, I didn’t want breasts so I cherished the time I had being flat, thankfully I stayed flat until like my young adult years & they annoyingly decided they were going to be about average size out of nowhere. High school was pretty difficult, I’d spend most of my free time in bed, forcing myself into those dreams where I’m male. Weird thing is, I don’t identify with being male, I thought maybe I did because I preferred a man’s body to the extent where I was sleeping most of the time but presentation wise? I don’t identify male or female, I feel disconnected with both. It’s so frustrating & I can’t even explain it accurately but man, that one meme was on point with age, that’s exactly when it set in, at the age of 13. I don’t talk about how I feel in that sense much because it’s weird saying that I don’t identify as being a man but it’s awkward not having a dick. Sometimes I even get this phantom feeling down there, it’s weird but it’s like it’s there when I know it’s not, first time it ever happened was when I was in my early teens & went out to dinner with my friend & her family, every time I walked or moved in certain ways, I felt it & thought it was the strangest thing. Not bad, just strange. Figured I had to use the bathroom & sat in there long enough for my friend to come in & find me, worried about why I was in there so long. Ever since then, it pops up sometimes. I don’t ever talk about it because it’s a very strange & personal thing, especially given I hate revealing that stuff about myself but I’ve been trying my best to be able to compose how I’ve felt for a majority of my life to a friend who is having a hard time understanding because she’s too wrapped up in how she feels about things & believes I’m mistaken on how I take things but I’be been too scared to actually say exactly how I feel, I just end up dancing around it. Also, I am ace which kinda complicated things a lot like I’m definitely not into sexual stuff at all, never have felt any sort of sexual attraction but not having certain parts feels like having a missing tooth but in that tooth’s place is a gummy bear or something that obviously shouldn’t be there like I don’t play with my teeth or anything, I use them as tools to eat my food, I like all of them to be what they should be so they function the way they should & feel accurate in my mouth. Eh, this went on too rambly, been afraid about talking to this friend but a mutual non-binary friend of ours is going to help me out with talking to her, we discussed things & they get what I was saying when I let myself give it direct instead of dancing around it like I typically do. So hopefully, things go well.
I agree with the flip of transphobe and TERF, but in between I’d add FART (Feminism Appropriating Radical Transphobe) which I heard from OT.
thats a great abbreviation, i love it
I'm either "AAAAA" or "SATAN" lol the fun thing is you can apparently make my username with that flag format too
I have to say especially because of the "rivalry" and disrespect inside of the communtiy, I prefer the abbreviation "GSRM" (gender, sexual and romantic minorities) since it's more inclusive but also represents much more that while having different issues, we should stand together. I'm always so sad to hear of trans people having problems inside the community and have to say that sadly, as someone on the asexual sprectrum, if it is not explicitly mentioned, I often don't feel included/accepted. It's so discouraging to discover that inside the community you thought you were welcome, you still might not be safe and get the support you need. But I think it's definitely important to bring attention to this subject, so we really practice the love and openness we fight for every day properly amongst ourselves 💜 Let's don't forget others because we only see our own struggles.
Considering I just within the last few months, after finally really feeling comfortable in my sexuality, started questioning my gender, I would definitely be the AAAAA-flag. All white flag of surrender.
Completely white flag of surrender that also happens to be pronounced by screaming, that’s accurate.
I'm questioning my gender, too, and that's accurate.
I may not be trans, but I heavily identify with AAAAAAA
*AAAAA* squad
@@fevre_dream8542 I’m not trans either (I’m just confused to be honest, I’m just trying to work out if I’m a girl (I was born female) or if I’m neither).
Me: is 13 now
Dysphoria for literally everything including gender, sexuality, and even just me wishing I was something other than human or lived in a magic world instead: is for me?👀👉👈
Please accept these mama hugs, with no obligation.❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
You Are Valid, regardless of whether or not you have figured yourself out yet. You are a precious, sweet bean, and you are loved. 🙏
@@missnaomi613 thank you for that😌 much appreciated
Everything you feel is real and allowed. You can call yourself whatever feels right and identify with whatever feels right. You can use as many or as few labels as you want. You are valid, and I believe in you. There is no wrong way to be a person.
DUDE ME TOO
I also wish I wasn't a human... Sometimes, I wish I didn't have a body at all. :p
Jammi I just got my first binder!! I can wear form fitting shirts now and I'm so excited
So disappointed the trans flag meme did not have TARTANS as an option.
nannat
“what flag am i”
well…i mean, gender goes ‘AAAAA’ so i guess it’s that one 😂
“hands up in the comments if you love a good trans meme”
me: *raises hand*
"Is that a top? A skirt? Underpants? A scarf?"
It is the entire 🖑🌟clothe🌟🖐
4 in 1 ✨body cloth✨
explination to people that don't speak spanish to why the word "non-binary" has a male version and a female version:
in Spanish, most words have to be gendered because of grammar.
So normally its "non binario" but when you say "a non binary person" the word "persona" is feminine so you have to say "una persona *non binaria*"
sorry if i ruined the joke, i just want people who genuinely don't know why non binary has a feminine and masculine in Spanish to learn :D
Adding on to this. A masculine person would be una persona masculina. Noun gender is still feminine, person is not
@@Rebecca-vg2ef thanks for adding onto this!
Ya learn something new every day
So in Spanish "are you a girl non-binary or a boy non-binary?" Is technically valid question??
In portugese is the same, but we are trying to neutralize theese worlds using "e" in the end, like, non binary would be "não binárie" insted of "binário" or "binária"
"First gender is free, but after that you gotta pay"
I'm not sure if I want all of them or none of them, h m
(Whispers) here, I stole this one from the supermarket. you can have it if you don’t tell anyone.
Ok i’m non binary but tbh the whole “trans men are men/trans women are women/non binary people are valid” just makes me cringe a bit? Not in an embarrassing way but just like. Idk. It feels very infantilizing. Like we’re humouring non binary people. I’d much prefer that whole phrase but with “non binary people are non binary” because it feels less like an empty gesture. Saying we’re valid is good, of course, and idk if i’m putting this into words properly.
Tldr: non binary people deserve explicit respect rather than a hollow “you’re valid :)” kinda thing
As a non binary person, I would agree. The gesture is very nice and I am grateful you support me, but like...yeah.
I fully agree!!! It's like instead of "I'm nonbinary" "yes, you are" it's "I'm nonbinary" "I can accept that". Like, it's not a matter of validity. I just am.
I agree, I'm nonbinary too
Well, I get the vibe you're talking about, but valid doesn't mean like "i support you honey" but more like "non-binary people are real and deserve to be treated as a real identity" so the meaning is the same as the others. But I don't disagree. I'm non-binary too btw
I agree.
I mean, the trans* octopus is most assuredly transition goal. Who doesn't want 6 extra arms and a lil' jelly body??? .......................J-just me?
You get to slap 8 transphobesat the same time, don't know why nobody else thought of that
@@Gabi-vt4ex you are a genius I didn't think that far lol
Not just you
7:40 Notities is actually a Dutch word for "notes", but yes, if said wrong by an English person it can sound like that :P.
Jamie is the most wholesome person ever, like I'd love to meet him irl, seems like the most relaxed person ever
"Rights are not pie, everybody can have equal rights"
Jamie 2021
Exactly which is just more reason why people complaining about men's rights activists makes no sense the thing about having all of the rights you could need is no matter what you do you'll never gain more rights
@@theemofemboycatgirlw3214 The problem is, there are kind of two divisions of men's rights activists. The ones you're talking about are one division, the ones who use "men's rights" to counter or discount women's rights movements. But there is another division, which is men who have also been hurt by gender stereotypes and norms. That second group isn't advocating against women's rights, they are working for equality too, just in a different form.
@@Petrichor_Pyroclast still both types aren't going to change women's rights because it's not that simple why do you think feminism hasn't really made any progress it's because the people in power either say women need equal rights to get elected and then once elected they don't care anymore or the people who say men and women are equal when that's not entirely true trans people are still not really cared about our deaths mean nothing I'm sure you heard about the story of the trans woman that was shot and described by police as a man in a skirt which is heavily indicating they were saying this was just another crossdresser so there's no reason why we should bother investigating
@@Petrichor_Pyroclast but same could be said for womans rights groups some are the scumb off the bottom of the pool and others feel that woman are mistreated still wrong but not evil
Wait but this implies that not everyone can have pie??? :’(
6:56 Same with Bi and pan people. It’s so strange to me how people do f the lgtbq+ community sometimes oppress each other when we feel each other’s pain. It makes me sad to hear some people in our own community doesn’t respect trans people.
PS: Trans rights are human rights 🏳️⚧️
Also my flag is either AAAAAAAAAA or Rat
As a Spanish and non-binary person, I can relate too much to the no binaria/no binario meme, and it hurts :')
Yeah that's a real shame even that's the language
There is the -e thing that I’d heard about, ie: No binarie.
What is the gender neutral pronoun in Spanish? The third of the singular and of the plural
“What trans are you?”
*RAT*
Idk why, it just sounds funny x)
“What trans are you?”
*SANS*
I‘m AAAAAAAA
@Noutjeee17 Noutjepsychic In my friend's and I's Discord server I'm known as the Gay Rat King, so I'm also *RAT* :>
@@bendy5063 That's an amazing title 👏🏻 I have respect for that 👌🏻✨
@Keighen Snavely Yes!!!
Jammi, one correction. Feminism is equality regardless of gender. (It was in response to something you said around 4:20).
This is coming from a feminist who checked the movement they were apart of.
"Jamie's Quarterly Review of Trans Memes" would actually be a great name for a regular segment NGL.
Sadly we'd get a new episode only every 3 months
instead of q quarter of a year make it a quarter of a month
"What trans are you?"
Me immediately without question: I am satan rat!
I, although not trans, can immediately identify myself as
AAAAAA
@@fevre_dream8542 Wait nonbinary falls under the trans umbrella right or I am stupid-
@@devilisdev3064 I mean, I'm not enby either, just cis and bi (but fiercely support my lgbtqa+ fellows)
I'm actually not sure if enby falls under trans, but I'm not entirely sure it matters, as any gender identity is equally legitimate.
@@devilisdev3064 yeah it does, or it can at least. Since people are assigned one of the binary genders at birth, being nonbinary means by default you identify with something other than your AGAB, therefore falls under the trans umbrella. The white stripe in the trans flag is for nonbinary identities as well as transitioning. That said, some enbies identify as trans and some don't
@@fevre_dream8542 oh well thank you for supporting!
5:21 swing genderfluid representation made me happy
Jammie:Makes memes for most lgbtq+
Me:sad genderfluid noises
maybe he'll find a genderfluid subreddit to look through! The fanbase should ask him to do that one day
Greetings all Genderfluid mates. It's disappointing how underrated Genderfluid is.
Hi other gender-fluid being!!
I’m gender flux. Hello friend. 🌈
I'm genderfaun :p
to whoever needs to see this…u are loved. u matter. u are beautiful. you can dress feminine still be a man. you can dress masculine and still be a woman. you can be agender or nb without looking adroynous. if u are tucking or binding, plz do it safely and drink lots of water. as a trans guy who doesn’t want to change his appereance or anything, i remind myself i’m still a guy even tho i still look feminine. love u all and happy pride. as lady gaga said “love yourself today cuz baby u were born this way. “a different lover is not a sin!” you are wonderful ajd valid no matter who u are
Thank you
❤️
💖🤍💜🖤💙
Are abrosexuals valid?
Royal *Idiot* Absolutely!!!!
This sponsorship was better than literally every ad I've seen for June's Journey.
"Casually approach child" made me spit out my tea
I'm not trans, but I very much like the trans people in my life. Looking forward to sharing with them.
“what gender are you?”
Me, Satan: *hehehehehehehehehehe-*
Happy father's day from all of the trans kids who have adopted you as a father figure!!!!! ❤️❤️
Jamie is always so happy, it makes my day better
8:17
I'm a 12 year old non binary kid, about to turn 13, and puberty is starting. I'm kinda scared that I'll start to experience extreme dysphoria
Oh no! Umm i can give you a chair(🐎) if that helps
As a non-binary person, the whole "non-binary people are valid" thing makes me feel weird. I don't need others to validate me and say I'm valid. I need people to treat me how I ask to be treated. I get told I'm valid, but it rarely translates to action. Yes. My identity is valid and also just...what's wrong with "non-binary people are non-binary"
Yeah I was also thinking why not say “non-binary people are non-binary” because that’s what we are
I agree with everyone here. We’re all people.
2:50
Jamie: Is that why it's called a transgenderizer
Subtitle: Is that why it's called a transgender rights
UA-cam says trans rights folks
to everyone who sees this, you're amazing and im proud of you happy pride and DRINK SOME WATER!!!!! stay hydrated lovlies!!!
And also, touch grass. It's healthy. Happy pride month btw
No
Thanks and happy pride to you as well :)
Although I don't actually drink water lol
Thank you😊❤
Hearing Jammi pronounce “transnart” rhotically sent me lmfao
YES
Your hair always looks good, but it looks particularly stellar in this video
Hi, just your local cis person trying to learn more about trans people so that she can better support her friends, btw, Happy pride month from a fellow alphabet mafia member! (Btw, I’m panromantic :))
Aww that's great ur educating urself. Jamie is perfect for that. And one topic at a time is great too. He's a great lgbtq ally that covers lgbtq subrettits
@@luco663 Yeah, I watch both. The two of them are educational but still funny and entertaining!
@@phebob3979 oki
I feel like the notities joke is funnier when you know "notities" is Dutch for notes.
Ohhhh that. makes sense
Yeah, that is a lot funnier, thank you!
I went to a bookstore not long ago and happened to overhear a conversation between two friends, picking pens in the trans flag colors, as a gift for their newly transitioned friend and I just though it was adorable 😍
Even though I am not trans, you have shown me it was ok to be lgbt! Thanks and happy pride!
Congrats! We love to see personal growth here!
I personally am the AAAAA trans. Also, I keep forgetting that Jamie is trans even tho he mentions it quite often. Little references to it and sometimes I'm like "wut" then I go "OH"
2:10
I wouldnt date a trans woman, Nor a cis woman, Nor anyone for that matter,
I have social anxiety still...
Help
Lol
'what trans are you' considering i almost choked on my food laughing upon hearing transnart, imma go w/ that lol