For those who are watching, we should take a moment to be thankful that there's a woman like Courtney who is passionate about helping men bring out the best versions of themselves. Happy Thanksgiving, Courtney!
@@CourtneyRyan so you are STILL at it...why do you ask your viwers to follow you on instagram but also say NOT to follow girls on instagram?....WHY is it okay for people to follow YOU and not others on that cest pool known as instagram?
The first two are not true at all. #1 should be shoes. #2 should be dental. #3 should be keep things tidy. #4 is sent mixed with scrub your body (this is the same bloody thing). #5 is overall confidence.
"Skin care routine" I wouldn't even know where to begin, and don't really care about that lol. Everything else gets done, but I'm not spending an hour in the bathroom.
She’s not lying about skin care. My entire face and body glows because I take great care of myself. The amount of spoken for women at my gym that stare is staggering 😅
I used to be bad about taking care of myself until I met my current barber and started paying more attention to self care. Since I started being better about it, I've felt my confidence and self-worth go up What I appreciate about your channel is you suggest how guys can care for themselves without shaming or insulting them. I've seen other channels try to give "advice" but just insult guys' personal styles and say they're unattractive if they don't look like a movie star. Your channel is about self-care and self-improvement and doesn't try to cut people down
These tips only work for extremely physically attractive tall men. If your average or below average in your physical attractiveness, these tips are useless. Women only want to date extremely physically attractive above average tall men.
Good video. I've been dealing with other guys with bad hygiene since the high school locker room days and it really surprises me how far they get in life never picking up on obvious grooming habits like these.
I have brushed my tongue for years . And everything you mentioned I do . Basically because one I want to be healthy two want to be my best . Thanks for you videos
Tongue scraper is slept on!! I use the Orabrush, saw that one famous ad on UA-cam and never went back, your tongue is a sponge gents! Courtney does not miss and I greatly appreciate her advice and tips, happy to see you getting the following you deserve! Much love to you and your family! Happy Holidays!
Those are key and here's some more: 1. Foot Balm to repair & Foot Buffer to smooth feet and toes (+ bonus fungal solution if needed) 2. Tweezers to pluck excess hairs (wax optional) 3. Aloe Gel to soothe and repair skin 4. Skin tag patches for acne (& more) 5. Natural Basics: Heavy Hydration, Sleep, Exercise, Stretching, Meditation, Brushing Hair, Nutrition, Herbs, etc... Also if you're good at brushing & use whitening toothpaste consistently and don't have a scraper, a good toothbrush can work to brush the tongue & makes a big difference!
@@CourtneyRyan yeah just gay men and men who are softer than most women because they do skin care. Just think, you're dating a guy and you ask him to change the oil on your car and he says "honey dear, touching oil will clog my pours". Don't be surprised if he hits the wrong hole on the ol' doggie style.
@@YTSparty If you're dating a very gay leaning bi man sure, but you're just projecting your own idea on what a feminine man is. I would consider myself very effeminate and can name countless straight dudes who present very masculine who can't even find the drainage cap bud. Ps everybody with length has problems in doggy I'm sorry yours is small my brother all the prayers
You articulate your words and thoughts really well, which makes it easy for everyone to understand. Thank you for all the hard work you invest into making these videos. You're helping out more people than you know. Enjoy your thanksgiving, Courtney!!
I used to be nervous when watching these videos for reasons that are personal. But part of learning is humility and I’ve watched the entire vid and learned a lot. So thanks. 👍🏿
I know people love their skincare routines but Ive found that doing the least amount possible and eating well has been the best thing for my skin. Exfoliate every so often yes but not a bunch of stuff going on. I think women could reallt benefit from that as well
Yes! My skin started clearing up when I stopped eating junk food and drinking soda. You are what you eat, and once you stop eating the junk you'll look and feel better. I just use a cleanser, moisturizer, and sun screen and my skin looks great.
@Raven Carlton First time i met my buddy's wife her firts comment was about how smooth my skin is and asked whay i do for and and the answer was just water and scrub it sometimes. It helps that I already appear much younger than I am
Hey Courtney. That tongue cleansing thing is so true and so important. One can only be amazed how much trash and other stuff goes down the sinkflushtunnel on a regular ! Thanx gal for pointing this out.
I’m a huge advocate for proper hygiene already but I still watched the whole video bc your presentation is so enjoyable. From a gym rat perspective more ppl need to bring hygiene to the forefront of discussion. Too many guys in the gym reek from 20ft away.
Dude you're in the gym, they're sweating and the room smells like sweat, have you never smelled people sweat in a place designed to sweat in? I'm honestly confused, sure if you smell like a mole rat out and about you need to wash but Ina gym?
Love this. At the barbers now so I will watch this soon! A tongue scraper better be on this… absolutely essential and game changing. ❤. Happy thanksgiving Courtney and all reading this!!
@@Onmysheet I had al electric toothbrush but did not use it on my tongue. I had a separate brush for that. Remember to be gentle on both you teeth and your tongue. I also use a mouth wash afterwards. I never go to to bed nor go out without a minty-fresh mouth.
70%!? If she truly didn't care about how we present ourselves to woman she wouldn't be putting this much effort into making us better overall men. Drop a like and subscribe. We appreciate everything you do, keep up the good work. 🤙🏽
Hi Courtney. I am a jazz guitarist (that's all I post here), and I can confirm that at a very high level of classical guitar playing that I think most people are not doing you do need long nails in specific shapes for each finger in order to play fingerstyle most efficiently (I have a guitar professor who is constantly filing his nails in to shape). In every other discipline of guitar playing this is largely unnecessary. Hope I could clear that up
I have heard this being said a few times before so it bears repeating - women will respect an average-looking guy who takes good care of himself a lot more than a good-looking guy who does not, and who fills his body with trash and does not groom himself. Proper grooming and hygiene do go a long way.
It's great to lie to yourself and tell yourself these type of things, but its just not true is it? The average guy that isn't good looking and goes to all this grooming effort gets laughed at by most women. The same women who would opt for the good looking massively endowed over 6ft guy who's stuffing his body with trash and puts in very little effort to groom himself.
Let me just say this if anyone you say anything disrespectful or anything inappropriate or insult Courtney ryan in these comments I will not be happy about that and that will be a huge problem Courtney is amazing person she's doing this for guys like are us who are lonely and depressed and need advice to help us in relationships so please be nice to her cause she's nice to you and she's the world's most gorgeous woman and willing to help I love her with all my heart she saved my life so please everyone be nice to Courtney
I can't imagine why a woman wouldn't drool and fawn over a post like that, Mr. Saiz. Absolutely no clue. Ms. Ryan? Care to jump in here and help this lonely and depressed guy out? A huge percentage of interaction is online as you well know, Ms. Ryan. (yes, thinly veiled suggestion for future content)
Could someone recommend a good alternative to Deodorant? I've read from several sources, originating from multiple countries (US/EU/BR) that showering every day, or twice a day, isn't good for your skin and should be avoided. (Read Harvard's explanation.) BUT - in a warm country like Brazil, showering often is considered the norm. The example Courtney uses seems a bit excessive considering showering and using deodorant right before you work out and doing it again 60/90min later isn't healthy. I get it, women don't like stinky men. And washing your armpits and southern regions very well is a must. No arguments. But spraying chemicals on my body every day is something I try to avoid. The same applies to most perfumed shower/douche gels. Which should not be used to clean your lady part. (Not my words.) And no offense, the smell coming from down under varies greatly. Personally, I like to swim and get it all done for the day. It's also good very good for your back. But yeah, if anyone has some alternatives or recommendations, it's greatly appreciated! (Living in Brazil, spending a lot of time in the sun (uv-index 15, even in winter) destroys your skin. They also generally shower with poor quality water. Yet, many people believe showering should be done twice a day there. Whereas in Japan, and I've heard this from friends who live there, the ladies shower twice a week. And never smelled bad.)
If you’re a guitarist learning from a classical teacher worth their salt, yes, longer nails are a requirement on one’s picking hand. However, part of what I was taught and what I teach my students is proper nail care and a good nail care kit is essential in any classical guitar case.
I agree with that statement Lawrence. I do it all that grooming, and I wear my suits and ties with a good fragrance I try to be the best version of myself women do comment and like it.
I only needed to implement a skin care routine during the last year of middle school and the first couple years of high school. Occasionally, it does dry out, but I always just put a small dab of lotion on any of the problem areas and I am set. Also, that combination shampoo-conditioner doesn't work. Get the shampoo and conditioner separate, and actually let the products do what they are intended to do.
I use lotion when my hands or face get a little dried out, but I can't see paying all that money for constant products that don't have scientific studies going back 50+ years to prove they work. (at reducing age wrinkles) One of my biggest gripes is seeing guys on the construction site working all day long without gloves. Their hands have to feel like bricks. Do women like those rough hands running over their skin in the bedroom? I am a guy with long hair and separate shampoo and conditioner is the way to go. The combo stuff is trash.
@@contumelious-8440 I only use lotion on my face, usually around my cheeks and temples. I also have a huge backlog of lotion bottles from times when I've been in hotels, and I'm just burning through that. As far as women are concerned, I think a lot of them actually love a guy with tough, leathery and strong hands, so long as they are clean, and not dirty. My hair is growing longer and longer, and I have been getting more efficient at using product. I also just put in a bit of gel to keep it out of my face. I go total Wall Street with it.
I put my mate whos luckless in love onto courtneys videos there about a month ago and he gave himself a makeover , now hes going around the town in wicker shoes with an ego , he thinks hes Don Johnson now , he stinks of paco robanne , but to be fair i,m not gonna give him a hard time, its an improvement , hes taken a bit of pride in himself which i salute
I got the one that has the little silicone bristles on the back so you can come out everything inside the grooves and then use the scraper to remove it
@@contumelious-8440 well one that pushes everything back down into your tongue and that stuff also will stain your toothbrush. They started making tongue scrapers with flossers and that was a good idea but the rubber tongue scraper with the little bristles on the back is a step up and much better. You can brush your tongue all you want just know you are pushing all of that stuff into your tongue just like some people that brush and circles only push all of that gunk between their teeth, where I try to finish brushing my teeth as if I'm brushing hair where I'm drawing down (or up)
Power toothbrush was recommended to me by my hygenist since she knew I didn't like the dentist. That was 24 years ago. She assessed me 12 years ago after and said "yeah, we made the right call" as my teeth were in really good shape despite not having been to the dentist. Also, re nails, only classical guitar players really need them and even then, only on the string plucking hand (usually right). Most others play with a pick. For a bassist like myself, short nails are the way to go. Especially for the big upright monster I play.
Happy Thanksgiving ya'll. And if you're like me who got rid of some toxic family and don't see all of them around the holidays, you made the right decision. Live your life, buy what you want, and enjoy the little things and the wonderful people you know
My go-to bath cloth is Salux Nylon Japanese Beauty Skin Bath Wash Cloth To exfoliate your skin African Sponge/Net ( I get mine from my local African( Beauty Store) or a Salux Nylon Japanese Beauty Skin Bath Wash Cloth/towel (I get mine from the Asian Oriental Market).This will help you to get rid of any dead skin.
A woman recently asked me, "are you single?" Of course I replied ... the odds of finding a woman desirous of a relevant life may be greater than a tornado forming a B-2 Bomber from a Kansas junk yard.
Whewwww! Glad to see that I can check the box for each of these tips that you bring up Courtney.. but then again.. I still have not had any luck out here. One day right? Lol.
I bought the "Replica, Jazz Club" fragrance and that shit SLAMS! I went on a date and she couldn't keep her hands off me haha I got the little bottle to start with and trust me!
Here here. I'm a male that works in an office in a manufacturing environment. I routinely interact with groomed, decently dressed office people and also manufacturing, dirty, blue collar assembly and manufacturing people. I also find certain things gross and unsavory: BO is the PITS. It's SO offensive, especially if you get to know that it is from the same person(s) every time. You know they've walked through an area even if they are not there. Long nails on a man is incredibly gross and disgusting. Guitar or not. Trim those suckers short, scrub the dirt from under them, and for crying out loud, put some lotion on your disgusting cracked and calloused hands (even if your work requires your hands to get beat up). Personally, I don't like long nails on any woman, either. Acrylic nails? What's up with that stuff?! Trim the hair (side burns, around ears, in the ears, nostrils, neck line). Trim the stuff that people probably don't see (arm pits especially, buzz them flush with a trimmer and your chosen armpit treatment will work a ton better, trust me). Brush your disgusting teeth, work on your disgusting breath. I don't like to speak to someone and feel like I have to smile, interact, while enduring the breath like a garbage truck ran over a skunk outside a trash dump. You may not have straight teeth and nice pink gums, but you can clean up the mess you DO have and reduce that mouth bacteria to an absolute minimum. And men, please close your mouth when you eat food. The sound of your smacking, sucking, clacking, crunching, is gross. And don't speak with your mouth full of food, especially when your voice is severely altered. It's just gross and puts you in a terrible light.
I watched a few of your videos and hit the subscribe button. This is excellent research material for writing novels. For me, I let the characters lead me in what to write. I was having writers block and watched your video on how to tell if she doesn't like you, and I was able to type out 10 pages because this lead to that, and that lead to this, and a subplot emerged from another thing. So thanks 😊
@@Stayfocused99 Women ignore ugly men that groom and have healthy hygiene habits. In addition, these tips fail to improve your genetic physical attractiveness.
👍 on the tongue scraper!!! I do not know of another person that uses them either. However, I must say that this is a genius product and does more to give you a clean mouth than any mouthwash can.
The long nails for guitar is dependent on what style of guitar you play. You don't need them if you play electric, however if you're playing a nylon guitar for classical music; having longer nails helps to finger pick. I've needed them before but now I keep them trimmed because I no longer play that style, I only play electric.
Courtney….. thanks for the nudge about skin care! I follow other similar channels, run by both men & women & mention of skin care is a common denominator. The last time you mentioned it is what got me to take it seriously. (Maybe that sweet, sincere voice of yours?). Anyway… I work hard to stay in shape & I’m very particular about what I put in my body. But…. All these years I neglected my largest organ, my skin. Not anymore. Thanks for the nudge & keep up the great work.
I brush my teeth, mouthwash, shave, shower good, clip my nails, style my hair, wear deodorant and cologne and dress nice. I’m not really part of the skincare routine group but I do put lotion on my face after I shave. Skincare routine seems a bit much to me. But I appreciate you trying to help us guys out. And I am a guitar player so on my right hand my middle and ring finger nails are grown out a little bit I keep them clean.
Much of this is common sense. As a man, I don’t get why men think it’s ok not to be at your best cleanliness wise, and still approach or want to be with women.
I have been single since 2017, after dating a bunch of women. And i have never been more happy ever. Now I can take care of my widow mother, focus on my work, earn more, save more, hang out more with my friends and best of all I am mentally at peace, I am having the best time of my life. I have created a moto of my life "you can either get a peace of mind or a piece of ass, you can't get both".
It is recommended to shower and apply deodorant at night before bed as your body temp is lower it takes about 4-5 hours for deodorant to work into your skin.
Wait, what about Teddy? He does fragrances too, right? Also, I'm glad that I started a skin routine a few weeks back - makes me feel better when I feel my softer skin (than previously).
It's bupkis. I'm 53, and I've always been hygenic and well groomed and added in being well dressed a couple of years ago. I'm also about a 4 to 5 in looks. Even though I'm 6ft tall and not overweight women just show no attraction. Facial attractiveness is by far the most important criterion.
@Courtney Ryan Well in my case, I've given up. My routine is sleep until at least 5PM. I don't bother to wash, clean clothes or even washing up. Or at least not on a regular basis. No one visits my flat arranged or otherwise so why bother? I feel disliked by people who have never even known me in any meaningful way. And yet when I have, made the effort to take care of myself I have felt better. It IS way more than looking good. It has a huge impact on someone's mental health long term. I know full well what I have to do to turn my life around but a part of me just wants to hide away and avoid being wounded again. Good news? I have gone out a few times over the last several months socialising and beforehand made effort to groom myself as well as be part of the moment. You know see it as magic. None of this is due to or the fault of women. At the end of the day, the buck stops with me. We are the authors of our lives but to be fair others do play their part in how we feel and have reacted. Keep up the good work and it's great to see someone so down to Earth. David
On the subject of dental hygiene - as well as an electric toothbrush, it's a good idea to invest in a good whitening toothpaste and mouthwash. And an extra tip; when using mouthwash, wait at least 30 minutes after brushing to use mouthwash. Doing so will allow the fluoride in the toothpaste to do the work it needs to do on the teeth. A visit to the dentist every 6 months wouldn't do any harm. 🙂 Being a musician, long fingernails aren't necessary if playing a steel string guitar. But if playing classical guitar with nylon strings, long fingernails do help. So I would grow my fingernails on my right hand to play classical guitar but not too long!! And yes, I do keep my nails clean! 😉 I hope this info was useful!
A woman on the Internet is reminding me that I need to brush my teeth, clean myself properly, and sometimes get a haircut. And I needed that reminder😂😂😂😂
Skin care, she speaks the gospel. If it makes it easier, look for a reward if you need to. For me, I absolutely love wearing cologne, I love to smell good. It's not about compliments so much for me, I'm married, but I do believe that I'm treated better by people because of it. The cologne is the reward for me, every morning a hot shower, a good soap & face scrub, then a good lotion & the cologne (Always moisturize before you put on a fragrance).
Women respect men who respect themselves. If you don’t respect yourself, than why do you think women will respect you? Start to take care of yourself, everything Courtney is saying here is facts!
I can attest to using the tongue scrapper. I've used one since I was a teenager (I'm 32 now). It makes a big difference and you'll be surprised how much debris comes off.
I guess I need to discover my signature scent... not sure how to go about that one. Good video Courtney; you're always my go-to fashion consultant. Happy Thanksgiving!
Guys with low self-esteem: If you think you're too ugly, fat, or skinny, that doesn't mean you can't have proper hygiene and dress the best you can 👍 Improve these aspects of your life, and the confidence will follow. You'll also find you aren't as unattractive as you think.
Surely you can follow healthy hygiene habits but that won’t objectively improve your physical attractiveness. You have to go to the gym, eat, healthy, and be tall to be more attractive to women. You have to be extremely physically attractive and tall to have a chance.
Funny thing this one time at a bar i had a lady compliment me on my clean and trimmed nails. She mentioned alot of guys have dirt under their fingernails. No excuse not to wash your hands properly or regularly cut your nails
For those who are watching, we should take a moment to be thankful that there's a woman like Courtney who is passionate about helping men bring out the best versions of themselves. Happy Thanksgiving, Courtney!
🥹🫶🏼 you are so kind. Thank you. happy thanksgiving!
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@@CourtneyRyan so you are STILL at it...why do you ask your viwers to follow you on instagram but also say NOT to follow girls on instagram?....WHY is it okay for people to follow YOU and not others on that cest pool known as instagram?
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05:50 Keep things tidy
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The first two are not true at all. #1 should be shoes. #2 should be dental. #3 should be keep things tidy. #4 is sent mixed with scrub your body (this is the same bloody thing). #5 is overall confidence.
"Skin care routine" I wouldn't even know where to begin, and don't really care about that lol. Everything else gets done, but I'm not spending an hour in the bathroom.
Mine is either a combo of dolce and cabana or pharazone
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1). Scheduled maintenance
2). Skin care routine
3). Scrub your body
4). Tongue scraper/dental hygiene
5). Deodorant
6). Keep things tidy
7). Signature scent
Good stuff man
She’s not lying about skin care. My entire face and body glows because I take great care of myself. The amount of spoken for women at my gym that stare is staggering 😅
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I used to be bad about taking care of myself until I met my current barber and started paying more attention to self care. Since I started being better about it, I've felt my confidence and self-worth go up
What I appreciate about your channel is you suggest how guys can care for themselves without shaming or insulting them. I've seen other channels try to give "advice" but just insult guys' personal styles and say they're unattractive if they don't look like a movie star. Your channel is about self-care and self-improvement and doesn't try to cut people down
Love how positive your channel is, much more about self improvement than a lot of the other channels talking about dating
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These tips only work for extremely physically attractive tall men. If your average or below average in your physical attractiveness, these tips are useless. Women only want to date extremely physically attractive above average tall men.
Good video. I've been dealing with other guys with bad hygiene since the high school locker room days and it really surprises me how far they get in life never picking up on obvious grooming habits like these.
Yes your right I feel so bad for them that’s why I’m thankful I learned About hygiene
I have brushed my tongue for years . And everything you mentioned I do . Basically because one I want to be healthy two want to be my best . Thanks for you videos
Tongue scraper is slept on!! I use the Orabrush, saw that one famous ad on UA-cam and never went back, your tongue is a sponge gents! Courtney does not miss and I greatly appreciate her advice and tips, happy to see you getting the following you deserve! Much love to you and your family! Happy Holidays!
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Those are key and here's some more:
1. Foot Balm to repair & Foot Buffer to smooth feet and toes (+ bonus fungal solution if needed)
2. Tweezers to pluck excess hairs (wax optional)
3. Aloe Gel to soothe and repair skin
4. Skin tag patches for acne (& more)
5. Natural Basics: Heavy Hydration, Sleep, Exercise, Stretching, Meditation, Brushing Hair, Nutrition, Herbs, etc...
Also if you're good at brushing & use whitening toothpaste consistently and don't have a scraper, a good toothbrush can work to brush the tongue & makes a big difference!
🙌🏼 not all hero’s wear capes
@@CourtneyRyan yeah just gay men and men who are softer than most women because they do skin care. Just think, you're dating a guy and you ask him to change the oil on your car and he says "honey dear, touching oil will clog my pours". Don't be surprised if he hits the wrong hole on the ol' doggie style.
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If you're dating a very gay leaning bi man sure, but you're just projecting your own idea on what a feminine man is.
I would consider myself very effeminate and can name countless straight dudes who present very masculine who can't even find the drainage cap bud. Ps everybody with length has problems in doggy I'm sorry yours is small my brother all the prayers
@@markakehurst69420 you sound like you have no problem finding the DRAINAGE HOLE, lol
You articulate your words and thoughts really well, which makes it easy for everyone to understand. Thank you for all the hard work you invest into making these videos. You're helping out more people than you know. Enjoy your thanksgiving, Courtney!!
I used to be nervous when watching these videos for reasons that are personal. But part of learning is humility and I’ve watched the entire vid and learned a lot. So thanks. 👍🏿
I know people love their skincare routines but Ive found that doing the least amount possible and eating well has been the best thing for my skin. Exfoliate every so often yes but not a bunch of stuff going on. I think women could reallt benefit from that as well
Yes! My skin started clearing up when I stopped eating junk food and drinking soda. You are what you eat, and once you stop eating the junk you'll look and feel better. I just use a cleanser, moisturizer, and sun screen and my skin looks great.
@@renznetwork If that works thats great to hear.
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@Raven Carlton First time i met my buddy's wife her firts comment was about how smooth my skin is and asked whay i do for and and the answer was just water and scrub it sometimes. It helps that I already appear much younger than I am
I was shocked by how many women tell me that they get turned off by good looking guys all because they smell bad.
Hey Courtney.
That tongue cleansing thing is so true and so important.
One can only be amazed how much trash and other stuff goes down the sinkflushtunnel on a regular !
Thanx gal for pointing this out.
Society needs more women like you.
They are in society, if people would stop living in the social media illusion and simply look up and speak to people face to face.
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What lifted said, you usually get these in high school occasionally if they aren't trying to shoot you up now
fuck no !
Facts
I’m a huge advocate for proper hygiene already but I still watched the whole video bc your presentation is so enjoyable. From a gym rat perspective more ppl need to bring hygiene to the forefront of discussion. Too many guys in the gym reek from 20ft away.
And about half of the smelly guys are stinking from some horrid bodyspray.
@@thossi09 high school kids call that a shower in a spray can 🤢
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So am I. But I don't understand why cleaning your bum with water isn't on this, after pooing
Dude you're in the gym, they're sweating and the room smells like sweat, have you never smelled people sweat in a place designed to sweat in? I'm honestly confused, sure if you smell like a mole rat out and about you need to wash but Ina gym?
Love this. At the barbers now so I will watch this soon! A tongue scraper better be on this… absolutely essential and game changing. ❤. Happy thanksgiving Courtney and all reading this!!
Woohoo! You guessed it 👀 happy thanksgiving!
I always brush my tongue, gently of course.
A clean healthy mouth helps maintain the health of the entire body.
@@antonboludo8886 I use my electric toothbrush for my tongue. But I now know it's not as effective.
@@morganoates8397 Yes, it makes a huge difference.
@@Onmysheet I had al electric toothbrush but did not use it on my tongue.
I had a separate brush for that.
Remember to be gentle on both you teeth and your tongue. I also use a mouth wash afterwards. I never go to to bed nor go out without a minty-fresh mouth.
Wow! I love the book selection on your amazon page! I read half of those already and just discovered a few others. Thanks!
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STARTED USING MY OLD COLOGNE AGAIN. CAUSE OF THIS VIDEO, IM GLAD I DID! WHERE THE LIVE STREAMS AT?
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70%!? If she truly didn't care about how we present ourselves to woman she wouldn't be putting this much effort into making us better overall men. Drop a like and subscribe. We appreciate everything you do, keep up the good work. 🤙🏽
Or you know she makes money with each video lol
Hi Courtney. I am a jazz guitarist (that's all I post here), and I can confirm that at a very high level of classical guitar playing that I think most people are not doing you do need long nails in specific shapes for each finger in order to play fingerstyle most efficiently (I have a guitar professor who is constantly filing his nails in to shape). In every other discipline of guitar playing this is largely unnecessary. Hope I could clear that up
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Yeah you're right, i need to trim my armpits... Thanks for the heads-up.
Great video. Grooming and being clean is baseline standards not just for attraction but I’d argue human interaction in general.
I have heard this being said a few times before so it bears repeating - women will respect an average-looking guy who takes good care of himself a lot more than a good-looking guy who does not, and who fills his body with trash and does not groom himself. Proper grooming and hygiene do go a long way.
It's great to lie to yourself and tell yourself these type of things, but its just not true is it?
The average guy that isn't good looking and goes to all this grooming effort gets laughed at by most women.
The same women who would opt for the good looking massively endowed over 6ft guy who's stuffing his body with trash and puts in very little effort to groom himself.
Let me just say this if anyone you say anything disrespectful or anything inappropriate or insult Courtney ryan in these comments I will not be happy about that and that will be a huge problem Courtney is amazing person she's doing this for guys like are us who are lonely and depressed and need advice to help us in relationships so please be nice to her cause she's nice to you and she's the world's most gorgeous woman and willing to help I love her with all my heart she saved my life so please everyone be nice to Courtney
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If you really respected Courtney you'd use proper punctuation in your comments......😀
@@tgsiii2179 what are you my teacher she knows what I mean
I can't imagine why a woman wouldn't drool and fawn over a post like that, Mr. Saiz. Absolutely no clue. Ms. Ryan? Care to jump in here and help this lonely and depressed guy out? A huge percentage of interaction is online as you well know, Ms. Ryan.
(yes, thinly veiled suggestion for future content)
Could someone recommend a good alternative to Deodorant? I've read from several sources, originating from multiple countries (US/EU/BR) that showering every day, or twice a day, isn't good for your skin and should be avoided. (Read Harvard's explanation.) BUT - in a warm country like Brazil, showering often is considered the norm.
The example Courtney uses seems a bit excessive considering showering and using deodorant right before you work out and doing it again 60/90min later isn't healthy. I get it, women don't like stinky men. And washing your armpits and southern regions very well is a must. No arguments. But spraying chemicals on my body every day is something I try to avoid.
The same applies to most perfumed shower/douche gels. Which should not be used to clean your lady part. (Not my words.) And no offense, the smell coming from down under varies greatly.
Personally, I like to swim and get it all done for the day. It's also good very good for your back. But yeah, if anyone has some alternatives or recommendations, it's greatly appreciated!
(Living in Brazil, spending a lot of time in the sun (uv-index 15, even in winter) destroys your skin. They also generally shower with poor quality water. Yet, many people believe showering should be done twice a day there. Whereas in Japan, and I've heard this from friends who live there, the ladies shower twice a week. And never smelled bad.)
I got a answer from my last post from Telegram, pretending to be from Courtney it said I had won a price. I reported it to FB. I hate these scammers!
Thank you for reporting. I try to report them and block them but they just make new accounts 😭
If you’re a guitarist learning from a classical teacher worth their salt, yes, longer nails are a requirement on one’s picking hand. However, part of what I was taught and what I teach my students is proper nail care and a good nail care kit is essential in any classical guitar case.
I agree with that statement Lawrence. I do it all that grooming, and I wear my suits and ties with a good fragrance I try to be the best version of myself women do comment and like it.
I only needed to implement a skin care routine during the last year of middle school and the first couple years of high school. Occasionally, it does dry out, but I always just put a small dab of lotion on any of the problem areas and I am set. Also, that combination shampoo-conditioner doesn't work. Get the shampoo and conditioner separate, and actually let the products do what they are intended to do.
I use lotion when my hands or face get a little dried out, but I can't see paying all that money for constant products that don't have scientific studies going back 50+ years to prove they work. (at reducing age wrinkles)
One of my biggest gripes is seeing guys on the construction site working all day long without gloves. Their hands have to feel like bricks. Do women like those rough hands running over their skin in the bedroom?
I am a guy with long hair and separate shampoo and conditioner is the way to go. The combo stuff is trash.
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@@contumelious-8440 I only use lotion on my face, usually around my cheeks and temples. I also have a huge backlog of lotion bottles from times when I've been in hotels, and I'm just burning through that. As far as women are concerned, I think a lot of them actually love a guy with tough, leathery and strong hands, so long as they are clean, and not dirty. My hair is growing longer and longer, and I have been getting more efficient at using product. I also just put in a bit of gel to keep it out of my face. I go total Wall Street with it.
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I put my mate whos luckless in love onto courtneys videos there about a month ago and he gave himself a makeover , now hes going around the town in wicker shoes with an ego , he thinks hes Don Johnson now , he stinks of paco robanne , but to be fair i,m not gonna give him a hard time, its an improvement , hes taken a bit of pride in himself which i salute
Classical guitar does require longer than normal nails, but not really long nails. Just slightly long. A lot depends on their own finger shape.
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I took your advice earlier this year about getting a tongue scraper and I love it so much that I got everyone their own for Christmas
Woohoo! They are the best!!
I got the one that has the little silicone bristles on the back so you can come out everything inside the grooves and then use the scraper to remove it
Use mine regularly (they are superb)
Why don't you just scrub your tongue at the end of your toothbrushing? This was taught 40+ years ago to keep the tongue healthy.
@@contumelious-8440 well one that pushes everything back down into your tongue and that stuff also will stain your toothbrush. They started making tongue scrapers with flossers and that was a good idea but the rubber tongue scraper with the little bristles on the back is a step up and much better. You can brush your tongue all you want just know you are pushing all of that stuff into your tongue just like some people that brush and circles only push all of that gunk between their teeth, where I try to finish brushing my teeth as if I'm brushing hair where I'm drawing down (or up)
Power toothbrush was recommended to me by my hygenist since she knew I didn't like the dentist. That was 24 years ago. She assessed me 12 years ago after and said "yeah, we made the right call" as my teeth were in really good shape despite not having been to the dentist.
Also, re nails, only classical guitar players really need them and even then, only on the string plucking hand (usually right). Most others play with a pick. For a bassist like myself, short nails are the way to go. Especially for the big upright monster I play.
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I do all. But the last one and the scraper
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My go-to bath cloth is Salux Nylon Japanese Beauty Skin Bath Wash Cloth
To exfoliate your skin African Sponge/Net ( I get mine from my local African( Beauty Store) or a Salux Nylon Japanese Beauty Skin Bath Wash Cloth/towel (I get mine from the Asian Oriental Market).This will help you to get rid of any dead skin.
I've been using black seed oil on my skin. It's been amazing.
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the greatest barriers to relationships are the following, 1) Mens unwillingness to change themselves, 2) Women's unwillingness to ever be wrong.
Long time since i heard a YT video with a girl that's holding her laughter throughtout in a positive way!
Not sure if it matters, but I use the tongue scrub before I brush my teeth, not after. I don't use it every day.
A woman recently asked me, "are you single?" Of course I replied ... the odds of finding a woman desirous of a relevant life may be greater than a tornado forming a B-2 Bomber from a Kansas junk yard.
good channel, I like the way you present your content. That's why I go early in the morning to my gym, at 6pm that gym is burning arm pits.
Whewwww! Glad to see that I can check the box for each of these tips that you bring up Courtney.. but then again.. I still have not had any luck out here. One day right? Lol.
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I bought the "Replica, Jazz Club" fragrance and that shit SLAMS! I went on a date and she couldn't keep her hands off me haha I got the little bottle to start with and trust me!
Here here. I'm a male that works in an office in a manufacturing environment. I routinely interact with groomed, decently dressed office people and also manufacturing, dirty, blue collar assembly and manufacturing people.
I also find certain things gross and unsavory:
BO is the PITS. It's SO offensive, especially if you get to know that it is from the same person(s) every time. You know they've walked through an area even if they are not there.
Long nails on a man is incredibly gross and disgusting. Guitar or not. Trim those suckers short, scrub the dirt from under them, and for crying out loud, put some lotion on your disgusting cracked and calloused hands (even if your work requires your hands to get beat up). Personally, I don't like long nails on any woman, either. Acrylic nails? What's up with that stuff?!
Trim the hair (side burns, around ears, in the ears, nostrils, neck line). Trim the stuff that people probably don't see (arm pits especially, buzz them flush with a trimmer and your chosen armpit treatment will work a ton better, trust me).
Brush your disgusting teeth, work on your disgusting breath. I don't like to speak to someone and feel like I have to smile, interact, while enduring the breath like a garbage truck ran over a skunk outside a trash dump. You may not have straight teeth and nice pink gums, but you can clean up the mess you DO have and reduce that mouth bacteria to an absolute minimum.
And men, please close your mouth when you eat food. The sound of your smacking, sucking, clacking, crunching, is gross. And don't speak with your mouth full of food, especially when your voice is severely altered. It's just gross and puts you in a terrible light.
I watched a few of your videos and hit the subscribe button. This is excellent research material for writing novels. For me, I let the characters lead me in what to write. I was having writers block and watched your video on how to tell if she doesn't like you, and I was able to type out 10 pages because this lead to that, and that lead to this, and a subplot emerged from another thing. So thanks 😊
as always, ur videos have helped me improve and become a better person courtney !! yes, hygiene is so important. thank you for posting ❤️
I’m so glad 🥹 thanks for being here!
@@CourtneyRyan the pleasure is mine! ☺️ looking forward to future videos
These tips only work for extremely physically attractive tall men. You have to be lean, muscular, have a nice face, and tall for these tips to work.
@@Gustavog74 🤣🤣not really they work on all type of men.
@@Stayfocused99 Women ignore ugly men that groom and have healthy hygiene habits. In addition, these tips fail to improve your genetic physical attractiveness.
Oh nice! Bi-monthly reminder from Courtney to hit the shower!
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👍 on the tongue scraper!!! I do not know of another person that uses them either. However, I must say that this is a genius product and does more to give you a clean mouth than any mouthwash can.
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Thanks for a great breakdown!
I usually go for a low fade in the southern region
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The long nails for guitar is dependent on what style of guitar you play. You don't need them if you play electric, however if you're playing a nylon guitar for classical music; having longer nails helps to finger pick. I've needed them before but now I keep them trimmed because I no longer play that style, I only play electric.
Nivea I found is extremely cheap, but a hell of a nice deodorant.
I have used face cream with SPF 15 (sun cream built in)
From the age of 21, at 40 I have no wrinkles.
Also sunglasses every day = no eye damage.
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"you get the things going on everywhere" hahaha I'm dead 😂
Good information. Going to add some of these to my grooming.
Love this video! I definitely love the comment “you are the dream car”!
Women and men should always become the best versions of themselves.
Courtney….. thanks for the nudge about skin care! I follow other similar channels, run by both men & women & mention of skin care is a common denominator. The last time you mentioned it is what got me to take it seriously. (Maybe that sweet, sincere voice of yours?). Anyway… I work hard to stay in shape & I’m very particular about what I put in my body. But…. All these years I neglected my largest organ, my skin. Not anymore. Thanks for the nudge & keep up the great work.
30 seconds in and I appreciate the car reference. Courtney really understands us 😂
I do admit having bought a lot more conditioner and moisturizing for my car (seats) than for myself.
Great video. I definitely agree with you on the tongue scraper part.
men and women should always try to become the best versions of themselves
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Great stuff! A alternative to tongue skraper: use the tooth brush with some more paste and brush your tongue.
I brush my teeth, mouthwash, shave, shower good, clip my nails, style my hair, wear deodorant and cologne and dress nice. I’m not really part of the skincare routine group but I do put lotion on my face after I shave. Skincare routine seems a bit much to me. But I appreciate you trying to help us guys out. And I am a guitar player so on my right hand my middle and ring finger nails are grown out a little bit I keep them clean.
For certain styles of guitar like flamenco, classical, and country, you do need to have longer nails on your picking/strumming hand.
Much of this is common sense. As a man, I don’t get why men think it’s ok not to be at your best cleanliness wise, and still approach or want to be with women.
Guitar player here, Nails a no go. It makes a weird sound while playing guitar and you cannot press the strings down to well.
I have been single since 2017, after dating a bunch of women. And i have never been more happy ever. Now I can take care of my widow mother, focus on my work, earn more, save more, hang out more with my friends and best of all I am mentally at peace, I am having the best time of my life.
I have created a moto of my life "you can either get a peace of mind or a piece of ass, you can't get both".
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It is recommended to shower and apply deodorant at night before bed as your body temp is lower it takes about 4-5 hours for deodorant to work into your skin.
Wait, what about Teddy? He does fragrances too, right? Also, I'm glad that I started a skin routine a few weeks back - makes me feel better when I feel my softer skin (than previously).
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5:32 had to replay this because I thought she said something else and I was shocked. 😉
It's bupkis. I'm 53, and I've always been hygenic and well groomed and added in being well dressed a couple of years ago. I'm also about a 4 to 5 in looks. Even though I'm 6ft tall and not overweight women just show no attraction. Facial attractiveness is by far the most important criterion.
Great job Courtney, we all agree ….👋🏻🇮🇹
@Courtney Ryan Well in my case, I've given up. My routine is sleep until at least 5PM.
I don't bother to wash, clean clothes or even washing up. Or at least not on a regular basis.
No one visits my flat arranged or otherwise so why bother? I feel disliked by people who have never even known me in any meaningful way.
And yet when I have, made the effort to take care of myself I have felt better.
It IS way more than looking good. It has a huge impact on someone's mental health long term.
I know full well what I have to do to turn my life around but a part of me just wants to hide away and avoid being wounded again.
Good news? I have gone out a few times over the last several months socialising and beforehand made effort to groom myself as well as be part of the moment. You know see it as magic.
None of this is due to or the fault of women. At the end of the day, the buck stops with me.
We are the authors of our lives but to be fair others do play their part in how we feel and have reacted.
Keep up the good work and it's great to see someone so down to Earth.
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On the subject of dental hygiene - as well as an electric toothbrush, it's a good idea to invest in a good whitening toothpaste and mouthwash. And an extra tip; when using mouthwash, wait at least 30 minutes after brushing to use mouthwash. Doing so will allow the fluoride in the toothpaste to do the work it needs to do on the teeth. A visit to the dentist every 6 months wouldn't do any harm. 🙂
Being a musician, long fingernails aren't necessary if playing a steel string guitar. But if playing classical guitar with nylon strings, long fingernails do help. So I would grow my fingernails on my right hand to play classical guitar but not too long!! And yes, I do keep my nails clean! 😉
I hope this info was useful!
A woman on the Internet is reminding me that I need to brush my teeth, clean myself properly, and sometimes get a haircut. And I needed that reminder😂😂😂😂
I'm a Software Engineer at Google that spends up to 15 hours per day at work! No time for the Gym!! Only time to get paid in a major way!!
Wait a minute Courtney, what if I'm old here? Aren't you still Courtney Ryan? Thanks for the video, always, you're the best. Happy Thanksgiving!
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Skin care, she speaks the gospel. If it makes it easier, look for a reward if you need to. For me, I absolutely love wearing cologne, I love to smell good. It's not about compliments so much for me, I'm married, but I do believe that I'm treated better by people because of it. The cologne is the reward for me, every morning a hot shower, a good soap & face scrub, then a good lotion & the cologne (Always moisturize before you put on a fragrance).
I use a tongue scrapper too. It’s insane what comes off it, Yes!
Women respect men who respect themselves. If you don’t respect yourself, than why do you think women will respect you? Start to take care of yourself, everything Courtney is saying here is facts!
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I can attest to using the tongue scrapper. I've used one since I was a teenager (I'm 32 now). It makes a big difference and you'll be surprised how much debris comes off.
Can't you just scrub it with your toothbrush at the end of your toothbrushing? Lot simpler plus you have toothpaste to help dissolve nasty stuff.
@@contumelious-8440 you can but the scrapper gets more than with just the brush. I usually do both. Then rinse with mouth wash.
I use a tongue scraper, have for some time and you are absolutely correct about using one!
Are you uploads Wednesday, Friday and sunday’s for now? Happy Wednesday and thanksgiving Courtney 😊
Yes that’s the plan! 🥰 happy thanksgiving!
"For all those car guys" She understands us guys.!!
The product with Aluminum would probably be an antipersprint which tries to seal and that is why you probably sweat.
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I guess I need to discover my signature scent... not sure how to go about that one.
Good video Courtney; you're always my go-to fashion consultant. Happy Thanksgiving!
Figure out what smells you like, something earthy or something like candy etc and look for reviews
You're really great. I sincerely appreciate all your helpful tips. I'm going to use them.
Tongue scrapers are a God-send. Can highly recommend
Miss Cortney R I do like your men's videos a lot and do listen to you because you give great advice.
Guys with low self-esteem:
If you think you're too ugly, fat, or skinny, that doesn't mean you can't have proper hygiene and dress the best you can 👍
Improve these aspects of your life, and the confidence will follow.
You'll also find you aren't as unattractive as you think.
Surely you can follow healthy hygiene habits but that won’t objectively improve your physical attractiveness. You have to go to the gym, eat, healthy, and be tall to be more attractive to women. You have to be extremely physically attractive and tall to have a chance.
Funny thing this one time at a bar i had a lady compliment me on my clean and trimmed nails. She mentioned alot of guys have dirt under their fingernails. No excuse not to wash your hands properly or regularly cut your nails
So sweet thank you Courtney Ryan.
It’s my pleasure!
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