0:05: This is a guy who wants to date primarily for looks more than anything else. He's clearly immature. OP needs to kick him to the curb. 4:29: That he's willing to send DMs to a model he's likely never going to meet in real life says to me he's too immature for a real GF. OP needs to kick him to the curb.
I'll be honest a lot of guys date women they settle for because they wanted someone physically hotter and couldn't get them. Eventually we learn looks can be deceiving.
tbh as a girl i date guys who are nice to me, because i wanted someone who was nice to me, i got him, but i couldn’t keep him. and i just miss him 😢 but i’ve finally accepted he’s never coming back and i need to stop letting it consume my feelings and thoughts.
@@imawakemymindisalive13 It's not your job to keep us, either he wants to be there or he doesn't... learn from this and move accordingly going forward. Also try dating emotional mature men who are upfront about how they feel so you not guessing if he will leave or not.
How shallow and gross. Men (generally speaking, those who don't already) need to learn how to appreciate things for the complexities within them; not just their aspects.
@@thottusthottusxoxo While this sounds good most people don't think that way, especially as young adults. Us men also deal with shallow stuff, but you just pick and choose what you will and will not accept Standard Boundaries and Expectations.
I can almost relate to all of these lol, my past partners were gold mines on what a partner shouldn't be like. However the first one unlocked a hidden insecurity of mine 💀 Love your vids tho! ✨🫶
Fr, and if hes doing the “boys will be boys” card, then she should pull the “girls will be girls” card, and break up with him, or say the same things about him, with a friendgroup of her own (i doubt he would get past that himself, and probably wouldn’t even want to stay with her, if so). He “doesn’t talk to those friends” anymore, but that may also even be, because he broke up with them, for reasons excluding harsh jokes being made on and about his girlfriend. He’s a people pleaser, and he cares about what others think and value, even if it means to throw his own girlfriend under the bus, no matter how much damage is given to her, just to get that little attention. He cares less about his girlfriend, excusing the actions of his friends and himself, and its no wonder why he brought up the “oh i was just being immature back then”, also with the audacity to say “how dare u”, and “boys will be boys” to her in turn when confronted. Not a good look for him tbh. And he’s only being “nice “now””, but that may also even be to manipulate her into doing anything that’d please and benefit him more, or only him in the future. He knows he’s wrong, and thats why the “hot” girls aren’t into him, and are “rude” instead. He seems like he’s going to be taking advantage of someone aka op herself, who is inexperienced in the dating game, and isn’t as mature and aware as the “hot” girls, making it easier for him to manipulate her as soon as possible.
2nd story: there’s a difference between commenting on a public post that you find someone good looking, and privately messaging things as detailed as that while never complimenting your own partner
@ceciliomendoza8228 my mom been w him for around 3 yrs, she's the breadwinner of the family but they're still struggling. He's a gamer bf with no job. Not once has he complimented her or thanked her. He's a selfish man, likes to like other women's photos on the phone SHE bought him AND pays for.
The fact that I'm sitting slumped over with a not ideal posture next to my husband and accidentally let out a burp and he still said he loved me makes me so happy, but I also feel so sorry for those relationships where one partner is super concentrated on appearances. :( You deserve better
"Boys being boys" is a quote I've heard so often used in the WRONG CONTEXT, boys being boys is not referring to rude, cheating, misogynists the way everyone thinks it is. It's referring to the boys who are genuine, nice, equal minded and (when with their friends) are having fun that isn't hurting someone else or morally wrong. Can we please stop using this quote to refer to such horrible things and stop using it to excuse bad behaviour? If you're a sh!tty person, you're a sh!tty person, end of, no excuse.
the second he would be like that to me he would d be an single , he was doing it on purpose to make her insecure so she will stay because this is the only way he can keep an girl because he himself wouldnt be able to keep and girl and relationship in other way even if his life depended on it
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, you still chose to get into a relationship with him even though he thought you were ugly, so what does that say about you. He really hurt his wife's feelings because she already feels down and low about the way that she looks, and when she saw where he was making fun of her looks she felt worthless. He definitely should do and say everything that he can in order to boost her heart and mood back up. In the second story, she should dump him right away because he is pathetic. He has an actual girlfriend so he shouldn't even be on those types of apps because he's not single. He's a loser. I just don't get some of these men who have girlfriends or wives but they still want to sleep around. Those people whom you are tallking about Kyutie are called parasocials, andd they are very disgusting. They are just like the paparazzi. I love you my dear friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!
Read the story again in the first one she didn't find out till 4 years into the relationships with a baby. He did all that s*** with his best friends on the internet before they got into serious dating mode and then she found out for years later that he stopped as soon as they got serious. Read the story before condemning the young lady with a baby of his. 4 years.
She didn’t know he felt that way until long AFTER they had been dating. she didn’t know going in that he thought she was ugly. It was years before she found out.
0:05: This is a guy who wants to date primarily for looks more than anything else. He's clearly immature. OP needs to kick him to the curb.
4:29: That he's willing to send DMs to a model he's likely never going to meet in real life says to me he's too immature for a real GF. OP needs to kick him to the curb.
Great conclusions
I feel bad for the women in these stories. They deserve better
2nd story. He didn’t change his behavior he just got better at hiding it. Two years without a compliment?!?! That alone makes him a loser. Dump him.
Dude, if a guy's not gonna compliment and romance me, I don't want him.
I cant even explain how hurt i feel for the girl in the first story. Like yhe idea of a person doing that makes me so ill like omg
i would cry in the first story, my ex made me feel like that and it made me relapse ED
she deserves so much better, im in a happier relationship now
I'll be honest a lot of guys date women they settle for because they wanted someone physically hotter and couldn't get them. Eventually we learn looks can be deceiving.
That makes me sad
tbh as a girl i date guys who are nice to me, because i wanted someone who was nice to me, i got him, but i couldn’t keep him. and i just miss him 😢 but i’ve finally accepted he’s never coming back and i need to stop letting it consume my feelings and thoughts.
@@imawakemymindisalive13 It's not your job to keep us, either he wants to be there or he doesn't... learn from this and move accordingly going forward. Also try dating emotional mature men who are upfront about how they feel so you not guessing if he will leave or not.
How shallow and gross. Men (generally speaking, those who don't already) need to learn how to appreciate things for the complexities within them; not just their aspects.
@@thottusthottusxoxo While this sounds good most people don't think that way, especially as young adults. Us men also deal with shallow stuff, but you just pick and choose what you will and will not accept Standard Boundaries and Expectations.
If you were dating someone who thought you were unattractive, your fans would have him committed.
I can almost relate to all of these lol, my past partners were gold mines on what a partner shouldn't be like. However the first one unlocked a hidden insecurity of mine 💀
Love your vids tho! ✨🫶
There were so many emotions for the title. Now hearing the story, it’s a 🚩🚩
I feel so bad for her!!
@@Kyutie.same! You should never make fun of someone for their weight or looks, let alone your partner😕
Fr, and if hes doing the “boys will be boys” card, then she should pull the “girls will be girls” card, and break up with him, or say the same things about him, with a friendgroup of her own (i doubt he would get past that himself, and probably wouldn’t even want to stay with her, if so).
He “doesn’t talk to those friends” anymore, but that may also even be, because he broke up with them, for reasons excluding harsh jokes being made on and about his girlfriend. He’s a people pleaser, and he cares about what others think and value, even if it means to throw his own girlfriend under the bus, no matter how much damage is given to her, just to get that little attention. He cares less about his girlfriend, excusing the actions of his friends and himself, and its no wonder why he brought up the “oh i was just being immature back then”, also with the audacity to say “how dare u”, and “boys will be boys” to her in turn when confronted. Not a good look for him tbh.
And he’s only being “nice “now””, but that may also even be to manipulate her into doing anything that’d please and benefit him more, or only him in the future. He knows he’s wrong, and thats why the “hot” girls aren’t into him, and are “rude” instead. He seems like he’s going to be taking advantage of someone aka op herself, who is inexperienced in the dating game, and isn’t as mature and aware as the “hot” girls, making it easier for him to manipulate her as soon as possible.
That subtle jab at kpop stans 💀
2nd story: there’s a difference between commenting on a public post that you find someone good looking, and privately messaging things as detailed as that while never complimenting your own partner
That 2nd story explains 20% of my mom and her bfs relationship lol
@@Nameless82284 ...wdym?
@@Nameless82284 idk how else to explain it 😭 I feel like it's pretty straight forward
@ceciliomendoza8228 my mom been w him for around 3 yrs, she's the breadwinner of the family but they're still struggling. He's a gamer bf with no job. Not once has he complimented her or thanked her. He's a selfish man, likes to like other women's photos on the phone SHE bought him AND pays for.
@@Nameless82284 thanks
Ughh.. that second guy reminds me of my past when i used to dm kpop idols like that😂😂😂
Glad i stopped
Second story..... Way for the boyfriend to get a reputation as a stalker.
These are sad 😢 I knew there is a reason why I am still single.
Same. Must say, I'm a man, but I'm afraid of becoming like these people unintentionally. Conaidering
Same. Must say, I'm a man, but I'm afraid of becoming like these people unintentionally. Conaidering
Same. Must say, I'm a man, but I'm afraid of becoming like these people unintentionally. Conaidering
Same. Must say, I'm a man, but I'm afraid of becoming like these people unintentionally. Conaidering
Same. Must say, I'm a man, but I'm afraid of becoming like these people unintentionally. Conaidering
The fact that I'm sitting slumped over with a not ideal posture next to my husband and accidentally let out a burp and he still said he loved me makes me so happy, but I also feel so sorry for those relationships where one partner is super concentrated on appearances. :( You deserve better
I love your videos kyutie
This second story man. Dump the guy.
"Boys being boys" is a quote I've heard so often used in the WRONG CONTEXT, boys being boys is not referring to rude, cheating, misogynists the way everyone thinks it is. It's referring to the boys who are genuine, nice, equal minded and (when with their friends) are having fun that isn't hurting someone else or morally wrong. Can we please stop using this quote to refer to such horrible things and stop using it to excuse bad behaviour? If you're a sh!tty person, you're a sh!tty person, end of, no excuse.
the second he would be like that to me he would d be an single , he was doing it on purpose to make her insecure so she will stay because this is the only way he can keep an girl because he himself wouldnt be able to keep and girl and relationship in other way even if his life depended on it
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How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, you still chose to get into a relationship with him even though he thought you were ugly, so what does that say about you. He really hurt his wife's feelings because she already feels down and low about the way that she looks, and when she saw where he was making fun of her looks she felt worthless. He definitely should do and say everything that he can in order to boost her heart and mood back up. In the second story, she should dump him right away because he is pathetic. He has an actual girlfriend so he shouldn't even be on those types of apps because he's not single. He's a loser. I just don't get some of these men who have girlfriends or wives but they still want to sleep around. Those people whom you are tallking about Kyutie are called parasocials, andd they are very disgusting. They are just like the paparazzi. I love you my dear friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!
Read the story again in the first one she didn't find out till 4 years into the relationships with a baby. He did all that s*** with his best friends on the internet before they got into serious dating mode and then she found out for years later that he stopped as soon as they got serious. Read the story before condemning the young lady with a baby of his. 4 years.
She didn’t know he felt that way until long AFTER they had been dating. she didn’t know going in that he thought she was ugly. It was years before she found out.
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