SIX REASONS A WOMAN SHOULD NOT FEEL GUILTY FOR HER SUCCESS by RC BLAKES

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  • @Brandiisbeloved
    @Brandiisbeloved 15 днів тому +69

    a couple of years ago when Kevin Samuels was alive and gaining momentum i dropped out of nursing school. So many men in that space was talking down on educated women especially nurses. They put a fear in me that id never get married or i was no good because i was pursing higher education. It wasnt until i told my therapist and she showed me around all her peers including herself who were educated and married. Many were nurses,doctors lawyers and had husbands. I enrolled back and am graduating next fall. I was 23 when i dropped out and was still so impressionable. People especially young people need to he careful what we allow in out ear gates

    • @onevenus6040
      @onevenus6040 14 днів тому +11

      They know that nursing is the number one career in demand, it's versatile, lucrative, provides security worldwide for job opportunities, so they label nurses as being "problematic" because they don't have to be fully subjugated to abuse and dysfunction! And I applaud your returning to complete your education and fulfilling your dreams ❤

    • @yourrealtor_Danielle
      @yourrealtor_Danielle 14 днів тому +4

      Good for you. Congratulations!

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 14 днів тому +5

      I'm glad you got back to it. Congratulations in advance. Solid men gravitate towards a woman who knows herself and has her own thing. Financial independence helps you have options to choose a suitable partner from an abundance and nit scarcity mindset.

    • @topazice1171
      @topazice1171 14 днів тому +5

      Dear sister, although we don’t know each other but allow me to use my outside voice and say…I AM SOOO PROUD OF YOUUUU! You took a negative situation and turned it around for something GREAT! God has you COVERED and He will take you to places BEYOND your wildest dreams. I just turn 53 and though I have some college credits, I wish I had finished earlier in life. I am however planning to return sometime in 2025. Again, super excited for you and may God’s favor rest upon you. Amen🙏🏽

    • @rachelphillips5576
      @rachelphillips5576 14 днів тому

      You're not too old to be successful. At 53 it maybe late but better late than never​@@topazice1171

  • @mucheychimezie5436
    @mucheychimezie5436 15 днів тому +45

    Being feminine while being successful is A whooollle beauty in its own, because girl thats a talent on its own!

    • @lwarfield52
      @lwarfield52 15 днів тому

      I believe you!!!

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 14 днів тому

      🗣🗣‼️‼️‼️‼️ this. I wouldn't have it any other way. Helps me be grounded in who I am.

    • @barbarajordan1374
      @barbarajordan1374 12 днів тому

      ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉 BEAUTIFUL

  • @mucheychimezie5436
    @mucheychimezie5436 15 днів тому +71

    My last boyfriend left me in April this year, because he said he couldn't settle for someone who earned more than him. I still haven't gotten over him until I met RC Blake's in May.

    • @Beauty4ashes80
      @Beauty4ashes80 15 днів тому +13

      In his absence may God heal and work on your heart. I married a man who later showed the inadequacies he felt, it made him act out in many ways. We are now divorced and I’m able to shine daily as God has rejuvenated my light, from being dimmed. I walk in freedom and all God has created me to be and I pray the same for you.❤

    • @DivestedConfessions
      @DivestedConfessions 15 днів тому +13

      Hope you’re doing ok today. He did you a favor. Insecure/jealous males are dangerous & sabotage women.

    • @JuneDLee
      @JuneDLee 15 днів тому +4

      He lacks self assurance. If u were lording ur financial accumen that would be different. Would he leave if ur feet were in better shape? Puulease!

    • @a.a761
      @a.a761 15 днів тому +9

      You need someone who is willing to celebrate your success.

    • @lwarfield52
      @lwarfield52 15 днів тому +4

      God is good! Keep pushing forward!! 💕

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 14 днів тому +17

    Nothing and no one in this world can ever convince me to play small or shrink myself. I will be who and all God has made me to me OUT LOUD. thank you Jesus for all my successes and the more that are coming my way.

  • @etoniacarter5011
    @etoniacarter5011 15 днів тому +22

    Amen! You cannot shrink to make others feel better. Amen! I

  • @bridgettetraveler658
    @bridgettetraveler658 14 днів тому +16

    I hate being around small minded ppl. I grew up around small minded ppl who loved seeing me down. As long as I was down they were ok, because they felt higher than I was. They did everything they could to keep me in what they thought was my place. GOD said not so!!!

  • @gerijohnson3850
    @gerijohnson3850 15 днів тому +19

    Wow! A man for me will not be intimidated by my success. I am by nature feminine but I can shift when needed. Yes and Amen!

  • @a.8774
    @a.8774 14 днів тому +11

    Ladies, ladies, ladies.
    “The blessing of the Lord, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it”
    Proverbs 10:22

  • @keshiadawn
    @keshiadawn 14 днів тому +4

    I've been trying to teach my daughter to see that she should never shrink herself.... for anyone, even if it should be me. It's hard raising these kids to see what you already know. Praying for all the young women.

  • @nancyledouard9774
    @nancyledouard9774 15 днів тому +12

    Thanks for this message. Got dumped because I was aiming at studying for a license. He therefore called me boring . Well today I passed that course. Indeed I made a poor choice trying to give me a chance while focusing on something important. Learned the lesson.

    • @gerijohnson3850
      @gerijohnson3850 15 днів тому +3

      Senior wife abandoned by my ex because he said nothing was enough for me. .l wanted to travel, experience all life has to offer, live on purpose, give to others, and leave an imprint wherever I planted my feet. He said he did but really didn't mean it. Imagine getting left for that. I am still puzzled. No fights. No infidelity. Only wanted to fish and stay home. Thank the Lord for you, Bishop. Now I am Seventy and satisfied with life! Alone but never lonely! See you and Lady Lisa in 🇬🇭 Ghana. God bless you!

    • @gerijohnson3850
      @gerijohnson3850 15 днів тому

      My Deepest Fear

    • @gerijohnson3850
      @gerijohnson3850 15 днів тому +1

      You preaching to me tonight Bishop. And I am leaning in on every morsel. Shouting and running around my house right now. Because I have worked very hard. 🙏🏾

  • @tjenks7650
    @tjenks7650 14 днів тому +7

    I remember when some men would not date a woman because she was a baby mama and had nothing going for her… Now these same baby mamas went back to school and got there degrees and became the leading educated people in the United States. Now we are to masculine 🙄 I will patiently wait on God to send me a mate. Until then I will live out my purpose for Gods glory.

  • @miratoko8524
    @miratoko8524 12 днів тому +1

    You cannot shrink to make other better.thank you rcblack!

  • @tessyibok4751
    @tessyibok4751 13 днів тому +1

    Listen to this twice. Thanks pastor. From Nigeria

  • @irinanikole3181
    @irinanikole3181 15 днів тому +11

    Literally, I wondered for decadeswhy I felt guilty, I am so ready to be delivered from this. Your teaching, RC, will give us the root reason. Also, why do some women not feel guilty and are successful? I want to know.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  15 днів тому +11

      In most cases there’s no reason to feel guilty for doing what God created you to do.

  • @ps_herserenity
    @ps_herserenity 15 днів тому +5

    You preaching tonight!!! Speak on it!!! “ A man that can not accommodate your future”

  • @habriaessence
    @habriaessence 13 днів тому +1

    Everybody wants your glory, but does not know your story❤❤❤❤❤

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 15 днів тому +7

    Deborah is the perfect example Amen!!! Prophetess, Wife and Judge!!!💃🏿plus Mother!! And still a Woman

  • @sampsonlittle7368
    @sampsonlittle7368 15 днів тому +12

    Because the guilt of the world is put on women for everything, why not add feeling guilty for success? Women spend their lives trying to lift off that rock of guilt that this world shoves on them.

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 15 днів тому +3

    Thank you Bishop Blakes for sowing these valuable Seeds of Wisdom into our spirits❤🙋🏿‍♀️. I definitely will purchase your book Training for Reigning along with others from Amazon for sure. God bless you, Queen Lisa and family❤💙💜🤎

  • @GenChanger
    @GenChanger 15 днів тому +4

    The video is very helpful. Many false stereotypes and biases debunked. Thank you for all you do! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @mucheychimezie5436
    @mucheychimezie5436 15 днів тому +4

    It's like playing small for someone who would never understand it!

  • @dianaguisado
    @dianaguisado 13 днів тому +1

    Thank you Bishop RC Blakes, Jr.!! 🙌🙌

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 15 днів тому +8

    EVERYONE WANTS YOUR GLORY, UNTIL THEY HEARD YOUR STORY." RC BLAKES🖐🏾🖐🏾AMEN!!!

  • @NadezhdaS-b5i
    @NadezhdaS-b5i 13 днів тому

    Incredibly VALUABLE ideas! Thank you so much for your wisdom and care for women's happiness. God bless You!🙏

  • @mucheychimezie5436
    @mucheychimezie5436 15 днів тому +2

    Your personal success is not the reason you don't have a relationship!! Word at the right time for me.!!! Just made me tear up

  • @Jessicad.kearney
    @Jessicad.kearney 14 днів тому +1

    Thank you for this word. I will no longer minimize my success because I did have to work hard for it

  • @janineknight3738
    @janineknight3738 15 днів тому +2

    Pastor Blakes: The recording volume level is much better on this recording. Thank you so much.

  • @TheRealAfricanist
    @TheRealAfricanist 14 днів тому +3

    Everybody want your glory until they hear your story.

  • @londontyler6598
    @londontyler6598 14 днів тому +2

    No longer will I shrink!!! It wasn’t just a good idea, it’s a GOD IDea!! Blessed already

  • @tammyrichmond6709
    @tammyrichmond6709 14 днів тому +2

    I am that girl, the virtuous woman. I have even worked men decribed jobs and did it better as a single mom. It's sad, i tried to bring my guy up with me but they had other Agenda's. I'm glad God 🩸 allowed me to escape them clowns 😂

  • @tamudefoe7115
    @tamudefoe7115 15 днів тому +2

    This has SO MANY GODLY internal confirmations🗣️TY papa Blake's🕊️....

  • @learnwithsarahkigozi6452
    @learnwithsarahkigozi6452 12 днів тому

    Wow, my eyes have opened. Thank you thank you thank you 🙏🏿

  • @valrio8224
    @valrio8224 3 дні тому

    Great message RC! Very much needed for the time we are in.

  • @nikiawright5830
    @nikiawright5830 14 днів тому

    Thank you Bishop! Bars!! This message couldn't have come at a better time. BlessUp 🙌🏾 ❤️

  • @LolitaStClair
    @LolitaStClair 13 днів тому

    Hello Pastor and First Lady Blakes Jr. Hello New Life Church! Hello Everyone In Jesus name Amen Amen Amen!😊

  • @inthereign
    @inthereign 14 днів тому +1

    Thank you for this MUCH NEEDED message for those of us who are walking in our GOD given purpose and winning while doing it!!

  • @777eight4
    @777eight4 2 дні тому

    Gems upon gems 👂🏾 thank you! ❤

  • @dianacarreras3461
    @dianacarreras3461 9 днів тому

    Thank you for this fatherly advice , your a Blessing 🙏

  • @learningalot231
    @learningalot231 15 днів тому +6

    A insecure man is a turn off for me.

  • @eclaudynevilfrant3159
    @eclaudynevilfrant3159 14 днів тому

    This is good! Thx Pastor RC Blakes!

  • @taxtechnicians8939
    @taxtechnicians8939 7 днів тому

    This video serves life to professional women, God Bless You for this!!

  • @FM-xi3us
    @FM-xi3us 15 днів тому +3

    Success as a show of gratitude.

  • @KimberlyBenson-j1v
    @KimberlyBenson-j1v 14 днів тому

    This message is timely. Women can out pace the average man and what society says about what success looks like. Good reminder about Proverbs 31, God has put this in the Bible to let Morden women know that ambition is not a negative characteristic .

  • @crlundy86
    @crlundy86 15 днів тому +2

    Watching and learning from The Bahamas. GOD'S night👋🏽

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney 15 днів тому

      Hey I am from Trinidad and Tobago. I am so happy you put the apostrophe in, in my country they just leave out one O and think it's cute...😂 ❤

  • @hollynorris4220
    @hollynorris4220 14 днів тому +1

    Pastor your vibe is maximized❤❤❤beautiful god bless you

  • @CoachSarahNicoleB
    @CoachSarahNicoleB 14 днів тому

    Thank you so much for this one. 💖💝

  • @iwig2714
    @iwig2714 13 днів тому

    Amen this was really therapeutic you are such a wise man I enjoy listening to your teachings. I will get your book .

  • @lwarfield52
    @lwarfield52 14 днів тому

    This is excellent! Thank you Bishop and First Lady Lisa! Right on time! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💕

  • @Nikita_848
    @Nikita_848 14 днів тому

    Bishop Blakes has been a blessing in my life. Since I came across his videos by chance, I became one of his followers. It helped me be a better person and know myself better. Thank you 🙏

  • @FeliciaSmith-b8x
    @FeliciaSmith-b8x 15 днів тому

    I almost didn't make it to class tonight but thank God I was able to hear such profound validation. Thank you Bishop and First Lady Lisa for such a forum for us ladies. What a word!

  • @niknik-xw8wt
    @niknik-xw8wt 13 днів тому

    This was great pastor!

  • @queentonantzin7993
    @queentonantzin7993 15 днів тому +1

    Whew! This was right on time. Thank you, Bishop❤

  • @Cupid_
    @Cupid_ 15 днів тому +1

    Thank you, I really needed this bcos I spent years being working so hard I didn’t even have social life. Now I am made to feel guilty for being picky n grounded. Thank you❤

  • @mildredherring2541
    @mildredherring2541 15 днів тому +2

    This is good. My success has nothing to do with a man. SELF Reflection 😮

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 15 днів тому +6

    Soar with the EAGLES🦅 36:06 not with the PIDGEONS 🐤or CHICKENS!!! AMEN TO THAT BISHOP🎯🎯💯🖐🏾🖐🏾💃🏿🫂❤

  • @irinanikole3181
    @irinanikole3181 15 днів тому +2

    So looking forward to it.

  • @Nursesteph_sharee
    @Nursesteph_sharee 15 днів тому

    Thank you Pastor Blakes! Always on time!

  • @ladylynnspeaks
    @ladylynnspeaks 15 днів тому +4

    Some women feel guilty for being successful because their partner is insecure

  • @adjeleyomanyesowah295
    @adjeleyomanyesowah295 14 днів тому

    I can't wait to meet you and Queen Lisa in Ghana!🎉❤

  • @drpatriciajames8616
    @drpatriciajames8616 15 днів тому +2

    Maximize our full potential

  • @SuePoston-q6k
    @SuePoston-q6k 13 днів тому

    Let's give credit where credit is due. The " not shrinking to fit"and more; was written and spoken originally by Nelson Mandela. A man I'm sure we all should remember and honor.

  • @iwig2714
    @iwig2714 13 днів тому

    Hi Pastor watching Replay

  • @victoriahaynes7835
    @victoriahaynes7835 15 днів тому +2

    Good evening from Albany, GA ❤

  • @kimbridges1801
    @kimbridges1801 14 днів тому

    All praises to the most high

  • @LesA_09
    @LesA_09 14 днів тому

    More amazing nuggets Bishop

  • @FM-xi3us
    @FM-xi3us 15 днів тому +2

    Do It Big!

  • @vuyomkize8452
    @vuyomkize8452 15 днів тому

    A timely message! Thank you Bishop🙏🏾

  • @tessahall5958
    @tessahall5958 15 днів тому

    Good evening Pastor, Good evening Queens. Watching from Hebron, Kentucky

  • @lisamaiden1892
    @lisamaiden1892 14 днів тому

    You are On fireeeeee 🔥 !!! 💯👏🏻

  • @JasmineStaceyy
    @JasmineStaceyy 14 днів тому

    Hallelujah amen!!

  • @tarrasashurst6788
    @tarrasashurst6788 15 днів тому

    Thank you, goodnight and God bless you and your family.🎉

  • @MartyMar-yk1ik
    @MartyMar-yk1ik 14 днів тому

    Praise God 🎉

  • @magnacarta711
    @magnacarta711 8 днів тому

    Many successful women lack strong conflict resolution skills in a relationship. & ppl think the person who makes the most is the one qualified to make all the decisions. When decisions are a joint effort in a relationship

  • @etoniacarter5011
    @etoniacarter5011 15 днів тому +2

    Yesssss! Eagles don't fly at the altitude of pigeons to make the pigeons feel better! Aaaaaaamen!!!!!!!!😂

  • @hannahbrown5069
    @hannahbrown5069 15 днів тому

    Thank you very much Bishop RC and Lisa Blake’s!😇❤️🎊✝️

  • @julieboutros5156
    @julieboutros5156 15 днів тому

    Love your videos Pastor Blake!!! You have helped me so much!!

  • @canditate740
    @canditate740 15 днів тому

    23:45 😭Thank you, Pastor.

  • @tyoung3509
    @tyoung3509 15 днів тому

    Thanks for several confirmations in this video 🙏🏾

  • @Mbaikafaith
    @Mbaikafaith 14 днів тому

    God bless you for what you do

  • @sissyb576
    @sissyb576 14 днів тому

    Thank you for this one!!❤

  • @LolitaStClair
    @LolitaStClair 13 днів тому

    Pastor Blakes Jr I always enjoyed your Video In Jesus name Amen Amen Amen!😊

  • @nataliep6873
    @nataliep6873 15 днів тому

    Excellent teaching!

  • @DianeHayes-t4n
    @DianeHayes-t4n 15 днів тому

    Thank you! ❤️

  • @claudinegreen9777
    @claudinegreen9777 15 днів тому

    Yes, this message is helpful to me!

  • @mildredherring2541
    @mildredherring2541 15 днів тому +1

    Thank you, Father God ,for setting me free. 😊🎉. Thanks for this understanding message. I consider myself a virtuous woman . ❤ 😊 🙏 🤲 in Jesus name 🙏

  • @justbeingme-83
    @justbeingme-83 15 днів тому +1

    Will be there!😊

  • @angelb2997
    @angelb2997 15 днів тому

    Thank you

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 15 днів тому

    Good evening Bishop watching from Boston, Massachusetts

  • @virtuelife77
    @virtuelife77 15 днів тому

    ❤️🛐Thank you Bishop RC Blake’s.

  • @theofficialkae7736
    @theofficialkae7736 8 днів тому

    Unc, you speaking my language! I had to subscribe ❤️

  • @reneepalmer3969
    @reneepalmer3969 15 днів тому

    Come On Pastor speak that TRUTH Sir

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 15 днів тому

    Focus on our purpose!!!! Amen & Amen💯🙌🏿👐🏿

  • @andreawinton6797
    @andreawinton6797 13 днів тому

    THIS IS A GOOD ONE ❤

  • @CutieWebb54
    @CutieWebb54 15 днів тому

    You said something right there!

  • @nthabelengsethole
    @nthabelengsethole 15 днів тому +1

    Cant wait

  • @ladylynnspeaks
    @ladylynnspeaks 15 днів тому

    Powerful

  • @ladylynnspeaks
    @ladylynnspeaks 15 днів тому +1

    Good evening 🌆 liked and shared ❤

  • @gerijohnson3850
    @gerijohnson3850 15 днів тому

    Come on Bishop! Toes getting pinched. Got tethered to someone not enough for all I have to offer. Lessons learned. Class still in session. I am in the front row with hand raised. Thankful Grateful Blessed!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @yasmeenmohamed9327
    @yasmeenmohamed9327 15 днів тому

    Amazing

  • @deborahdaley8447
    @deborahdaley8447 15 днів тому

    Blessings ❤