@cherylwilliams7060 But is your comment really HELPING this Man 🤷🏽♀️ He’s BEEN Married, and is now Divorced. Therefore, he’s aLready disappointed the Most High when he MISHANDLED one Woman’s Heart. I’m speaking from Experience with No iLL will towards Laterras. However, IF you’re being honest, you have to admit that the DFW Podcast IS becoming somewhat of a JOKE!! People are rightfully QUESTIONING whether LT is Sincere in using the platform in Search of a Wife, OR as Miss Donni suggested, is he INSTEAD using his platform just as a way to meet Women with whom he intends to Fornicate. After aLL, he HIMSELF has ADMITTED on several occasions that he Very Often “falls off the wagon” of Abstinence🤷🏽♀️
…….Lastly, you can Love someone AND keep it a buck 💯 with them. When it comes to People, there’s ALWAYS room for Improvement 🙏🏽 If LT is fortunate enough to find ANOTHER Wife and get Married, perhaps by then he will have Learned to Control his Lustful Spirit because there’s Always gonna be a Better Looking, Sexier, Taller, More Beautiful Woman just around the corner and he will have to TAME his FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) 😊
@renewashington791 WHY do you PERCEIVE a MALE or a FEMALE; DESIRING certain "specific" PHYSICAL ATTRACTIONS as having a LUSTFUL spirit??🤔🧐 REMEMBER; MEN are MORE VISUAL; while WOMEN are MORE EMOTIONAL.. God Bless you & FAMILY..🙏🏽
Laterras, I want to encourage you. Your podcast does not look like a joke just because it may take longer for you to marry. You are taking us along a journey of a real-life experience. I've been divorced for 15 years and abstinent for 14 years. My journey has come with many disappointments and ups and downs. However, I have journaled and had many lessons learned along my experience. So, I thank you for what you are doing! Be encourage 😊
Well she is still showing legs , she is not the one, for when you are Save and as a women of God you carry your self different, I'm not saying having fun enjoy it but , where is the God.
😊 The Word of God sez that With the MOST HIGH aLL things are possible. Aside from that Truth, there are 8 BILLION people on the planet, and IF GOD DESIRES Holy Matrimony for you, then May his Will be done. However, whether or not ANY of us get Married today or tomorrow, it is NOT and should NOT be the Primary concern for True Christians. When Jesus walked the Earth, he let it be Known to his disciples that he was about DOING the Will of his Father. Likewise, we must IMITATE the Chief Agent and Perfecter of our Faith.
I’m glad Laterras is mature enough to recognize that sometimes you can be WHAT someone wants and not be WHO they want. Because that’s what this felt like. Even when he saw her list, he knew. She just doesn’t want him…and that’s ok. I repeat…that’s ok. I am thankful Laterras is secure enough that it didn’t make him think he did something wrong. Hopefully her meeting Laterras gives her hope that the type of man she desires does exist. I hope she finds her desires in the man that she wants. 🙏🏾
Well said. She doesn't want him but you want a friendship. Friendship for what? I hate to say it , that story she told about men she does business with withdraw after she makes it clear, it's just about business and not a relationship. PSA...if you want Laterras to do business with you, you can put him on your payroll. He still has to pay for that school. He is looking for a wife. He may have shown interest in her but when she was not interested, move on. You want to do business with him, put him on your payroll.
So here is what I learned later in life, “Choose People Who Choose You”.. bottom line, Donni is not attracted to Laterras. He is in the friend zone, and that’s ok.
This is so true. I think about Ciara.... she did not have to "pray" for a Russell Wilson... Russell watched her Ride Video and said " that will be my wife." He WANTED her as she was.... all she had to do was "exist." On her end, I think because she had a "baby" he BECAME what she wanted. She could of had "a" Russell a long time ago. Donni is not in Ciara's situation... her child is grown... I believe she has an "astetic " for which she is aiming. That is OK. But I will say... it is not healthy being friends with someone who is attracted to you....you are blocking their blessing because ... they truly have hope that through the friendship things may change.
I agree, But it isn't smart. She is 45, stop going off looks and hear say. He isn't ugly and I think he would be open to hitting the gym with her if he believes he has a chance. They communicate well and they are in the same field which is great. They are both at a good age and probably want close to the same thing!
Just because two individuals are single and saved does not mean they are destined to be together. I’m glad they have clarity in their friendship versus being together for the sake of time clocks/pressure.
“The longer it takes the more your podcasts looks like a joke…” We all renounce that confession. That hit hard for me and I know it did for others. We love you and your products. Keep going
@@kiyalove67 not desperation but expectation…by definition I can’t just put the label of desperation on it…He’s looking for the expected end/promise…much like when we were kids and we knew that there had to be a gift that we REALLY wanted on birthdays and Christmas and not fruit and socks! 😂
@@Iamlonndanicolenaw it’s desperation. Hes tied a wife to the validity of the podcast so he more wants the wife so the podcast doesn’t seem like a joke, rather than to find the wife.
@@iriemo721 desperation: feeling, showing, or involving a hopeless sense that a situation is so bad as to be impossible to deal with. tried in despair or when everything else has failed; having little hope of success. (of a situation) extremely bad, serious, or dangerous. Funny thing is we use words so loosely and speak things over others and ourselves that don’t adequately describe a situation, truthfully. Be blessed
She not the only one he shoots his shots at publicly which is why she doesn’t want anything further… nothing special about her to him… he needs help in this area in my opinion
This was so good. I’m a 60 year old woman still looking for my King. I’ve been divorced for 12years. I appreciate all the nuggets that were dropped. Thank you! 🙏🏽 ❤
Ohhhhhh this is herrrrr… who set the man straight about submission. I like her, I can see the intrigue Laterras. She is a beautiful mix of integrity and assertiveness. I respect that…
This is one of the realest relationship conversations I’ve heard in a long time! If people will be this real, I believe the journey to finding your spouse will be shorter.
Laterras, we gone keep you lifted in prayer brother. Don't let the enemy play mind games with you about your podcast. Nothing you do here or the individuals you've invited to share in your journey is a joke. This platform has been a huge blessing to myself & so many others. Please don't get weary in well doing. Wait on the good Lord to provide what you desire. ✌🏾❤️🙏🏾
People don’t get to determine how love will find you. I met my wife by reaching to inquire about the law school she was attending. We met and ended up hitting it off. We are still going strong 17 years later as a married couple.
I want to yell at Donni like she is my sister lol! Girl, EVERYTHING you keep saying you want is sitting right in front of you. Be real with yourself and say you are still holding on to another guy. And that’s okay but just say that’s it and not that you haven’t come across what you are asking for. When God is clearly presenting it to you a couple times with LaTerras. All love behind my comment. Keep shining bright! Enjoyed watching yall
I need Laterras and anyone to understand that marriage isn't always God's calling for you. If you don't marry, again, kind sir this podcast is a blessing. It has helped couples and singles reevaluate their lives and how they need to place God first. That's more important than being married.
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
Laterras I’m sure she’s lovely. You want someone excited about you and your success, as she is masterful at loving herself in a healthy meaningful way. You won’t have to convince your wife of your integrity. She’s coming. She - the right one- will be happy for your arrival when you pursue her. Praying 🙏🏿 ❤
All of THIS!! I totally agree but would not have been able to say it the way you have😊 he should also know that she will make you laugh even more than you did during this episode ❤
The older we get, the quieter we become about our standards for how others approach us. Trust me, the “preferences” we have will decrease. Some of our preferences make us MISS that special person for us.
@ I watched the entire episode. It’s worth it. Life teaches us all, and there is always something to learn from others as what to do or what NOT to do. 🥰
Donni, if you are not interested, just say that! lol @laterras, find someone that likes you. You may like the hunt and chase, but find someone that wants to eventually be caught, by YOU! I remember an episode where you talked about your (fiance) I think that was her title, and she said she needed to get herself together. You were willing to wait on her and cover her and she made MANY excuses and you ended up heartbroken. If you do not change something in how you pursue women, you will be back in that place again. I pray God give you vision and direction and you hear and follow it. ****UPDATE**** Watched it until the end and I can appreciate that Laterras is willing to pivot if there is no interest. Donni knows what she wants and I pray she gets it. Don't settle!
She didn't make or need excuses: she didn't like him. Stop trying to make things overcomplicated and CAPE. It's not hard for women to make decisions. And do not forget: we have NEVER EVER heard the ex-fiance side of the story. So unless you have dealt with him in human form 24 hours and not who you THINK you know via UA-cam channel, then you know nothing.
Beyond her beauty and physical appeal, I am deeply drawn to her mindset and overall confidence. This convo was incredibly insightful, offering valuable takeaways for both men and women. Her perspective on him approaching her with clear business intentions then back-dooring his personal interest made complete sense. That said, I do believe if she had mutual feelings, her stance might have been less firm. However, she made it clear that she didn’t want to disclose everything, leaving some details unknown. Regardless, I’m genuinely glad she opted to establish a friendship him and remains available lol. If our paths ever cross in the future in person, I know how to come correct upfront. Great episode!
This comment needs to be PINNED!!! Even him falsely hinting to his crazy audience STILL that she had on "little jeans shorts that rode up" to disparage her on HER podcast puts in the air that she was coming on to him. Like, let it go!!!
I love this conversation! 2 mature people who know themselves and can actually express what they desire from their partner without degrading each other. I definitely feel the chemistry between y’all ❤
She made a great point! It is absolutely important to look at how someone thinks! You cannot change them and it will eventually be a problem! Laterras made some great points as well. I love both perspectives!
I was clapping my hands to what she was saying! I don’t like the start as friends method. Come through the front door with your intentions. I don’t think it’s wise to keep failed talking stages around either. The reality is I’m going to talk to the man who’s more intentional over the man who’s acting like we’re friends. We are all grown and know what’s up. Great interview. This was one of the most revealing interviews about how Laterras moves and I appreciated Donni’s candor and humor.
Child, please. If she was interested in him, there would be no back door excuse. That's a weird rule, and people don't always meet under romantic circumstances. Sometimes, the people we meet in professional settings become more than friends.These rules sound too rigid. On another note, Donnie just explained why the last guy didn't move forward with me. He saw my overhead. I know he couldn't handle it because he mentioned his income.
They are both examples of people who want who doesn’t want them. Some people’ have no standards and some standards are unrealistic based on materialism and shallow preferences.
The holy spirit is the best matchmaker. When God brings you your wife, there will be no drama and no confusion. The spirit in you will connect with the spirit in her and you both will know it and God will confirm it. Stop dating around, walk in your purpose and trust God.
I LOVE Donni!!!! She is real and extremely transparent. I love how she says what she thinks, unfiltered. I totally understand what she means with 'don't approach me about real estate, only to then ask me on a date'. Buy the house first (since that's what you led with), then shoot your shot. PERIOD!!!! Great interview!!!
8:50. I'm confused....she seems like she is trying to clown Laterras. I dont really like this. He shot his shot with Essence Atkins, and she was so kind and wonderful in the way she said no. I will always respect her for that❤️❤️❤️ P.S. AND BTW ....your podcast IS NOT A JOKE‼️
Actually, Laterras asked me (when he booked me and the day of) to be 1000% truthful about the DETAILS of our interactions - it is OUR truth regarding what occurred. Also notice how many times I attempted to change the conversation. I cannot apologize for the TRUTH about what happened…
@@queenriri9393 Stop being so MALE CENTERED. Clearly she is not a doormat and spoke to facts. Read between the lines: he made her feel very uncomfortable at certain points in their journey, starting in Dallas. And also continues to put her PERSONAL BUSINESS on blast with ANY BLACK MAN that is watching this show in a very clownish and sassy way. Not cool at all. Sometimes not all podcasts are the ones single black beautiful women with discernment, clout and all their things together should be on. Clearly he is using this podcast to screen women for his own gain: and on a national platform to hold them up for ridicule and judgement by women such as YOURSELF who think they know who these podcast men are behind closed doors. Did the demise of KS teach you nothing? And since no one has ever heard from the mythical "fiance" who started this, let's reserve the name-calling of the professional black women that entertain this platform by appearing on it.
This podcast could never be a joke... married or unmarried, your podcast does something intentional and healthy for us, especially black women. I'm glad Laterras is such a mature gentleman. He took this so well. Laterras met her requirements but she just didn't want him at the time.
Never say never! I always said I’d never date someone more than 7 years younger than me. But in June I was pursued by a man 19 years younger than me and we clicked so much and now we’re dating and talking about getting married next year. I’ve never met a man that I clicked with spiritually and intellectually like this man. He’s actually younger than my son but he’s mature like me. It’s crazy. But it’s been the most beautiful love story and beyond anything I could ever imagine. God is amazing and it’s important not to put Him in a box.
Okayyyyy so this is the young lady that annihilated the guy with the “Top Tier Man” response/speech! She dropped so many gems! She said we negotiate too much on what we want and then she said “Can I live with the way this person thinks?!!!” Whew!!! Good stuff
Donni keeps describing Laterras in her wants. But keeps denying him. He’s just not for her. He’s going to make a wonderful husband to someone. And she’ll be an excellent wife. Good luck to both these lovely people. This was a great episode. God’s blessings on using them to enlighten us how to get what’s for us.
Thank you, Latteras and Donni, for this podcast episode. I liked the way you both respectfully articulated your needs and discussed how you both approach dating. You could have two people with amazing qualities and they still be wrong for each other. It could also be the timing was not right. Nobody truly knows what is in both their hearts, we were just speculating based on the information that was provided to us. @ Donni, your intentions of trying to keep Laterras business private did not go unnoticed. @ Latteras, if people could discredit all your hard work because you are not married yet, those people can kindly exit your life. You both confronted this conversation in a mature manner. Kudos to you both. This is definitely not easy to do without being emotionally charged!
OMG!!! Everything Donni is saying about herself, is a mirror of me!!! This made me exhale SO MUCH, cause now i feel heard..I'm not the only one!! I relate to this SO SO MUCH!!!
Shes the type of woman she expects things to go how she wants it to go! Girl get over yourself! He expressed interest you don't see him in that light, just say it.
You sound like a hater. At no point did she communicate that on the podcast. She has her wants, but she’s open minded as long as the man has the right approach and embodies the qualities she’s looking for.
This was one the best interviews on DFW podcast I was glued the whole time. Her honesty was captivating to say the least. Love her and her and David’s podcast
Sister Donni is telling my truth. I have been doing that work for 5 years and I have learned volumes about myself, the realities of my reality which was the start of my unlearning to learn.
@Laterras- your podcast is not a joke. Your on assignment and no matter how long it takes, God is working behind the scenes in your life and in your wife's life. Continue to wait well, continue to be intentional, and continue to trust the process. Your podcast is healing us, you, and your wife. God is the keeper of time 🙏🏾💙
Don't get weary Lateras in well doing...its all in God's timing and your season is coming! Never say your podcast is a joke because it's not, it's helping so many people on so many different levels!
Please don't ever consider that your platform looks like a joke because of whatever.... You have blessed so many people and marriages! MARRIAGES!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 This gift, is not just for Mr. Whitfield. Your time will come. God is going to bless your faithfulness and your obedience! God has not forgot❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Let's be clear. Donni is NOT physically attracted to Laterris. She is going ALL the way around Robin Hood's barn with why they can't date. My guess is that she is attracted to a Mr. Willie "type" from Later Daters.
😂😂😂 Oh Lawd 🤦🏽♀️ Not Mr. Willie from **Later Daters** I’ve read other comments about this GOD FORSAKEN Dating App 😂 and For the life of me, I’ll Never understand why ANY person in their Right Mind would subject themselves to such Humiliation. I’d rather buy a dog 🐶 and Die Alone 😂
Laterras’ You a good one, because she just spent this whole podcast talking about the character traits you have, while selling herself to someone else… Donnie got game and No man!!!!😂😂😂 I’m just saying… You sitting right there in her face. But she was a good time to watch.
@@Rosaninyeino she’s not. She can’t take every man who has a Y chromosome. This is why yall are in and out of bad relationships, yall think everybody is the one. She don’t like that man! She can’t just take him because he’d be excited when she came home. She has to desire her husband. She doesn’t desire Laterras.
My brain hurts after watching this episode from the confusion and contradictions that ensued. Just seek love and the leading of the Holy Spirit to it. It's guaranteed to come! Letting the flesh lead (lists, shooting shots, etc) is prolonging the process for both people. Blessings!!
That was what I was thinking listening to this show. Seems like we're making this harder than what it needs to be. She wasn't interested in Ole boy and she is picky is what I gathered. At somepoint when she runs across a man she deems worthy a lot of the rules and regulations will be thrown out the windows. All we can say is, we pray for both Laterras and Donni and ask God to give them suitable mates.
The reality is that we all have biases that shape how we approach dating. We create rules and expectations for how we want to meet someone or how we think we should be approached. These rules often come from past experiences, societal influences, or personal preferences. However when you meet someone you're genuinely drawn to, all those rules tend to fall away. Suddenly, things that would normally be deal-breakers don’t seem as important. You might even find yourself making excuses for their flaws or overlooking red flags, simply because you're emotionally invested. Life doesn’t always follow a set script, and attraction isn’t always rational. The real truth is, regardless of how it started, she's just not interested. #CaseClosed.
I had that. When I left his presence, he told his bredwrins "You should have seen Bee, she's gonna be my wife". We were engaged 6 months later and married for 13 years, 5 children. It does happen...but I initially wasn't looking at him like that, funny enough😊.
Donni, I appreciate your honesty. I hope that your transparency will help Laterras and that he receives the input you gave at the beginning of the interview. This was a good interview.
Ok I found my people 😂 Sis contradicted herself 1000 times 😮 I don't know her outside of this interview but her vibe didn't sit well with me and not sure what Laterras saw in her beyond her beauty. I'm sure she has a lot going for herself but not someone I would look up to or take advice from. Anywho 🗣️NEXT!!! 😂 Hopefully the next episode will be great 😊
You and everyone under your comment are haters. The woman was clear. She’s looking for a man who embodies the qualities she’s looking for and who has the right approach. Laterras clearly isn’t meeting it for her and she emphasized that several times In a gentle way.
Cool-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
Not true all of the time, I met my wife by inquiring about the law school she attended. We met and talked about the program. We’ve been together for 17 years. 🤷🏽♂️
@@ralpheljohnson while it's sad that this sometimes happen, I think this concern would only be the case if she was dealing with someone who lacked integrity. Laterras does not seem to be that type of person at all. Based on her platform, I think chances are high she'll meet someone who probably has some type of business with her. The difference at that time will be that she'll be attracted to that person.
I love the vision board game! How we match what we really want! "We comprise what we want..For Mr. What we can get" This was soooooo good! Donni Wiggins is direct with class and grace. Love this episode!!! She was speaking with clarity and unapologetic truth!
I disagree that your podcast looks like a joke the longer it takes to find your person. You are showing in real time what effort and intentionality looks like. I appreciate you listening to her critique of your approach. Great show! ❤❤❤
I honestly loved the way Laterras handled her. Every time she shared what she wanted and was looking for, he either said it or stated it in the phone conversation they had previously. I believe we want something so bad that we cannot even see what’s in front of us…and we think the green might be greener on the other side… if Donni came on the show to be found by another, she’ll be waiting a little longer.. and that’s not throwing shade. It’s what I observed.
The energy of Nona Jones is what would be a prefect compliment for him. I have watched your podcasts and I’ve seen your desire for marriage and your values. You’ll find that wife man of God. And your podcast isn’t a joke it’s part of the testimony
Donni we pray for your healing beautiful sister. He’s doing what singles do. I believe that you are too. Don’t be so hard on yourself or him. The audience loves you both❤
I see this conversation for exactly as it is. A conversation between two people. His podcast and audience are geared towards a certain esthetic, and Donni's is geared towards entrepreneurship and other things. In my opinion, based on the comments, those who dont agree with her, aren't her audience. I've watch both of their podcasts and appreciate both for the value they provide in their own way. Donni reminds me of my wife and Laterras has a laid back side like I do. Personally, I think they have the type of relationship that works for them. A friendship that hopefully lasts a long time. God's love and blessings to both.
My husband and I were literally having this conversation about expecting ppl to have it all when you meet them. If that’s the expectation how can you grow! She is spitting !
One thing about Donni, she gone keep it 💯!! In the first 20 minutes she confirms what alot of us have been thinking about Laterras. I can see how she felt backdoored.
"dont argue with somebody who will never do that" is a word speaking to me so much in this season. Pray for prepardness in someone not potential. Very hard lesson.
I watch both Laterrias and Donni podcasts they have a LOT in common. They both have discernment on who and what are for them. I think this was a great display of “Mutual Respect.” Great show 👏🏽
Here’s how I feel. There’s nothing wrong with either of their anticipated path to matrimony. There are tons of ppl that disagree with both approaches. Sis wants a grand opening.😅 He prefers a soft launch. One of my pillar statements is “all great people aren’t great for each other.” I can see how any person would be attracted to her. She has phenomenal energy. And I love how they expressed how they processed this whole interaction.
Exactly, all great people aren’t great for each other. Laterras’ audience doesn’t understand that simple concept. Every great woman they see on her they claim to see chemistry with. It’s ridiculous
@@iriemo721 there’s a mixture there. Because I am part of the Laterras’s audience and a guest. I think what they have is hope and excitement. Especially because he has quality guests. And they want the man to be married. But every fan base has extreme members that take things too far. she should never have had the disrespect that she received because she didn’t do anything wrong. Even in the marriage community and healing space that I’m a part of there are people with very unhealthy standards for marriage that claim that it’s that it’s biblical and it’s not that’s why we need more healthy happy married people on social media to balance out the crazy a little bit. Lol.
This was an awesome episode. Thank You Donni for dropping gems 💎. Brother L. Your podcast has been a blessing to our lives. It has helped us to understand what blessed and intentional Love looks like through you and extraordinary guest speakers. We all stand in prayer and expectation that Love will manifest through God when the timing is right ✅️. He has not forgotten. His timing is perfect. I never thought I'd say this!!!...I am so glad to be in this single season where I can truly rely on God in complete submission knowing His word doesn't lie. This is my pruning and preparation phase. He has protected me from counterfeits with more wisdom than I knew before. Don't give up or give in Brother. We are all right there beside you in this process. Your test will be your testimony. Your trials will become triumphant events.
Laterras thanks for another great episode and the opportunity to be inspired by your amazing guest Donni! I absolutely love this Queen. She is super hilarious, smart and gifted. It was so funny and refreshing to hear another Queen that loves the idea of her love story to feel like a Christmas Hallmark movie!!! lol but yes this very enlightening.
Great Episode. I love that Laterras let her be open and honest about how she felt he approached her. I also loved when she said 'have a vision for your future and a vision for the significant other so you dont negotiate what you really want. ❤ And I felt her when she talked about the ride to the airport and hearing the rock in the tire and having the responsibility of being the fixer and that she doesn't have the desire to be that responsible in her relationship after having to be that person with her immediate family. Now I have to go find the other episodes they mentioned
I love this interview as a 45 never married single woman. I can identify with being the strong person in the family and just wanting a mate that I can be safe with.. I also agree that some older men are stuck in their ways.. I find it easier to date younger.. It's time to get outside more.. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insight. She's beautiful inside and out.. Very wise!!!!
Keeping it a buck, lol... I was skeptical! I've been listening to this podcast this year for the first time. Whats notable and honorable to me is that the host has clearly built great relationships outside this forum. Great conversations and interviewing! Glad I finally gave it a chance!!👏🏾👏🏾
In the beginning she made a lot of assumptions about Laterras that may not have been his true intent. I kept thinking, hear him out! Don’t miss out on a potential blessing! 🤣💁🏽♀️😂
@@donniwiggins_ it definitely seemed like an assumption that he’s trying to talk to every female… which he rebutted by saying he’s probably hit on 3 women for the year. Was he lying then?
This is relatable in the sense that dating is hard for many people no matter your age, success, gender, and where you are spiritually & emotionally. It’s not easy and I pray for many singles that God breaks barriers & heals people and gives the clarity and discernment in their love lives. I pray more doors to open for people to get married and not just any marriage but healthy marriages.
Donni, you are definitely my homegirl in my head! 😆🫶🏽 You dropped so many gems (as always). I am literally in the same place, ever-improving, self-developing, self-reflecting, aware…READY. I pray 2025 is all that we have prepared ourselves for.🙏🏽
This was SOOOO GOOD!!! Thank you for sharing this conversation with thee world. Donnie, you dropped SO many NUGGETS on this thang! I already know, I'm going back to take detailed notes as talking points with my partner and community. Thank you!
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
This was an episode that I really enjoyed. I love the fact they communicated even though there was no attraction on Donni’s part. This is call an adult conversation about life ❤️
We have to get to a point where we acknowledge how we make others feels. Thank you Donni for expressing your feelings and I wished it was acknowledged from Laterras how he made her feel, especially after there was a conversation about it.
👍🏽 Perhaps you’re right, although I was initially on LT’s side of the argument 😂 They’ve Both said they’re committed to remaining as friends, and it certainly couldn’t hurt for Laterras to offer Donni some form of Apology (if he hasn’t aLready done so) for making her FEEL as tho he were attempting to puLL the oL’ **Bait n Switch** on her by initially presenting as wanting to bring her on to the podcast ONLY for “Business” purposes, but THEN afterwards tryna Shoot His Shot 🤦🏽♀️ GOD, how I despise that phrase. Is that what happened, or am I confused in my understanding?
I see friendship with these two, I don't understand why so many people want to help God with these people's lives. Keep being prayerful, honest, and intentional. Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.
Lol 😂😂😂!!! The silence moment was hilarious! 😂😂😂 They actually have chemistry; however, if she's not interested in THAT way, she's not interested and you move on. 😊
😂 Agree 👍🏽 That Silent moment at 1:09:03 was Uncomfortable and **Cringe Worthy** However, I think you’re Off Base that Donni and Laterras have Chemistry. I’m no relationship expert, but I detected absolutely NO CHEMISTRY between these two. I believe he’s definitely Attracted to her though because she Rebuffed his advances. There are some Men who still enjoy the so-caLLed “Chase”.
@@renewashington791thank you. No chemistry at all. Just two opposite sex people having a light hearted conversation. The fact that he and people who claim to be spirit led and emotionally intelligent walked away claiming to see chemistry explains why so many people are in failed relationships. Delusion. Lie to themselves. Make things up. Ignore the obvious
I don’t care how long your not married. Your podcast well never be a joke. The platform will stand and evolve as Long as God is in the center. I’m excited to see what God is going to do in the future! 👏🏽👏🏽
Laterras you are gonna be a wonderful husband one day… And your podcast will never be a joke! We love you!
@cherylwilliams7060 But is your comment really HELPING this Man 🤷🏽♀️ He’s BEEN Married, and is now Divorced. Therefore, he’s aLready disappointed the Most High when he MISHANDLED one Woman’s Heart. I’m speaking from Experience with No iLL will towards Laterras. However, IF you’re being honest, you have to admit that the DFW Podcast IS becoming somewhat of a JOKE!! People are rightfully QUESTIONING whether LT is Sincere in using the platform in Search of a Wife, OR as Miss Donni suggested, is he INSTEAD using his platform just as a way to meet Women with whom he intends to Fornicate. After aLL, he HIMSELF has ADMITTED on several occasions that he Very Often “falls off the wagon” of Abstinence🤷🏽♀️
…….Lastly, you can Love someone AND keep it a buck 💯 with them. When it comes to People, there’s ALWAYS room for Improvement 🙏🏽 If LT is fortunate enough to find ANOTHER Wife and get Married, perhaps by then he will have Learned to Control his Lustful Spirit because there’s Always gonna be a Better Looking, Sexier, Taller, More Beautiful Woman just around the corner and he will have to TAME his FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) 😊
@renewashington791
WHY do you PERCEIVE a MALE or a FEMALE; DESIRING certain "specific" PHYSICAL ATTRACTIONS as having a LUSTFUL spirit??🤔🧐
REMEMBER; MEN are MORE VISUAL; while WOMEN are MORE EMOTIONAL..
God Bless you & FAMILY..🙏🏽
Laterras, I want to encourage you. Your podcast does not look like a joke just because it may take longer for you to marry. You are taking us along a journey of a real-life experience. I've been divorced for 15 years and abstinent for 14 years. My journey has come with many disappointments and ups and downs. However, I have journaled and had many lessons learned along my experience. So, I thank you for what you are doing! Be encourage 😊
Well she is still showing legs , she is not the one, for when you are Save and as a women of God you carry your self different, I'm not saying having fun enjoy it but , where is the God.
I was thinking the other day, what if I never remarry? 😩😭 U are my inspiration for still being hopeful after 14yrs 🤗
😊 The Word of God sez that With the MOST HIGH aLL things are possible. Aside from that Truth, there are 8 BILLION people on the planet, and IF GOD DESIRES Holy Matrimony for you, then May his Will be done. However, whether or not ANY of us get Married today or tomorrow, it is NOT and should NOT be the Primary concern for True Christians. When Jesus walked the Earth, he let it be Known to his disciples that he was about DOING the Will of his Father. Likewise, we must IMITATE the Chief Agent and Perfecter of our Faith.
Amennnnn!
I just posted the same thing before even reading your full comment and totally agreed. In due time. 0:35
I’m glad Laterras is mature enough to recognize that sometimes you can be WHAT someone wants and not be WHO they want. Because that’s what this felt like. Even when he saw her list, he knew. She just doesn’t want him…and that’s ok. I repeat…that’s ok. I am thankful Laterras is secure enough that it didn’t make him think he did something wrong. Hopefully her meeting Laterras gives her hope that the type of man she desires does exist. I hope she finds her desires in the man that she wants. 🙏🏾
You hit the nail on the head. I'll never have to persuade my wife to see me.
Well said. She doesn't want him but you want a friendship. Friendship for what? I hate to say it , that story she told about men she does business with withdraw after she makes it clear, it's just about business and not a relationship. PSA...if you want Laterras to do business with you, you can put him on your payroll. He still has to pay for that school. He is looking for a wife. He may have shown interest in her but when she was not interested, move on. You want to do business with him, put him on your payroll.
@@Shunij Very nice comment! Because this is the truth of the matter!
I just hope it’s not a situation where God says, Donnie I sent him already.
@@DearFutureWifey Evvvvaaa! 😍
@@janicetaylor1272 🎯🎯🎯🎯
So here is what I learned later in life, “Choose People Who Choose You”.. bottom line, Donni is not attracted to Laterras. He is in the friend zone, and that’s ok.
😂
This is so true. I think about Ciara.... she did not have to "pray" for a Russell Wilson... Russell watched her Ride Video and said " that will be my wife." He WANTED her as she was.... all she had to do was "exist." On her end, I think because she had a "baby" he BECAME what she wanted. She could of had "a" Russell a long time ago. Donni is not in Ciara's situation... her child is grown... I believe she has an "astetic " for which she is aiming. That is OK. But I will say... it is not healthy being friends with someone who is attracted to you....you are blocking their blessing because ... they truly have hope that through the friendship things may change.
Yeah. I just don't think she's attracted to him as a romantic partner.
I agree, But it isn't smart. She is 45, stop going off looks and hear say. He isn't ugly and I think he would be open to hitting the gym with her if he believes he has a chance. They communicate well and they are in the same field which is great. They are both at a good age and probably want close to the same thing!
@@GodFirstInallthingsExactly! This is how people end up alone!
Just because two individuals are single and saved does not mean they are destined to be together. I’m glad they have clarity in their friendship versus being together for the sake of time clocks/pressure.
Say it louder for Laterras and the people in the back.
“The longer it takes the more your podcasts looks like a joke…” We all renounce that confession. That hit hard for me and I know it did for others. We love you and your products. Keep going
Yes he is in a desperate mode and she can sense that! ❤😅it will come to him when he ain’t even looking for it! Same for her
@@kiyalove67at least he gave the explanation why he’s in desperate mode. It’s kinda sad he feels that way actually.
@@kiyalove67 not desperation but expectation…by definition I can’t just put the label of desperation on it…He’s looking for the expected end/promise…much like when we were kids and we knew that there had to be a gift that we REALLY wanted on birthdays and Christmas and not fruit and socks! 😂
@@Iamlonndanicolenaw it’s desperation. Hes tied a wife to the validity of the podcast so he more wants the wife so the podcast doesn’t seem like a joke, rather than to find the wife.
@@iriemo721 desperation: feeling, showing, or involving a hopeless sense that a situation is so bad as to be impossible to deal with.
tried in despair or when everything else has failed; having little hope of success.
(of a situation) extremely bad, serious, or dangerous.
Funny thing is we use words so loosely and speak things over others and ourselves that don’t adequately describe a situation, truthfully. Be blessed
Love her energy, her frankness, her honesty. She’s a good soul and I hope what her heart desires finds her soon.
He is shooting his shot continuously throughout this episode. I love it and I love how she is respectfully turning him down. Too funny. Great episode.
Sitting up there with her leg All in his Face. No Respect for his podcast.
@ lol it’s not that deep. Her outfit was tasteful…this time. lol
@@CasssndraWallaceyeah, they're on different paths
She not the only one he shoots his shots at publicly which is why she doesn’t want anything further… nothing special about her to him… he needs help in this area in my opinion
This was so good. I’m a 60 year old woman still looking for my King. I’ve been divorced for 12years. I appreciate all the nuggets that were dropped. Thank you! 🙏🏽 ❤
Ohhhhhh this is herrrrr… who set the man straight about submission. I like her, I can see the intrigue Laterras. She is a beautiful mix of integrity and assertiveness. I respect that…
Made my day! Thank you!❤
@@donniwiggins_we love you girl. Shocked by some of these comments 🤦🏽♀️
Do you have the link of said video? @Ellana317
she is amazing, love her.
What video was this? I’d love to check it out! 😊
This is one of the realest relationship conversations I’ve heard in a long time! If people will be this real, I believe the journey to finding your spouse will be shorter.
Laterras, we gone keep you lifted in prayer brother. Don't let the enemy play mind games with you about your podcast. Nothing you do here or the individuals you've invited to share in your journey is a joke. This platform has been a huge blessing to myself & so many others. Please don't get weary in well doing. Wait on the good Lord to provide what you desire. ✌🏾❤️🙏🏾
People don’t get to determine how love will find you. I met my wife by reaching to inquire about the law school she was attending. We met and ended up hitting it off. We are still going strong 17 years later as a married couple.
Donnie was an amazing guest! I love how she effortlessly communicated what it’s like to be a woman of means and dating. It’s not easy! Great episode.
Sometimes we can sound so good, look amazing, even accomplish some things but still get it completely wrong in regards to how to relate to people.
💯💯💯💯💯you get it!! Rather be right than loved well.
That's mostly because people have rejection issues. Fear too.
Thank you!
I want to yell at Donni like she is my sister lol! Girl, EVERYTHING you keep saying you want is sitting right in front of you. Be real with yourself and say you are still holding on to another guy. And that’s okay but just say that’s it and not that you haven’t come across what you are asking for. When God is clearly presenting it to you a couple times with LaTerras. All love behind my comment. Keep shining bright! Enjoyed watching yall
Well Well said...
I need Laterras and anyone to understand that marriage isn't always God's calling for you. If you don't marry, again, kind sir this podcast is a blessing. It has helped couples and singles reevaluate their lives and how they need to place God first. That's more important than being married.
If he desires to be married, God will give you the desires of your heart. God honors the desires of our heart ❤️
I agree
💯
@@teeburdtalksyes we can’t do no If’s . 😂
He will marry soon. Probably 2025.
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I'II quickly search for him online. Thank you.
I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.
I promise you will not regret it.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
What you are doing will never be a joke. You are helping a lot of men and women out. I know your wife is saying the same thing ❤
That pause when you said “wasn’t good enough though” was looooong…. I was listening and thought my internet was buffering😂😂😂😂
LOL I was waiting for this part because I read it before it got there. That was hilarious‼️🤣
That is so funny. I had my phone connected to a speaker then there was a long pause so i ran to my phone just to see she was giving him a face 😂😂😂
Laterras I’m sure she’s lovely. You want someone excited about you and your success, as she is masterful at loving herself in a healthy meaningful way. You won’t have to convince your wife of your integrity. She’s coming. She - the right one- will be happy for your arrival when you pursue her. Praying 🙏🏿 ❤
I love this advice! ❤
All of THIS!! I totally agree but would not have been able to say it the way you have😊 he should also know that she will make you laugh even more than you did during this episode ❤
I wish we could pin this comment to the top. This is so beautiful and accurate 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This!
This
This is one of my top episodes thus far and I’ve been watching since season 1. What a wonderful transparent, mature, and fun episode! 💞
The older we get, the quieter we become about our standards for how others approach us. Trust me, the “preferences” we have will decrease. Some of our preferences make us MISS that special person for us.
@ I watched the entire episode. It’s worth it. Life teaches us all, and there is always something to learn from others as what to do or what NOT to do. 🥰
Facts ❤
Donni, if you are not interested, just say that! lol @laterras, find someone that likes you. You may like the hunt and chase, but find someone that wants to eventually be caught, by YOU! I remember an episode where you talked about your (fiance) I think that was her title, and she said she needed to get herself together. You were willing to wait on her and cover her and she made MANY excuses and you ended up heartbroken. If you do not change something in how you pursue women, you will be back in that place again. I pray God give you vision and direction and you hear and follow it. ****UPDATE**** Watched it until the end and I can appreciate that Laterras is willing to pivot if there is no interest. Donni knows what she wants and I pray she gets it. Don't settle!
Correct this whole conversation for what. She is not interested.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 well said…
She says she wants the things and the man who has them is sitting in her face.
She didn't make or need excuses: she didn't like him. Stop trying to make things overcomplicated and CAPE. It's not hard for women to make decisions. And do not forget: we have NEVER EVER heard the ex-fiance side of the story. So unless you have dealt with him in human form 24 hours and not who you THINK you know via UA-cam channel, then you know nothing.
@@tomaradoss3420that man is so problematic. She doesn’t have time for that foolishness.
In the mighty name of Jesus... Amen.
Beyond her beauty and physical appeal, I am deeply drawn to her mindset and overall confidence. This convo was incredibly insightful, offering valuable takeaways for both men and women. Her perspective on him approaching her with clear business intentions then back-dooring his personal interest made complete sense. That said, I do believe if she had mutual feelings, her stance might have been less firm. However, she made it clear that she didn’t want to disclose everything, leaving some details unknown. Regardless, I’m genuinely glad she opted to establish a friendship him and remains available lol. If our paths ever cross in the future in person, I know how to come correct upfront. Great episode!
Well said! I totally agree.
We should talk and pick each other’s brain about the gems and perspectives mentioned in this episode if you’re open to it.
@@lorinawilliamsI see you sis! 😉
Thank you so much for this comment - especially from a man’s perspective. This made my day.❤
This comment needs to be PINNED!!! Even him falsely hinting to his crazy audience STILL that she had on "little jeans shorts that rode up" to disparage her on HER podcast puts in the air that she was coming on to him. Like, let it go!!!
Get in her DM’s, kind sir! LOL @AnwarDouglas By the way, you have a nice smile.
I love this conversation! 2 mature people who know themselves and can actually express what they desire from their partner without degrading each other. I definitely feel the chemistry between y’all ❤
This was a great discourse. Donni is amazing; love how candid she is and your vulnerability Laterras is remarkable -- don't change.
Thank you
Thank you!
She made a great point! It is absolutely important to look at how someone thinks! You cannot change them and it will eventually be a problem! Laterras made some great points as well. I love both perspectives!
I was clapping my hands to what she was saying! I don’t like the start as friends method. Come through the front door with your intentions. I don’t think it’s wise to keep failed talking stages around either. The reality is I’m going to talk to the man who’s more intentional over the man who’s acting like we’re friends. We are all grown and know what’s up. Great interview. This was one of the most revealing interviews about how Laterras moves and I appreciated Donni’s candor and humor.
Because talking stage is the real ghetto…. Its tiresome
Child, please. If she was interested in him, there would be no back door excuse. That's a weird rule, and people don't always meet under romantic circumstances. Sometimes, the people we meet in professional settings become more than friends.These rules sound too rigid.
On another note, Donnie just explained why the last guy didn't move forward with me. He saw my overhead. I know he couldn't handle it because he mentioned his income.
They are both examples of people who want who doesn’t want them. Some people’ have no standards and some standards are unrealistic based on materialism and shallow preferences.
What’s crazy is she contradicted herself. She said get thru the show first then show interest. Ma’am that is just what you described with your BF.
@@LaTriceNarcisse that part!
@@LaTriceNarcisse she sure did!
But to her defense. He put her on the spot. I would have said, I didn’t feel a connection! And let that be it!
She looking for a thug
The holy spirit is the best matchmaker. When God brings you your wife, there will be no drama and no confusion. The spirit in you will connect with the spirit in her and you both will know it and God will confirm it. Stop dating around, walk in your purpose and trust God.
THIS. 💯
Amen ❤
Amen!!
Amen and still waiting on it to occur this way. Yet, it is such a journey that's unfamiliar.
✝️1 MILLION AMENS✝️
I LOVE Donni!!!! She is real and extremely transparent. I love how she says what she thinks, unfiltered. I totally understand what she means with 'don't approach me about real estate, only to then ask me on a date'. Buy the house first (since that's what you led with), then shoot your shot. PERIOD!!!! Great interview!!!
I love her more ❤❤ very straight n clear on what she wants. Not intimidated
She just clearly explained why she's single and will probably always be. Smh
Yup, I was thinking the same thing. 😂
Very much so. At her big age. Good luck to her.
😢she 😂not into him lol she thinks of him as a brother and friend.. sometimes things develop later❤
I agree with this!
💯 most brothers can understand this from one conversation with this type. Perfect guest for his content.
I respect her so much. She is saying exactly how she felt and what she wants. ❤❤
8:50. I'm confused....she seems like she is trying to clown Laterras. I dont really like this. He shot his shot with Essence Atkins, and she was so kind and wonderful in the way she said no. I will always respect her for that❤️❤️❤️
P.S. AND BTW ....your podcast IS NOT A JOKE‼️
Yes, she has bully energy and it's not cool.
Actually, Laterras asked me (when he booked me and the day of) to be 1000% truthful about the DETAILS of our interactions - it is OUR truth regarding what occurred. Also notice how many times I attempted to change the conversation. I cannot apologize for the TRUTH about what happened…
I agree. You were not being a bully and tried to avoid the conversation all together. @@donniwiggins_
@@queenriri9393 Stop being so MALE CENTERED. Clearly she is not a doormat and spoke to facts. Read between the lines: he made her feel very uncomfortable at certain points in their journey, starting in Dallas. And also continues to put her PERSONAL BUSINESS on blast with ANY BLACK MAN that is watching this show in a very clownish and sassy way. Not cool at all. Sometimes not all podcasts are the ones single black beautiful women with discernment, clout and all their things together should be on. Clearly he is using this podcast to screen women for his own gain: and on a national platform to hold them up for ridicule and judgement by women such as YOURSELF who think they know who these podcast men are behind closed doors. Did the demise of KS teach you nothing? And since no one has ever heard from the mythical "fiance" who started this, let's reserve the name-calling of the professional black women that entertain this platform by appearing on it.
She's just very assertive. Bold. I'm the same way and it puts men off. They get a bit nervous.
This episode was so doggone GOOD! I didnt want it to end. I was soaking in all the wisdom she was speaking. Wow!! Loved it
This podcast could never be a joke... married or unmarried, your podcast does something intentional and healthy for us, especially black women.
I'm glad Laterras is such a mature gentleman. He took this so well. Laterras met her requirements but she just didn't want him at the time.
Donnie feels your way TOO FRIENDLY with other women, that's why she's so skiptical...she wants her man for herself and not easily accessible.
Never say never! I always said I’d never date someone more than 7 years younger than me. But in June I was pursued by a man 19 years younger than me and we clicked so much and now we’re dating and talking about getting married next year. I’ve never met a man that I clicked with spiritually and intellectually like this man. He’s actually younger than my son but he’s mature like me. It’s crazy. But it’s been the most beautiful love story and beyond anything I could ever imagine. God is amazing and it’s important not to put Him in a box.
Okayyyyy so this is the young lady that annihilated the guy with the “Top Tier Man” response/speech! She dropped so many gems! She said we negotiate too much on what we want and then she said “Can I live with the way this person thinks?!!!” Whew!!! Good stuff
Thank youuuuu!❤
Donni keeps describing Laterras in her wants. But keeps denying him. He’s just not for her. He’s going to make a wonderful husband to someone. And she’ll be an excellent wife. Good luck to both these lovely people. This was a great episode. God’s blessings on using them to enlighten us how to get what’s for us.
Thank you so much! ❤
Yeah it's I wish I could date someone like you but not you... women understand it men don't
Thank you, Latteras and Donni, for this podcast episode. I liked the way you both respectfully articulated your needs and discussed how you both approach dating. You could have two people with amazing qualities and they still be wrong for each other. It could also be the timing was not right. Nobody truly knows what is in both their hearts, we were just speculating based on the information that was provided to us. @ Donni, your intentions of trying to keep Laterras business private did not go unnoticed. @ Latteras, if people could discredit all your hard work because you are not married yet, those people can kindly exit your life. You both confronted this conversation in a mature manner. Kudos to you both. This is definitely not easy to do without being emotionally charged!
OMG!!! Everything Donni is saying about herself, is a mirror of me!!! This made me exhale SO MUCH, cause now i feel heard..I'm not the only one!! I relate to this SO SO MUCH!!!
Shes the type of woman she expects things to go how she wants it to go! Girl get over yourself! He expressed interest you don't see him in that light, just say it.
You sound like a hater. At no point did she communicate that on the podcast. She has her wants, but she’s open minded as long as the man has the right approach and embodies the qualities she’s looking for.
This was one the best interviews on DFW podcast I was glued the whole time. Her honesty was captivating to say the least. Love her and her and David’s podcast
AGREED! THIS WAS ABSOLUTELY MY FAVORITE! LOVE THESE TWO! 😍
Thank youuuuuu!!❤
@ ❤️❤️❤️
I’ve never seen Laterras text during the podcast. His energy was depleted by the end😂😂😂
I think he’s dealing with and processing the rejection
Actually, he was texting the person sitting behind the camera an important message. Nice assumption though! 😜
@@donniwiggins_people have their crazy narratives that they try and support. It’s bizarre
Yes I was wondering
Sister Donni is telling my truth. I have been doing that work for 5 years and I have learned volumes about myself, the realities of my reality which was the start of my unlearning to learn.
@Laterras- your podcast is not a joke. Your on assignment and no matter how long it takes, God is working behind the scenes in your life and in your wife's life. Continue to wait well, continue to be intentional, and continue to trust the process. Your podcast is healing us, you, and your wife. God is the keeper of time 🙏🏾💙
Donni, your feedback has been EVERYTHING in this podcast. Thank YOU Sis for the GEMS of Life🙏🏽
“If you like gold, you’ll like this -“ I’m screaming 😂😂
Don't get weary Lateras in well doing...its all in God's timing and your season is coming! Never say your podcast is a joke because it's not, it's helping so many people on so many different levels!
I love her transparency and she is so funny lol
Please don't ever consider that your platform looks like a joke because of whatever.... You have blessed so many people and marriages! MARRIAGES!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 This gift, is not just for Mr. Whitfield. Your time will come. God is going to bless your faithfulness and your obedience! God has not forgot❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Let's be clear. Donni is NOT physically attracted to Laterris. She is going ALL the way around Robin Hood's barn with why they can't date. My guess is that she is attracted to a Mr. Willie "type" from Later Daters.
And all the ladies are lined up for Willie aka Silver Fox lol
😂😂😂 Oh Lawd 🤦🏽♀️ Not Mr. Willie from **Later Daters** I’ve read other comments about this GOD FORSAKEN Dating App 😂 and For the life of me, I’ll Never understand why ANY person in their Right Mind would subject themselves to such Humiliation. I’d rather buy a dog 🐶 and Die Alone 😂
I think this comment is 100% accurate.
I'm crying 😭😭😭😭
Lol Mr Willie was looking good!!
Laterras’ You a good one, because she just spent this whole podcast talking about the character traits you have, while selling herself to someone else…
Donnie got game and No man!!!!😂😂😂
I’m just saying… You sitting right there in her face.
But she was a good time to watch.
I kept thinking, therapy is needed. Book smarts, but emotional support is necessary. 😢
I absolutely thought the same thing. She spends so much time talking, she doesn't listen. Not even to herself. She's describing him
@@Rosaninyeino she’s not. She can’t take every man who has a Y chromosome. This is why yall are in and out of bad relationships, yall think everybody is the one. She don’t like that man! She can’t just take him because he’d be excited when she came home. She has to desire her husband. She doesn’t desire Laterras.
There’s something about her saying he’s in everyone’s DMs that made me take pause and realize this could be why she’s not interested.
@@Rosaninyei Yes I was thinking just this !
My brain hurts after watching this episode from the confusion and contradictions that ensued. Just seek love and the leading of the Holy Spirit to it. It's guaranteed to come! Letting the flesh lead (lists, shooting shots, etc) is prolonging the process for both people. Blessings!!
That was what I was thinking listening to this show. Seems like we're making this harder than what it needs to be. She wasn't interested in Ole boy and she is picky is what I gathered. At somepoint when she runs across a man she deems worthy a lot of the rules and regulations will be thrown out the windows. All we can say is, we pray for both Laterras and Donni and ask God to give them suitable mates.
Watch again. Maybe your processing was slow.
I agree, a lot of excuses for why they both don't have anyone.
Donni is so real. I loved this interview ❤️
The reality is that we all have biases that shape how we approach dating. We create rules and expectations for how we want to meet someone or how we think we should be approached. These rules often come from past experiences, societal influences, or personal preferences.
However when you meet someone you're genuinely drawn to, all those rules tend to fall away. Suddenly, things that would normally be deal-breakers don’t seem as important. You might even find yourself making excuses for their flaws or overlooking red flags, simply because you're emotionally invested.
Life doesn’t always follow a set script, and attraction isn’t always rational.
The real truth is, regardless of how it started, she's just not interested. #CaseClosed.
girl dont we all want that magical first meet n greet with our potential husband ❤😊
I had that. When I left his presence, he told his bredwrins "You should have seen Bee, she's gonna be my wife". We were engaged 6 months later and married for 13 years, 5 children. It does happen...but I initially wasn't looking at him like that, funny enough😊.
Yes, YES we do! Lol
@@donniwiggins_I BELIEVE it’s possible! ♥️
I don't. I'd prefer to be friends first. Romance can come after I see his fruit. His character.
Donni, I appreciate your honesty. I hope that your transparency will help Laterras and that he receives the input you gave at the beginning of the interview. This was a good interview.
Lord Jesus this was So EXHAUSTING 😫😫😫
Very!!! He’s moving on.
I thought I was the only one who thought this. What was the point? So I can follow
Ok I found my people 😂
Sis contradicted herself 1000 times 😮
I don't know her outside of this interview but her vibe didn't sit well with me and not sure what Laterras saw in her beyond her beauty. I'm sure she has a lot going for herself but not someone I would look up to or take advice from. Anywho 🗣️NEXT!!! 😂 Hopefully the next episode will be great 😊
😂😂😂
You and everyone under your comment are haters. The woman was clear. She’s looking for a man who embodies the qualities she’s looking for and who has the right approach. Laterras clearly isn’t meeting it for her and she emphasized that several times In a gentle way.
Cool-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
I get exactly what she’s saying. She don’t wanna feel like the business opportunities are contingent upon having a romantic relationship.
This, this, THISSSSS!
Not true all of the time, I met my wife by inquiring about the law school she attended. We met and talked about the program. We’ve been together for 17 years. 🤷🏽♂️
@@ralpheljohnson while it's sad that this sometimes happen, I think this concern would only be the case if she was dealing with someone who lacked integrity.
Laterras does not seem to be that type of person at all. Based on her platform, I think chances are high she'll meet someone who probably has some type of business with her. The difference at that time will be that she'll be attracted to that person.
I love the vision board game! How we match what we really want! "We comprise what we want..For Mr. What we can get" This was soooooo good! Donni Wiggins is direct with class and grace. Love this episode!!! She was speaking with clarity and unapologetic truth!
Did you find the game?
I disagree that your podcast looks like a joke the longer it takes to find your person. You are showing in real time what effort and intentionality looks like. I appreciate you listening to her critique of your approach. Great show! ❤❤❤
Totally Agree🎯
I honestly loved the way Laterras handled her. Every time she shared what she wanted and was looking for, he either said it or stated it in the phone conversation they had previously. I believe we want something so bad that we cannot even see what’s in front of us…and we think the green might be greener on the other side… if Donni came on the show to be found by another, she’ll be waiting a little longer.. and that’s not throwing shade. It’s what I observed.
We have to also love the package it comes in. I don’t think she cares for the package, Although the contents inside might be what she wants.
The energy of Nona Jones is what would be a prefect compliment for him. I have watched your podcasts and I’ve seen your desire for marriage and your values.
You’ll find that wife man of God.
And your podcast isn’t a joke it’s part of the testimony
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Donni we pray for your healing beautiful sister. He’s doing what singles do. I believe that you are too. Don’t be so hard on yourself or him. The audience loves you both❤
I see this conversation for exactly as it is. A conversation between two people. His podcast and audience are geared towards a certain esthetic, and Donni's is geared towards entrepreneurship and other things. In my opinion, based on the comments, those who dont agree with her, aren't her audience. I've watch both of their podcasts and appreciate both for the value they provide in their own way. Donni reminds me of my wife and Laterras has a laid back side like I do. Personally, I think they have the type of relationship that works for them. A friendship that hopefully lasts a long time. God's love and blessings to both.
My husband and I were literally having this conversation about expecting ppl to have it all when you meet them. If that’s the expectation how can you grow! She is spitting !
I'm glad I watched this at work after everybody was gone, bcuz I'm laughing WAY LOUDER than I should be!!🤣🤣🤣
One thing about Donni, she gone keep it 💯!! In the first 20 minutes she confirms what alot of us have been thinking about Laterras. I can see how she felt backdoored.
"dont argue with somebody who will never do that" is a word speaking to me so much in this season. Pray for prepardness in someone not potential. Very hard lesson.
Imo, she spent the whole interview, directly and indirectly, letting him know why he was not the one.
I watch both Laterrias and Donni podcasts they have a LOT in common. They both have discernment on who and what are for them. I think this was a great display of “Mutual Respect.”
Great show 👏🏽
And this is the reason some are single. Stop expecting people to read between the lines!!!
Just exhausting and tiring
This was such a great episode! Donnie is that girl!! So much wisdom and a woman who knows how to communicate!
Here’s how I feel. There’s nothing wrong with either of their anticipated path to matrimony. There are tons of ppl that disagree with both approaches. Sis wants a grand opening.😅 He prefers a soft launch. One of my pillar statements is “all great people aren’t great for each other.” I can see how any person would be attracted to her. She has phenomenal energy. And I love how they expressed how they processed this whole interaction.
THIS!!!!!
You have stated the MOST MATURE response.
@@tatianadaniel3569 thank you beloved.
Exactly, all great people aren’t great for each other. Laterras’ audience doesn’t understand that simple concept. Every great woman they see on her they claim to see chemistry with. It’s ridiculous
@@iriemo721 there’s a mixture there. Because I am part of the Laterras’s audience and a guest. I think what they have is hope and excitement. Especially because he has quality guests. And they want the man to be married. But every fan base has extreme members that take things too far. she should never have had the disrespect that she received because she didn’t do anything wrong. Even in the marriage community and healing space that I’m a part of there are people with very unhealthy standards for marriage that claim that it’s that it’s biblical and it’s not that’s why we need more healthy happy married people on social media to balance out the crazy a little bit. Lol.
This was an awesome episode. Thank You Donni for dropping gems 💎. Brother L. Your podcast has been a blessing to our lives. It has helped us to understand what blessed and intentional Love looks like through you and extraordinary guest speakers. We all stand in prayer and expectation that Love will manifest through God when the timing is right ✅️. He has not forgotten. His timing is perfect. I never thought I'd say this!!!...I am so glad to be in this single season where I can truly rely on God in complete submission knowing His word doesn't lie. This is my pruning and preparation phase. He has protected me from counterfeits with more wisdom than I knew before. Don't give up or give in Brother. We are all right there beside you in this process. Your test will be your testimony. Your trials will become triumphant events.
Laterras thanks for another great episode and the opportunity to be inspired by your amazing guest Donni! I absolutely love this Queen. She is super hilarious, smart and gifted. It was so funny and refreshing to hear another Queen that loves the idea of her love story to feel like a Christmas Hallmark movie!!! lol but yes this very enlightening.
Thank you so much! ❤
Great Episode. I love that Laterras let her be open and honest about how she felt he approached her. I also loved when she said 'have a vision for your future and a vision for the significant other so you dont negotiate what you really want. ❤ And I felt her when she talked about the ride to the airport and hearing the rock in the tire and having the responsibility of being the fixer and that she doesn't have the desire to be that responsible in her relationship after having to be that person with her immediate family. Now I have to go find the other episodes they mentioned
I love this interview as a 45 never married single woman. I can identify with being the strong person in the family and just wanting a mate that I can be safe with.. I also agree that some older men are stuck in their ways.. I find it easier to date younger.. It's time to get outside more.. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insight. She's beautiful inside and out.. Very wise!!!!
Keeping it a buck, lol... I was skeptical! I've been listening to this podcast this year for the first time. Whats notable and honorable to me is that the host has clearly built great relationships outside this forum. Great conversations and interviewing! Glad I finally gave it a chance!!👏🏾👏🏾
In the beginning she made a lot of assumptions about Laterras that may not have been his true intent. I kept thinking, hear him out! Don’t miss out on a potential blessing! 🤣💁🏽♀️😂
Facts 😮
I didn’t though. These things actually happened.
@@donniwiggins_ it definitely seemed like an assumption that he’s trying to talk to every female… which he rebutted by saying he’s probably hit on 3 women for the year. Was he lying then?
@@craziinancy1right because then she said that may be true regarding the three. So was your initial statement facts or not
Maybe it's a trigger for her and it is what it is
I totally understand where she is coming from, when she says she doesn’t want to be the one who has to be responsible for everything as a woman.
This is relatable in the sense that dating is hard for many people no matter your age, success, gender, and where you are spiritually & emotionally. It’s not easy and I pray for many singles that God breaks barriers & heals people and gives the clarity and discernment in their love lives. I pray more doors to open for people to get married and not just any marriage but healthy marriages.
Yes 💯, healthy marriages 🙌🏾🙏🏾!💜
I touch and agree with you in Jesus name
Donni, you are definitely my homegirl in my head! 😆🫶🏽 You dropped so many gems (as always). I am literally in the same place, ever-improving, self-developing, self-reflecting, aware…READY. I pray 2025 is all that we have prepared ourselves for.🙏🏽
Can you sit with the way he process his thoughts!!! 🎤🎤🎤🤎🤎🤎
This was SOOOO GOOD!!! Thank you for sharing this conversation with thee world. Donnie, you dropped SO many NUGGETS on this thang! I already know, I'm going back to take detailed notes as talking points with my partner and community. Thank you!
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
This was an episode that I really enjoyed. I love the fact they communicated even though there was no attraction on Donni’s part. This is call an adult conversation about life ❤️
Sooooo goood!! Donnie is Amazing!!! Don’t settle. Mindset! Live!!
Laterras saying "this is a safe space" while wheezing laughing is sending me 😂😂😂
We have to get to a point where we acknowledge how we make others feels. Thank you Donni for expressing your feelings and I wished it was acknowledged from Laterras how he made her feel, especially after there was a conversation about it.
👍🏽 Perhaps you’re right, although I was initially on LT’s side of the argument 😂 They’ve Both said they’re committed to remaining as friends, and it certainly couldn’t hurt for Laterras to offer Donni some form of Apology (if he hasn’t aLready done so) for making her FEEL as tho he were attempting to puLL the oL’ **Bait n Switch** on her by initially presenting as wanting to bring her on to the podcast ONLY for “Business” purposes, but THEN afterwards tryna Shoot His Shot 🤦🏽♀️ GOD, how I despise that phrase. Is that what happened, or am I confused in my understanding?
I’m glad I stayed to listen and also hear more of what she was saying. Thanks u 2!
I see friendship with these two, I don't understand why so many people want to help God with these people's lives. Keep being prayerful, honest, and intentional. Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.
I love this lady, she's stunning, intelligent and keeps it real...The energy between the two of you is beautiful to watch.
We All see the Energy.
Lol 😂😂😂!!! The silence moment was hilarious! 😂😂😂 They actually have chemistry; however, if she's not interested in THAT way, she's not interested and you move on. 😊
😂 Agree 👍🏽 That Silent moment at 1:09:03 was Uncomfortable and **Cringe Worthy** However, I think you’re Off Base that Donni and Laterras have Chemistry. I’m no relationship expert, but I detected absolutely NO CHEMISTRY between these two. I believe he’s definitely Attracted to her though because she Rebuffed his advances. There are some Men who still enjoy the so-caLLed “Chase”.
@@renewashington791thank you. No chemistry at all. Just two opposite sex people having a light hearted conversation. The fact that he and people who claim to be spirit led and emotionally intelligent walked away claiming to see chemistry explains why so many people are in failed relationships. Delusion. Lie to themselves. Make things up. Ignore the obvious
I don’t care how long your not married. Your podcast well never be a joke.
The platform will stand and evolve as Long as God is in the center. I’m excited to see what God is going to do in the future! 👏🏽👏🏽
Discovering love requires strength and perseverance. 😊
I can not wait to watch ❤ I ask myself and God that question. Why am I single ? I answered my own question
I am with you on this. As a matter of fact, I was talking about this just this past weekend.