How to Have More Expressive Eyes and Seduce with your Gaze

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

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  • @ailurii
    @ailurii 2 місяці тому +407

    1. Slowly blink, look away for a moment, then return gaze.
    2. Make eye contact, hold it for just a bit longer than usual, then look away with a smile.
    3. Tilt your head slightly down, then look up to someone from under your lashes.
    4. Smolder (head tilt, intense gaze, slight smile).
    5. Lean in to the person you’re talking to.
    6. Gently touch your face/hair while maintaining eye contact.
    7. Give them a warm, soft smile with eye contact.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +18

      Thank you for the resume 😊

    • @nurfitrialviani3117
      @nurfitrialviani3117 2 місяці тому +11

      Ugh i cannot maintain eye contact

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +8

      @@nurfitrialviani3117 I understand you, I couldn’t either when I was younger. But with practice it will get better.

  • @isshhhuuu885
    @isshhhuuu885 2 місяці тому +337

    Is it only me getting glimpses of Britney Spears in her face?

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +34

      I’m flattered☺️Thank you! People seem to recognise all kinds of persons in me, also very different types, but I have already been told to have something from Britney Spears many years ago when I was younger, so that’s super interesting😅.

    • @littlespringaz9090
      @littlespringaz9090 28 днів тому +2

      The 3rd sister !

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  28 днів тому +1

      @@littlespringaz9090 😅

    • @BingusEdits6501
      @BingusEdits6501 25 днів тому +3

      I see it too tbh

  • @JoyIdaraEffiong
    @JoyIdaraEffiong Місяць тому +71

    How to have a powerful i gaze
    1) eye makeup
    - smokey eye
    - winged eyeliner
    - lashes use mascara
    - highlighter in the coner of eye
    - eyebrows needs to be groomed
    2) the art of gaze
    - the slow blink- hold your gaze slowly blink the look away for a sec before looking back.
    - hold and release- hold eye contact for a bit longer then look away with a slight smile.
    - the upward glance- you tilt your head downward and look through your lashes.
    - the smolder- narrow gaz tilt head and barely smile
    3) body language
    - leaning in
    - gently touch your face when making contact
    - soft smile
    4) practice

  • @october_girl_from_space
    @october_girl_from_space Місяць тому +30

    My eyes are black, big and beautiful ❤

  • @californiasgauld9442
    @californiasgauld9442 2 місяці тому +146

    I LOVE that you included Memoirs of a Geisha! Great video, and you're almost at 10k!

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +6

      Yes, that’s one of my favourite movies, I already loved the novel and the movie is great, too🩷Oh yes, am super excited that we almost hit 10K 😍

    • @vipmonicake
      @vipmonicake 2 місяці тому

      Yeah, sucks that she didn’t even mention the name of the actress.

    • @barbarellla1553
      @barbarellla1553 2 місяці тому +2

      It was the first book I've read in English! Love from Warsaw, Poland❤

    • @barbarellla1553
      @barbarellla1553 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@vipmonicakeZhang Ziyi❤

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +1

      @@barbarellla1553 I also read it a long time ago when I went to school. I loved it 🥰 Pozdrowienia 🩷

  • @yasskye768
    @yasskye768 2 місяці тому +53

    You have the most beautiful, charming, soothing, special voice and intonation I’ve ever heard. I know you probably can’t teach this because it’s just how you speak and your accent but I wish there was a way! I put your videos on just to hear it sometimes and feel graceful. I wish you were hired for voice overs in everything. ❤

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +7

      Aww, this is so heartwarming and beautiful to read! 🥰 Thank you so much, you really made my day! I’m so happy that you like my voice and it gives you a soothing feeling ☺️🤗Sending lots of Love back to you!💕

    • @barbarellla1553
      @barbarellla1553 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@malenamatisseOMG, so true ❤

  • @debora2604
    @debora2604 20 днів тому +3

    honey, you don’t practice eye movement. you practice character. you are sending signals with real gesture. Some women are naturally seductive, even when only smile, or just being herself. Monica Bellucci is naturally facial sexy and eye catching.

  • @tararaichand3
    @tararaichand3 27 днів тому +6

    Hey Ms. Malena, those are some amazing tips. I adore how you brought up certain film references, such as Memoirs of a Geisha. Is it possible to put together a list of films that illustrate femininity in an interesting manner? 😊

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  27 днів тому +2

      Thank you for your comment, this is a great idea. I will make a Community post so that all ladies can also add their suggestions for films that illustrate femininity and I will also list some 🩷

  • @sarahifab7433
    @sarahifab7433 2 місяці тому +6

    MEMORIES FROM A GEISHA!! amazing movie, very sad but beautiful at the same time

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому

      Yes, I loved it and the book, too. 🌸

  • @gulbenizsalmanl3561
    @gulbenizsalmanl3561 24 дні тому +4

    I used those techniques when i met with a boy (rn he is my fiance). Believe me or not it really affects the way people see you.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  24 дні тому

      That’s interesting, thank you for sharing 🩷

  • @mariachan-cx2se
    @mariachan-cx2se 2 місяці тому +20

    Girl I love your videos I love how you collect many informations in one video I've been searching for a long time for a video that describes how seductive women used to gaze so seductively

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому

      Ohh I’m so happy to read that 🩷 thank you for your lovely comment 🌹

  • @moonlight_bvby5011
    @moonlight_bvby5011 2 місяці тому +10

    in all honesty if your confident that seducing gaze will come naturally to you especially if your really into someone or try to put on an act that you are. You dont have to force yourself to remember rules for how to.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +3

      That is true, but becoming confident is often achieved by practice. In my case it helped 😉

  • @healingypsy
    @healingypsy 28 днів тому +7

    Have to be careful because if too intentional looks more like psycho eyes. some women just have it and do it naturally. Not contrived. I recall a time when a female friend and I were ordering a meal from the head waiter in Milan. When the waiter left my friend actually said to me " You're such a coquette !" I looked it up - she actually thought i was flirting with the waiter ! I was not at all ! But i guess some of us women just do it naturally. I guess because I am naturally shy but also playful - but not calculated to attract anyone which I belive makes it more powerful

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  28 днів тому

      That’s true, one always has to be careful and consider the environment, situation and cultural context, very important!
      But yes, in your case it might be that you just have a natural innocent coquette body language which some women have and this is perceived as flirty by some people.

  • @ametrineambrosia4929
    @ametrineambrosia4929 29 днів тому +10

    Actually happened in real life...made a guy almost crash his bicycle because he kept looking back at me.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  28 днів тому +3

      Oh really?😅 I hope he was ok after that.

  • @AthenaPaints
    @AthenaPaints 2 місяці тому +10

    God bless you Miss. I subscribed but this specific material of how u cross reference movies and explained the movement is the best explanation on UA-cam. The movement is what’s really going to change my life. You did amazing job! YOU GO GIRL!
    -A Visual artist with Social Anxiety Disorder.
    P.s. I’m adding this to my professional skills but will spice up my love life as well. ❤

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your lovely comment and the great feedback!!! 🌹I wish you all the best and welcome among my subscribers 🩷☺️

  • @kanao4477
    @kanao4477 Місяць тому +26

    Is it just me that burst into laughter everytime she wanted to pratice the methods herself 😂😂😂

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому +8

      At least I made you laugh.😉 You seem to have a funny humour.

    • @mariamipxikidze9171
      @mariamipxikidze9171 26 днів тому +1

      realest

    • @gulbenizsalmanl3561
      @gulbenizsalmanl3561 25 днів тому +1

      I think you're the only one who laughs at her❤

    • @kanao4477
      @kanao4477 24 дні тому +1

      @@gulbenizsalmanl3561 i m not mocking her, why re yall so offended, like it s just her expression is so funny when she try to do that

    • @gulbenizsalmanl3561
      @gulbenizsalmanl3561 24 дні тому

      @@kanao4477 good for you then🩷

  • @jacquelineess1141
    @jacquelineess1141 2 місяці тому +2

    Your astute observations, beautiful face, warm voice and calm demeanor are what made me subscribe to you, even though I know all these techniques already. You're wonderful!❤

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much for your kind and lovely words 💕 I‘m happy to have you among my subscribers 🤗

  • @WishesofLight
    @WishesofLight 2 місяці тому +4

    Wow what a beautifully presented video thank you for sharing your knowledge and movie recommendations. I will definitely watch those so I can learn these feminine traits 😍 I’ve just subscribed to your channel because I find you really authentic! 🌸💕 x

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for the lovely feedback and welcome 🤗 🩷

  • @Kbackdesk
    @Kbackdesk 7 днів тому +1

    Out of context may i know where did u purchase the closet in the back? (With the nice pink background and what's it called

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  7 днів тому

      Do you mean that folding screen/ partition with the pink flower design?

  • @betilynedubala5194
    @betilynedubala5194 Місяць тому +2

    I sometimes use it when necessary . They say I have dramatic eyes and that it seems tantalizing.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  29 днів тому

      That’s interesting. Thank you for your comment 🌹

  • @maramnasmd
    @maramnasmd Місяць тому +3

    This was well studied but I'll look funny crazy trying to do this

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому

      Me too 😅 but practice makes perfect ☺️

  • @arundhati4284
    @arundhati4284 2 місяці тому +4

    Thanks for your insights dear Malena.Will definitely follow 👍. Could you please tell me the name of music playing while displaying your logos.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for your comment and welcome 🤗 the music is from iMovie and is called 44th street.

    • @arundhati4284
      @arundhati4284 2 місяці тому +1

      @@malenamatisse Thank you so much.

  • @MounaJamila-n1x
    @MounaJamila-n1x Місяць тому +4

    Oh you looks so pretty honey i admire your look makeup 💄

  • @subarnasaha8210
    @subarnasaha8210 2 місяці тому +9

    What's is your native language, I love your English in that accent it's quite good ❤

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +8

      Hello ☺️thank you! My first language war polish and my second German (so I would rather say Ferman as I grew up with it).

    • @shayennebouts4724
      @shayennebouts4724 2 місяці тому +6

      ​@malenamatisse I absolutely love the accent. Sooo cute 🥰 Reminds me of my sister-in-law. She's Romanian. Also, thank you for the tips on this video 😊

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +5

      @@shayennebouts4724 thank you ☺️ that gives me a good feeling ☺️ one is never sure about how one sounds with an accent. 😅

  • @Madison.maddie.
    @Madison.maddie. 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for video
    ❤❤❤❤❤
    And makeup technic

  • @deynaspeace
    @deynaspeace Місяць тому

    Very nice video, thank you. ❤

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому

      Thank you for your lovely feedback ❣️

  • @LeylaLazuli
    @LeylaLazuli Місяць тому +1

    good video❤❤❤

  • @user-dc369
    @user-dc369 2 місяці тому +13

    Eye makeup tutorial 🤍🥺🫶

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +5

      I’ll try my best in the future 🌹

  • @mymelodichandle
    @mymelodichandle Місяць тому +2

    You have to be my new favourite UA-camr 🫣

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому

      Ohh that’s so sweet, thank you and welcome 🤗🩷

  • @samadhithilakarathne-lm4uh
    @samadhithilakarathne-lm4uh 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you mis😊 great!!!

  • @judysaffield2811
    @judysaffield2811 2 місяці тому +2

    What a great video

  • @LilMsLorelei
    @LilMsLorelei Місяць тому +1

    If I have to go through all this to get a man, then he is NOT the one. Either he likes me or he doesn't.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому +2

      The goal is to feel good or better and more confident about yourself, not getting a man.

    • @LilMsLorelei
      @LilMsLorelei Місяць тому +2

      @@malenamatisse I feel good about myself by being a good person.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому

      @@LilMsLorelei that’s great 🩷

  • @dianecourtney2724
    @dianecourtney2724 2 місяці тому +1

    This is great 😊

  • @NANCYBJMC
    @NANCYBJMC 11 днів тому

    All of this comes to women naturally when they feel confident from inside or when you are wearing black. Kareena kapoor eye makeup from kurbaan is to die for ❤❤🤌

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  11 днів тому

      Yes, confidence is key, but not all comes naturally. But what does wearing black have to do with it 😅

    • @NANCYBJMC
      @NANCYBJMC 11 днів тому

      @malenamatisse Black makes you feel enigmatic

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  11 днів тому

      @ depends on your Color Season but if it makes you feel good that’s great 👍😉In general wearing a Color that makes you feel confident is a good tip. Thank you

  • @xoxogemvenus
    @xoxogemvenus Місяць тому +8

    I feel like you got it or you don’t.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому

      It depends. For sone people yes, but you can learn more than you think. Marilyn is the best example for a person who has completely transformed herself and her body language and could switch this persona of the Hollywood actress on and off, through her movement and gestures.

  • @apurvasharma6289
    @apurvasharma6289 18 днів тому +1

    I wear glasses 😅

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  18 днів тому

      I also wear glasses sometimes. Glasses can be a great eyecatcher or accessory 🙂

  • @Pariafi
    @Pariafi 2 місяці тому +1

    Just be yourself

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому

      That’s what we do here. Being our best self 😉

  • @blackycook7653
    @blackycook7653 27 днів тому +2

    I hear a german accent good content appreciate it!

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  27 днів тому +1

      Thank you! Yes I’m from Germany 😅

  • @КаринаАрхипова-ц7к
    @КаринаАрхипова-ц7к Місяць тому +2

    It depends a lot on your self-esteem. If you have a problem with your personnal estime, hesitations, complexes, you can't repeat it of it would be hilarious)

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому

      Of course, it is very important to work on your self-esteem first, and to also have the right mindset.😊

  • @VidhiTiwari-b5d
    @VidhiTiwari-b5d 25 днів тому

    5:56

  • @St4rs__0f1cial-hp7lu
    @St4rs__0f1cial-hp7lu Місяць тому +1

    I feel like if I was to practice this I would end up trying to hard and looking very psycho 😭🙏

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому +1

      Just practice in front of the mirror, when you feel confident it will happen automatically with other people.

  • @faryalaftabkhan5651
    @faryalaftabkhan5651 Місяць тому

    Can you make a video on how to decenter men from your life?

  • @LionEmpress22
    @LionEmpress22 Місяць тому

    Really, Ladies, you don't need to remember any of these tricks & gimmicks, to supposedly be of allure to another. There really is NO need, to fake that stuff. Because when you feel an attraction to someone, no matter how slight, your femininity kicks in naturally. And shyness can happen naturally too; which is why, some women tend to look up at you from underneath their brow bone, or as you put it, from under their lashes. But she may not wish to show her interest, which is why we automatically tend to momentarily look away, & then back again, so as not to seem rude, or like you're snubbing a person. This isn't necessarily or strictly a female trait, it's often just a touch of self consciousness, by either gender. It quite often shows up quickly & unexpectedly; when you might not even realise, to your surprise, that you kind of find someone attractive. Or maybe, like Princess Diana was, you're just a little too easily embarassed, which can make a person blush, that can also be mistaken for shyness.

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for your encouragement. You are right that these gesture happen naturally - but there are ladies who are super shy or feel awkward with their gestures or insecure about their body language. And analysing or practising helps with that. Of course you shouldn’t fake anything you don’t feel, but being more confident about what you are actually doing and what effect it might have, helped me a lot personally and even legends like Marilyn Monroe worked very much on themselves and their body language to become confident and magnetic. So it is everyone’s own choice. But thank you for the comment.

  • @DanieledwardRuhl-d6l
    @DanieledwardRuhl-d6l 2 місяці тому +1

    Hello

  • @dochics1053
    @dochics1053 2 місяці тому +3

    I love mine too a shop does mine transgender woman and male to leaning towards a woman ❤

  • @Pariafi
    @Pariafi 2 місяці тому +6

    Oh gosh, you couldn't do those gazes well

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +11

      I bet you can do it better. Am looking forward to your video.😉

    • @Pariafi
      @Pariafi 2 місяці тому +2

      @@malenamatisse l'm trying to be my authentic self not imtating others, good luck

    • @malenamatisse
      @malenamatisse  2 місяці тому +18

      @@Pariafi My viewers are not interested in imitating anyone, but in inspiration and self-development. I don’t know why you are watching my video if you are not interested in it, but thank you anyway for supporting the algorithm by commenting 🩷.

    • @Pariafi
      @Pariafi 2 місяці тому +1

      @@malenamatisse This was the first video and of course the last one I watched from your channel. Thanke you for reminding me not supporting the algorithm anymore.

    • @rosaleencloade9447
      @rosaleencloade9447 2 місяці тому +7

      @@PariafiI Hope you will feel better tomorrow