Nonbinary People Be Like

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  • @exogender7687
    @exogender7687 3 роки тому +1031

    "Are you girl nonbinary or boy nonbinary"
    Demigender people: Well yes, but actually no

    • @drygonfyre
      @drygonfyre 3 роки тому +108

      Right? As a demigirl, I guess I could say I'm a girl nonbinary, but uh.... that's not really how it works.

    • @drygonfyre
      @drygonfyre 3 роки тому +57

      @Taylor_the_confused_potato I think nonbinary girl/boy is different from girl/boy nonbinary, if that makes sense? There's a difference that makes sense in my head, anyway. Like, putting the girl/boy first puts more emphasis on the gendered part, so to me it reads like it's focusing on your AGAB instead of telling you what your alignment is.
      That's just how I read it. I'm not comfortable with calling myself a girl non-binary or non-binary girl, anyway.

    • @drygonfyre
      @drygonfyre 3 роки тому +44

      @Vlad The detailer No. Being non-binary just means that you aren't fully and completely male or fully and completely female. It covers any gender identity outside of the binary.
      Some non-binary people might be both male and female, either as bigender or androgyne, but many are only aligned with one, or with neither.

    • @MidnightEkaki
      @MidnightEkaki 3 роки тому +27

      Also bigender and genderfluid/genderflux people

    • @slashb7836
      @slashb7836 3 роки тому +10

      I'm demimale and I was thinking about the same

  • @Rain-np7tk
    @Rain-np7tk 3 роки тому +392

    If anyone asks if you're a guy or girl, respond with
    "I'm a threat"
    "but what's in your pants?"
    "A knife"

    • @CoryBranlafatt
      @CoryBranlafatt 3 роки тому +12

      that's exactly what my hufflepuff sister could say lol

    • @theemofemboycatgirlw3214
      @theemofemboycatgirlw3214 3 роки тому +10

      Nah I don't want a menacing charge I'll say something a lot less PG

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss 3 роки тому +7

      *👆👆👆THIS👆👆👆*

    • @theemofemboycatgirlw3214
      @theemofemboycatgirlw3214 3 роки тому +22

      @@FaerieWithAHalo or the classic pulling out whatever is in your trouser pockets and announcing sarcastically your gender is 42 pence and a peice of fluff

    • @lavender3609
      @lavender3609 3 роки тому +4

      *_wh e e z e-_*

  • @CyFiWasTaken
    @CyFiWasTaken 3 роки тому +2517

    Broke: Ladies, and gentlemen
    Woke: Guys, gals, and non-binary pals
    Bespoke: Scoundrels and gentlefolk

    • @miserablepumpkin9453
      @miserablepumpkin9453 3 роки тому +236

      Trash goblins and distinguished persons

    • @cynicalbutterscotch6581
      @cynicalbutterscotch6581 3 роки тому +134

      Gremlins and cowards and all of the inbetween

    • @Stephen-Fox
      @Stephen-Fox 3 роки тому +189

      In seriousness, I'm rather fond of 'esteemed guests' for it in the formal context ladies and gentlemen comes from.

    • @MicheLYount
      @MicheLYount 3 роки тому +133

      Laddies, lasses, and lassos

    • @cynicalbutterscotch6581
      @cynicalbutterscotch6581 3 роки тому +73

      @@MicheLYount that might really *click* with some people I know

  • @LostFaun
    @LostFaun 3 роки тому +506

    I was really nervous when I came out to my mom so she was a little freaked out. but when I did she just exhaled really hard and said "oh thank god, I thought you were pregnant" XD

    • @sinenomine4642
      @sinenomine4642 3 роки тому +81

      loll I was so nervous when I came out to my best friend that after I told her she was like omg thank god I thought you were like terminally ill 😂

    • @R_-qs4fo
      @R_-qs4fo 3 роки тому +13

      HAHAHHAHAB

    • @dahlilahanderson6928
      @dahlilahanderson6928 2 роки тому +3

      Lmfao

    • @chalkwarrior5542
      @chalkwarrior5542 2 роки тому +10

      out of all the coming out stories I've heard, this one has to be one of my favorites

    • @AceOfStars0
      @AceOfStars0 2 роки тому +6

      When I came out to my friend my other friend was there like pressuring me because I said I had wanted to do it for a while. He was saying stuff like, "I'm gonna keep staring at you until you tell him" (not in the bad friend way) but it went on for long enough that it started so sound like I was trying to say I had a crush on him lmao
      But no, I just don't have any gender

  • @twosistersah
    @twosistersah 3 роки тому +35

    “Are you a boy or a girl?”
    “I’m better than you”

  • @robertkillingsworth7149
    @robertkillingsworth7149 3 роки тому +3417

    My friend just came out as NB so I'm sending them this IMMEDIATELY

    • @lycaptain
      @lycaptain 3 роки тому +100

      that’s nice :)

    • @lycaptain
      @lycaptain 3 роки тому +134

      congrats to them for coming out!

    • @robertkillingsworth7149
      @robertkillingsworth7149 3 роки тому +180

      I am very proud of them, their parents are having a bit of trouble grasping the concept but they're trying at least lol

    • @thepastelgothunicorn6543
      @thepastelgothunicorn6543 3 роки тому +117

      "NB" stands for "non black" i believe, that's why we use "enby" /nm

    • @robertkillingsworth7149
      @robertkillingsworth7149 3 роки тому +104

      @@thepastelgothunicorn6543 Thank you for letting me know! I am also woefully undereducated on the subject lol.

  • @FriskKimura
    @FriskKimura 3 роки тому +2135

    “Every man and woman on earth will eventually die”
    Me, and all enbies: IT’S TOUGH TO BE A GOD
    Also, I heard that the non-binary term for Mum or Dad is Ren, and non-binary alternatives for queen or king is Monarch, and alternatives for prince or princess is Crown Royal

    • @ralucaioanagrigoras1489
      @ralucaioanagrigoras1489 3 роки тому +263

      hehe the same meme exists for aroace:
      "sexual and romantic attraction is what makes us human"
      us: It's tought to be a GOD :))

    • @carbonbeaker409
      @carbonbeaker409 3 роки тому +12

      :)

    • @blobfishyesblobfishgood4400
      @blobfishyesblobfishgood4400 3 роки тому +79

      Or nibi for an enby parent word! (N-no i dont pretend my plant children talk to me, what do you mean-)

    • @grimdarkartist9176
      @grimdarkartist9176 3 роки тому +73

      There’s also prin instead of prince or princess and moddy for mom or dad. There are lots of fun terms for enbies! ^-^

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 3 роки тому +69

      @@ralucaioanagrigoras1489 There's also a lot of overlap between aces and enbies. 3/4 of asexuals are some kind of nonbinary. It's one of the things that helped me figure it out, because when it comes to either sex or gender, I've got better things to do.

  • @friend_trilobot
    @friend_trilobot 3 роки тому +1232

    Let's also remember that "singular they" goes back to the 1400s (in writing - so likely older) while "you" used to be only plural and it was still slowly replacing singular "thee" and "thou" in the 1600s.

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 3 роки тому +50

      Specifically it goes back to a poem titled "William and the Werewolf" (derived from the French Guillame de Palerne) and was one of those rare instances in fiction where the werewolf isn't the villain.

    • @sillygoosetaur
      @sillygoosetaur 3 роки тому +54

      that’s it, we’re referring to everyone as thee/thou now

    • @alexisdumas84
      @alexisdumas84 3 роки тому +50

      Plus, even if they didn't have that history, why couldn't we change the language? Not having singular non-gendered pronouns for living things is a failure of language that should be rectified, after all, and for more than just nonbinary people.

    • @friend_trilobot
      @friend_trilobot 3 роки тому +33

      @@alexisdumas84 wholeheartedly agree! Besides, third person singular is literally the only time pronouns are gendered at all in English - its not a requirement of language - some languages don't Express gender in pronouns at all

    • @alexisdumas84
      @alexisdumas84 3 роки тому +15

      @@friend_trilobot precisely. Even when I was going through my teenage phase (largely caused by being brought up in a religious household) of being bigoted towards LGBTQ+ people, it still bothered me that English didn't have a non-gendered third person pronoun, just because sometimes the gender of the person you are talking about is unspecified, unspecifiable, or irrelevant. For instance, when doing philosophy and positing abstract rational actors.

  • @ThomasTrue
    @ThomasTrue 3 роки тому +184

    I am 58 and after a lifetime of hiding it, I came out as non-binary and pansexual on 30 June, last day of Pride month.
    And actually, Thomas isn't my name - True Thomas is just a moniker I took from a character in Scots folklore. My parents named me Leslie, which has turned out somewhat convenient, as I don't have to change anything, as what was traditionally the masculine spelling is now increasingly also used for girls. I have been misgendered all my life by people thinking I'm female.
    Great video, Jamie. You're a lovely man, and one of my favourite UA-camrs. Much love back to you.

    • @Z.A.M.1359
      @Z.A.M.1359 3 роки тому +11

      Congrats on coming out!

    • @captaincaspian42
      @captaincaspian42 3 роки тому +11

      That's awesome, I love seeing people come out in a positive way, no matter how long it takes to realize.😊

    • @MidnightSonnet
      @MidnightSonnet Рік тому +6

      Congrats! I'm 41 and only recently accepted that I'm NB. I've known since my mid twenties, but I hid it so as to not inconvenience people. I've only come out to my fiance, who's very supportive, thankfully, and one friend. Not sure if I'll tell my mom and sister. I know my sister wouldn't care, but I'm not sure about my 73 year old mom. She was awfully quiet when I came out as bi back in the day (I was and still am demi, but that wasn't a word back then) and she never brings up my ex gf. So I'm hesitant about revealing that the daughter she once knew was never actually there in the first place.
      Btw, personal question, but do you still misgender yourself here and there? I still do when I imagine folks referring to me, since that's all I've known and all I still hear, aside from my fiance. What helps you stay in the NB frame of mind?

    • @dotdotdot...176
      @dotdotdot...176 Рік тому +2

      Hi, I'm pansexual too and have been questioning my gender identity for some years now. I think I may identify with she/they pronouns. Anyway, I am proud of you. You are valid. And welcome to the community (even though you were already part of the community before you came out, I just don't know what other term to use than "welcome" to be... well, welcoming). I'm glad you are now able to live to your true self not just proudly but also openly (although there is nothing wrong with people not coming out either if they aren't ready, are still figuring it out or unfortunately don't have the supportive environment they should have or other factors.)
      And I don't know if this is true or not for your situation, but don't let anyone tell you that you are "in a phase" or "having a crisis" or that it was "too late" to come out or whatever. You are valid! The people who truly care about you will care about you all the same.
      (I'm sorry if this came across weird, I just want to show my supportiveness of you 😊)

  • @rikoryuki
    @rikoryuki 3 роки тому +33

    Teacher - "draw yourselves as the opposite gender"
    Me, who is agender - draws all the genders

    • @I_GET_NO_SL33P
      @I_GET_NO_SL33P 2 роки тому +5

      P A N G E N D E R

    • @zuzannanowicka6348
      @zuzannanowicka6348 7 місяців тому +3

      Tbh, that’s a good exercise for art (or draw any person/persona/figure known in the art world as the opposite gender - thx, might do so!)

  • @EnbyAxolotlOfficial
    @EnbyAxolotlOfficial 3 роки тому +490

    My brother forgot that sibling was already gender neutral so talking to his therapist he panicked and called me his nibling, now I know there's an actual meaning for it!

    • @idontknowreally2474
      @idontknowreally2474 3 роки тому +60

      thats adorable 💀 glad he's supportive!

    • @Z.A.M.1359
      @Z.A.M.1359 3 роки тому +9

      Aww.

    • @lincymoonen228
      @lincymoonen228 3 роки тому +21

      😂😂😂i love that even in a private moment as such, your brother panicked and tried everything he could to do the right thing

    • @theizzyrobbo
      @theizzyrobbo 3 роки тому +26

      Nibling is gender neutral for a niece or nephew I think

    • @peacefulleopard8016
      @peacefulleopard8016 3 роки тому +5

      I feel like a Nibling is also a thing from the Moomins...

  • @amyy782
    @amyy782 3 роки тому +954

    I will now only be referred to as m’theydy. IT IS MAJESTIC.

    • @boop963
      @boop963 3 роки тому +67

      Of course m'theydy :)

    • @FriskKimura
      @FriskKimura 3 роки тому +72

      *tips hat, holds door open, offers tea * M’theydy

    • @shiryoot
      @shiryoot 3 роки тому +41

      We are all m’theydys

    • @shisuiki
      @shisuiki 3 роки тому +38

      As you wish m'theydy

    • @blueberryscentedcandle
      @blueberryscentedcandle 3 роки тому +24

      Wonderful idea m'theydy

  • @ari_008
    @ari_008 3 роки тому +3043

    I hope your day is filled with joy. Non-binary people valid. Everyone is valid. Love is love. homophobes are loose sock threads. Stay proud ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @Pukeprincess
      @Pukeprincess 3 роки тому +102

      At least loose sock threads are fun to play with.

    • @ari_008
      @ari_008 3 роки тому +101

      @@Pukeprincess yes. I always rip them out. . .

    • @pumpkin1125
      @pumpkin1125 3 роки тому +33

      Thanks🥺

    • @ST4RB01_F0Xx
      @ST4RB01_F0Xx 3 роки тому +45

      Hello fellow genderless lesbian

    • @blueberryscentedcandle
      @blueberryscentedcandle 3 роки тому +79

      Gay, bi, pan, aro/ace, omni, poly, demi, whatever = valid and beautiful. Trans boy, trans girl, nonbinary, demigender, agender, trigender, pangender, bigender, whatever = valid and beautiful.

  • @squirrel.fingers
    @squirrel.fingers 3 роки тому +22

    i’m nb (she/they/them) and i work with little kids and one of them asked me if i was a boy or a girl and i said “that’s up for you to decide” and he said “you’re a boy” then casually walked away, and when i tell you the gender euphoria that i experienced was incredible.

    • @tinkeramma
      @tinkeramma 3 роки тому +5

      My daughter has asked me that about other people since she was 3. She's 5 now.
      My favorite response is, "Does it matter?"

  • @lyssvanessen7273
    @lyssvanessen7273 3 роки тому +159

    My partner and I are both non binary and we call each other theyfriends. I can't even explain how happy it makes me to have a partner who gets that stuff right off the bat.

    • @chrisgrimstad9985
      @chrisgrimstad9985 3 роки тому +4

      awwww that's amazing

    • @rose2164
      @rose2164 3 роки тому +13

      I've heard someone call their partner 'joyfriend', I nearly cried at how cute that is

    • @leew1341
      @leew1341 2 роки тому +5

      My gf called me her Datemate, which I particularly enjoy! :)

    • @gwendalynnwatkins1296
      @gwendalynnwatkins1296 2 роки тому

      Before my friend's girlfriend came out as trans, we called her their themfriend

  • @Alicia-zf3nq
    @Alicia-zf3nq 3 роки тому +1591

    The Netherlands is still in the process of figuring out what to use as a gender-neutral pronoun since they never existed in Dutch and non-binary people are only just getting visibility here. But as I was writing in Dutch a while back, I found myself creating my own Dutch neopronouns to refer to someone I met online because I knew they used they/them pronouns. It's really that simple to respect people's (lack of) gender and I hope others will realise that soon too

    • @Honk4frogs
      @Honk4frogs 3 роки тому +82

      I use ze/hun as my pronouns in Dutch,, but I do get that that can be awkward, especially for afab nb's. What neopronouns did you come up with?

    • @b.h.4249
      @b.h.4249 3 роки тому +20

      @@firasjemil213 Why not both? I wish my government concerned itself with such issues.

    • @GaryDunion
      @GaryDunion 3 роки тому +49

      I speak a bit of German so I thought Dutch pronoun system would be pretty familiar, but I just looked it up and damn, it's definitely not and it's super interesting! I can see why the Netherlands is finding it tricky to decide on how to do gender-neutral personal pronouns. The thing about "haar-ziekte" is especially fascinating.

    • @askialuna7717
      @askialuna7717 3 роки тому +34

      Only a small info:
      Non-Binary means not only lack of gender but in principle everything that is not assigned to, e.g. man and woman.
      If man and woman are two end poles of a scale e.g. 0 and 1 then 0.5 would also count as nonbinary so all those who define themselves in terms of gender
      between man and woman, both at the same time also belong to the Non-Binary category.
      And all others who are outside this Scala and have other categories for their gender identity and which persons have lack of gender.
      I am an agender myself and my identity does not include a gender, or I haven't found it :-).

    • @nikverhoef
      @nikverhoef 3 роки тому +48

      @@Honk4frogs That's why I use die/(hun/)hen or hen/(hun/)hen (or z'r, or diens, though that's kind of old-fashioned), but I'm also curious what Dutch gender neutral pronouns other people have come up with (I've also heard of dei or dij as a sort of Dutch version of "they")

  • @distinguishedfrog7399
    @distinguishedfrog7399 3 роки тому +203

    At school when we were playing dodgeball and we were playing boys v girls, the teacher would let me and other non binary classmates choose our teams, damn she was awesome

    • @ZijnShayatanica
      @ZijnShayatanica 3 роки тому +28

      I was never recognized as NB/trans & didn't even know what the fuck that meant, but... I remember I usually wound up getting to pick whatever team I went on & it felt so fucking good. At least until puberty because then my boobs decided for me & I was suddenly "distracting". 🙄

    • @MidnightEkaki
      @MidnightEkaki 3 роки тому +13

      Thats awesome. Didnt even know nonbinary was a thing when I went to school (that was around 10 years ago)

    • @tinkeramma
      @tinkeramma 3 роки тому +4

      @@ZijnShayatanica It still surprises me just how much boobs are annoying and in the way endlessly.

  • @myshoesareuntied3525
    @myshoesareuntied3525 3 роки тому +195

    every time i see the word non-binary i automatically think of the “how do non-binary samurais kill people” i literally cant escape it

    • @mickytherat8020
      @mickytherat8020 3 роки тому +51

      They / them

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 3 роки тому +25

      See also, how do nonbinary fanfic writers depict relationships between their favorite characters?

    • @mickytherat8020
      @mickytherat8020 3 роки тому +21

      Dont forget: Why did the non-binary prospector move west in 1849

    • @chappelled
      @chappelled 3 роки тому +6

      @@FrozEnbyWolf150 wait ive never heard that one

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 3 роки тому +18

      ​@@chappelled Slash fiction. It's when fanfic writers portray homosexual relationships between two lead characters of a franchise, i.e. Kirk / Spock, or Cloud / Sephiroth.

  • @hannahk1306
    @hannahk1306 3 роки тому +138

    This feels like the appropriate audience to share this with - my work has recently changed its dress code policy from traditional office wear to "dress for your day". As part of this, there's a section on gender inclusivity that says that anyone can wear any appropriate items of clothing regardless of the gender it's typically associated with.
    I'm cis, but hope someone in the company was made very happy reading that.

    • @Z.A.M.1359
      @Z.A.M.1359 3 роки тому +20

      I'm happy reading that. Thanks for sharing!

  • @nschannel826
    @nschannel826 3 роки тому +27

    "yeah but like are you girl nonbinary or boy nonbinary?"
    Me, a boy-girl bigender: *_Yes_*

  • @FlawlessKevin
    @FlawlessKevin 3 роки тому +276

    This video was made for me

  • @hitchikerhobbit681
    @hitchikerhobbit681 3 роки тому +219

    My sister’s baby isn’t old enough to say it yet, but my family all refer to me as “Pibling” around them (parent’s sibling) and I LOVE it 💜

    • @novaava
      @novaava 3 роки тому +5

      That's adorable.

    • @yunicelennar7626
      @yunicelennar7626 3 роки тому +2

      Wow, that's so clever! Good for you c:

    • @SamirCCat
      @SamirCCat 3 роки тому +6

      I'd have prefered pibling too! I'm cis, but it was very uncomfortable being called "aunt" when I were in my 20s!!

    • @emilycrowleyyy
      @emilycrowleyyy 3 роки тому +2

      oh that's SO CUTE :')

  • @GreyAngel
    @GreyAngel 3 роки тому +147

    "It's Nobody's business" had me giggling cause I'm a mythology nerd and I remembered The Odyssey

    • @Z.A.M.1359
      @Z.A.M.1359 3 роки тому +8

      Nobody must be the doctor. XD
      I've been watching Doom Patrol where the main villain is Mr. Nobody, and I keep waiting for him to blind someone.

    • @FaerieWithAHalo
      @FaerieWithAHalo 3 роки тому +7

      I love mythology (specifically Greek and Roman) and now I can’t think about this any other way!

    • @tesssimmons234
      @tesssimmons234 3 роки тому

      :,)

    • @sabiangriffin3713
      @sabiangriffin3713 3 роки тому +3

      οὖτις knows your gender

    • @buggymah
      @buggymah 2 місяці тому

      It’s Odysseus’s business what your gender is apparently. You and me both. Mythology nerds unite

  • @appleaffl1928
    @appleaffl1928 3 роки тому +32

    I was listening to this podcast that has a non binary character in, and one of the other characters addressed everyone as "ladies and gentlemen, friends beyond binary" and I just loved that

  • @jaelove.bts7
    @jaelove.bts7 Рік тому +3

    honestly going to a private military school and everyone wearing the same uniforms kept me from truly questioning my gender. i still experienced dysphoria but it wasn’t as bad bc we all looked the same. it wasn’t until i graduated hs & started college that i realized i always dressed super gender neutral that my mom was like “why don’t you try putting on a dress one day, you might catch a guy’s attention” and i literally thought to myself “being a girl is not for me” not even knowing what exactly i meant by that. pansexual and non-binary person here 😭💁🏾
    edit: also just watched a few of your non-binary content & i feel very much seen. 🫶🏽🏳️‍🌈

  • @eliasramos1145
    @eliasramos1145 3 роки тому +150

    My mom when she found out i'm non-binary: SO YOU HAVE BEEN LYING TO ME ALL THIS TIME?? WHY WAS I THE LAST ONE TO KNOW?
    My mom 2 years later and after my sister also came out as trans: hii, just wanted to let you know that i have been researching and reading a lot about trans kids. I also joined four parent support groups, and I wanted to ask if I'm doing everything right.

    • @Z.A.M.1359
      @Z.A.M.1359 3 роки тому +28

      I love how she was mad she didn't get to support you for longer.

    • @tinkeramma
      @tinkeramma 3 роки тому +9

      I adore your mom. That's exactly how I want to be with my kids.

    • @irdairda514
      @irdairda514 3 роки тому +20

      So.... I have to ask....do you have a good replacement for the word daughter/son? Asking because my eldest (now adult) child is non-binary and I just cannot find a good replacement word that doesn't sound like I am referring to a young child or an animal. I know child/kid are gender neutral, but it doesn't feel right for an adult. I have been referring to them as my eldest, but my husband doesn't like that as it makes him think of old people instead of our kid. Offspring sounds like they came out of a breeding program, sprog makes me think of a little kid..... english is missing some words, we need to fix that.

    • @irdairda514
      @irdairda514 3 роки тому +15

      seriously considering calling them my spud, will probably confuse everyone around us though.

    • @eliasramos1145
      @eliasramos1145 3 роки тому +7

      @@irdairda514 Sorry, i live in a non english speaker country, so i don't really know what would sound best in that case, but i love the spud idea lol

  • @Prickly_Cactus_1993
    @Prickly_Cactus_1993 3 роки тому +807

    Hey, everyone. I know some of you have been having horrific times, so I’m just here to remind you that you’re loved. You all deserve the world, and I’m very glad to have you all here still with us You will always, always be valid, needed and incredible people. Please, don’t forget to take care of yourselves today. I believe in you and hope your week has been amazing so far.

  • @felixmoses3584
    @felixmoses3584 3 роки тому +287

    "You" used to be plural too. And you bet people were annoyed as it became singular, but now nobody cares. Seems like how 'they' might turn out in a hundred years. If that happens I'm looking forwards to t'all (Like y'all, but with they).

    • @breakingboardrooms1778
      @breakingboardrooms1778 3 роки тому +17

      I love t'all, and will start using it now.

    • @shawqin992
      @shawqin992 3 роки тому +27

      It'll probably be th'all but it sounds fun haha

    • @eli_026
      @eli_026 3 роки тому +32

      The annoying thing is singular they has been in use longer in writing than singular informal you and yet transphobes still don’t get it

    • @dustinm2717
      @dustinm2717 3 роки тому +9

      「ð'all're up, are y'all up too?」
      (ð for those who don't know, is the voiced th sound in they or the or though (not to be confused with the unvoiced th in thunder or thorn))

    • @gulgaffel
      @gulgaffel 3 роки тому +3

      They have been used for singular for longer than you have been used for singular.

  • @Ghostpenguin_and_Flowers
    @Ghostpenguin_and_Flowers 3 роки тому +6

    I love the feeling when people ask if im a girl or boy and i just look at them and say nether and they look confused .it brings me happiness

  • @EnabiSeira
    @EnabiSeira 3 роки тому +60

    As Bruno Mars said once:
    "When I see your face
    There's not a thing that I would change
    'Cause you're amazing
    Just the way you are
    And when you smile
    The whole world stops and stares for a while
    'Cause you're amazing
    Just the way you are
    "

  • @tea-stems7835
    @tea-stems7835 3 роки тому +350

    I'm a person who falls under the binary and non binary umbrella you reading binary and non binary trans memes always makes my day

  • @barackobama4516
    @barackobama4516 3 роки тому +328

    im not nb but im a closeted bi girl living in a conservative, homophobic, racist, and trumpie state and honestly you keep me going jamie

  • @raba9_7
    @raba9_7 3 роки тому +308

    My English teacher (I'm from Germany, currently training) got me bubbling with anger last thursday, she said that you can call someone either he or she or may ask what they identify with because there is not other pronoun (except he/she/it but it only for stuff like the sun or a plant) while I'm out there going by they/them! Thank you for saving my week

    • @littlemissbump100
      @littlemissbump100 3 роки тому +65

      Your English teacher seems like they haven't studied English since 1317, as that is when the they/them pronoun was first used as singular

    • @CoryBranlafatt
      @CoryBranlafatt 3 роки тому +28

      Next time ask your teacher to sit with the other students and make a powerpoint with movie extract proving that they/them is valid as a singular pronoun ;) (kinding... mostly)

    • @SammyLammy1D
      @SammyLammy1D 3 роки тому +19

      @Louan_UwU yeah, I asked my German teacher what to use, and it became awkward real quick... I love the language, hate the lack of my pronouns. Although, in Sweden we say hen/hens/henom so I don't think we are much better, considering most cis people " joke" about enbys being birds or chickens....

    • @firasjemil213
      @firasjemil213 3 роки тому

      @@littlemissbump100 In the English language, we've never used the pronoun "they" to refer to someone we know their identity and their sex. We use it when the person is unknown to avoid saying "he or she"

    • @b.h.4249
      @b.h.4249 3 роки тому +21

      @@firasjemil213 Sure, but it being used as a singular pronoun in the first place makes it much easier to use when referring to non-binary people as you can just keep using it instead of having to invent a whole new pronoun.

  • @creakycrickets
    @creakycrickets 3 роки тому +14

    Thanks to whoever corrected that image at 2:10 👏 I came across the incredibly offensive “original” version posted on the Facebook page of an anti-feminist/religious zealot/homophobic group (by accident - a friend “liked” one of their benign posts and I went to the source).
    Anyway, I challenged them on it in a comment and said out how insulting and wrong the image was and why. They blocked me from their page, but one of my friends said they took down that post, so…a sort of victory…? 🙅🏻‍♀️🥳🧐
    Jamie has given me much more confidence to stand up to those types of people and let them know their “humor” isn’t funny or acceptable. Thanks, Jamie & Co. 🌈💖

  • @CyloRishi
    @CyloRishi 3 роки тому +12

    hey Jamey, as a non-binary human being I was asked by someone from an older generation what being non-binary meant and why I have a different name. Basically saying when I was younger I was in a costume most of my life and only recently found the strength to take the costume off as well as the name tag that wasn't my own. Her reaction and willingness to try and understand made me very happy I almost cried on the spot

  • @M_M_ODonnell
    @M_M_ODonnell 3 роки тому +148

    "NO PE" was me in high school; I did theatre for phys-ed credit instead of gym class. (Yay for stage-fight training!) I'd say "Does that make me two genders?", but I'm already genderfluid.

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 3 роки тому +14

      Pretty appropriate, since Phys Ed is that one class where many schools still segregate students by boys and girls. It fortunately wasn't that way in my school growing up, but I still hated that class.

    • @ThatCatmeow
      @ThatCatmeow 3 роки тому +5

      I wish I couldv'e taken theater for a phys-ed credit 😔

    • @neuralmute
      @neuralmute 3 роки тому

      @@ThatCatmeow Same - I would've *passed* theatre!

  • @xSilverxshadowx
    @xSilverxshadowx 3 роки тому +144

    I legally changed my name before I even fully came out as nonbinary to most people and it was actually VERY empowering. (This was after trying the name out for several months with my spouse and our close friends who I speak to every day and making sure I absolutely loved it.) I didn't have a single person try to "talk me out of" changing my name, because I had ALREADY DONE IT. I changed my coming out story from "here's what i'm thinking about doing" to "here's what i've already done, just catching you up" and I honestly cannot recommend it enough.

    • @alexshemwell8320
      @alexshemwell8320 3 роки тому +6

      Any advice for places to update after I get the legal name change document? I know social security, ID, and credit card, but I'm probably forgetting some stuff.

    • @milkflavoredicecream9659
      @milkflavoredicecream9659 3 роки тому +5

      @@alexshemwell8320 hi! youll want to update your social security before you update your BMV ID because BMV IDs verify your identity with your social security records :) youre also gonna want to update your birth certificate, your passport (if you have one), immigration documents (if youre an immigrant), and your voter registration if you're registered to vote. the order doesnt matter other than your social security card and ID. :)

    • @xSilverxshadowx
      @xSilverxshadowx 3 роки тому +7

      @@alexshemwell8320 Yes! The process is going to depend heavily on where you live, so I would suggest looking up guides for your specific state/country. Make a list (I used an app called Notion but you can use an excel spreadsheet or something similar) and write down the specific documents each thing needs and how to contact them. You will need to do some things in a particular order (for example if you need your new ID to change your bank accounts you would need to do your ID first). I kept all of my documents in a file folder and I took that folder with me to every appointment. Even if they say they just need your ID you would be surprised how often having the court order or an additional document came in handy.
      You will discover things as you go, but here is a good starting list (not necessarily in this order):
      - ID / drivers license
      - Social Security
      - Passport / Immigration records
      - Birth certificate
      - Credit cards / bank accounts / loans / checkbooks
      - Phone plan / voicemail
      - Insurance (health, car, home)
      - Car titles
      - Doctors / Dentists / Pharmacies / Therapists (make sure you tell your relevant insurance FIRST and find out when you can start having providers file claims under your new name)
      - College (whether you are a current or former student, you want potential employers to be able to confirm any degrees you earned under your new name)
      - Online accounts (emails, social media, Amazon, anything that uses your credit card will need to be updated once you change that)
      - Employers / Landlords / Professors
      - Post office (if necessary, usually you can just change the label in your mail box)
      - Financial accounts / retirement accounts
      - Voter registration
      - Library cards
      - Mortgage companies
      - Club Memberships (Costco, etc.)
      This list is not exhaustive so if anyone has others to add, please do!

    • @Pendrake
      @Pendrake 3 роки тому +8

      I 100% plan to change my legal name and not tell my conservative relatives. If they happen to get ahold of my id and wonder about it, I'll tell them I was a joke. Also planning to change my gender marker to x and if they notice I'll ask them "why does the government need to know my what's in my pants?" with utmost suspicion. I also plan to always 'jokingly' point out that my *legal* name is Robin, and there's nothing they can do to stop me.

    • @khunt5336
      @khunt5336 2 роки тому +2

      I know this comment is several months old but
      I read an article on queer people in France and one of the people interviewed had said that this was how it was in France, you didn't say "mom, dad, I think I'm gay" you come home and say "I'm gay, this is my boyfriend, that's just how it is." I don't know if it's actually true of all of France but I've spent a lot of time mulling over that potential cultural difference and how it can be summarized, and I think this comment echoes that basic idea very well.

  • @bilbofett891
    @bilbofett891 3 роки тому +101

    The Pumpkin King’s Decree:
    “The Patch welcomes all. Thou shalt only be excluded if thee tryeth to exclude others.”

  • @d.ssociation
    @d.ssociation 3 роки тому +9

    Just the other day, my best friend (who I’ve known since we were in kindergarten) and I accidentally started to come out to each other on text, through one of our text battles. (We go back and forth forever countering each other to see who can’t continue first.) We ended up calling and talking for over 7 hours, and during those seven hours, he came out as trans (ftm). I then came out as trans masc. and non-binary, and we both had a long, kind of fun talk about everything related to that. By the end of the day, we’d both decided to confidentiality change our names in just our online things that only we use. All the places our parents never check, basically. So now we both have our (in his case masculine and in my case more gender neutral) names in our chat app and other online apps. It’s been really freeing, even though we can only call each other by our new names and use our real pronouns around each other. It also helped us both knowing the other was also experiencing gender dysphoria, and it’s really amazing to have a friend like him 😊

  • @opposumboy
    @opposumboy 3 роки тому +11

    i thought i was nonbinary before figuring out that i'm a transman. the whole process of figuring myself out definitely helped me figure out who is really supportive of me and who isn't. it's so nice to see more support for nonbinary peeps!

  • @kadieleesilva773
    @kadieleesilva773 3 роки тому +72

    I nearly choked on the orange I was eating at “M’theydy” 😂😂😂

    • @dragonsaway9710
      @dragonsaway9710 3 роки тому +3

      Gentlethem too
      Welcome, ladies gentlemen aaaand gentethems to the greatest show of your life
      That kinda thing

  • @mightworth3735
    @mightworth3735 3 роки тому +84

    Teacher: today we are going to draw ourselves as the opposite gender
    Me, if I were non binary: draws three headed centaur cthulhu. One head gets a crown, one gets a halo and one has its tentacle beard dreaded into a baloon dog with flowers sticking from it.

    • @I_GET_NO_SL33P
      @I_GET_NO_SL33P 3 роки тому +7

      I need to see this

    • @chrisgrimstad9985
      @chrisgrimstad9985 3 роки тому +2

      @@I_GET_NO_SL33P SAME

    • @axoltheartist
      @axoltheartist 2 роки тому

      Hello I like your name. Do you happen to be a part of the aa community?

    • @acornmaybe
      @acornmaybe 2 роки тому

      as an agender person, idk how i would draw myself? me holding a pangender flag instead of agender?? no gender is the opposite of all gender i guess

  • @klifford4669
    @klifford4669 3 роки тому +257

    me and my friend age 14:
    me: yeah, we are girls!!
    my friend: right! it’s cool being a girl!
    me and my friend age 16:
    me: *confused in demigirl*
    my friend: *cries in genderfluid*

    • @mah1na
      @mah1na 3 роки тому +6

      RELATABLE hello fellow demigirl

    • @SammyLammy1D
      @SammyLammy1D 3 роки тому +3

      Hello fellow demigirl!!!

    • @schokoloko2092
      @schokoloko2092 3 роки тому +4

      Sorry, but what was demigirl or demiboy again? I mix those up way too often...

    • @klifford4669
      @klifford4669 3 роки тому +17

      @@schokoloko2092 demigirl basically means that you identify as a woman most of the time but like not fully (?) And demiboy is the same thing, but with boys
      (omg i hope i wrote that right, i am still trying to fully understand some labels)

    • @schokoloko2092
      @schokoloko2092 3 роки тому +5

      @@klifford4669 so it's kinda genderfluid but more specific? 🤔😅

  • @niameyers6686
    @niameyers6686 3 роки тому +17

    My younger sibling recently came out as non binary. I'm trying really hard to show them that I support them but sometimes I mess up and say she when they said they prefer he/they. Old habits are hard to break and I really hope I'm not hurting my little sibling.

    • @Rachel-fi4sc
      @Rachel-fi4sc 3 роки тому +3

      Most trans and non-binary people know when someone has just made an honest mistake out of habit.
      The important thing is to not call attention to your mistake. Going "OMG I'M SO SORRY I'M SUCH A BAD PERSON I DIDN'T MEAN TO MESS UP." is just a bit awkward for everyone. The best thing to do is simply go, "sorry, I meant [correct pronouns]" and move on.

  • @geekfreak2000
    @geekfreak2000 3 роки тому +10

    As a scientist, I can confirm there are more than 2 sexes accepted in biology. Intersex individuals and individuals without sex organs exist and have since the dawn of time. Also an organisms' hormones and environment are far more important than the reproductive organs in function and expression of certain traits. Humans are no different, and tons of variation exists in nature too. Hyena females are one example ( if a bit extreme) in how the appearance of a living things sex organs don't mean diddly squat in the long run. Psychology and my field, Neuroscience ( yay for brains!) also absolutely have solid scientific evidence that in many animals, including humans, that there are more than just binary male and female. Mice without reproductive organs are often used to help confirm certain results and different hormones are being looked at to see why some subsets of people are less or more prone to certain disorders. The reproductive organs are really not that important in the grand scheme of things 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @mschrisfrank2420
    @mschrisfrank2420 3 роки тому +215

    This video definitely lifted my spirits. Even though I’m 33, I’m in both the gender and sexuality closets because I live with my conservative parents. Every time I get included in a “girls’ night,” I die a little inside.

    • @22b_gc8
      @22b_gc8 3 роки тому +22

      Hope good times find you soon💛

    • @ZijnShayatanica
      @ZijnShayatanica 3 роки тому +30

      Seriously!! And if I hear _"you go, girl!"_ one more time, I'm finna GO... To jail. 😆🤣

    • @tinkeramma
      @tinkeramma 3 роки тому +16

      @@ZijnShayatanica What about, "You go, friend!" Would that be something that you feel at peace hearing about yourself?
      Asking as an ally. I know not all people in a similar situation have the same preferences, but I'm always looking for ways to be a positive voice in the crowd of too much ugly.

    • @ZijnShayatanica
      @ZijnShayatanica 3 роки тому +15

      @@tinkeramma That sounds pretty good. Or "You got this!" IDK.
      I really appreciate you taking the time to learn more. 💜

    • @tinkeramma
      @tinkeramma 3 роки тому +17

      @@ZijnShayatanica Or in the words of my 5 year old daughter, "You're crushin' it!"
      It's one of her favorite things to say to people working out, doing something she thinks is hard, or who have put effort into how they look. And she does not discriminate by gender or how awkward it is to approach a random stranger.

  • @yee-raplantar-maximoff4318
    @yee-raplantar-maximoff4318 3 роки тому +11

    “You... are YOU!”
    -Hooty from the Owl House

  • @HotDogTimeMachine385
    @HotDogTimeMachine385 3 роки тому +107

    Drawing and thinking about yourself as the opposite gender as a child would probably help tons of trans kids honestly. One of the biggest hurdles is not even realizing that's an option.

    • @schokoloko2092
      @schokoloko2092 3 роки тому +6

      Hmm interesting thought! 🤔
      Maybe you could make a task to draw yourself with any gender you'd like. So you would have the opportunity to try something out, without the binary shit.

    • @Z.A.M.1359
      @Z.A.M.1359 3 роки тому +13

      So glad for the modern internet trend of rule 63: all characters gender-swapped.

    • @conejitoburrito6526
      @conejitoburrito6526 3 роки тому +6

      As a kid, my siblings and I would dress in each other's clothes, and I would call my brother my sister and my sister my brother. My parents never objected. They didn't do a lot of things right as those things go, but that was one of them.

    • @lincymoonen228
      @lincymoonen228 3 роки тому +16

      They’d better say “draw yourself as an other gender” instead of “the other gender”, implying there is only 2

    • @neuralmute
      @neuralmute 3 роки тому +6

      I used to draw myself like that all the time when I was a kid, mostly because I was drawing myself into my favourite stories, and the boys always had the best parts, even if the girls had better clothes. No surprise whatsoever that I've grown up to be a genderfluid enby.

  • @bristoloreilly2838
    @bristoloreilly2838 3 роки тому +8

    My daughter has a friend who came out as transgender at the end of grade 8 (they are in grade 10 now) and they just received their grade 9 year books. The school, despite the teachers and students all calling the boy by his new name last year from the start, for some reason printed his dead name in the yearbook. So my daughter and her friends got together and convinced the other kids in their grade to scribble it out and get him to sign his name underneath the picture.

  • @hydroxa4330
    @hydroxa4330 3 роки тому +6

    "Are you a boy or girl?"
    "I'm cute!"
    That's what I'm using from now on, that's my exact thought process. My gender is cuteness

  • @animalgirl2241
    @animalgirl2241 3 роки тому +102

    At school one of my friends is non-binary (assigned female at birth) They we’re in the bathroom (they don’t like going into the bathroom because we don’t have non gendered bathrooms) and I was just leaving and they just walked over to be and hugged me and didn’t let go for awhile
    It was so sweet 🥺

    • @boop963
      @boop963 3 роки тому +26

      Although I appreciate that you care for your friend and I think it's very sweet I think it wasn't necessary to include their assigned gender (I would make sure to avoid doing this as it can be hurtful) I know you mean well tho! :)

    • @LilThreat88
      @LilThreat88 3 роки тому +8

      How sweet, thank you for sharing! They seem to be really grateful that you're in their life

    • @firasjemil213
      @firasjemil213 3 роки тому

      Is it just me or are all "non binaries" unattractive teenage girls?

    • @SammyLammy1D
      @SammyLammy1D 3 роки тому +32

      @@firasjemil213 excuse you ?

    • @chimerasofhafgufa
      @chimerasofhafgufa 3 роки тому +27

      @@firasjemil213 tf is wrong with you

  • @Cinderbloom
    @Cinderbloom 3 роки тому +64

    Just want to pop in and say: You can be a "girl nonbinary" or "boy nonbinary", even if that doesn't entirely explain it. If your gender is both feminine -and- other, but not masculine, that is completely normal. Non-Binary is a very big umbrella group, and in addition to Non-Binary people, it also includes several subsects within it.
    Anyone who are not strictly "man" or "woman" fits into non-binary, whether they are Genderqueen, Genderfluid, Agender, Demi-, Neuter, etc!
    Still not a cool thing for someone to ask, but it is important to keep in mind.

    • @coralovesnature
      @coralovesnature 3 роки тому +16

      I agree with what you said, but I think usually when (cis) people ask this, what they are really implying is "ok, I'll entertain your silly made-up gender, but I want to know what your genitals are". I'm sure you are already aware of those implications, but just wanted to point it out for anyone who is not familiar with why asking is rude.

    • @lightrayy
      @lightrayy 2 роки тому

      Girl nonbinary doesn't exist , the correct term is demigirl and boy nonbinary doesn't exist, the correct term is demiboy

    • @kgamesnyc
      @kgamesnyc Рік тому

      as a genderfluid person, i identify as *yes*

  • @KarkaranosBuilds
    @KarkaranosBuilds 3 роки тому +52

    4:10 Hey, that’s Cheryl from the trans-focused Webtoon “I want to be a cute anime girl”. It’s a really good comic.

  • @Trash6661
    @Trash6661 2 роки тому +7

    I’m gonna start calling my non binary homies “M’theydy”
    Update: called one of them M’theydy and they loved it so much they’re now calling their partner M’theydy (who also loves it)

  • @AussieBearr
    @AussieBearr 3 роки тому +19

    as a genderfluid who sometimes identifies with they/them pronouns, this is very cute. much love to all enbies out there, you're all amazing.

    • @jujugatolliat9644
      @jujugatolliat9644 Рік тому

      When did you decide that ?

    • @kgamesnyc
      @kgamesnyc Рік тому

      @@jujugatolliat9644 does it really matter? stop asking queer people pointless questions.

  • @alaynahabbas9439
    @alaynahabbas9439 3 роки тому +47

    I love how both him and OT when reading the four genders joke at the beginning said no pee instead of nope. 😂

  • @mkpfunny6970
    @mkpfunny6970 3 роки тому +34

    I can’t count the amount of times someone has said to me, “But, your a girl right?” I just want to scream every time, “NO, I JUST EXPLAINED TO YOU WHAT I AM!!!!”

    • @BigGayIncorporated
      @BigGayIncorporated 2 роки тому

      Time to stop explaining, then. State the facts, if they don't like it, they can fuck off. You don't need unnecessary bullshit like that. Bigoted comments like that shouldn't be given a single speck of attention. :)

  • @zinkheroofyoutube8004
    @zinkheroofyoutube8004 3 роки тому +22

    My creative writing teacher gave us a prompt where we wrote about ourselves as either the opposite gender or an animal
    I did both

  • @britishbeano
    @britishbeano Рік тому +2

    'Never ask:
    A man their salary,
    A woman their age,
    Or fazbear entertainment where your children are.'

  • @KaydenS8108
    @KaydenS8108 Рік тому +3

    When my teacher used to ask us to seperate between boys and girls, i always said to my friends, "Crap. We gotta go back to the default."

    • @SteveTholomule
      @SteveTholomule Рік тому +2

      Frrrrr non binary struggles (especially if you’re closeted)

  • @run8372
    @run8372 3 роки тому +72

    I’ve unfortunately never been able to experience that feeling of gender euphoria where a person just can’t figure out which gender they think I am. Either they see me when I’m dressed masculine and think I’m a boy or I’m dressed feminine and they think I’m a flat chested girl

    • @lincymoonen228
      @lincymoonen228 3 роки тому +2

      But what gender are you though? (Trying to replicate the situation so that you get to experience it also but it not working because its online). I hope you get to experience it soon 🖤. Also what works for me (im afab so maybe it wont work when your amab) is just hiding yourself in big trousers, a big hoody, a beanie or hat and put on your mask 😂 but yeah, id rather live my life without hiding

    • @run8372
      @run8372 3 роки тому +2

      @@lincymoonen228 I’m non-binary so I just want someone to not assume that I’m a boy or a girl for once in my life

    • @GraupeLie
      @GraupeLie 3 роки тому +4

      I've never experienced that either and never will because I'm sadly very short and curvy. I wish I looked as androgynous as I feel but I never am perceived as anything but a woman :/

    • @coralovesnature
      @coralovesnature 3 роки тому +3

      Unfortunately, depending on where you live, the vast majority of society isn't even aware that non-binary is an option, so boy/girl is the first thing try to figure out about you. Although sometimes if people do think you're something other than cis I feel they are ruder to you. For example, when I go on walks in our neighborhood with my partner, I will smile and nod politely as we pass by people and a lot of people just scowl at me in a confused way rather than smile and nod politely back. My partner is also a large Native American man, so I'm never quite sure if their rudeness is because they think I'm a gay twink boy, they think I'm a mtf trans woman, they are racist against my partner, or they just have no social skills. Or if I am out on my own I kind of assume people think I'm a butch lesbian. Basically, everything except what I actually am, which is non-binary (afab), because only people who are involved in the LGBT+ community actually consider it as an option.

    • @lincymoonen228
      @lincymoonen228 3 роки тому +3

      @@coralovesnature very true. I hope with enough education we can change the way people think a bit

  • @Nimatoir
    @Nimatoir 3 роки тому +115

    Me: This weekend can't possibly get better
    Jamie: *You underestimate my power*

    • @at3091
      @at3091 3 роки тому +1

      Did you mean to type underestimate instead :0

    • @Nimatoir
      @Nimatoir 3 роки тому +2

      @@at3091 Oh, yeah sorry lol

  • @jaydeniguess485
    @jaydeniguess485 3 роки тому +131

    This makes my non-binary heart happy :)

  • @LonganNguyen762
    @LonganNguyen762 7 місяців тому +3

    I'm non-binary, and my friends call me "person with organs" instead of "ma'am" or "sir". It's w o n d e r f u l

  • @happyartful5042
    @happyartful5042 3 роки тому +9

    I'm really glad you make these vids. Unfortunately even WITHIN the community, non-binary people are often ignored and invalidated constantly. Don't even get me started on how ppl treat those with neo pronouns. It's such a breath of fresh air.🥰🌈

  • @melfels1247
    @melfels1247 3 роки тому +140

    Oh yes, nonbinary content!! :)
    Also, hi Jamie, hope you have a great day/evening/night!

  • @meowmeowcat99
    @meowmeowcat99 3 роки тому +78

    In school I felt like I didn’t fit either group really but I preferred the girls group.
    I was forced to be in the boys group for sports. I am enby/demiwoman(?) and it’s one of those things looking back, it is so dumb.

    • @rebeccablue4818
      @rebeccablue4818 3 роки тому +9

      I was so happy to be in a mixed PE group for a couple years in high school. Then we got older and the teachers claimed "it's not fair because of the natural difference in strength between the boys and the girls" so we lost it. But it was great while we had it. I got to wear a t-shirt and shorts over my swimming costume and it was allowed for privacy from the boys' eyes in the mixed group, but then in the girls' it wasn't allowed anymore even though I still wasn't comfortable in just a swimming costume. Wish I'd known about all this gender stuff then, it might've been easier to figure out.

    • @sarahstardust
      @sarahstardust 3 роки тому +7

      I always preferred to group with guys if given the choice when I was in school. Still do, lol. I didn't know that being nonbinary was a thing until I was an adult, though. All I knew was I felt out of place with the girls but didn't really want to be a boy either. I'm slowly coming out at 35.

    • @pheonixrises11
      @pheonixrises11 3 роки тому

      I had a pe class where I was in the girls group but most of them didn’t want to play any sports, making it not fun to be there.
      it was really frustrating watching all the guys have fun, while my friend and I were running up and down the field by ourselves(friend made it fun tho)

  • @jessicam3233
    @jessicam3233 3 роки тому +34

    My class had a writing prompt once to write about being the opposite gender. Idk if anyone in the class was non-binary, but as a class discussion we concluded that nothing would change about our teacher. Her personality was so uniquely *their's* that they would look, act, be the exact same person no matter their body. "Non-binary" wasn't a term being used at that time, so we had no label for it other than saying she would be exactly the same.

  • @randomsadbisexual9394
    @randomsadbisexual9394 3 роки тому +5

    As an enby who just found out who I am, I can happily say that I genuinely made an excited squeal when I saw that Jaimie made a video about enbies :)))))
    Jaimie, you make my day better every time I see your content. Hope y’all have a nice day ❤️❤️🐸🐸🌿🌿🍄🍄🌟🌟

  • @arcade8937
    @arcade8937 3 роки тому +2

    There's this boy in my grade and he goes like this: "they is ..." or he/she are ..."
    Bruh....we ARE LITERALLY IN ENGLISH CLASS and WE ARE TALKING IN PRONOUNS
    IM DYING RN

  • @Hedgekittyy
    @Hedgekittyy 3 роки тому +26

    My boyfriend is straight/cis and I'm pan/nonbinary. He is my biggest supporter and didn't bat an eye when I asked to be called partner instead of girlfriend. It's such a great feeling to have someone support my identity no matter what

    • @RandomEdits084
      @RandomEdits084 3 роки тому

      Wait, he can’t be straight when he’s dating a NB. He has to be Pan. No offense just pointing that out.

    • @Hedgekittyy
      @Hedgekittyy 3 роки тому +2

      @@RandomEdits084 straight...adjacent

    • @LianTheInvisible
      @LianTheInvisible 3 роки тому +6

      @@RandomEdits084 i agree with what you say (but I think you can also be Bi or Omni and still be dating a non binary person).....but I also think that If the non binary person involved in the relationship don't feel unconfortable about their boyfriend's sexuality then it's no one else business.

    • @RandomEdits084
      @RandomEdits084 3 роки тому +2

      @@Kian_0708 As a lesbian myself, I’m pretty confident our L label doesn’t include NB. I find it offensive to erase what LESBIAN means. It’s exclusively for WOMEN WHO LOVE WOMEN, not women who love non-male. That’s what pan/bi/queer labels are for. Also, Straight means people who are attracted to OPPOSITE GENDER. NB is not in gender binary, so yeah, the label straight is not for their boyfriend. I’m not picking on them or anything, just simply pointing that they mislabeled their boyfriend. Maybe like, have some respect for common sense, guys? You could use your correct terms without budging in other people’s labels.

    • @chanbaeklayingontaehyungsg3231
      @chanbaeklayingontaehyungsg3231 3 роки тому +2

      @@RandomEdits084 all sexuality’s include nb and trans people?? Lesbian does too it be transphobic if it didn’t.

  • @jc6034
    @jc6034 3 роки тому +10

    Our PE teacher always makes us split up into boys and girls lines so I stand in the middle and my friend (who is a Demigirl) stands between me and the girls line😅

    • @blaird_5368
      @blaird_5368 3 роки тому +4

      I wish I had the confidence u have ❤️

  • @timotheeistrash
    @timotheeistrash 3 роки тому +13

    So I am a non-binary with a shaved head and one time someone at my school asked if I was male or female and I hesitated then responded with, "yes" 😅

  • @emilybeaudette9917
    @emilybeaudette9917 3 роки тому +5

    I always hated in English classes when we were taught that we had to use he/him as the “neutral” pronouns in formal essays. I tried to get around it by writing things like “a person” or “a reader” or something actually neutral. Now I’m so happy to see more people accepting and creating more gender neutral pronouns

    • @I_GET_NO_SL33P
      @I_GET_NO_SL33P 2 роки тому

      He/him isn't gender neutral what? Your teacher sounds like they didn't actually learn the subject they teach :/

  • @Pvnk_Eternal
    @Pvnk_Eternal 3 роки тому +3

    Over the last month I've had the courage to tell 2 of my closest friends that I'm Non-binary. I'm still struggling with what to say to my parents and partner.. thank you for the validation and spark of courage.

  • @Chris-wd6yq
    @Chris-wd6yq 3 роки тому +12

    the drawing of oneself as the 'opposite' gender thing reminded me of when for some reason our p.e teacher split the class into boys and girls and my gender fluid friend and I just looked at each other like.. ah... yes.

  • @milesperez4627
    @milesperez4627 3 роки тому +25

    I don't know what my gender is so these videos are just me popping in and vibing with jamie while seeing what all there is

  • @Z.A.N.E
    @Z.A.N.E 3 роки тому +92

    I was honestly having a really rough time with my dysphoria recently so this was honestly just the wholesome enby content I needed
    Thank you as always Jamie.

    • @ghosty4892
      @ghosty4892 3 роки тому +6

      Hi,i hope your day is gonna be better. I bet you look really cool today!

    • @Z.A.N.E
      @Z.A.N.E 3 роки тому +7

      @@ghosty4892 awe thanks. Tbh- not really my mom forced me to wear some stuff I don't want to, but I really do appreciate it
      I hope you have a good day 🤍

    • @ghosty4892
      @ghosty4892 3 роки тому +4

      @@Z.A.N.E oh im sorry that she wont let you :(
      You seem like an amazing person. And i hope that soon you can dress how u want! Bc when u can u probably look as amazing as you are!!!!

    • @Z.A.N.E
      @Z.A.N.E 3 роки тому +4

      @@ghosty4892 thanks, you seem like a great person too. Thank you so much

  • @asloii_1749
    @asloii_1749 3 роки тому +9

    Omg I’m non-binary and it just makes me feel so good that people here are saying we are valid 🥰🥰🥰

  • @persistenturge
    @persistenturge 3 роки тому +3

    if someone called me m'theydy i wouldnt know if they were being supportive or trying to offend me.

  • @Cherrycreamsoda1
    @Cherrycreamsoda1 3 роки тому +6

    "I'm supportive of you and your identity ^--^"
    I mean that pickup line would so work on me hehe

  • @boop963
    @boop963 3 роки тому +44

    Love it when people cover enby memes I feel so included :)

  • @SVoided
    @SVoided 3 роки тому +34

    This video is so amazing.. I identify as non-binary (specifically agendered) and the amount of times at school where it’s spilt boys and girls I never know which way to go because I don’t identify with either. But knowing there’s a community out there which is supportive even is schools can’t show that through changing to be more accepting to people who don’t just identify as a boy or a girl is amazing

    • @SammyLammy1D
      @SammyLammy1D 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah. Pe sucks for me, demigirl. My English teacher is so heteronormative as well that he gave me less of a grade for using my friend's correct pronouns (she/they, same as me)

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 3 роки тому +6

      Oh, that just means you're exempt from the activities. Same goes for any laws that use "he or she" wording. Be they, do crimes.

    • @chrisheartman9263
      @chrisheartman9263 3 роки тому +1

      Sit alone. Fucking scream at the void with your actions that splitting into boys and girls is dumb.

  • @Itz_Syris_Studio
    @Itz_Syris_Studio Рік тому +1

    I remember one year in like 7th grade we were assigning cabins for the school camp that was coming up and at the time I was identifying as genderfluid and was mainly using they/them pronouns but I wasn’t out to most of my teachers so I didn’t have the courage (stupid social anxiety) to ask to be moved to the cabin that the LGBTQ+ students were in, and by the end of the camp I was *HEAVILY* regretting it because all the girls in my cabin knew and kept picking on me for not just asking to move, but the thing is at that school even if you asked them not to if you came out to the teachers and said you were changing your name or pronouns they would call your parents and tell them, and my parents are very homophobic and transphobic and even now as a pansexual, Demiromantic, genderfluid who mainly uses She/Her and They/them pronouns I still have to hide my identity from them

  • @Luna_-sw9ib
    @Luna_-sw9ib Місяць тому +1

    I think I’m so used to how the world outside of the LBGTQ+ community that i have gone and said before “I’m a girl non-binary” or even classifying myself as a female because i don’t want the homophobic boys in the back of the class to know about my gender and even with exercises were we have had to draw ourselves in the opposite gender i would go for male

  • @honkonyx8053
    @honkonyx8053 3 роки тому +39

    LMFAO I JUST GOT ANOTHER LGBTQ+ TEST UNDER THIS VIDEO EXCEPT IT HAD THE LESBIAN FLAG AS THE BACKGROUND 😭😭😭

    • @tea-stems7835
      @tea-stems7835 3 роки тому +1

      I get those all the time!!!

    • @honkonyx8053
      @honkonyx8053 3 роки тому

      @@tea-stems7835 Same lmfao, it’s like “I know I’m queer, you *don’t* have to keep asking 😭”

    • @Quesbe
      @Quesbe 3 роки тому +2

      What are LGBTQ+ test? Is it like if you are lesbian but you don't like swords then you get a bad grade?

    • @honkonyx8053
      @honkonyx8053 3 роки тому +4

      @@Quesbe LMFAO NOOOOO it’s like asking questions about your sexuality and attraction and it’s supposed to tell you if you’re queer or not 😭 (I used to take them a LOT when I was questioning lmfao)

    • @regulusmoon8458
      @regulusmoon8458 3 роки тому +1

      BRUH I GOT THE SAME ONE 😂

  • @MidoriyamaRArekusu
    @MidoriyamaRArekusu 3 роки тому +17

    (Me, in the middle of having an epiphany and feeling like I'm glowing inside.) Omg... that's it... those are my pronouns...
    NO/PE, I absolutely hated PE all through my life, how did I not see this before hand?

  • @Ray-pk9bs
    @Ray-pk9bs 3 роки тому +18

    as a non-binary person who gets misgendered and called my deadname on purpose all the time by kids at school, this video made me so happy

    • @SammyLammy1D
      @SammyLammy1D 3 роки тому +2

      I am so sorry. I hope it gets better for you, or you can change schools.

    • @Ray-pk9bs
      @Ray-pk9bs 3 роки тому +1

      @@SammyLammy1D yeah me too thank you ❤

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss 3 роки тому +1

      You. Are. Valid.

  • @alexandralignell5424
    @alexandralignell5424 3 роки тому +5

    I’m so happy lol, I pretty much just started my first year of gymnasium (like Swedish high school I think?) and I’m already seeing so many cool androgynous looking people with so many cool and unique styles and I’ve so far seen over 6 people with pride flag buttons on their bags! Ahh yesss!☺️Also I’m getting my first binder soon!!🥲🥲*happy tears* lmao YES!

    • @max-gg3bv
      @max-gg3bv 3 роки тому +4

      Same here, I recently moved and changed schools and here on the German Gymnasium so many people have little pride things, like bracelets, key chanes, etc. and that just makes me so happyyy! And I'm so happy for you that you can get your first binder soon!

  • @angelbay4925
    @angelbay4925 2 роки тому +3

    My dad will except nonbinary and genderfluid but not trans . I literally had to logically break it down. I so glad I have other support routes ( im nonbinary)

  • @Urmumsknddbdbdbd
    @Urmumsknddbdbdbd 3 роки тому +8

    7:24 it makes me so happy when people Can’t tell like even when it’s me on on Minecraft server it just makes me happy

  • @elegantdisarray
    @elegantdisarray 3 роки тому +15

    I'm nonbinary, and I love you Jamie! Most wholesome guy on the internet. Always bringing the best feels. (Unless you're collabing with OneTopic. Then it's just cuteness overload)
    😉✌

  • @jamieriddell160
    @jamieriddell160 3 роки тому +34

    I'm non binary and my deed pol just got finalised so I am officially my preferred name on record. It's been a long road with everything but it was worth it. I've loved Jamie's channel since 2019 and is definitely a highlight when I've had a bad day. I'm autistic and I haven't really ever had anything that's kept me inspired or engaged for so long before and I'm glad that I found this channel when I did.

    • @jamieriddell160
      @jamieriddell160 3 роки тому

      @Icannotthinkatthemoment 825 I wish you luck on your deed pol. Thank you.

  • @MehPepperGamer
    @MehPepperGamer 2 роки тому +1

    My mom saw the NB ring I bought and asked what it meant. She said she doesn't completely understand but hopes to one day & she still loves me. I'm grateful to finally feel comfortable in my skin--it's just taken 44 years to find that peace and acceptance.

  • @evakaname
    @evakaname Рік тому +2

    omg i MUST drop the "Hello their" on my NB partner like a dad joke greeting XD

  • @olivergardener5285
    @olivergardener5285 3 роки тому +14

    Random enby stereotype we should have: Non-binary people obsessed with art. No specific type of art, any art. Traditional, digital, photography, music. Anything.

    • @chryssi5132
      @chryssi5132 3 роки тому +4

      ...
      You know
      Today i didnt think i would get called out like this

    • @alymatronicdeeare8265
      @alymatronicdeeare8265 3 роки тому +1

      *hides my art stuff*

    • @slashb7836
      @slashb7836 3 роки тому +3

      No, we're God

    • @olivergardener5285
      @olivergardener5285 3 роки тому +2

      I didn't know so many other people loved art stuff like me :'D

    • @chryssi5132
      @chryssi5132 3 роки тому +1

      @@olivergardener5285 yeah, I actually was just created a small art portfolio for my ocs lol

  • @Rockhoppr3
    @Rockhoppr3 3 роки тому +9

    Earlier this week, I posted a selfie on Discord and owner of the server initially mistook me (a guy) as one of her female friends and that just made me 😊

  • @vannlogs
    @vannlogs 3 роки тому +10

    I thought I was nonbinary a few months ago but then I became okay with male pronouns and B R O was that my awakening as a demiboy recently. I'm fortunate to having a supportive mother but a devout Christian father, unfortunately, so coming out will be difficult. Wish me luck lol

  • @WitchCandyVODs
    @WitchCandyVODs 3 роки тому +4

    Before I knew I was trans a little boy pointed at me and said “You look like a BOYYY” and I couldn’t understand why I felt so much joy

  • @cacao_0000
    @cacao_0000 2 роки тому +1

    it's so awkward in school everytime i need to put my name in the "name" space to just put my old name... as well as when people I've told don't use my new name :/