How to Have More Expressive Eyes and Seduce with your Gaze

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  • @ailurii
    @ailurii 3 місяці тому +450

    1. Slowly blink, look away for a moment, then return gaze.
    2. Make eye contact, hold it for just a bit longer than usual, then look away with a smile.
    3. Tilt your head slightly down, then look up to someone from under your lashes.
    4. Smolder (head tilt, intense gaze, slight smile).
    5. Lean in to the person you’re talking to.
    6. Gently touch your face/hair while maintaining eye contact.
    7. Give them a warm, soft smile with eye contact.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +19

      Thank you for the resume 😊

    • @nurfitrialviani3117
      @nurfitrialviani3117 3 місяці тому +11

      Ugh i cannot maintain eye contact

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +9

      @@nurfitrialviani3117 I understand you, I couldn’t either when I was younger. But with practice it will get better.

  • @isshhhuuu885
    @isshhhuuu885 3 місяці тому +378

    Is it only me getting glimpses of Britney Spears in her face?

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +39

      I’m flattered☺️Thank you! People seem to recognise all kinds of persons in me, also very different types, but I have already been told to have something from Britney Spears many years ago when I was younger, so that’s super interesting😅.

    • @littlespringaz9090
      @littlespringaz9090 2 місяці тому +4

      The 3rd sister !

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +2

      @@littlespringaz9090 😅

    • @BingusEdits6501
      @BingusEdits6501 Місяць тому +4

      I see it too tbh

    • @moonymalfoy
      @moonymalfoy 26 днів тому +2

      yess exactly she's looking like her! :)

  • @JoyIdaraEffiong
    @JoyIdaraEffiong 2 місяці тому +90

    How to have a powerful i gaze
    1) eye makeup
    - smokey eye
    - winged eyeliner
    - lashes use mascara
    - highlighter in the coner of eye
    - eyebrows needs to be groomed
    2) the art of gaze
    - the slow blink- hold your gaze slowly blink the look away for a sec before looking back.
    - hold and release- hold eye contact for a bit longer then look away with a slight smile.
    - the upward glance- you tilt your head downward and look through your lashes.
    - the smolder- narrow gaz tilt head and barely smile
    3) body language
    - leaning in
    - gently touch your face when making contact
    - soft smile
    4) practice

  • @californiasgauld9442
    @californiasgauld9442 4 місяці тому +151

    I LOVE that you included Memoirs of a Geisha! Great video, and you're almost at 10k!

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  4 місяці тому +6

      Yes, that’s one of my favourite movies, I already loved the novel and the movie is great, too🩷Oh yes, am super excited that we almost hit 10K 😍

    • @vipmonicake
      @vipmonicake 3 місяці тому

      Yeah, sucks that she didn’t even mention the name of the actress.

    • @barbarellla1553
      @barbarellla1553 3 місяці тому +2

      It was the first book I've read in English! Love from Warsaw, Poland❤

    • @barbarellla1553
      @barbarellla1553 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@vipmonicakeZhang Ziyi❤

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +1

      @@barbarellla1553 I also read it a long time ago when I went to school. I loved it 🥰 Pozdrowienia 🩷

  • @october_girl_from_space
    @october_girl_from_space 2 місяці тому +37

    My eyes are black, big and beautiful ❤

  • @moonlight_bvby5011
    @moonlight_bvby5011 3 місяці тому +16

    in all honesty if your confident that seducing gaze will come naturally to you especially if your really into someone or try to put on an act that you are. You dont have to force yourself to remember rules for how to.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +4

      That is true, but becoming confident is often achieved by practice. In my case it helped 😉

  • @debora2604
    @debora2604 Місяць тому +9

    honey, you don’t practice eye movement. you practice character. you are sending signals with real gesture. Some women are naturally seductive, even when only smile, or just being herself. Monica Bellucci is naturally facial sexy and eye catching.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  13 днів тому +1

      You cannot really practise character, but you can practice confidence and body language and this will transfer to you becoming more charismatic in the end. Of course true charisma comes from within as I always say.

  • @kanao4477
    @kanao4477 2 місяці тому +33

    Is it just me that burst into laughter everytime she wanted to pratice the methods herself 😂😂😂

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +9

      At least I made you laugh.😉 You seem to have a funny humour.

    • @mariamipxikidze9171
      @mariamipxikidze9171 Місяць тому +1

      realest

    • @gulbenizsalmanl3561
      @gulbenizsalmanl3561 Місяць тому +1

      I think you're the only one who laughs at her❤

    • @kanao4477
      @kanao4477 Місяць тому +1

      @@gulbenizsalmanl3561 i m not mocking her, why re yall so offended, like it s just her expression is so funny when she try to do that

    • @gulbenizsalmanl3561
      @gulbenizsalmanl3561 Місяць тому

      @@kanao4477 good for you then🩷

  • @gulbenizsalmanl3561
    @gulbenizsalmanl3561 Місяць тому +7

    I used those techniques when i met with a boy (rn he is my fiance). Believe me or not it really affects the way people see you.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому

      That’s interesting, thank you for sharing 🩷

  • @yasskye768
    @yasskye768 3 місяці тому +55

    You have the most beautiful, charming, soothing, special voice and intonation I’ve ever heard. I know you probably can’t teach this because it’s just how you speak and your accent but I wish there was a way! I put your videos on just to hear it sometimes and feel graceful. I wish you were hired for voice overs in everything. ❤

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +7

      Aww, this is so heartwarming and beautiful to read! 🥰 Thank you so much, you really made my day! I’m so happy that you like my voice and it gives you a soothing feeling ☺️🤗Sending lots of Love back to you!💕

    • @barbarellla1553
      @barbarellla1553 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@malenamatisseOMG, so true ❤

  • @tararaichand3
    @tararaichand3 2 місяці тому +10

    Hey Ms. Malena, those are some amazing tips. I adore how you brought up certain film references, such as Memoirs of a Geisha. Is it possible to put together a list of films that illustrate femininity in an interesting manner? 😊

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +4

      Thank you for your comment, this is a great idea. I will make a Community post so that all ladies can also add their suggestions for films that illustrate femininity and I will also list some 🩷

  • @mariachan-cx2se
    @mariachan-cx2se 3 місяці тому +23

    Girl I love your videos I love how you collect many informations in one video I've been searching for a long time for a video that describes how seductive women used to gaze so seductively

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому

      Ohh I’m so happy to read that 🩷 thank you for your lovely comment 🌹

  • @ametrineambrosia4929
    @ametrineambrosia4929 2 місяці тому +12

    Actually happened in real life...made a guy almost crash his bicycle because he kept looking back at me.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +4

      Oh really?😅 I hope he was ok after that.

  • @sarahifab7433
    @sarahifab7433 3 місяці тому +7

    MEMORIES FROM A GEISHA!! amazing movie, very sad but beautiful at the same time

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому

      Yes, I loved it and the book, too. 🌸

  • @healingypsy
    @healingypsy 2 місяці тому +8

    Have to be careful because if too intentional looks more like psycho eyes. some women just have it and do it naturally. Not contrived. I recall a time when a female friend and I were ordering a meal from the head waiter in Milan. When the waiter left my friend actually said to me " You're such a coquette !" I looked it up - she actually thought i was flirting with the waiter ! I was not at all ! But i guess some of us women just do it naturally. I guess because I am naturally shy but also playful - but not calculated to attract anyone which I belive makes it more powerful

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому

      That’s true, one always has to be careful and consider the environment, situation and cultural context, very important!
      But yes, in your case it might be that you just have a natural innocent coquette body language which some women have and this is perceived as flirty by some people.

  • @Athenapaints
    @Athenapaints 3 місяці тому +11

    God bless you Miss. I subscribed but this specific material of how u cross reference movies and explained the movement is the best explanation on UA-cam. The movement is what’s really going to change my life. You did amazing job! YOU GO GIRL!
    -A Visual artist with Social Anxiety Disorder.
    P.s. I’m adding this to my professional skills but will spice up my love life as well. ❤

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your lovely comment and the great feedback!!! 🌹I wish you all the best and welcome among my subscribers 🩷☺️

  • @kingshome398
    @kingshome398 12 днів тому +2

    Hi Malena, I discovered your channel recently, your videos have helped me a lot, I want to be a more elegant and feminine woman, but I have a serious problem with makeup, I love lilac shadows and orange tones in my eyes, could you give me a tip on how to use these colors without looking like I'm exaggerated, I'm Brazilian and I don't know how to speak English, so I had to translate this comment with Google Translate, I'm sorry if something is strange

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  12 днів тому +1

      Hello! I am not a make up artist, but I would say you can incorporate those two colours for your eyes, if they suit you and are applied and blended well, they can look very classy. I would then try to keep the lips and the rest of your make up more neutral and low key. I would recommend you to watch some make up tutorials on UA-cam, for example there is an Indian make up artist, who uses these bright or orange colours a lot, her name is Smitha Deepak.

    • @kingshome398
      @kingshome398 12 днів тому +2

      @@malenamatisse Malena, I'm very happy that you responded to my comment, thank you very much, I'll watch some of Smitha Deepak's videos to help me with my makeup, I loved your tip about not weighing down the other parts of the makeup too much.

  • @jacquelineess1141
    @jacquelineess1141 3 місяці тому +2

    Your astute observations, beautiful face, warm voice and calm demeanor are what made me subscribe to you, even though I know all these techniques already. You're wonderful!❤

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much for your kind and lovely words 💕 I‘m happy to have you among my subscribers 🤗

  • @betilynedubala5194
    @betilynedubala5194 2 місяці тому +2

    I sometimes use it when necessary . They say I have dramatic eyes and that it seems tantalizing.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому

      That’s interesting. Thank you for your comment 🌹

  • @WishesofLight
    @WishesofLight 3 місяці тому +4

    Wow what a beautifully presented video thank you for sharing your knowledge and movie recommendations. I will definitely watch those so I can learn these feminine traits 😍 I’ve just subscribed to your channel because I find you really authentic! 🌸💕 x

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for the lovely feedback and welcome 🤗 🩷

  • @Kbackdesk
    @Kbackdesk Місяць тому +1

    Out of context may i know where did u purchase the closet in the back? (With the nice pink background and what's it called

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому

      Do you mean that folding screen/ partition with the pink flower design?

  • @arundhati4284
    @arundhati4284 3 місяці тому +4

    Thanks for your insights dear Malena.Will definitely follow 👍. Could you please tell me the name of music playing while displaying your logos.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for your comment and welcome 🤗 the music is from iMovie and is called 44th street.

    • @arundhati4284
      @arundhati4284 3 місяці тому +1

      @@malenamatisse Thank you so much.

  • @MounaJamila-n1x
    @MounaJamila-n1x 3 місяці тому +5

    Oh you looks so pretty honey i admire your look makeup 💄

  • @deynaspeace
    @deynaspeace 2 місяці тому

    Very nice video, thank you. ❤

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for your lovely feedback ❣️

  • @judysaffield2811
    @judysaffield2811 3 місяці тому +2

    What a great video

  • @Madison.maddie.
    @Madison.maddie. 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for video
    ❤❤❤❤❤
    And makeup technic

  • @LeylaLazuli
    @LeylaLazuli 2 місяці тому +1

    good video❤❤❤

  • @samadhithilakarathne-lm4uh
    @samadhithilakarathne-lm4uh 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you mis😊 great!!!

  • @maramnasmd
    @maramnasmd 3 місяці тому +3

    This was well studied but I'll look funny crazy trying to do this

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому

      Me too 😅 but practice makes perfect ☺️

  • @dianecourtney2724
    @dianecourtney2724 3 місяці тому +1

    This is great 😊

  • @user-dc369
    @user-dc369 4 місяці тому +13

    Eye makeup tutorial 🤍🥺🫶

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  4 місяці тому +5

      I’ll try my best in the future 🌹

  • @subarnasaha8210
    @subarnasaha8210 3 місяці тому +9

    What's is your native language, I love your English in that accent it's quite good ❤

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +8

      Hello ☺️thank you! My first language war polish and my second German (so I would rather say Ferman as I grew up with it).

    • @shayennebouts4724
      @shayennebouts4724 3 місяці тому +6

      ​@malenamatisse I absolutely love the accent. Sooo cute 🥰 Reminds me of my sister-in-law. She's Romanian. Also, thank you for the tips on this video 😊

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +5

      @@shayennebouts4724 thank you ☺️ that gives me a good feeling ☺️ one is never sure about how one sounds with an accent. 😅

  • @mymelodichandle
    @mymelodichandle 2 місяці тому +2

    You have to be my new favourite UA-camr 🫣

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому

      Ohh that’s so sweet, thank you and welcome 🤗🩷

  • @LilMsLorelei
    @LilMsLorelei 2 місяці тому +1

    If I have to go through all this to get a man, then he is NOT the one. Either he likes me or he doesn't.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +2

      The goal is to feel good or better and more confident about yourself, not getting a man.

    • @LilMsLorelei
      @LilMsLorelei 2 місяці тому +2

      @@malenamatisse I feel good about myself by being a good person.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому

      @@LilMsLorelei that’s great 🩷

  • @xoxogemvenus
    @xoxogemvenus 2 місяці тому +9

    I feel like you got it or you don’t.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому

      It depends. For sone people yes, but you can learn more than you think. Marilyn is the best example for a person who has completely transformed herself and her body language and could switch this persona of the Hollywood actress on and off, through her movement and gestures.

  • @apurvasharma6289
    @apurvasharma6289 Місяць тому +1

    I wear glasses 😅

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому

      I also wear glasses sometimes. Glasses can be a great eyecatcher or accessory 🙂

  • @КаринаАрхипова-ц7к
    @КаринаАрхипова-ц7к 2 місяці тому +2

    It depends a lot on your self-esteem. If you have a problem with your personnal estime, hesitations, complexes, you can't repeat it of it would be hilarious)

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому

      Of course, it is very important to work on your self-esteem first, and to also have the right mindset.😊

  • @St4rs__0f1cial-hp7lu
    @St4rs__0f1cial-hp7lu 2 місяці тому +1

    I feel like if I was to practice this I would end up trying to hard and looking very psycho 😭🙏

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +1

      Just practice in front of the mirror, when you feel confident it will happen automatically with other people.

  • @blackycook7653
    @blackycook7653 2 місяці тому +2

    I hear a german accent good content appreciate it!

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you! Yes I’m from Germany 😅

  • @Pariafi
    @Pariafi 3 місяці тому +1

    Just be yourself

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому

      That’s what we do here. Being our best self 😉

  • @VidhiTiwari-b5d
    @VidhiTiwari-b5d Місяць тому

    5:56

  • @faryalaftabkhan5651
    @faryalaftabkhan5651 2 місяці тому

    Can you make a video on how to decenter men from your life?

  • @LionEmpress22
    @LionEmpress22 2 місяці тому

    Really, Ladies, you don't need to remember any of these tricks & gimmicks, to supposedly be of allure to another. There really is NO need, to fake that stuff. Because when you feel an attraction to someone, no matter how slight, your femininity kicks in naturally. And shyness can happen naturally too; which is why, some women tend to look up at you from underneath their brow bone, or as you put it, from under their lashes. But she may not wish to show her interest, which is why we automatically tend to momentarily look away, & then back again, so as not to seem rude, or like you're snubbing a person. This isn't necessarily or strictly a female trait, it's often just a touch of self consciousness, by either gender. It quite often shows up quickly & unexpectedly; when you might not even realise, to your surprise, that you kind of find someone attractive. Or maybe, like Princess Diana was, you're just a little too easily embarassed, which can make a person blush, that can also be mistaken for shyness.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your encouragement. You are right that these gesture happen naturally - but there are ladies who are super shy or feel awkward with their gestures or insecure about their body language. And analysing or practising helps with that. Of course you shouldn’t fake anything you don’t feel, but being more confident about what you are actually doing and what effect it might have, helped me a lot personally and even legends like Marilyn Monroe worked very much on themselves and their body language to become confident and magnetic. So it is everyone’s own choice. But thank you for the comment.

  • @Dr.NancyMBBS
    @Dr.NancyMBBS Місяць тому

    All of this comes to women naturally when they feel confident from inside or when you are wearing black. Kareena kapoor eye makeup from kurbaan is to die for ❤❤🤌

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому

      Yes, confidence is key, but not all comes naturally. But what does wearing black have to do with it 😅

    • @Dr.NancyMBBS
      @Dr.NancyMBBS Місяць тому

      @malenamatisse Black makes you feel enigmatic

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому

      @ depends on your Color Season but if it makes you feel good that’s great 👍😉In general wearing a Color that makes you feel confident is a good tip. Thank you

  • @DanieledwardRuhl-d6l
    @DanieledwardRuhl-d6l 3 місяці тому +1

    Hello

  • @dochics1053
    @dochics1053 3 місяці тому +3

    I love mine too a shop does mine transgender woman and male to leaning towards a woman ❤

  • @albi_does_allknow
    @albi_does_allknow 28 днів тому +1

    Русский акцент йеее

  • @Pariafi
    @Pariafi 3 місяці тому +6

    Oh gosh, you couldn't do those gazes well

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +12

      I bet you can do it better. Am looking forward to your video.😉

    • @Pariafi
      @Pariafi 3 місяці тому +2

      @@malenamatisse l'm trying to be my authentic self not imtating others, good luck

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  3 місяці тому +20

      @@Pariafi My viewers are not interested in imitating anyone, but in inspiration and self-development. I don’t know why you are watching my video if you are not interested in it, but thank you anyway for supporting the algorithm by commenting 🩷.

    • @Pariafi
      @Pariafi 3 місяці тому +1

      @@malenamatisse This was the first video and of course the last one I watched from your channel. Thanke you for reminding me not supporting the algorithm anymore.

    • @rosaleencloade9447
      @rosaleencloade9447 3 місяці тому +7

      @@PariafiI Hope you will feel better tomorrow