6 Signs Of An Emotionally Abusive Relationship You Shouldnt Ignore | BetterHelp
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Emotional abuse is a severe form of psychological trauma. It’s otherwise known as mental or psychological abuse; however these terms refer to the same concept. Unlike physical abuse, emotional abuse doesn’t leave visible scars. That doesn’t mean that it isn’t damaging. When a perpetrator abuses a victim emotionally, they use several forms of manipulation to control the person.
Abusers break down their victim’s self-esteem to the point where they feel worthless. When a victim believes that they don’t deserve love, they are at the whim of their abuser. The perpetrator may engage in name calling, shaming, and telling the abused person that they’re unlovable. Threats are a large part of the emotional or mental abuse. The abuser tells their victim that they won’t be able to do better or find love.
The victim often hides the mental or emotional abuse from friends and family because they are ashamed. However, there are some signs to indicate emotional abuse is happening. If you think someone you love is a victim of abuse, don’t ignore that intuition. Check in with them and see if they need help. You could save a life.
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If you searched for this video, it’s a sign. I hope you have the strength to get out of that relationship.
Ouch
To get to know. You know sometimes we can educate ourself for the future
Hoping ..so.
I left August 22nd and he keeps apologizing but I keep telling him HELL NO! I gave him 1 too many chances,I’m DONE!
yes if u are looking for such videos it s a sigh trust ur guts feelings and act
It is so dificult, sometimes we get dependent on it and accept anything.
That's the saddest part. You want to end it but you just can't and you don't know why. 😢
Probably here comes personality disorder .
It's not worth it.
@@francesgracegragas5290 that is where I am at now. It hurts like hell. I don't understand why anyone enjoys continually hurting the one who truly loves them.
@@francesgracegragas5290 same here 😭
It’s hard admitting that they are not the person you thought they were. The heart takes a while to catch up with the head.
Six months ago I was crying my eyes out watching this , six months later I’m prepping for university to do my dream course 🥺💖it does get better I promise 💖
If I am brave enough to leave, I will never be in another relationship again. I can’t ever do this again.
I know it does feel like that right now. I pray u find someone better and worth your time
Frfr I’m done for good
Forest Que same
That's the fear i am going through
Sometimes the most high may want us to be alone and grow that way or he has someone better in the works
Passive aggressive & emotional
Shutdown/withdrawal, destroying
Your self worth
Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay
I was emotionally abused - but I was the one who was looking up his phone and trying to find proof he is cheating and lying. Finally I found out it was true, but because of the gaslighting, I needed solid proof. Emotional abuser can make the victim act like an abuser.
In my experience, they don’t flat out deny ever having said something, but they reinterpret what they meant by what they said. This makes you feel like maybe you were wrong. But after so many instances of this, you begin to see the pattern of avoiding responsibility and gaslighting
This!
Yup they make remarks and comments and deny saying what they said and tell you YOU are the one being unreasonable
This happened to me :( He insulted my family, mocked me, spoke poorly of my physical appearance.. and when I brought it up, he made it out like it was my fault??
Absolutely
my ex-wife....
Been there for 4 years. The moment he left, was the best day of my life.
i have learnt that emotional abusive people are so manipulative and it might be hard to identify them
I kind of did but the problem is that u coming from a family where parents were cold manipulative and narcissistic so u trapped and u feel that u can't live without ur partner imagine you not free enough to think u good enough to get a normal partner if u leave one you already have
I know what you mean. I'm dealing with one.
I agree with you, they hide their true self, until you fall for them. Then the fun starts, They seem to know who to target, so they are smart, manipulating, but smart.
@@Bishop472 I am as well. What do we do? It hurts so bad.
I think I may be in one.....
I just got out of an abusive relationship ((((:
lilly s Bravo for you. Don't go back
Lucky person
same.. good on you
God bless ❤❤❤
Good
Generally what she described is a narcissist. If you find yourself in a relationship like that. Walk away from them immediately if you can. These people will literally drive you crazy if you let them. They will literally take everything from you.
What about neglect? It’s incredibly abusive!
I used to wonder why my relationships always ended badly, then one day I realised that *l* was the problem. I refused to believe it at first but when I started really being honest with myself I could see that I was dishonest, selfish and emotionally manipulative. It’s sad to think how many people out there are just like me but will never have the come-to-Jesus moment that I did, and go wrecking lives with no idea that they’re a monster.
There's the point when you already now you already in emotional abuse relationship but you just can't get up, like hoping he could change, and you set more low and lower your own boundaries..
Happens to men to. We may generally be bigger and stronger however we have the same vulnerabilities it happened to me and I feel humiliated. Thank God I jumped in my car and left. Never have gone back. Withstood the abuse, the stalking, the hoovering, the manipulation. If I told you what she did you would be sick. It hurt like hell because I loved her but I discovered I loved myself more. The pain feels like death sometimes but I kept moving forward. The journey gets easier. Hang in there sister you can get through this
Mutiara Alnisa thats me right now..
Yes, absolutely. And people don't understand this
@@matthewcallaghan1512 Exactly. I'm one of those men too. It started out beautiful -- like a fairy tale. I genuinely thought I was going to marry her -- we even picked out names for our future kids! Five years later, she forced me into a joint bank account, would take all of my money, refuse to let me use any of it, forced me to do things I would NEVER do otherwise (but i did them, because I loved her). Among other unspeakable things. It's been two years since we broke up. I just found out she's marrying her rebound (they started dating a few months after our five year relationship) in two months. I'm bewildered, but also relieved. I dodged a bullet. I'm still healing, but now I know what to look out for and how to love myself. Thank you for sharing your story and letting other guys out there know it can happen to them too.
I know what you mean.
Just wanted to say that I made it out of a mentally and emotionally abusive marriage two years ago, and it was the best decision of my life. I'm with a loving partner who makes me feel strong and brave, and I'm thriving in my healing journey. There is hope-- protect yourselves!
I wish I could find courage to leave 😭😭
Hardest thing is believing yourself. Even as I listen I try to argue the point that there was good reason behind it, but there is no excuse for someone disrespecting you or making you feel crazy (gaslighting).
Wow I am in an emotional abusive relationship. I’m too kind and caring to deserve this abuse.
The worst part is that u know ur in one, but u love and care about them so much that u feel u shouldn't or cant leave them....
I didn't know I was being gaslighted until I heard the first sign.
Also been threatened that they'll leave.
Also been blamed for their bad behaviour
WOW THIS IS SO POWERFUL. I love the point about control. A lot of women think that it'S cute when a man is jealous and wants to know everything, but it can also unhealthy and toxic.
It has been my experience that an emotionally abusive person will try these tactics on most people: they will test the waters with just about everyone.
Yes,this is true, it in their personality
This is everything my husband is, this is my marriage described in 6 minutes .....
It's tough, but more than anything it feels like a thorn removed from the side. It hurts, but the healing can start.
Amen.. 💥❤💥
I got out of mine! Been this way for 5 years now. I couldn’t take it anymore he would even call me ugly names and cuss at me. I’m so happy and feel free to be out of that. Never looking back ✨
Excellent signs explained about Emotionally abusive relationship. Especially I agree the sign of blame from some persons. Instead of changing their bad behavior, they blame others that they are the cause of their behavior. Thanks for sharing.
It is so sad when a parent emotionally abuses thier own children ,I feel the best way to deal with abusive parents is the less contact the better,if a parent cannot treat you right why bother trying to have a relationship?.NO CONTACT!
Try to remain kind and patient yourself, while respecting yourself.
It’s the worst cause the child internalizes the abuse to their self esteem .. 😔
The only reason is still visit home is because of our family dog who i miss soooooo much
The harder part is to get them out of your head
@@natalieboult4726 💯😕💯😕💯
Cannot wait to sign those divorce papers.✒️🚀📯🍾⏳☮️
When you leave that's when you see them crumble. This man is going to need 7 lives to be forgiven.
I bless you all who cannot leave🦋
The hard part is setting aisde the numbness that has insidiouly creepd in, so that you can make a sound decision.
It's so hard to get out of these relationship for different reasons but I feel the worst is financial abuse.
Blanca Rosas,hope you are not with a narcissist!
Currently getting out of an abusive relationship with episodes of domestic violence. It's not easy. It really isn't. But I know that I have to do it.. For my own mental and physical well-being. Thanks for this video.
Nice video. You don't have to waste your life with an emotionally abusive person. You have to make boundaries and make that person respect your choices or leave
Some of those signs I never thought were emotionally abusive. Thanks for enlightening me.
Me, too!!!
Thank you for this insightful video. I went through all of these emotional abuses in my marriage. I thank God everyday for giving me the strength to leave him.
I just want it to stop...it's like a nightmare I can't wake up from
Learn to be indifferent to these people. Not to care if they are in your life or not (especially important for parents or children of emotionally abusive people) so that whatever they say or do has no effect on you. Works for me!
This kind of video really helps people to find out their actual relationship status and gives courage to get rid off such kind of an emotional abusive relationship.
Don't ignore these signs of emotionally abusive relationship!
Sadly, not all counselors/therapists have the skill to help. I am a therapist myself, and have experienced the abusive tactics contained in this video, and have sought out therapy but despite quite a few attempts, have not found many therapists skilled in this area. That was an eye opener. Maybe a video on how to find such a therapist would help (I provide such help to my clients, but of course, I cannot help myself, such is the nature of therapy and human connection). This video is excellent and I have shared it.
This video has just mentioned every trait my ex wife had. Controlling in all aspects...it's not always men who are control freaks,
Very useful video and nice tips! Extremely serous problem widely spread out. The truth is that really the victim usually hides the mental or emotional abuse from friends and family because they are ashamed. We should help!
It is all so familiar to me.One wise person told me once that It Is important to be financially independent and have family support.
Straight to the point. Excellent! Thank you.
I recognize the emotional abuse. The problem is that I’m alone with these scapegoats so nobody else understands
Happiness is within all of you, we are all big hearted people that deserve to love ourselves first. Make it a boundary to love yourself and learn to, it doesn't come easy. Get out of the negativity and create light. Don't ever let a manipulative person ever define you. Define yourself.
Wonderful vibes ❤❤
This was such a clear description, free of anger for the abuser, just breaking down the pattern of behavior. This was the most helpful resource I have found, other than the support of my therapist. Thank you.
sad that this behavior comes from the people who claim they love you the most
Man! Do you know what woman wants? Be considerate, respectful and love her.
It goes for both genders
Is frustrating to know that such animals exist
👍
It's not only for women
Quit nagging.
What a quite interesting and informative video I have found! This video shows really possible situations that happen in the lives of all people sometimes. Emotionally abusive relationships become one of the worst headaches when we do not know how to detect it, the worst decision is not to finish it and have to deal with it. Thanks for sharing this helpful video with us! I'll be looking forward to watch your next videos!
It is really hard to find these signs and most people ignore these symptoms, helpful and informative video. Thanks.
Emotionally abusive relationships become one of the worst headaches when we do not know how to detect it, the worst decision is not to finish it and have to deal with it. Great video!
Great video, great examples, emotionally abusive relationships are so very common everyone should have access to such videos.
I'm glad I now know the signs of this and will look out for it in future, great video.
i am sure that you are doing a great job of helping people suffering from mental or emotional abuse by providing them with easily accessible online counselling. expecting more videos like this.
This video given a fantastic knowledge about signs of an emotionally abusive relationship. Thanks a lot
Awesome video about 6 Signs Of An Emotionally Abusive Relationship. You gave a detailed description of this. Very informative and interesting video. Thanks for sharing.
Really this video helping people suffering from mental or emotional abuse by providing them with easily accessible online counselling. Thanks for this video.
My relationship wasn't good and I want to break up with my partner and I was in a doubt about him. But these signs explained helped me a lot. Now I'm very clear of my thoughts. Thanks a lot.
Every sign exists in my relationship
She seems to want more help (helping us) than the clients do. Thanks for the sincerity
Thank you so much for the excellent and detailed video. Will definitely keep your tips on mind. Expecting more like this...
This is truly incredible content. I have overjoyed you are creating this type of content because it brings more awareness to these important issues.
When i told my therapist about my brorthers abusive controlling behaviour she told me that i still needed him in my life as i had no other person to turn to . He was abusive precisely because he knew how dependent i was on him for social interaction .i ditched the therapist and my brother and got my self respect back and a huge feeling of relief . Some people offering therapy are unqualified for thir job but keep taking your money anyway .
Useful details about signs of an emotionally abusive relationship. Thanks!
Thank you for concise and straight to the point advice.
Such an informative video, that create awareness among us about emotionally abusive relationship.Really great job. Its really helpful to think again and make accurate decisions. Thank you.
I learnt a lot from this video. Thank you very much from heart. Keep up the good work.
Thank you. I needed to hear this.
thanks for the video! It is very informative and teaches a lot of thing about relationship! I will pay more attention on this point by now
Great video! You helped me a lot with your advices, keep it up!
Excellent video, thank you so much!
nice and much perfect way to increase our relationship identity. With an complete emotion Thank you !!!!
I'm impressed, your video came just at the time I needed it most.
The guy i was talking to had every thing she said i left on 12/4/2019 im proud of my self and i chose me and my lil girl this time no more controlling me im free
It is difficult to settle down issues relating Emotional Abusive in relationships, through this video i have learnt this 6 signs relating to this problems arising in relationship, overall thanks for sharing this important video!!!
Its a great, useful and informative video about how to cope with emotionally abusive relationships. Thanks.
that was really useful thanks for sharing this video great work
Thank you so much for posting this video
I have learned a lot from you. Thank you for sharing your opinion with us. It was very useful to me.
Really such a wonderful video, it is very useful to me to handle some wrong relationship to rid of.
Thanks for your advice,spot on..
Another good topic, you did well to explain it, I like your work.
verry interesting and verry useful.. Emotionally abusive relationships become one of the worst headaches
Great video, very interesting content. Thank you !
this is very useful video for youngsters. I appreciate that you made a video on this topic
I am glad that i got this video and information from you and from your ideas.
wow this is really helpfull. thanks so much for that video. i dont want anybody manipulating me so this can really be usefull for people who are in position like this.
very useful advices ! Thank you
I really needed such information regarding Relationship, it is very helpful information.
This is a real thing that happening on most of relationship. A professional counseling is indeed necessary for this kind of situation.
Luckily I sm coming across perfect videos to improve my life. Blessed.
It is great to introduce how to recognize the signs of emotional abusive for better controlling and promptly support able to provide
Informative video about emotionally abusive relationships... Thank you....
Great video, those are definitely signs of an emotionally abusive relationship!
So helpful, thanks !
I never knew about these 6 signs. Well, now I will be aware of them for sure!
Thank you for sharing this experience, I will visit the website for detailed info.
Really very useful..Thank you for your video...
Thank you for sharing.