How to LEAD with a Woman without Being CONTROLLING...

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  • Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
  • In this presentation, we talk about the general principle behind leading with a woman without being controlling or chasing her and then we go over exactly how to apply this principle when you're interacting with a woman in real life so you can attract a good woman and keep her interested.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 29

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 3 місяці тому +1

    *So many guys confuse leading with controlling, but it’s really about having a strong direction and making space for her voice, too. When a guy knows how to balance that, it shows he’s confident and respects her autonomy - best combo!*

  • @ralfj.1740
    @ralfj.1740 2 роки тому +4

    Jim really knows what he's talking about and it's a great pleasure listening to him

  • @7fall
    @7fall 2 роки тому +5

    This is some seriously-quality life advice. Thanks for sharing your wisdom :) We never stop learning. There’s always somebody to learn from.

    • @sei9437
      @sei9437 Рік тому

      W w 13:45 year cmgd

  • @Sams911
    @Sams911 2 роки тому +8

    SO glad you're making content again... in the pilot profession we go to annual training called "Recurrent" .. keeps us sharp.. between your content and Corey Wayne, that's my recurrent to keep me killing it with the ladies (92 and counting in the last 7 years since my divorce)..

    • @mobiletablet8437
      @mobiletablet8437 2 роки тому +2

      That’s kinda sad if during all those years and with all those women, there was NOBODY worth marrying or keeping for good. Sad to hear

    • @Sams911
      @Sams911 2 роки тому

      @@mobiletablet8437 what's more sad is there were 2... and both ended up rejecting me. Why? I guess we all want what we can't have, and when we get something too easily, we lose interest in it...

    • @hannahstriker
      @hannahstriker Рік тому +1

      ​@@mobiletablet8437 He is probably lying mate.
      Triple digit body counts are basically achievable only by either the celebrities or the incredibly wealthy.

    • @Obalkovametoda
      @Obalkovametoda 7 місяців тому

      ⁠@@Sams911 you’re doing something wrong if you’re looking for marriage and going through ladies on average 1 per month for the last 7 years and even boasting about it. This to me screams lack of self respect and self esteem and no woman is going to find that attractive and a “leader” material. I dont know you so I might be wrong, just something to think about, coming from a lady happily married to a leading husband.

    • @Sams911
      @Sams911 7 місяців тому

      @@Obalkovametoda there is a great saying.... "never ask a Fish how to catch a Fish" .. thanks for your advice but I'm doing just fine living the bachelor life and avoiding the trap of marriage .. I did that already once for 18 years.. 2 grown kids.. I'm perfectly happy rotating thru women casually thank you.

  • @robertharper3003
    @robertharper3003 2 роки тому +3

    Thankyou. Jim! Your the best!

  • @Danblocker-p8m
    @Danblocker-p8m 2 роки тому +5

    Brilliant advice, Thanks !!😇🤔

  • @mithridatesi9981
    @mithridatesi9981 8 місяців тому

    12:50 Thanks. I just realized I always pulled (reacted) but not pushed (non-reacted) back.
    - I never criticized her, but I didn’t complain about it. I was just a typical nice guy. So it is important to criticize her and say it in a respectful way

  • @choepheldhondup6251
    @choepheldhondup6251 2 роки тому +5

    Nice & gentle guys finish last is totally true if you lack leading skill, conversely women will control, misuse you.
    What they really need is someone who can lead & provides so that they can act like childish lifelong,This is general , it may not apply to all.
    "GIRLS JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN".
    Cyndi Lauper.

    • @Himmiefan
      @Himmiefan 5 місяців тому

      You seem to be saying that all women will control and misuse unless they're controlled. Stop infantilizing women, and solve your own insecurities. That will improve how women interact with you.

    • @choepheldhondup6251
      @choepheldhondup6251 5 місяців тому

      @@Himmiefan I wrote, This is general, it may not apply to all.

  • @jayiradukunda2003
    @jayiradukunda2003 2 роки тому +1

    Jim is back

  • @emmajohnson5405
    @emmajohnson5405 2 роки тому +1

    Hey amazing videos. What happened to your video about how to have a conversation with women?

  • @theTimmer
    @theTimmer Рік тому +1

    Listen real closely to what he's saying about women judging men about being weak around 6:40. Men and women should pay attention to this. Think about how many times a woman ends up with the wrong guy because he's a real tough guy with her, but sucks vs the rest of the world, only for her to find out way down the road. Or vice versa, a guy who's strong vs the world, but because he's shy with women, get's passed over.
    Women are pretty good at sensing if you are weak or strong with them, but it doesn't always equate to how the guy moves through the rest of the world, and his ability to protect her.
    Good men need to learn how to handle this perception to get the respect they deserve, and save her from ending up with some loser who's only a tough guy when he's with her.

  • @honor6x730
    @honor6x730 2 роки тому

    Jim, new to your chanel many things sound familiar due to the content of Corey Wheyn.
    BUT, not exactly so! After hearing your whole playlist, there were some bricks filling holes. And you are resonating better with me.
    The first day I went out without any intentions, I did not approche girls I normaly would, but I was on to approche two girls, without chance, they apprched me first. I layed down control and left it to them. We were loughing the shit out. We went out the same night, and were making out, then found a motel, three friends, masage and many happy endings.
    Maybe I will date one of them in the future.
    That happens if do not care so much there is nothing to control.
    Desde Sudamérica

    • @hannahstriker
      @hannahstriker Рік тому +1

      And then you eventually woke up from that dream...

  • @Himmiefan
    @Himmiefan 5 місяців тому

    All this manipulating/maneuvering. He pushes/pulls, and meanwhile, she waits in order to keep him chasing.

  • @j.aeblabor641
    @j.aeblabor641 2 роки тому

    Welcome

  • @Houseofislah
    @Houseofislah 2 роки тому

  • @Suspect333
    @Suspect333 Рік тому

    Chasing women is what men are made for dude lol

    • @TonyWilliams-mh9qs
      @TonyWilliams-mh9qs 9 місяців тому

      If you are still chasing women after 35,, you need help.men don't do that after 35.

    • @Suspect333
      @Suspect333 9 місяців тому

      @@TonyWilliams-mh9qs Chasing is what men do but good luck getting a woman to ask you out.

    • @Yammie_Moto671
      @Yammie_Moto671 7 місяців тому +1

      There is a difference between courting a woman versus chasing a woman.